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Had a breakup. Been with countless women. I'm just so sick of dating. It's the same shit.

Older women are basket cases and younger women are fickle and unreliable.

What the fuck is left ? I have 10 unsaved numbers and 2 dates this weekend with some young girls...they're actually decent girls.

The others are some sluts I can get to come over whenever.

I'm just.. not motivated. I don't even wanna fuck around anymore. I'm tired of playing games with these girls and using them for sex.

I'm tired of having to maintain frame in an LTR.

I'm so sick of the mental hurdles just to keep some constant pussy around.


[–]RedSkeller 28 points29 points  (4 children)

Same boat. It's all about knowing your worth and when to walk. Dating is boring if you're doing the same bars over and over and getting laid. The facade of romance is pretty much dead for me. It seems like I can maintain about one to two plates max before they get annoying and I have to drop them, over the course of ~1 - 3 months. Anything 30+ is fucked beyond belief and 35+ is mental gymnastics qualifiers. Young chicks are notorious flakes and attention whores/selfish brats. I've done this for over a year now, after previously being in an LTR for a couple years. Looking back over the course of 1 - 3 new girls a month, it was fun at times but more of a headache than anything. I've got some decent women in the works now and I would just say enjoy the grind because you do eventually come across a winner.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Uhg. I guess.

[–]trpanak1n 0 points1 point  (2 children)

make it fun for yourself. go explore rsd.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

What's that

[–]tankrepititionpug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real social dynamics?

[–]mrheh 30 points31 points  (12 children)

The guys on here may disagree but the motto I follow is "you're not joining my team you're joining my cult". They're all nuts, some can just hide it better than other; it will come out eventually. The best option I've found for an LTR is basically brainwashing them into the cult of mrheh.

[–]moresmarterthanyou 11 points12 points  (7 children)

go on

[–]Archergold88 1 point2 points  (5 children)

What does mrheh mean?

[–]wubba_lubba_dub_dub2 14 points15 points  (4 children)

It's his username...

[–]Psychocist 1 point2 points  (3 children)

But what does it mean??

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

It means he wants those women to worship him, because they're useless as partners they'd better be worshippers.

[–]mrheh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Queen is the Kings bitch.

[–]mrheh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPq7CyHqQ2I

I can't explain it better than Patrice Oneal

[–]jackandjill22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea. If you can't deal with it you're probably still somewhat in the anger phase. Personally I find younger women more tolerable. You just have to establish dominance/respect, provide value & be a stoic rock. She's going to be volatile so you have to stand your ground.

[–]1ideal_lemon 2 points3 points  (2 children)

elaborate please.

[–]y_nnis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He means, mentally assisting her to grow to her full potential and mold her to who he needs at his side. I think.

[–]zayelion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Means grow a harem

[–]Cunt_Robber 23 points24 points  (6 children)

Dude i just wanna drop in and let you know ive felt the same since like a year or so ago. I pretty much dropped out of the game altogether. It's a fucked up culture at this point, and im just contributing to pathologising society with this madness. I mean it definitely doesnt lead to sanity lol. After you get through 20 or 30 or 50 women, hopefully your mindset will change. Its just the same shit over and over again. Ive left a girl or two alpha widowed. One told me, after we hadnt hooked up for a good year or so, that she started her slut phase after i hard nexted her for being too clingy (i mightve taken her virginity too, but i never bothered to ask). Such a toxic mixture of numbness, disappointment, heartbreak, and cynicism on my end with all these plates and relationships. I burnt out emotionally.

A man isnt built for this. Or if he is, he cant go through life with that as the goal/aim. It has to be a byproduct of his success, status, looks, etc. So focus on other things now, set some goals for yourself. Time for some inner work and goal setting to set you in a new direction.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children)

You're right. We can't chase this lifestyle. It's not normal. Fucking 30 women in a year isn't healthy whether they were short term relationships or hook ups, it's not healthy at all.

It has to be a byproduct of success and natural.

