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Love may mean never having to say you're sorry, but being a man means never asking for permission. Asking permission implies a subservience to whomever is granting you permission, giving them control over a piece of your life, of your happiness and of your world.

When you ask permission, you throw up still another road block to your goal, of your own making. In interpersonal relations, asking permission kills any attraction, any "mood" that existed by bringing the primitive and the emotional into the rational part of the brain. For example, never ask a woman for permission to kiss her, just do it.

In short, remember that it is always better to ask forgiveness than permission.

Wk XVI: Identify, somewhere in the course of this week, a point where you would usually ask permission, then, don't.

Post results.

Edit: Because some people seem to have trouble with this concept, Understand the difference between respecting the word 'no', and creating situations where they have excuses to say it.

Further objections in this vein will be labelled concern trolling and promptly removed. This sub exists to help people, but if you aren't capable of grasping this concept, you don't belong here.


[–]anonymousTRP 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Preface: I have a young baby in the house. There's an implied change in social life expectations and the amount presence in the house because of this, however...

Instead of 'checking with my wife' or even wanting her blessing about going to a concert this week, I said "I am going to a concert later this week on Thursday."

She said "Okay, that will be fun! I love you!"

And that was that. No guilt-trip, no bambi-eyes when I was leaving.

[–]LiveMagic 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wat she doin when you away?

[–]littlecampbell 10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

This sounds like it could end up rapey pretty fast...

[–]GaiusScaevolus[S] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Only if you're the type of person who assumes women are objects and cannot have agency, and lack the power to actively voice their interests.

A man understands this is not the case.

I'd hope our readers understand the difference between going for it and being rebuked, and forcing their will upon another living being.

Understand the difference between respecting the word 'no', and creating situations where they have excuses to say it.

[–]redpillschool 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go back to day one.

[–]Ill_mumble_that 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go for the 90/10 rule.

You go 90% of the way, she goes 10%.

It works when it comes to sex too. Put your penis right outside her vagina and have her be the one that pushes it in.

That's of course assuming she isn't begging for it already.

More here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1f8k24/amishbreakfast_bestofd_explained_boundariessaying/ca7va97 (Open the downvoted comment below it, it has some good replies to it)

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[–]GaiusScaevolus[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Goodbye little troll.

[–]Buchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think another good point is, don't apologize for what you want.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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