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Blue Pill ExampleJust fuck her. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by RasputinGame

Just fuck her.

That's pretty much it but I'll add in a story because we humans love stories. I have a lot of stories with this same moral.

I went on a date and killed it. She was rubbing her boobs on me for the last hour of the date, we were walking around looking at art. I generally make moves at the last moment, besides touching/massaging.

We get back to the cars and she asks for a hug and kisses my neck before I even am able to make my move. I then initiate making out and then move us into my car.

She just found out days ago that her BF of 3yrs was cheating on her. I felt bad for her. She was kind of neurotic and babbling and apologizing constantly over stupid shit.

So I trade in the mystery and coolness I built up over the date for niceness and I do something that is not my responsibility. I try to make her feel better. I decide "Oh, I don't want to fuck her head up by boning her so I'm just gonna stroke her tits and grab her ass and make out and lay her out over the center console while she gasps."

What would have made her feel better is fucking her. In retrospect she even made one of those ambiguous girl hints about coming over. "Oh, so you live really close to me?" x2

I didn't even try, I talked about hanging again soon. Now she doesn't even want to hang. I wasted my opportunity by worrying about something that is not my responsibility.

I have many similar stories where I rationalize not making a move. It's a miracle I'm not a virgin. I've literally been massaging a super hot girls thighs when they were stovetop hot and backed off. (she had a bf[not my responsibility!])

Anyways here's where you guys shit all over me but just remember, don't decide for the chick if she wants to get laid. You're all over her body, she probably wants to get laid dude, push a little further. She'll stop you if she wants to stop. Also, when she gives you the opportunity to fuck and you don't fuck her she gets bitter usually.


[–]Glacierdust 448 points449 points  (13 children)

"With every girl there is a window of opportunity and once that window closes, it becomes impossible to bang." -Roosh V

[–]yomo86 101 points102 points  (11 children)

I don't like Roosh but he has a gift of formulating the essence of game and reality.

The window re-opens though. When you give her an external reason to hamster your ineptitude away; having a gf/plate way hotter than her etc. Suddenly it is not he was a loser he did not fuck me but what is wrong with me to attract a man.

[–]1GreenPiller 65 points66 points  (8 children)

Ghosting can help you open that window

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    [–]RasputinGame[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    Yeah, also the only reason you ghost a woman is because she disrespected you or you aren't interested. None of this backwards logic I'm gonna trick her into liking me bullshit.

    Im still gonna hit this girl with an invite to something cool ~once a month. Even if I already have a date, haha. "Whoops too slow, next time!"

    She's in the junk bond category now.

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      [–]RasputinGame[S] 6 points7 points  (3 children)

      What is this? Are you telling on him?

      [–]CQC3 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Well you know he's really going to be in trouble now.

      Not even sure what was said, dude up and deleted his account. I've never really understood why people do that, like do they get so embarrassed they just delete a whole fucking account?

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      He didn't do that. Mods removed the comment. It was kind of hysterical and ranty but he made a good point or two.

      [–]kupakuma 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Would you mind elaborating on why you don't particularly like Roosh? I like his work.

      [–]redd_reality 285 points286 points  (30 children)

      This is what happens when guys believe that they're taking something from women by fucking them. That they're gaining and the woman is losing. Bullshit. Women fucking love dick. It drives them fucking insane. They think about it all the time.

      Remember, women are desperately hoping you're confident and cool enough so they can jump on top of you and grind on you like a dog in heat... All of them.

      [–]jagua_haku 78 points79 points  (18 children)

      That's the thing, she was using him, in a sense, as a kind of "fuck you" to her cheating boyfriend. Being the "gentleman" in this situation benefits no one.

      I've been in this situation exactly once. When I was 21 I had the chance to hook up with a super hot girl, we were behind a bar in the jungle and she wanted me to bend her over right there. But she was being wishy washy about it ("yes yes yes, no no no, yes yes yes...) so I told myself I'd be a gentleman and wait. Well she lost interest before I got a second chance. Lesson learned, I haven't squandered an opportunity being the "nice guy" since.

