MetaMy naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl. (self.TheRedPill)

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[–]Tie5o11 909 points910 points  (47 children)

Wait- you banged a hot girl, knocked a dude out, and got paid a years salary as 'consolation'? Sounds like you were the big winner here lol

[–]No1Buck 333 points334 points  (20 children)

Yeah what's the bad part of this story? Haha.

American version: guy fucks landwhale coworker, gets shot by angry husband, wakes up unemployed with huge medical bills and handcuffed to hospital bed because of sexual assault charges.

[–]JuicySosa300 108 points109 points  (19 children)

Lmao foreigners don't know how lucky they are sometimes

[–][deleted] 67 points68 points  (4 children)

Or Americans don't know how shitty they are sometimes.

[–]toweringalpha 34 points35 points  (1 child)

Our Shittiness is so awesome, its the best in the world. Proud to be an American. #Murica

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

As opposed to what exactly? I mean one thing can get said, 99% of the most extreme violence, and even broad day violence, on gore sites doesn't come out of America. Not to say it's not a violent country, but people who call America shitty sometimes seem to think all of humanity's shit just doesn't stink. It's absolutely better in some other countries, but it's absolutely worse in some too.

[–]Didiathon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty damn easy to avoid violence in the US where it exists, too, it’s just not politically correct to do so.

[–]OceanPoultry 6 points7 points  (6 children)

Girls are desireable in this country just bc they arent fat. Its so unfair. I feel like id do better abroad, despite my flaws. I refuse to fuck fat chicks.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (2 children)

This x1000. America is a trap, a complete illusion. The reality is not what people fill their heads with about what "America" is. You get 5-30 sentences for the craziest things here, and you lose jobs for the most complete nonsense here. Your life gets ruined, and the government tells you that even if you aren't imprisoned, you still have to devote your life to paying them, whether it's just through taxes, or through fines, fees, and all the other constant BS.


[–]Lib3rtarianSocialist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The country is owned by the liberal/capitalist elite.

[–]ForYourSorrows 127 points128 points  (6 children)

This is a new fantasy of mine that I didn’t even know I had lol wtf. It’s like what people would ask to experience when “immersive VR” becomes a thing.

  1. Fuck hot chick
  2. knockout big angry buff dude that starts a fight w you in front of a crowd
  3. get paid 13months wages plus extra

Wtf it’s like a magic genie wish

[–]Saberinbed 68 points69 points  (5 children)

Its almost like this story can be made up

[–]ForYourSorrows 26 points27 points  (1 child)

Makes no difference to me if it’s true or false. At worst it’s unintentional comedy.

[–]Saberinbed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Most of the time the only real ones are the field reports that end in some rejections. Obviously there are the easy lay chicks out there, but 99% of them are probably made up. All i’m here for is the principle of TRP. Don’t care bout some neckbeards made up ero fantasy.

[–]Nootrophic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And by a trolling female 3rd gen feminist, no less

[–]1GroundhogLiberator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really think someone would do that, Arthur? Just go on theredpill and tell lies?

[–]cpk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like a bad American Beauty sequel.

[–]steffbenji 26 points27 points  (5 children)

Well when you put it that way it looks like a win. Still, it's been only a couple of days and I didn't get in touch with my co-workers except the woman who told me what she heard from HR about the situation. She also said that I have been the subject of talks in the lunchroom and it's far from being positive. I guess reputation is going down for a while.

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (2 children)

Good way to practice IDGAF mindset with people that used to be your friends. I was in a situation of gaining a negative reputation with a group of friends but she's a woman so no matter what you do unless you have some loyal friends they are always going to side with her - way she goes.

[–]destraht 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot that that but I think that they also just side with who is around more. I travel a lot and I've learned that with certain crowds that when I return I have to let everyone do the entire wolf pack butt sniffing thing, every time. She is still around the tribe and he is gone. He is now an external enemy image and not just a local who transgressed. If he was still around then they would have to make peace with him but since he isn't then they can form bonds over agreeing on a particular strong idea. For this lower tier tribal thinking it doesn't matter what they believe in, only that they feel strongly about it.

