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This post contains a lot of generalisations which embody fundamental beliefs of the red pill philosophy, this list is extensive but not exhaustive. These are bullet points and thus there is not a case study for every point made and there is not necessarily an explanation given with each bullet point. This is because this information has been designed to be snappy and easy to absorb, not an academic dissertation on each belief and concept shared. Think of it as something of a partial codification of many different RP beliefs.

  • Feminists claim they want equality but what they really want is power without responsibility. They desire both male and female privilege consolidated into one, thus upsetting the gender balance. They want the privileges of being women (privilege such as being economically provided for, getting opportunities based on their beauty and protection from physical harm by others) as well as male privilege (authority, respect for having a career, to not be judged so harshly based on appearance etc) which is neither pragmatic nor realistic, it ignores the biological basis for how the genders perceive each other in the ignorance that "everything is a social construct!" and we are mostly "the same" when quite evidently this is not the case.

  • Women are irrational and inconsistent, they have a capacity for logic but it is not their modus operandi, that is to say that they must exert effort to be logical as it is not their factory setting. A logical woman is easily baited into becoming emotional; women are easy to compromise. Their decisions are based on their current emotional state rather than the abstraction of logic. It's this proclivity to change so quickly which causes them to act inconsistently and in contradiction.

  • Women are machiavellian in nature, this means they are comparatively proficient at being manipulative versus the typical male. The evolutionary theoretical basis for this is due to smaller size and inferior musculature women had to learn to use men as tools rather than directly oppose them in a physical conflict (as they would undoubtedly lose in all but very few scenarios) this makes the pronunciation of their strength a propensity to be mentally rather than physically violent. Physical violence is outlawed whereas mental abuse is not, this allows women to get their way without being held accountable by a system of law. The law does not legislate interpersonal morality to this extent. Where a man's instinct is to hit, a woman's is to do a big shit in your mind instead.

  • Race does not matter if you are rich. A lot of you are small-minded and stuck on the superficial, white-black-arab-indian-asian whatever, you have a certain perception of the world based upon your culture, perhaps where you live the white man is god, but know all racial barriers are overcome by power, money is power, if you're a 5' asian with a 2 inch dick that girls laugh at a 7 digit bank balance is sure to offset that. Focus less on your race and more on your success, your insecurities will get you no where. The real segregation is between rich and poor and that is even more true when it comes down to women, never forget that. Rich vs. poor is the only thing that matters in this world, white vs black, west coast vs east coast, all these other "beefs" are a minor, they are all symptoms of wealth inequality, the bottom line is wealth. Rich vs poor motherfuckers.

  • Women are hypergamous they feel entitled to a superior mate. You have to be richer than her or at least equally rich, more educated than her or at least equally educated. You need to be better looking than her or at least equal looking, you need to be more popular than she is or at least equally popular. You can offset one area (LMS - looks, money, status) with another, but if you're lower in at least 2 areas just forget it.

  • Buying into the last point, this is why 20% of guys are fucking 80% of the chicks, women date up, men date down and yes this has created rising social inequality since women entered the professions

  • If a woman thinks she is better than you she can't respect you, if she can't respect you she can't love you. Women love men differently to the way men love women. Woman's love is based on adoration, adoration is a concentrated amount of respect. Respect is derived from power. Be powerful if you want to be loved, or you will never be loved. You will be held in contempt for being weak.

  • Women rely on men to be emotionally stoic, we often call this "holding frame" you have to be mentally strong so she can lean on you, she finds that attractive. You cannot lean on her, there is a double standard, if you lean on her the relationship will fall apart, she will not be able to handle your problems and she will no longer find you attractive. You are a man. You have to be better than her, which means to be stronger than she is. This is why women get to be emotional and we have to be unreactive, we are strong and ignore our emotions so they can indulge in their emotions and enjoy the ride. They find it far more difficult to be logical than we do and thus it is our burden to be the reasonable ones.

  • Always set boundaries, with everyone. Do not be a pushover. This is probably the most important bulletpoint here.

  • Buying into the last point women have little sympathy for weak men, despite the fairer sex bullshit you may be accustomed to hearing a man is far more likely to assist a weak man financially or emotionally than a woman is.

  • Women are more selfish than men are in matters of money and love. Man's love is expected to be sacrificial, woman's isn't.

  • Women love pragmatically and have no capacity to love unconditionally for romantic partners, only their children. Men can love women unconditionally. There is a hierarchy of love: Men > Women > Children.

  • Women have a pronounced gender group bias which means they typically de facto side with other women in a conflict regardless of logic or argument, women are herd like and stick together closely, they form cartels and use the power of the group to hen peck/destroy enemies.

