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Field ReportBreaking down bitchy behavior (self.TheRedPill)

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I recently got a new neighbor. I'm guessing she's in her mid twenties but mainly she is just fucking hot and I definitely wouldn't mind hitting it. As with most attractive women that age though she is kind of hard to get along with. I've seen her ripping off my other neighbor's head because his dog barked twice. Elderly man that usually keeps to himself with a little dog that really doesn't bother anyone but her majesty. She is just consistently unpleasant, not reciprocating polite greetings, clogging up the elevator for fucking hours the day she moved, etc.

So a couple of nights ago I had a girl around and we fucked. The walls are pretty thick but if shit gets freaky, yeah I imagine my neighbors can hear that shit going down. Probably didn't help that this girl is real sensitive and tends to be a screamer. God help me I love the screamers.

The next day I'm walking to the elevator and your royal highness is standing there too, waiting. She immediately gives me the evil eye and starts ripping into me.

What the fuck did I think I was doing making all that noise?! She didn't get any sleep all night!

I was basically world's most terrible person because I inconvenienced your royal highness.

BluePill me would have immediately apologized for any trouble and tried to placate her. But then again, BluePill me would have never fucked a girl, making her scream all throughout the night. So I decided to sexually escalate the situation in stead. Because fuck it, she can't possibly get any worse and it seemed funnny to me. What's the worst that can happen? She slaps me in the face. I'm sure I've had worse than she can deal out. So I told her with the biggest smile I could muster, “well, you can always join us next time. As you heard it will be a lot of fun.”

Her frame just shattered. On the spot, it was gone. She stood there dumbstruck, shocked by the fact that a lowly commoner openly proposed sex to your royal highness. I didn't break frame and became like the other pussies she has likely surrounded herself with. I didn't enter her frame by engaging in an argument with her. I simply stuck to my own experiences and worked from my own desires. She really is welcome to join me...and yes, I'd fuck the shit out of her.

The elevator came and I passed her to go down. She was still just kind of standing there, looking a little lost. So I held the door and asked, “are you coming or what?” She snapped out of it. Walked into the elevator and stood in the corner opposite of me. We're on the 8th floor so it takes a while. I caught her staring at me all the way down. I stared back every time until she broke eye contact. At this point there was nothing left to suggest she was an entitled little princess.

When we got down I turned to her and said, “I'll be seeing you around.” Then walked out without granting her another second of my time.

Tl;dr: Entitlement and bitchy behavior are shit tests. You can pass them by realizing women have no real power over you. Have fun accordingly.


[–]zmazo98 337 points338 points  (30 children)

I'd be willing to wager its not too long before she takes you up on your offer. I love passing shit tests with flying colours haha. My gf at the time tried getting pissy because I was looking towards another woman who looked like a relative of mine (it wasnt), she asked if I was staring at her tits. It only took 5 works to break her frame, all I said is "well, they're bigger than yours" later that evening was for sure 10/10 best sex I've had to date.

[–]Abeham10 82 points83 points  (14 children)

This is the shit I am still getting accustomed to. What are other ways you could handle the situation without being so blunt? Or in a more teasing manner

[–]whuttupfoo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Be blunt. Stop putting sweetener on everything and say whatever you want.

[–]RedGunnera 84 points85 points  (7 children)

These might be some ideas for you:

Pressure flip - “I’ll bet you were looking too you dirty girl shit eating grin, sexual energy

Agree & amplify - “Aren’t they amazing, I’m just glad you didn’t catch me checking out the group of sorority girls who just went past shit eating grin

The energy you respond with is much more important than what you actually say, for example look at RSDtyler where he will simply make a guttoral growl to diffuse a shit test. Successfully passing the shit test is about showing how you are outcome independent and give zero fucks

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    [–]washington_breadstix 21 points22 points  (2 children)

    I think the cringe is more in the fact that he put shit eating grin, sexual energy afterward.

    [–][deleted]  (1 child)

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      [–]stealthdawg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      I misread this at first too but the suggestions are for comment OP to his gf

      [–]noPTSDformePlease 20 points21 points  (0 children)

      of course its sounds cringe because you are reading it.

      the meaning is conveyed by HOW you say it and in what context.

      for example, watch this commercial: both characters say exactly the same lines but the meanings are completely different because of HOW they say it and the CONTEXT they say it in.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ultPAIkFoRw

      [–][deleted] 37 points38 points  (3 children)

      Just dont give a fuck. Always put her in her place, which is below you.

      [–]red_matrix 17 points18 points  (2 children)

      > Always put her in her place, which is below you.

      You have to internalize this: she IS beneath you, you have to also believe it.