[–]furythree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like u have the chance to hook another one if they're talking about u positively. That would be epic

[–]trp_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, they might not be "talking positive" but all the chicks, inside they're dying to bone you. You can probably have sex with just about any chick you'd like over there.

[–]CoolyRanks 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Yeah, wtf. I was waiting for the moral of the story but I don't see the downside to any of this

[–]VertousOffical 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Always save your messages and nudes sent to you.

[–]RedHoodhandles 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah how about an SMV improving Sabatical while screening for the next job.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends on what industry he's in. If it's a close-knit one and news gets around that he KO'd some dude in the parking lot then it might make it impossible to get a job in the same field.

But all things considered he made out like a bandit with the situation in the parking lot.

[–]Treanwreck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I wanna quit my job. Actually gonna try this instead. Thanks for the advice OP!

[–]3n1g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on the type of work, word spreads.

One year salary isn't much when you get turned down from better jobs because when they ask for references, they give you the full story.

[–]super_gonorrhea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no he didn't. Because this story is clearly made up.

[–]alphabachelor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed unless he had a solid job.

No piece of ass is worth losing out on 40 years of that.

[–]PsyMonk- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I love about men. We tell stories perfectly, and we fucking get the gist of it even quicker. Hah. But seriously winner asf GG WP

[–]Meterus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What he actually wrote was:

It's gonna be lots of money and a friend of mine who is a lawyer advised me to take it.

So, he hasn't gotten the money yet. I hope he wins, though.

[–]banthrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait- you banged a hot girl, knocked a dude out, and got paid a years salary as 'consolation'? Sounds like you were the big winner here lol

He got fired, and he settled, now the girl has and admission of guilt and can sue her on a civil court and win.

[–]smokebowlington 162 points163 points  (4 children)

It's like the 13 months of severance is a treasure chest the big guy dropped when you KO'd him.

[–]Veretox 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. That sounds so good.

[–]Nitsujsith 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Lmaoo, it’s the reward you get for defeating the final boss.

[–]eccentricrealist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Level up, +5 seduction, +10 barter

[–]dontbethatguynow 1 points1 points [recovered]

big companies always settle you got a good deal.

[–]steffbenji 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I am lucky I got a work inspector who is on top of his game.

[–]IncognitoMaster91 39 points40 points  (4 children)

Thank you for sharing. I was tempted to shit where I eat but no more. You have cured my insanity. Thank you.

[–]JF0909 16 points17 points  (2 children)

It's just not worth the risk IMO. A while back, my friend was banging two different girls in his office and I told him he was playing with fire and getting laid isn't worth losing your career.

[–]Kensei91 147 points148 points  (7 children)

Lesson learned.

On the side though, Never think an iron rule of TRP is to be taken lightly.
The lessons we learn here are written on the tombstones of so many men.

[–]WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey 101 points102 points  (3 children)

Jesus tapdancing Christ! The only lesson that need to be taken from this is don't shit where you fucking eat! Even if you don't care about your job you might lose out on a future job you do want because you got fired for those reasons.

Literally billions of women in the world. How many are you missing out on taking your coworkers off the menu? This is, imo, anti abundance. Or just lazy. Ffs...

[–]Me_ADC_Me_SMASH 22 points23 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what I thought about when I read the title.

[–]Nootrophic 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Wrong. OP involuntarily left for us a much more important lesson. The bigger lesson here is Never break a rule you don't fully understand, as simple as they seem. Simple rules create an illusion that you intuitively know all of their obvious possible implications. Chances are you don't. Some simple rules have an absurb and countless amount of ways things can go bad when you break them.

Think about it. This "(meta) rule about rules" can have far more reaching effects on one's life than "Don't shit where you eat"... And it's all there but not spelled.

[–]WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bigger lesson here is Never break a rule you don't fully understand, as simple as they seem.

Honestly if you're going that direction you're headed towards never break any rule. Because it's not possible to know everything about anything. And that's before you take into account how situational understanding is.