[–]Psychocist 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Fucking 30 women in a year isn't healthy

How is that not healthy? It isn't the pleasure itself that is unhealthy, it's the way we grasp hold of it as if it leads to some ultimate satisfaction. No wonder we're lost. We're looking in the wrong places for fulfilment.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right.

[–]Psychocist 1 point2 points  (2 children)

A man isnt built for this. Or if he is, he cant go through life with that as the goal/aim.

Exactly. We do constantly advise that you don't make a woman the centre of your world. Same goes for women, in general. If you're seeking fulfilment through blindly pursuing women, you're going to eventually be jaded and disappointed and disillusioned and all of these things we're discussing here.

As you say, it should be a byproduct.

[–]Cunt_Robber 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Since i had the looks and the time and i was in th right place, I aggressively started practicing game to where id set up dates and then soft next if she wouldnt have sex on the first date. I didnt waste time. And it wasnt the sex that turned me off, it was seeing the same patterns over and over. The same stupid pickup lines and the same kinds of approaches, which granted, worked, but ultimately didnt lead anywhere. Paranoia for catching the feels (oneitis) made me start acting in ways my usual self would never act.

Trp is great for making guys understand the world is not a fairy tale, but the aggressive dating style it advises is not sustainable longterm unless you become a celebrity (it probably works for 5% of all trpers). Game takes time, dating takes time; and lets face it, plating is unsustainable chaos. Might as well have one committed partner in an open relationship--you dont invest as much as you would in a monogamous one and you stomach both of you seeing other people. Idk, things will work for some and not for others. Im likely leaning toward that option or swinging, if i can find the right partner.

In any case, i stopped seeing trp as a place of sexual strategy and more as a life philosophy.

[–]Breatheinprawna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly been thinking of this rhetoric for a while.

[–]Scheme00 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Hey dude. I was like this for 3.5 years. Countless women. There was only one I met awhile ago where I had any emotional connection with. The special ones take years. Don't look to fill the void, just have fun with all these chicks and one will somehow come into your presence when the time is right.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks

[–]TheRecycledMale 10 points11 points  (6 children)

Great line from Shawshank Redemption: "Get busy living, or get busy dying"

I suggest get busy living - now that you're not ruled by the almighty pussy, you can focus on .... whatever. You can become a billionaire (not to get pussy, but because you want to); You can become a movie star/rock star/male model (not to get pussy, but because you want to); You can become the Tony Robbins of your generation (not to get pussy, but because you want to). You have liberated yourself from the "need" - now it's time to live your life. Travel the world, be the first person on Mars, meet the 100 richest people in the world and interview them, climb the 10 highest mountain peaks, take a photograph with bigfoot, genetically engineer a real unicorn.

I hope you get my point here. You are completely disillusioned by Pussy - that is a breakthrough. The reason you find it difficult right now, is because you have been programmed to believe Women (the only ones that have that pussy you desire so much) are special. What you found out is that Pussy is Pussy, that women aren't special and if one won't, the next one probably will.

Well, welcome to the "world behind the curtain" ... now go do something great with that knowledge.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Thank you, positive thoughts your way as well.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Came here to say this. I'm married, Redpill and have found that my mission is my focus. My wife and family are accessories because they add to that mission.

You've become disillusioned because you see the game as the mission. It's not. It's another way to add value.

Build a company. Climb Denali. Build a well in Africa. Make something your mission. Then when sluts come around or maybe the occasional good woman you can hold them to that standard "how does this meet my mission?"

Now all of the sudden you have a much better filter for qualifying the women in your life. You were disillusioned because you could sense they added little to no long term value to your life.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you're right. This isn't my mission.

Our perspective aren't like the average man's, I'll use this to give my mission more purpose and if any woman I give time, doesn't fit that, she isn't for me. Sexy is everywhere.

Hope you continue to have a positive relationship with your wife.

[–]TheRecycledMale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One last point ...

Becoming disillusioned can either be a liberating thing, or another trap. There are always two ways to look at something (i.e. the table top is 3 feet from the floor, or the floor is three feet from the table top). Very few Men really want TRP to be true, they are willing to try out all this new information, but they always hold out "hope" that there is an exception to the rule out there (their own personal unicorn, created just for them) - it's not really different from the woman's viewpoint of "the one" or "true love". If you're ever lucky enough to really make it through to the other side, you realize those (your version or their version) are a myth, and don't exist.

