Field Report(Field Report) Went on an OKCupid date tonight, walked out within 10 minutes of meeting her.. (self.TheRedPill)

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So I messaged this chick on OKcupid about a week ago. I was reading her profile and thought it was pretty funny, I thought she was being sarcastic throughout the whole thing so figured she was a chick I could have a few drinks with and some good conversation.. Turns out I WAS WRONG.

Throughout her profile she talks about how she loves money and will only go on dates with guys with money, yet she's college educated and is into cool stuff that I'm into. Funny books, tv shows, movies etc.. So I figured I'd send her a sarcastic witty message..

I told her I had money and I really wanted to shave her head. Since she messaged back, I figured she got the joke. She started haggling with me on pricing and we agreed at an even 7500 to shave half of her head. We had a mutual friend through the grapevine too so I brought that into the conversation.. Wing bang boom, I get her number and we decide to go out for drinks in her town.

So I show up, and she seems nice. I felt a little let down because she was fatter than her picture seemed to convey (as always) We're goofing off having a beer when she says "So where do you want to shave my head?" I said "Oh I'll just do it right here give me the clippers" joking of course..

The bitch actually brought clippers with her...

Then I said "I was just joking you know? hahaha I thought we were on the same page with that!" Right after I said this, she ERUPTS with anger. For a minute I was thinking she might attack me.

She was saying she had bills to pay and that it's bullshit I didn't have $7500 for her and that she's now wasting her night. I thought this was a shit test or something so I started laughing at her and told her to simmer down.. But she was fucking serious.

She then told me she's a dominatrix (not advertised in profile, never mentioned in conversation) and that she's in a huge amount of debt, that I was fucking her over. Now I just started to get pissed. I told her "Well who's problem is that? Not mine. You never told me you were a dominatrix, I was under the impression that we were just joking around and this wasn't an actual business transaction."

The bitch started to get crazy eyes here.

I quickly swigged down my beer. She was getting all pissy saying how I'm not even sorry to which I replied "You're right, I'm not sorry because I wasn't under the impression that we were carrying out business. I thought we were meeting up for drinks." Totally maintained a calm frame the whole time too while she was SCREAMING at me. Everyone at the bar was staring, so now I figured I could be potentially endangering myself.

I finished my beer, told the bitch "Hey I'm going to go outside for a cigarette." and just went straight to my car and took off.

A few minutes later, I get a text from our mutual friend telling me "Dude that was fucked up what you did, you shouldn't lie to a girl for a date." Didn't even bother replying and just deleted his number too.

I swear, the more people I meet these days the more jaded I become. I really wish I could just meet people who bring some kind of positive element to my social life.

[–][deleted] 190 points191 points  (10 children)

She must be a pretty crappy dominatrix if she can't pay her bills.

[–]ProfessorD2 66 points67 points  (3 children)

She's a little confused on the whole "Financial Domination" thing.

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[–]AEther_Flux 4 points5 points  (1 child)

"Crack that whip" and then "give the past a slip"?

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[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (4 children)

The most likely scenario, IMHO.

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[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Gotta be a heavy user to get withdrawals from blow.

[–]ScannerSloppy[🍰] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Broke sex worker = heroin addict

[–]Cosmicandy 145 points146 points  (11 children)

Everyone at the bar was staring, so now I figured I could be potentially endangering myself.

"Dude that was fucked up what you did, you shouldn't lie to a girl for a date."

It's disgusting how readily everyone will get accusatory of men for shitty, unjustified female behavior.

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[–]GizmoC 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That guy in the pink tshirt... weaseling in with a sucker-kick.

[–]Nieben 30 points31 points  (5 children)

God, that clip. I've never seen what lead up to that before.

She slapped first, he only did a reaction slap and then all these dumbass white knights come to her aid (probably in hopes of getting laid).

He was right to do what he did.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (4 children)

Absolutely, I heard somewhere that he successfully sued the TV channel though, which is awesome. But it just goes to show you how quick white knights are to jump in, even when there is "shitty, unjustified female behavior"

[–]HitlersCow 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I like your name. But that's off-topic.

