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MetaRed Pill Gems (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by 3LiveAFTSOV

Sometimes, Gems are found in the comments section of a thread, rather than from the original post itself.

I have a list of these saved, some from years ago, others from yesterday.

These are some of those Gems:


"Instagram model" = whore. Literally. - Whisper


"TRP isn't about ANYTHING. TRP is a toolbox that you use to achieve your goals. Your goal is the "what is this about". And no two men will have the same goal, nor the same route to getting there. So if your goal is to train a woman to please you, you use the tools within TRP that are suitable to that goal and ignore the rest. There is no underlying philosophy to TRP other than "apply the scientific method to methodically figure out what works" and "don't let people trick you into thinking that their goals are yours". - HumanSockPuppet


"No one here will Ever be a Socrates. TheRedPill isn't your identity Clubhouse, we aren't your brothers, and if you died tomorrow, no one here would give a shit. There, problem solved" - Rian_Stone


Women don't want to be saved. Strippers strip for money, suicide girls want to kill themselves and not remain alive, and girls getting pumped and dumped by Chads are never marriage material because they make a poor decision with men and you make a poor decision by picking women who have poor decision making relative to their own gender. -Ozaku7


"TRP is not a road map to get you from point A to point B, it is a course in navigation. Because not all journeys go to the same destination, and if you're too lazy to navigate, you're too lazy to hike.When you say "Tell me specifically what to do.", you are asking to be led. You are asking how to get what you want without changing who you are. You are asking how to emerge from your cave, get the girl, and then go back to playing World of Nerdcraft. In order to achieve what you want to achieve, you must become the sort of man who achieves it. There are many different sorts of man to choose from. But "exactly who I currently am" is not one of them." -CrazyHorseInvincible


"Yes we do. Men are inherently lazy and will only do enough to live comfortably and fuck women, this is known and posted often. This is why game takes effort, and PUA is ultimately window dressing, or pretending to be a man." - RedForEductation.


There's more than one structure to navigate. In fact, there is almost infinite structures to navigate. Situational Alpha is the modern Alpha. Focus on the alpha behaviours, create your own structure, reap the rewards. Society is the best it's ever been... let the rabble punch each other out, you'll be too busy enjoying the decline to care." - Rian_Stone


"Women no longer rely on men for financial support (it's mandated through taxation and child support, "for the sake of the children"), online communication can't be stopped (eg Tinder), birth control is effective, the required number of children per woman for population maintenance is 2.1 rather than 5+, women make up >50% of the population and have the vote, men care more about women than men, women care more about women than men. None of these things are about to change. Combine these and the drivers for enforced monogamy just don't exist and can't be made to exist. On the up side: you can fuck multiple women and don't have to do anything for them." - MattyAnon


"Can you fuck and can you fight. That's what makes a man. Everything else has been automated, or girls can do it about as well anyways. Its all we got now." - Rian_Stone


Young middle class men are at the bottom of a society's totem pole. We pay the most into a society and get the least out if it. Do welfare queens care that they're destabilizing the system? Did bankers care in 2008 when they asked for huge taxpayer bailouts. Did bush care when he undermined the international standing of the US with his invasion of Iraq? No. Everyone is doing what's best for them except for idealistic boys like yourself. Pleasing others to please yourself is beta male pathology, and we just don't subscribe to the slave morality drilled into your skull at public school." - GayLubeOil


"Women get support, men get blame. As men we can expect zero support from a society that is ready to point the finger and blame us in an instant, while absolving women even of significant crimes. More than ever before: live your own life for yourself, you owe the world nothing because the world does nothing for you." - MattyAnon


Sure I'll chime in. Feminism is a child of liberalism. The same process that liberated laypeople from Aristocracy, slaves from their masters, seeks to liberate women from their husbands and soon children from their parents. Liberalism liberates people from traditional structures so that they can be replaced with monetized versions. The more people are ground into a uniform mass free of distinction the easier it is to control and monetize them." - GayLubeOil


"You get to define your goals and direction of what it means to "be successful". A TRP truism has always stuck with me. Straight from the vanguard....TRP is a toolbox. Nothing more. It takes a man to make a plan, then decide what tools to use to build. Without a plan, the best toolbox is useless." - FeralRed


"The traditions are all gone now, cupcake. All traditions existed to limit or bound human behavior for the greater good. Now everyone gets to do whatever the hell they want. People find meaning anywhere. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust. Unless you want to make a theological argument, in the end none of it matters." - TheRedPike


"MGTOW. Not the sour grapes version, where you're so hopeless as a human you can't get a woman even if you have a chloroform rag and a rape van, The version where you truly realize that you are the prize, that women and sex truly are lagging indicators of success. They're chocolaty treats the restaurant trots out to the big spenders after they've dropped hundreds. I have no higher branches in my vicinitiy. I have a tree service to take care of that. Women chase me, not vice versa. I take an interest in you, you know that this is an audition to come play with the big boys for a while if you measure up.All is recorded. If you have to chase girls, be dependent on their whims, put up with their bullshit, fucking FEAR them then you've already lost. They have the power and the control. Because you have curled up into a little dickless ball and given it to them. You've given a grenade to a 5 year old with a god complex. WtF are you thinking? Thanks for making yet another crater that slows my morning commute. (Jk, only plebes commute - it's a metaphor.) Women only have as much power as we willingly hand over to them in a desperate pathetic hopeful sacrificial supplicative gambit to get some pussy. FUCK THAT. Pussy comes to me. Anything else and you're doing life wrong. Successful men get fucked. Without even asking. What are you doing in your life where that's not your reality?" - FeralRed


"NIGHT CLUBS are a SCAM. The clubs are designed to induce anxiety, and then sell you the solution to it: alcohol. What causes the anxiety? Loud music, crowds of people, darkness, weird lighting, lack of available seating, etc. etc. So, then they sell you overpriced drinks so you can "relax." They create the problem, then they sell you the solution. Many of the chicks are just dupes, selling their time for free drinks, but some are even ringers who get paid to go places and be seen to attract men. The club owners have photos taken of the hot chicks at their clubs, then use the photos to promote the clubs. Guys show up expecting to meet women that look like models. I could go on and on and on. Clubs exist only to make money for their owners, not facilitate successful romantic encounters. If they facilitated those encounters, their business would dry up, as everyone would be in functional relationship. - monsieurhire2


" How do you think strong wise men become great the first place? It's through difficulty and conflict. Conflict averse people don't grow. In fact that more risk averse they are the more stagnant they are. Women are the most risk averse and we all know about women here at the Red Pill. Where you fucked up is you showed weakness by deescalating when he escalated. Oh sorry, where you looking for honest advice or a mommy to make you feel better? You want me to be your mommy?" - GayLubeOil


"For people trying to be James Bond." Masculinity through emulation is beta male masculinity. Emulating movie masculinity is downloading Goldberg cultural programing. Congratulations you haven't actually taken the red pill. Better luck next time." -GayLubeOil