In the world of gaming, it's like making it to the next level within the game. You beat the boss (in this case, the obsession with pussy). You battled hard, you had to work at getting past all the obstacles, you had to learn how to navigate the treacherous path - and once you get done with the level, you realize, the game goes on - what's the point. The point is ... in life, there is always something else, another level and all that knowledge you gained is never really lost, it's just more skill, more information, more of what you need for the next level.

[–]SlyAM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment is fucking marvelous, bravo mate, bravo.

[–]Ranarrseeds 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I'm actually jealous of you. Imagine the time and the things you can achieve right now without women redirecting your focus. See your burn out as an opportunity to achieve things for yourself. A girl will come around but for now just get new achievements in the gym and your career.

[–]Sowlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much this. That's exactly where I want to get... The point where you genuinely don't care about women and you can finally focus 100% on things that actually matters to you. Jealous as well make the best of it man!

[–]apollosapien 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Any women that make love a task are women not worth your time.

Become your best patriarch, and the feminine shall follow.

Improve your calibre of life and everything shall follow.

Ditch most of those girls you're talking to and just start again. Dating is hard, but don't have it contravene your mission.

[–]Willkuer_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not much info here. Are you possibly the mirror image of your mating partners? Maybe something is wrong with you and not all women? Try gaming other women. Try gaming in other places. Get out of your comfort zone. Obviously nobody will tell you here that your soulmate is just around the corner but there is some gradient in quality regarding women.

Might be a cultural/regional thing but IMO the most "dateworthy" women are typically 24-26 years old (depending on genes that can be extended to higher age) and have some reasonable (science, business, medicine, ...) academic degree (bonus points for a running or achieved PhD) with young firm bodies. Doesn't mean that they are unicorns though.

It's harder for me to accept the ego-invested entitlement based on nothing but genes of a 20 y/o blonde surrounded by leaking dicks 24/7. A girl with self-achieved self-worth is much more chill and fun to be around. In the end they are all somehow insecure though. That's why you offer security (as part of beta game) in an LTR.

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor 5 points6 points  (6 children)

If a post-wall hag that sends tits pictures to another guy does this to you, I can't imagine what a 19-year-old HB9 would do to you. You need some time away.

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Bro, I was spending every day with that woman (she's hot just a whore unknown until recently) and did so much with her. She actually invested more and almost got a kid out of me.

I have no issues with frame and control, this was some shit that came out of nowhere.

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor 0 points1 point  (4 children)

I have no issues with frame and control

And yet here we are?

I was serious.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imma add one last thing about frame. By using our frame, and what not, we are trying to indirectly influence different person. Sometimes it works, sometimes it's trying to bend a spoon with your mind. Some spoons apparently bend, some won't, no matter how much perfectly you do everything.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Alright maybe I lost frame when I discovered her cheating but that's not expected ? Who cares what she knows I'm like if I'm checking out? (Be it me being angry or hurt, who cares I'm done?)

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor 4 points5 points  (1 child)

1) Read this --> https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/

2) Press the off button

3) Go outside and don't come back for three months

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are depressed because you had a break-up. Just focus on yourself for a little bit. Go do some bro things. Change your focus for a few months. Meditate. I hope that you don't just sit around and wallow in self-pity, b/c thats what this sounds like.

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[–]Psychocist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embrace that and make your own artificial meaning via something challenging.

Yes, exactly. Solve bigger problems than how to stick your penis in as many vaginas as possible.

[–]Train33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and even that is still pointless

[–]Kommanderdude 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Such is the nature of life. You have 3 options. Embrace life and enjoy the human experience. 2. Become a miserable blue pill husband. 3 self termination. You pick.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol 3rd one.

