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Red Pill ExampleAnother Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But Him (self.TheRedPill)

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This is from the relationships sub earlier today. It's a long post that reinforces a number of ideas you'll see here. We see this same exact story, in its basic elements, over and over again, but I'm going to hit the highlights: http://archive.is/ct9D9

After we got married, we moved in together and began our lives. I did my absolute best to be the best husband that I could. I tried my best to not ask her for much help with chores, and assigned them as needed: her taking care of the food issues since she was a better cook, and me taking care of the cleaning throughout the apartment. I kept up with my old "tricks" from my Casanova days and made sure to bring flowers every few days, the occasional dessert touch, surprise dates, and jewelry. I wanted to make my wife know that in our world, she was my queen.

Step 1: He provides a ton of comfort (beta) and no attraction (alpha).

She asked me on our wedding night how many women I had been with, and I told her I had slept with about 8 women for longer periods of time and had a little over ten one night stands. When I asked the same of her, she just laughed it off and said "I'm not as slutty as you." So I set the precedent in my mind that she probably only had sex with one or two guys a handful of times.

Step 2: I've only had sex with a couple of people, tee hee.

We would have sex a few times a week, but it was often me putting in most of the effort and it seemed like she wanted to only try the two most common positions. I asked her about trying new things, such as blow jobs, even butt stuff, but she said all that stuff was dirty and she wasn't as slutty as I was. Instead of being bothered by this, I kept up with myself, focused more on my hobbies and working out, while at the same time doting on my wife and treating her like my queen.

Step 3: Boring sex, indicative of her lack of attraction, and the guy trying to nice guy harder.

Over the last year, she has put on about 20 pounds. I never bring it up, but that is just one sign she isn't putting as equal an effort as I am to be attractive to one another. She isn't putting in the same effort as I am, as in my past relationships where girlfriends would at the very least give me baked goods, or something to show their appreciation of me.

Step 4: She gains weight and shows him repeatedly that she doesn't give a fuck.

Then our hero finds a GoPro folder on her computer hard drive by pure chance while buying her a new fucking computer:

I opened it up, and I saw about 50 videos. I was curious, and opened the first one, and she was holding the camera looking at it with a man standing beside her. They were giggling, and she called him "bar pick up #3". She set the camera down, and they proceeded to have foreplay and then sex. Everything that she didn't do with me, she was doing with this man, from blow jobs to anal, the whole nine yards. It hurt me inside. I went through all the videos, and counted 27 different men in total.

Step 5: Video evidence is found of her being a total fucking whore before she got with him.

I confronted my wife with the videos, and she had a breakdown. At first, she accused me of snooping and digging into her private life, but I retorted that I'm her husband and was doing my job to fix her computer. I thought to surprise her with a new computer and jewelry on our anniversary to hopefully open her eyes to how much I am willing to do for her and maybe spice up our sex life. I said I understood why she wasn't willing to try something new because she was probably burntout from all the bar pick ups and coffee meetups she had in the past.

Step 6: Hamsterfest 2016.

Also note he was trying to improve his sex life by increasing beta above and beyond the huge amount he was already laying down, which obviously got nowhere.

I was so frustrated, so I slept on the couch. In the following week, I didn't try to initiate sex. I felt cheated and betrayed. My wife tried a few times, saying she will "try and remember" how to give blow jobs and do butt stuff, but I just told her I needed some time to think about all this. She even started bringing up how "we need to start thinking about children".

Step 7: She tries to control him with sex and jumps on the we need to have kids shit right away to try to lock him down.

What should I do? I really want to work on our relationship, but I just feel so betrayed. I don't feel attracted to my wife anymore, at first it was partially because because of the weight gain, but now it is more so knowing she lied to me about her sex life and how far she was willing to go with strangers instead of with me, her husband. I feel like I put so much, and am still putting in so much effort into our relationship on my part (keeping fit, showing her my love and keeping things interesting with different dates, and giving her gifts of appreciation) and she is not putting in any effort.

Step 8: Our hero is at the critical moment where he either figures shit out or gets pulled back into the bullshit.

I PM'd the guy and sent him to https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/, which is basically the same situation, so maybe he can see the light. We'll see.

Monster Edit: Holy fucking shit. So I PM'd the guy like I said above, and he replied back with this: http://i.imgur.com/GkZBiJu.png

I didn't want to say it on there, but I actually follow the red pill religiously. That was what kept me on track to strive to be attractive. But alas, I fell trap for my mom's ploy and had to resort to being married. Thanks for the reference, brother. I appreciate the consideration.

HO-LY FUCK-ING SHIT. Are you fucking kidding me?

Monster Edit #2: Apparently he saw this thread, and it seems that the replies woke him up:

Hey thanks for the analysis. It really put things in perspective and just jolted me. I am going back to the house soon, took an early day at work. I am packing all my things, and moving them to my cousin's house till I figure shit out. I should have known to play my dread game harder and stay aloof instead of making myself available for her. Before finding those videos this past weekend, I thought she was your innocent girl type, but AWALT. I see everything is tried and true, it just sucks that its probably going to cost me half my assets. Thank goodness we don't have joint bank accounts (or is she going to divorce rape me there too?). Despite following all the advice here, I succumbed and have suffered the consequences HARD. Not too late for me to pick up my life and move on.

I suggested he make backups of the videos to keep as much leverage as possible and do whatever he can to protect himself while moving forward. He replied:

I actually made three different backups, and a 4th in case she is following this on reddit. [list of places backed up]. The 4th is going to be my personal computer. I am literally at the house, packing my stuff now, getting ready to get out. I am going to tell her I will reveal the videos if she doesn't leave quietly and try to steal my money or my house. Thanks again for all the help brother. I was lost before, but now I am found.

This is pretty nuts, and I wish him the best of luck.


[–]TheRationalMale.comRollo-Tomassi 207 points208 points  (5 children)

The harder truth isn't that she doesn't know how to please you sexually. The harder truth is she simply doesn't want to.

This is the truth that either enlightens or destroys a Beta.

[–]wiseprogressivethink 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A true sink or swim moment.

[–]TryDoingSomethingNew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amazing how we, once we accept the red pill, can filter out the bullshit and get right to the ugly truth.

It's like 90% of things I read where some guy is rationalizing why his wife/girlfriend/etc is treating him poorly boils down to "she's just not into you and doesn't really care" when I read between the lines.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 142 points143 points  (4 children)

Dude. Don't leave the house. Kick her ass out. Trust me on this. Kick her ass out now. Pack her shit in trash bags and leave it on the front steps. It's your fucking house, you live there.

[–]newmeforever 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This! 100%

Kick that slut out!

[–]NeoreactionSafe 238 points239 points  (32 children)

 

I went through all the videos, and counted 27 different men in total.

 

That's just the tip of the iceburg of course.

 

[–][deleted] 143 points144 points  (20 children)

That's freaking nuts. Any chick who not just video tapes sex once, but with 27 different men is not just a red flag, but you are in a very red zone when you commit to her.

[–]recon_johnny 68 points69 points  (12 children)

How many did she NOT video tape?

Probably close to a hundred.