"Hopefully now you understand TRP advice isn't about the girl, it's about you. When I give advice like that, it's not like I'm trying to assess the girl and whether or not she'll cheat in the future. I'm assessing you - what does it mean for you if you accept back a girl that burned you? What does that do to your growth? TRP is here to challenge you, to help you take the pain up front, to the chin, now. So rather than defering your pain, you take it on the chin now - you go through the pain of breaking up now, and you begin the process now. My point is that even if she HAD been a good GF for a few months, even if she HAD not gone back to the exact same behavior... it STILL would have been a bad move to stay. Because what does it do to you to accept a girl back? It ing raines a cuck pattern in your mind, you get more practiced in rationalization and hamstering. This is why I don't try to tell these asktrp guys "she will cheat again". They won't believe it, they won't get it. I try to tell them "regardless of what she does, you will damage your own growth and personality if you take her back". It's not about what she does or doesn't do, you can't control that. This isn't to say we told you so or anything - it's more likely that now one day you'll be the guy trying to convince some dumbass or his friend or someone to not take back a ho. Or maybe you'll feel weak and want her back. But remember, it's never about what she will do. It's not about her - it's about you. You say "even though she really loved me" - maybe. Probably not, but sure, maybe. Does it matter? No, because the decision should never be about her, it should be about you." - Thotwrecker


"The problem with "TRP is about helping you actualize whatever life you want to live" is that when you are BP / low value / incel / beta / etc, you want retarded things. You don't know what you want, you just want avoidance of pain..." - Thotwrecker


"Being able to break it off is what most have trouble with, but keeping her shut out while you move forward with new women is a 'stage 2' where most guys fuck it up, because the new waahmiinnzz that you have acquired will make your ex go kookoo for cocoa puffs. She will do ANYTHING to get you back Into her vagina to fuck up your new relationship just to salvage her ego. If you fall for it, you lose. She'll try to ghost you afterward as she feeds on the drama of your new sexual interest(s) nexting you and flipping out altogether, which in her hamster-wheel mind, is enough to convince herself that she got the last word, left you, and made the right decision slotting you as a beta cuck single mommy product, just so she can eliminate the reality that she got dumped for being a ho-gash in the first place." - Dmva100


"Guy asking if this is alpha or if that's beta," Stop looking for an authority to tell you how you think is ok. You could have used your own two eyes. - Rian_Stone


"You have nothing to gain from her. She has a lot to gain from You (your SMV, social value etc) . Never forget that. You already have lots of girls and a good social life . In the end , forming relationships and becoming buddies is all just a transaction to most womeN ." - Nonthaki


"If there is one fundamental truth here, it's that: Women are transactional. It's hard to explain, and requires specific situations to observe. But you will witness this fact, and remember it. Women are transactional by nature-- they have very little to provide, they exaggerate its value, and then expect you to provide that exaggerated value in return. This is their entire life strategy: setting up a one-way benefit flow. But they won't forget "how much" you owe them. - Mojo_juju


"The value of pussy. It isn't worth my dignity or self respect. It's only worth about $80. **I really wish I could've shown 18 year old me that truth. Would have saved me a lot of time and headaches. - Chazthundergut


"You are lazy which is why you didn't even bother to read the stickied posts here and surely not a single word from the sidebar, but most importantly it's why you are fat. Change your diet and start lifting." -Vandaalen


"I serve my own desires and naught else. I do not want to fuck women because hypergamy commands it, I want to fuck them because my cock commands it." - 88Will88


"If a woman tells you she has a boyfriend, that means one of four things; 1 - She has a boyfriend and is not interested in you. She is telling you about the boyfriend so you will know she's not interested and leave her alone. 2 - She does not have a boyfriend but is not interested in you. She is telling you she has a boyfriend so you will know she's not interested and leave her alone. 3 - She has a boyfriend, but is interested in you. She is telling you about her boyfriend so you know to be discreet as you escalate, and so that when you end up fucking her, it was all your idea and all your fault because she told you she had a boyfriend. 4 - She doesn't have a boyfriend, and she's interested in you. She is telling you she has a boyfriend partly because it's instinctive anti-slut behavior to try to ward off guys hitting on her and partly to see how you handle it. Telling guys she has a boyfriend is a great way to weed out wieners who shouldn't get to fuck her anyway. The solution in all four situations is exactly the same. Shrug, tell her you aren't interested in hearing about her problems, and continue to escalate. If she's not interested in you, she'll give you a hard no, then you move on. Whether or not she actually has a boyfriend is completely irrelevant. - Archwinger


"Some girls justify cheating by "just" having sex with other guys. As long as it's "just" sex, without romance, kissing, etc., then she's not really cheating on her boyfriend. Because the thing that makes a boyfriend special is the romance. Sex can happen with anybody. So as long as she's only romantic with her boyfriend, he's special. He wins. She's not cheating. Right?" - Archwinger


"Sex is easy, and almost meaningless to women. Finding a guy willing to fuck them takes about 30 seconds. Relationships/romance are more valuable.So being romantic with a guy feels more like cheating than just fucking a guy. Because romance is what separates her boyfriend from any other guy. Any guy is a possible sexual partner, but her boyfriend is her romance partner. So if you follow that logic to its warped conclusion, as long as she has sex-only partners and no romantic partners, it's not reeeeealy cheating since she's honoring the unique parts of what she has with her boyfriend and only really treading on the lowly common sexual stuff she could do (and probably has done) with anybody." - Archwinger


"A woman's biology is constantly seeking out the highest level male in the environment. **A man's value is dependent on context within the environment. Once a woman's perception (normally subconscious) believes she has ensnared a high value male, her brain will release a flood of dopamine to let her know that she's being a good girl in mother nature's eyes. To be a high value man today, it's simply enough to lift and have frame."" - KetoGainsMongoose


"**The fact that you think your biggest mistake is breaking frame after the second time she cheated on you just goes to show how much work you have left to do on yourself. Man, fucking pathetic. Seriously. How are you going to look yourself in the eye in the bathroom mirror and degrade yourself like this- dating a cheating girl who's sucking off her "best guy friend" while you stain your pillows at night with tears before going to bed. Get a fucking grip, kid. Dump this bitch and put your dick away until you know what it's for and how to use it. Quit rewarding and reinforcing your pitiful behavior with sex you don't deserve. Monk mode until you're actually somewhat valuable to the gene pool. We've already got enough cucks floating around." - KetoGainsMongoose


"It's biological mating strategy. Basic Evolution Men=Spread their seed Woman=Select best mate for breeding. Put 100 men on an island with 1 woman, she can only be impregnated with one mans child. 9 months of pregnancy. Years of post natal care. Put 100 women on an island with 1 man, depending how much viagra is on hand, could impregnate them all in a couple days. This is why a man wanting to have sex with many women is inline with his biology. Whereas a woman wanting to have sex with many men goes against her selective nature(A Hoe) - KeffirLime


"Alpha is all an illusion. It doesn't matter who is actually tough, or powerful, or cunning, or can get shit done. For mating purposes, it just matters what a girl believes. If she thinks you're a badass, you might as well be. If she thinks you're famous, you might as well be. If she thinks you're cool, you might as well be. You look at him and see a wimpy junkie loser. But junkie loser girls look at him and see a fearless rule-breaker who they just know is gonna be rich and famous someday." - Whisper


