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I work as a senior manager in a government job. Pay is good (AUD $80k) and overall it's a cushy gig.

However, it doesn't offer much by way of being a man. Most days I have to mentally put my balls in the fridge. My unit focuses on customer service. The sector I am in is highly feminized and I have to pretend crazy is normal on a daily basis. Prospects for change are slim. I am unhappy, getting soft and want to reclaim my testicles while I remain young.

Plan

There are two phases to the plan.

In approx 3 months I quit work with about 6 months worth of living expenses saved. Enroll in a personal training course and spend my half year getting much fitter, learning a new skill, and refreshing my mind.

Commence work as a PT. Now, I'm under no illusions that the PT life is perfect. Pay is okay but I'll be taking home less than I do now. However, the PT career change provides a free time during the middle of the day (clients morning & after work hours). This time becomes my time. (Income estimate AUD $65k).

Plan to work as a PT for approx 5-7 years. Enjoying my prime. At the same time I am studying an accounting course which morphs into a home business when I am approx 40. Sail on to retirement. (Income range AUD $70-110k during phase 2).

My intention is this path provide me life balance, opportunity for personal growth and freedom from the sperm-count-lowering career path of soft upper management of which I am currently staring down the barrel.

Some bio stats... single, no kids, no mortgage, good looks, good health but softer body than 3 years ago...

Am I foolish?

I have reflected on this plan daily for a fortnight, including confirming my intention after masturbation. I know where my mind is at. I'm seeking critical commentary and to have my thinking challenged by you.


[–]ql3 points points [recovered] | Copy Link

This sounds like more of a fantasy than a plan, but if you are in fact serious, this part:

Enroll in a personal training course and spend my half year getting much fitter

then do this before or after work, before quitting your current job. Don't sink your boat until you have another boat.

[–]Voidslan2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I second this. Studying to be a PT isn't a lot of work. A couple hours a day is more than you need. To be competitive, you'll also need more certifications and experience than just the basic cert if you're starting from nowherw. They offer lots of them; corrective exercise, bodybuilding, etc.

Also on the PT side, get good at selling. Cause a PT that can't get clients to buy their services is a PT without a job.

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