Rant/VentingA Woman's Perspective on Getting a Blowjob (self.TheRedPill)
submitted 4 years ago * by AWildFuckYouAppeared
[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (2 children)
Anyone who takes an overly transactional approach to sexuality is asking for trouble, IMO. Partners SHOULD be sexually attracted to each other enough that they WANT to have sex with each other. If you have to bribe or negotiate sexual "favors," your relationship is in trouble.
On the other hand, some people don't have a high sex drive, or it declines for whatever reason. In that case, people need to work out ways to work around the issue constructively.
[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 43 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (1 child)
I've said it before, I'll say it again.
Men want to be treated awesomely by someone good enough. Women want to be treated well enough by someone awesome.
Supplication to a woman does her no favours.
[–]Endorsed ContributorVarrian 134 points135 points136 points 4 years ago (31 children)
No one takes into consideration that having to massage your wife's feet and watching her favorite movie to get a blowjob is also mistreatment but this time of the husband. Both men and women require physical and emotional things from their partners. Now, getting a blowjob is not a necessity but neither is a foot massage or watching her favorite movie.
Great post, btw!