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[–]MaxBrodin 27 points28 points  (8 children)

Haha, sure, blame it on sex addiction. And that woman looks like a man. Imagine what a good looking woman may accomplish.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 38 points39 points  (4 children)

Fuck you, you beat me to it. This.. thing had sex with 1000 men. Here it is gentlemen, right here is living proof that it's fucking easy to get sex as a woman. You can look like a dude with the body shape of a cardboard box with the genetics of an inbred Scottish hill tribe and some men will still fuck you.

[–]darkrood 9 points10 points  (3 children)

Because for every one thirsty woman, there are at least 3 thirsty men.

[–]MaxBrodin 2 points3 points  (1 child)

The math seems like there is over 1000 thirsty men for every thirsty woman :)

[–]NeoreactionSafe 47 points48 points  (1 child)

It just proves how lacking in Intuition men can be today.

 

Intelligence = Intellect + Intuition

 

Very often these guys can have minds with high Intellect, but their lack of Intuition means they are missing an essential component of Intelligence.

The Red Pill stresses Intelligence... use your Intuition to see the traps. (AWALT)

The poor guy had no Intuition and the woman tricked him.

Lack of Game awareness (lack of Intuition) made the guy vulnerable.

 

Any Red Pill aware male would have spotted her true nature with ten seconds.

 

...imagine the "Thousand Cock Stare" she must give off.

 

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is not a red zone, it is hell.

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    [–]MaxBrodin 51 points52 points  (1 child)

    And GoPro weren't mainstream for so long. Imagine the stuff she did before she got a hold of the camera.

    [–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

    Oh man. She was riding the cock train express like no other.

    [–]redsfan277 24 points25 points  (3 children)

    Thats only the ones she got on videos....how many fuckers did she fuck before she wanted to document it lmao....fucking whores man

    [–]Schveen15 13 points14 points  (1 child)

    Not only that but consider this: how many of her total "bar pickups" didn't consent to being on camera? The 27 are just the ones that did, after all but I'm sure there are more who felt uncomfortable with it

    [–]tenin2010br 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    The lawyer train is being boarded and there's no stopping it!

    [–]Sks44 19 points20 points  (1 child)

    Its like roaches. See one and there are dozens. See 27 dudes in videos she's been fucking, there's probably 100.

    Poor bastard.

    [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    I suspect she was getting more that just the "tip". What a hosebag.

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      [–]RedditAdminsSuck_88 59 points60 points  (5 children)

      I've been beating this drum for years. If you think that picking a woman from a certain region of the world will cancel out AWALT you deserve the inevitable downfall that happens to you.

      [–]akolyteofthecentury 14 points15 points  (2 children)

      [–]Yomamasotriggered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      "I was just talking to umfoofoo bout couple of things." Classic lol

      [–]MaxBrodin 40 points41 points  (7 children)

      A traditional Thai wife is really married to the guy who she will call her"brother"/"chef"/"gardener" when she brings him to the states.

      At the same time try sleeping around on your Thai wife and she will drug you and cut your dick off. Real traditional stuff...

      [–]ookulusreeft 13 points14 points  (5 children)

      It took me a second to parse that. She will bring her real husband with her, and tell you its her brother. I've never heard of that happening.

      [–]trp-sama 25 points26 points  (2 children)

      Yeah that's a real thing. Look up any Thai/Foreign forums and you will see countless examples. Usually it involves a old white Farang with his beautiful trophy wife who just turned 21. He has a long distance relationship where he sends her cash so she doesn't have to work in a bar any more, then eventually either finds out she is still a whore or marries her and brings her to his country. She always keeps her Thai husband around and says to the hubby that its her brother/cousin/whatever and gives all the money to him. Eventually when the white husband is tapped out of cash she leaves him. Story old as time itself.

      That isn't to downplay the fun to be had fucking Thai girls who are fishing for a sponsor while you have no plan to commit for anything more than that night...

      [–]Mildly_Sociopathic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Reminds me of that episode of Malcolm in the Middle.

      [–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

      I should write a post about this.

      I spend a lot of time in S.E Asia and I'm no stranger to the P4P scene. I've learnt, seen and encountered first hand a lot of red pill truths over there and a lot of skills which have assisted me with western women, relationships, managing women and confidence.

      Time and time again, I see the same shit happen to anyone silly enough to marry a bar girl or throw huge amounts of money at them to stay out of the bars and stop fucking any guy with $1000 baht. It rarely ends well. There are exceptions, but the vast majority of the time it ends terribly.

      "But my girls different" they say.

      "She loves me for who I am" says the 50 year old out of shape guy with the 19 year old gogo dancer sitting on his lap.

      "She doesn't go with customers when I'm back home" says the naive but unconfident young guy who fell in love with the first hooker who sucked his dick in Bangkok.

      "She is new to the bar scene" says the guy whose girl I recognise from that time I got a BJ off her in a gogo bar 8 months ago.

      I've seen it all over 10 years and history just keeps repeating itself. I've seen "sponsored" girls fucking other guys right up until the hour her "boyfriend" arrives in town. I've seen girls put on the crocodile tears saying goodbye to her "darling" and sucking another guys cock one hour later. Girls with multiple sponsors "no darling I have only you, love you". I've seen women and bars drain a man of his money, western men loosing their fucking minds in the swarm of women.

      But I understand it. It all makes sense to me and I know how to play that game. I've been around enough that most girls don't try that bullshit on me and my friendships and conversations with the women are quite honest.

      When you really break it down, I think the S.E Asian-Western relationships are clearer than western relationships (providing you're thinking straight). It's all really about how you manage her.

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          [–]relativebeingused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          I see three possibilities here: she hates Asian guys and of course she fucks them all the time but just loves complaining about other people and/or she fucks lots of white guys because she likes them better and says that to every single one.

          [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

          I have fucked tons of girls from these backgrounds and they're all more than aware that one day they'll settle down with a rich beta of their racial/cultural background, but it does nothing for them sexually. It's actually insane how consistent it is. I fucked a girl last week who afterwards told me about all the guys pursuing her. She was on the upper end of attractiveness for South Asian girls, and she had a billion South Asian betas chasing her. Guys with multi-story apartments in New York, surgeons, lawyers, executives, etc... None of that was attractive to her. She just assumed that she'd be wealthy someday, that someday she'd settle for a guy who would give her the lifestyle she wanted, and for now she was having her fun.

          I mean I fucked this girl in my shitty shared apartment, 7-8 years away from making any sort of real money as a doctor, and she was basically laughing at these sad dudes already well-established in their careers willing to sign away their lives for a chance to fuck her. I got what they wanted for the price of learning some game and hitting the gym 4 times a week.

          What you have to realize with these women is that wealth and success from a long-term partner is assumed. They expect to be wealthy someday. It's not a bonus, it's a requirement. They often view marriage, especially to their own race, as something expected of them, and something they know they'll eventually do reluctantly. Avoid these women at all costs for long term commitments. They assume from the start that they'll pity their husband.

          [–]dareealmvp 8 points9 points  (10 children)

          South Asian and Oriental males are trained to be beta cucks-circus animals to kept on the leash-right from the moment they are born- and in several ways.

