So as most people here I've been experimenting a lot with Redpill knowledge on Tinder, at clubs, bars and so on. After many bad results mixed with a few good ones, I've come to the realization of what works most of the time and what doesn't. Thought I would share this with all you confused betas trying to transform yourselves to the unbreakable alpha male. Keep in mind that this is not for those who've already internalized everything in the sidebar as they most likely already understand these things.
Be different by being indifferent
The most important part when dealing with girls is to show that they can't shake you. This means that no matter what they throw at you, you need to stand your ground. This also includes controlling yourself and acting stoic when a smoking hot model shows interest in you. You basically have to act as if nothing is a big deal to you. This 10 is throwing herself at me? Huh, cool I guess, I'll take what I get. Oh she changed her mind? Alright that 8 over there looks interested. Most betas simply lose their mind as if they've won the lottery whenever an average looking girl shows interest in them. This brings me to my point of being different by being indifferent; when you can control yourself and act stoic by not going all billy beta on their ass and showering them with compliments, they get intrigued. "Oh this guy is so different, why isn't he giving me unlimited attention and complimenting me???" hamster hamster This shifts the power dynamic to you instead of her and makes you the prize.
It simply displays confidence, mistery and unbreakable frame. Makes the pussy real wet.
Never show weakness
This one hurts for every man; when they realize they can't be honest with someone they think loves them and tell them how depressed they feel about being fired from work. Your LTR, plate or whatever the fuck you got cooking is NOT your mother or your homie. Most of the time she will NOT support you through ANY weakness you show. As a matter of fact, she will leave you for showing weakness. No matter how caring, different and loving she appears, trust me on this: she will not enjoy your display of weakness. Even if she doesn't leave you and actually pretends to support you, her pussy will start drying up. This is my biggest weakness as a matter of fact and the hardest one to come to terms with, but it is what it is. It's really simple actually, girls are emotional creatures and need someone who can control his emotions to lead them. When you show weakness you shatter the image of your leading capabilities and frame. It's like watching a boxer you once thought was unbeatable and the best get beaten to a pulp. You don't see them the same afterwards even if you still support them. In other words, you can only lose when you show weakness. To solve this problem, vent out your problems to a trusted friend or even a fucking therapist if you have to, but not the girl.
How to get into the habit of doing this
We all know how things work most of the time but it's much harder to actually do them right. You know you have to study to get good grades but it's much harder to do it than simply knowing how to do it. This is how to do it: Always have options. Always keep things in perspective. Always be mindful.
Let's say you match with a 10 on Tinder and the conversation is going great so you think to yourself: "Whatever I already set up a date with this hot chick, no need to message any other girl for now." WRONG. You need options in order to keep things in perspective. If you are only messaging or talking to one girl, you will start believing she is the only girl out there or that you can't be interested in someone else. However, if you are setting up a date with this 10 while setting up a date with the 7 just a day later, it's much easier to not get bothered when she flakes or ghosts. Always create options, because it's harder to lose your mind over losing something you can easily get somewhere else.
When it comes to being mindful, it helps with everything in life. To be mindful is to look at things objectively. Let's compare being objectively mindful versus being emotional in a scenario:
-You get approached at a club by a smoking hot busty blonde who's an easy 10. You dance a bit and make out, things are starting to get real hot. This might be an easy lay. All of a sudden, she leaves. You later see her making out with someone else and leaving with him early. What's an emotional take on it?
"Holy fuck I missed my chance of fucking this amazing 10 and now another dude is going to enjoy fucking her. What did I do wrong? Why did she just leave all of a sudden when everything was going great?" This will throw you off your game. What about a mindful take on it? "Alright not bad I just danced and made out with a sexy 10, she seems to not want anything else to do with me right now though, I'll still take it. Let's look around and see if I can find a new girl to take home, im in the club after all." See that? Much cooler train of thought; calm, collected and in charge. Creating options, keeping things in perspective and being mindful. You sexy beast. When you make it a habit of forcing yourself to view things this way, no matter the situation, you become this person after a while naturally. This is because it's actually the right way to view things, emotion is not logical. There will always be a hotter sexier girl to fuck, it's no big deal. So next time you find yourself getting a bit too emotional, STOP for a couple of minutes and really start observing the situation and your feelings and keep them in perspective.
-Get girls' attention by being different from other guys and not letting them shake you up by their beauty or shit-tests.
-Don't share any weaknesses with girls, share them with close trusted friends if you have to.
-Stay mindful and keep things in perspective, nothing in this life is worth getting upset over. Nothing is as big of a deal as you think it is. Act like it.