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i used to be able to stand up for myself as a child in a school where no one really liked me, i got into a lot of fights because of it and i had anger-management classes, the problem is they worked too well and now i cant switch into that anger anymore, and i was wondering if anyone here had any advice on how to get angrier


[–]JihadDerp 26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Play fifa. You'll break something before long.

[–]Lolobeatboxjams 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If that doesn't work try Mario Kart.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Or League of Legends.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

But you don't need to, sir. You have developed patience. Also, you can still stand up for yourself even if you don't have anger. Right now, you are truly a MAN.

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[–]ComplainyGuy 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck the nonsense about self control. You need to 'let' yourself be angry when it's something to be angry about.

Goddamn right dick mccuntface needs to know that ripping on your girlfriends weight is out of line. Or that fuckhead in cubical 3 needs to stop gossiping about you to in the lunch room.

Respect is earned.

Now how? Testosterone (lifting, socializing and reducing wanks to less than daily). As well as posture and body language practice in your spare time.

For me personally. Noopept somehow made my anger a hair trigger if I took too much. I would growl at somebody to get out of "my" seat like I was defending territory. But I'm not here to peddle products. Keep your test up and your self esteem up and feel when it is right to let someone know you are angry. It's a form of communication not a form of retaliation.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why get angry, why not maintain emotional balance

[–]AlienAstronaut 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I find anger to be incredibly motivating at the right times. The key is to use it as a tool and not let it control you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I see what you mean then, I agree. play some songs that get you pissed off, for me its punk rock, some fast paced music, also sleep deprivation gets me pissed off too (would not reccomend) or caffeine/stronger stimulants

[–]brxxfootyball2 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

I have the same problem, i would like to be able to be stern with people and frank. people just assume i'm really friendly and that they can walk over me at university, work etc. like this new girl started who is a few years younger than me but wouldnt take me serious when I needed her to do something. im 5'11, everage build etc.

[–]ichivictus 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That comes from demeanor. Be more masculine in your tone, body language, and what you are saying. Be more commanding more often even if it's as simple as saying "Tell me your age." instead of "How old are you?"

Fake it till you make it!

[–]dammed-millenial[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

EXACTLY WHAT I FEEL

[–]MiguelForte 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I will give you the answer I gave "brxxfootyball":

I used to have that problem. People started off taking me seriously but little by little stopped and in the end I just that "funny, friendly guy". What I did was facing myself. Asking myself who I really was. Was I a "class clown", or a "serious man"? I chose to be more serious, and to view myself as a man, not a boy, and thus acted more manly (not even on purpose - the moment one faces himself as a man their whole behavior changers subconsciously). How you view yourself has a tremendous effect on how others perceive you. Seriously, I can't stress this enough.

How you view yourself as a tremendous effect on how others perceive you.

The image you have of yourself is perceived by others. It's like an aura you have. Have you ever noticed how some man, for example, have a "magnetic aura"? You feel attracted to them (not sexually if you're a straight man, obviously, but you're still attracted, just in another way) and instantly respect them. They enter a room and command the respect attention of everyone, without the need to even speak. They see themselves as a true man and respect their image fully, thus, subconsciously, others do it too. Respect yourself, and others will respect you.

[–]MiguelForte 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to have that problem. People started off taking me seriously but little by little stopped and in the end I just that "funny, friendly guy". What I did was facing myself. Asking myself who I really was. Was I a "class clown", or a "serious man"? I chose to be more serious, and to view myself as a man, not a boy, and thus acted more manly (not even on purpose - the moment one faces himself as a man their whole behavior changers subconsciously). How you view yourself has a tremendous effect on how others perceive you. Seriously, I can't stress this enough.

How you view yourself as a tremendous effect on how others perceive you.

The image you have of yourself is perceived by others. It's like an aura you have. Have you ever noticed how some man, for example, have a "magnetic aura"? You feel attracted to them (not sexually if you're a straight man, obviously, but you're still attracted, just in another way) and instantly respect them. They enter a room and command the respect attention of everyone, without the need to even speak. They see themselves as a true man and respect their image fully, thus, subconsciously, others do it too. Respect yourself, and others will respect you.

[–]wolfman86 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why do you want to get angry? You do realise it's one hell of an off putting quality?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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