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MetaThe Red Pill Cheat Sheet (self.TheRedPill)

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Everything that currently needs to be said about TRP, I feel, has already been said, so lets go back to the basics. Perfect way to start the new year, by getting back to the basics. This cheat sheet doesn't cover everything, it's a summary.

** This is a synopsis. Also, posting this on my main instead of a throwaway.**

This post is meant to be read IN ADDITION to the side bar.

DO NOT SKIP THE SIDE BAR.

READ THE SIDE BAR

This post is intended to serve as a quick sheet to many red pill topics and struggles, and to help those looking for quick guidance/information.

The information in this post has been gathered from The Side bar, the Red Pill Handbook, Stickied & Top All Times, Endorsed Contributors, various manosphere websites, or myself, and then summed up in a sentence or five for quicker referencing.

This post assumes you are familiar with Red Pill terminology, and have at least moderate success with your life and with women

This post comes from a position of amorality. Moral friends and concern trolls, im not interested!

This post was written by a on stage performing plate spinner.

Think of this post as a compilation of flash cards.

If you have your own additions to these topics feel free to add them


Your tools in the SMP

There are many ways to become attractive. Different girls are attracted to different aspects to varying degrees, but remember AWALT

You do not need all sexual market points to be attractive, but having them all will of course raise your SMV.

Choose to focus on the ones you excel at the most. Old TRP Saying -> Play to your strengths minimize weaknesses

Listed in no particular order

  • Your Masculinity. Your most valuable AF asset. This is expressed through a deep, low, slow, and commanding voice. Or by your Tonality. breaking rapport tone. Not asking questions. downward/commanding/challenging tonality.

  • Dangerous Vibe. A masculine factor. You are unpredictable, mysterious, you take calculated risks. You are bold. You live life on the edge. You pin her down, you wrestle and play fight with your girl. You choke her. You threaten her. (If you don't know how to threaten in a seductive manner just don't try it - that method is not for you.)

  • Playfulness. Balanced with danger. Playful and relaxed. Strongest after the hint of danger and threat. Masculine polarity is more important, but a little playful can work wonders.

  • High confidence. Self love and self acceptance without justifying your life choices to others translates into confidence and true IDGAF attitude. This includes acceptance of rejection, and the ability to hear out nay-sayers, laugh at them, and then continue on your merry way. <--- The first easiest way to get laid.

  • Detachment. The Buddhist principal of emotional detachment. Stoicism. Acceptance of the good and bad as is - both factors of life. Being non-needy. Not looking for ANY validation in any way shape or form from her. You escalate, but you have zero interest in her words, reassurances, respect, etc.

  • Muscularity/Fitness. Being healthy and looking sexy makes you sexy - Period. <-- The 2nd easiest way to get laid.

  • Fashion Sense. Being well dressed with clothes that fit you and suit your style without being improperly dressed and awkwardly standing out.

  • Mental and Social Wit. Being skilled with words, navigating social situations, properly triggering panty dripping, and proper physical escalation. Knowing the right thing to say, with the right tone, at the right time, combined with the right kino touch. You don't have to be muscular to be sexy and turn women on.

  • Status. Being popular, being rich and having extraordinary social standing. This is what we call social circle game. The more friends and colleges you have = more social proof = more opportunities = more fun = more sex.

  • Talent. (Talent does not help your SMV unless you have garnered success from your talent.) Have hobbies & passions for yourself but find ways to monetize / expose the world to your talent and have them appreciate it. Having talent simply for the sake of is altruistic foolishness. Look to get ahead. Having success skill/potential in athletic/artistic pursuits. Being a successful and skilled fighter, painter, soccer player, writer, bowler, skater, and more. What matters is not what you do, but that you are a champion of your pursuit. Steven king can get laid by hot intellectual woman for his success in writing in the same way VirtruivanPhysique can get laid by hot party girls for his physical superiority.

  • The ability to lead. Women want to fuck the king, but settle for the peasants.

  • Social Media. High numbers = instant social proof.

  • Your ego. Your ego is who you believe you are. Your beliefs are your mask you show to the world. The mask you wear determines your allies and enemies, and lovers. Are you a pushover beta? Are you a rouge criminal? Are you a reckless biker? Are you a man's man lumberjack? Are you an urban hipster? Maybe you're a Hippy psychedelic person? Are you a creative artist? Are you an intellectual? Are you a gym fanatic? Are you an entrepreneur? Too cool for school? Edgy gothic? Preppy? The list goes on and on - there are an infinite number of egos one may have. Hence the term - alter ego. If you are of the group that lacks morality, you gain more freedom from in this aspect. Law # 48 -> assume formlessness.

If you learn how to disassociate yourself from your ego you have given yourself one of the ultimate freedoms in this life. I think therefore I am.

You can change your desired ego at any time.

A drastic way to change your ego (force yourself into a paradigm shift) is with ego death.

I.e. just cus you're an intellectual doesnt mean you can't thrive in a loud frat party, as long as you know how to craft your ego. Just because you are a loud party frat boy doesnt mean you can't fit in with the business people.

BEWARE YOUR EGO!! My ego has gotten me into so much shit... got robbed at gunpoint for 300$ cus of my fucking ego lol. Keep it in check and use it FOR you not against you.


How to beat LMR

The first two are my personally favorites and have worked for me in anecdotal experience. The last two are do or die methods that could result in her just leaving the house (happened to me.) Make your first two you go-to's and Use the last two with caution.

Also think of this like a ladder where you go from step 1 to step 2...

Ideally you want to get a girl to have sex with you as soon as you say to, but if that doesnt work... then:

  • Stop, talk, than resexualize. The 2 forward 1 back method/push and pull method. Give it about 4-8 tries.

  • Stop and do something else. Pretend that she is not even there. Turn around and go to sleep or go read a book or something. Just withdraw attention completely

  • The verbal nuke. Tell her that she makes you horny and go for the fuck. If she pushes you back, stop.

  • The MOAB. Wait a few minutes after her final rejection. Then, put on your clothes, ask her to put on her clothes calmly, because you're gonna walk her to the door cus you got a busy day tomorrow. If she leaves, well you were never gonna fuck her. If she fucks you, well there you go.


How to qualify your prospective plate/ltr

The Ly Star of Attraction.

  • Does she mentally stimulate me? (Personality, intelligence, wit, feminine [or masculine if you're a feminine dude] mental state.)

  • Is she physically appealing? (Feminine face, feminine or womanly bodily features [feminine = small, womanly = thick/tonned] over all good looking / healthy. 1-10 scale)

  • Is she sexually stimulating? (A hot sexy ass. That plump and thick round kind is my favorite. > https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CzMtGxFVQAA6Fy-.jpg < Big not not too big tittties, dick sucking lips, and she has sexual skills / stamina. She is a slut in bed. She knows how to ride. I.E. is not a starfish. She is of my personal "type" or preference. Tan/gold/caramel girls are more sexy than white girls to me. 1-10 scale.)

  • Does she stimulate me spiritually? (Does she give the illusion of a higher connection? Does she give my soul romantic experiences? Am I able to feel a divine, pair bonded connection to her? [No this is not some oneitis disney movie bullshit] Does she value art, creativity, meditation, and nature?)

  • Is she emotionally stimulating to me? (She shows me happiness, sadness, horniness, shyness, anger, frustration. She lets me appreciate all aspects of her human emotions and doesnt hide herself.)