Additionally, some rules are simple because the precepts behind them are also simple. And universal. Don't stick your fingers into a live electrical socket. Don't eat food with mold on it. Don't shit where you eat. They are simple because the exceptions (as of course there are always exceptions to any rule) to these rules are statistically insignificant, and if you think you're the exception you most likely not. So while I don't actually disagree with you conceptually, the meta rule leaves too much wiggle room for a population conditioned to justify anything they want as "this doesn't apply to me or my situation". "That's for other people". Etc. You would have to kill all hamsters everywhere for this to be broadly useful/applicable.

This one (this rule), to me, is a simple/cost benefit analysis. Best possible result vs the worst possible outcome. Is getting your dick buttered ever worth losing a job you like? Women are more than half the population. Jobs you like are not so common.

[–]Borsao66 29 points30 points  (1 child)

And written, in many cases, in their blood, sweat and tears.

[–]steffbenji 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are 100% right. My past experiences made me think I might get away with that one. Now I learned for good.

[–]tikitheman 41 points42 points  (1 child)

I recently learned this myself. It is not really the girl you have to worry about. It is the orbiters and white knights that surround her.

I was thinking about shitting where I eat a couple weeks ago until I noticed all of the other men and some woman around her that could make my life at work shitty. So many orbiters and white knights. Dudes started getting defensive and possesive when I would talk to her. Even though it was light push pull banter. Its just not worth all the fucking drama.

[–]Fun_Fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not really the girl you have to worry about. It is the orbiters and white knights that surround her.

That applies to everything. Women have never and will never have any real power. They are weak and have no ambition for power anyway. The people who will fuck you over and ruin your life for real are men. Women are often the reason that men will ruin your life, that is all.

[–]GuruDev1000 39 points40 points  (3 children)

All the comments are missing one interesting lesson.

The boyfriend was jacked. High in muscle. And his girlfriend still cheated on him with OP. And OP still got him on ground in a street fight. FRAME, possibly, and presence of mind.


[–]knightydk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It also explains that you don't have to be extremely jacked/huge to have a high smv

[–]gayqwertykeyboard 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Being jacked and having muscle is not the end all be all of smv.

[–]baldur6969 25 points26 points  (2 children)

Another story of a BF who also gets angry at the guy she cheated with, and not just the GF. Even in my BP days I would call out my ex-GF's bullshit behaviour, not get angry at other guys who were doing what any men would do around a pretty girl.

[–]1Jaereth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right? The guy goes to try and kick the ass of the guy she cheated with in her company parking lot. Not surprised he got rocked by the first punch...

[–]Sisu6972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once made out with a girl right in front of her boyfriend. Thought he was the gay best friend, I was wrong, I was quite thankful he got mad at her and not me. Especially because we were on top of a pool table at a bar, fighting and falling off that could have caused some serious injury.

[–]iLoveReddit32 14 points15 points  (9 children)

Sue the company and sue the bitch. This is defamation. Unbelievable. I feel as if us in the Redpill community should begin an escrow account to afford lawyers for our brothers that get put into these kind of situations.

[–]steffbenji 7 points8 points  (5 children)

Thanks for the advice. I answered this somewhere in this thread.

[–]111Dx 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Yeah but this should not be tolerated as an RPman. You should not settle with some money. Rather sue the company and defame it then they will pay you to withdraw the case.

[–]thisdyyd 5 points6 points  (2 children)

13 months of salary is solid compensation for the trouble. No need to risk it

[–]111Dx 1 points1 points [recovered]

What about the trouble you have to go through explaining when in next job asked; Why were u fired in last job. Bro money is not that important. Think of long term.

[–]yomo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lawyer here. Severance deals usually and in most countries include a very positive review for the terminated employee and are not bundled with burn notices.

[–]Nov51605 6 points7 points  (1 child)

great idea !! they would have to be ruthless jewish dudes with a proven track record

[–]MavetFreedomFighter 10 points11 points  (19 children)

13 months salary? u can chill for six months then start looking for a job LOL

nice win!

[–]steffbenji 10 points11 points  (17 children)

It's actually very close to that. I have a 5 year plan setup to leave this godforsaken country to study in europe. Hence the two jobs. I am saving money like never before. This saves me 1 year (2.5 remaining)

[–]frooschnate 2 points3 points  (2 children)

to study in europe

I don’t get it, thought you were German m8

[–]beginner_ 2 points3 points  (13 children)

Why Europe? Or what to you except is better there than were you are now? It doesn't sound you come from a complete 3rd world shithole if the whole HR worker thingy already exists.