  • Women have a sexual plurality, if you are a nice guy with money you are husband material that can nail her after 12 dates and she's had so many glasses of wine she forgets how on a primal level you're not that attractive, just cute. If you are an asshole with nice muscles you're the guy who gets to nail her after 2 hours of meeting. We call this sexual plurality in rather rhythmic slang: "alpha fucks, beta bucks"

  • Women do not care about male weakness and neither does society, if you are weak, depressed, small, poor, uneducated, unconfident, not powerful then nobody cares. People only care about you when you're powerful or a pretty woman. You have to pull yourself up by the bootstraps because nobody gives a fuck about you. Society will always have a safety net for women, white knights will charge in, the state will provide and etc, as a man you have no such luxury, your propensity and ability to gain power is much higher than a woman's but your ability to hit rock bottom is far more pronounced too. As men we are more extreme than women. Women are typically average and don't move much either side of the bell curve, as men we are either highly successful geniuses of repute that feminists can but scoff and be jealous of, the posterboys for their esteemed patriarchy, or the ignored voiceless poverty stricken peasant class that nobody gives a flying fuck about.

  • The law prioritises female safety and well-being over logic, honour and justice. Family law has been corrupted and is now controlled by feminist ideological dogma. The constitutions equitable maxims are rewritten by modern statutes, Rollo Tomassi of Rational Male did a very relevant article on this topic here:

  • Western females (typically anglosphere and western/northern Europe) are self-entitled and come from a psychological position of thinking they're better than you are. They believe that shit despite their numerous insecurities because they have been raised to view men as instruments for their desires, they have been told they must be impressed,that a man must wine and dine her and ultimately the onus is on him to win her heart, she will obsess over her relationship status frantically and doll herself up but ultimately her part is entirely passive. She comes from a position of superiority and illogically believes she is superior to all but the most high value of men. Part of the red pill is realising her capacity for brilliance is lower than yours, which brings me on to the next point.

  • Women need men more than men need women. Men generally want sex and perhaps a family so they have a genetic lineage to leave their worldly goods and knowledge to once they die (so they may live on through their offspring) however women need men for their logical minds and stoic consistency, to make her emotionally stabilised "being the rock in her storm", and also need a partner just to "feel complete." Just look at single mother households and all the older women who are single, they are miserable. These women NEED a man to be happy, men DO NOT need women to be happy, men need SEX to be happy. A bachelor is a not an unhappy guy, a bachelorette is.

  • Women are depreciating assets, their major asset and unique selling point is their sexual beauty and fertility. Most of them squander their best years on "riding the cock carousel" which means fucking lots of different guys in nightclubs, having flings, being generally irresponsible and riding through life on easy mode getting ahead for no real talent, but because she's pretty and can give head. Women are born, their ability to conceive children is what makes them women.

  • Men are not born they are created. Poverty, difficulty, heartache, oppression, pain - these are the things that make men out of boys. This is why you came to TRP. This is why boys come back from the military as men. Conflict and pain is what forges the masculine mindset, men cannot grow without conflict and learning from their mistakes, men need to apply their logical minds to problems which arise, elevate, and transcend their previous selves to become more powerful. Men are never born, they are always bred in the bloody fields of battle and war be it economic, mental or physical. A man is a soldier of differing kinds, a man has learnt to repress his fear so he may overcome and achieve.

  • Men take more risks than women and are expected to do so, being fearful, unconfident and risk averse as a man leads to failure. You must be confrontational and risk-taking.

  • Single mothers [typically] breed boys not men (without outside intervention.) Boys do little except play xbox and eat pizza with no direction in life, they have little luck with girls and end up drinking themselves to dead smoking pot in their 40s. There's more women in education than men now. Think about that shit for a second. The system has been set up against you, pull yourself up by the bootstraps.

  • The red pill is about pragmatism and truth based on observation, it is not idealistic, in some ways you can say it is liberal - but it is not liberal in the idealistic pseudo academic sense your institutions have taught you to perceive it as. Liberalism has become corrupted. Liberals today censor and silence opposing opinions, I'm not talking about political parties I'm talking about ideologically left leaning people, their thoughts and ideas are based in idealism not directly measurable truth, liberalism has become the religion to pragmatisms science.

  • Social market value is everything, something a low value man says which is "creepy" when said by a high value man is "flirty" or "sexy." Always be focusing on your physical appearance and make it the best that you can, this will make your life easier in all areas, not just sexually but financially too as caused by a phenomenon explored known as the halo effect

  • Your value is everything you should always be improving yourself, if you're not then you cannot compete in the world and your life will be miserable, anesthetized by nothing but the introversion of the four walls you reside in kept docile by xbox, porn, pizza and some online friends. Break free of the mediocrity.