  • Is she in a good situation financially? (Will she be dependent on my money? Will she try to goad me into Beta bux? Is she able to cover her own fairs? Is her wealth surplus to the point of buying me gifts?)

  • Is she careerly set? does she have a good career? Will she support mine? This is different from financial.

  • Is she socially savvy? Does she have her own circle of friends, or would I be the centre of her attention? Who are her friends? Are they good people?

  • Is her family happy and healthy? Does she come from a loving, sane home? Is the father in the picture? Is he respected?


How to succeed in the SMP's of Highschool and College

These tips are best applied for to girls between the ages of 16 - 25. This is my favorite age group - low desire for commitment, high likelihood of coitus. Even when I am 40 I will still find and bang 20 year olds. Haters get mad.

  • START CLUBS + INTEREST GROUPS <----- easily most important and easiest way to get laid. Build social circles where you're the valuable leader. I've done this personally, and got a lot of guy friends, major popularity, and fucked 2 girls as a direct result from it.

  • Join clubs and interest groups, peform on stage if you can. <----- also got me popular and laid (i recited poetry on stage, u can be a nerd and still get cute poon.)

  • These girls are not women. They are girls. While AWALT generally applies, they are 90% looking for fun, adventure and experience rather than stability.

  • Expect and embrace drama. Read the sidebar and become a shit-test expert and you will increase your chances of laying young bimbos substantially.

  • Make the girls feel emotional. Not make them feel good, make them feel emotional. That means happy, sad, sexy, plain, excited, disheartened, calm, anxious - anything but letting them not be emotional. Lack of emotions = boredom = no tingles.

  • Sell drugs, be a gang member, get into fights etc.

  • Young girls think in general consensus. Win the majority to win the minority.

  • They don't care what you do and what your hobbies are AS LONG AS YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE AND POPULAR!! Awkward, skinny neckbeard collecting action figures with his 4chan is weird and creepy. Fit and well shaven charismatic dude friends with hot females and high SMV males collecting action figures is "so nerdy and cute <3 ;3 " Jacked gym-bro with no social awareness or social life is a compensating weirdo creep. Jacked gym bro getting hit up 1000 times a day is Adonis.


The principals of secrecy and moderation

Followers of the Gumby prophecy believe life is about balance. We all have vices, no one is perfect 100% of the time, nor should you be. We are human - we aren't meant to be perfect.

Imbalance creates unhappiness.

  • Drink a couple brews and get buzzed - don't get shit faced every day.

  • Smoke weed once and a while if you like - don't advertise it to the world. You will be labeled.

  • Go to the gym 5 times a week - Don't lift for 7 hours a day.

  • Go out and approach women - don't spend every waking minute approaching.

  • Go snowboarding every day - don't let that be your only hobby.

  • Invest in your business - don't turn every single interaction into a business transaction. (Unless you're an annoying scum bag pyramid schemer.)

Work hard, play hard.

All work and no play makes jack a dull boy.

There is a reason why these quotes exist.

Secrecy

Do not be an open book. Be vague in your intentions, but open enough not to draw suspicion.

  • You want to get a promotion. No one needs to know that, only that you want to start taking your job a little more seriously.

  • You want to fuck a fat girl for practice. No one needs to know that, only that "you got laid the other night. It was okay."

If anything, lying to exaggerate yourself and value is more beneficial than telling the truth. If you are a moral-friend, use secrecy.


How to make a woman lose attraction for you.

  • Communicate verbally with a woman. They lie about themselves and assume you are doing the same. They cannot act/feel on the basis of anything verbally communicated. If she steps out of line say "don't do that". But don't sit down and communicate to her - it will weaken your position and strengthen hers. She will act on absolutely nothing that has been discussed even when she swears on her grandmother she won't (or will) do whatever the problem is. The only exception is putting her in her place when she does something not to your satisfaction.

  • Confide and share your problems with a woman. Weakness = loss of attraction.

  • Commit too much too early. Commitment kills passion.

  • Give her a sexual monopoly. Oneitis is your enemy. Do not commit to one girl - they don't appreciate it and you will start to backslide into betahood the second you feel you don't have the options you did. Cure oneitis by exploring other options.


Identifying Your Enemies

The more you succeed in life the more you will attract the hated and envy of the mediocre, or the opposition of the successful who want to maintain their monopoly. Find allies to combat your enemies. Preferably, be a leader who finds underlings just under your level, so that you are always their idol, and you serve as their guide. This is the concept of tribe building.

Eliminate your enemies from your life as quickly as possible. This is a law of power. Do not hang out with the miserable or the unlucky.

You stand either by my side, in my legion, or in my fucking way.

Recognizing your enemies

  • The Naysayer. They are easily identifiable, simply share your intentions with someone. If they react by telling you what you can/cannot do, they are a naysayer. Identify the type of naysaying that they are acting upon, as there are many different types, the insecure and envious failure, and the well meaning.

  • The Insecure Naysayer: This person is reminded of their own failures through your successes and ambitions. They are merely weak-willed scums who project their own limitations onto you and should be disregarded as the losers they are.

Example: You want to become one of the best roller bladers in the world. Your insecure naysayer acquaintance has been practicing skating for 3 years. In 1 month you already show more promise.

Insecure naysayer: "What? You think you're gonna be the next Brian Aragon or Tony Hawk? Come on dude be realistic. There is a 99% chance no matter how much you practice you will never be that good."

  • The Well Meaning Naysayer: This person believes they have your best interests in mind. Only you have your best interests in mind, remember that. Know thyself. Be aware of the well meaning nay sayer's advice, for sometimes it is beneficial to you to heed their warnings.

Example: You want to become a famous battle rapper. Your well meaning naysayer brother believes you won't get famous and even if you do the risk is not worth the reward.

Well meaning Naysayer: "What? You wanna be a famous battle rapper? There's like a 1 in a million chance of you blowing up like that bro, there are better things for you to invest your time in to become successful, like lifting. Besides, you will be surrounded by low life thugs who will probably shoot you if you roast them too hard."

Recognizing your enemies

  • The Underminer. They are easily identifiable, simply share a piece of your life with them and listen to their words. They will try to make you believe that you are worthless because your success in your interpretation of the world angers them and contradicts their failed world model. Undermining is personal. Refutation is for your benefit. Learn the difference.

Example: You share the fact that you published your first novel with a meat head acquaintance of yours. Your meat head friend has been lifting for years, but still struggles to get with those fit and sexy gym girls. You, on the other hand, get quite the attention from your liberal art intellectual groupies who hear about your publishing success and want to suck your cock.

The underminer: "Lol you're a writer? You're such a fucking faggot. You and all other artist/creative types are the most disposable scums in our society. Please bro, just kill yourself because you and your hobbies are gay."

The refuter: "Oh you're a writer? Are you actually a good one or did you publish a steaming pile of shit? Matter of fact let me read your book and be the judge of that."


How to maintain an attractive frame:

  • Genuinely believe you and your ways are superior to everyone else, without making others feel worthless. You can be arrogant without making others feel like shit. (If they choose to feel offended by you that is their own problem. I am referring to deliberate malicious behaviors towards those you consider under you.)

  • Hear what your haters say, nod, smile, laugh at them, then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyways.

  • Realize the majority of people are complacent and mediocre, and their "advice" is there way of bringing you back into the crab bucket. This realization will free your mind of shame & fear of judgement.