          One of the biggest ways is the language itself that they're taught. David Tian PhD, an Asian coach in the manosphere, himself described it in one of his videos that words in most Asian and Indian languages sort of have a 'staccato' pronunciation-with each sound or note sharply detached or separated from the others and characterized by small syllables, meaning they appear as if the speaker is speaking really fast, which automatically makes the speaker appear a low value male if it's a male. That's also the reason why women hate Indian and Asian accents.

          In comparison, words of languages like French are pronounced as 'legato' which means 'in a smooth flowing manner, without breaks between notes' and characterized by long syllables, which shows that the speaker is speaking really slowly which automatically makes him of it a high status male if it's a guy. It comes as no surprise then, that French is called the language of romance and French people are thought to have the best accents.

          In retrospect, I have always thought there was a deliberate reasoning behind such a construction in the Asian and Indian languages-may be so that the wives don't end up getting tingles for another guy outside of marriage as easily and they have an easier time staying committed? If that was so, it sure did work well-after all these countries still have yet to undergo a proper 'sexual liberation' for women because the language itself was constructed to keep a barrier between the opposite sexes despite desperate efforts from so many feminists.

          Little did those who constructed these languages know that one day globalization will take place and these Asian and Indian women will meet our white Chads and Brads and will get thousands of more times tingles for them than they could ever get for a guy in their own race. Seriously, our Indian and Asian forefathers did one hell of a job making us as unattractive as possible to the opposite sex.

          [–]NietzscheExplosion 76 points77 points  (15 children)

          27 guys, he doesn't know what to do? Even Hollywood wouldn't write this.

          [–][deleted] 35 points36 points  (8 children)

          "27 guys. One big fat lie. The guy doesn't know what to do, even when the answer is right in front of him."

          Hollywood brings you the true story of cock riding, alpha fucks/beta bucks, and the guy who discovers the tapes. Introducing The Cock Carousel

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            [–]nostradumba55 10 points11 points  (0 children)

            5 guys and fries every weekend

            god damn, I can't wait to use that one

            [–]NobleShitLord 8 points9 points  (0 children)

            This is gold. "76 miles of cock".....geez I love reddit.

            [–]MakeEmSayAyy 5 points6 points  (2 children)

            record stops but this blooper is about to learn that not all problems can solved with flowers

            [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

            Holy fucking shit. That reminds me of the South Park episode where Stan coaches a peewee hockey team.

            [–]MakeEmSayAyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            thats what i was going for! hahah

            [–]OpenBumChakra 23 points24 points  (2 children)

            It is hard for me to believe he subscribes to TRP.

            Seems like he read the info, but didn't take the time to internalize.

            Even his bullshit "my mom made me do it" smacks of a lack of responsibility and agency on his part. I don't buy it

            [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

            The whole mom made me do it is as pathetic as it gets. He isn't some kid in middle school. This is a grown adult who only did something because his mom wanted him to. That's pathetic that he can't make a decision for himself.

            [–]dareealmvp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            Well it's difficult to start believing in yourself when all your life you've been trained to do otherwise and be a circus animal slave right from the moment you were born.

            I'm Indian myself and my whole family and aunts and uncles and other acquaintances are slowly beginning to collectively revolt as I'm beginning to internalize TRP concepts and free myself of their leash. It's a difficult turn in life. To be Machiavellian without guilt or shame and manipulate people full-on, when all your life you've been taught to be a nice beta bucks guy, is no less revolting to your own self too.

            [–]RedPillFreedom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

            Wrong, it would be the best beta chick flick.

            To find the one. One girl will go on one date everyday for the month of February. 27 chads are assholes. They don't get her or treat her right. But, on the last day of February Paresh Patel will get her to fall in love with him.

            [–]enkae7317 3 points4 points  (1 child)

            27 guys recorded.

            Who knows how many other guys she could've fucked and not willingly record them.

            [–]mitzibishi 81 points82 points  (1 child)

            How can you be burnt out from giving blow jobs years ago? How can you forget to give a blowjob?

            Female lies and garbage as usual.

            [–]Doggo123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            For real, it's just like riding a bicycle which she never stopped riding.

            [–]RedditAdminsSuck_88 150 points151 points  (37 children)

            One of the more painful relationshits beta posts I have ever read. I want to feel bad for the guy, but I look at the comments and saw he wrote this:

            Before anyone says anything, I need to say this. I am not going to divorce my wife. She didn't cheat on me, she didn't do anything to purposefully hurt me, so there is nothing too extreme to warrant a divorce.

            I am a firm believer in the saying "if something is broken, you fix it", and I don't want an "upgrade" for my wife. This is a human being we are talking about, not a car I can trade in.

            He is a lost cause, and because he refuses to do what needs to be done, he deserves this. He wifed up a whore without vetting her, and then gets proof that she is a total whore, and still won't leave her.

            You can't fix stupid.

            This is the end result of third wave feminism, its always the guys fault, and he is brainwashed to believe its not her fault, its his fault, and its up to him to fix it.

            Can't wait for his post in a year or two where she has sex with Bar Pickup #9234 after she has a kid with him during her night out because "I just need a night out for myself and away from the responsibilites of motherhood".

            [–][deleted] 74 points75 points  (18 children)

            I PMed him and he told me he'd been reading TRP since college and was pressured into it by his Indian mother. He's thinking of ending the marriage. Good for him. He knows what has to be done. Hopefully he does it.

            [–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (1 child)

            I just got the same reply from him and edited my post. Goddamn.

            [–]slay_it_forward 46 points47 points  (8 children)

            How could a guy read trp and not understand how he was sabotaging himself with all the beta behavior?

            Wife not putting out? Guess I need to give more flowers, more chores, more everything, then she will fuck me. Wtf?

            [–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (1 child)

            That's a good question honestly. I guess it's easy to revert to your beta programming.

            [–]frequentlywrong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

            You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Just because he read TRP does not mean he actually believed it.

            [–]reecewagner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

            I don't understand how a guy can read TRP and not immediately leave when he finds 27 videos of his fat wife fucking other dudes. Like bud, get some self value.

            [–]aRedThought 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            Most people that visit this sub actually go through with trp. It's a way of lifestyle, people are hard to change. Only the people who are down and out the most will actually accept it.

            [–]RPmatrix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            How could a guy read trp and not understand how he was sabotaging himself with all the beta behavior?

            He was pressured into it by his Indian mother

            says it all really

            [–]RedditAdminsSuck_88 19 points20 points  (0 children)

            Not a bad response. Honestly I don't bother with PMing these guys, because field reports from the past from those of us who have almost always get hit with the "Don't talk to me, bigot" response and just trash TRP and hamster away.

            Good that he didn't responsd in a negative manner.

            [–]AncientScrolls 3 points4 points  (1 child)

            I PMed him and he told me he'd been reading TRP since college and was pressured into it by his Indian mother. He's thinking of ending the marriage.

            Seeing posts like this just scare the shit out of me. If the guy was saved from the Matrix and became a redpill how could he still get sucked into this kind of relationship? Its like he had all the signs(as the post showed us), that in the mind of his wife he became a total beta provider.