But do you happen to have a source on this? I'm quite interested as it restores some of my faith in humanity.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dadagiri best that I could find

EDIT: just search something like "indian tv how can she slap"

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[–]heist_of_saint_graft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Dude that was fucked up what you did, you shouldn't lie to a girl for a date." Didn't even bother replying and just deleted his number too.

Wonderful. Friend / acquaintance white-knighting toward me for any reason gets a kill shot right between the eyes. Pretend he never even existed. These men are turncoats and should be absolutely shamed and ostractized by other men.

[–]etherael 83 points84 points  (21 children)

The weirdest part of this story to me is the friend texting you afterward to berate you about not taking this completely absurd obvious joke seriously.

What the fuck?

[–]Clauderoughly 60 points61 points  (0 children)

White knights gunna white knight...

Crazy chick probably spun the poor beta a bullshit story.

[–][deleted] 49 points50 points  (14 children)

Well, he's more of an acquaintance these days, we were tighter during college but even then our friendship didn't really surpass just being drinking buddies. This kid just has no spine whatsoever. After I got that text I just thought "Wow what a clueless fucking idiot" and deleted him.

[–]alfredosauce 6 points7 points  (10 children)

How did he know how your date went "a few minutes later"? Also she sounds like a prostitute who assumed you knew what she was.

[–]Grassy04 67 points68 points  (6 children)

My guess is the woman used her mobile communication device and contacted the other guy. I think the okc girl is from the future, it's not like we have cell phones in 2014.

[–]alfredosauce 13 points14 points  (5 children)

Yeah i missed the part about the mutual friend. Also upon reflection this "Also she sounds like a prostitute who assumed you knew what she was." is probably wrong. I doubt she even knows what she is.

[–]Grassy04 14 points15 points  (3 children)

I'm glad you didn't snap on me lol I just realized I sounded like a complete asshole. Sorry I took the sarcasm too far.

[–]alfredosauce 15 points16 points  (2 children)

It's ok bro. We all make mistakes. What's important is to make those mistakes part of you. Absorb them into you self awareness and resolve to do better next time. The first step is to realize what is a mistake and what isn't. It can be beneficial to be an asshole. It's a great shit test to weed out the noise.

[–]Elonine 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The fuck did I just witness...

Civility... on MY internet?

[–]jakeryan91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The most courteous interaction I've seen on reddit.

[–]ScannerSloppy[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a girl tells you she is a professional dominatrix, the trickle truth is that she is also a professional sub. And probably just walks the streets dealing backseat blowjobs as well.

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[–]alfredosauce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"We had a mutual friend through the grapevine too so I brought that into the conversation."

Whoops i missed that.

[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get with the times gramps.

[–]Offensive_Brute 15 points16 points  (1 child)

you have to imagine that she called him ranting and probably cried and told the most incomplete one sided story of the story ever. He wen't into whiteknight mode and jumped to the retarded sluts defense.

[–]Julian_Berryman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some proper white-knight beta shit that is.

[–]ScannerSloppy[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There problem are kinky Wall Street types who would pay $7500 to shave a bitch's head

[–]agentapelsin 303 points304 points  (26 children)

Should have shaved her head, then left.


[–][deleted] 64 points65 points  (24 children)

Stupid bitch would probably try and sue him, too.

[–]agentapelsin 147 points148 points  (21 children)


She received a haircut and refused to pay!

[–]nninja 26 points27 points  (20 children)

HAHA! She stiffed me $100 your Honor!

[–]agentapelsin 25 points26 points  (18 children)

The fact that SHE bought the hair clippers to the meeting would be very hard to defend.

Clearly she wanted to receive a haircut.

It is widely acknowledged that this is a service for which one could expect to be remunerated, indeed for many people this is their career and principal source of income.

Open-Shut Case.

[–]dgillz 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Can I call you if I need a lawyer?

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Better call Saul

[–]hedgefundaspirations 12 points13 points  (14 children)

You'd get your ass handed to you. There was a written offer, a written acceptance, valid consideration (the ability to shave a her head in return for monetary compensation. Remember that the court doesn't look at the rightness of compensation, just that there is legally valid consideration of some sort), and competent parties. All elements of a valid contract were in place. The court would obviously uphold that contract.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most likely out of some victimization bullshit.

[–]BoyMeetsHarem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she still might.