  • Reject their reality and substitute your own.

  • Think of yourself as a God Sun, and people are planets and comets that orbit you. Planets are the people you love and who support you throughout your life. Comets are people who come and go. If they don't want to orbit you anymore, let them lose the benefit of your radiating warmth. Let them freeze in the cold abyss of space.

  • Understand that people speak from a position of perceptive interpretation. That means your opinions and values will differ from others. Do not feel bad if an artist type thinks you are a loser cus you lift and play sports. Do not feel bad if a gym bro thinks you are a loser because you like to paint and write.



[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (10 children)

To those reporting for immoral advice: I don't care.

He could advocate eating babies, and I still wouldn't care. We don't allege moral imperatives in this subreddit. Even if there were ones we all agreed on, we still wouldn't.

We don't do that here. Period.

[–]Fuximus 244 points245 points  (3 children)

This is the sidebar of sidebars.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Plate promotion and analysis deserves its own side bar, if not it’s own subreddit.

Any post on the topic gets an upvote from me.

[–]Carson1099 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When you save the post before reading it

[–]theeaglesdepartment 29 points30 points  (16 children)

'I think therefore I am' has nothing to do with ego. It was a philosopher trying to prove that we exist because we are able to think. Stop trying to sound smart.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 10 points11 points  (12 children)

kid, We are our thoughts.

If we think we're worthless losers, we are depressed losers. We think we're awesome we're awesome, we think we're x we're x

Inner frame.

[–]theeaglesdepartment 18 points19 points  (7 children)

I don't realy think you adressed my comment there. You took the quote completely out of context and tried to apply a new meaning to it.

Also I disagree with your comment. If a someone thinks there awesome or amazing they are probably not. They are more likely a narcissistic cunt. Someone with low self asteem could beleive they are worthless, when they are actually succesful. Of course believing you are great or awesome could perhaps help you in acheiving whatever goals you have but it certaintly won't be enough just believing you are great.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 4 points5 points  (6 children)

please seduce a woman and win friends by being a sad sack

[–]theeaglesdepartment 10 points11 points  (5 children)

Many people have. A friend of mine has severe depression and could be considered an 'alpha'. He has many friends and is very succesful with women

[–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

I am SO interested in this.

Does he go around actually behaving as if he is down in the dumps or does he put up a cheerful persona and let the sadness slip out when he's alone or with a close friend? Who I assume would be you considering you know he is depressed.

Edit: So interested cus this is a real phenomena rn in millenial culture - the sad boi aesthetic. not even kidding

[–]theeaglesdepartment 7 points8 points  (3 children)

He puts up a persona, not neccesarily cheerful, but not depressed. I don't know what the fuck sadboi aesthetic is but I don't think this is a phenomena. Another one of my friends did this. He was incredibly succesful socially, and so depressed that he killed himself a few weeks ago. We are certaintly not what we think we are. Most people have terrible self awareness, or there thoughts won't change what they are going or trying to become.

Stop trying to avoid my original comment. You still took the quote out of context and haven't acknowledged it.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

you're citing socrates, im citing buddha

[–]theeaglesdepartment 7 points8 points  (1 child)

It was descartes not socrates, and buddha said a variation of it. Im pretty sure it was 'we are what we think'.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well there you go im not citing ur guy

[–]gELSK 2 points3 points  (3 children)

// , This smacks of that whole "create your own reality" bullshit that women buy into when they tell their girlfriend "you're amazing" while sipping lattes at the StarSchmucks.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

lol. Life is your sandbox. Literally nothing is stoping you from going out and killing someone, or raping a hot girl

Or you could put in work to fuck hot girls consensually

[–]gELSK 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Literally

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally use that phone figuratively

[–]thefisherman1961 203 points204 points  (33 children)

If you learn how to disassociate yourself from your ego you have given yourself one of the ultimate freedoms in this life.

A good hit of LSD will do that for you in 12 hours

[–]redblueninja 16 points17 points  (24 children)

Can you please explain that a bit?

[–]ceqozesah 106 points107 points  (22 children)

Ego death caused by psychedelics is temporary losing ones identity or your idea of self at at high enough dose.it allows you to see different presepectives good and bad and can be used as a tool to help you grow.look up psychedsubstance youtube.

[–]Psychocist 52 points53 points  (19 children)

Glad to see others here preaching the good book. For others: educate yourself FIRST! Don't just jump into big psychedelic trips and expect positive life-changing experiences. Interpretation of the experience itself can lead to many different outcomes, good and bad.

I remember a post a while back from a guy who had taken ayahuasca (not LSD, but is psychedelic) expecting it to change his life. It did, but by way of years of depression. Upon reading more into what had happened and what was happening now, it was patently clear it was his interpretation of the loss of ego and meaning, etc, that led him to and prolonged his depression.

Ego death will give you THE unified perspective on life, free of all BS interpretation.. but when your ego wraps you up again, you alone are responsible for how you interpret and integrate that newfound perspective into your life.

[–][deleted] 41 points42 points  (4 children)

I can relate. I took 20mg 4-aco-dmt at a time when I was depressed, living alone, and had a poisonous attitude. That trip was so bad I thought about killing myself after, but in many ways it actually revealed how shitty of a person I was and how empty and unfulfilled my life had been. Ever since I've been on a quest for self-improvement. Respect psychedelics, their highs are nothing like weed. Be prepared for your reality to be shattered.

[–]Shaman6624 18 points19 points  (3 children)

I took shrooms and the day after I thought I had to kill myself cause I couldn't keep up with the amount of new things I was seeing in human behaviour and subconscious motivation of tiny actions. Still rather would've found out about those things sober and not with a 100mph.

I believe this kind of explosive growth isn't good for you as a organism. They see the same in companies that want to grow to fast. The system colapses. But maybe there are exceptions. If I want to reach some new insight I'll rather meditate. Sitting still and thinking is a tried and tested way to find out about this shit without messing with your brain chemicals.

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    [–]Shaman6624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I think there is potential in it. But you should already have faced some demons on your own. I think I was to young and irresponsible to cope with it. Others might have less trouble with it.

    [–]fromthecrypt8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I mostly agree. Especially if one is in a bad/depressed state.

    [–]ChadThundercockII 20 points21 points  (1 child)

    To add to this, Terence McKenna preached that LSD should be used along with a deep knowledge of Jungian psychoanalysis, not necessarily deep understanding but wider and deeper knowledge would do the trick. Psychs need a mind that is aware of archetypes and symbols to be beneficial.

    [–]Psychocist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    I definitely agree with that.

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      [–]Psychocist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      As an alternative I'd suggest a meditation camp in Bali where its safe instead... and at the end when your mind is in a good stable place maybe take a legal magic mushroom shake with a few of the friends made while meditating.

      I love that idea. I'm in Thailand so will definitely consider doing this.

      Yeh, I should have clarified RE ayahuasca. Great comment, thanks.

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        [–]Psychocist 39 points40 points  (6 children)

        Well, psychedelics can help you discover what your real values are, so it can go both ways that one.

        The two main components of a good trip are set and setting.

        Set is your mindset, how you've felt recently, how you've felt in the past, how you feel today. It's obviously not a great idea to explore (alone) if you're not in a good mindset. Having said that, shrooms have been shown to have a positive effect on people suffering with depression, and obviously their mindset is not necessarily in a great place.