            Plus the worse thing is that he still wanted to work that relationship out even after he discovered her homemade porn videos, which proves that she wasn't being honest with him about her past sexual "exploits". LOL. I´m just like "what the heck!?".If the guy constantly reads TRP material. He totally knows that this relationship has all the signs of being a curse. However he still wanted to make things work out.(Just like a haunted movie in which the family insists in staying in a haunted house even after everyone warned them about it). Seeing stories like this just show me that even after years of absorbing redpill/manosphere literature and stories. I still have to watch out for not falling for those kinds of traps if i get emotionally attached to a woman(After all we all know that a woman Hypergamic instincts will never let her be a trustable person in your life). Truth is we have to put our Theoric Redpill classes into action by "taking more" RedPill Practical Classes(Gaining knowledge by experience) just like we do in college.

            [–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (5 children)

            CDC numbers my friend. she's at 27+ men, and that's just the guys she's taped it with. how many guys did she fuck around with NOT on video? the probability of divorce of a women with 27+ partners is well above 80% (16 partners is 80%, the researchers stopped counting after that). he might not be willing to divorce her, but it's almost guaranteed that she'll divorce him.

            [–]1PantsonFire1234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

            I wanna bet this wifey of his is a real ugo to. One of the reasons allot of women have high N-counts is because no Cad sticks around for repeat fucks. So she's gotta whore around every weekend all over again.

            [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (3 children)

            Where can I find the study? That's interesting.

            [–]Gyissan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

            she has a kid with him during

            99% chance the kid's father is one of the random bar pickups.

            [–]CornyHoosier 5 points6 points  (1 child)

            She lied to him. Which hey, okay we're all human in some way, sometimes people lie when their nervous; but she could have eventually come clean.

            How does one "forget" how to give a blowjob or anal? I think she's cheating on him

            [–]SnickeringBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            "but she could have eventually come clean."

            Not sure if you are deliberately being sarcastic or just don't see it. Women do NOT "come clean", they do not admit anything that might be bad for their public persona. Wait until doomsday and not one single word will a woman say that "admits" she is less than a princess. I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt, and the divorce papers to prove it.

            [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            Fuck me. I didn't even see that comment. Goddamn's legitimately sad. Ugh.

            [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            /u/RedditAdminsSuck_88 check the second edit. Shit's going down.

            [–][deleted] 75 points76 points  (6 children)

            hey man, I know you're here, so here goes my rant, how on earth you claim you follow red pill religiously and playing her hand at every single turn without an exception?

            [–]residude 22 points23 points  (0 children)

            Sometimes its harder to follow morals, then to believe them. Classic beta.

            [–]1PantsonFire1234 10 points11 points  (4 children)

            Clearly this guy didn't lurk often. If you take the time to read TRP every day for about half an hour you'd have enough knowledge to dodge shit bullets like this one.

            [–]TRP VanguardWhisper 34 points35 points  (1 child)

            First he says:

            After we got married, we moved in together and began our lives. I did my absolute best to be the best husband that I could. I tried my best to not ask her for much help with chores, and assigned them as needed: her taking care of the food issues since she was a better cook, and me taking care of the cleaning throughout the apartment. I kept up with my old "tricks" from my Casanova days and made sure to bring flowers every few days, the occasional dessert touch, surprise dates, and jewelry. I wanted to make my wife know that in our world, she was my queen.

            Then he says:

            I didn't want to say it on there, but I actually follow the red pill religiously.

            Hey boot... reading and nodding your head doesn't mean shit.

            Unless you take action, you might as well be reading 12th century Indian poetry or back issues of Reader's Digest for all it matters.

            [–][deleted] 457 points458 points  (83 children)

            saying she will "try to remember" how to give blowjobs and do butt stuff

            LOL. This isn't fucking calculus. This isn't trigonometry. Step 1: grip penis, Step 2: put penis in mouth, Step 3: suck penis.

            If ever there was a case study in why not to marry a whore, this is it gentlemen.

            [–]hores 82 points83 points  (28 children)

            I find that comment ("try to remember") the most insulting part about all of it. It completely negates her "effort" of trying to make amends, and actually morphs it into a deeper insult.

            "You're still a beta, you really think I'm going to give you my best even after you've seen what I can do?"

            [–][deleted] 70 points71 points  (1 child)

            It's like confronting a thief whose stolen from your store that not only doesn't show remorse but says "yeah, I'll try to return the merchandise to your store if I can remember how to get there".

            The absolutely minuscule number of fucks this woman gives would almost be impressive if it wasn't so revolting.

            [–]prodigy2throw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

            Lmao bitches mouth got amnesia when she met him.

            [–]aanarchist 8 points9 points  (24 children)

            what i dont undetstand is why being in a relationship with a woman automatically has him downgraded into beta simp status. it's like she wants to be a pump and dump.

            [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 57 points58 points  (23 children)

            Good question and it relates to why N-count is so critical for women. The more partners she has had the more incapable she becomes of bonding with anyone. If she were a virgin bride she would likely be obsessed with her husband and give him everything and put effort into pleasing him and maintaining the relationship (and her figure). But since she has been fucked by dozens of men she feels nothing for a man that commits because a worthwhile man wouldn't have committed in the first place because he has plenty of options. Her husband getting married meant that he wasn't that great of a catch because he settled for her.

            She ruined her marriage by 1. being a slut and 2. lying by omission. It's her choice to be the town bike but it's unethical to hide that from a partner. She is clearly damaged and wanted to pass off spoiled goods as mint condition, but it just doesn't work that way. Feminism brainwashed her into poor life choices, and she thought she could hide from her past and save the home made pornos. In the end she is just another degenerate failure who will go on to try to ruin another man's life after this man escapes her clutches.

            [–]1PantsonFire1234 23 points24 points  (0 children)

            Funny that she saved those videos, I'm almost certain she flicked her bean on those clips when hubby was out of town.

            [–]NotUpToAnythingGood 13 points14 points  (3 children)

            Honestly... the slut part doesn't bother me near as much as the lack of honesty and integrity.

            Anyone I'm going to make a long-term or permanent part of my life needs to have honesty and integrity at the absolute minimum. Otherwise, they'll never leave GO, let alone have a chance of think about passing it.

            [–]1PantsonFire1234 21 points22 points  (2 children)

            Good luck finding a girl like that. She will lie to you and you won't even know it.

            [–]RPmatrix 15 points16 points  (7 children)

            If she were a virgin bride she would likely be obsessed with her husband and give him everything and put effort into pleasing him and maintaining the relationship (and her figure).

            pffft! Why do you guys say such things yet there's Not One shred of evidence this is the case!

            Having had a 'virgin' gf who was 23yo when she had her first fuck with me, and who I was with for 3yrs, I must disagree with this sentiment. Sure she was 'devoted' as can be at first BUT regularly I travelled overseas for work and I knew she was one day going to want to 'experience other men' ... and she did, she discovered she loved sex (and was a natural at it)

            Within a year of losing her virginity to me she had fucked a friend of my brothers when I was overseas --- and in most ways I can't blame her, as she was a stunning woman who was very approachable ,, and guys, especially the ones in a our social group, would approach her with all sorts of offers which eventually she took "in the spur of the moment'.

