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I feel so lonely, it hurts. I see no reason to wake up in the morning. (self.becomeaman)

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[–]americnleprchaun7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's called depression. I recommend seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist (DBT/CBT helped me the most). What it boils down to is removing cognitive distortions and creating a life worth living. It's fucking hard, and it's not a permanent fix. I beat depression a little under two years ago, and I'm now going through another bout after being socially isolated for the last two months; but now I know it can get better.

[–]GrnTiger086 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's pretty amazing to know your brain can make you feel physiological pain even though you aren't in any distress. You should use this to make something creative or make yourself someone you'll appreciate later down the road. It never hurts to try.

[–]hownao3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Everything is impermanent. Remember this.

[–]record_time0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is fact, and this fact shall sustain you.

[–]drqxx1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like depression...

[–]94redstealth1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

How about you go talk to a stranger

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

you mean lonely in the sense that you have no girl ?

if thats the case just realize that there are better far more important things than that

about about getting a hobby or doing sports? there are lots of things to do in life its just a series of many small steps so take it easy and start small

[–]UnimpressedAsshole1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I feel so lonely, it hurts"

Loneliness does hurt. That is pain that you need to feel and learn from.

"Loneliness is nature's way of telling you that you need yourself"

[–]ProjectWheee1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been there. It can be better.

How old are you? Do you work out? Do you read? What are some things that you enjoy doing? What have you done to make friends? Why has that failed? Are you in college? What is your profession/major?

[–]JustaDude4560 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Stay strong dude, we're all in this together.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Set your alarm for 6am. Wake up tomorrow morning and start your day with a 20min jog/run. I guarantee this day will be better than the last one.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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