        Setting is your environment -- who is there, is it safe, are you comfortable, do you have privacy, etc. there is nothing worse than getting pulled into someone else's world who isn't tripping when you're up there. There is a clear disconnect between the two states of mind. Also, don't trip with others who haven't tripped before unless you know each other very well and you are confident they are not going to lose the plot -- and, of course, don't hang out with people you don't like; you are highly suggestible while tripping. Exceptions are given to experienced trippers and/or a trip guide who knows what they're doing.

        If you want to start exploring, my suggestion would be to start small. Have small amounts (30ug), double the dose every time until about 400ug and see where you are. Space the trips out plenty (month apart, let's say), and do plenty of reading and preparation before and after the trips. Read other trip reports, read about the 5 levels of psychedelic experience, maybe even buy a book. Doorway to The Numinous is an excellent book:

        "Stanislav Grof’s first 17 years of research into nonordinary states of consciousness induced by LSD and other psychedelics led to a revolutionary understanding of the human psyche"

        You will be able to resist the effects up until about 200ug+.. by that I mean there is a transitionary period before the peak that is quite uncomfortable, and after a while you will 'breakthrough'. But on smaller doses these breakthroughs are very minor and can still be resisted. On higher doses you will have no option but to surrender to what seems like an overwhelming experience.

        Again, most important thing is education. Ignore everybody and just go do some research, then dabble with the actual experience. Though many have walked it before, it's a very personal journey. Check shroomery and psychonauts subreddit and ask some questions there and start a conversation about it.

        Finally, during the actual experience, keep reminding yourself that no matter what happens and no matter how weird shit gets, it is the drug that is causing it and the effects will subside. Accept everything that happens and try not to fight it. You will have many conflicting thoughts and feelings and you can quite easily get yourself in a bind for 8+ hours. Make sure you're in a relaxed place and can lie down and chill in silence or with your favourite music if necessary.

        ..and have fun! With the right intentions and the right knowledge, it can and will change your life for the better.

        [–]TruthInArt 0 points1 point  (3 children)

        Where does one go about getting shrooms or DMT? I'm currently in a real slump and would love a sort of panacea to just see what my path can be.

        [–]Psychocist 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Dark web probably your best bet if you're in a country that is simple/safe to deliver to. Be careful with DMT, though, that's possibly the most powerful psychedelic experience you can have.. and, from what I've heard, because of the sheer power and lack of time up there (lasts around 15 or so minutes), it can be difficult to integrate into your life.

        +1 for shrooms, though. That's a good place to start.

        ..and none of this is a panacea. Take it one step at a time and be responsible about it. That other comment about pairing this journey with knowledge of psychoanalysis in on point.

        [–]Slackbeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        Think of them of amplifiers. Bad things will get huge, good things as well. Sometimes you need bad things to grow to get your shit together and fight them. Good things are never a problem being amplified, you learn and embrace more of your life and the world.

        I'd say though, if you're with friends you trust and don't take heroic doses you'll be fine. Rough experiences are good for you if you're ready to learn from them.

        [–]Hamster_S_Thompson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Before you jump in head first please be prepared for a 12 hours trip, no buts or ifs. Even if the trip is good that's helluva long time!

        [–]MachiavellianDogma 3 points4 points  (1 child)

        That is not Ego Death. Ego Death doesn't allow you to see anything as you don't have an ego (which is your BEING). You just exist in that moment. No memories or thoughts. Just a hollow flesh suit who exists in that moment in time. It is beautiful yet extremely terrifying

        [–]COORDOORS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        happened to me recently on 6 tabs of AL-LAD. I think I walked back and forth between the bedroom and the bathroom 100 times. thought loop + ego death was so real. had to call an old plate to save me after I was able to regain who/what/where I was lol. ended up fucking and it was weird as fuck. good times though.

        [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        It helps you see your blind spots more over-time by raising your openness. Imagine being one of those dolls that has progressively smaller dolls inside each other.

        Imagine being the outer most, having a trip, and seeing from a layer or two inside. Shedding layers more consciously, and quickly. Distilling you until all that's left is sharp and real. Except, there's always more dolls both ways...

        [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        that's actually how I did it the first time tbh.

        [–]StraightWhiteMaleLOL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Absolutely. Happened to me back in 2008...wouldn't be the same person if it hadn't.

        [–]Mr-Kabuki 17 points18 points  (0 children)

        Honestly I dont agree with you when you say that having hobbies is altruistic foolishness. People have hobbies because it brings them enjoyment and fulfillment and I don't think its necessary you have to make money off of them.

        [–]Gearski 16 points17 points  (0 children)

        Sell drugs, be a gang member, get into fights etc.

        Now this is some good advice.

        [–]_MysticFox 35 points36 points  (2 children)

        What happened to asking more of the questions and revealing as little about yourself as possible?

        [–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (5 children)

        This is pretty much the coles notes of TRP people. If you are super lazy then look no further but.....If you are super Lazy then you aren't truly embracing the self-improvement/work ethic nature of TRP.

        STILL, read the deeper theory to digest the Pill. There is some real truths that will take you much further IN LIFE than this cheat sheet can.

        [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 10 points11 points  (4 children)

        coles note

        Exactly what i intended. this post is for people who know their shit but just wanna refresh their memory - go back to the basics

        [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children)

        That's very well-meaning of you but in all likelihood, its gonna be used by noobs as their Skip the Sidebar Card and just be their list on what to focus on haha.

        I still thank you for doing it.

        cheers

        [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 9 points10 points  (2 children)

        lol you know what, that's terrible. My cheat sheet doesn't even cover one tenth of the side bar topics.

        oh well, the road to hell is paved with good intentions

        [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

        Haha, indeed it is.

        Glad you made that clear so the unsuspecting newbie doesn't think this is Skip the Sidebar moment.

        To the noob reading the comments: READ THE SIDEBAR

        [–]stro85 119 points120 points  (18 children)

        Social media?! That shit is not important. People pay for followers and thus having a high number means you paid $10 for like 15,000 followers. If you judge your self worth/importance by your social media profile you have a skewed sense of reality. I know some girls that do it and they are nobodies.

        [–]red_matrix 18 points19 points  (0 children)

        I tend to agree here. Social media is a toxic form for validation seeking attention whores - hence why it's so popular with women. If it works for you, then keep doing it. I'd just prefer to focus my energies on other things. The problem I found with social media, and I see it everywhere - is it distills most moments down to a Facebook/selfie moment and someone says 'can I get a pic or group shot for my X-page?!'. It just ruins a lot of moments, and it's burned a hole into our brains. I prefer to just unplug.

        [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        I know some chicks who, when they post a picture of themselves and it does not get a certain number of likes they will remove it. I'm llike WTF is wrong with you?

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          [–]follow_that_rabbit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

          Younger generation doesn't really know what privacy and secrecy is. Mind, I'm not even that old (couple years from being 30 yo).

          These guys are used to put out on the daylight everything they do/think. Social media (IG, Fb, Snapchat) are a cancer to the Red Pilled folk because they just shift everything to the rapid and non in-person validation. And that's the ground where women thrive. It's easy to get addicted to social media so use them with a lot of caution.

          [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

          Honestly I didn't make an Instagram until like 3 months ago just cuz I went to Europe and met a bunch of people. Can't say if it's really helped me but i only have like 70 followers. It's probably better to remain mysterious and have nothing that way women can't judge you based on something so virtual.