[–]venicerocco 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Getting the money from my car"

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 145 points146 points  (9 children)

Seems normal for an OKC date. Just chalk it up to living a crazy life. Its a great story to tell people.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 50 points51 points  (5 children)

Agreed. This is the type of shit I live for!

[–]imaginarymonster 38 points39 points  (6 children)

who the fuck would pay 7000 to shave someones head?

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (4 children)

I know, I thought she'd get it that I was joking lol..

[–]VinylGuy420 27 points28 points  (1 child)

Dude, if she was going to let you shave her head for 7500$, imagine her prices as a dominatrix. No wonder she can't pay her bills.

[–]Offensive_Brute 14 points15 points  (0 children)

seriously. her business model is broken.

[–]apotshot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah man is Okcupid now some kind of "backpages" site? I didn't know girls were trading favors for $$ on there.

[–]JoJackthewonderskunk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude that whole set up is hilarious. Only a seriously fucked up entitled Brat of a chick would think anyone would believe her hair was worth that much to someone else..

[–]1 TRP SupporterFred_Flintstone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She thought op was wolf of wall street

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 114 points115 points  (25 children)

What a nutjob. Talk about entitlement. She actually thinks she deserves $7,500 just for having part of her head shaved? She actually thinks guys would want to spend that kind of money? And then the little beta bitch whines at you to top at off. Bonus points for deleting his number.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (13 children)

Man, watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HgC9Z3uzPgY and you'll feel sorry that she settled for 7500

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 15 points16 points  (4 children)

Lol, I've seen that. It's fortunate that those women are easily spotted a mile a way with all their gaudy accessories.

I don't recall them ever going into whether or not these women had any alphas to service them. They all seemed very asexual to me, like consumerbots or something.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (2 children)

They don't go into any "servicing" probably because they're trying to maintain the facade that they're "pure" or "good" or whatever bullshit philosophy it is. Its highly likely they take bar and nightclub dick on a regular basis

[–]jobs33ker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its highly likely they take bar and nightclub dick on a regular basis

Could you imagine the look on those beta bucks' faces if they ever witnessed that? Their universe would collapse in a heartbeat.

[–]jobs33ker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taken from the comments:

Hiring a prostitute would be a better solution than giving any money to these women. A prostitute would be significantly cheaper and she would actually have sex with you. I guess the only good thing is that these women cannot "Rinse" men forever as soon as their looks start to degrade. All of the money and presents will stop flowing in and the men will move on to the next hot young thing.

SO true. These fucking "rinsers" are giving hookers a bad name. One is a manipulative, entitled brat, the other is a hard working woman who is just trying to make an honest living.

[–]jobs33ker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of beta bucks are this fucking clueless...i can sort of understand paying for the affections of a woman, as long as you're fucking her...but this? unreal

[–]mussedeq 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And people wonder why some native Brits chose Islam over this...

This video was the best argument for this comment.

[–]RojoEscarlata 3 points4 points  (3 children)

This video needs a post of it's own.

These three women are not outliners, they represent the vast majority of women, that's how they all think, just that most women don't have a super sayan level hamster like these three do.

PS: I fucking hate betas so much, they are the reason these entitled bitches exist.

I kinda felt sympathy for Danica, but that most likely is because I want to put my penis inside of her, but I won't let that cloud my judgment.

[–]jobs33ker 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I kinda felt sympathy for Danica

why the fuck??

ANd youre right, i fucking hate betas too. they manufacture these cunts everyday.

[–]RojoEscarlata 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Because those big ass tities make my penis erect

[–]jobs33ker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair nuff

[–]stemgang 46 points47 points  (6 children)

Do you think the "little beta bitch" received an accurate re-telling of the night's events?

I suspect I would be angry too after hearing from the Dom that OP insulted her, poured beer on her, and slapped her before leaving. See how that works?

Unless OP thinks his reputation is untarnishable, he would do well to clear the air with his mutual friend.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 7 points8 points  (1 child)

It's one thing if it's a stranger, it's another thing if it's a mutual friend. Always get boths sides of the story first. I would contact the friend and ask for his side of events.

I had a female friend in college who flat out lied to me about something that happened with a male friend. I believed her automatically. I never got the guy's story. I believed her because I had been brainwashed to always believe the woman.

