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Red Pill ExampleFemale blogger unknowingly confirms TRP principles to a tee. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by 1crunk_cat

Didn't believe TRP before ? Well read here and take it straight from a real girl's blog. This article shows TRP principles so clearly that I honestly would have thought its fake if I didn't look into the rest of the author's blog and her twitter. For context she is 29, single, and desperately wants to settle down; she looks decently attractive for a 29 year old. There was a time where I would have read something like this and felt bad for her; but with the red pills lens on, I just laugh.

I have been single for the past nine months. Before that brief relationship nine months ago, I had been single for about two years. That is a long time to be alone right? I take complete responsibility for that extended period of “singledome.” I was finding a new job and really I was finding myself again. I was not feeling confident or content with my life and I was scrambling to figure that out before I brought anyone else into my life.

2 years alone at your late twenties is so scary as a woman. Sorry I chose to prioritize my career, money, and freedoms over men.

My beeeautiful friend whom I shall call Em, is single as well. She has a far different dating life from mine. No two year treks of singleness for Em. Em hasn’t been lucky in love yet either, but perhaps she is more lucky in love than I am. She does at least meet men she wants to see more than twice. One thing I should mention is that Em isn’t exactly “looking” to meet anyone at this very moment.

Ok Em, ok.

Em is hotter than men and she can still pull chads, I'm kind of jealous.

Being single in your (very) late twenties is hard. A couple of months ago we went to a minor league baseball game, after a lot of rambunctious cheering I received a ball from a player with his phone number. Never one to turn down a baseball player, *wink wink* I text him and we all met up with him and his friends at a nearby bar. The night was long, hilarious and made absolutely no improvement to my love life. This brings me to problem number one of dating in your late twenties.

Turns out the baseball guy just wanted some ass and not to put a ring on my finger. I still fucked him though.

You are no longer 24.Being 24 and being 29 are vastly different. At 24 I was young, naive, full of hope and open to all possibilities. Cute and funny guy with no real job, ehh he’ll get one! At 29 I am cynical, low on patience and know exactly what I want.

At 24 I loved getting pumped by bad boys with no jobs, they even had a ton of tattoos! I loved being obsessed with them and I expected nothing in return; I was getting the tingles hard. Unfortunately I'm 29 now, cynical from being used in my youth, and I know exactly what I want now: financial support and babies.

Problem number two…

You are over meeting men at bars.Remember when you wore tight skirts and four inch heels every night to impress a bunch of men at a bar that were really only trying to sleep with you? Long gone are those days. It’s a win if you fix your hair at 29. Meeting the same intoxicated, over confident bachelors has lost its appeal. Not to mention there is still a crowd of 22 year old girls with tight skirts and perfect contouring at these bars. Who has time to compete with that? You work FULL time at a job you probably hate no less.

Just LOL. Wow....

I remember 24, when I wore my slutty tight short dresses and my fuck-me-heels for a bunch of bad boys and chads so I can get railed hard by the hottest one I could impress. I cant do that anymore :( At 29, its kind of too much effort to even make my hair look good now. While I'd like to pretend that I don't like getting sexually used by hot bad boys anymore, my real issue is that I just cant compete for them anymore with some many hotter younger girls around.

All the education and career I prioritized in my youth ended up landing me a job that I hate anyway. I don't like working, I want a breadwinner.

Problem number three…

You don’t have the energy you did when you were younger.It used to be easy to hit four social events in one weekend. But between work, the gym, sleeping and running errands you are struggling to make it to one now. Being a grown up is no joke! There is so much to get done all the time. You don’t want to spend valuable hours sitting at a restaurant, hoping an attractive man will walk through those doors and sweep you off your feet. You want to know where these men are going to be dang it!

AND SO DO I!

I feel so tired, busy, and "grown up" now, I'm not that girl anymore. I'm so busy, lets be real I'm only keeping up with my gym routine until I snag a provider. Why can't I just sit on my ass and wait for a prince charming to sweep me off my feet ? Fine I know its not gona happen, at least I want to know where and how I can snag a clueless beta.

AND SO DOES EM!

She just doesn’t know it yet.

I believe other women are feeling the way Em and I feel. So, I have decided to help you all out. I am going to do a lot of research and work for you. I have already read too many articles to count today on the best places to meet single men. Good single men. In addition to the research articles I found on the web, I have collected data on places and events good men go to. Basically, I just asked good men. They know where they go better than anyone right?

You think this is just me? I know my peers are feeling this way too when they hit 30s. My hunt for the "good single men" ( read perfect beta chump) is just beginning. Here is a blog to help other women land theirs too.

EDIT: I had her twitter tab still open and decided to scroll all the way. Look at these two gems here and here . Good luck to your future beta chump !

EDIT2: Someone inboxed me this. This blog is gold, read the description for "the safe bet" she dated while keeping what you read here in mind.

The guys she has dated:

  The Safe Bet

This guy isn’t horrible. He is nice, he adores you in fact. And you like him because well, he isn’t a threat. He could never do better than you! Finally, after the beating your ego took with the player and the narcissist you can be the adored one. And no more worrying every time a pretty girl walks in the room. Then over time you will realize this man may meet lots of nice bullet points on your list, but you aren’t that into him and he doesn’t realistically meet your “top tier” qualifications for a husband, you just let him slide on account of the fact that he liked you SO darn much. He’s history.

DONT BE THIS GUY ^. If TRP wasn't clear to you, it damn well should be now.

The Player

This guy just can’t keep it in his freaking pants. He is charming, too charming, but usually equally stupid. He is hitting on you and your best friend at the same bar, in the same night. Yes, I actually dated this dude(several times). Has little going for himself except that he is a fast talker.

The guy she wants:

Is it weird if I’ve dated these same types more than once? So let me describe what I am looking for in case you know him and aren’t in love with him yourself. He is tall, dark and handsome. Those were a given right? He is a super confident man, that likes to workout, loves to stay in, understands the massive amount of time I have to spend with my mom. Loves God, has a grown up job, wants to have children, doesn’t fit into any of the above mentioned categories. Must be driven in all aspects of his life. Bonuses: he is handy (good with tools) and funny.. actually funny may be a requirement, is my list getting long? Must be able to 1. love my dogs 2. handle a girl with a big mouth and a lot of attitude…my mom, obviously! Fine…its really me with the mouth and the attitude.

EDIT3: Replaced the two blog links with their archive versions in case she deletes them. I want people to learn from this as long as reddit is up.


[–]1-Fidelio- 848 points849 points  (59 children)

I never thought about it before, but "where have all the good men gone" translates to "why aren't men I desire interested in me anymore?"

[–]omega_dawg93 556 points557 points  (34 children)

i kept it very simple for my nieces when they said this. my reply: "your phone rings a lot at 22 - 25... giving you lots of attention. your phone won't ring like that at 30. trust me."

some did... some didn't trust me. now, they see.

i give zero fucks. they slutted it up good and wasted their 'fine' years... having babies for thugs and losers. now, they've gained weight and want a good man that will 'take me as i am... or leave me as i am."

well, they're leaving you... just as you are. alone.

[–]Zippy1776 251 points252 points  (1 child)

well, they're leaving you... just as you are. alone.

LOL, that line is art in the form of words.

[–]dontforgetthispw 85 points86 points  (15 children)

The problem is they do find desperate beta chumps.

[–]forgetful_storytellr 147 points148 points  (5 children)

It’s not a problem, it’s nature. Let it be.

