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This Picture of Two Men shows what your problem might be (self.becomeaman)

submitted by beachbloke

Look at this picture of two men and consider which one you would want to talk to and which one is more successful with women:

http://i.imgur.com/IgCov18.jpg

Before you ask, yes they are same guy before and after a chin implant and other surgery. This is the same person on the inside but you probably drastically preferred the man on the right.

Consider that every person you meet has the same judgements of you. Every person only looks skin deep and we as a society force people into the roles they look like they should have. If your brain was transplanted into Chad's body, your personal preferences wouldn't matter. People would make you Chad.

Likewise, if you have a small chin like that guy did, people will force you into a beta role. His new skin makes others judge him better. He is forced into a much different role.

This is why lifting works so well. As a big guy, people want you to be a different person so you become one to them. Consider that who you are on the inside doesn't matter nearly as much to your life experience as what's on the outside. Do what you can to change it.


[–]DMMDestroyer4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Heck, facial hair made a big difference.

[–]leftajar2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Growing facial hair and getting a new haircut was a game-changer for me, much akin to the linked guy.

[–]tmnt880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup.. I think i look better with a goatee as it makes my chin look stronger..it also makes my nose not stand out so much

[–]ayesee3453 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Consider that who you are on the inside doesn't matter nearly as much to your life experience as what's on the outside. Do what you can to change it."

Some would call this cynical, damn near nihilistic talk. Imo, it's mostly true. I have years of real world experience and I agree. How you look and who you know will account for way much more than you think and will prob ever be aware of in your life. Your personality and identity only serve a purpose to a point. Beyond that you need assets such as good looks or popular contacts. And of course all of this directly affects how effective you are in bringing a girl home and fucking her.

[–]Gynocentric4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

So, not being critical or anything, but on a thread about becoming a better man were talking about plastic surgery being a good thing?

Perhaps I'm missing something.

[–]beachbloke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The full understanding of a man's life is something that can't be shared because we are born different. In this way a good looking guy can't understand a worse looking guy's life and vice versa. TRP is partly about bridging that gap, helping men to be more attractive. Mindset is a large part of becoming more attractive. This post illustrates how two men can be the same on the inside but get treated entirely differently. That perspective allows men who aren't good looking to be less confused about why they don't see some results they expected from their hard work.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't even realize this type of surgery was possible

[–]ControversialAcc0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So, if one was interested in cosmetic surgery how do you go about that?

I feel like I wouldn't know what to change to make myself more attractive. Would I simply walk into a consultation with the surgeon and they would suggest things, or do I need to go in with an idea in mind?

[–]Rhaenik2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, thats exactly how it would work.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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