[–]steffbenji 9 points10 points  (12 children)

I won't call it a shithole I love my country. Third world country still. Woman rights here are taken very seriously since the beginning of the 21 century. I'll give you an example: beat your wife equals jail time. Divorce your wife? She gets the house and gets a part of your money till she gets married. Companies are called upon to hire more woman regardless of competence and so on... Trust me I am lucky I have seen worse happen to MEN in my environment.

[–]Esk1mOz4mb1k 3 points4 points  (8 children)

In what part of the world do you leave if that's not too much to ask?

Also regarding the other comment below, I'm French and while yes there is some feminist bullshit here, the situation is better here than where you come from / in the US. At least for smart guys for took the pill.

[–]stnkevin 1 point2 points  (7 children)

Situation is going to get worse though, Schiappa is pushing hard to bring all the American societal bullshit (discussion with JCVD the other day is one example). I’m French, based in North Asia now, wouldn’t wanna move back to France for anything. A few weeks per year for holidays and I’m good.

[–]Lib3rtarianSocialist 0 points1 point  (6 children)

North Asia is a seldom used term. If you don't mind me asking, do you mean Russia or Kazakhstan or Mongolia or what?

[–]stnkevin 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Japan — the countries you mentioned are more part of “Central Asia” I believe

[–]Lib3rtarianSocialist 0 points1 point  (4 children)

I haven't ever seen Japan being considered North Asia that's why. Yes, Kazakhstan and to an extent, Mongolia are called Central Asian.

[–]stnkevin 1 points1 points [recovered]

I see. I work in a pretty big business and it’s common practice across our industry to call Japan, Korea and some parts of China North Asia.

[–]beginner_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course you are lucky. Hence my point why you would want to go to Europe / the west? Don't expect a warm welcome and lots of feminist BS.

[–][deleted] 73 points74 points  (11 children)

You should definitely sue. These whores need to learn they can't just call rape

[–]steffbenji 17 points18 points  (4 children)

I see your point. Although this made me so angry and I am still to get the reputation repercussions from lots of co-workers, the work inspector said that suing her would result to nothing more than a termination which she is might be getting if the settlement is finalized. She didn't commit a crime by going to HR. Had she gone to the police that would make a solid case.

[–]Nergaal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Suing might not be worth it. But spreading the gossip that that girl was riding you for X months and not told you about a BF would at least put her in a bad spotlight. But then again, what's the point?

[–]pincevince 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Civil case for defamation or slander?

By the way what country?

[–]bumblebee_lol 1 points1 points [recovered]

In this case I think its better to let it go and enjoy that money.

[–]TheCeilingisGreen 13 points14 points  (3 children)

Nah. Sue. She went out of her way to ruin his career. He can't get that back.

[–]VladvonK 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sue her for lying to hr which got you fired. Do it please.

[–]bumblebee_lol 1 points1 points [recovered]

As much as I would agree, just to fuck with her and the company, its not worth his time and money honestly. He'd have to waste so much time and money just so the company can get a slap on the wrist. It's not worth it in my opinion.

[–]VertousOffical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also suing has the potential to throw the favor back into her hands for a slim to possible chance of her winning.

[–]Nov51605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not good for future employment. companies will tip the next company off of a litigious employee

[–]Afrofreak1 1 points1 points [recovered]

I'm just going to lay this out there: what on earth do girls (can't call them women because they're not) like this think when they go playing the victim card to HR? Who are they trying to fool? If the evidence is there and so blatant wtf do they think is going to happen?

[–]AceroInoxidable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, it worked well for her: he got fired and everybody thinks she's the victim and he was a creepy abuser.

[–]EricAKAPode 4 points5 points  (2 children)

You think evidence matters. Judges White Knight too.

[–]gixxerthouguy 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I don't think he pulled the evidence. He should have though. Shown it to 3 HR, then to a lot of staff. They would have had to call the girl out, once the truth was out.

[–]EricAKAPode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point, inside the company public opinion matters and they have to preserve the appearance of caring about facts. Judges can just do as they damn well please.

