A comment I left on a different post prompted me to write this simple and short post...
You see a woman, dressed to the nines, walking the power walk, confident and sexy. Your Blue-Pilled indoctrinated mind wants to tell yourself, "Damn, she is too sexy, too hot, way above my league". You feel intimidated. STOP RIGHT THERE.
Your BP mindset just killed any chance you had. At the end of the day, every man of value needs to remember that HE is the prize. Our gynocentric society is full of propaganda that says men should chase women, that women are the prize, that the man who buys flowers and stays by her side (sometimes chasing for years) as an orbiter eventually wins. That is a load of horse shit. The man of value, instead, brings wisdom, strength, mental fortitude, leadership, wealth, and excitement to the table. Women (girls) crave this. It is built into their evolutionary psychology and biology. It is so hard-wired into them, even our gynocentric society can not overwrite this base instinct; not even all the movies, TV shows, media propaganda, and fiction books can overcome this instinct. Women may say one thing (that they should be attracted to nice guy soy boys who buy them dinner and drinks), but we at the RedPill know not to listen to what women say, but watch what they do. And in droves...they are seeking the men in the top 20 percent (some could argue top 10% with the advent of tinder and other dating services...and modern social validation...whoops...I mean media).
Next time you (a MAN of value) flirt and interact with a woman, just watch her eyes and the smile on her face. She will look like a little girl, giddy and happy. Deep down, that is what women are. Nothing more, nothing less. This is not the patriarchy ripping women down, it is not misogyny, it is just the basic biological truth. Yes, women can achieve great success, they can be smart, birth and raise beautiful children, be doctors, lawyers, and high achievers in business and beyond. Women are NOT DUMB. But deep down, they just want to be girls. They want to live in the moment, be submissive, and be in the presence of a MAN. Be that MAN. She wants to follow the leader, she wants the CAPTAIN who can be her rock when her crazy girl emotions take her over. You don't seek to please her. You fuck her hard because it pleases YOU...her pleasure is just a side-effect. You don't go down on her because you want to please her but because you enjoy it...her pleasure is just a side-effect. You don't hang with her because you want to make her happy. Her happiness is just a side-effect of being in your presence. You PLEASE her by being that MAN that she craves. You don't need to try. Don't be the beta that TRIES too hard. That is weak, and women despise weak men.
We have all fallen for the BP mindset at some point in our journey. ONEITUS, being the "nice guy", becoming emotionally weak because you are desperate for her approval. Just remember what attracted her in the first place: your frame, your value as a man, your mental strength, your physical strength, your confidence, your wealth, your ability to overcome any obstacle, your social status, and your IDGAF attitude.
Next time you see that beautiful woman, and you think you aren't good enough, just remind yourself, they are nothing more than grown children, little girls. That is how THEY WANT to be treated, no matter what they say. Be that man and..."treat them right".