[–]DSetupDTitleDMenu 2 points3 points  (1 child)

If you're just trawling bars and nightclubs, go expand your social circle if you're up to it. If you live in a big city, join sports clubs. Join a male-only one and then a co-ed one. Meeting people is the gateway to meeting more people, older and younger. And then maybe you'll find some attractive chick who isn't some late-night partying slut and makes you smile and laugh and amused by her jovial nature and her sharp wit. And then you hang her head over your bed and stick your cock down her throat.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in NYC. I'm too busy for that type of social commitment. I use dating apps and it fills my phone with numbers and blowjobs faster than any bar

But I get your point.

[–]ViperG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

take a break. But for me it takes about 30 women before you find a good one. so 30

[–]circlhat 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Had a breakup. Been with countless women. I'm just so sick of dating. It's the same shit.

I felt like this and found out I needed to push harder and raise my standards. I wanted a women who felt feminism was a piece of crap, society hated men and had female privilege.

I'm tired of having to maintain frame in an LTR.

Don't fake anything, Don't take a single bit of shit, your frame is something natural, not something you have to think about, if I come to your house and start disrespecting you are you going to take it?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I understand. But women need a mix of AF/BB personality traits, I'm sick of mixing them.

I wanna be one, not both. I don't care to be two people for one person.

You either do as I say or you fuck off. But now I have to kiss your ass to keep you from breaking down and sucking dick??

Or if I'm too caring and attentive, she fucks a man who ain't caring at all or attentive.

I'm tired of it.

[–]circlhat 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I understand. But women need a mix of AF/BB personality traits, I'm sick of mixing them.

A alpha doesn't mean being rude or mean, it means leading and leadership is a burden, do you want to be that 100% of the time?

I hate cooking, my wife is alpha when it comes to cooking, she chooses the ingredients, the method ect...

But now I have to kiss your ass to keep you from breaking down and sucking dick??

Honestly No, I never kiss her ass, and she prefers it that way, We been having issue of her not feeling she can talk to me about her emotional issues, she felt that she would just be complaining and upset me.

But as I said I know how you feel I went though literately 200 women to find one that isn't bat shit insane.

I'm tired of it.

The only advice I can give is you will probably have to go though a lot more crap to find a women that mind isn't to far broken

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need god lol Thanks for your time here buddy.

[–]Howdoiusesync 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Same problem with a new girl who has a low partner count and is younger than me. She's smoking hot but I'm just so sick of it tbh.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Idk man, I think we just need to stop sleeping around but then.. abundance mentality is necessary to not be a pussy whipped bitch

[–]Howdoiusesync 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I get this more and more everyday. This girl somehow ends up in my dorm and is totally fine when I have to work on things. The thing is I'm way more experienced than her. She's a hood HB8 That is a total geek (does computer engineering) but she is just ehhh too me. I'm obvi gonna teach her things and such like that but it's just not fulfilling in a sense.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you bothering? You got to do you. Ignore the bitches if they are burning you out and do what you enjoy. Hiking? Kayaking? Photography? Work? Gym? Stop looking for anything from women, they won't help. You gotta just focus on you and what brings you joy.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I'm tired of having to maintain frame in an LTR.

I'm so sick of the mental hurdles just to keep some constant pussy around.

Ok, I'm going to give you some controversial advice now, and I want you to hear me out before you object:

Just be yourself.

Once you attain a reasonable level of mastery, it's time to gradually drop the game and games, gradually drop the mental hurdles, just do what you want and what you feel like.

This reduces your mental effort. You'll see the effect it has. You can backtrack if you see girls reacting badly to it (you'll know all the signs by now). When you have the air of a man who knows what he's doing, you don't have to do as much "effort things" as a beginner.

This frees up mental effort to work on yourself and your mission.

THIS IS ONLY FOR GUYS WITH A REASONABLE LEVEL OF MASTERY. You can't skip the process. Don't "just be yourself" unless/until you're actually getting laid a lot.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[–]PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (10 children)

The problem is that every girl nowadays has turn offs. Even virgin chick watch sick gangbang porn. You have to accept that while you are improving yourself women are certainly not doing that. They aren't looking to improve their SMV or be less degenerate and more A-type women. The relationship you seek is a rarerity.