Then I actually observed her manipulating guys, lying, and basically treating them all like puppets. I started adding things up and concluded that because she had been abused at some point, she had developed certain sociopathic tendencies. Then, after letting her story strain my friendship, I contacted the male friend and got his version. He basically had no clue what she was talking about. In any case, drugs and alcohol were freqently involved.

Now, I'll never know what really happened, but given her track record, the odds are that she was inflating stuff and creating drama.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea, I would at least tell them what happened and if they still believe the dom, then delete their number. He pretty much told his friend that everything she said about what happened was right.

[–]jobs33ker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anyone who just buys the story some hooker tells is too fucking dumb to be salvaged. Some things are better to not justify with a response. But i dont think this is such a case.

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[–]uincom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He is beta because he judged him without asking what really happened. Beta gonna beta.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bonus points for deleting his number.

I came into this thread expecting the usual lame ass beta story, but this was some red pill shit, especially that part. Good stuff OP.

[–]ayjayred 0 points1 point  (2 children)

She actually thinks she deserves $7,500 just for having part of her head shaved? She actually thinks guys would want to spend that kind of money?

She's a dominatrix. People pay her just to have them tied up or some kind of naughty harm done to them.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 3 points4 points  (1 child)

But $7,500 is not a market price for a head shaving.

[–]Sturmgeist781 24 points25 points  (0 children)

A few minutes later, I get a text from our mutual friend telling me "Dude that was fucked up what you did, you shouldn't lie to a girl for a date." Didn't even bother replying and just deleted his number too.

What the fuck is wrong with people.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (4 children)

This is why you always take monopoly money.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Holy shit! I wish hahaha!

[–]InterNetting 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Lol. I didn't say REAL dollars!

[–]JoJackthewonderskunk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

7500 doll hairs. Exactly the amount we agreed upon. Damn it took a long time to count those out!

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (3 children)

What the fuck, this is /r/WTF material right here. Do dominatrixes usually shave their head?

[–]RedPillScare 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Her definition of dominatrix seems to be "less embarrassing form of the word whore". This allows her to get paid for sex without admitting to herself of others that she's a prostitute. In fact, she can claim higher status for her sexualized leaning-in.

[–]Offensive_Brute 10 points11 points  (0 children)

right, seems more like a sub act than a dom act. But a trashy bitch is a trashy bitch and she'd probably charge less for a bukakke party. She can just towel tht off and get on with her life. Shaved hair will take some time to grow back.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whores looking to acquire money do.

[–]abcd_z 16 points17 points  (3 children)

Throughout her profile she talks about how she loves money and will only go on dates with guys with money

That's a massive red flag. She's basically screaming to the world "Hey, I'm a gold-digger!"

[–]UnimpressedAsshole 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And then whispering "Hey, I'm a shitty, in-debt gold-digger"

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[–]autowikibot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (7 children)

Lol no shit.. I've met some pretty chill girls who are vegan/tats/pierced though. You can tell the psychos by the quality of tattoos and piercings. Eyebrow rings are always a no-go. Tattoos their ex boyfriends practiced on them as well.

[–]Offensive_Brute 10 points11 points  (6 children)

vegans dont swallow.

[–]smokeybehr 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Sure they do. It's their only source of real animal protein that their body needs.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the one i was with did lol

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my opinion they technically won't even be allowed to make you cum, since it's sort of mass-murderer...

[–]1FloranHunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they do...

[–]geenomike 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"OKC is not much better than POF. It's ground zero for tatted/pierced up/Skrillex'd girls, vegans, feminazis, golddiggers, flakes, attention whores, prozac princesses, massive sluts, and hamplanets, or any combination thereof."

I just wanted this to appear more than once.

[–]PictureTraveller 9 points10 points  (1 child)


my sides

[–]Clbull 2 points3 points  (5 children)

So where do you go for women who don't fit these tropes? Tinder? Zoosk? eHarmony? Match.com?


I laughed way harder than I should have.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (3 children)

There is no good online dating site. It's a waste of time and money. You're far better off meeting and screening women in real life. I've tried OKC, POF, and Match. Got a few dates, but not with any high quality women. It was a complete waste of time and money on my part.