[–]steffbenji 4 points5 points  (4 children)

Nobody wanted to listen to me. All I heard was you did this and this is what happens now fuck off.

[–]Afrofreak1 1 points1 points [recovered]

Definitely on my top 5 hardest pills to swallow. Utterly gut-wrenching to be discredited based solely of off your gender.

[–]Pestilence1911 5 points6 points  (2 children)

I learned it young. Got beat up by two girls and then got suspended for "hitting them."

I didnt fight back, and i was clearly beaten, got suspended and then the shit kicked out of me when i got home. A woman with tears in her eyes will always be believed over a man telling the truth,

[–]SuperDende9000 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Should’ve fought back mate — it’s a shame BP society says “boys cant hit girls no matter what.” Hell, as a guy you would’ve gained the upper hand and possibly got them to run away, letting you flee the scene and create an alibi for when they report you. But I assume you got caught getting beat up, which of course spells doom. I think we both now know, however, how to handle bitches who get caught red-handed and try to blame-shift. And that’s all that matters

[–]Pestilence1911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 7, and when i was 13 i got X degree burns and was in a burn cast and had to get my bandages changed every two days, i was in a theater class with one of those two girls. Guess who comes up and slaps me on the back as hard as they can.

That woman was pure evil. Worst pain ive ever felt in my life so far....ugh

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because they are basically kangaroo courts. Also I don't have the exact demographics but I'd venture to guess that over 70% of corporate HR workers are female, and in a situation like OP's they are always going to side with the girl. There's also basically no repercussions if they're caught as well as they can pretty easily get another job because of diversity hiring so there ya go.

So yeah there's also basi

[–]Kayyam 24 points25 points  (1 child)

Fucking sue her, ask your friend to help.

[–]steffbenji 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I answered this question somewhere in this thread.

[–]swipedstripes 16 points17 points  (3 children)

I too have been in this situation, I was lucky the job I had was just a side job next to my ongoing university level education. But I was also let go because of sexual harassment claims. This was before knowing about the red pill. I was plating a lot of women at work and the attention I was getting was insane. Well one chick didn't like not being first place when another female beat her for my attention and just filed sexual harassment.

Of course I could've avoided this altogether by not shitting where I worked and by trying to have true abundance. But I liked to play with fire while working a low pay job. In retrospect this made for a good lesson, as the job was shit anyway. And after learning about the red pill I've adjusted a lot of risky behavior while at work.

Chicks are fickle and will get jealous if you play with them, while you're not even thinking about them because of true abundance. She'll do something pity and try to ruin your life where she can. The other way around: No sane normal guy will try to destroy a females life if he gets next'd we just move on unto the next target.

[–]blister333 11 points12 points  (2 children)

Not true about the last part. There are some serious betas out there will who physically harm a chick over a rejection. Some kid in ct stabbed a girl to death when she turned him down for prom

[–]swipedstripes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I said sane normal guy. A man in his normal state wouldn't do that. An indoctrinated man will. I've been on the other end too.

I was 16 and some hot 20 year old chick that gave me sex told me she got raped by her ex boyfriend. I was ready to kill that motherf*cker, I wasn't a nice kid so that could've ended in a drama for him, her and me. Was I a stable man?

Nah, I was a naive kid with an anger problem and one of the first "real" woman I've been with was crying on my lap telling me a rape story.

The said chick dropped me two weeks later because I "wouldn't fuck her". Damn right I would've I was a 16 year old boy. But I tried to be there for her lmao. Cringe when looking back at it.

Disney lies and White knighting create Beta's those are not normal and sane men though.

[–]Pestilence1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Melvin skeete" from nova scotia stabbed his girlfriend like 100 times for cheating on him.

The beta was strong in that....distrubed child.

[–]xxWildbeast13xx 20 points21 points  (1 child)

Your English is actually pretty good!

[–]francisco_DANKonia 3 points4 points  (4 children)

Man, I wish I lived in a country that would award me 13 months salary if BS like this happened

[–]steffbenji 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Trust me you don't want to live here especially if you are coming from a 1st world country. As much as I love this country for making me who I am and am grateful, I am gonna immigtate in a couple of years.