[–]dontforgetthispw 26 points27 points  (1 child)

It was more of a figure of speech but yeah, I agree.

[–]Noogisms 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love finding WholeSomeMemes here, deep in TRP comments.
Carry on ya'll's cordiality.

[–]sadshark 18 points19 points  (2 children)

Yes, they do. But they are not attracted to them, they resent them, they're unhappy, and will cheat on that chump with the first chad that offers them the slightest attention.

[–]SidgeBlueCollars 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Then the beta has his assets taken and pays alimony for the kids he doesn't see. Ahhh, the circle of life

[–]anon_likes_tendies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good for the beta chumps. Meanwhile miss 23, super hot and has daddy issues is blowing my phone up.

[–]evilassaultweapon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, the problem is that the ones who don’t find a chump vote.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Yup. I checked out my old school classmates on FB and found just one... shes always been a bit fat, great breasts though. Stumbled through life not really doing anything, turns 32, gets married, has a kid, all within one year... Checked out the husband...soft looking guy, looks like he practically eats estrogen...checked his career...owns his own accountancy.... made me both laugh and feel a bit sad for his likely impending nightmare of a life in the future.

[–]_the_shape_ 43 points44 points  (10 children)

Beyond their delusions of believing that they'll be as coveted into their 30s as they are/were in their 20s, I sincerely wonder how many womyn are aware of this..

[–]omega_dawg93 42 points43 points  (6 children)

WOW!!! 90% of a woman's eggs are gone by 30!!??

and at 40, only 3% remain? i've never heard of this, but if true, this puts things into an entirely different perspective.

[–]_the_shape_ 30 points31 points  (5 children)

Yeah, I was leveled by it too.

I brought it up to my sister, a fucking nurse practitioner, and she wasn't aware of it either (not that she necessarily should because she's in medical, but I figured the odds would be quite high on her end that it'd be common knowledge).

Now, all those stories of girls in their thirties (many of which I know personally) going the in vitro route makes so much more sense. Truly chilling stuff.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (4 children)

The worst thing is the older a woman gets the more the chance of severe disability / birth defects in the foetus.

But they care more about $$$ than their baby because you still see them latching onto guys, marrying them and having multiple kids aged 40+.

[–]Dickinson_Burns 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I think it might have more to do with mindset and financial situation than we would like to believe.As always life isn't black and white, as entertaining as it is to believe everything we read here as gospel (because it's empowering and provides some sort of explanation, both rational and emotional, for the world we feel alone against).

I know that I, at age 20, certainly don't want a fucking kid. Shit, I can't even fucking consider having a kid without shuddering. All that extra financial and literal responsibility. Fuck that. Most people my age can't afford kids, and realize this.

If you wanna go all the way to the red and say that women are incapable of thinking like this, fine, but the chads they are fucking certainly are and they sure as fuck don't want a child; shit, even the beta boys probably realize this. It doesn't take a genius to look at the cost of baby food and think wait a minute...

[–]anon_likes_tendies 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Because dooming your kids with a 50/50 chance of Autism is the rage now a days.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they get a 50/50 chance of being able to claim disability benefit for their children in the USA / UK / Sweden, too!

[–]areq13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A single childless career woman once told me she wanted to have a kid after all. Just needed to find a man. She was 40 years old.

We weren't friends, I don't know how that story ended - it's a mystery!

[–]JohnnySixguns 7 points8 points  (1 child)

OMG the absolute tragedy of it all.

Why can't women see this?

[–]PinkPilledRed17 20 points21 points  (2 children)

having babies for thugs and losers

Ugh. Low standards when young. Lower standards when old.

[–]Five_Decades 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not really. In the single's market, women's standards tend to go up with age despite the women bringing less value to the market.

Part of this is beacuse women with reasonable standards end up shacking up with guys, while the women who are impossible to bond with (due to things like high standards) constantly cycle in and out of the market.

High value mates get pulled from the market and stay pulled. Low value mates constantly are in and out of the market.

[–]omega_dawg93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they mistake thug attitude and tattoos for alpha characteristics... and it's simply peacocking.

[–]Legitimate_Policy 72 points73 points  (5 children)

See Karen Straughan on Men Not Marrying. She goes into that in depth

[–]red_matrix 26 points27 points  (4 children)

I don't know why she's not more popular

[–]EnragedParrot 43 points44 points  (1 child)

Because she speaks some very uncomfortable truths?

[–]Random_throwaway_000 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Blue pills are fantasy, red pills are reality. Which one do you think would be more popular?

[–]1kevin32 64 points65 points  (9 children)

But when her SMV tanks with depreciated looks and kids, it translates to "Where are all the Nice Guys I rejected who can respect and provide for me?".

[–]tempolaca 91 points92 points  (5 children)

"Where are all the Nice Guys I rejected who can respect and provide for me?".

It's a beta fantasy that girls think about nice guys. No, nice guys are always invisible, never remembered as more than an inconvenience. No, she's thinking about the men that fucked her and don't do it anymore.

[–]1kevin32 51 points52 points  (1 child)

No, nice guys are always invisible, never remembered as more than an inconvenience.

This would suggest that Beta Bucks doesn't exist. Yes, women prefer Mr. Tall Handsome and Swag, but "respect" and "chivalry" often becomes important when she's past her prime and needs a bailout. Men who consider themselves Nice Guys need to recognize this and not end up becoming a wallet.

Check out r-WhereAreAllTheGoodMen for more examples of women complaining about wanting a "good man" and a "nice guy" when they're past their prime.

[–]ebaymasochist 9 points10 points  (1 child)

She wants a nice guy who will fuck her good. A nice guy who will open the door for her but is strong enough to destroy another man if needed. He tips the waitress but the valet is terrified if he scratched his car.

That's what they mean by nice guy. Assertive but flexible, strong but caring, etc. Not weak ass little bitch boy who is afraid of everyone.. Not a criminal or abusive.. Just a balance leaning towards civilized and class..

For millions of years, there was no such thing as a guy being fat to the point of repulsive, being truly broke meant starving to death, everyone knew how to hunt and could carry a 50 lb animal a few miles.. there was no reason to be afraid of women, since life expectancy was about 35 years old...

"Nice guys" get shit on because they are too far out of the zone in one way or another. Nice guys in the 40s and 50s would slay pussy if they were young today

[–]the_boat2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmfao. That profile it’s like a dating version of a copy pasta.

[–]1empatheticapathetic 6 points7 points  (1 child)

You know kev more than anyone that they’re all still there, it’s just not what she wants really.

[–]okuli 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don't think they're still there, by early 30s most of nice guys marry girls who decided that it's time to "settle down" and fill boring but stable provider role. Those who didn't fit provider role but have good SMV fuck younger girls and hence not available to post-wall women. So who's left is somebody who isn't good as a provider, and doesn't have SMV to fuck younger girls.

[–]1StinkyDiaper 15 points16 points  (2 children)

Then it translates into "I don't need no man!"

[–]anon_likes_tendies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

...... While complaining that there's no man still.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Meeting the same intoxicated, over confident bachelors has lost its appeal REALLY means ....Not getting attention from intoxicated, over confident bachelors SUCKS

[–]1ozaku7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This isn't the point. It's a bluepill woman back then being redpill now, for realizing that a man won't change according to her dreams. Instead she is rather due to her experiences cynical that her wish would be fulfilled. Hence "saving the best for last" so she is sure what she is getting into.