  • Your diet and exercise place a certain handicap on your ability to utilise your potential. The obese and those who eat poorly (but aren't necessarily fat) are typically low energy and thus waste a lot of time unproductively as they are not in the right mental state to get anything done. You need to take care of your body so then your body will allow your mind to implement it's will onto the world. You must be physically active so that you can mentally put your plans into action. Procrastination is the slow acting poison of one who lives a sedentary lifestyle. Physically active people make things happen in other areas of their life too. Exercise is invigorating. Stop putting it off. Do it.

  • Your body is the temple that houses your mind, following on from the previous point higher testosterone will help you increase your abilities and leave you feeling more energetic - lift, it will give you a rush of energy like nothing else and further increase your T creating a positive feedback cycle. Jog/do cardio - a runners high again is like a drug, you will feel awesome after a jog, your anxiety goes right down and your confidence rises. Keep it up and the effects stack and become part of your personality.

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[–]PolegarVermelho 111 points111 points [recovered]

This is side bar material. Thanks, IllimitableMan.

From the Halo Effect wikipedia link:

Kaplan’s 1978 study yielded much of the same results as are seen in other studies focusing on the halo effect—attractive individuals were rated high in qualities such as creativity, intelligence, and sensitivity than unattractive individuals. However, in addition to these results Kaplan found that women were influenced by the halo effect on attractiveness only when presented with members of the opposite sex. When presented with an attractive member of the same sex, women actually tended to rate the individual lower on socially desirable qualities.[23] Dermer and Thiel continue this line of research, going on to demonstrate that jealousy of an attractive individual could be a major factor in evaluation of that person. Their work shows this to be more prevalent among females than males, with females describing physically attractive women as having socially undesirable traits.

[–]Endorsed ContributorWe_Are_Legion 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Their work shows this to be more prevalent among females than males, with females describing physically attractive women as having socially undesirable traits.

Honestly, I find the more attractive a person is, the general trend is their personality suffers. I'd say this is just a case of women knowing women.

[–]10pack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's only logical. Looking pretty is work.

[–]FEMINAZISCUM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Their work shows this to be more prevalent among females than males, with females describing physically attractive women as having socially undesirable traits.

This comes down to sexual competition as men value looks more than women do when it comes to sexual partners

[–]AllYouCanEatRedPills 44 points45 points  (32 children)

There's more women in education than men now. Think about that shit for a second. The system has been set up against you, pull yourself up by the bootstraps.

So many of our generation would have benefited from understanding this 10 years ago.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 39 points40 points  (31 children)

Yeah, I went to university but a few years later as I didn't know this shit when I was younger. I was pretty unfocused and unmotivated in my teenage years. I had to struggle and scrape to get where I am, university didn't fall into my lap via a feminised curriculum and affirmative action for the protected class (white women.)

The other smart red pill guys I know in my life (red pill because they keep it real, none of them visit this subreddit) none of them are at university. All of them HATED the classroom environment despite all LOVING to learn and acquire knowledge, they couldn't practice the patience and detachedness and tolerance for unfairness in the educational environment like I can and they did not like the hierarchy, prevalence of female teachers and all kinds of things. They felt like they couldn't reach their potential in education, so they dropped out as they felt education "wasn't for them" and it's not really is it? Education is a fucking gynocracy nowadays. I know these guys are indicative of a subset of the population, none of these guys know each other, we're not a joint social group and yet they all demonstrate similar issues and aversions with the system, sure it's an anecdote but you can cross reference this with guys all over the internet, I'm sure.

They're all really smart guys who, if educated, would blow the average bitch/nerdy beta boy I saw at uni straight out of the water, these are some seriously wise motherfuckers with potential but due to the toxic nature of the social environment they're subjected to in education they simply want nothing to do with that noise and rather work as soon as possible to get their independence, earning enough money to set up their own start-ups rather than "tolerate the system" by being self-made men. I notice the trend, they want nothing to do with the system, they all opt to be self-made, I see that shit with red pill guys all the time, whereas bluepill guys are happy to go do a computer science degree or social science and get talked to like they have no balls day in and day out.

The education system is completely blue pill but the higher up the ladder you go the more truly wise people you meet. University is a very blue pill institution but you will meet some fucking smart motherfuckers there who like you, see through all the bullshit. Blend in, network and get your grades, its training for when you're in the bluepill corporate world until you reach such a time you can self-sustain off independent enterprise/business efforts should you be that way inclined.

[–]AllYouCanEatRedPills 18 points19 points  (3 children)

They're all really smart guys who, if educated, would blow the average bitch/nerdy beta boy I see at uni straight out of the water, these are some seriously wise motherfuckers with potential but due to the toxic nature of the social environment they simply want nothing to do with that and rather work, earn money and set up their own start-ups rather than "tolerate the system."