"Keep it simple. Picture an end state, achieve that end state. You know if your decisions get you closer to it, or further away. Then you don't have to ask if you 'did good' Just like the old PUA days. It's not about getting 'that' woman, it's about getting 'more' women. the Stay plan is the same as the go plan. From my own bias, if you assume the relationship is over, and she is just a sparring partner for you to practice for next time, it will help remove any covert contracts you have. - Rian_Stone


"This shit society is rotting from the core and if there should ever be something better it will surely not rise out of that pile of horseshit. It has to die first. Completly. All humans possess free will and they choose their path their own. They shall live with the consequences that come with it as well. Not my fucking job to heal the world. Fuck the world. I have been to the gutter. I haven't only read about my expendability. I have experienced it and it held one simple realization for me: Society does not owe me shit, but I don't owe shit to society as well. I don't give a single fuck about other people or "the world" and especially not about "future generations". Let them deal with their problems, I deal with mine. I don't even give a fuck if there will be any future generations or if humanity dies out. Don't think anybody will notice. And when the shit hits the fan, I will climb a steep hill, light a fire, undress butt-naked and dance around it. - Vandaalen


"**I have always maintained that if you are a guy in a relationship you always need to have one foot holding the door open if you want to leave. You have to be ready to walk away. If you are afraid to lose her then you are the one who is submissive and you lack power. Worrying if a girl will leave you is ONEitis and shows a complete lack of abundance, putting the pussy on the pedestal and a lack of leadership/ frame." - 88Will88


"**You "communicate" this to your woman in two steps:

  1. Being so high value she should be worried to lose you.
  2. Showing her, through your actions, and with coherence, that you do not tolerate disrespect, and that your normal answer to disrespect is your calm but immediate removal of your involvement in the situation.

If a girl, at any point, disrespects you, it means you have already lost her. Because it means she believed that either:

  1. You won't act on disrespect, or
  2. If you do act, that you're worth losing anyway

If you're currently with a girl who disrespects you:

  1. accept that the LTR is eventually doomed.
  2. plan an exit strategy.
  3. practice withdrawing your attention/time/involvment with every disrespect, as practice for the next girl. - Auvergnat

"It's essential to communicate "I am an attractive man with other options and you're lucky that I stick around", in a way that women actually understand and believe (and that means communicating with actions not words)." - MattyAnon


Wish I had more, but looks like reddit deleted old saves.


[–][deleted] 213 points214 points  (11 children)

+1 for night club post. Cleared a lot of things for me.

[–]lvpvsdacvs 57 points58 points  (8 children)

Former night club owner here. Never thought about it this way but i think it is true. I used to watch over my clients and how they behave and almost every weekend was the same story. A group of guys getting wasted to gain courage to talk to a group of girls who are dancing by themselves. Guess what happened when the guys got wasted and there was another group of guys just like them? The girls walked away and they either drink untill they pass out or they fight. This is beta behaviour at its finest

[–]circlingldn 6 points7 points  (7 children)

Student nightclubs are a different beast though

[–]lenovoisshit 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Do you mind elaborate? How is it different?

[–]midgetpooooo 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Because in college towns it's easy to talk to any girl there.

[–]lenovoisshit 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Have you been to one before?

[–]midgetpooooo 2 points3 points  (3 children)

for the last several years. Hey you go to college name? Oh what part of campus are you on? etc etc.

[–]lvpvsdacvs 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Nah brother. Here students clubs = high class clubs. The college girls here are looking for providers/high status. This is what college life taught me. It is pretty funny but my own ratio of aproaching/banging is better with milfs than it is with college girls.

LE: For me to be qualified as a MILF a girl needs to be at least hb8 and at least 30yo.

They always fall for "I think i need to see your id. You look underage for me"

LEE: I`ve always and only aproached/banged college girls in the dorms.

[–]Angu_jungle_poo 1 point2 points  (1 child)

US I take it? There are still good clubs out there.

[–]BlakTheory 260 points261 points  (43 children)

You have nothing to gain from her, she has a lot to gain from you.

It sums up why we're the prize. Thanks for the gems.

[–]FaboulusGrape 28 points29 points  (41 children)

Why is this exacly? What do they gain from us and why have we nothing to gain from them? If we have nothing to gain from them, why do we want them?

[–]BlakTheory 79 points80 points  (39 children)

They will give you sex that's it. They can get social validation, money, social status, protection, emotional support, etc and that sex they are giving, they're getting them back too. So literally they're giving Nothing.

[–]FaboulusGrape 23 points24 points  (29 children)

But if that were the case, why would any guy want a LTR ever?

[–]BlakTheory 60 points61 points  (27 children)

Love, if you think a girl can give you that then consider LTR. Men can give love unconditionally but for women I'm still trying to understand weather it is possible or not.

[–]omega_dawg93 32 points33 points  (4 children)

women ONLY give unconditional love to their offspring. nature dictates that and even some of them FAIL at it, miserably.

if you expect unconditional love from a female (that's not called, 'mom'), you're gonna be disappointed. you can't just have a heartbeat and a cock and expect ANY type of love from a woman. she wants WAAAAAY more, plus once she's got yours, she'll always be looking for even more (hypergamy).

[–]meat-slinger 4 points5 points  (3 children)

women love what you are, not who you are. their love is secured by the value you bring to the table

[–]omega_dawg93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but they are never content... constantly on the search for better, more, excess.

it's called, "hypergamy," and reasoning & logic can't contain it.

[–]InnocentOrthodoxTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 month later, this comment still sticks out to me. Easy to remember and true to a t

[–]Nashboy45 20 points21 points  (7 children)

still trying to understand whether it is possible or not

I’ve been trying to find that out for years and I get evidence of yes until they change their mind. My approach right now is too expect nothing. But I feel you man.

[–]Wolveryn 29 points30 points  (3 children)

When a girl starts dating a guy her friends ask, “what does he do?”

If a guy dates a girl his mates ask “what does she look like?”

Both questions are objectively shallow. But it does answer your question imo...

She loves you while you have value. She loves you for as long as your value is more or less as high as she can get.

And if she gets fat and ugly... safe to say the guy will be tempted by younger, sexier ladies

[–]Nashboy45 13 points14 points  (1 child)

She loves you for as long as your value is more or less as high as she can get.

But my love is not based on the most beautiful girl I can get. It feels like with guys, you have a bar of sexiness and once you have a girl in a relationship you’re down with her for the most part. You might have people who you also think are attractive and down to fuck but it’s not like you can say the new person is objectively better than your gf (unless you were kinda borderline about your gf to begin with, or she changes, fat, ugly).

I feel like women actually do try to keep moving up to get more if they can get it. It’s never like their partner is enough if there is a “better” and that’s what I mean by unconditional. They never stop until they literally can’t (the wall). The condition of not being able to do better is what stopped their progress while for men it’s usually just satisfaction with the relationship that stops them.