She saw the good in men who had no potential to be good at all. The bad guys were the ones with confidence to approach women, the good guys are the kind that just stick behind. At the same time, these low confidence good guys are not interesting to women because they put them on a pedastal, which is unattractive to any human being on earth.

[–]Marino4K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate, this woman was probably a great lay in her early 20s but reality is smacking her in the face and rightfully so, I’ve rarely seen someone so bold in confirming TRP beliefs while playing the woe is me card

[–]Rhynovirus 225 points226 points  (5 children)

Gems from her website:

  • Moved back in with parents at 26.
  • Still living with them at 29
  • Can't afford to live on her own but has perfect nails and teeth and plenty of money to spend on bad mascara and her dog
  • Wants that "perfect guy" to sweep her off her feet
  • Thinks the 23 year olds are too much competition

This is what the wall looks like. She has "future ex-wife and alimony" written all over her. The schmuck that marries her has 4 or 5 years before she leaves with all his shit because she "deserves to be happy"

Wow.

I hope whoever among you cucks her husband makes sure to stick it in her ass. Lord knows she won't be letting him do it.

[–]anon_likes_tendies 26 points27 points  (2 children)

You forgot potential for multiple affairs, one night stands, or cuckolding should any younger stud gives her "the look" at the grocery store.

[–]zestytacoz 4 points5 points  (1 child)

So what you're saying is pump and dump

[–]anon_likes_tendies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no- avoid like the plague, not worth the risk. Seems to be a stage 4 clinger.

many more ladies with less red flags, less baggage and less sense of entitlement.

[–]goldenhourlivin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

moved out of parents house till 26 before moving back in 🤢🤮

Literally just taking out a loan on her future potential/contentment in an attempt at maintaining a fleeting slutty lifestyle. It’s sad and hilarious at the same time.

[–]NotLuceBree 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude check out the other blog post in OP's second edit. You are right, she's a divorce-rape waiting to happen.

[–]0fficialRider99 113 points114 points  (0 children)

She’s just waiting to stab some unknowingly stupid beta in the back. Won’t be me, I’m still recovering, building my career, finances and assets. Especially if they have multiple sextapes floating around, looks really bad. Don’t want that to be the mother of any thing I’ll father in the future.

[–]3CainPrice 526 points527 points  (25 children)

The thing with women is that they believe their own internal narrative. They also have a complete inability to imagine that anybody else's life is different than their own.

For example, throughout this woman's story, she's not going without sex, just without relationships. She's still meeting men to sate her horniness, just not "men she wants to see more than twice" like her friend allegedly does.

She assumes that everybody - her friend Em, her other friends, her ugly friends, and men too - are all just like her. Having causal sex when they're horny but what they really want is a relationship with someone who has his/her shit together and wants more.

The idea that some girls out there aren't having sex with guys they don't like every weekend just because they can or that the kinds of guys who are able to have casual sex with women aren't secretly pining for a good woman who can give them more is beyond this author. She can't imagine that other people are different than she is. She only sees the world through the lens of her own experiences and believes everybody is just like her.

When she finds a loser guy who wants to marry her and he turns out to be an underconfident chump who's only been with 3 women, she's not going to understand that his count is low because he is literally unable to be a part of the casual sex culture. She'll think it's because he's a straight shooter who's in it for marriage. Then she'll get really, really frustrated with how unfuckable he is about 4 years into marriage and take his house and children.

[–][deleted] 188 points189 points  (1 child)

Your last paragraph should be in the sidebar. That is applicable to so many situations and put quite elegantly I might add. Context be damned, it stands on its own.

[–]Luckyluke23 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yeah man this part got me the most

she's not going to understand that his count is low because he is literally unable to be a part of the casual sex culture.

[–]William_A_Bishop 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This post articulates something ive been feeling but been unable to put into words for a few years now.

Thanks for sharing.

[–]Atheist_Utopia 35 points36 points  (1 child)

You forgot to add the man's sanity at the end.

[–]BastaHR 42 points43 points  (0 children)

When she finds a loser guy who wants to marry her and he turns out to be an underconfident chump who's only been with 3 women, she's not going to understand that his count is low because he is literally unable to be a part of the casual sex culture. She'll think it's because he's a straight shooter who's in it for marriage. Then she'll get really, really frustrated with how unfuckable he is about 4 years into marriage and take his house and children.

Oh man, this is deep. You do, but many don't see what's on the other side of the fence, or holes in it where encounters occur.

[–]SovereignSoul76 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mind immediately went to the newly spiritual yoga wife who wants to 'try out' an 'open relationship' only to have her suspicions confirmed: no other woman wants to fuck her husband either.

How utterly humiliating for her! How did this happen? No no no, this will not do....

[–]OfficerWade 15 points16 points  (1 child)

That last paragraph makes me shudder.

[–]Scanline6 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You sir are the reason why I fucking love TRP. The woke is strong.

[–]wickedogg 4 points5 points  (3 children)

To be fair, she could know that there are different people and she just isn't writing her blog to those people. There's a difference between assuming everyone is like you and assuming everyone who follows you is like you. I don't know anything about whether this particular girl is stupid or not.

[–]areq13 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Read this again, it might be the most important thing you need to know about women (all women):

The thing with women is that they believe their own internal narrative. They also have a complete inability to imagine that anybody else's life is different than their own.

It's not a matter of intelligence. Jessica's a decent writer, and perceptive about the things she does think about, like personal finance. She doesn't seem to be stupid, but the idea that other people have different desires and experiences simply doesn't enter her head. Even if she knows it rationally, it doesn't register emotionally.

She literally writes that her friend Em has a better sex life and isn't looking for a relationship. But she still assumes that Em will also want to settle down. "She just doesn’t know it yet." And you know what? She's probably right. It makes sense that women don't believe what other women are saying, because they're probably hamstering.

[–]the_mountains1985 3 points4 points  (3 children)

what do you mean she'll get frustrated in 4 years how ubfuckable he is? I'm not sure what that means?

[–]Casanova-Quinn 156 points157 points  (8 children)

A man in her comment section delivered a textbook RP response:

My story:

I’m 30 and living in North America. I’ve traveled extensively, I’m tall, I’m in shape, have college diploma and am about to finish my degree. I dress well, get complimented on my looks (way more than in my early 20’s!) and am loving life. I have many hobbies, enjoy the outdoors, and read a lot. I have a dream career with benefits, full-time flex hours, and I absolutely adore what I’m doing and where I am and headed in life. I have zero debt, a lot of savings, and am emotionally, mentally, and financially stable. My goal is to build a home, mortgage-free on my property, and I’m about to hit it. Here’s the catch: It’s still not good enough for women my age – and I’ve given up altogether.

Here’s why I’ve given up on women my age:

-Already married. The “Good Women” have already married “The Good Men”. This is the number one reason why we’re having trouble finding these unicorns. We’ve waited too long and the unicorns are gone.
-Ridiculous standards. I could rant about this for ages but I’m not wasting my time.
-Most are single mothers. I don’t have anything against single mothers (I was raised by an incredible woman – thanks mom!) but I’m simply not ready or willing to raise a child that isn’t my own. I don’t want to get attached to a child or raise them and have no parental rights if we break up. I’m thinking about the kid too – I don’t want them to have any more abandonment issues or confusion than they already have from their first divorce.
-Most are out of shape: They smoke, drink wine and coolers constantly – They’re essentially functioning alcoholics. It almost seems that women drink more than men these days! The women I know and are friends with that are aged 28-35 seem to be constantly posting about their drunken adventures, many times a week, on work-nights. This may seem judgy, and maybe I’m getting old and boring, but heh.
-Debt levels. They’re all broke! I used to work in finance – taking on that kind of debt is extremely risky, especially when my region has some of the highest levels of divorce in the nation. I’m not marrying someone who has that level of debt, both consumer and student loans.
-As shitty as this sounds – and this doesn’t apply to you – you’re quite attractive and don’t seem to be the type who eats cheetos in bed and gets shitfaced at bars on the regular. Ok, anyway, with all of the stress associated with the lifestyle choices listed above; They appear old. They appear unhappy. They appear unapproachable.