      [–]yomo86 16 points17 points  (2 children)

      After 15years on the dating market I can say being gentleman can be an addictive mindfuck when it comes from a position of power and abundance. Fucked her well, and giving her a ride before going radio silent instead of 'now leave' is right on so many levels than just being a dick.

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

      I look out for people's long term interests more than short term feelings but my issue is that I treat women as less resilient than they are. They can take care of themselves well enough. If they want something they've probably thought about it. The only reason you shouldn't give it to them is because you're not down.

      [–]antariusz 4 points5 points  (2 children)

      That final line she gave him was a nuclear shit test.

      Is this a man or a “nice guy” will he ravage me like I want, or too much morals to do that (will my kids be able to survive with the thrill to kill). She was looking for revenge. You denied her ability to get that revenge. A friend of my enemy is also my enemy.

      He failed the shit test. She even gave him a redeeming offer by wanting to go back to his place in case the public sex threw him off.

      [–]CQC3 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      I'm not even sure that morals come into play at that point, her BF was cheating on her, not really much of a relationship at that point. She's attempting to cheat on him, now you either want to fuck or don't because if it ain't you it's someone else, you can believe that.

      I can understand a man not wanting to get involved in all that shit, but making her feel better...yeah. Not gonna roast OP though, he does clearly know where he fucked up and that it's a BP example. Sometimes it happens. Just a weird situation nonetheless to pull that out.

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I decided too early when she was talking about how she wouldn't do something like that. (I know this usually means you're gonna fuck but I had the extra factor of her saying she was all fucked up and confused constantly) Basically I polarized too early.

      I've just fine tuned my game a bit. I don't write about anything but failures usually on places like this. I don't need the ego boost.

      Am I fucking the chick to brag or because I want to fuck her...

      Anyways I thought we were just gonna fuck next time and it would be better

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      She even posted a picture of her all dressed up on Instagram from a photo I took and wrote "Thanks for the amazing time Rasputin!"

      Hahahha

      [–]1dafullyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I don't think she was using him. I think she wanted some dick, but he talked her out of it. All women want sex to be the man's fault, not theirs. Beta behavior like doubting yourself and going the "gentleman" route, when you have a woman all over you is fear of losing her or "fucking things up". Better to take a chance and face rejection on the spot, then playing the Nice Guy, male girlfriend.

      [–]redd_reality -3 points-2 points  (5 children)

      WWCD

      What would Chad do? Whatever the fuck he wants. Who's gonna stop him?

      Funny how those lessons burn themselves into our memory. Guarantee next time you whip it out go to slam town in front of the whole bar. Why the fuck not?

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

      Because that's fucking gross. I got my dick sucked in a bar bathroom stall once. It wasn't great let me tell you that. I don't fuck in my car anymore either unless I'm camping outdoors.

      [–]redd_reality -1 points0 points  (2 children)

      Why the down votes?

      You fuckers shy? Afraid if judgement?

      Being a rebel ain't everyone's cup of tea, but if it is yours, all the power to you.

      And fucking in a bar or a car isn't "gross" unless you're a pansy fuck.

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

      Yeah if you're black out drunk. I've outgrown that shit. Fucking in a car isn't that bad but it's uncomfortable and unnecessary for me.

      Fucking in a bar is fucking desperate. If you think acting like a horny animal with zero self control in public is dominant you're fucking stupid. Move her somewhere else, don't be so desperate for puss.

      Some of us are self confident without making a spectacle of ourselves. That's shits funny in college but being the village idiot doesn't play far in life and fucking huge sluts doesnt impress anyone anyways.

      Delayed gratification, build that skill.

      You sound like a virgin.

      [–]redd_reality 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      We're arguing about nonsense.

      I completely agree with you. I have options and choose who I fuck and where I fuck. But saying my preferences are valid and others aren't is conceded nonsense.