          [–]Shakaconrad 10 points11 points  (1 child)

          Every high value person I know that gets laid regularly has a strong social media profile (instagram). Most people I know who are gonna achieve massive amounts of success do not have social media or a very weak profile that they update rarely. There is not a lot of crossover. Take that as you will.

          [–]follow_that_rabbit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

          Yeah dude, keep living in the virtual world. I prefer to invest my money amd my time to travel or to get a good gym membership or to buy some clothes instead to buy followers or spending hours crafting a IG profile and DMing attention whores.

          [–]whuttupfoo 3 points4 points  (1 child)

          It's not about using social media for self-importance / validation seeking. You literally do nothing but post your day to day life and it passively builds attraction with a large number of women in the hundreds to thousands and beyond. That's only if your life is interesting.

          If you've never had one of your followers come up to you in real life and start making out with you within 30 seconds, solely because of the content you post, then you have no idea what social media is capable of doing to people's perception of you. It's far more powerful than Tinder. Tinder is a one on one communication while social media is one to many. You can game hundreds of women with one post.

          Just like how an artist has a portfolio, an employee has a resume, social media is the resume for social circles. It's a fact in this day and age.

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 13 points14 points  (4 children)

          Ivr gotten laid as a direct result of a good facebook profile

          [–]silverhog1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

          Would also agree here - It’s all about the social proof

          [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child)

          I️ have as well. Over 10 times in a year easily.

          [–]BaboonBukkake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          What's your Facebook game like

          [–]beAn0n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          If you judge your self worth/importance by your social media profile you have a skewed sense of reality.

          True, however women will judge your value based on that number or likes.

          [–]Zormut 20 points21 points  (6 children)

          How did your ego get you robbed?

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 43 points44 points  (5 children)

          Im half italian from Sicily, and my great grandpa and uncle were part of the sicilian mob.

          I was 16 and thoght i was the shit, I thought i was some kind of street hustler, convinced myself i was an untouchable gangster, so i tried to buy a gun from a gang member and just ended up getting robbed lol

          [–]1htbf 20 points21 points  (0 children)

          That's what being young is for.

          [–]SOwED 7 points8 points  (2 children)

          Your ego stuff was all over the place. You briefly mention ego death, which refers to a sense of unchanging self disappearing. Then you talk about alter egos, which are the slightly different personalities we assume in different types of company. No one acts exactly the same with their grandma as they do when on a first date. Then you talk about ego getting you robbed and that's referring to pride.

          So in one paragraph you use one word to meanthree different things and I'm not even sure you realize it.

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

          sure we can argue the semantics of a word that has many different meanings but the point i was making is that ego has many forms to be seen from - different kinds of egos

          [–]SOwED 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          Not trying to argue smeantics, just pointing out that you wrote that section in a very disjunct way, and I don't think the point was that the word ego has many different forms. I think you could delete everything in that section besides the part about being able to freely disassociate from the notion that you have some more ego you need to hang onto at all times.

          That was the only useful part of that section and an entire post could be dedicated to it.

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          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 5 points6 points  (3 children)

          Murder is Alpha.

          You and I are now prehistoric cave men.

          You have a cavewoman companion named Oogie, and oogie has a fantastic ass.

          Me want.

          Me smash Adonis's head with boulder, smear his brain matter on my jagged rock.

          Show smashed head to Oogie, who sees I am the true alpha, because you are DEAD.

          This is LITERALLY what happened

          [–]Jordan9002 9 points10 points  (1 child)

          Being gang raped in prison isn't alpha.

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Is being the rapist alpha?

          lol nigga

          [–]newls 39 points40 points  (20 children)

          How to beat LMR

          Any time I've experienced and gotten past LMR, it wasn't worth the effort. It should be either 'fuck yes' or 'no'. She should be trying to get you into the bedroom.

          [–]Psychocist 55 points56 points  (2 children)

          Come on, lets be real.. token LMR is a very common thing.

          [–]red_matrix 19 points20 points  (1 child)

          Agreed - it's like a last minute form of validation for the girl, in fact for some girls I think it's just a subconscious habit.

          [–]Jailhouseredpilled93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

          Couldn't LMR sometimes just be shes not feeling so fresh down there?

          [–]ImHerWonderland 11 points12 points  (10 children)

          Was going to make a field report about it, but I actually successfully got past LMR last week without much trouble. 19yo virgin girl that was waiting for marriage, I took her home, had her call me and tell .e how to block people from the messaging app we use, and told her it wouldn't work out and that it was me, not her. Picked her up 20 mins later to fuck because she wanted me in her life.

          Tl;Dr I acted as if I was going to pursue other girls and she put out

          [–]dickinlipss 3 points4 points  (7 children)

          Where you implying that you'd block her or was that just a tool to get the conversation moving

          [–]ImHerWonderland 4 points5 points  (6 children)

          I messaged her on the app and said, hey how do I block people on here. She called me and walked me through it, and I blocked her. I'll see if I can't draft up a FR today and post it tomorrow.

          [–]Lefort3000 5 points6 points  (5 children)

          Are you sure she wasn't already dtf when you messaged her?

          [–]Slackbeing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

          Yeah, that's not LMR. If you're not next to her it can be whatever but not LMR.

          [–]ImHerWonderland 4 points5 points  (3 children)

          She was at my place, I tried to initiate, soft rejected. At that point I was tired and annoyed, dropped her off at her place and proceeded to block her. That's when she called me and asked me to come get her so she could spend the night. It was definite LMR.

          [–]1empatheticapathetic 2 points3 points  (2 children)

          So you dropped her off and then picked her up? Maybe I don't get laid because after I dropped her off, I'm not picking her up again. What do you think about the fact that she zig zagged you like that just for fun?

          [–]ImHerWonderland 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          Maybe it's seen as beta, but I actually liked the fact that she zig zagged. Previously she had said that she was waiting until marriage to have sex, and that her previous boyfriend LIVED with her for a year and they were both still virgins.

          Imo she wasn't consciously playing games with me, but I saw it more as a shit test. The reason she gave it to me and not her ex is because I held frame and told her what I needed for us to continue talking, and her boyfriend gave up and stayed abstinent with her. If she didn't put out that day I was going to walk, and she saw me as high value.

          I don't expect to be able to slay a virgin in a day, and if I do I highly doubt they were actually virgins.

          Edit: she lives about half a mile from me. The effort I exerted to take her virginity by dropping her off and picking her up was absolutely minimal compared to what I was getting out of it.

          [–]2Dmva100 8 points9 points  (1 child)

          LMR is triggered by too much provider behavior. Do everything possible to avoid being slotted as potential BF material, including asshole game/non-PC behavior where warranted. If she doesn't fuck you because you choose to disqualify yourself from this candidacy, you're SMV isn't high enough.

          [–]Findsyourpicscool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          I agree, but sometimes you know a girl won't crack without turning up a little B qualities, sure if one had higher A qualities it wouldn't be an issue, but I can't magically gain extra muscles etc. on the spot, but I definitely can turn up the B, and get through the LMR in a minute - Then head off to the gym the morning after to keep getting that A-based SMV higher.

          No point in going without on principle. IMO.