      [–]Atheist_Utopia 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      Internalizing this is so easy when you realize that most of these bitches are so shallow and stupid. I have a co-worker with a great ass that doesn't know grade 5 math and it just turned me off completely.

      [–]red_matrix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Women are social media addicts. They spend more time on selfies than self improvement. Girls go to the gym to gossip and take pics. They don't even train. When this generation hits the wall it will mark the end of families in the west.

      [–]iBchyllen247365 8 points9 points  (0 children)

      Just don’t give a fuck... stare at her.. slap her tit... whatever. It just isn’t serious and she doesn’t own your eyes. You can look at what you want

      [–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 13 points14 points  (1 child)

      Savage: level 9000+. I love you.

      [–]zmazo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      That was right after I had read about shit tests and I recognized it as such almost immediately, probably led us to splitting up, but now she's with some guy that acts like a girl himself, so all Id have to do to get her back is ask haha

      [–]hdosnxbjdjeb 3 points4 points  (5 children)

      explain how this is not supposed to create crazy drama

      Couldn’t she just gotten offended/hurt and stayed that way all night long?

      Her banging you even harder when you comment on another girls tits doesn’t sound right unless she’s got issues or you’re making shit up

      [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

      Lurk more and read the fucking sidebar.

      [–]zmazo98 3 points4 points  (2 children)

      The comment I directed at her was to specifically make her feel like less than she was, therefore making her attempt to prove that she is "more" than the other woman. However I would only do this in a relationship setting because there would be a higher chance of what your describing happening, actually happening.

      [–]hdosnxbjdjeb 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      I get what you did but was it because she was acting like a doof?

      That wouldn’t be good to say if she was well behaved.

      [–]zmazo98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      It was an unreasonable outburst, so no she wasnt being well behaved

      [–]Dragon_Garoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Try it some time, it's a bit of dread game on top of the DGAF attitude; instilling some insecurity. She'll go apeshit trying to calm her hamster down. Sure, some girls might shit test harder, get offended, even lose their cool. If you laugh it off you can literally change their mood. It's not always easy, especially with an LTR that knows how to push buttons, but that's just her gaming you to put you in your place. Refuse to accept it. I've done this with my LTR many times, laugh it off, tell her she's cute when she's angry, smooch her forehead (women love that, it makes them feel little) and generally keep having fun. She'll go out of her way to make it up to you and prove that big tits aren't all that...

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        [–]1handfulofnuts 10 points11 points  (3 children)

        Seriously, dude? You're worried about "getting dumped?" Grow some balls. If I'm with a girl who can't take a joke like that without "dumping" me, fuck her anyway. I'll just go bang the girl with the bigger tits.

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          [–]1handfulofnuts 8 points9 points  (1 child)

          It helps because I'm getting rid of a bitch who can't take a joke and replacing her with someone more fun. If she dumps me over some bullshit like that, she's the one missing out, not me. You've got more reading to do.

          [–]Dragon_Garoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Number one rule is to always be ready to burn the relationship to the ground, that's the DGAF attitude. Once they realize you'll walk, they'll either stay and double their efforts or walk. You can't be caring about it. "There's the door darling" is a great way to keep your girl.

          [–]lorum_ipsum_dolor 256 points257 points  (4 children)

          Well played sir.

          A number of years ago I lived in an apartment with thinner wall than yours and every time I banged my girlfriend it must have turned the neighbors on because more often than not, you'd hear them banging too.

          [–]3d_truth 193 points194 points  (2 children)

          This probably had a snowball effect throughout the entire building.

          [–]GuyTerror 36 points37 points  (0 children)

          I now have an image in my head of an entire apartment complex banging one way or another...

          Thank you, I need that.

          [–]rustyspurs87 48 points49 points  (0 children)

          Snowball, hah, I see what you did there.

          [–]red_matrix 11 points12 points  (0 children)

          Haha been there. This domino-sex effect happens in hotels too.

          [–]Immune2DNP 120 points121 points  (5 children)

          I have a thing for those bratty, bitchy princess types. They’re usually the hottest and have been on a pedestal their whole life. Then, I roll through teasing, negging, push/pulling (and with these it’s 80% push), taking away validation, and they have no idea what to do/say. These types really need a daddy.

          [–]motzart73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

          Love it.. Will have to try that approach I'm not usually into a princess bitch face, but sounds like fun.

          [–]AltBuzzer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

          Every princess acts like she wants a white knight to save her, but what she really wants is a dragon to slay her.

          [–]AltBuzzer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          But are they good in the sac?