[–]Clbull 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I've had a total of two dates using online sites. The first was with a girl with Neurofibromatosis Type-I (I didn't fully realize this until I met her face to face; her profile shots were quite blurry because they were taken with what I assume was a low quality camera phone and she didn't show much skin in her photos but she wore a summer dress when I met her), I wasn't attracted to her but she was a really nice person and the date I had with her was quite pleasant.

The second... we had a pretty good conversation online and she was one of the few girls actually willing to meet in person - in my experience a lot of girls will feign interest, pull the whole "I barely know you" excuse when you ask her on an actual date then either delete their accounts or go cold.

I meet her for coffee, the conversation's a bit awkward, she basically walks out on some bogus excuse which was "My sister's had a kid recently, I said I'd go see her" 15 minutes later, assumingly puts my number on a call block and blocks my POF profile meaning I cannot give date feedback on her and how she basically did that because Markus Frind is an idiot.

On the subject of free sites, I would say OKC is actually the best. People tend to actually reply to your PMs on there. POF also has some very misandrist policies (i.e. men cannot send private images to other users because of a small minority who abused the system to send explicit photos.)

[–]neurosurg 2 points3 points  (1 child)

OKStupid sucks. I've met several girls on there and they've all been attention whores, or give off that subtle "broken" vibe just below the radar. The only nice girl I've ever met on OKStupid turned out to be deaf. Straight up never mentioned it until I met her on our date and she read my lips/talked in very broken sentences the whole time.

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[–]stupid_fucking_name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Outside.

Online dating's a useful tool, but it shouldn't be your only source of income, so to speak.

[–]SomeoneElseEntirely 11 points12 points  (16 children)

Consider posting this story to /r/datinghell.

[–]apotshot 14 points15 points  (15 children)

The top post on there is pretty hilarious: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/186273

I mean the guy is just being hilariously abusive but she sticks around the whole night, probably waiting for some redeeming quality because the guy acts so nonchalant the whole time. Hilarious.

[–]SomeoneElseEntirely 8 points9 points  (3 children)

I read it that he was driving, so she was kind of at his mercy, being a good distance from home. Sure, she could have spent $100 on a cab, but as long as he wasn't going full-on psychopath why bother?

[–]apotshot 2 points3 points  (2 children)

There's got to be a way to end it early.

[–]SomeoneElseEntirely 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The point isn't whether there's a way, but whether it's economically reasonable or socially acceptable to a well-adjusted person. Lots of factors in play, here; I don't think we can assume that she stuck around because he was borderline DT.

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[–]ProfessorD2 11 points12 points  (2 children)

I followed SomeoneElseEntirely's comment to that subreddit and that post as well. The whole time reading her story I kept thinking, "How much abuse is she going to put up with just to avoid paying for a cab and maybe get a free meal?"

The real kicker though was at the end: "The moral of the date?? Don’t date guys who drive a gold golf."

After all that the moral of the story, as far as she's concerned, is don't date guys with crappy vehicles. Seriously???

[–]lucoztazade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The whole story is absolute gold and the hamstering is hilarious.

[–]nninja 5 points6 points  (1 child)

That can't be real. If it is she's a retard

[–]apotshot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've witnessed nearly the same happen in real life. I'm not surprised.

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[–]apotshot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on dates like that. Why not hit it and quit it? Pussy!

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child)

My guess is she bragged to people that some chump was gonna pay her to shave her head. When it didn't happen she tried to rationalize everything to not let her ego get too bruised and ended up freaking out.

[–]MartialWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her response was actually pretty typical for a prostitute that isn't getting paid.

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[–]nninja 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Seriously they are insulting OP??? HOW???

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Bluepill? Which subreddit is that?

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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, OKC is shitty. The two dates I got from the site was a fat single mom and an ex-crack addict. Lying cunts had outdated pics on their profiles. Holy shit was that horrible.

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision 9 points10 points  (2 children)

"I told her "Well who's problem is that? Not mine. You never told me you were a dominatrix, I was under the impression that we were just joking around and this wasn't an actual business transaction.""

This is part of why a girl who becomes a prostitute is ruining her life- in her mind sex becomes a business transaction; the mental wiring changes. Same goes for stripper or cam girl; sex becomes exclusively a means to an end rather than an end in itself.

And who the fuck is paying a fat girl to dominate them?