Is that not accurate?

[–]Wolveryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah fair call and accurate to a point.

[–]FaboulusGrape -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And thus, proving that no one is capable of unconditional love.

[–]expansion101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's not unconditional love. There's two parts to it.

Sure, if you're their top choice, you can do anything. Alpha, beta, what the shit, they don't care. They'll still adore you.

But once you lose frame, do something you don't want to do, whether that be doing something alpha or beta, that's a chink. Enough, and you're out.

And if you do enough of such things, it's likely she'll find a man who acts more in-line with what he wants, either by her own decision or his approach. She wants this because a man who does what he wants would never allow another man to take advantage of him; and, by association, her, as she is under his protection. Think of the tribal era, not today.

Control what you can control: don't lose frame, and by extension act on your own terms more often than not.

[–]jfgw2 4 points5 points  (1 child)

It's only possible for a women to unconditionally love her children

[–]gaspaonrocks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Then again, you would be surprised...

[–]FaboulusGrape 2 points3 points  (2 children)

But what is love exacly? Friendship? Support? Someone to enjoy life with? Have fun? And wouldn't that mean that we actually can get something from women?

Edit: And can men really love unconditionally? If a women get fat AF, would he still - unconditionally - love her?

[–]suzy2018 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my own experience, love exists in different forms and “unconditional love” if irrespective of romantic love.

Girls I’ve dated that I had a good connection with but lost the romantic type of love and moved on, I still deeply care about. I love most people, just as i love my friends and family, but that I consider unconditional. I venture to say that nobody loves anybody unconditionally across the board.

If I get support from a girl and am attracted to them physically, I won’t even look at other women. I will, but I won’t have that desire for them...if one part of that is missing, I have trouble not looking and ultimately chatting them up. Since I have gotten quite attractive to women lately, I tend to get numbers given to me when I don’t ask.

It’s not that I don’t love my girlfriend, I’m just not getting my own needs taken care of and it’s natural to be drawn elsewhere. I think Maslow’s hierarchy is a good analog for this concept.

[–]BlakTheory 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Once you stop providing and protecting you won't get what you call love from them. Then there will be no friendship, support, fun or love in any farm.
  2. Look around where ever you are how many women are fat and how many men are fat and observe yourself in which scenario love exist. Men still love and marry fat women but how many women are loving or getting marry a fat men if he is average in financially.

[–]looneyniggabunny 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Women can provide unconditional love definitely, MOTHERLY love So I quote one of the gems, you expect them to be your mommy ?

[–]BlakTheory 2 points3 points  (1 child)

We're not asking them love us. We're just telling they can't love us. Here nobody asking anything from them, we're just adapting ourselves to the environment.

[–]looneyniggabunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My statement does not applies to everyone here in this sub same goes with every article and advise giving here. There are still many reading and watching here still holding on their blue pill tendencies. Women do love us (being sentimental here), it’s like one in million kind of thing, and mothers providing their motherly love as well. A lot of gems mentioned one really important thing of this sub, this sub doesn’t work if you’re just here to follow and not having the desire to improve upon ourselves. *this message is not a direct reply but a psa to our brothers out there reading and trying to IMPROVE themselves

[–]yomo86 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Motherly love has an experation date. 12-14. Biologically the date which marks your self-sufficiency. After that you will become a tool like all other men to her. And deep down every boy knows it.

[–]looneyniggabunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different, but maybe you're right,maybe that my relationship with my mother has reach that stage yet. The different culture and demographic may be the differences as well as I am asian, but I heard a lot of fucked up stories from my dad about our other families. Everyone in life is a tool same as I am to you and you're to me :)

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          [–]grewapair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Once you've been in a variety of relationships, you basically have two paths. You believe the Disney lie and think you are less of a human without one, or you look back at all of your relationships and realize they all go like this: girl convinces you that your goals are shit and her goals are better, so you adopt her goals, at which point she jumps on your back and lets you carry her towards her goals while she does nothing, and you then realize that not only are you doing all of HER work, you aren't even achieving YOUR goals. At which point you decide there's nothing in it for you and you stop. You just opportunistically take any girl who falls into your lap, but you don't let her get to GF status, ever.

          [–]econquest 6 points7 points  (8 children)

          I'm sorry, the blue pill me is coming out SO strong. What you wrote is just NOT TRUE.

          Instead the truth is:

          • Women are excellent at managing social relationships; seeing trends; many marketing and creative activities; also all the same things guys can learn from editing to putting up drywall (it's not that hard.) the list just goes on and on and on and on.

          I guess it might be true that it's sexually attractive if we TREAT them as though they have nothing to give, or give them a challenge where they have to earn that they have anything to give at all.

          But the idea that they have nothing to give is just so false.

          [–]Karmapana 9 points10 points  (3 children)

          In a relationship with semi strong communication with an intelligent (well above average intellect) woman you can learn a shit ton from her imo. Whether it's a LTR or semi communicative fling.

          [–]FaboulusGrape 5 points6 points  (1 child)

          This goes for alot of women IMO. Women are also people, just like men are also people. They can bring alot to the table as persons and not only as women.

          [–]Karmapana 8 points9 points  (0 children)

          That's True. Seems like a lot of the new TRP are learning from this new generation of TRP jits that seem to think women are only good for their pussy, and that they're just our toys with no feelings or a brain, meant to be used at will, smh. They're forgetting the intellectual value of a smart chick for meaningful conversation etc. Of course all this while not forgetting the gist of AWALT- but sometimes there's good brains beside the good head ;)

          [–]FaboulusGrape 0 points1 point  (3 children)

          Feels good to read this. I agree. They can offer alot. It feels passive aggressive to say that "they have nothing to offer and we have everything to offer". Like people need to tell themselves that to feel that they themselves are high value. The paradox is that the very action of doing that is low value.

          Since the need to see women as low value ("they have nothing to offer" = "they are worth nothing") is present to feel high value; it indicates that the assumption of the writer is: "Since women are worth nothing, I am worth more than women". This indicates that they see themselves as low value. If you must see women as worth nothing for you to see yourself as higher value - your value isn't very high.

          Knowing your value has nothing to do with anyone else IMO. You define your value. You are worth what you think you're worth and you get treated the way you let people treat you. It has nothing to do with them, it has to do with you. Work on seeing yourself in a better light rather than seeing others in a bad light.

          [–]econquest 1 point2 points  (2 children)

          I know but this attitude, although false, is somehow very sexually attractive. It gets you laid. Women eat it up.

          but it's about the attitude - like you I don't like seeing it put into words like this.

          [–]Angu_jungle_poo 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          I think this is my main problem too, being cocky and self-centered whilst thinking that you literally are the best in the world will get results - but you will hit a wall where you realize you are not the best (cue 80% of highschool chad).

          So infact the goal is to be able to appear cocky and the best whilst knowing that it doesn't matter in the slightest- you simply living by your own rules, if anyone has a problem with that ... fuck em'

          [–]yomo86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          First of. As a general rule your time. On top of that favours, financial assistance, emotional stability, a purpose (you read that right, a woman's purpose is men, everything in a girls life revolves around the question can I do better with another guy), and of utmost importance having an agency proxy namely you.