          [–][deleted] 56 points57 points  (1 child)

          Such a satisfying read lmao. I think you kicked her hamster good, and it's all kinds of fucked up.

          [–]sweettenderhotjuicy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Awesome mental picture, thanks!

          [–]sharp7 44 points45 points  (1 child)

          To be fair, if it was really that loud I would totally be annoyed and complain too if I was your neighbor. But nice response, considering she was stunned after sounds like it wasnt that loud and she was just being bitchy and jealous.

          [–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 64 points65 points  (2 children)

          Well done.

          Be sure to report back on how her highness' behaviour changes over time.

          [–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

          Exactly my thoughts. Women can be bitchy and they can be quite sweet for the right men

          [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 97 points98 points  (0 children)

          As with most attractive women that age though she is kind of hard to get along with.

          Women of all ages are very easy to get along with if they're attracted or want something from you.

          [–]1Original_Dankster 51 points52 points  (3 children)

          Awesome FR. Thanks.

          if shit gets freaky, yeah I imagine my neighbors can hear that shit going down.

          A funny but only tangentially-related anecdote.

          2+ decades ago, when I was a skinny Blue Pill little dweeb, I had a neighbour in coed residence at the university. She was a thin, tall 7. Her boyfriend would come over after the bars closed and she would scream like a banshee. I didn't have a girlfriend at the time, but I wasn't an incel either, I was just in a dry spell at the time.

          So because sleep was impossible, I'd get up and go to the common room to sit on the sofa to wait for the two of them to finish. One night I'm watching TV in the common area, the 7's BF comes out wearing her nightgown to go to the washroom, and passes through the common area.

          He sees me get up and start going back to my room. He's like "Hey O_D, sorry if we kept you up!"

          "No problem dude. It's cool."

          "Yeah, she makes a lot of noise - sorry"

          So I decided I'd have some fun with this guy, I was just kidding around: "Hey please don't stop. In fact, it's kinda hot. I sometimes jack off at the same time, get into the same rhythm as you guys, and pretend I'm you."

          He stood there dumfounded for like a minute. "um... Ok. Bye."

          That was the last time I ever heard them.

          a word of caution - don't try this in modern university, you'd be crucified by the morality police

          [–]SpaderAce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Dude that's the best, I'm gonna have to try that line.

          [–]1b2a 18 points19 points  (0 children)

          The greater the shit test the harder they fall

          [–]bonusfruit[🍰] 23 points24 points  (6 children)

          Reward bitchy women who denigrate elderly men with tingles and sex... then lament the poor attitudes of modern women. Wash rinse repeat.

          I wonder if routine shaming and scolding instead of placating would have a better affect on womens general attitudes

          [–]360_no_scope_upvote 35 points36 points  (3 children)

          When shame was a legitimate human feeling it obviously was, that would've worked.

          [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

          I recently called out a woman for being creepy. She didn't even flinch.

          Creeped my out even more like she's used to hearing that.

          [–]CanuckinFL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          I sadly find them creepy a lot. Small wonder they have compromised antennae for their own social behavior.

          [–]AltBuzzer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          What did she do to be creepy?

          [–]Mental_Locke 12 points13 points  (1 child)

          The takeaway from this post should be its example of how to have control over your own emotions when being confronted by others. It doesn't matter if you're confronted by a bitchy female or some random dude. If anyone else has control over your emotions at any time then they have absolute control over you.

          [–]bonusfruit[🍰] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

          His frame was impressive. He'll end up inside her eventually. My problem is that bitches are forever enabled because no one on earth will actually discourage their behavior. It's like that old bill burr line about women being assholes because men let them, because they wanna fuck em

          [–]zmijemka 11 points12 points  (0 children)

          excellent story! Have an upvote!!

          [–]ck_1991 12 points13 points  (0 children)

          Royal princess or not I am pretty sure if you keep your composure and show her that you are a man with a spine, she might just come crawling on her knees and beg to suck you off. I know whores like that, act all high and mighty but an absolute degenerate in the bed. I am pretty sure I wouldn't even have bothered to talk to her but good on you the way you handled the situation.

          [–]Neo-Hero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Be the boss or get bossed around.

          [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          I wish I knew this years ago. I had a similar situation as yours. My next door neighbor, a bitchy middle aged lady once yelled at me for being too loud( I wasn't). Blue pilled me did everything to placate her, apologizing profusely. I went on to avoid her for years until we moved out of that neighborhood. I feel like a pathetic idiot for not having any frame at all. Thanks for your anecdote.

          [–]Barvazon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          There are more than a few bitchy people that act as if they have a stick up their asses, and it is quite amazing to see people automatically fill the part of the appeaser.