A great solution that was mentioned a couple days ago was that men should try polygamy. Everyone has a desire to have committed relationship beyond sex. But women aren't emotionally desirable enough to do so exclusively. So instead of devoting yourself to one bitch that's not really that special. You just get yourself 2-4 girlfriends. Basically plating but but a light emotional component but no unrealistic expectations you are dealing with a high value woman with no skeletons.

It also completely blows out any power women initially had because you are no longer concerned about her cheating or doing degenerate shit. She's just girlfriend number two.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (9 children)

You don't understand how difficult it is to have 3 women who want a relationship compete for you. They will start a fight.

[–]PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (8 children)

That's not our problem. Either we don't inform them about it or we don't mention their names. If they do find out they get replaced. At this point we are playing the next level game. Committing to one woman just isn't worth it anymore. And women will never listen to reason. If they don't want to hear they need to feel.

Having multiple girlfriends is the best outcome for us at this time. We get everything we need (sex, companionship, assurances) without taking heavy risks. When you have on girlfriend you are dependable on her not cheating, not watching fucked up porn, not sending guys/exes nudes and generally living a double life.

If you have three girlfriends, one, two or all three might pull shit like this. But the outcome doesn't matter anymore because you have your commitment spread out.

Women think they can win the game but they can't.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children)

Interesting, you're right. There is no loss with 2-3 girlfriends.

Whereas 1 holds all the power and can emotionally and financially ruin you because of your investment

[–]PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Exactly, she might not notice it when you maintain IDGAF but her being your only romantic options makes you factually dependable on her behavior. Since women don't get the hint we need to take action.

Having multiple girlfriends sucks for them but again, who cares anymore. For us this brings back sanity and makes us more outcome independent. It also guarantees that they will rank themselves in terms of female-alpha-behavior.

You will eventually get to know them very well and build up a preference. This allows you to ditch girlfriend number 3 and get another girl. And you keep doing this until hopefully you have some girl who aren't massive whores and sexual degenerates.

And if you never do then it's still okay because you aren't pouring your heart and soul into one contaminated source. Obviously women will object, but fuck them.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

So how do you get away with ignoring gf 1 when you're at girlfriend 2s family dinner? Or when girlfriend 1 needs you to be at an event with her and you can't pickup girlfriend 2s call?

This will blow up in face. I've tried it.

[–]PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Same way girls cheat sexually on guys. We hide and lie. Just reflect their game back at them. Deny deny deny. Certainly it will blow up in our faces like it does with them. But in the process we haven't lost anything because they weren't decent by definition.

Ofcourse there are girls who are spot clean and don't deserve to be played (unicorns). But any girl who talks to multiple guys, lies about her n-count, flicks her bean at gangbang porn and goes out with the girlfriends - what is she seriously expecting?

I'd say that taking things slow is the best way to go. You start with plating, then you upgrade one to girlfriend but you keep the plates. Eventually if this stabilizes you upgrade the second etc. Things should work out for 1-2 years before it blows up. But it blows up around that time anyway.

The only difference is that now women don't own it like they thought they did.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Fuck man this shit is difficult. I can plate no problem but multiple LTRs, is rough. Been thinking about it all day

[–]PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really man it should be exactly the same as plating. Remember you don't owe women anything, not even your girlfriends. You get three girlfriends and spread them out throughout the week. And you maintain the one-day rule. But now instead of seeing one girlfriend once a week to keep tingles alive. You see three girls once a week so you get tripple the sex.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Can I PM you for advice regarding this?

[–]PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fine, though remember it's not like i'm a practiced professional at this. I merely started contemplating doing this myself after plating for a while and realizing most if not all women are pretty much not exclusive relationship material.

[–]Weefilly 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Sounds like you're going after all sluts, all women are to some degree, but if you find one that actually thinks she wants a relationship, you'll get treated like a king.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

All women are sluts bro.

[–]Weefilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See my comment where I stated all women are, i highly agree. Some believe they want relationships though, so those are the ones you'll need to go after unless you want to keep getting pumped and dumped by the kind of girls you're going for now.