      If I go out for drinks with a 9, end up down an alley laughing, start making out and decide to pull her pants down and fuck her behind a dumpster like a couple of crazy kids, there is nothing wrong with that.

      I would do it because I want to do it. I wouldn't stop myself from doing it because someone might walk by or because society frowns upon it, and least of all because someone on trp wouldn't do it.

      [–]xXx420VTECxXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Sounds like a great way to get a rape charge.

      [–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (3 children)

      This girl has Third Reich level of red flags. I'd take the high road on OP's situation, out of principal. I'm not going to be party to a crazy girl seeking a revenge fuck on her boyfriend.

      This situation, unfortunately is a lose/lose.

      [–]xXx420VTECxXx 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      Chinese flag and USSR flag has more red per surface area. Terrible analogy

      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Third Reich example

      I like my analogy better.

      [–]xXx420VTECxXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      CNN: Evil racist nazis meet at Charlottesville in 2018!

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

      Well it's more that I thought I would fuck her up but you should just let women take care of themselves on this front. They're resilient, honestly more emotionally resilient than guys on average.

      [–]redd_reality 4 points5 points  (2 children)

      Fuck her up?

      Lmaoo, again, you're thinking she thinks like you do. Women don't think like us. They're capacity to give a shit about men, like we give a shit about women, is nonexistent.

      The lesson is, you wouldn't have 'fucked her up', in fact, by not fucking her, you took more from her in the way of self esteem than if you did fuck her.

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

      I was clarifying the rationization not saying it was correct. I just said it was incorrect so i guess we agree.

      Yeah, your last paragraph is on point.

      [–]1SirKolbath 163 points164 points  (12 children)

      If I had a nickel for every time I've talked my stupid blueper self out of fucking a hot girl, I'd have about $0.57. (I once talked myself back into it halfway.)

      That includes a time when I decided not to fuck a girl because I had new boots and they were a pain in the ass to get off. I didn't want to break the sexual tension by fumbling with the laces for five minutes so I just got her all hot and bothered and took her the fuck home. Seventeen years later she found me on Facebook and remembered that night. It also includes the girl I had oneitis for so badly that it ruined my senior year of high school who I was making out with and she kept shoving my hands onto her tits, but my idiot self thought she was some special unicorn and I didn't want to "sully" her. (Fuck off. I was seventeen.)

      You're absolutely right. Just fuck her. Escalate, escalate, escalate. If you're not moving forward, you're going backwards.

      [–]RasputinGame[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

      Yeah, killing the rationalizing side of your brain is very difficult. It's actually impossible I think but we gradually have it happen less and less if we work on it. I'm always finding ways that I rationalize things and I can't really think of a simple rule to stop it.

      When you think you're 100% on top of rationalizing that's when you start to rationalize really hard.

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        [–]1SirKolbath 6 points7 points  (1 child)

        I had new boots

        Oh bud, at this point its just becoming 101 excuses not to fuck a girl. lol

        You aren't lying, man. I'd like to say something profound, but the best I can come up with is, "I don't do that any more."

        [–]1cappadocianhawk 8 points9 points  (5 children)

        Yep, supressing the internal nice guy is relatively easy but permanently killing him requires some drastic events. If she's up for it, just fuck her indeed.

        [–]TheRealJesusChristus 8 points9 points  (3 children)

        How to kill the inner niceguy? I mean i can supress him but he is always there ready to take over and he ruined the one or the other encounter with hot girls for me.

        I once was drunk in bed with a drunk girl and i wanted her and she obviously wanted me. And i was thinking „well, she is drunk. Dont want to abuse her“. She was drunk but i mean not in coma or anything close. She could still walk straight and shit. We talked right before the event and she spoke clearly. This is so stupid. (Needless to say she never wanted to fuck me again).

        But at least I got her into bed making out with me. Only that then my inner niceguy took over and did what he is best in: ruin everything.

        Please dont tell me how i have to improve this is a few years ago when i was in school and bp af.

        So, how do I kill him off?