          [–]1Metalageddon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Ah the old holding frame.

          It's an old model sure, but it checks out. Still works almost every time.

          [–]omega_dawg93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          great response... great post.

          they're just women fellas. this is how you handle them.

          [–]ebotz 3 points4 points  (1 child)

          Are none of you ever bothered that some of these stories are clearly fake fantasies? This reads like an erotic romance novel for middle aged moms.

          [–]SpaderAce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Whether or not it happened, it's still a good lesson.

          [–]swiftchameleon 1 point2 points  (3 children)

          This is a quality post. My question is, how did you come up an awesome response at a short time? Is it something you've been practicing?

          [–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Its not hard if youve been practicing approaches qnd getting laid enough

          [–]ebotz -1 points0 points  (1 child)

          It's because this is a fake story

          [–]Frenetic_Zetetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Bitchy girls are actually the easiest to close, because they're showing you their entire damn hand from the get go. Agree and amplify, pressure flip, etc. I'd say it works on them 8/10 times, and seeing as how they'll probably come up with more than 10 things to shit test you on, if your frame is good, the odds are in your favor!

          [–]villewill19 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          I'm sure this totally happened exactly how you explained it.

          [–]Jareth__GoblinKing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          Haha dude this never happened

          [–]lonewolf1294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Lol that was a masterful rebuttal of her bitching.

          [–]K_N0RRIS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Most women with attitudes or bitchy behavior just need dick to act right. She'll take you up on your offer. Keep your posture. Fuck her and duck her.

          [–]donkey_democrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Next time defend the old man. He doesn't deserve this...

          [–]Store_Front_Door 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Inform us once you get to rail her. I'm quite certain you'll pull it off. Good job!

          [–]raggalagga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Her behavior depends on the smile you pulled. I hope it wasn't a joker smile...

          [–]TheRealJesusChristus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          At first I thought „this guys about to shit where he eats“ but then I saw what you told her and only thought „wow this is the best reaction possible“

          I hope this story is real (you never know)

          [–]Rosace_89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          "God help me I love the screamers"

          May God help us all

          [–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          A wise man once told me that a bitchy woman is just a horny woman and to treat her as such. Your story confirms this to be true.

          [–]Bear-With-Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          She is just consistently unpleasant.

          Observe quietly, understand the person and situation. Prepare your frame accordingly.

          What's the worst that can happen?

          Dare youself to take action. Fortune favors the brave.

          with the biggest smile I could muster

          This is frame actualized. Not just reciting lines. Smiling can be proof of superiority and women are drawn to their superior.

          "Are you coming or what?"

          Ordering her what to do. Dominating.

          I stared back every time until she broke eye contact.

          More non verbal dominating. Isn't this what dog trainers do with aggressive dogs?

          Everything here is perfect.

          [–]tinydickbigballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          This once again shows that there is no direct purpose for a shit test other than to assure her that your frame is stronger than hers. Any answer that verified this would have worked, as yours did.

          This shows there is no formula or recipe to passing a shit test. You don't even need to reply at all. You just have to prove to her that as a man, your frame is stronger.

          And as you wrote, this is all it will take to shatter her frame. She is now putty in your hand. Do with it as you see fit.

          [–]RedPilledRoaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I love having these badass moments. That’s when you really know you aren’t beta anymore. You can legitimately feel the testosterone surging and have no shits to give.

          [–]Alleycat0 0 points1 point  (5 children)

          I have the same experience with a 25 year old blonde, that called me ugly passing the staircase with a friend. How should i deal with that accordingly?

          [–]PeepingTurtle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

          Tell her you're not a mirror.

          [–]HappyMexican 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          "Ya... Good thing my dick's huge"

          [–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (2 children)

          On a somewhat related note, I was having sex with a relatively vocal girlfriend on a warm summer night...I could hear people in the courtyard partying....I got my girl off really well.....as she was catching her breath, I heard appreciative chuckling from the courtyard below. That was a lot of fun.

          [–]magx01 3 points4 points  (1 child)

          Thanks for the pointless brag that contributes nothing.

          [–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

          No problem!

          You go your own way, and I'll keep getting my dick wet.

          [–]thr0wed_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

          This either never happened or you creeped out some dumb young bitch

          [–]masteryimain34 -5 points-4 points  (2 children)

          Sounds like a woman that does not give a fuck about any blue pill behavior. Op you better have tight game if you want to get on her good side to fuck

          [–]TopNotch_Fuckery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Getting on someone's "good side" before you fuck is classic BP. If you tease, escalate, and keep your frame together, the attraction will be there and you've got a good chance of ending up on top of her no matter what side of hers you're on.