          [–]LordLoveRocket_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          So many gems. Never putting them on a pedestal too is one of the best advice on trp.

          [–]VickVaseline 117 points118 points  (24 children)

          I read this twice.

          It belongs on the sidebar.

          Thank you.

          [–]omega_fat 55 points56 points  (1 child)

          Also, it would be great if there was a weekly stickied best comment thread.

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            [–]OfficerWade 19 points20 points  (3 children)

            As my brother says it. “just love the world that won’t love you back.”

            [–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 14 points15 points  (1 child)

            “just love the world that won’t love you back.”

            Very well-said.

            Here's an example:

            https://www.scmp.com/news/china/society/article/2139140/luxury-homes-gifted-chinese-tycoon-sit-empty-greedy-villagers-row

            A Chinese tycoon who paid for hundreds of luxury homes to be built for the residents of his hometown has been left dumbfounded by their greed and ingratitude, according to a local newspaper report.

            [–]Angu_jungle_poo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            That's funny. I bet his wife made him do that.

            [–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 16 points17 points  (0 children)

            real men should strive to be about more than just themselves

            That's not incompatible with acknowledging that nobody in this world is entitled to your time, energy, ressources, attention, help, or just anything.

            Only when you have realized that you owe shit to nobody you can decide out of free will to give it to them anyways - or not. This will ultimately put you into the position to make decisions and live with the consequences - no matter if they are good or bad - and not feel remorse.

            [–]TheDreadYeti 8 points9 points  (4 children)

            Very good point. I'm gonna add my own qualifier, though: I don't believe the mindset is quite so black and white, even if the results end up being so.

            The gentleman is definitely correct: the world owes us nothing, and we owe the world nothing. But the operative word here is, "owe". We are not born in possession of any emotional debt to anything, unless we choose to adopt it ourselves. We owe nature nothing. Nature owes us nothing. But, the essence of being a leader, of being a genuinely high value individual, lies in the -choice- not just to make ourselves strong, but to use that strength to contribute to the growth of those patterns/people/ideals in which we see value.

            From my perspective, saying "fuck the world, watch it burn" is one of the most beta, bordering on incel perspectives one can have- it's so filled with anger and resentment that it has about as much frame as a 5-year-old throwing a tantrum because mommy won't buy him that ridiculous $70 Nerf gun. However, there is that grain of truth beyond just the anger and immaturity: nothing is actually owed.

            It is a real man that -decides- to use his strength to empower others. That's value. End of the day, we're in this together. And the sum definitely has the potential to be greater than its parts.

            Now, I'm new here and admittedly still lurking and deciding whether or not full TRP is a level of cynicism I'd like to try on. Yes this is my first time posting anything to this forum, but I felt it was necessary in case some impressionable 14 year old who just got burned for the first time stumbles in and, in his own anger, finds himself in danger of latching onto the more damaged aspects of TRP culture.

            My small critique and two cents aside, this is a great community. And there are some fucking Spartans here. I'll be around.

            -Yeti

            [–]Angu_jungle_poo 7 points8 points  (1 child)

            It's a choice in mindset:

             

            B- Work your whole life in discovering and creating 'value' which will be destroyed and forgotten.

             

            R- Realize what you actually need, as a man, right now - understand that true value will inherently come from doing exactly what you want in each moment.

             

            I'm biased

            [–]TheDreadYeti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            Agreed, and brings up a qualifier I neglected to mention in my last- gotta take care of number one, first and foremost (doesn't mean just lazily letting the world burn, and sure as shit doesn't mean beggaring oneself trying to "fix" it). Because choosing to take on more responsibility from a position of weakness is always inviting disaster.

            Everything is a decision- while some make theirs with strategy, forethought, and intention (R, presumably), others make them reactively (following previously ingrained programs, lazy consciousness, etc- B). The self-actualized, act-on-purpose approach seems to be what most of TRP advocates, and with that I am completely on board.

            -Yeti

            [–]modTheRedPike[M] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            From my perspective, saying "fuck the world, watch it burn" is one of the most beta, bordering on incel perspectives one can have- it's so filled with anger and resentment that it has about as much frame as a 5-year-old throwing a tantrum because mommy won't buy him that ridiculous $70 Nerf gun

            Am I to expect more theater like this from you in the future?

            [–]TheDreadYeti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            Depends on whether you're buying the popcorn 👍

            [–]SeedThrownAway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

            That was the one comment that stood out to me. I had to imagine an apocalyptic scenario to see that side of myself. Sure, it's in there. At this point, I'm more interested in "loving the world that won't love me back" as u/officerwade 's brother puts it.

            That's a challenge right there

            [–]Karmapana 2 points3 points  (2 children)

            Yeah besides TRP we should all work towards being effectively good human beings. It's one thing being altruistic when speaking about 'the game' but one shouldn't be a fuck head when it comes to his own life. Alphas are also the ones with the mindset, ideas and will power to shape this world.

            [–]SilkTouchm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            It's one thing being altruistic when speaking about 'the game' but one shouldn't be a fuck head when it comes to his own life.

            Why not? because you say so?

            Alphas are also the ones with the mindset, ideas and will power to shape this world.

            I really don't care. I get one life only. I'm not wasting it so others can enjoy it instead of me.

            [–]Buchloe 1 point2 points  (3 children)

            Another post also reminds us that we determine our own values, and pick the tools we find useful. If you disagree that we shouldn't feel responsibility toward the greater good, then ignore it and do you.

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              [–]geo_gan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              If we don’t LEAD, then we concede the world to the SJW’s and White Knights who will rule it their way (however shitty and short-lived that world might be).

              This should be another RP truth added to list

              [–]Karmapana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Have an upvote. I just finished stating that same sentiment up in the replies.

              [–]expansion101 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

              You're right. But all men of history that shaped the world did so to their benefit. Pussy may not have been the direct benefit, but wealth, power, protection, or revenge was.

              [–]SunnysideMorales -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

              How about the horde of beta males who think that great contribution will make them alpha only to find out that they unknowingly contribute to the system? Just like normal-people league, few people in the history-league are alpha. The biggest slaves are also hailed as history-maker. Do you think Elon Musk is an alpha? Know how much he is paying his ex-wives? Most history-makers are whales-too-big-he-doesn't-care-about-the-parasites.

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              [–]1ozaku7 60 points61 points  (5 children)

              The beauty in most of these comments is that it has content that noone dares to say except for a few because it might be too harsh of a truth towards the OP in said thread. While it's exactly this collective censorship that keeps the community from moving forward. Sometimes you need to tell someone who has been doing something for the last 20 years is totally wrong and be brutal about it, because some people simply don't get it otherwise.

              It's like telling your friend she can't find a decent guy because all men suck, rather than she is a fat pig that is 100 pounds overweight and men simply want a healthy sexy girl in their lifes, not a hambeast. It's the same for beta males by telling them they are men that suck, that no woman will accept them for who they are and there isn't a lid for every pot, but rather that women seek for certain qualities in a man in order to be even considered as mating material, otherwise they feel they are better off alone.