[–]juju515 6 points7 points  (2 children)

where are you from dude?

why "this country" and "my country" all the time? Just say where are you from...

[–]ghjklzxcv123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prolly it is Turkey. I was born there and all things op says sounds very similar.

[–]Newbosterone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've read interviews with CEOs and bigwigs, like Jack Welch and Colin Powell, that ask them what books they read. The list always includes biographies. When the interviewer asked Jack Welch why, he said "It's better to learn from someone else's mistakes then to make them yourself!".

[–]Praeda18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading once you broke the don’t shit where you eat rule, then justified your reason for doing so which set the stage for you getting shit-canned and losing your well paying job.

NEVER D.E.E.R and dont fuck with women (or anyone you work with) in the workplace. And the worst part is people in this thread validating your poor choices because you thought with your little head, at work no less, with ”At least you got some dosh and puss out of it bro haha!”

Always fly under the radar at work, especially if you are not self-employed. You do not control the flow of money, your boss does. Now you’ll possibly have an asterisk next to your name on your employment record for being put in the sin bin due to harassment. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

[–]StrykerGuy90 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As you already know, fucking around at work is always a bad idea. Apart from thay fuckup, it sounds like you handled yourself pretty well; it's just one of those things out of your control.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I pick the 3rd option, a settlement of 13 months of salary + compensations

I am now making a list of people I would punch at my company for 13 months of severance. /lulz

More seriously, if you don’t care if you get fired, fine, but this is why TRP advises: don’t shit where you eat.

[–]w1nter_sky 20 points21 points  (1 child)

And yet people still can't understand why some men choose to go MGTOW.

Good luck OP.

[–]helaughsinhidden 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Take the money and run! I doubt she has money to gain from a lawsuit and you could spend your $$ and lose the case.

[–]steffbenji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly I just hope the settlement goes through.

[–]BuddhistSC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last paragraph made me SO HAPPY. Most of these stories end in people having not sought legal counsel.

[–]dickinlipss 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Did you train in fighting? You seemed pretty confident to take out the dude?

[–]steffbenji 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am more of a fight avoider but when I had to fight in the past I did. My father, as caring as he was providing for my siblings and I, he hadn't spared the effort to discipline me with punches and kicks. I can take a beating as long as I keep my head protected.

My trick is to aim for the side of the head, temples if you can. If the opponent is protecting aim for the body as to make them lower their guard. Stomach and ribs are a good target. But just don't get even one punch in the head, if you do that you are good to go.

[–]zentai- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant wait to shit where i eat. Will keep you guys updated if shit hits the fan.

[–]jalexrg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you get the settlement from the company and sue the girl and not the company? If you took the settlement will your career and reputation be jeopardized? This is a very interesting case.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp lesson learned. Don't shit where you eat. In another timeline this guy could be an MMA fighter and then you're going to the hospital.

All things considered you made out well. In terms of money and in a valuable lesson.

[–]surfsusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a saying here. "Winner Winner Chicken Dinner"

[–]Boeijen666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude, you've already come out good in this - this is almost word for word what happened to me a year ago. My fiance cheated with 2 guys while I worked away paying for our house, kids etc. I koed one and the other ran from her and never came back. I fucked one of her smoking besties AND the innocent girlfriend of the 1st guy after she found out her bf was with my fiance. To get back at me, my fiance then lied to police about domestic violence and had me thrown in jail for a couple nights. I went to court, proved she lied and her family disowned her and now side with me in situations of family court and child protection. She ended up with hepatitis C from cheating.

The last thing I made her understand was this. My dick doesn't fuck trash. I have high-standard dick. It gets beautiful, respectable women. The day her pussy touched the peckers of those two drug-dealing low-lives was the day she lost all access to me. I rejected her hard when she tried to entertain the idea. I made sure she knew that what she did put her beneath me.

[–]kyzen142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucked a hottie, knocked someone out, and got a year worth of salary without working for it sounds like a pretty good deal to me lmao.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t even interact with women at work if possible. Better yet don’t hire them.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I am familiar with the expression don't shit where you eat

Not familiar enough it seems.... lesson learned.

It's going to cost me some money to hire lawyers for that so I pick the 3rd option, a settlement of 13 months of salary + compensations. It's gonna be lots of money and a friend of mine who is a lawyer advised me to take it.

