So I have this problem of talking to everybody the same. I met a few girls at orientation and introduced myself but I noticed that I talk to them the same way I talk to guys. I ask where they're from, sports they play, majors and interests, etc. I feel really uncomfortable getting sexual during the first interaction I have with them especially because it's during orientation groups.
Once I get to know them and be around them for a while I have no problem getting sexual but as the great Pook says "As a friend she sees you, a friend you will be" so this ends with me in the friendzone with her(?).