        [–]1cappadocianhawk 14 points15 points  (1 child)

        Have that shit happen to you over and over again and in the end you might reach a breaking point. I used to be natural alpha but this "unicorn" turned me into a beta in about 3 years of relationship. Then she cheated on me and left me because I wouldn't forgive her.

        After that I kept missing opportunities like that time and time again. At some point I started hating what I've become, seeing girls fuck everyone but me, because I had rejected them, the girls who once brought me gifts to spend time with me now only considering me as a "friend".

        I have a philosophy degree so I'm very good with ruminating. After a few days of doing pretty much nothing but being miserable and thinking; I realized they just wanted to be used and abused. She's going to fuck somebody and why not I do it? I didn't know TRP existed but I knew from previous alpha days some things about women and how they work so I knew what to do, I've just lost my balls. I was either going to improve my life or jump off a bridge.

        It was like flipping a switch. I shaved my head, took a cold shower and went out. Found a 7, got her drunk, took her to my place and fucked her like an animal. Then started Keto and lifting. It was hard at the beginning, but man is adaptable. You get used to everything. Been going strong ever since.

        Last year found TRP and while I was reading the sidebar I found myself agreeing with almost all of it. Lurked for a year, made an account near the new years and started contributing. It's indulgent, because 90% of advice goes to waste. You can't memorize wisdom, you need to earn it. I like it though, I hate the feminization of men in the last 20 years.

        [–]RasputinGame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        It's part of the ego and comes back in different forms. Just remain vigilant. I think accepting that it will pop up occasionally and dealing with it is the best way. Life is about overcoming challenges, not removing them.

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          [–]1SirKolbath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          because I had new boots and they were a pain in the ass to get off

          I read that as "boobs". Now it makes sense.

          Yeah, you want to take them off before sex. It gets messy and the dry cleaning bills are outrageous.

          [–]strikethrough123 76 points77 points  (4 children)

          This post is truth. Your shitty beta self is always rationalizing fear of action by pretending to be this holier-than-thou moral councelor.

          In high school I had onetitis for this girl like never before, managed to kiss her one day. The next day, I went to the bathroom and when I got out she was there waiting. I make out with her against a fence and my beta self decides to stop and say something utterly fucking stupid that I'm embarrassed to even mention here. She just broke up with her BF and I "didn't want to make her feel like I'm taking advantage of her". Nothing sexual between us ever happened after that. The next week she had a new boyfriend.

          [–]BurnoutRS 13 points14 points  (2 children)

          Man this girl I was crushing on in highschool texted me one night to say she was locked out of her house and couldnt get back in. I was so oblivious. I actually thought "why doesnt she call her parents?" and didnt pursue the thinking further to realize she called me for reasons other than wanting back in her house.

          I bike from my friends house to where she is, she's piss drunk and I gotta babysit her while we walk back to my house. She was all over me and it was a 2 hour walk. I couldnt even use "shes too drunk" as a way to beta out of fucking her (at one point she was legit stumbling into the street and I had to pull her away from cars) because she sobered up a lot by the time we got back to my house.

          Lmfao I cuddled with her to keep her warm while we slept. Man beta me is fucking hilarious. He was so crushed when he talked to that girl a month later and she said "yknow you could have fucked me so many times that night"

          I also could have fucked the same chick's older sister a year before. Sitting right on her bed, shes telling me her parents arent home and we end up playing pokemon stadium on N64.

          [–]CheeseSteakJimmys777 18 points19 points  (1 child)

          Ok well the Pokemon and N64 isn’t that bad

          [–]ShadowBlaze80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          At least some good shit happened that night, pussy is great but pokemon is up there too.

          [–]Martysteiner 53 points54 points  (1 child)

          Once she sees you're not a fun-fuckable material, she will go elsewhere. End of it.

          Play the rules, be nice, get your reward and next her. That's how you win the game.