              Empathy makes the world beautiful, but it's a big plaster of lies on the real problem, it's why beta fathers are a bad example for their children, and mothers only feed into this beta bullshit by telling their sons they are smart, beautiful and just basically give them an ego they don't deserve. Because if mommy loves me, so would my girlfriend right? Why would mommy lie? Because she wants to see her kids happy and she cannot hurt them. That's how bitches are raised and which is why you are fucked when your dad is a pussy or you don't have a dad at all. Your mom wants the best for you right now, your dad wants the best for you down the line.

              [–]RedditForFreeSpeech 15 points16 points  (0 children)

              “Your mom wants the best for you right now, your dad wants the best for you down the line.”

              Saving this. Sums up a father’s role quite well.

              [–]Wolveryn 8 points9 points  (1 child)

              Hahaha “Hambeast” is my new favourite word.

              [–]DeontologicalSanders 0 points1 point  (1 child)

              The beauty in most of these comments is that it has content that noone dares to say except for a few because it might be too harsh of a truth

              If you haven't noticed, that's literally all that the Red Pill is. It's the reason this place exists. Some truths are simply too severe to be spoken aloud. Some realities of this world are so harsh that they can cripple the self-worth of those about whom they are spoken, and wreck the reputation of those who speak them at the same time.

              Try speaking about Red Pill truths in mixed company, even without using the name.

              Two things, and two things only, will happen:

              A) You gain nothing. Fucking nothing. People have been told this great grand lie, that we're beyond the point of being driven by pragmatic self-interest, that human nature has changed massively in the last 200 years, and that we've somehow become more inherently polite when it comes to getting what we want out of life. It hasn't, and we haven't. But they can't let go of that idea without re-tooling their entire worldview.

              B) The content of what you're saying will be totally ignored, and you will immediately be written off as a bitter, angry, sexless misogynist. No argument, discussion, or enlightenment is ever worth that cost. Women are biologically programmed and socialized to unionize against any narrative or idea that makes them look bad. They have capped value. Society doesn't really give a shit about anything other than what they look like and how much of a whore they are/aren't. They might not admit it, but they know this. They cannot abide negative publicity. Your RP truths, as reasoned and objective as they may be, mean nothing to them in the face of that.

              That is what TRP is. A series of unspeakable truths that the world may well deserve, but absolutely cannot handle.

              [–]1ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              It's all about delivery. If you talk about theory why women need to be approached and why women are attracted to the top guy (because of so much offer, she rather sits it out and takes the guy "she likes the most" (emphasize "the guy she likes the most, versus the top 10% guy, which is ALWAYS the guy she likes the most).

              It's all about phrasing. One way people agree, other way people want to murder you.

              [–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 46 points47 points  (1 child)

              This one is my favorite from u/coldicezero

              "There are a lot of moving parts to your comment, which pretty much cover the spectrum of TRP theory.

              Marriage

              First, I'm a lawyer; and I view marriage through a legal lens. It's important to distinguish matrimony (the [spiritual] union of two people as a committed couple) and marriage (the enforceable contract governed by the state which transfers legal title to property from one person to another).

              In common parlance, marriage = matrimony. In order to demonstrate your love for your partner, you're supposed to have a ceremony that expresses your intent to be bonded with this person forever (or at least, that's what is socially expected). And while you and your significant other go through this matrimonial ceremony, it's also customary to pledge your property and financial assets to each other and promise to financially support the income-weaker between you two, until they die or remarry. Doesn't that sound romantic?

              The advice against marriage is business advice. You wouldn't just jump into a business partnership with any yahoo who might embezzle from you and irresponsibly crash your business, but people haphazardly choose to pledge their financial security to their significant other without a second thought. They only sober up when things don't play out happily ever after, and now they're on the hook to comply with a court order to split assets and pay spousal maintenance.

              So the TRP advice against marriage isn't synonymous with advice against matrimony; TRP advice against marriage is like a lawyer, CPA, financial advisor, and insurance actuary giving you financial investment advice about how you should be careful about who has access to your valuables.

              TRP, in general

              Second, at its core, TRP seeks to answer one question: what stimulus do women really respond to? Our culture teaches us that people, both men and women, *should* behave in a certain way and that relationships *should* be a certain way. This gives all of us certain expectations for how people should behave and react to us.

              But social and cultural values don't always reflect nature. Masturbation may be a sin according to Judeo-Christian ethics and we're all expected to refrain from touching ourselves sexually; but as sexual creatures, boys and girls will always experiment with masturbation, even if they don't talk about it in public.

              So what other things might we be expected to do publicly that we naturally do differently without discussing it? What things do people really respond to, especially when it comes to sex and physical attraction? Furthermore, what does it really mean to be in a relationship?

              These are the questions TRP seeks to understand the answers to, free from the cultural and social framing we grew up with.

              The results seem to be that people are not as pious as one might socially expect. Turns out, women like sex just as much as men (if not more than men). Turns out, fidelity is a wonderful virtue; but the median person doesn't behave virtuously.

              So there's a clash between our socially developed expectations and the reality of how people act and the kind of behavior they respond to.

              Anger Phase

              Many men go through the anger phase as a result of the contrast between their expectations that women should be a certain way and how they really are. These men in the anger phase are hostile toward women because they blame women for their difference from the guy's expectations.

              But these men are just angry fools. Eventually, the wise ones of them will grow past their own foolishness and stop being angry at women and learn to accept women for who they are and how they react to things. We can only know truth when we listen without opinion.

              TRP Theory

              Ultimately, the view is that the median person honestly doesn't want a long term relationship. Well, more specifically, the median person's actions are moreso driven by short term interests rather than long term goals.

              While men and women pay lip service to the notion of being in a long term committed relationship, their actions indicate the contrary. Despite the fact that they may appreciate the emotional stability and financial support of a long term relationship, the problem is that those traits are not sexually exciting.

              Sex is about excitement. Muscled men are exciting. Passion is exciting. Things that are new are exciting. Things that are old are neither passionate nor exciting.

              So it's difficult to maintain a long term, boring, unexciting relationship when we are biologically wired to respond positively to new, passionate, exciting things, especially when sex is in the mix.

              TRP on Attraction

              You cannot negotiate attraction. Sexual attraction is not the result of a pragmatic chain of logical conclusions. Instead, sexual attraction is a hormonal, chemical response, often almost uncontrollable. At the end of the day, we are all just animals; so we shouldn't be surprised when people behave like animals.

              Because sex and sexual attraction is exciting and exciting things have a tendency to drive our short term decision making, people are more likely to follow their hormones rather than their rational, pragmatic logic when it comes to sexual opportunities.

              TRP on Women

              So it isn't that TRP hates women or thinks women are second class (well, not as a main focus of the subject, at least). It's that TRP is about the reality of what people want, as determined by their actions, not as determined by their words. And it certainly appears that the median man and woman will act on their sexual attraction to other people, even when they are in a "committed" relationship. They will lie about it, they will twist certain truths, they will dodge responsibility, and they will eventually get bored and unfulfilled by the stagnant old relationship and pursue the new and exciting relationship.