            I was not surprised. I would've been a fool if I was. It's one of the drawbacks to being with a HB10

            Show me ONE guy here (or anywhere on reddit) who's in a successful marriage to a virgin bride ... they don't exist and definitely aren't 'common' --- which is not surprising.

            Firstly, the chances of meeting a girl under 20yo who's a virgin are extremely low, and even if you do, that's NOT going to stop her from looking elsewhere If she's not getting what she wants from you

            Next, if she has any curiosity she's going to 'wonder' how you stack up against other men, and eventually that curiosity is going to manifest in reality. AWALT

            Anyway, there's far more evidence of women lying about their 'N' count than there are of them telling the truth, so why would you believe a woman who tells you "I'm not as slutty as you" ... pffft no, she's sluttier! than you!

            Such beliefs in a western country in 2016 are absurd

            IME the only thing that might create a 100% devoted woman is having kids with her, nothing else. Even then it's no guarantee

            I'm speaking from my personal experience and in my experience I know of ONE 'half successful'marriage (with kids) and yes, she was a virgin.

            IMHO those two only stayed together becoz he made millions as a banker AND spent he spent so much time at work, that 'she' stayed at home 'raising the kids' while spending his money as she felt fit. She was the one who benefitted the most as He had no time outside of work!

            Just becoz 'she's a virgin' when you meet =/=guarantee loyalty. To think so is just naive!

            I'm 50 and know many people both older and younger than me have tried to have LTR's, and nothing will convince me that in 2016 that any woman will stay committed to a man just becoz he's her first fuck.

            And last but not least, IF you like sex, you can bet your balls a vigin will give you The Most Boring sex ever. Good luck teaching her how to give you a BJ or anything else. And god forbid you make her 'feel' incompetent .... say hello to a deadbedroom/another guy quick smart!

            Edit: As Skorch says:

            Imagine if men were not being force fed the blue pills and had the common sense to understand that women lie, that the princess facade is always false?

            For any skeptic who thinks I am wrong to generalize, we can just point out that even a verified virgin bride is always going to be an absolute whore, in the presence of the right man. It's built in. It's how women are meant to be.

            the man knows

            [–]Rommel0502 2 points3 points  (6 children)

            Looking back, I have had six LTRs in my life, and Im 48 now. I did heavy due diligence on all of them and these are what I believe their numbers to be and their ages at the time -

            1. 18 yrs. n=2
            2. 35 yrs. n=5
            3. 26 yrs n=4
            4. 24 yrs n=10
            5. 22 yrs n=1
            6. 31 yrs n=2

            Can any of you guess which one of these turned out to be BY FAR the biggest mistake of the lot?

            Eg - of the lot, there was only one single one who I was certain:

            1. Cheated on me
            2. Lied to me consistently
            3. Tried to cover up a pre-existing STD
            4. Had daddy issues (my fault on not recognizing this myself sooner)

            I know this is only a small sample size, but gents, N matters, and matters hugely. And in this case, we're "only" talking an N=10. All of the others? No problems with any of them. Would still take their call if they buzzed.

            [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 9 points10 points  (5 children)

            And in this case, we're "only" talking an N=10.

            That is a huge number... for a woman. Women are not men. We are fundamentally different. A man can sleep with dozens, even scores, maybe even hundreds of women, and still "settle down" comfortably after he grows tired of the chase.

            Not women. Once they get a taste of the CC it consumes them. An N that can't be counted on just one hand indicates damaged goods. And even a low-N doesn't rule out damaged goods.

            Thanks for sharing your stats. Everyone has their own risk appetite, of course, so "your mileage may vary."

            [–]bigderivative 4 points5 points  (2 children)

            Most girls 22 or older are well past 10 my guy.

            [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 6 points7 points  (1 child)

            Most girls are not LTR material. Pump & Dump.

            [–]RedPillSpookyGhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            as a man i'm always baffled by the actions of women. why save those videos? was she masturbating to them? wouldn't it be infinitely better for her to erase all traces of them? why keep them in a computer her husband have access to?

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              [–]_Trigglypuff_ 81 points82 points  (32 children)

              She just went to meet up with them for some kisses.

              [–]2Overkillengine 12 points13 points  (0 children)

              Very salty kisses apparently.

              [–]_MWN_ 22 points23 points  (8 children)

              Why does this sound familiar?

              Was this fucking Jenny?

              [–]snorted_the_red_pill 12 points13 points  (7 children)

              The infamous Jenny, eh?

              Fuck me that was quite the ride. Guy got fucked so impossibly hard. Jesus.

              [–][deleted]  (3 children)

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                [–]snorted_the_red_pill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Nah, don't know of its veracity.

                But as a story its fucking gold.

                [–]whyalwaysm3 1 point2 points  (2 children)

                If it's a real story please link it I want to read.

                [–]PrimeNumber301 2 points3 points  (1 child)

                https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Z0z1-GCI8zSmbrWZEKkCmpLR2qE3ShfkLtX6hErHiB0/edit

                Here you go, if you're really bored. There are definitely better things to do with your time though.

                I was following the story when the original OP was writing it and I don't remember all of the details, but just treat it as a funny work of fiction and you'll probably have some fun reading it. But I give it around 5% chance of it actually being true.

                [–]snorted_the_red_pill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Yeah, I didn't know whether it was real or not.

                But as a work of fiction though, still brutal. Absolutely barbaric.

                [–]MakeEmSayAyy 6 points7 points  (19 children)

                hahah are you also on the donald? i remember your name and i said "triggly! :O"

                [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 38 points39 points  (18 children)

                The number of TRPers that MAGA is yuuuuuge.

                [–]offthebeatmeoff 5 points6 points  (1 child)

                You have to stay Nimble in all aspects of your life

                [–]unmitigatedlol 21 points22 points  (1 child)

                That estimate might be a little low. There are also the guys whose videos she didn't keep. And the guys she didn't record for whatever reason. And the ones she blew anywhere in the world other than her bedroom. And the ones from before she got the webcam and started making amateur porn. Oh, and the ones from after she stopped making the videos. But that's probably about it, though.

                [–]NobleShitLord 11 points12 points  (0 children)

                Hahahahahahahahahahahaha. Lmaaaaaaaooooooo! Yeah only a few give or take 50 or 60 in either direction. Oh the pain he must feel. When he said, "27+ videos" I almost fell out of bed. Hard to look at your wife the same way when you see her on video getting face fucked.

                [–]blue_27 16 points17 points  (0 children)

                "Don't suck any dicks on your way to the parking lot."

                [–]Greenthumb326 2 points3 points  (1 child)

                Does the 27 club refer to a woman learning the technique on the 27th dick? Just asking.

                [–]Stythe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                The 27 club is a reference to famous celebs who died at the age of 27, often musicians due to drugs use like Hendrix or Kobain.

                [–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang 53 points54 points  (5 children)

                Imagine if men were not being force fed the blue pills and had the common sense to understand that women lie, that the princess facade is always false?