Who the fuck is paying any girl to dominate them?


[–]apotshot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And who the fuck is paying a fat girl to dominate them?

Obviously not enough fellas as she can't pay her bills!

[–]ProfessorD2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know about paying, but I can tell you the majority in the BDSM world seems to be submissive men.

The pecking order I see at events and parties goes like this:


Dominant Women

Dominant Men

Submissive Women

Submissive Men

That's the pecking order because that's the supply and demand of it all. There's a small supply of couples and dominatrixes, but a large supply of submissive men (and women). To your question though, I don't know how many of these guys are paying. There's little reason for me to interact with the submissive guys at events. I mostly just see them lined up against a wall, creepily watching couples do their thing.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I had my first OKC date recently also. She wasn't as crazy as yours, but it was just a slut close to the Wall, trying to play good girl to snag her beta. I don't think I would have fallen for that shit even when I was plugged in.

The point is, I knew that was what I was getting even before I met her. I was planning to use the situation to my advantage to get a pump and dump. There had to have been plenty of warning signs about this girl which you ignored.

[–]MasterGoshinki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his strategy was probably similar though, it just blew up in his face.

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[–]KJL13 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Considering there is a written record that does not convey sarcasm well, it could be considered a contract.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can make contracts verbally just without recording equipment its hard to prove. Documents and signatures are for the sake of evidence.

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[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've knowngirls like this. they look nice but can change on a dime when things dont go their way they tantrum like a toddler.

[–]chancechants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had decent luck on OKC at times. Been on over 30 dates on there. 3 girlfriends acquired and sex with 4 or 5 women. There are good ones. The last 10 or so I've dated have had bachelor's degrees and a master's degree from prestigious universities. (I have a GED). Some owned their own homes or had an apartment to theirselves. But I wasn't impressed with that since a majority had daddy buy them a car for high school graduation (5 years left to pay mine off). I'm talking to 7 or so women from OKC and tinder now and 2 are single moms (ugh next). But there's winners on there just have a ask the questions, be attractive and not be unattractive.

[–]watersign 2 points3 points  (2 children)

what a cunt.

[–]econ664 8 points9 points  (2 children)

How is it that you have a mutual friend with some random bitch you just met on a dating site?

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

We're all in the same relative area. They both went to the same college and met at a party apparently. Small world.

[–]MasterGoshinki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its still strange though, some bitch he met at a party gets the benefit of the doubt over a friend? You were right to delete his number.

[–]REDDITCanSuckMyCOCK 3 points3 points [recovered]

This is probably what would have happened to her if you did shave her head:


From 1:44


[–]charlesbukowksi 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I really wish I could just meet people who bring some kind of positive element to my social life.

Not going to find that in women. The best you can hope for in a relationship is a puerile people pleaser.

What you're looking for is quality friends. Find people with qualities you admire. Associate with those whose strengths are your weaknesses.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice. Thanks.

[–]PeronPez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a mad house..... don't worry mate we have all been there.

[–]CyricYourGod 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I'd give someone $50 to shave half their hair with the condition that it remains half-shaved for one week where $25 is paid at the beginning and $25 at the end. You'd have to be insane to believe anyone would spend $7000 on a shave which obviously this girl was.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is good.

  1. Do not apologize for something that is not your fault. You were clearly joking. She was making a business transaction. Not your mistake.

  2. Good on you for cutting that faggot out of your life. GOD! I seriously hate whiteknights now.

And 3. Welcome to the Jaded Men's club. I feel the same way you feel. The more people I meet, the more jaded I become.

You know what I think, I think we should go just for the 9s and 10s. The girls who say, "No one ever approaches us." And its true. Its cuz men go after what they think they can get, not the superhot women.

I'm not saying they don't have their own issues. But, at least they're good to look at. xD

[–]SlickJamesBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a shit test or something so I started laughing at her and told her to simmer down.. But she was fucking serious.

Holy shit I laughed my ass off picturing this whole thing, I only read about shit like this in books.

A few minutes later, I get a text from our mutual friend telling me "Dude that was fucked up what you did, you shouldn't lie to a girl for a date." Didn't even bother replying and just deleted his number too.

The white knight cometh.