          [–]jagua_haku 9 points10 points  (0 children)

          Yeah exactly, once the mystery wears off you run the risk of not getting the prize. Best to go for it before the window closes

          [–]Fedor_Gavnyukov 59 points60 points  (1 child)

          she don't wanna be saved, don't save her

          [–]dRePe_Thill 26 points27 points  (0 children)

          YOu failed the most important shit test -- the one in your head

          [–]RedPill_Swinger 20 points21 points  (2 children)

          Once upon a time I refused a virgin. She was a 9 but old BP me was too in love with my previous GF.

          After 10 years she still resents me :D

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 9 points10 points  (1 child)

          Yeah they get real bitter about it.

          [–]newls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

          Sex is a woman's only true agency, and it goes sour fast.

          If you refuse it, you've basically invalidated her entire ego.

          They go crazy!

          On the other hand if it was because you pussied out, she's pissed off because she wanted a rock hard cock inside her and all she got was a cheap fuzzy teddy bear.

          [–]Hltchens 42 points43 points  (2 children)

          I mean, sometimes women need to be reminded not everyone wants to fuck them. Keeps em honest. Good on you.

          [–]ChickenWithATopHat 23 points24 points  (1 child)

          Hard on thots movement 😤😤💯🅱🔥🔥

          [–]cake_eater 8 points9 points  (1 child)

          You gotta have a nose for the endzone . You were in the redzone and settled for a fg but then you missed. When you have a chance to score you take em. I have scored so many times and i have also made the same mistake.

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Yeah, I wrote this post for me to drill it in my fucking head, haha.

          It's easier when you've been drinking.

          [–]WalterEArmstrong 28 points29 points  (4 children)

          And all these years I thought a stiff dick didn't have a conscience!

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 25 points26 points  (3 children)

          My brain and my dick fight.

          [–]sinchurch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

          We’re swimming upstream in the current culture. Movies, music, books, social media, etc all promote this white knight BS. We have to be vigilant in deciding what we allow into our minds.

          The good news is we’re men. Improvise. Adapt. Overcome. I haven’t killed that MF off, but I try to keep him locked up and ball gagged most the time.

          [–]blackedoutfast 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          you need to realize that when you're in those situations, she has already made up her mind and wants to fuck you. maybe it wasn't a conscious, explicit plan she came up with to fuck you (but it often is) but somewhere in her brain, she wants to fuck you. she wouldn't be making out with you in the car or being flirty or asking if she can come over to your place for whatever reason if she didn't want to fuck. that's why she put herself in those situations.

          when you're in that situation and don't make a move for sex, you're not doing her a favor. you're rejecting her. and as much as rejection hurts men, it hurts women even more because they're not used to it. actually, due to cognitive dissonance, most women won't even consciously think of it as a rejection. to protect their ego they will say there was no chemistry or that you're incompatible. and yes, then the window closes. they're not going to put themselves in that situation again and risk getting rejected again.

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Very true. They get super bitter about it. My issue is that I made a decision too early on instead of being open to the moment.

          She said the whole "I don't have sex on the first date." Thing earlier unprovoked which I know means I'm probably gonna get laid, from experience!

          I made this decision because I thought her having been cheated on recently changed the game or something. I went into a sort of protector mode which wasn't my responsibility.

          [–]Dorkan 14 points15 points  (1 child)

          This was indeed a mistake but you only lost one night of sex maybe a few but she would have given you problems in the long run (not worth plating her for long) so don't feel remorse, what you learned with this is much more important.

          [–]Saberinbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          This. I’ve fucked plenty of girls with boyfriends before. Its usually a one or a couple time thing that never lasts. They always go back to their beta BP boyfriend in the end because he’s probably a really good provider. There is a rare instance as to where she will leave you for him, but do you really want someone like that in your life? Its fine if you got plates to spin, but you shouldn’t sweat it.

          [–]quansau1 21 points22 points  (3 children)

          Not sure about the whole not my responsibility philosophy, I mean, personally, I think you should lose at least some sleep knowing you're boning some chick with a bf. Your instincts telling you not to fuck a girl on the rebound may just be your brain helping you to not stick your dick in crazy. I'm all for the game, but the fruit is sweeter when it isn't tainted with convoluted moral assessments droning on in the back of my head as I'm fucking.