This is a fantastic deal, you should take it and just get on with your life. The courts won't side with you in a harassment case.

[–]qx4758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You stuck your dick in crazy and reaped the whirlwind.

[–]volcanolairbadguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

School boy error. Don't do pickup at work if your game is wack. Edit: glad it worked out.

A black YouTuber I follow mentions video taping sex. Its brilliant and a must in case women lie thirty years from now. Archive text, nudes, vids, etc.

[–]1ozaku7 1 point2 points  (4 children)

These are the kind of chicks that want to have their cake and eat it too, but when everything goes to shit they resort to any tactic that damages her environment as long as to protect herself.

These kind of chicks are sociopaths. AWALT applies here in the form of a gradient, from small lies to absurf lies like false rape accusations. It's good you have evidence, whether rightfully obtained according to court or not, the jury cannot dismiss the fact that your conversations imply something completely different than she is saying at hindsight.

So, where there any red flags in her behaviour or emotional state before you fucked her that could have warned you? Usually this happens with the emotionally impulsive crazy chicks, because of which are good at fucking you, but also at fucking you in all the wrong ways you don't want to be fucked.

[–]steffbenji 2 points3 points  (3 children)

First of all the court system in my country doesn't work the same way as the US. So there is no jury only a Judge. Also evidence can be taken by any means possible. The problem is having sex out of wedlock is avainst the law (although widely practiced) so I must not presen such evidence for my own safety (prosecutor might come after me too).

No red flags whatsoever. Complete sweetheart. When I ask her to hang out she is always available and she had a good social circle and interesting hobbies too. Kinda makes you forget awalt for a while

[–]1ozaku7 2 points3 points  (2 children)

So what country are we talking about where you need to be married in order to have legally sex???

[–]juju515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling he's from India... although I don't know why all the secrecy about the name of the country...

[–]conflagratorX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From his post history I can tell he is from Morocco.

[–]ScottTheEngineer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR my take:

"Got involved with her hypergamy scheme" = you two dated, she's non monogamous, and it ended badly.

Unless you have your assets locked away in a trust pre-relationship, the modern western woman WILL try to rob your ass blind.

Tactics include, dating, marriage, and creating a brood.

Proceed with extreme caution at all times, and remember to have fun too!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the level of stupid you put into this the settlement on the back end is a gift from the universe.

[–]TallSwaggOVO 0 points1 point  (1 child)

So you fucked her, knocked out her bf, and collected a check afterwards? Sounds like a W in that aspect.

However, I don’t know your reputation standings with the people at the job, so I understand why people wouldn’t say it’s completely good. You have all the evidence to expose that you did nothing illegal or wrong. Would reporting her to the police mess up the settlement? Would exposing some of the text mess up the settlement? (Seriously, would it? Idk I’m asking.)

If I were you, I’d just keep quiet and keep collecting the check. Only expose the info to someone that directly asks you about the situation, so that they’ll know what actually happened.

[–]steffbenji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my reputation is a mystery to me right now and I don't think it looks good. Me reporting her to the police wouldn't work in this case because she went to HR (she has the "right" to do that). It's HR who infringed the law by not calling the police first.

Settlement is being negociated It will take a couple of days though to be finalized.

[–]somedudefromerlange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love this subreddit. Luck was on your side , man

[–]1RationalDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As OP himself mentioned, and several other on the comments " Never shit where you eat". But that said, is there a "Guide" on how to avoid sexual harassment cases at workplace/outside work?

I mention that because I see a quite common scenario amongst men, where women would resort to fake sexual harassment claims. OP in this case "took a dump where he eats", but I know a case with a friend of mine who got accused of sexual harassment from a female collague he wasn't even giving attention. They were both competing for a promotion, and after a christmas party where he made some funny remarks, she just used that to get an edge to get that promotion. Now she is promoted, and he was let go.

I hope this issue with false sexual harassment at workplace gets covered a lot in here because it's quite common out in the workforce.

[–]1Mr_Badass 0 points1 point  (1 child)

A settlement of 13 months of salary + compensations is a great deal and I'm glad you took it. I bet that the boyfriend found out about you accidentally and the girl told him some story about you harassing her. Then to continue her false story she had to file harassment to keep the boyfriend happy.

