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I wasted my time. (self.becomeaman)

submitted by delux_bg

I've read thousands of articles, posts on reddit, watched lots of motivation videos, RSD videos and lately started reading books... BUT never took action, but if i did and i failed i never tried twice.

So when i went in the real world i didn't know how to apply all of this knowledge, i though i was steps ahead, i though i was confident, my anxieties gone, people would respect me, I'd be masculine, i wouldn't be made fun of, i wouldn't fail, i wouldn't be awkward, my ego would be satisfied and well fed with all the good results... Nothing like that. I though the mistake was that i didn't read or watched enough videos, so i kept doing the same. You may guess the result - zero.

I now realized i have nothing to lose, i fucking admit i suck, i was the shy bullied kid in high school, i was nowhere close what you call "alpha" even when i thought i was after being familiar with what "ALPHA" is, i was LYING to myself to feel better... I was putting on an act just because people on reddit would say that's the right way to do it, it put so much pressure on me that i forgot what is to live, have fun, have purpose and not being obsessed with the results in the first place.

I wasted my time and fooled myself with fairy tales and not taking REAL action, don't do the same.

As always, any comments, advice's and criticism are welcome.


[–]bestCallEver 2 points2 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Seems you already know what to do mate. Stop reading, start taking action. In fact why are you even here writing about it? Go out and live it! Daily positive action is the key, lots of baby steps with out the expectation of immediate results ... That's how you get where you want to be. You've got the knowledge, but that's honestly the easy part

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

in fact why are you even here writing about it?

I had to let it out and figured someone might relate to me.

[–]currykarl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Writing about this shows that you still havnt learned anything.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

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