For guys going through the struggle and the grind right now, for guys getting botched approach after botched approach, lemme just say, it's ok man.
Internalize these ideas and you will start feeling better about your sexual interactions.
- 1. You wont get all the girls - but you will get girls
An immutable law of life is not everyone is going to like you - if you go out into the world expecting to have every women you encounter drip for your seed, then you're in for a rude awakening. There is no secret phrase to activate every girl's primal brain and make her attracted to you.
There is, however, a fantastic little red pill that will help you learn how to get girls. If you follow the advice given by TRP, you'll still disgust some girls, but guess what, you'll also see more girls ogling you, and even more girls becoming open and receptive to your advances.
"Some girls hate you, some girls love you. Most girls wanna see whatcha got."
- 2. Not every women will like you - but some women will crave you
You want girls who are at your beck and call - the ones who see you as their #1 cock. It's better to be the guy who girls make time for, than the guy who girls have to check their schedule for.
Dont break your back trying to impress a girl who sees you as "Meh, MAYBE we'll hang out, let me get back to you on that," ESPECIALLY when you have a cock thirsty plate throwing herself at you day and night.
Variety may be the spice of life, but why put yourself through the stress and trouble of jumping through one woman's hoops, when you have another woman who will give you sex on command? Women who like you will make your life easier.
Now sure, not every women will start off craving your dick, but with enough practice, time, and exposure, you can move "meh" women to the "I NEED you" side of the scale, but be forewarned, you can also move "meh" women to "stay away from me!"
If you go around thinking "man I dont need this hoe, I already got another one just WAITING for me to give her the dick" you're gonna have a good time.
- 3. There is no one special girl - but there are some girls made specially for you
On the most basic level, women have warm vagina holes that are a great source of pleasure. They are ALL the same in that regard. Some, however, you click with, like puzzle pieces.
But that's all it is - a click. You two are highly compatible genetic puzzle pieces that snap together. She is the fisher price puzzle
slut slot, and you are the shape that fits inside of her. You may be able to fit into other sluts slots with enough tenacity, but the truth is, nothing will feel as easy as being with a girl you vibe with - and when the drooling 4 year old named life decides to fling the toy across the room, launching you out of your slot, dont worry, cus fisher price makes the millions of the same puzzle game.
Even if you cant find another fisher price puzzle, you can still probably shove your cylindrical shaped puzzle piece into other
sluts slots, but we all know it just wont be as fun as the sluts slots made for us.
- 4. No girl belongs to you - except for in the moment
When you're with your girl, you should be the only person on her mind. Her cell should be on silent, you two should be enjoying each others company and intimacy. This is your turn with her.
Once that date is over, it's fair game, man. If you put a leash on a dog, you control it, when you take the leash off, the fucker is probably gonna run around and sniff every butt in town until it gets a new owner, gets run over, or starves to death. Some dogs get captured and returned to you. Other dogs stand there, waiting for you to put the leash back on, and other dogs wander around, but come back to you when you call their name.
Women are like that, when you're not in their presence anymore, that's it - your turn with her is over.
They'll talk to their orbiters, they'll talk to their side niggas. Don't get jealous cus it's gonna happen.
If you finished fucking and you're just doing your thing at your work desk while she's laying on the bed, it's fine, you had your way with her and are onto other things, she's gonna pull out her phone while she waits for you to start something else up.
On the flip side, if she's calling and texting other guys while you two are doing something, like trying to sex it up, are cooking dinner, bowling, coffee, are watching a movie together, on a date, ice skating, w/e you're doing it wrong bro.
- 5. All women are like that - but not all women do that.
"Women are like guns - they're fun, dangerous, and all share the potential to inflict some serious damage. Treat them as if they are all loaded."
You've heard this Red Pill Whorerr story before: Man and Women are in an inseparable relationship until suddenly it just happened and she jumped onto the next dick.
Spare yourself the heartache and get it through your head that All Women are Like That.
Be okay with the potentials, be okay with nature - man. She aint designed to be monogamous. It's never gonna happen.
It's better to accept the potential of it happening and going about your life, instead of sitting in paralyzed fear, paranoid about the possibility.
Ask yourself, if a better version of you came around your girl, would she leave you for your better? It's you, exactly, except he's better at being you. I say, not all women have the chance to do so, but I think they would. And that's okay.
All guns can fire, but not all guns are loaded.
All women have the POTENTIAL to cheat, but not all women cheat.
All Women Are Like That, but not all women do that.
- 6. You will Fail - But you're not a failure.
Man, I've approached girls who laughed at me, who awkwardly exchanged glances with their female friend and walked away, who made me wait for them for months while they banged chad, i've been there man. I've let guaranteed lays slip through my fingers. I've failed.
But you know what else? I've gotten the attention of a bombshell, and fucked the hottest girl I've ever fucked. I've retained a model as a long term plate. I've fucked girls just by asking them if they wanted to be friends with benefits.
Seduction is a BJJ Dojo.
The white belt gets tapped out 1000 times in 1000 different ways. He'll score some submissions here and there, and eventually he'll learn how to escape bad situations, place himself in good ones, and before you know it, the coach is calling him in to break in newbies.
No black belt master got to where they were, without being submitted countless times.
And you know what happens when you get that black belt? You STILL get submitted.
By having the knowledge and experience of a black belt, you will make it a heck of a lot easier to win, achieve, and force submissions... but...
Life is funny!
You can know all the right moves to make, and still lose.
And that's okay man, life is half chance. You can only do so much to influence the outcome.
You will never be alpha enough. If you give a women the moon, she will want the stars.
There will never be a magical tipping point in which you are so alpha your girl wouldn't ever cheat on you, betray you, or cross a boundary.
If she feels like cheating, it's gonna happen. You could be a top profile celebrity and STILL get cheated on - nobody is immune to hypergamy.
The sooner you come to terms with this, the better.
Now take a deep breath of relief, and accept life for what it is - Half Chance. You can only do so much. Spit your game and onto the next one.
You can be the most Alpha Chad J Thundercock mother fucker on the planet, until some unfortunate ass fool decides he's gonna pop your ass and BOOM - you're dead. And that's it. Alpha no more, cus you dead nigga.
But is the possibility of dying gonna stop you from living?
Is the possibility of rejection gonna stop you from getting laid?
Life ain't perfect, but it sure can be fun.