[–]steffbenji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's probably what happened. I am also surprised that it took 7 months and I didn't even know she had a LTR.

[–]Tarnished_King 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real lesson here is don't be like that other guy. Attack some other guy based on some BS your girl told you about this guy at work then attack him there.

Always wondered when we will see both ends of a story on this sub...

[–]tomega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at this as at 13 month of paid holiday. This is actually a huge win. A lot of the shit they try to hamster is plainly illegal.

[–]Ojrsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got laid and paid. This isn't really meta.

[–]yummyluckycharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm going to be an outlier, but I think what happened was a horrible outcome for the OP.

To put things in perspective, what if the job he had was akin to a public sector job in the West. The one that has high pay, and more importantly, a defined pension. Even though he might get a reference letter that is not negative, many public sector HR depts keep black lists, and now his name is on it, and he'll never get a PS job again.

[–]tfregs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, this is a crazy story, You're definitely the big winner here.

[–]kobe2469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha congrats bro you finessed the system

[–]AJ_Ak47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother it sucks what happened to you, but duuuuuude you came out on top. Fuck that bitch. I'd exposed the shit out of her.

[–]WholesomeAwesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job making those bitches pay.

Sorry to the accidental shareholders who aren't complete manginas

[–]JWawryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you truly believe in justice then you should sue.

[–]ZeroMasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you freaking came out on top. I was pissed, but in the end I feel like karma took care of you.

Hopefully jacked dude finds some inner peace and ditches the hoe.

[–]boom_bostic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful story. You deserve to have a statue of yourself built here in the manosphere.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Now I am familiar with the expression don't shit where you eat"

Now you understand why. It never ends good, one of you will end of leaving the company somehow.

[–]Philzy610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no don't settle, start a gofundme for the legal fees and post it here and spread this story far and wide. She started a war with you.

[–]JameisBong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved the ending....but even in my bluest,beta-est days I never stuck my dick in coworkers.It rarely ends well.Just my opinion OP,you can do whatever floats your boat.

[–]generic_white 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. Good luck with that case man.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a settlement of 13 months of salary + compensations.

Don't blow it on booze and dancing girls. Start a side company while you look for another job!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fail to see how you fucked up.

ummmmm pat on the back and give new flair - Bragging!

[–]ahab_dies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tempting because when you're bored at work a qt1.34 is very very tempting but just don't. It's not worth it.

Focus on doing the best job you can. Always. That goes for minimum wage jobs too. You learn a lot of discipline and pride in giving your best shot even at what seems like meaningless shitty jobs.

[–]econquest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in this story how did the jacked guy find out about OP? (to the point of identifying him in his workplace parking lot.)

[–]conflagratorX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 hours of work per day and 'only' has time for a gym? Knockout big dude who thinks he harassed his girlfriend and then shakes his hand? 13 months salary for sexual harassment? Seriously if they wanted to fire him they can do this without problem as he cannot go to police because sex outside marriage is illegal in his country. Sounds like some neckbeard fantasy. I think is more AMALT story than AWALT. BTW basing on his post history he is from Morocco.

That's why I stopped reading FR on TRP and read this one only because it was placed in meta.

[–]TheLanternFlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP best man of the story so far.

[–]i4mn30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many posts here are now becoming drama filled stories.. TRP is becoming the dumping ground for many a failed writingprompt outcasts I think.

[–]banthrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing can protect you from a girl hamster. My ltr dumped me (attraction faded, tried dread and she ended up fucking another guy) so I went no contact. She's telling everybody that I harass her, calling her anonymously all the time, and calling at her work. Obviously I never did that, don't even know the number of her workplace and even if I knew, why would I do that?

Women and dangerous and now they are believed by default.

Also, be careful with settlements, you are admitting culpability and then the girl can sue you and present the settlement as proof.

[–]OfficerWade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My buddy was in a similar situation but they offered him 40k to just leave the company. It was an airline company. I told him to leave and buy some real estate but he insisted on staying.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she got her pussy pass and her fill of the drama, now she can be a victim.

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