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          The chick with a bf was a long story and she was definitely after me. Was always trying to hang and more accommodating to me than her bf. I escalated to the point where I thought any self respecting man would dump her and stopped. He didn't. But it's an amazing story.

          I had told her about two other girls that I had made break up with their bfs before we fucked and then hit it and quit it, though...

          This girl in the post I rationalized we would fuck next time and it would be better. Which might have been true if it happened haha.

          [–]dereko33 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          I'm about to bone a chick with a bf tonight, good thing she's honest with him and open relationships are a thing

          [–]quansau1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          That is a completely different scenario, the emotional turmoil stems from knowing you are willfully causing the bf emotional harm. If they're actually cool with it, why worry?

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          [–]RasputinGame[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          I never regret anything but I learn from experience.

          [–]ISaidThatOnPurpose 10 points11 points  (2 children)

          Dude, sometimes you just don't want to bang. Ain't nothing wrong with that

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I wasn't in full want to fuck now mode it's true but I should have at least invited her back to my place. Funny how things change in a different situation. Also I was definitely down to suck on those tits and that would probably go somewhere.

          [–]Reaper1967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          True, but make a game out of it. Get her all hot and bothered and then back off, “I’m not a slut, I don’t fuck on the first date” “I have a head ache” “I’m on my period “, etc.

          There’s a difference between not wanting to fuck, and being too much of a bitch to fuck. One will have her chasing you, and one will dry her up like the Sahara desert.

          [–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          In the mating game, the man's job is to physically escalate, and the woman's prerogative is to establish relationship matters.

          Don't try to do her job for her. She won't appreciate it, and will show this by not fucking you.

          [–]djdrazah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

          HAHA a friend sent me this post because I'm always lecturing him on this. I think all guys go through this no matter how many people tell us, we just have to hit a ceiling where it's happened to many times that we just understand.

          [–]TunedtoPerfection 2 points3 points  (1 child)

          It up to your and your moral compass. But using the outdated and misinformed reason of "your saving her from herself" is stupid. If you don't be her one night stand, the dude tomorrow will be. You aren't saving her from anything your reason your fear away by placing it on her and then trying to take a moral high ground about it.

          Just be honest with yourself and her, you both wanna fuck, then fuck. Discuss afterwards, sex doesn't actually complicate as many things as you were told in your blue pill life. My most open relationships are all with women I had casual sexual encounters with, gasp sometimes when the were "emotional vulnerable." They want to forget about their problems, with me for a few hours. Is that the most health way to deal with things? Probably not but neither of you are psychologist so how about you deal with it the best way you know how. Relieve all your stress via sexual release and approach the problem clear minded.

          Hell I've fucked a girl out of a relationship before. She was so afraid to leave some dude because she was so afraid she wouldn't find "good sex" ever again. Afterwards she wasn't afraid of that anymore and free to live her life to her standards unafraid of a stupid fear. Who knows you could have been that guy with that girl.

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Yeah, don't have anything to add just want to say this is a good way to see it.

          [–]RylanBlackwood 8 points9 points  (4 children)

          This is why a lot people get into dead bedroom situations because they simply don't man up and dominate her into fucking. I once pushed pretty hard with my ex even to the point where she was crying, so I stopped. Following morning she admitted to me that it turned her on and wished I'd just carried on. So yeah just fuck her.

          [–]restorerofmorality 8 points9 points  (0 children)

          doesn't matter how much she would've liked it, she's got a rape charge in the bank when she decides she's mad at you 2 months later

          [–]RPangerandacceptance 22 points23 points  (2 children)

          Fuck that. In this day and age I don’t press on like I used too. That bullshit of playing mind games to the point of crying all the while getting moist from some type of rape fantasy is out the window. I wouldn’t fuck Dr. Jekyll because Mr. Hyde could ruin my life.