              This doesn't mean long term relationships are impossible, just statistically improbable because all women, all people, are still human and are still driven by their biological urges. AWALT.

              Again, TRP isn't about hating women. TRP is about figuring out what stimulus women really respond to, and how we as men can realistically increase our success with women, mostly in a sexual context, but also to a lesser degree in long term relationships.

              TRP on Plate Spinning

              Plate spinning is just a practical approach to the transient sexual game between men and women. It's saying, "hey, I didn't make the rules to this game; I just understand how it's played. Chances are good that *she* [whoever] isn't the kind of girl you want to take home to meet your parents, but you still want to get your dick wet. As the 'relationship' is going to crash eventually, you might as well enjoy the ride while you can. She isn't yours; it's just your turn."

              Conclusion

              Ultimately, all of this is positive toward relationships between men and women because it's a study of discovering exactly what women want. By giving them exactly what they want, they are the most happy and we receive what we want. Then, by consistently providing the appropriate stimuli, we are potentially better at coaxing a relationship into persisting for lengthier period of time.

              The important thing to realize is that a long term relationship is not like a train that can sit idlely on a track and be fine; a relationship is like an airplane that needs constant input in order to stay aloft. TRP recognizes this and also recognizes that sometimes, despite your best efforts, relationships crash. It's just important to learn from your mistakes, figure out how to improve yourself, don't get too hung up on past failures (or hung up on exs), and then don't be afraid to get back in the saddle and do it all again with someone else.

              Back to Marriage

              On a final note, except for taxes, nearly every legal property right can be covered by some form of contract or estate plan. Marriage is merely an automatic bundle of rights, but you can piecemeal those same rights outside of marriage. Marriage literally is designed at law to provide the bulk of its value after your death. In life, it's almost entirely a liability, a Doom of Damocles. Don't get married."

              [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

              Yes! TRPs legal Expert ftw.

              [–]Elecktrozan 72 points73 points  (1 child)

              "Women only have as much power as we willingly hand over to them"
              So true!

              [–]4thAndLong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Yep. This is why it's so important to maintain frame ALL OF THE TIME. Any time you slip, she will notice and take advantage of it.

              [–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (2 children)

              Best post in a long time.

              The red pill taught me this is all vanity.. plates..ltr..marriage.. you get nothing out of sex unless you have kids. Pulling 9s & 10s seem cool before but once I started getting them it was meaningless..

              [–]Lest23 16 points17 points  (0 children)

              I’d say the fact pulling 9s and 10s is meaningless is a sign of personal growth and increased value, and therefore meaning in itself

              [–]Karmapana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              You gotta figure out how to give meaning to your life, then, when including those 9s and 10s in it.

              [–]memer935115 17 points18 points  (1 child)

              Often times i read the posts on this sub but not the comments on them, and that changes today.

              [–]danoranika 7 points8 points  (0 children)

              Yeah, the comments usually are the red pills

              [–]composedtantrum 15 points16 points  (0 children)

              Awesome! This was a great Sunday read. Your work is appreciated

              [–]Beanor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

              I creep here often and sift through to get these nuggets. This is just gold.

              [–]crespo_modesto 9 points10 points  (4 children)

              night clubs are scams that's good, that's how I was at it the other day "go there looking for something but disappointed when it's not there" meantime spent money on alcohol. I also realize at least for me, alcohol taxes me into the next day where I usually sleep more to catch up/feel like shit (drink water, drink more, etc...)

              edit: though I'll admit I'm coming from a place of need. I was literally Googling "edm, night club" trying to find a "cool place to go" where it would be "poppin' and hot girls" ahh... I was in this cycle years ago in school, still recovering from my mistakes from then.

              [–]RedditForFreeSpeech 7 points8 points  (3 children)

              Drinking is way overrated. Makes you lose frame more easily and what kind of beta needs “liquid courage” to be assertive?

              [–]Mr-Ed209 0 points1 point  (1 child)

              Im seriously thinking of packing it in. After the first 2 beers it just becomes diminishing returns. Not to mention the amount of botched dates i've had from getting too drunk, running my mouth or getting her home to have a noodle dick.

              [–]caunteris2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              beers are shit, unless they are fresh made. whiskey the best.

              [–]crespo_modesto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              True. But do you just go to a club sober? Maybe some substances involved. Sadly I know the shit doesn't work with me. For now I focus on digging myself out of a hole I dug for myself.

              [–]Gurisito 6 points7 points  (0 children)

              "Oneitis? Go talk and fuck other girls". - Dmva100, probably

              [–]BostonPillParty 19 points20 points  (0 children)

              This should be done monthly. Good tidbits.

              [–]rossiFan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

              Those are outstanding. Excellent post.

              [–]Pisaunt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

              Speechless, thank you for the collection.

              [–]StudntRdyTeachrApear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              This is fucking awesome. Seriously. Wake the fuck up, this is a great list of TRP gems people. Swallow that motherfucker and stop trying to use redpill tools for bluepill goals. The world is as it is, and larping as a tradcon in this decadent society, pretending you're the change you want to see in the world is just as bluepill as believing men and woman are the same. Maintain a small harem (or large if you can), have a mission for yourself, and never allow a woman to leverage the government against you in any way. There is no greater feeling of despair than hopelessness at the prospect of fighting an unbeatable enemy.

              Make your own path and forget about what you were taught as a child. That shit you were conditioned to strive for, age old traditions, are long gone, and they are not coming back thanks to technology.

              [–]DaftOdyssey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

              There's a app called The Red pill Quotes, which also contains gems like these

              [–]Don_Himself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

              ctrl+F

              searches "Don_Himself" on List

              lack of Don_Himself posts

              thread immediately invalid

              [–]slackbladerered 5 points6 points  (0 children)

              Cool post and good reminders

              [–]Politikr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

              First TRP comment. Well done. (Slow clap)

              [–]Work_In_Progress92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

              A good collection from some of the best brains in this community.

              [–]qwerty8008135 3 points4 points  (0 children)

              Nightclubs are a money trap. Most people who go to nightclubs are people who cant get laid

              [–]JensenMse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              I'd love to see this pinned on top. A lot of guys would benefit very much from reading this. Thank you for such an awesome compilation.

              [–]z2a1-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Great collection of posts. I agree with OP that the comment section is a gold mine if you take the time to read it. Stay strong and keeping improving yourself!

              [–]BlackCraneStoic 1 point2 points  (1 child)

              You are lazy which is why you didn't even bother to read the stickied posts here and surely not a single word from the sidebar, but most importantly it's why you are fat. Change your diet and start lifting." -Vandaalen

              Love everyone but this. Shouldnt take it personal at all as I lift my ass of 5 days a week when I can and 3 bare mininmal on the worst weeks all while holding down a 12 hr shit job. No one gives a shit I'm well aware of it but this one was way too general.

              [–]Karmapana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              What's wrong with the statement? If you're lazy it leads to all of those things. If you're not lazy that post wasn't for you.