[–]Fyrjefe 50 points51 points  (3 children)

That guy is living the dream that he built. May it continue to bear fruit through his unyielding efforts. He's right about everything else. He might have to consider dating girls in their early twenties. Age difference doesn't matter, really. Maturity and value do, and he seems to have a good grasp on that.

By their fruits you shall know them!

[–]JohnIan101 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Age difference doesn't matter, really. Maturity and value do

Been saying this for years.

I know women in their fifties who behave like spoiled children. What about their age? When do they become adults?

They don't.

Wasted potential.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (1 child)

He is going to get absolutely roasted for his sincere comment.

[–]Fyrjefe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's the sad part. He'll be called privileged and he will be blamed for having a bad personality (it's why he's still single, in their minds). He's happy without women and it will bother others. I chose to celebrate the man instead.

[–]FratboyOnReddit 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Sweet jesus. Take this to the fucking bank. edit: I'm saving this bitch this shit needs to be on the sidebar GOD DAMN!

[–]bojsihtekat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This should be someone's tinder profile (at least the 1st part). Bet it works.

[–]NotLuceBree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His entire comment is good, and one I've seen before, but her response to it is even more telling. She just doesn't get it.

[–]NotLuceBree 150 points151 points  (4 children)

My favorite is her complaining about how she doesn't have the energy to waste time at a bunch of "social events" (ie drinking and partying), and now she has to balance, GASP, work! and the gym! and, omigosh, SLEEP!!!

Dude suck it up. Billions of men around the world do this every single fucking day and still manage to take care of kids, run small businesses, maintain friendships, and still grab a beer with the guys or catch the game every once in a while.

Smart men will stay far away from you, princess. Good luck.

EDIT: I HIGHLY recommend checking out the second blog post that the OP highlighted in his second edit. This woman is a complete fucking nutjob, hilariously immature, and dumb as a box of rocks. Enjoy!

[–]SovereignSoul76 20 points21 points  (3 children)

...we both know she ain't going to the gym.

[–]askmrcia 2 points3 points  (2 children)

And if she is she's not actually working out.

[–]SlimJim8686 1 point2 points  (1 child)

:sits on exercise bike for 10 minutes:

:scrolls through Twitter:

:leaves:

:posts about workout on Twitter:

[–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol truly amazing how many of them do this. It's sad actually

[–]sourdieselfuel 68 points69 points  (4 children)

It's hilarious how most women can't live any sort of meaningful life while not attached at the hip to a man. She equates being single with being alone. Bitch don't you have any friends? I am single but definitely don't consider that being alone.

[–]1crunk_cat[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So true though, women feel like they are suffocating without male attention. And then say shit like: "I'm an strong independent woman ! I don't need no man."

[–]hawkeaglejesus 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Going off /u/Original_Dankster 's comment. "For a woman, having a man >IS< their job."

For her being single for 2 years is what it's like for a man to be unemployed for 2 years. Sure, maybe brief periods between jobs are alright, but to have the creeping realization that you're increasingly unemployable and will never find another job is terrifying for most men.

In line with the job metaphor, imagine being handed the CEO position of a successful company at age 20 with lots of competitors offering you the same, and then with each passing year being demoted lower and lower until by the time you're 40 you're working in the mailroom.

It's bad enough having to experience this scenario, but not knowing (or pretending not to know) why this is happening to you just makes the whole thing even worse.

[–]askmrcia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does have friends. And the one she mentions is whoring around because she still has her looks unlike the author

[–]justtenofusinhere 249 points250 points  (22 children)

More proof women veiw men the way men view careers.

A man doesn't mind slaving away in his early 20's to get the skills, experience and connections he'll need to apply for the rest of his life. Once he has those, he can, ideally, use them anywhere and everywhere to command high positions and salaries. Can you image how frustrating it would be to start off in the mail room and work your way up to executive vice president just to find out that if you went anywhere else you'd have to start there in their mail room and minimum wage?

WOmen view the CC the same way. Sure, she'll put all her effort into looking the look and going to the right places and meeting the rights people and fucking every high value man she can snag. Why? Because surely it will give her the skills and experience and connections to be with any guy anywhere and get full status and benefits. Just because she jumps to a new man doesn't mean she doesn't get to keep all the benefits she's already earned, who caes if she put in all the hard work with another guy? She's got the experience, right she should always be allowed to make latteral moves and by 30 she's entitled to an executive position and privileges.

[–]1Original_Dankster 276 points277 points  (19 children)

Excellent analogy. Allow me to extend it a bit.

When a woman gets hit on by a man, she reacts as a man would a job offer.

  • If the flirtation is from a man of higher SMV, it's like a "promotion" for her. It's earned in her mind. Just like a middle manager would see a job offer to be a senior director or something. It's pride, and he will be agreeable to the person bringing the offer, and will willingly turn away from his current job - no loyalty and no hard feelings, it's a step up after all.

  • If it's from a man of equal SMV, then it's situational-dependent whether it's welcome or not, just as a man would consider a lateral move if the circumstances are advantageous... But won't rock the boat for no reason. Though he may keep his eyes open for opportunities, and do a little "networking". Similarly she'll look to branch-swing.

  • If it's a man of lower SMV, she'll view it as an insult. Just as if our middle manager got a job offer to work as an junior clerk. He'd be dismissive, perhaps even mock the offer and resent the person who presented it to him. He may shit-talk the firm that made him the offer to his colleagues, to preserve his status. That offer is actually an insult to his accomplishments, experience and abilities... It would carry stigma! God forbid his peers and other potential employers find out that somebody wanted him to be a junior clerk again. Similarly, a woman would have the same reaction to a lower SMV male making a pass at her. The audacity of >THAT< disgusting man hitting on her, how insulting! Better shame him. Don't let the stigma that interaction even get known amongst her peers, and if they do find out, better belittle him and mock him publicly so that it's clear to all outside observers that she's not at his level and he was unrealistic in his expectations.

When a woman gets hit on by a man, she reacts as a man would a job offer.

For a woman, having a man >IS< their job. If a woman gets a regular workforce job, it's against her nature, and possibly as a means to an end - so that she can enter a social circle of high-status men in her field to find a mate.

[–]NotYuAgain 102 points103 points  (3 children)

holy shit this comment and reply are like the intravenous redpill

[–]JohnnySixguns 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. Now we're mainlining the Red Pill.

[–]Quo210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IV? Neh, Intracranial, applied directly into the amygdala, hormonal seat of TERROR

[–]DeontologicalSanders 71 points72 points  (2 children)

Spot on, except for one thing.

No confident, self-actualized man would bother publicly shaming or belittling or getting offended by someone offering him a job and salary that is beneath his level of qualification and experience. He would just ignore it. At the very most, he would chuckle about it later with his friends and co-workers.

That man's value and achievements are measurable. They are evident to everyone around him who knows his job title and has an idea of how much money he makes. No amount of substandard job offers are going to lessen the name he has made for himself thus far.