Let's call them "The Exiles."

I'm one of them.

[–]Ahabh 4 points5 points  (2 children)


[–]t21spectre 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Same here

[–]RockAndRaul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, me too. Can't stand school, I want to join the military, save my money and move to Alaska.

[–]AllYouCanEatRedPills 28 points29 points  (19 children)

its training for when you're in the bluepill corporate world until you reach such a time you can self-sustain off independent enterprise/business efforts should you be that way inclined.

I'm nearing the end of my bluepill corporate phase. Prepare yourself for workplace hags who won't stop bugging you until you date one of their friends.

Dating a female co-worker (or anyone with social connections to one) is a lose/lose scenario for a guy, and a win/win scenario for both women.

They'll lean on you for all kinds of shit, and you have nowhere to socially escape from their bullshit.

It's best to fake that you have a girlfriend, even if you don't. Women don't tolerate single men in their circles for any length of time.

[–]SgtBrutalisk 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Women don't tolerate single men in their circles for any length of time.

I was thinking about this as well, perhaps it's because it ruins their illusion that "men need us to be happy"?

[–]AllYouCanEatRedPills 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think this is an important part of it. I think women are genuinely terrified of the thought of men not needing them. To the point that they will lash out in anger at the source of their fear manifested in physical form.

Women are genuinely terrified of being single, so when they see you enjoying it it really pushes their buttons.

If you want to see a group of women turn into a bunch of miserable, insufferable harpies, tell them that you're single, loving life, and happier that way. They'll want you dead.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 12 points13 points  (14 children)

It's best to fake that you have a girlfriend, even if you don't. Women don't tolerate single men in their circles for any length of time.

That's good advice, I wonder why that is? Too much of a DLV? I would think if you're good looking and earning bucks it wouldn't really matter which is why it fascinates me that they act this way. It's like a single guy is a threat if he's not a provider to them in some way or something. Fucked up, something I don't understand.

[–]AllYouCanEatRedPills 23 points24 points  (7 children)

I think it's something women aren't really consciously aware of, or even admit to themselves. They have a subconscious assumption that you just need them, and that they're doing you a favor. It doesn't occur to them that you might be happier without them.

If you were a farmer, struggling to make ends meet, and one day you found a horse on the road, with no owner, you'd take it back to your farm and put it to work. You'd probably think, "Hey, the horse needs a home, and my field needs plowing."

I think this is the essence of how women look at single men. To them, you're a horse on the road without a field to plow, and they're doing you a favor by putting you to work.

In other words, they view men, categorically, as female property.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (5 children)

They under no circumstances want to hear that a man doesn't really care if he has a girlfriend or not. When I've been single women are always trying to bait me into saying how unhappy or ill franchised I am with the situation, they want me to say "Oh, I wish I could find the one". But no, because I genuinely don't feel that way.

I don't know if its just an age thing but the single version of myself is actually a better version of myself. I don't look at those in relationships with admiration I look at them kind of with a sense of pity, or whatever the term for viewing someone who is losing their self respect.

They really do not want to hear that you want to be single. If you even think of mentioning this they will make it their mission to take you down a few notches.

[–]AllYouCanEatRedPills 20 points21 points  (4 children)

Women loathe being single, so seeing you enjoy it really pushes their buttons.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (3 children)

I have noticed this. Being single is not an option for most women, they'll do basically anything to avoid it. Thats what they have their guy friends or the even less reliable guy that might hit on them but has never gotten their phone number but she has him on hold when she breaks up friends for.

I really do think women consciously plan even in happy relationships for the day it may end. They have guys lined up so they never have to spend more than 2 days alone. Ive never had a girlfriend that hasn't been with another guy within 2 weeks of separation. Which is why I never understand guys calling their exs trying to get them back, buddy, she's already 'moved on'.

But I'll never understand why they do this? What is so bad about being single? I get to focus on work, sleep and my own interests. It either says something about me, or the relationships I get in that whenever they end after the initial pain dies down i'm usually far far happier.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 11 points12 points  (1 child)

It is not mystery. Women get MANY more advantages from a relationship than men. OF COURSE the default mode is to snag another workhorse for the sisterhood.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its true. Relationships not only provide them with emotional support but usually financial support.

When a male wants to be single its because he wants to save money

[–]SgtBrutalisk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Women instinctively want to be taken care of, so to speak. So maybe, a relationship provides them with that fuzzy, indistinct feeling of "yay, I'm taken care of"? I mean, when I read female subreddits on Christmas, New Year's Eve or Valentine's day, it's a Niagara of tears. When will you see men posting like that, outside of "forever alone.jpg" (which is a unisex meme)?