          [–]Reniboy 5 points6 points  (4 children)

          Serious question. I'm a relatively unattractive guy (I also have a very bad physical deformity/scar), I'm quite confident and I lift though but I get no matches on Tinder or any other dating apps. Girls seem to be repulsed by my appearance. What else can I do to compensate for my physical drawbacks?

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

          1.) only use pictures of body, or hide the side of your face with the scar

          2.) approach irl. <---- best advice 4 u, I have ugly face but im tall and decent body. i do good irl, shit on tinder

          3.) wear a eyepatch

          [–]gELSK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          // , If you find the right photographer, he'll see you as a challenge.

          https://www.google.com/search?q=groupon+photoshoot

          You can get a good haircut for about $30, and a full photoshoot for about $50.

          Just tell the photographers what you're going to use the photos for, e.g. "I have to warn you, some of these might go on my tinder."

          Plus, they can tell you what angles make your face look better, and if you have multiple things to wear, they can probably advise on them at least a little.

          You can always save up your money for plastic surgery. $10000 seems to be the going rate for permanently fixing most facial problems.

          [–]robbiedigital001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Get off tinder and meet girls in person and let your confidence and energy do the work

          [–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 84 points85 points  (68 children)

          Even though this is a pro masculinity essay it's still Blue Pill because it romanticizes masculinity. Romantization is the creation of fantasy and as soon as we give our adorable Betas any hint of idealism they go wild.

          Complete degenerate drug addicts can and do get laid no problem. In fact women's sexual selection is so bizarre and maladaped to our modern values that it confuses the fuck out of beta males and forces them to create idealizes lists such as this one.

          Women don't give a fuck if your masculinity is toxic. They will gladly ride Nazi dick. Therefore all essays on Positive Masculinity are inherently Blue Pill as they arbitrarily insist that masculinity has to be good. It doesn't have to be and it works great when it's bad.

          [–][deleted] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

          It's the strength and power that women love. One can use it to be a villain or a superhero and woman cant tell nor do they really care

          [–]womans_algorithm 12 points13 points  (0 children)

          What about latest book by Rollo, Positive masculinity?

          [–]yes_we_can_t 6 points7 points  (6 children)

          It doesn't have to be positive, it doesn't have to be "toxic". Both works.

          [–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 19 points20 points  (5 children)

          Exactly both work. But anyone writing about noble masculinity is romanticizing

          [–]1htbf 5 points6 points  (4 children)

          He is just being moral and virtuous, like the stoics. It's not blue pill, it's just a moral layer over the red pill.

          [–]Endorsed ContributorJamesSkepp 3 points4 points  (1 child)

          It's not blue pill, it's just a moral layer over the red pill.

          That's a definition of contradiction, in effect turning RP into BP.

          [–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Women and children first morality is exactly the nonsense that created the Red Pill

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 10 points11 points  (18 children)

          I understand what youre saying, and have made the same argument myself, something along the lines of "there are drug dealers with no money, no car, and no future getting laid while youre on the computer. Think about that, life aint fair."

          Masculinity to me means taking what you want from life, so yes even if it means robbing a bank for the money or killing someone, its still masculine, despite the morals of it.

          Still tho, i would argue my essays main point wasnt to idealize "positive masculinity," cus one factor that turns on women that i listed is danger. Women like dangerous, serial killer bikers.

          [–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 2 points3 points  (17 children)

          All of your bullet points are idealized GQ masculinity

          [–]1htbf 3 points4 points  (14 children)

          Where in GQ do they embrace that masculinity is and has to be threatening?

          [–]Endorsed ContributorJamesSkepp 9 points10 points  (11 children)

          All of your bullet points are idealized GQ masculinity

          By "GQ masculinity" /u/GLO means "be a docile BB for your wife/LTR/oneitis and ignore the fact that you're being milked (in one way or another) by her, your boss AND the GQ content".

          I fucking swear to an unexisting god, this sub lately has been a breeding grounds for 2005-esque "be confident and work on your realtionship" bs.

          I can't really put my finger on what exactly is wrong with that, but if I were to guesstimate it has something to do with over-simplifying RP to a point it's indistinguishable from generic self-help and "how to make your gf happy" blogs - thus making it a playfield for BP.

          [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

          There have been a few less 'i was a BP faggot incel but then I got jacked and realise AWALT and slay daily'

          And a few more posts for people who are of the subset of those who want to be RP but in general contribute to society ie more Marcus Aurelius less Donald Trump.

          Upsetting the locals cos soon as you frame a preference for anything that's not selfishly Machiavellian your a covert contract BP bitch. What if I din't want to be a narcissistic fuck?

          be confident and work on your realtionship"

          I agree that is BS, it should read be confident and work on yourself... And all the other things like your relationships/career will follow. That's exactly why we're here, self improvement with a tangible outcome.

          On the other hand some people on this sub act like any thought given to how what we do here impacts relationships with women is being a faggot and covert contract, when it's actually why this sub exists.

          There's two parts to self improvement, your physical situation and your emotional wellbeing. I never had a problem getting women, but I wasn't happy. RP has helped me immeasurably. For the incel, this sub will help them get laid but once that's accomplished it can teach you how to have a 'good' life if you pick and choose the bits that work for you... Whether you're trump or Aurelius.

          [–]Endorsed ContributorJamesSkepp 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          Spot on for everything, but this:

          that's not selfishly Machiavellian your a covert contract BP bitch.

          There are no 50-50 m-f relationships. One person is always the leader, that's how we evolved, we establish hierarchy. This means that if you're not leading, she is. An extension of this is what Rollo said: for one sexual strategy to win, the other one must be abandoned.

          What if I din't want to be a narcissistic fuck?

          The Dark Triad and narcissism are majorly overplayed here. First of all nobody is (or can be) purely altruistic/narcissistic, we're always a mix of both. Secondly (I can't 100% substantiate it tho) I'm somewhat sure that overwhelming majority of what humans do is driven by self-interest, paradoxically even altruism is. From evolutionary point of view, altruism had to have some benefits for animals engaging in it, otherwise they would be outcompeted by animals that didn't waste their resources or energy on it.

          [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          There are no 50-50 m-f relationships. One person is always the leader, that's how we evolved, we establish hierarchy. This means that if you're not leading, she is

          absolutely, you framed it properly by talking of leadership. Whether positive or negative, male leadership is key to a satisfying (for the male) relationship dynamic.

          The Dark Triad and narcissism are majorly overplayed here. First of all nobody is (or can be) purely altruistic/narcissistic, we're always a mix of both

          Agree and the ratio changes with circumstance, probably to maximise what you talk about in your second point-self interest.

          RP teaches methods for results and whether you're malevolent or benevolent in application they work. My personal goal, and I think for many men, is to create positive outcomes for more than just myself in my interactions.

          [–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 10 points11 points  (1 child)

          GQ is about being a good Beta Mule and spending all of your money on flashy things after giving your asshole up in a cubical.

          Wasteful consumption is a blue pill that enslaves via credit card debt

          [–]abstractplebbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          Giving your asshole up in a cubicle

          That's the best description I've ever heard

          [–]tenxs 5 points6 points  (1 child)

          Isn't it somewhat pointless to refer to masculinity as "good" or "bad"? I mean, feminity/masculinity is just a byproduct of our evolution. And I see no one running around claiming one aspect of nature is bad, while others are good.