[–]JvSOUL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, then your next option would be to be a Lil whiny Chode bitch and life is unfair.

You are a man, man up. ADAPT to the situation and never expect that others will adapt to you. MAN THE FUCK UP.

[–]TrenGod37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So don't date or turn gay. What do you want us to say? Women are work. This shit is all work. It isn't meant for the weak and lazy.

Head on over to r/gaming maybe you'll find some purpose...

In all honesty maybe you're spending to much time on this sub. That happens to me when I do. I over think Things and make it all about RP it's good to take a step away from this shit. Take what you learn and just live your life. Also idk where you're find these women but if it's in bars or tinder good look finding any quality

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm tired of having to maintain frame in an LTR.

Frame isn't something you do, it doesn't wear out over time, and it doesn't take effort.

Frame is who you are, it's your reality. This is as asinine a statement as tiring of holding onto the ground every day.

So your problem, if I had to guess, is that you've "fake it till you make it" And now you're running out.

Best find whatever it is you've been bullshitting yourself into believing, and ditch that quick

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (18 children)

Try nofap, it will make you more stupid and horny. You will have pleasure from sex, then after 2 orgasm correctly ignore them untill your supply of sperm is overflowing again. Yes, I know, AWALT. Yes, I know - unicorns. Too bad SOME people actually had an unicorn. Other people are a bit demisexual - it actually exists! - so they can't appreciate people they just met.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (17 children)

I don't jerk off. It's pathetic.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (16 children)

If you don't jerkoff, meaning you are above average horny, yet still see no point in all this dating agenda, then I have bad news for you. Personally, I only had fun with dating pre smartphone era. People were different. (By smartphone era in my country I mean years prior to 2012).

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (15 children)

Bro I have 10 unsaved contacts in my phone to fuck at any moment. I want them but I just don't wanna go thru more of the same.

Jerking off just makes me feel weak and pathetic. I'm constantly thinking of women despite how familiar I am with the same script.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (14 children)

Oh snap. I see. This "holding frame" thing can be exhausting so you think of dating as a work to do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (13 children)

Yes, it's annoying and unrewarding, familiar work. She needs to be better than the others and I can't find that. Being hotter won't fix it either.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (11 children)

When I was younger and more handsome I was just jerking off most days so I ignored plates (i talked with them like with friends and asked to take nudes). Then I stopped fapping, let the hornines rise and fucked them. Rinse and repeat. Due to having enough plates I did fine despite being bluepill at heart. I must admit though, due to fapping I only accepted those plates I was enjoying talking to even when I was not horny at all. I guess their personality was way above average...

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (10 children)

I guess my form of jacking it is banging plates in an LTR. So depressing.

I wish I didn't have this sexual desire. I wish there were social consequences to free purposeless sex outside of long term relationships unless prostitution was legal.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children)

My advice would be to tempprarily stop reading redpill. Hell, stop reading any non-fiction for a week or two. You are constantly comparing yourself to unreachable perfect standards.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

I think I am. I was as RP as possible with my recent ex and she still cheated emotionally early on.

You have to be perfect it seems. Also, everyone lies and cheats, at least once .

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Yea If more than one sex partner per yer was banned, one would just look at his 7/10 face and find faithful 7/10 girlfriend, hassle-free.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Western degeneracy.. uhg. I live in NYC, maybe I need to leave.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this reddit client or my answer didnt make it

[–]dongpal 0 points1 point  (6 children)

I'm tired of having to maintain frame in an LTR.

so, being yourself? aka being a man?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

No. I just don't wanna have to give a fuck anymore.

[–]slugius_bernardo 0 points1 point  (1 child)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also don't wanna be a cuck by dating and not giving a fuck lol

[–]dongpal 0 points1 point  (2 children)

so it's fine then. what stops you from not giving a fuck anymore?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Huh

[–]dongpal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you said "I just wanna" , so you just want to do something, but it implies that you cant. Why?

[–]bainbridge_island -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, trying to be someone you aren't sucks.