Women's value, on the other hand, is not measurable. Men, and society as a whole, desire women for qualities that are entirely subjective. Women are not priced according to value; they are priced according to the market. Despite their constant whinging about "knowing what they deserve", a woman is only ever as valuable as the quality of man who approaches her. When a guy comes along and makes a sub-par bid, in her mind it actually drives her perceived market value down, because she knows she has no other overt indicators of what she's worth.

It truly is a life of quiet desperation. I do not envy it.

[–]untonyto 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Spot on. Women's percieved market value is a bubble that bursts when a society's emasculation level crosses an extreme threshold. Their one and only working strategy is to artificially inflate their value. Hence makeup and entitlement disproportional to merit. The chumps are those who swallow their bait and get eaten in turn.

[–]1Original_Dankster 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No confident, self-actualized man would bother publicly shaming or belittling or getting offended by someone offering him a job and salary that is beneath his level of qualification and experience. He would just ignore it.

I agree completely - the dude I was imagining in my analogy was a typical dude in a middle management position, not necessarily a TRP aware or naturally alpha man. Point taken.

[–]ImpressiveDig 35 points36 points  (0 children)

oh man, hook this concentrated red pill into my veins! bang on!

[–]BastaHR 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Excellent analogy. Allow me to extend it a bit.

Kudos for post. This should be like a chapter in ever RP manual.

But, let's say, for the sake of the story, that she catcher top tier Chad. That man is coveted still by women of all ages. Is there any incentive for him to be faithful, besides divorce? If he's so super duper he can handle that with ease.

[–]DelidreaM 17 points18 points  (4 children)

I honestly have to say I don't know if I can mentally accept this comment, I can't argue against any of this, and all of this makes great sense, but this almost makes me view women in a way that I might not be ready to. Feels like this kind of bursts my bubble of how I view women.

[–]madmike11 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Embrace the truth. Nobody said it was going to be easy.

[–]lobstergenocide 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sometimes the redpill is a suppository

[–]Demiurge_Decline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the dark side- Red Pill. nice to meet you.

[–]RedPilledGodEmperor 4 points5 points  (1 child)

This is so freaking true and I agree with what you said. I have actually been sent job descriptions from recruiters that are below my pay grade and experience, thinking to myself "Why the hell do they think I would leave my job for this opportunity?"

Probably the same as a woman who is getting fucked by a high status man, gets hit on by a less attractive man. She thinks the guy is crazy for thinking that she would choose him over the higher status man

[–]panconquesofrito 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Man this is pretty spot on!

[–]ShimaRoosman 62 points63 points  (5 children)

“I approved this comment because it wasn’t half as crude or inappropriate as the other men from MGTOW left me.

I’m not looking for men that are interested in partying with 20 year olds and not settling down. So that issue is already solved. I have dated wealthy and it’s not a concern or even a desire for me really. We want to lead different lives. I want to lead an average life with a man looking to have a family. It’s crazy I know, but they are out there still. Thanks for trying to explain biology to me. Much appreciated 🙂”

So now that she’s ready to settle down, it has to be with a guy who isn’t interested in doing the things she done all along, and still continues to do whilst trying to strike gold.

[–]juju515 7 points8 points  (1 child)

that replay of her's made me lol...

hamstering like mad... "I'm not interested in guys that are not interested in me..."

and also... she mentions MGTOW comments...

so she must know exactly why she can't find what she's looking for...

I'm really curious in how is she hamstering red pill bombs...

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 124 points125 points  (13 children)

Western Women are pampered and heavily catered to their entire childhood. They also spend all of their free time binging Hollywood uncritically. This creates sky high expectations that can never be fulfilled.

They can't settle and don't understand good enough. That's why they'll show up to everything late perfecting their makeup. It's also why they're horrible negotiators because everything has to be done their way 100%.

Western women are spoiled shits. There's an international interracial consensus on this point. Ask Jose or Pajeet they'll both say exactly the same thing.

[–]cumfortably_dumb 13 points14 points  (3 children)

This is moving towards Asia like wild fire, especially in the so called "developing" nations. Betas are treating their daughters and girlfriends like princesses. On top of that the media is fueling the fire with the subconsciously stirring feminist movement.

[–]dissonantRhapsody 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm Bangladeshi. Can confirm.

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Bollywood has been infested as well. The goal is no safe haven.

[–]cumfortably_dumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally, imo Bollywood is far from salvation. Their constant need to make more female oriented movies in order to woo the young crowd towards feminism and dumbness is working really well for them.

[–]MarinTaranu 10 points11 points  (6 children)

Personally, I blame Disney for that. In their cartoon movies, every girl is a princess and gets hooked by the prince. So children get indoctrinated like that early in life and it stays with them forever.

[–]lobstergenocide 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They want to be Cinderella so bad that they wait so long for a prince they end up becoming the stepsisters

[–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (2 children)

You can't blame Disney anymore. How many women are growing up watching Disney cartoons?

They are all watching live TV shows on nick, Disney, cartoon network and mtv. Then the reality shows.

You can say Disney started it, but in the past decade Disney cartoons has not been as popular as these live action shows.

Throw in some music artist like Taylor Swift and other celebs and you have a recipe for disaster.

So I believe women are being far more influenced by actual people then cartoon princesses

[–]Fyrjefe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like guys here forget that girls're plugged in as well. We can leverage it for the short term until they hit the wall.

[–]Apprehensive_Dog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so spot on its unreal

[–]thetotalpackage7 53 points54 points  (4 children)

She has a decently high SMV though still and WILL snag an average frustrated beta chump. He'll think he scored and she'll get his money and provisioning. Her issue is that she doesn't realize her how much SMV has fallen and is still thinking she can land a really high SMV guy.

Her own estimation of her SMV was pumped up from years of getting plowed by Chad Schlong and social media "likes." She chose poorly and thought she could convert this to provisioning when she was ready. Perhaps she could have... but not at age 30.

It'll take a while, but she'll get the picture that she not "all that" anymore and will "settle." Billy beta bucks will repulse her after he gives her the kids she wants and he'll turn into to a fat, overworked slob. She'll hamster a reason that he was abusive to play the victim card in 10 years after the tennis pro fills her ass with cock and the lawyer and her will chop the spoils of 'ole Billy's hard work. ...and on it goes.

[–]1crunk_cat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm also of the opinion that she will snag someone eventually. Too many weak men, excuse me, too many weak soyboys around for these girls to properly face the consequences of their actions.

[–]LukesLikeIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is her days of over achieving in the smp are over but she won’t accept that and therefore won’t settle for someone equal or even slightly better.

[–]RedpilledChris 103 points104 points  (1 child)

That’s called The Wall girl -!

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam 47 points48 points  (1 child)

Hopefully she marries a woman. All she'd do is make some man miserable.

[–]Fyrjefe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, they say that misery loves company.

[–]Zhigaag 45 points46 points  (9 children)

I'd really like to know what her n-count is. Not the one she tells you, but the real one. She probably lost count somewhere around age 22...

I might have to hop on her blog and give her a what-for as a "nice guy" that can only find money-hungry opportunistic whores.

Where were you, honey, when I was looking for a good woman? Oh, that's right, you were being a cum towel at Buffalo Wild Wings....now you're looking to upgrade to the Country Club in Scottsdale...

Fucking whores.

[–]MrCarepig 30 points31 points  (1 child)

She probably has a higher body count than wolverine.