                For any skeptic who thinks I am wrong to generalize, we can just point out that even a verified virgin bride is always going to be an absolute whore, in the presence of the right man. It's built in. It's how women are meant to be. Stop oppressing women by denying their sexual nature and living in a sick ego fantasy. The point is that there is a deliberate falsehood being sold to clueless men on a vast scale. It's a scam that women benefit from, so can't blame them for taking part - if we're such morons that we keep falling for this made-up princess fantasy over and over, generation after generation. Goddamn, take a moment out of your day, imagine your princess taking a big runny shit locked in the ladies toilet. She is dirtier than you. You should've been the one who said "not as slutty as you" and smirked at the wedding! This is what makes men angry. We got cheated out of basic, absolutely essential knowledge - for the sole purpose of making men easier to fuck over & yoke into the sham modern marriage.

                If there was no brainwashing, then the husband from OP could've put the wifey on her knees and made her suck his dick in the most degrading way imaginable, while he slaps her around and talks about what a little go-pro whore she is. Both of them enjoy it greatly, their sex life comes back together, and the family can happily go on. The wife snuggles up to her badass man and in coy whispers tells him funny stories about all the go pro Chads she fucked before as they watch the vids together. Domestic bliss!

                Instead, you get "okayyy.. I guesssss I will try to remmeber how, just for you honey..." The lying cunt, she is STILL putting on, even after being found out and deprived of any possible credibility. It's adorable. Too bad the husband can't do anything about it, he can't be the man she wants and needs because he's too invested in the blue pill forced delusion that his wonderful princess betrayed him. She did nothing of the sort, she never was a wonderful princess and isn't one now, like every woman she is a delicious lying conniving bitch who needs dick and degradation, not hand holding, cookies & a new computer.

                [–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

                I was super guilty of putting women on a pedestal before I found TRP. The irony is that they fucking hate that. It turns them off more than just about anything. Just that one basic piece of knowledge could save so many poor fucks from themselves.

                [–]MakeEmSayAyy 10 points11 points  (2 children)

                dude the picturing them shit thing is too good. it really does take them off the pedestal, unless you have a scat fetish. Then you're fucking gross.

                [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

                This is RSD Julian's goto phrase when talking about approach anxiety or getting nervous around a hotty... "just imagine her taking a massive shit. They all do it, this one's no different"

                [–]disgruntledearthling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                If there was no brainwashing, then the husband from OP could've put the wifey on her knees and made her suck his dick in the most degrading way imaginable, while he slaps her around and talks about what a little go-pro whore she is. Both of them enjoy it greatly, their sex life comes back together, and the family can happily go on.

                This is gold. Fully agree here. Become the Chadest of the Chads and live happily ever fucking after.

                Edit: then dump her sorry ass

                [–]B64172 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                I spit my drink out after reading that part

                [–]doveenigma13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Man. I don't think I've ever known somebody so beta that they would date a girl very long if they didn't throw down some mouth hugs let alone marry her.

                Wow. He got lost in the deep dark beta with this one.

                [–]Jakei34 31 points32 points  (23 children)

                I'd divorce her...but i don't know

                Alimony and shit scares me.

                [–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (2 children)

                I couldn't stand to be in the same room as that bitch. I'd divorce her and not think twice about it. Only negative would be the kids, but in sure you'd get duel custody when you point out the fact your wife is a fucking liar.

                EDIT: this man doesn't actually even have kids. Even better. I'd run for the fucking hills.

                [–]MakeEmSayAyy 7 points8 points  (1 child)

                he must not realize how bad he COULD have it

                i mean yeah id fucking murder a bitch if i had to give her half my assets cuz SHE'S a lying whore, but if I had to give her a house and 68% of of my income? LOL nah you'll probably see me on forensic files

                [–]0kool74 19 points20 points  (0 children)

                Alimony and shit scares me.

                It's highly doubtful that she'd get any alimony after only 2 years of marriage. What's really scary is him having to pay to raise a kid that's not even his own after getting cucked!

                [–]TRP VanguardWhisper 20 points21 points  (4 children)

                Don't get married. Problem solved before you have it.

                [–]aRedThought 18 points19 points  (2 children)

                Nah fam I found this sick unicorn. Definitely wife material.

                [–]TRP VanguardWhisper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                Lemme guess... she's a good mother to her son (by her scumbag ex who abused her... you know because she told you all about it), so she'll be a great mother to your kids!

                And you just bought the ring, and you're soooo excited to get down on one knee and ask her.

                [–]2awalt_cupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                He's pretty certain. Must be legit. Congrats!

                [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 14 points15 points  (8 children)

                Step 1: Sell everything

                Step 2: Buy bitcoin

                Step 3: Disappear

                Step 4: Set up in a foreign country

                Step 5: Your bitcoin comes with you

                Step 6: Let the cunt divorce you for abandonment after 1 year (may vary based on jurisdiction)

                Step 7: Enjoy life

                [–]trp-sama 4 points5 points  (7 children)

                I wonder how this works. I mean if I sold all my shit, bought bitcoins, transferred it all to a new account that I had a friend create. Then we get the divorce and I admit that I sold all my shit, converted it to bitcoin and donated it to mens right group online. Later in life like a year or so down the road my friend can start slowly giving me back my cash. Obviously friend needs to be close enough that I can trust him with this kind of thing and I wouldn't want to keep a large amount of money in bitcoin for too long.

                [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 12 points13 points  (1 child)

                Then we get the divorce

                You don't get a divorce. You walk out on a bitch. You don't give a cunt the satisfaction of filing papers with the bureaucracy, of going through the process. YOU DON'T.

                You fucking GHOST on a cunt that stabbed you in the back. You abandon her. Let her wonder what happened to you. Did you strike up a new romance and run off? Get murdered by the mob? Secret agent? Assassin? Or you are just a fucking asshole who walked out on a worthless ho. Let her wonder about you.

                Depending on the jurisdiction in 6 months to two years she can file for divorce and that is one of the options. She will have moved on by then and won't bother trying to track you down to get the spoils of war, I mean divorce. Anyhow, if you split and ran off to a third world country good luck even getting any assets or cash from you. She will have moved on and will be too embarrassed or unsure how to proceed.

                Interacting with a bureaucracy is for BP cuckolds. The bureaucracy caters to women. You deny her the satisfaction and keep her wondering. Never give her closure or contact her. Burning bridges prevents your enemies from following you during retreat.

                edit words

                [–]RedEyesBlueShades 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                With BTC you don't need to transfer anything to anyone... just pack your laptop and go. Or store them on your phone and go. No need for friends who are gonna rip you off.

                [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                It would be even worse if they had kids. That's the bright side of all this. Never get married, no matter what anybody tells you. It's your life and you choose how to live it. He messed up in getting married, just because of what his mom wanted.

                [–]BlackJ1 23 points24 points  (4 children)

                There are so many posts like this.

                BP Man does everything he can to be a "good husband" and puts his wife before him making sure all her needs are meet just for her to give him starfish sex and little to no reciprocation.

                Honestly really sad, however even though OP doesn't say it, I feel him believing the same phrase many other men believe:

                "What did I do to deserve this?"

                It all comes down to men expecting good sex from them giving good commitment. No sorry it doesn't work that way.

                [–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (1 child)

                That Saving the Best article you sent him was exactly what came to mind when I saw the title of this post. OP better not have kids with this woman. He might not even want to have sex with her because she might end up having an "accidental pregnancy."

                Try to get a divorce that isn't devastating and move on.