          [–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 12 points13 points  (0 children)

          It is pointless but anyone romanticizing masculinity as good is a blooper, that's what TradCons do and it's Cringe

          [–]ArnoldSwarzepussy 4 points5 points  (4 children)

          So this turned into a bit of a rant, but whatever. If you want it, here's a TLDR: Different strokes for different folks.

          I always got the idea that the whole "positive masculinity" thing is just another possible avenue to your own personal happiness. If being a cold, calculating, manipulative, psychopathic who gets what he wants is your thing, more power to ya. If you want to subject yourself to the more ethically satisfying, yet more difficult approach of finding self-actualization without stepping on heads left and right, that's an option too.

          Masculinity to me is about being honest with yourself so that you can uncover your true mission and reach that goal in a way that is effective, but won't leave you feeling guilty and having trouble sleeping at night. Since what is as isn't morally acceptable is a matter of opinion, some people will feel perfectly fine with being the unfeeling psychopath while others would wreak of guilt. Thus, masculinity is amoral. You can be totally out for yourself and still be masculine just as you can be considerate of others and still be masculine.

          If you're still not with me, think about it like this. If you reached your goals, but did so in a way that makes you feel dirty and unethical, then you're probably not truly happy and it was a waste of time. Similarly, if you've reached your goals but feel that you transformed into a über passive, ass-kissing push over in the process and now feel like a total pussy, then you're probably not truly happy and it was (again) a waste of time.

          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

          Exactly but, RP is a tool box that helps you get whatever you want outa life. There should be no judgement on how you get what you want and reach satisfaction

          Thing is most people aren't innately selfish assholes, but on here there's a lot of bitterness because being 'nice' got them fucked over.

          Niceness equals weakness, kindness does not. May be too nuanced for some.

          [–]ArnoldSwarzepussy 1 point2 points  (2 children)

          Precisely. To see someone like GLO label this stuff as "inherently blue-pill" is odd. I understand that it can come off as a bit too "feel good" in a way, but calling it straight up blue-pill just seems a bit too absolute. I could see a lot of people benefiting from this wow up.

          And, just to be clear, I mean no disrespect to GLO by singling him out like this. He's written some outstanding stuff and I have him to thank for a good amount of what I've learned here. I suppose that's reason I find his disapproval of this post to come as such a surprise though.

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          I found it surprising because

          • A.) I do whatever it takes to get what I want

          • B.) I said multiple times throughout the post it's amoral, and even suggested doing immoral things

          • C.) I am of the camp that believes being bad is better than being noble anyways lol.

          :(

          [–]ArnoldSwarzepussy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Well it looks like your post is getting some well deserved attention anyway, so good on ya for that I guess. And for what it's worth, I never got the impression from reading it that you were praising either side of the coin. If anything, you came across as the type who would respect a person who does what they want how they want, regardless of what that means to them, so long as it's genuine.

          [–]freeman_c14 0 points1 point  (11 children)

          What is your definition of masculinity then? i'm not defending OP and i'm honestly curious because in no way shape or form you try to counter him by providing a clear definition you just point how OP's definition comes from a Blue Pill perspective. What is the red pill definition of masculinity? we already know it's amoral but then what? expand on it.

          [–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 6 points7 points  (2 children)

          The Red Pill definitely of masculinity is the cold biological one: behavior produced by the hormone Testosterone or behavior that gets males sex.

          His definition has to be trashed because it blue pill and y'all are recovering blue pill addicts

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          It should strictly be about behavior that is produced by testosterone - because submissive, androgynous or feminine behaviors can and do get males their sex, among humans and in the wild.

          better yet, just throw in "qualities and behaviors associated with Men and produced / expressed by testosterone" into the definition. Females can be masculine, even more so than males, just cus they have more testosterone. (Which is sad tbh)

          [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          What's toxic to some e.g. violence might be simultaneously positive to others e.g. family members forging bonds by protecting their own.

          When people use adjectives it's usually to cloud an issue with emotion.

          [–]follow_that_rabbit 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          Fuck social media, a woman you are triyng to fuck should never have access to a social media profile of yours. It kills the mystery and dries the pussy real quick.

          [–]whuttupfoo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

          This is so opposite of reality. The only people that say this don't know how to game social media into a passive pussy funnel. You do nothing but post an interesting life and girls will be DMing you inviting themselves into your world.

          [–]Shaman6624 9 points10 points  (1 child)

          Can we do something like post a main idea of trp each week on a set day, discuss it in the comments and have ec's comment their opinion about it?

          [–]Hudini15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

          Be the change you want to see in the world.

          [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

          how to be a supreme cuck without knowing it: the cheat sheet

          [–]metallicdrama 3 points4 points  (2 children)

          Goddam OP you're the antispergers

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          What the hell is an Anti Sperge lol

          [–]metallicdrama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Like anti-christ for Aspergers

          [–]sociotter 4 points5 points  (4 children)

          Quick Question:

          I am not a well endowed man (4.5 in) and sometimes have erectile dysfunction due to medications. Kills my confidence hard.

          Was wondering if any of you could offer advice or coaching? Would even be willing to pay the right person.

          Great post OP.

          Thanks in Advance,

          DG

          [–]MessianicJuice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          If you're overweight, prioritize losing it. I used to be a really heavy dude and while never being small, there is an enormous difference after having lost weight.

          As far as the ED, tell your doctor. Should be able to get Viagra. If not, online pharmacies. Also lift more, it prevents ED.

          [–]Yala2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Different girls are attracted to different aspects to varying degrees, but remember AWALT

          Not "All Women Are Like That". All women are different. Some women are more different than others. The stuff that is the same across women very often is the same across women and men.

          You do not need all sexual market points to be attractive, but having them all will of course raise your SMV.

          Your self-worth isn't based on your "Sexual Market Value". Like you can be a total piece of shit and be hot as fuck.

          Your most valuable AF asset. This is expressed through a deep, low, slow, and commanding voice.

          Not all guys talk like that. I don't talk like that. I have a slightly high/fast paced voice for a straight guy, and that's just how I talk. Some guys have booming bass voices. It's not that I'm not able to sing base - I can talk in a deep voice - it's just not natural.

          Dangerous Vibe. A masculine factor. You are unpredictable, mysterious, you take calculated risks. You are bold. You live life on the edge. You pin her down, you wrestle and play fight with your girl.

          Okay, this is fun, but play wrestling on the bed doesn't exactly make you a "man of danger".

          but a little playful can work wonders.

          It's playfulness.

          Being popular, being rich and having extraordinary social standing.

          Money doesn't do shit.

          The verbal nuke. Tell her that she makes you horny and go for the fuck. If she pushes you back, stop.

          This is attempted assault. If someone grabs your junk and just starts going for it without you giving them consent, either verbal ("okay, you can put it in") or non-verbal (lemme assume the position for you), you can't just "go for the fuck".

          Does she mentally stimulate me? (Personality, intelligence, wit, feminine [or masculine if you're a feminine dude] mental state.)

          Wait... when does he start talking about attraction between feminine dudes and masculine women? While I have seen this (pretty-boy/butch-chick pair) that is rare and the fact that he is acknowledging it is remarkably progressive for someone who comes off as super sexist.

          Is she physically appealing? ... 1-10 scale)

          Okay, never mind that last comment.

          These tips are best applied for to girls between the ages of 16 - 25. This is my favorite age group - low desire for commitment, high likelihood of coitus.