[–]unplug9000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I laughed more than I should here :D

[–]1crunk_cat[S] 14 points15 points  (2 children)

I'm willing to bet big money its very high.There is a lot of strange BBC allusions on her twitter too.

[–]BonelessSkinless 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Yeah the big black 8 guy Messaging her on IG? Lol she must have be a snowbunny I can see her type in my head... still, she will fall off that wall harder than Humpty

[–]Jieirn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fall? She's running into that wall head on. Humpty is the beta she'll knock down.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 159 points160 points  (4 children)

young, naive

No personal responsibility taken for her actions.

full of hope and open to all possibilities

More like full of dick and opening your legs to all hot guys and baseball players.

Shocking she can’t find love when she was too busy fucking her way through her 20s or prioritizing her career, as if men want to settle down with a used up woman who’s been with a hundred dudes and is never home due to her busy career.

[–]BonelessSkinless 23 points24 points  (3 children)

Girls get this cuntish condescending attitude after they realize how easy it is to enslave guys with pussy. I even had a girl laugh and say she's the baddest bitch that could have me anytime she wanted. She was a 6 on her BEST day and she was saying this big headed shit. It's insane.

Then, they drop the attitude real quick when their looks start to fade and the metabolism catches up with them and now they're fat and growing moustaches and breaking out in reddish pimples on their fat asses. They regain the attitude with the quickness once they're "safe" locked in with a beta loser and she will either slowly destroy him or cheat on him while pitting him down and keeping him sexless and isolated and controlled. It's pathetic.

It's insane how easy their coercion and manipulation manifests because girls are so good at PRETENDING to be sweet, nice and genuine/invested to get favours or to get what they want out of you unless you're a muscular douche or cool af personality and looks wise. That's just how it is.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I feel you man, there’s been a couple times where I was shooting the breeze with some women in my social circle, even the whales have thousands of matches on their dating apps, which means inflated egos about their value in the sexual marketplace. It’s absolutely absurd.

[–]FlipFlopsNPingDrops 37 points38 points  (8 children)

I had a damn good laugh on the part where she explains what she wants. "Is it weird if I’ve dated these same types more than once? So let me describe what I am looking for in case you know him and aren’t in love with him yourself. He is tall, dark and handsome. Those were a given right? He is a super confident man, that likes to workout, loves to stay in, understands the massive amount of time I have to spend with my mom. Loves God, has a grown up job, wants to have children, doesn’t fit into any of the above mentioned categories. Must be driven in all aspects of his life. Bonuses: he is handy (good with tools) and funny.. actually funny may be a requirement, is my list getting long? Must be able to 1. love my dogs 2. handle a girl with a big mouth and a lot of attitude…my mom, obviously! Fine…its really me with the mouth and the attitude. " JUST FUCKING LOL. She has so high standards and what the fuck does she have in return ? A used up hole ,"mouth and attitude".These are the type of bitches that end up alone with 5 cats and wondering where the fuck all the good men went.This shits too funny.

[–]ucfgavin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking...she offers an entitled personality and a full time job where she probably makes 30k a year...No thanks.

[–]1crunk_cat[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I laughed hard at this too brother, this bitch needs a reality check.

[–]ImpressiveDig 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the biggest fallacy is that these women expect high value men while bringing nothing of value to the table themselves. the sense of entitlement is bloody insane

[–]El_Serpiente_Roja 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The shit that gets me every time...like...well why the fuck would Chad Chaddington want the bullshit you have to offer ???

[–]unplug9000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After reading this my first thought was that she's a fucking nutjob, I didn't even get a chance to think about standards. Who would want to be near this creature more than once, preferably with a ballgag so she doesn't bring up her mom all the time.

[–]womans_algorithm 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Not to mention there is still a crowd of 22 year old girls with tight skirts and perfect contouring at these bars.

Not to mention back then she thought she will be young forever, wearing those tight skirts and whore heels. It's easy to look back and see the pattern, but it's hard seeing yourself in it.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I was finding a new job and really I was finding myself again.

When a woman says she's finding herself, what she really means is she's sitting on her ass waiting for some guy to give her tingles.

A woman couldn't find her own ass with both hands and a flashlight.

At 24 I was young, naive, full of hope and open to all possibilities. Cute and funny guy with no real job, ehh he’ll get one! At 29 I am cynical, low on patience and know exactly what I want.

Women always think that they suddenly become mature at 29. This is a rationalization.

What actually happens is, biology rears its ugly head. The Wall is fast approaching, and her priorities shift from sperm-seeking to provision lock-down. She'll still accept sperm donations from suitably tingle-inducing men mind you (that will happen at any age), but the window for securing good resources is closing fast as her age advances.

You don’t want to spend valuable hours sitting at a restaurant, hoping an attractive man will walk through those doors and sweep you off your feet.

And thus the "closing window" and "tingle-inducing" theories are confirmed. When your youthfulness is running dry, each and every remaining hour is precious. Whatever happened to finding yourself, sweetie? Still need a man to help you with that, I guess.

If you want to get at the heart of a woman's physical mental state, watch what she does, and get good at reading in between the lines.

[–]jonpe87 25 points26 points  (3 children)

Someone give this kid at least 15 cats already

[–]Ivan_The_Reddish 38 points39 points  (2 children)

What did the cats do to deserve that kind of treatment?

[–]jonpe87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

watch them, they are the animal version of a woman, perfect match

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 26 points27 points  (1 child)

So this gal is basically in the "Epiphany Phase".

What a woman means when she says "There are no good men left" is this: "There are no good men left who are willing to settle for me, based on my increasing demands and my decreasing attractiveness, now that I am approaching The WallSPLAT! or I'm already past it."

Women want what they want when they want it, if if they don't get exactly what they want, when they want it, then "It's All Men's Fault!!!"

The problem for the Carousel Rider who had finally hear the conductor say "WALL STATION! EVERYBODY OFF!!" is that, in the world of men what men want matters.

Let's review.

What men want: Debt free virgins without tattoos.

Of course, when a woman told the truth about What Men Want, the Nutz und Slutz went BERSERK. "God" may forgive you for being a tatted up ex-whore, but men will not.

When a woman decides that she's going to Waste The Pretty, because she's been sold a bill of goods about how they can waste the flower of their youth, when they should be locking down a good man, working in some meaningless cubicle job, buying a bunch of useless shit and fucking every Outlaw Biker, Drug Dealer and Escaped Mental Patient they can find, because responsibility sucks, marriage is "hard" and babies poop and cry a lot.

They are fed this bullshit all the time in our culture. Oh, and how they can be "fit at any weight!" [HellNO! ] and "beautiful at any age" [HellSPLAT! ] and they "Don't need no man!" [Until things get the teensiest bit difficult.]

Recall career shrike Sheryl Sandberg: “When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.”

Riiiiiiight. You can almost hear: "these men exist, but whatever you do, don't start fucking them NOW!" Never never mind that the future husbands betabuxes were relegated jacking off and building their careers while the targets of Sandberg's advice were wasting the flower of their youth banging every Outlaw Biker, Drug Dealer and Escaped Mental Patient they could find, until they become emotionally broken hosebags 'wif the Thousand Cock Stare, and then, and only then, are they to insist that said betabuxes wife them up, risking divorce rape, and pay up for what they gave away to losers for free at closing time.

Why would any "good man" make this shitty deal with a woman who wants to give him the least amount of her youth, the least amount of her beauty, the least amount of her fertility? Who, despite here wild youth, becomes a prude with her husband, or who just isnt' a sexual person...for her husband.