                [–]Snookied 14 points15 points  (3 children)

                So uh.. did you tell him he's doing a pretty shit job of being red?

                [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

                See my new edit! Exciting developments!

                [–]Snookied 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                Well hot fucking damn. You weren't kidding. Best to him, from here on out. I'm glad he has awoke from his brief resumption of the great slumber.

                [–]afkb39sdfb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                You should PM him the definition of "lying through omissions." She was consciously deceptive from the very beginning of the relationship. You don't deceive and lie to someone you "love."

                [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (2 children)

                Just by reading the title the first thing I said is "another one?"

                Anyway he is a red pill reader yet he was still taken for a ride, Why? My .02 cents is that a lifetime of conditioning is hard to break. You can sit here and read the sidebar till you have it memorized but when confronted by a real life girl and you are actually and finally getting sex, the red pill becomes dry philosophy and theory vs your male feelings. Those feelings are super powerful. Along with getting your balls drained, you start think about flowers, violins in the background, a house with a white picket fence, being a dad, being a provider, treating her right...

                Had an ex-friend (learned this from the red pill, cut toxic people out of your life... no, I actually got tired of his whining) that was before the red pill came into being but a religious Tom Leykis listener.

                For those who do not know, Tom Leykis had a very popular radio show 10 years ago here in the USA and was preaching red pill philosophy before it came into being.

                "Tom Leykis said this, Tom Leykis said that," was constantly spewing out of his mouth. He is also a short Asian guy that was really smart with money and saved and invested well. Anyway he finally lands a girl. She is a girl that point blank told him she only dates big black guys. He ignores that and she had reluctant starfish sex with him till she gets pregnant. Has the kid and goes right back to dating big black guys but now milks him for everything he is worth. Beside the court mandated child support, "your daughter needs new shoes, your daughter needs food, your daughter needs_______." She literally used his daughter to extract money while she dated big black guys.

                Finally spent, broken and crying, I wanted to scream into his face "WHAT WOULD YOUR HERO TOM LEYKIS SAY ABOUT THIS!"

                The point being that his demigod Tom Leykis and his red pill theories couldn't stop him from going down that road.

                [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                Along with getting your balls drained, you start think about flowers, violins in the background, a house with a white picket fence, being a dad, being a provider, treating her right...

                It's depressing to me that this can never be a reality. This is what I want. But women do not want this. That fact has only been reinforced as I've seen more and more of the world.

                That is the red pill in its most harsh form. It's a bitter pill to swallow.

                [–]askmrcia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Damn i feel sorry for your friend. But I understand what he went through kinda. I had people preaching to me about red pill shit when growing up. I ignored it because I thought those guys only dated sluts and the girls I go after weren't.

                Well I eventually got a rude awaking, but at least I didn't get the girl pregnant or anything. So yea, you can know about the red pill and stuff and still fall for it.

                I know lots of guys that listen to rap and say fuck bitches and get money, but then turn around and think they found a unicorn and get screwed over

                [–]Kolantah 13 points14 points  (3 children)

                I didn't want to say it on there, but I actually follow the red pill religiously. That was what kept me on track to strive to be attractive. But alas, I fell trap for my mom's ploy and had to resort to being married. Thanks for the reference, brother. I appreciate the consideration.

                Dude, if you read this, where the fuck in your "religious reading" of the redpill did you find that you should bring flowers and go on inventive dates and shit? If your girl doesn't fuck you, you apply dread immediately. That's married redpill 101 for fucks sake!

                [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

                Yeah for real. Don't miss the second edit!

                [–]Kolantah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                Well in all fairness for the poor guy, even If he had read and applied redpill passed the first line ("1. Lift") and got awesome sex from a fit wife, it wouldn't have changed his wife's disappointing slutty past and constant lies. We should change TRP's first line to "1. Don't get married. If you're married, plan an exit strategy for when shit WILL hit the fan."

                [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Wrong! This goes beyond dread game, this is divorce territory.

                [–]Yokep 10 points11 points  (1 child)

                This dude needs to comprehend and apply what he reads here.

                This subreddit isn't for our entertainment. It's education. It works. I just picked up a second plate and life couldn't be better.

                [–]OpenBumChakra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                Yes, he read but did not internalize. Sad

                [–]indianthrw 20 points21 points  (7 children)

                Hey thanks for the analysis. It really put things in perspective and just jolted me. I am going back to the house soon, took an early day at work. I am packing all my things, and moving them to my cousin's house till I figure shit out. I should have known to play my dread game harder and stay aloof instead of making myself available for her. Before finding those videos this past weekend, I thought she was your innocent girl type, but AWALT. I see everything is tried and true, it just sucks that its probably going to cost me half my assets. Thank goodness we don't have joint bank accounts (or is she going to divorce rape me there too?). Despite following all the advice here, I succumbed and have suffered the consequences HARD. Not too late for me to pick up my life and move on.

                [–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

                Divorce her. Tell her she's getting nothing and that if she doesn't agree, you'll have the videos put in evidence with her name on them. Subsequent public records requests will have those videos on the internet within a week. You won't be able to Google her name without getting anal porn.

                [–]newmeforever 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                This.

                And stay inside of your house and throw her shit outside, fucking whore.

                She deserves nothing.

                [–]1mr_nate_ 8 points9 points  (1 child)

                For any guys wavering on swallowing the Red Pill, hopefully you can learn from one of OUR OWN, who strayed from the path, and is now paying the price.

                He'll come back from this. Internalize this example, so you never have to.

                [–]depaysementKing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Fuck yes. I'm South Asian myself and I'll be damned if my parents forced this crap down my throat.

                I've swallowed the pill for good. Fuck anyone who tells me I'm misogynistic in this fucked up world.

                [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 9 points10 points  (1 child)

                "I'm not as slutty as you."

                ...wait for it....

                I went through all the videos, and counted 27 different men in total.

                Translation: "I'm WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY sluttier than you."

                And those are just the ones she filmed.

                I PM'd the guy and sent him to "Saving the Best"

                "Hats Off to the Bull" is a good companion thread for that one.

                I actually follow the red pill religiously....I fell trap for my mom's ploy and had to resort to being married.

                And there you have it. Poor bastard drove right of the road, anyway.

                This is why you MAINTAIN your MOTHERFUCKING FRAME

                I am going to tell her I will reveal the videos if she doesn't leave quietly and try to steal my money or my house.

                CAREFUL. that sound a lot like blackmail. I would be very circumspect about direct threats. I would back them up, and then leave them running on her PC, so she knows you know.

                [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                filmed

                ....if 27 were filmed....wow you know there must be WAY more that she will not admit to.

                [–]RPthrowaway123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                Hey guys, we actually saved the OP!

                Well, actually we didn't do anything. He saved himself. Good luck, /u/indianthrw. You will get through this, and you deserve better than bad sex from an ex-whore. Go and live a life worth living!

                [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 6 points7 points  (4 children)

                I kept up with my old "tricks" from my Casanova days and made sure to bring flowers every few days, the occasional dessert touch, surprise dates, and jewelry.

                Even in his player days, this guy is Mr Fucking Beta. The only thing of value here is "surprise dates". The rest is "please just fucking exploit me".