          [–]ThrowFader 9 points10 points  (1 child)

          not to mention that it would be gay

          [–]RPangerandacceptance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Lol, I almost mentioned that fucking Dr Jekyll was not a gay thing.

          [–]_-_steve_-_ 3 points4 points  (4 children)

          I love these stories. So relatable. Been there many times. What some of us need is to practice closing plain bitches before we move onto the good stuff.

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 6 points7 points  (3 children)

          To me it's more that I have to keep the top of the funnel flowing. I usually neglect getting girls contact info or I drop contact once I'm moving forward on one or two and then I get fucked when those end or end up not working out.

          It's the same concept as a sales funnel.

          http://healthiswealth.money/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/Sales-funnel.jpg

          Fuck hooking up with ugly chicks man.

          [–]_-_steve_-_ 2 points3 points  (2 children)

          That’s a lot of work, listening to 1,000 whiny bitches just to bang 10 of them. Maybe those odds can be improved with Hubspot or Salesforce, though.

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          Haha, point is you're not gonna end up with more chicks on the bottom than the top of the funnel.

          [–]_-_steve_-_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

          Unless word gets out that you have a 10” cock.

          [–]AlphaSerialDater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          Thanks for sharing. These opportunities are quite rare to come across and it's unfortunate men usually fuck it up (no pun intended). Betas are so used to be rejected that they end up rejecting the acceptance.

          As a rule of thumb: if you can bang the lady, shut your inner beta and make the most of it: just bang! Give her what she wants while can.

          She's not going to ask twice.

          [–]1InscrutablePUA 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          Anyways here's where you guys shit all over me but just remember, don't decide for the chick if she wants to get laid.

          It takes two to tango. Personally, I'm not totally on board with the 'enjoy the decline' philosophy. If you were held back by feelings of guilt over fucking a girl in a relationship (perhaps empathizing with the clueless BF who is getting cucked), there is nothing inherently wrong with that. Sure you get one less lay, but there's nothing like a clear conscience. A guilt-ridden fuck can mess with your head for a long time.

          Don't apologize for your choices, TRP is not a jury here to judge you.

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          The girl in a relationship thing is a long story. I decided I should have fucked her in retrospect.

          I'm not apologizing I just see guys on here shit on OPs constantly. I was getting in front of it and trying to be humble.

          [–]SlainFunicle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          never feel sorry for these women by enjoying yourself she is you should have bang her brains out

          [–]Venus-cutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Dude, you said it yourself.

          You would have made her feel BETTER by fucking her. The only confused one here was you, in your own head.

          Stop thinking that sex is something you do "onto" girls. That they "put up" with it. Or are perpetual victims. She wanted some fresh dick, oblige her. That is, if you thought she was hot and wanted to splooge on her tits.

          It'd be rude NOT to fuck her, to be honest. It's insulting to her nice breasts and self confidence.

          Take it as a lesson learned. Get out of your head.

          Hell, if you're having moral dillemas, make it about fucking girls who HAVE CURRENT husbands, not a girl who is 100% single, boyfriend just cheated on her and dumped her, and is BEGGING to get fucked. You've watched too many Disney movies. You had her consent and then some, that's the main ethical dilemma anyone should care about.

          [–]MasterMeatwad 2 points3 points  (4 children)

          Explains why this girl I had been with stopped talking to me. Had sex, next time couldn't stay hard (coulda been too much wine Idk) she clearly wasn't thrilled. Hang out again at a lunch spot, she meets me there instead of me picking her up like normal, says she will text me to come over after she runs an errand, haven't heard from her since ...

          [–]RasputinGame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Yeah they get real bitter. Shell probably come around if you let her be.

          It's worse when you never sink the shot like I did haha.