Now, in fairness, you cannot negotiate attraction. That said, what quality man wants to wind up the those guys, above?

Women like in the OP never seem to notice that the people giving them this advice are lonely, unhappy women with 7 cats living in a studio apartment. Then they wake up at 30 and go "FUCK! I DO want a MAN!", but guess what? 22-25 year old women are younger, hotter, tighter, and don't come with a bunch of demands.

You snooze, you lose.

[–]sehns 24 points25 points  (1 child)

They should write the TRP counterpost to this for men. When I was in my 20s those 20-25 year old girls in bars wanted nothing to do with me. Now I'm 36 and have a business and travel the world for pleasure the 20-25 year olds that once ignored me are now hounding me. Stay strong younger guys, it gets better.

[–]civilization_failed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This ^

Don't get mad, get even.

[–]iplayhearts 21 points22 points  (2 children)

The funny thing is I can’t tell the lady’s story from the narrators commentary because they are in my mind the same language. Some people see falling green text, I just see blonde, redhead ...

[–]Zhigaag 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You forgot the brunette there, Cipher....

[–]ceqozesah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her friend is the woman in the red dress

[–]2chazthundergut 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the baseball player from this story ever comes on TRP to cry about feminism and how rotten women have become?

Just kidding. I already know that he doesn't.

Get to work, boys.

[–]Rhynovirus 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Fear not. When you are in your 30s and 40s this kind of woman will fuck your brains out then crawl back to her husband she hates after telling you how much better than him you are. If she’s a single mom you might not have to spend a dime on her because she will be obsessed with getting home to the kids.

AWALT Never forget

[–]Antemirrorsious 38 points39 points  (1 child)

Guess I've become too misogynistic, for I can't find anything in this blog post that I respect. Six months ago I would've felt her suffering. Now I see it for what it is; "I have been a irresponsible kid for my whole life, and now I get shit for not having learned how to be a pleasant companion to be around". I feel sorry for women, but it gets easier to handle once I remind myself I'm just treating them as the adults they claim to be. Even if I know they are like 12 year olds.

[–]unplug9000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it's not as if she's in this situation because it just 'happened'. It takes effort. Of course, she will not see that.

[–]chances_are_ur_a_fag 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i was finding myself again

read as gobbling cock left and right

[–]Testiklease 31 points32 points  (4 children)

I read her blog you posted here. As well as the conclusion she wrote up.

I think I got a good takeaway from this which you didn't quite highlight. Girl has a stable job and a good routine for her life, her problem is her hypergamous nature that is telling her that she needs a man more high value than she is. But because she is picky, she is quick to label the men shes meeting as lower value than her.

She also sucks at communication with men after the fact of meeting. In her conclusion she wrote up, she writes that she ghosts dudes all the time who are trying to see her for a second time. Thinking that maybe if she just doesn't reply that they will go away. And then wrote about a guy she was kind of interested in who tried to make a date on a day where she already has plans. BUT did not make any effort to reschedule, hoping he would just try again. Which is one of the most annoying things I have been encountering with girls. Maybe they are interested but when you try to make a date and they just say they are busy that day. Instead of saying, "I have plans that day, but I am free this day..."

How many men are going to jump through hoops for one girl even if they find her attractive and has her shit together, when she cannot even reciprocate any effort in a second meet?

[–]Rhynovirus 26 points27 points  (2 children)

So, she is lazy as shit in her relationship life, entitled, bad at communicating her needs (which she herself doesn't totally unerstand yet) and still doesn't have any clue why no one wants her?

[–]BonelessSkinless 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly. You just explained why women are so fucked in their psyche. They don't communicate what they actually want and then let it fester until they become bitter cunts that destroy everything around them

[–]1crunk_cat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I realized that point but didn't want to add commentary that wasn't explicitly obvious from her writing.

See as men, we are brought up our whole life with hardship. We HAVE TO learn how to lead, how to approach, how to go outside our comfort zone because we are not valued and pampered the same way women are growing up. It's what makes us stronger in the end. Women like her were just brought up their whole life having everything handed to them and now they are suffering for it.

[–]ScrewChaseBank 43 points44 points  (6 children)

More proof that women are simply slaves to their biology. It doesn’t serve their natural-born purpose - to create the most fit offspring possible - when they settle for Beta Billy Bob while they’re in their sexual prime. The tingles she describes from being with Chad is simply her biology telling her to have his babies. Nonetheless, it doesn’t mean it’s any less disgusting to us late bloomer men who see the game for what it is after being brainwashed or years about how these primal creatures just want a “nice man.”

Lift. Be successful. Be confident. Use their game against them and spin plates. Don’t be a chump and get stuck with a post-CC riding disaster.

[–]ozenmacher 12 points13 points  (3 children)

Cold, hard reality. Almost all non-RP men (and some RP men, too) will never see and understand the biological truths. Women are the selectors of good genes, simple as that. Men fuck almost anything, women select the best. When they are ovulating and feeling the tingles, all bets are off, doesn't matter if a ring is on that finger or not. Women ARE NOT biologically driven to be loyal, except during pregnancy and shortly after child-birth. Most AFCs and betas who marry these CC riders will never understand...until it is too late (i.e, divorce raped).

[–]ScrewChaseBank 9 points10 points  (2 children)

It’s all biology. Our modern civilization was built through thousands of years of men killing one another and creating enterprise, all for that sweet pussy. It all goes back to our desire to fuck them.

The part that trips me out the most is when I see a girl, or group of girls, they give off the external perception that they just want to have fun, or they just want to go to a country concert, or play with their dog, or make some crafts, or have wine night with the girls... meanwhile, they are getting absolutely dicked the fuck down by Chad at the end of a ‘girls night out’ while maintaining and misleading a plethora of beta orbiters to give her the provider energy she requires, but of course, no one knows about this part of her. She’s an angel, right?

If you believe in biology, and survival of the fittest, and have watched ANY animal documentaries on mating, you’ll be able to quickly draw the comparisons to humans easily — it just takes a red pill lense to truly understand it.

[–]magx01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More proof that women are simply slaves to their biology.

Humans. Literally every single behaviour exhibited by men, every behaviour promoted here on trp (lift) every action that is rationalized as circumventing or transcending biological imperatives is ALL a direct offshoot of biology. It's an illusion that ANY of us can escape our biology. I'm a 'mgtow' and we like to think we have transcended our biology by shunning women. Nope. Pot hoc rationalization and every action still resultant from base biology.

[–]U-94 13 points14 points  (4 children)

These women also cripple themselves. I don't see any Age-30-wall-hitters when I go out anywhere, unless they are friends of friends. It's either 18-25 party girls or nothing. I'm 32 with a great career(s) and would be happy to entertain these girls. Once you cross 30, it's hard to tolerate the dumb convos of a 22yr old.

[–]Rhynovirus 31 points32 points  (2 children)

Man be careful with the 28-34 crowd. There are a LOT of women there looking for meal tickets, babies, marriage to keep up with expectations or Beta Buck to rescue them from their bad decisions.

They are pump and dump only. Do not get oneitis for these. They are nothing but trouble.

Divorcees and single moms, obviously, should be avoided for LTR.

[–]U-94 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Oneitus has been impossible since I passed 30. I'm just saying these women sequester themselves away from the world on top of hitting their own natural obstacles.