                Flowers, desserts and jewelry is pure fucking provider game. Not surprised he's gotten married and fucked over.

                Dude... if you read this... read TRP properly this time. Avoid provider game. It gets you used.

                [–]NotUpToAnythingGood 3 points4 points  (2 children)

                Hey now, I do the flowers and desserts thing too...

                But I do them when I damn well feel like it and not because she expects them. I also don't do them often. Give a gift too often and it stops being a surprise and gift... it turns into an expectation.

                That reminds me... I've been meaning to write up a post on delivery and how minor differences can make or break a gesture.

                [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                a post on delivery and how minor differences can make or break a gesture

                Please do, this is a great post idea, very useful and subtle concept that I think a lot of us could benefit from reading.

                [–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Why would you gift a woman with anything but your cock?

                [–]melb22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                It does get you used. My big life lesson.

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                [–]redzorp 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                More like: this is at bare minimum 50% of marriages and more likely 75% of marriages.

                [–]5t3fan0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                TO LOSE HALF THE ASSETS IS STILL BETTER THAN SLOWLY DYING (INSIDE) AND LOSE THEM ALL A DECADE LATER

                another brother saved, urrah!

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                [–]tallwheel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                99% of women have no idea where the pictures on their phone go after they take them.

                LOL so true. This is every woman I've ever known. 'Why is my phone telling me that icloud is full? What's that?'

                [–]TheRedThrowAwayPill 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                OLD FAKE POST IS FAKE AND OLD

                This same story gets repeated about every 1 year.

                I was gonna post how I was happy there is finally a good juicy BP example like old times but nah - same shit story about he Indian guy whose wife was a flaming whore.

                Only this was adjusted to say he wasn't a total virgin.

                This is a troll post to mess with the minds of r-Relationshits

                [–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 5 points6 points  (3 children)

                OK this is a compelling argument. But OP did say they are S. Asian. So... does that mean Indian? Tech support people? This is a coin toss, isn't it...

                [–]TRPtruth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                Edit out the part where the backups are stored.

                He can still bail, short marriage no kids, he wont be divorce raped too hard. Lucky guy.

                It's over, now it will only be him thinking she's"trying to remember" when and if she tries to pity suck his dick in a last ditch attempt to keep the beta provider.

                [–]ferengiprophet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                I don't blame her, he really doesn't know how women work-- he went full retard:

                I kept up with my old "tricks" from my Casanova days and made sure to bring flowers every few days, the occasional dessert touch, surprise dates, and jewelry. I wanted to make my wife know that in our world, she was my queen.

                Never bring bitches flowers. That's the universal sign for "Hi, I'm a beta male"

                [–]1v1crown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                "I kept up with my old "tricks" from my Casanova days and made sure to bring flowers every few days, the occasional dessert touch, surprise dates, and jewelry. I wanted to make my wife know that in our world, she was my queen."

                Say no more. You are a cunt.

                [–]johnchapel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                I kept up with my old "tricks" from my Casanova days and made sure to bring flowers every few days, the occasional dessert touch, surprise dates, and jewelry.

                Well if that isn't the cuckest thing I've ever fucking read.

                edit; I stand corrected:

                I wanted to make my wife know that in our world, she was my queen.

                [–]melb22 3 points4 points  (5 children)

                What gets me about the whole situation is that women once got married to be able to enjoy sex, now they get married when the desire for security and marital status and perhaps children starts to outweigh the desire for sex. So women have sex whilst single and then when ready to give it up (or downgrade to duty sex) they're ready to get married. And they seem to think this is a workable long-term arrangement.

                [–]2Overkillengine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                Ah yes, what was the old adage?

                "Treat her like a princess and she'll treat you like a peasant."

                [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                27 men. Please don't ever consider getting back with her.

                [–]TedTheAtheist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Wow.. I hope holding the videos ransom helps! I really do.

                [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                I know a chick, reasonably attractive for age 31, who has kind of accepted that panic-age 29 sailed on by and she's not finding Mr. Right "for some reason." I see her out at night clubs and I honestly think she's decided she's bored with life and pissed off at all men for not marrying-her-off when she was mid 20's or something.

                She seems to have one and only one plan in mind. Slut-out and take as much as she can from as many men as she can. She's got the accelerator floored.

                It's kind of impressive in a way. But it'll be sad to see her at 35, and then again at 40 - angrier, leathery, hollow, and a crumpled mess. I wonder if she could be the woman OP found in the scenario posted above or if she'll be so low-end it'll be impossible for a beta to hook up with her.

                I wondered about targeting a particular guy that gives me trouble and "recommending her character" as some kind of noble date-worthy chick. Meh, that's too mean.

                [–]Rommel0502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                If you decide to get married, who you marry is by a country mile the most important single decision you will make in determining your own happiness. With that, there should be no stone unturned and nothing off the table when it comes to due diligence.

                With all of that, how the fuck the question "How many people have you slept with?" waited until the wedding night is absolutely beyond me.

                IMO, you deserve what you get going into something so important so blind.

                [–]squeezemymindgrapes 2 points3 points  (5 children)

                Sucks bro. Also, why would she get half your assets in the divorce? Does she not work?

                Also, a lot of guys on here say "Don't get married" because of stuff like this. I think the better advice is, "Don't get married to someone who makes a lot less than you." If you get married with a girl with a similar income level, this won't be a problem in the divorce proceedings.

                [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                Be careful saying anything remotely positive about marriage or you'll get hounded endlessly lol

                [–]cs_throwawayyy 2 points3 points  (1 child)

                These are just plain sad stories, lives getting destroyed. I'm so grateful that by some random clicks through the internet, I ended up in TRP and PUA stuff.

                TRP might not be moral, but so is life.

                [–]neopet 5 points6 points  (1 child)

                That honestly reads like a troll post. I really really hope it's just an elaborate work of fiction and someone's not actually going through that.

                [–]1favours_of_the_moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Go for an annulment, maybe he won't have to pay.

                [–]FlintShaman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Try to remember? Like really? Really really? Holy shit, someone come scrape me off the fucking sidewalk because I'm dead.

                [–]1WidmerBeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                A woman giving sex to someone who gives her tingles is like riding a bike, especially if they're the bike.

                [–]iAngeloz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                I'm noticing a trend here lol

                [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                When I had the conversation with her about the videos it would have ended with her being dumped.

                [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                It sounds like he reads redpill but doesn't do a damn thing with the material, it sounded like he stays in shape but that's it.

                If you read the place religiously and try to apply it I feel like you won't have to ask what needs to be done. Try to change how your marriage works, if it fails, goodbye. But he obviously wasn't taking anything here to heart when it came to relationship stuff.

                Still wish him luck, hope he ends up in a good place after whatever shit is ahead.

                [–]wiseprogressivethink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                At least he didn't have kids with this cunt.

                [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                One of the most depressing things ive ever heard... Is this my future?..is this the future of all non alpha"chad" types?..simply coping that shes attracted to you..while shes only using you for comfort and support... was the guy ugly? Short? Small penis?..I dont get it really..how can a woman be so cold towards someone..yet still stay with them?..

                [–]Praecipuus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Use the videos as leverage to divorce her and make her leave with her stuff only.

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