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            [–]MasterMeatwad 0 points1 point  (1 child)

            Idk if that's the exact reason, everything was fine and that's the only thing I can think of that went wrong...plus she still wanted to hung out a couple times after then boom gone forever lol

            [–]_Tactleneck_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            I work at a bar and have been propositioned several times, but I all but one time turn it down because it feels like it’s too easy. Or like an abuse of power. Maybe I care too much about keeping my public/private personas separate. I’m also trying to break the fact I get off on having temptation and walking away, probably a deep seated retaliation move to feel better about times people walked away on me while I was BP.

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            [–]1dafullyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            I would not mess with a woman already in a relationship, but it sounds like you basically talked her out giving you some pussy by acting like her male girlfriend instead of a dude that finds her attractive and wants to fuck her.

            Better to make a move and risk embarrassment and rejection than to live with regret later thinking "I should've just fucked her".

            [–]adriancruz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            what are the things to say when you push a little further so you dont sound like your trying too hard? I always feel really nervous and I dont want to scare her.

            [–]Euphoricentia -2 points-1 points  (6 children)

            Honestly, one time I backed out because it was a hot lesbian girl who is suicidal. I didn't want to her to get feelings for me.

            She did fall pretty hard though

            [–]_-_steve_-_ 4 points5 points  (3 children)

            You could have brought her back to our side and forever been a hero. Should have totally creampied that lesbian puss.

            [–]Euphoricentia 0 points1 point  (2 children)

            She was legit deranged man, pretty much asked me to finger her, but of course that would lead to sex

            [–]ShadowOfAnIdea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Struggle is real, I'd be in triple digits if I had any game. If I were anything less than a 6 I'd surely be a virgin

            [–]cacao1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            I think you did right though.

            [–]PM_ME_UR_NIPS_GURL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Had a similar situation. Girl recently got dumped by her bf. She was single and desperate for validation. She initiated everything and in the end, even after the disapproval of our circle of friends, took her home and fucked her. Never called her back, but it's cordial between us now.

            [–]kun_tee_chops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Just fuck her. Let your dick do the thinking.

            [–]Alchemist_XP 1 point2 points  (2 children)

            I remember I’ve fucked up bad like this... I had friends refer myself to this one girl, as a “good guy” to trust to stay at my house one weekend. She was super well mannered the entire time....(and super fucking hot)... she was a tall girl from the UK in her mid 20s, she was definitely out of my league. Never initiated any flirting or anything... I was too afraid to do so since I didn’t want her to say anything to my other friends... but the very last night she was staying at my house, it was about 7pm roughly, she comes downstairs in these small yellow undies that were practically see through, and dropped something off in the living room, looked over at me and walked upstairs... I sat there stunned... I ... I fucking sat there and didn’t do shit hahahaha!!! Big regret as I look back on it now, this girl knew no one from her friends (other than our mutuals) or family was ever going to find out about me since she lived over seas... she was a single girl who has been travelling alone for a bit... Like you say, I should have at least tried something! Lol oh well no big deal in reality 😊

            [–]RasputinGame[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

            When I was a virgin 7 years ago I walked a girl back to her dorm after a date and she told me her roommate was gone and her bed was super comfy and I didn't do anything.

            I was raised very sexually repressed.

            [–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 0 points1 point  (3 children)

            here's where you guys shit all over me

            Why?

            You fucked up, lesson learned. Stop overanalysing. There's no going back with this woman, that situation won't happen again with her. With a different woman, maybe.

            For me, I usually decide before date if I want to go on a date. What I mean by that is that if I'm not "fuck yeah" and "I want to bang her so badly" I usually don't waste mine and hers time and do something else instead.

            [–]RasputinGame[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

            I've noticed lot of guys here get their main validation by shitting on posters for being "cucks" so I said that tactically to avoid derailing the topic.

            I analyze everything. It works for me generally. I just try too hard not to be an asshole. Naturally I take care for my own interests.

            I don't really care about her.

            [–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 0 points1 point  (1 child)

            I've noticed lot of guys here get their main validation by shitting on posters for being "cucks" so I said that tactically to avoid derailing the topic.

            Cool but why should we care.

            [–]RasputinGame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            I don't care if you care. It's a communication tactic

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