              [–]PullNeckInTheHeat 0 points1 point  (1 child)

              One good piece of advice I got from TRP was that:

              Womens' most valuable gift is sex. Mens' most valuable gift is a relationship.

              The depth of that statement can change how you deal with women.

              [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Great little gem right there

              [–]LordLoveRocket_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Just recently after breaking up with my girlfriend i thought id sign up for Instagram, she always denied having one but i wasn't shocked when i saw her profile. I didn't know she needed that much validation from strangers. And the whole profile was a cherry picked carefully planned out profile. I could even see when things started to go wrong from her posts.(around the start of this year) its funny too she used my cat as hers to get likes or whatever. I don't care i find it amusing, and describes what she meant by missing the cat in texts after we broke up. I don't resent her for having instagram, it seems all girls are pressured into it. But it lowered her value significantly in my eyes. I just don't get why you need strangers to see what you do with your life? Orbiters for helping with insecuritys? I don't know maybe i wasn't giving her the affection she needed. I hope shes happy now. I did check her fb a couple of days after we broke up and it was a bad decision, after seeing her Instagram i decided i didn't want one and haven't looked since. Its easier to not know and if she needs it to feel better about herself thats fine i have no resentment.

              [–]nofilmynofucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Great compilation. If it were a little more structured in terms of subject matter and with minimal additions it quite easily could be turned into a compressed 'tldr' version of the sidebar.

              I don't mention this to detract from the posts value at all, but rather to highlight it. thanks for sharing op, at the very least this needs to be stickied

              [–]VoidInvincible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              The boyfriend thing is excellent.

              [–]Seven_Veils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Great comments by GayLubeOil!

              [–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              This post is pot of golden little nuggets, each for our taking and to be utilized wisely 💯

              [–]EQFEQR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Great post liveaftsov you have been putting in work lately!

              [–]Parara_papapapaVeis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              I will contribute this time, this one is actually from Nieztsche not from me:

              "We love above everything else our desires, not the desired Object"

              In other words, YOU DON'T LOVE HER YOU BETA, YOU LOVE THE FEELING IN RELATION TO HER, which is something that can happen with other women too, she isn't special or unique, she don't own you!

              [–]BorrowedSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              This is awesome. Thanks for putting this together

              [–]Youngyoda89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Why nothing from uncle vass

              [–]bot256 0 points1 point  (1 child)

              "Young middle class men are at the bottom of a society's totem pole. We pay the most into a society and get the least out if it. Do welfare queens care that they're destabilizing the system? Did bankers care in 2008 when they asked for huge taxpayer bailouts. Did bush care when he undermined the international standing of the US with his invasion of Iraq? No. Everyone is doing what's best for them except for idealistic boys like yourself. Pleasing others to please yourself is beta male pathology, and we just don't subscribe to the slave morality drilled into your skull at public school." - GayLubeOil"

              See, that's why I always disagreed with a lot of what Marcus Aurelius has written. The dude's stoic ideas are cool but when he talks how all he does oughts to be in service of the state, of the city, of society is where I no longer fully agree with him. I wonder, though, what is more red pill - to look after yourself and do what's in your best interest or to contribute to society and try to make some kind of a difference towards an image of the world that better fits your ideas.

              [–]Da_RectumWrecker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              I needed to hear 'It's essential to communicate " I am an attractive man with other options and you're lucky that I stick around", in a way that women actually understand and believe (and that means communicating with actions not words).'

              I have to remind myself that I can only do it with actions. I sometimes use my words to communicate it, but I need to stop doing that completely and immediately. I knew better, but was doing it anyways.

              [–]therealjspot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              3 out of the last 4 seem to be missing part of the comments, any chance to get it added in.

              [–]HolaQuackQuack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              This is pure Gold! Thanks for sharing

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              [–]PM_ME_UR_SOLES_GIRLL -1 points0 points  (1 child)

              Honest question: On dating sites , do you usually meet up at her apartment on the first date? Pretty much 90% of the women I've met online have flaked on me after the first date. I feel like they're just looking to feed their ego the same way the women are that send you a few messages and never reply.

              [–]HerefortheTuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Fix yourself and your frame

              [–]Avskygod0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              Civilization itself requires human reproductive instincts to be limited. We're now at the point where to reach the next level, their complete destruction and replacement is required. Maybe we'll live to see it, maybe not. The sheer amount of violence that'll be required to institute such changes probably places many in the second option.

              [–]Dawnguards -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              Some "gems" were quite honest, some were lame ass descriptions - example is what TRP. <- those were basically redirection or false on their own. Not sure what was the agenda of those people who describe what TRP is in this thread.

              [–]Demiurge_Decline -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              Like reading Proverbs in the Bible... awesome stuff. It is great feeding off of minds alike and above my own. This is why I visit the red Pill, where else can you get a guy to quote socrates, and another to quote war tactics and another to break down mathemtics all pulling the subjects together effortlessly. Love it - in my non beta submissive voice...

              [–]Flying_Wingback -1 points0 points  (0 children)

              Can't remember who posted it but read something here recently in the comments along the lines of: "A woman has two mouths and only one speaks the truth. It is not the one up top. Watch what gets her pussy wet, not what she says"

              [–]KingMoka -15 points-14 points  (8 children)

              So sad that most of thease quotes are from a guy named GayLubeOil, and are completely inaccurate. The only thing women want is a man that can fuck and a man that can fight? Yeah, maybe the broken daddy-issues girl doing tricks for money at the corner of 21st.

              [–]modTheRedPike[M] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

              /u/GayLubeOil, this isn't the first time you have triggered special here. Do you want to toy with the literallist fucktard or punch his ticket on The Banschwitz Express?

              [–]heartbroken_nerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              "Most".

              CTRL+F, "GayLubeOil". 6 entries, two are in the comments.

              I think you just don't like the guy and/or you can't count.

              [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              I'm sure YOUR wife is different, because NAWALT.

              [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              I think the quote you're thinking if us by Rian Stone

              [–]meme_poacher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Hey don't mess with my favorite homosexuallubricantpetroleumproduct.

              [–]1Entropy-7 -2 points-1 points  (4 children)

              The funny thing is, I am about as close to James Bond as 99.9% of people will ever meet. And it works. Chicks dig it.

              [–]ThatKidinAfrica -1 points0 points  (3 children)

              Close as in Manners and Actions or Looks?

              [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              He studied his written character and lives through the character. He's not longer who ever he was. He is James bond

              [–]1Entropy-7 0 points1 point  (1 child)

              More actions than looks, although I do ok in the latter. Bond was ex navy and secret service. I am ex army, trained by the airborne, combat engineer, explosive demolitions, various martial arts, law school graduate, world traveller.

              This must read as being incredibly narcissistic.

              I considered applying to CSIS but I decided to walk away from that life and now I teach ESL and married a gorgeous Filipina. I live quietly overseas and will return when my fellow citizens put Trudeau to the curb.

              I think my life expectancy has increased. Soldiers and spys die young and I intend to live to be 100.