I have come across this man named Jim Rohn on youtube. There are dozens of his videos on there and I highly recommend watching them all more than once. After watching around 10 hours or so of his presentations this is what stood out the most.

Lesson #1: You can be a hard worker but that doesn't mean your hard on yourself. It's easy to be called a good/hard worker if you put the time and effort in. How many times have you ever heard someone say, "He works hard on himself." ? Most likely never..... The moral of lesson #1 is to take the time out and ask yourself what can I do to make myself a better person? Maybe it's walking an hour a day, lifting weights, going on that diet you have been talking about, or reading a good book. You decide!

Lesson #2: Take Responsibility. You can blame anyone you'd like. The man, parents, bullies, women...whoever you like. Though those people may/have effected you, it's your duty as a man to persevere or as Hal Moore said," There is always one more thing you can do." Regardless at the end of the day you'll still be in the same position you are if you don't take responsibility. Mr.Rohn said, "The day you take responsibility is the day you become a man." So today after 20x years I believe I have just become a man.

So have you taken responsibility? Cheers!