          Actually, women in their 30's have a lot more sex and a lot more sexual confidence/desire than women in their 20's. "Now, one of the most convincing reasons women in their thirties are having more sex than in their younger years is..."

          See: https://www.google.com/search?q=women+30%27s+20%27s+more+sex&oq=women+30%27s+20%27s+more+sex&aqs=chrome..69i57.4426j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

          START CLUBS + INTEREST GROUPS <----- easily most important and easiest way to get laid. Build social circles where you're the valuable leader. I've done this personally, and got a lot of guy friends, major popularity, and fucked 2 girls as a direct result from it.

          What are you, a high schooler? "major popularity". Who gives a shit? Find something more valuable in your life than "major popularity". You're not a pre-teen trying to fit in with the cool kids anymore.

          Sell drugs, be a gang member, get into fights etc.

          Buy a gun, shoot people, get locked up, get raped in the ass, etc.

          Awkward, skinny neckbeard collecting action figures with his 4chan is weird and creepy.

          What is the subject of this sentence?

          You want to fuck a fat girl for practice. No one needs to know that, only that "you got laid the other night. It was okay."

          This is why we need to legalize prostitution. At the very least guys will have someone to practice on.

          How to make a woman lose attraction for you: Communicate verbally with a woman.

          This is the worst relationship advice ever. EVER. If you cannot communicate verbally your relationship will die.

          Confide and share your problems with a woman. Weakness = loss of attraction.

          If telling her anything about yourself makes her not interested in or attracted to you, she's not actually attracted to you. She's just dumping all her emotional garbage onto you and then fucking you like her teddy bear.

          This is a law of power. Do not hang out with the miserable or the unlucky.

          What the fuck is this, Sun Tzu's "The Art of War"?

          Genuinely believe you and your ways are superior to everyone else

          People with healthy sense of self-esteem believe that they are on-par with everyone else. Genuinely believing that you are superior is basically a crutch for guys for guys who have or had low self-esteem.

          [–]Davidskylarkk 4 points5 points  (2 children)

          If you all want to see pick up mastery, watch s01 e10 of "Keys to the VIP" it's on amazon. This dude is YODA. It's from 2006 but still absolutely relevant in today's world. Just watch Phil and be envious...

          [–]mcbenzene 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          Or Don Draper from Mad Men

          [–]Davidskylarkk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          This isn't scripted, I don't think. I don't see how you could script what he does. Watch it!

          [–]VickVaseline 3 points4 points  (2 children)

          Thanks for this. I have some questions:

          • Which New Year are we talking about? Celtic New Year?

          • This is the first I've heard of The Red Pill Handbook. Why isn't it on the sidebar?

          • How can one's ego can get one robbed at gunpoint?

          • What's a "MOAB?"

          • What is this "Gumby prophecy?"

          [–]3LiveAFTSOV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          • Red Pill Handbook - google it and download it, or find it on asktrp.

          • Moab = mother of all bombs

          • My favorite question. The legendary Gumby Prophecies state that for man to be happy, he must be balanced.

          [–]Jonlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Never let a woman think she's above you, or better than you. If you know how to convey that and actually mean it they will sense it, and either become attracted to you for it, or they will hate your guts and try to get you fired, arrested, or beat up by a white knight/mangina/simp.

          Once you understand their hypergamous nature you'll never have to worry about a woman "losing attraction" for you. They don't even get to compete with you like that. You're already better. You were born better. Do not be brainwashed by this leftist media bullshit saying that men and women are equal. You already said it yourself. The minute a woman thinks she's equal to you, any and all attraction she may have had for you is gone.

          [–]1ozaku7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          I vote for this being the summary of the sidebar, added as "The Sidebar Summary".

          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          A few things rang true about this post. So much so it is scary.

          "They lie about themselves and assume you are doing the same"

          "She will act on absolutely nothing that has been discussed even when she swear on her grandmother she wont (or will)"

          [–]delirious_mongoloid 4 points5 points  (4 children)

          Confide and share your problems with a woman. Weakness = loss of attraction.

          Actually the opposite is true.

          Also, why would you want to be with a woman who loses interest if you talk to her about your problems? Plenty of better ones out there.

          [–]SOwED 9 points10 points  (0 children)

          Yeah, this post is shit. Everyone fawning over it either doesn't understand how poorly composed it is or is idolizing OP as some sort of masculine ideal and taking everything he says as gold.

          What I've gotten out of reading his comments is that he's always been overconfident and has always thought he knew far more than he did, and in this case it phase, he thinks he's some RP genius when in fact he's probably a good looking 22 year old living near a college but not in college, fucking tons of college girls and thinking he's employing RP tactics.

          Check out his previous post ridiculing a plate of his for telling him she was raped. Let's just assume he story was true. The fact that he posted about it after the fact (and there was no RP value to be had in the post) shows that he was looking for validation of his actions and the way he handled the situation, because in the back of his mind, he's not confident that he did handle it right.

          [–]SovereignSoul76 13 points14 points  (0 children)

          Vulnerability, self-doubt, and uncertainty in a man = drier than the Sahara

          [–]Mr-Kabuki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          well i think you can talk about your problems but you have to also make it sound like you have them under control or are determined to find away around them

          [–]LOLMUFFINLOL 2 points3 points  (6 children)

          Can we chill out with all the acronyms? Im trying to get into the red pill but can't understand half of what you guys write because of all these little HB6's and FWP's

          [–]MessianicJuice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

          Common cult/"underground group" tactic. Not saying TRP is a cult, but it's a specific worldview which has its own language, which forces you to invest mental time and energy into learning the shit so you go deeper into said worldview.

          [–]Mr-Kabuki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          theres a glossary you can check out

          [–]1empatheticapathetic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          Why is that anyone else's problem? Learn the acronyms.

          [–]Ichewfivegum 8 points9 points  (6 children)

          Most people are so fucking mediocre it's pathetic. I'm the best composer/producer I know as well as one of the most muscular people I've met. Every time I've wanted to do something, people either laughed at me or told me to be realistic. Everyone just puts in mediocre effort and tries to maintain a completely normal vanilla social life. It's fucking pathetic. Ego death is key. I can be in a room with any mix of people and still fit in. It's all about being well read and experiencing life. People have asked me how it do it, achievements come from hard work, everything else came with ego death. I just tell them "idk I've always been this way" as if I was born jacked and talented😂.

          [–]Psychocist 47 points48 points  (4 children)

          Sounds like that ego death did you good! /s

          [–]1htbf 5 points6 points  (3 children)

          Psychopaths can fake ego death.

          [–]Ichewfivegum 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          What do you mean "fake ego death" like my ego died one time and that was enough for me. Not a fun experience.

          [–]_MysticFox 1 point2 points  (2 children)

          How do you put her in her place without being butthurt?

          [–]rigbyismyhomie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Short and concise. The post uses "Don't Do That." but I just say "Stop."

          The more you explain the reasoning behind "Stop" the more you come off as "butthurt." I'm at the point where I don't need to explain why I don't like a certain behavior, she knows that if I say "Stop", I won't put up with it any longer. Because I have established frame, she doesn't question me out of respect.

          [–]Dat_Chad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          repeat after me:

          bitch, break yo' self!

          [–]IAmAHumanB3ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          ugh, so... far.... away.... lol

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          [–]Teri_makichew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I just commented here so that I can come back here and read the post again n again

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