[–]Rhynovirus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I went way younger for my LTR and have never been happier. You might find a gem among that 28-34 age group but its rare. Over 40 and they're almost all insane somehow. Just speaking from experience

[–]Cmdrj-nice 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Where will you be when good single women like this strike lol.

As for me I will be enjoying my life. Lifting playing sports etc

[–]wickedogg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It all boils down to: men I want to fuck /= men I want to marry

[–]oliseo 23 points24 points  (2 children)

I enjoy going round saying to Women under 25 "Hey Girls, don't worry about dating, when you hit 30 everything changes for Women, and then you realise you've got all the power, and you've had it all the time"... They really love it when I tell them this, it solidifies the whole father figure shit I've got rocking at the moment (I'm 45).

Incidentally, I got Women over 30 complaining to me I shouldn't be nailing all these 20 odd year olds as though I'm some massive pedophile.

Shrug, it's not like I was lying with what I said. It's damn true. But for obvious reasons I never "qualify" that statement; Women do have all the power, Men will literally fight in the streets for them if they're under 25 and willing to put out.

ha ha ha...

[–]BonelessSkinless 17 points18 points  (1 child)

They dropped the pedo line because you're playing younger hotter girls than them and they can't stand it. That's it

[–]JohnIan101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

[nods]

Can't complete? Create shame.

[–]Work_In_Progress92 19 points20 points  (2 children)

"I am done riding the cock carousel and now I can't find a beta that will support me."

[–]BastaHR 20 points21 points  (1 child)

She still wants Chad, but one who'll forsake younger women and marry her.

[–]Cdsmasher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

*thinks she wants

Because when that does miraculously happen, Chad is devolved into a Beta and she no longer gets the tingles.

Welcome to the paradox of our valuable women.

[–]firegreen_leafred 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hamstering right before our eyes. We are going to start seeing this so much more as greater numbers of these women are forced off the carousel into reality

[–]NorthEasternNomad 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is fucking gold. Bookmarked, for the next time someone tells me "AWALT" is sexist.

[–]CalvinRichland 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your analysis was briliant

[–]tcbabcock 5 points6 points  (1 child)

LOL! She complains about being single for a few months. Bitch, try being single for 31 years, it's absolutely great!

[–]re4d3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only cure is that fathers start caring that their daughters will get married young and virgins. Females are too stupid to think into future by themselves. Suddenly, pre-arranged marriages do not look that bad, ain't it.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How cathartic.

[–]DocZTheRockstar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't even feel sad for her. It's like a never stopping hamster wheel. How do they never get tired of their own bullcrap? When all your life is about feelings you can't get shit accomplished unless you're guided by a man. That's the problem with these women. It baffles us men of logic and reasoning that they can do the same shit over and over again and fail countless times then say "You're gonna find a man, just keep at it!". Dafuq? Maybe it's not man it's you? Say that to a guy and he'll be like "Man dafuqs wrong with me??". Not like that for women. Nope nope must be the guys cause not her fault! facepalm.

Every women should just have a man chosen for her cause they are terrible at dating.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's almost like they designed the family court system for these failures. I say failures because reading her about me page, it sounds like she had latched onto - and moved into - a rich guys life, inherited two family businesses, and somehow managed to make a failure out of all of it.

So her only option in life now is to attach herself to a beta, get pregnant, get married, so she can divorce rape him and get alimony so she can hunt a chad for herself without any financial constraints in doing so.

x millions of women in her situation.

I like the irony of "1. The narcissist" in her blog post because she sounds just like a narcissist to me.

[–]cupshadow 4 points5 points  (1 child)

The description of The Player is really ironic. The guy nailed her and her best friend apparently, but he is the stupid one for some reason.

[–]Gr0o0vy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and he figured out they are both not worth the investment , which is apparently correct

[–]Aestheticcunt1996 19 points20 points  (6 children)

Haha. If I knew her adress, I would send her a copy of The Rational Male.

[–]3CainPrice 35 points36 points  (5 children)

If I knew her address, I'd pay her a visit. With wine and condoms. She's cute. And underconfident low 30s (or almost 30s) who get all confused when a guy who wants to hook up is also a little nice to them are totally my type.

[–]Bielzabutt 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Hope you have a six digit income, or at least can fake it with an expensive car. This woman is the biggest public gold digger I've ever seen.

[–]EnragedParrot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only have to fake it for a few hours...

[–]3CainPrice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once you know what they want, it makes getting what you want a lot easier.

[–]PerplexingPegasus_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Beggars can’t be choosers. Even after reflecting on her failure to find a meaningful relationship and being a washed up party whore, she still thinks she can have the high quality man.

Thank goodness I received a Y chromosome.

[–]NervousHovercraft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EDIT2: Someone inboxed me this.

Is this serious? Fuck me. Life is not Make-A-Wish... I hardly doubt that any guy who matches that criteria would settle down with a girl like her.

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[–]ScorpioEagle 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Angry men will be angry men. I don't think most of the people on this sub would hate you for being a female, we're just frustrated with a very real problem when it comes to dating many in your gender.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Don't announce you have a vagina, unless you brought enough for everyone.

(try /r/RedPillWomen)

[–]AlderonTyran 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, I didn't expect a poat like this tbh, I hope you have good luck though, for both of you.

[–]Nov51605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you broke the "i am a woman, hear me roar" rule - maybe you should read it

[–]MarinTaranu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why can't she meet men at the fitness club? How about at work? Neighbors?

[–]Pastelitomaracucho[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol have you seen her pictures?

I don't find it too difficult to judge why boys won't look at her.

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[–]Hjalmbere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This chick is smart. She’s trying to tap into to the used up hoe demographic. An ever growing part of the population.

[–]acekilo 5 points6 points  (1 child)

WITHOUT MEN IN CONTROL, WOMEN HAVE NO CONTROL OF THEMSELVES. THEIR LITTLE GIRLS THAT ALWAYS NEED A DADDY. OH AND FOR CHRIST SAKE THE WEAK MEN THAT THINK TATTOOS ON WOMEN ARE CUTE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT ITS ANOTHER DAMAGE WOMEN FINDING NEW WAYS FOR ATTENTION. I almost Marrived a chick with TATS, I DODGED THAT FUCKING BULLET. SHE WAS MENTALLY DAMAGED BY THE WAY. TAKE IT OR GET OFFENDED. JUST KNOW THAT WEAK MEN AND SIMPS ARE FUCKING DESPISED IN THIS WORLD

[–]cheapcardsandpacks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are women with tats damaged? Is it some or all of them. I haven't thought about this

[–]surfsusa 7 points8 points  (5 children)

Can't compete at 29 because she works full time and has no energy?, Just wait til she hits 35. I remember 29. I worked a Full time Blue Collar Job 8-5 and went full time to school at night and got a AS degree in 18 months and still had time and energy to Party. What the hell is wrong the Millennials Is it a result of too much Soy in their diet?

[–]LukesLikeIt 2 points3 points  (3 children)

No lie but what the fuck are we eating these days. Heaps of trash and calories and very little nutrients.

[–]gabber-united 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so starting a family for a female is less biological urge to make a baby ...and more like not being able to get some from 'badboys'

[–]TheNextMilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol she obviously fucked loads of guys and didn’t settle down with a good beta boi for money- bad strategy

[–]magx01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what you get when culture and biology are at odds with one another.

[–]TheTypicalAnalytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm probably only 50 posts down or so, but this entire post is full of gold, I see wonderful comment after wonderful comment, the real payoff would be if this girl somehow finds this post about her and gives us even more gold to work with hahaha

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