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UCSC Girls: College Boys are Creepy, Arrogant, and Suck in Bed (What if they wrote this about women?) (mystudentvoices.com)

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[–]RunawayGrain20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

So much bullshit and hamstering in this thing, so little effort to care on my part.

[–]ManOnAJackalope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Upvote for using the term hamstering correctly!

[–]stonewall197915 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Wow, this really is the epitome of "why dont you just get it" mentality.

The first girl interviewed says "I don't like confrontation", yet complains her partners are inexperienced. Maybe if you talked about what feels good to you, they would gain some experience and you'd get more out of the exchange.

My personal favorite was "all guys do is talk about themselves or ask me questions". Pretty sure thats called conversation, and typically until you know the person well a conversation is based on questions, answers, and a return question. People with an established relationship don't ask many questions, it becomes a back and forth of comments. Wonder why all she finds are shallow guys trying to get their dick wet, if theres no other redeeming value to her, then the only value she has is between her legs.

Bottom line, they all sound like whiney, entitled brats. They want a 'real man' who 'gets it', but date or just hook up douche bags who clearly advertise what they're about, then complain when they get what was advertised while not putting any effort in themselves. Pretty shocking, I know.

[–]scotttherealist7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The first girl interviewed says "I don't like confrontation", yet complains her partners are inexperienced. Maybe if you talked about what feels good to you, they would gain some experience and you'd get more out of the exchange.

Alright son I'm gonna help you here. It used to be that girls wouldn't hop into bed unless they were overwhelmed with emotion and lust, now they're dtf, but if you don't bring some game and attraction, whatever moves you pull will fall flat. Girls don't want the responsibility for how things turn out, and they definitely don't want any control over you, so don't ask them, lead them, try different things, see what works, ask them in a roundabout way how they like it. Again, if you play a tight game, she'll respond to your every move.

My personal favorite was "all guys do is talk about themselves or ask me questions". Pretty sure thats called conversation

No that's inexperience. Asking questions gets monotonous, as exciting as a job interview. The point of questions is to get information to weave into your game. First comment on something about your immediate surroundings, be witty, draw her attention. Then you questions will help you to stimulate her interests. Talking about yourself should build emotion, not convey data, like the time you wrestled a tiger, not how many beers you can shotgun, bro.

Unless she's really into shotgunning beers.

[–]stonewall19794 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Things today are definitely different than when I was in college 20 years ago.

There was more groundwork involved in getting laid, but you still had to have some game. I'm familiar with some PUA theory and approaches, but at some point there has to be substance beneath it all. For a one night stand you're right, who cares about conversation, just be atractuve and interesting enough to get in bed. If you're trying to turn it into a FWB, eventually you'll have to actually talk to the person.

I'd guess you are familiar with this, but just in case here is the article I was referring to with the "Just Get It" comment. Just throwing it out there, maybe it'll help someone who's never seen it before. Women don't want to explain themselves or have to tell a man what the like, want or need, they want us to 'just get it' and read their minds. If we don't 'get it' and try to communicate overtly they get upset. One of the greatest lines I've seen on reddit was something like this "women are always giving subtle hints to men who can barely spell subtle or understand what it means. Then wonder why he didn't understand what she was hinting at".

Regardless, I'm married now and working on fixing and improving myself and my marriage. Thank god, I'm not in the college dating game today dealing with these girls. Give me a MILF over a co-ed any day.

[–]dyel242 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Seriously,the best thing that can happen in the US right now is the explosion of a nuclear bomb right in all California.

Let's just save Arnold and the cool people.All the other can die.

[–]Mechanik_J2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Are you sure the writer/interviewer isn't a troll? Seems like a grade A troll with all these people getting salty haha. I mean if you really didn't know some douche bag women acted like their douche bag male counter part. What the fuck, man?

[–]ManOnAJackalope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think this story is meant to a sample representation of the entire population. I think it just a compilation of extreme cases that inevitably contains some of the common gripes that many women have.

[–]Waivers0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The argument is fair, but maybe worrying about this type of material is not a part of "becoming a man". This is a good topic to talk to women about.

[–]ChuckFreeman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I try to keep track of the guys I sleep with,” she tells me. The list has 16 names on it" What a fucking slut! lol

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