[–]nmagod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I left OKC and started using miumeet, where I met my girlfriend of nearly a year now

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[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 1 point2 points  (4 children)

He thought it was a sarcastic profile, he was being naive. She was a woman being real about her hypergamy, using her candidness to weed out anyone who gets offended leaving her with types closer to what she wants. Quite clever really.

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[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Most women are so full of shit that a straight talking one sticks out, great way for a woman to peacock is to actually just cut the bullshit. If any /r/redpillwomen see this post, enjoy the tip, this one's on me ;)

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[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a RPW

Hilarious, hadn't checked your post history when I made my comment.

It's up to you as the chick to calibrate your peacocking, if you're interested in a guy I'd hope it would be someone high enough value to have the wit to discern that a woman being truthful and direct with him is massively indicating her interest in him, albeit, if you're doing too much push and pull (flirting then being distant, then flirting etc) he's probably just going to think you're a cock tease who gets off on taking up his time/validation.

Got to calibrate right, any guy with wit will be able to handle it. Wanna find a guy with wit? Go to a comedy club.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visit mgtowforums for advice on how to properly read peoples profiles on OkCupid, lel.

[–]SadFace959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am impressed by how cool you played this. I would have been dying the entire time. She actually brought clippers. That is a priceless life experience.

[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I'd tell everyone she was a prostitute, and that she thought I owed her fat ass $7500 after I bought her a few beers.

[–]MartialWay 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Did you read the post? She IS a prostitute, paid to do exceptionally kinky shit, that's why she took him seriously.

[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points  (1 child)

some dominatrices dont actually fuck.

[–]MartialWay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling this one did.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

our mutual friend telling me "Dude that was fucked up what you did, you shouldn't lie to a girl for a date."

Dat white knighting...

[–]ProfessorD2 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Regarding the friend who texted you, it seems hasty to cut him out without knowing what she told him.

Do you know what he was told? Hell, she could have said you tried to rape her. It sounds like you have no idea what he was told and (almost certainly wrongly) assumed she told him an accurate account.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A real friend wouldn't make bullshit assumptions though. I'd do the same as OP

[–]busybenj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have taken the clippers, shaved her head, then "gone out to your car to get the money."

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

When are people going to stop using that shitty fucking site OKC?

[–]Totenglocke42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When a better online option appears that doesn't cost a fuckload of money per year.

[–]MockingDead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sure hope not. This is hilarious shit.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, I've only gone on 3 OKcupid dates. One of them was pretty normal, nice girl, but I wasn't too interested in pursuing her. If someone has to sign up for online dating to meet someone and they don't work 50-60 hours a week then they probably suck.

[–]valhalladclxvi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather be you than her.

[–]1RXRob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I get pissed off if she expects me to buy every drink but I've yet to have one demand over seven grand. And if she was a good dominatrix you'd be paying the money for the privilege of her shaving your head.

Thanks for sharing your experience, it makes all of mine look wonderful.

[–]dub121686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was entertained.

[–]PlusGoody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of a collision of three things we know very well.

Always safer to assume a woman you don't know EXTREMELY well will not get a joke. Women on OKC have HUGE expectations. People pay large amounts of money for weird fetishes.

[–]t-_-j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I wouldn't have been able to stop laughing at her.

[–]pwrfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good galaxy man, why invite these type of people into your life?

[–]lushly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of this is your fault. Don't just assume that someone gets your sarcasm when you're typing over the internet. Especially given the amount of crazy people on dating websites...

[–]Route66_LANparty 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I wouldn't blame/ditch the mutual friend too soon. This crazy girl likely lied to them about what happened.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a friend of mine instantly took someone elses side, regardless of the story they'd been fed, I'd want nothing to do with them. Why?

  1. Betrayal without adequate reason
  2. Demonstrates a lack of trust/appreciation for my character.

You know when someone says "what? no my buddy would never do that, I know him too well" those are the kind of friends you keep around.

Don't go being desperate for friends now.

[–]MotorcycleMann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is disturbing on many levels. Funny story to tell though.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol that woman sounds like such a dumb delusional bitch. good job ditching her dude.

[–]jakethesnake76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few minutes later, I get a text from our mutual friend telling me "Dude that was fucked up what you did, you shouldn't lie to a girl for a date." Didn't even bother replying and just deleted his number too.


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