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ScienceStatistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual Market (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by 1crunk_cat

This is a proper study dome by General Social Survey (GSS) that covers a few decades and not the usual broscience with whack methodology study numbers that usually get thrown around as "proof".

Study: https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessness-is-rising-but-not-for-the-reasons-incels-claim

Salient : "the top 20% most promiscuous men account for about 60% of male sexual partnerings"

This essentially means that in a sample of 100 men and 100 women during a given year, 14 men have no sex and no women, 66 men grab 0.56 women each on average, and the last 20 men monopolize 55 of the 92 sexually active women for 2.76 partners each on average.

Check out the twitter of one of the authors for a more accurate graph: https://twitter.com/lymanstoneky/status/992232558774620161

^He also gets all defensive in a hilarious manner from all the backlash.

Also noteworthy is that only 8% of women were sexless in 2016 while 14% of men were. LOL.

If you didn't believe Chad theory before, you can now; also more proof for the teachings of red pill.

One more very interesting observation that the article conveniently doesn't talk about to remain as politically correct as possible is the sexlessness within marriage rates, as observed from the graph:

In 2016, 0% of women were sexless in their marriage but 2% of men were sexless in their marriage in the past year.

Last time I checked every married woman had a husband. How the fuck is this statistic possible ? Oh yeah.... those poor bastards. I.e 2% of marriages the husband is denied sex for an entire year while the wife cheats at least once, but probably more than once.

Keep in mind, while the study is anonymous and taken in private, at least a mild form of the usual inflation rules apply; aka women under report and men over report.


[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (15 children)

Salient : "the top 20% most promiscuous men account for about 60% of male sexual partnerings"

This essentially means that in a sample of 100 men and 100 women during a given year, 14 men and no women are sexless in a given year, 66 men grab 0.56 women each on average, and the last 20 men monopolize 55 of the 92 sexually active women for 2.76 partners each on average.

In other words, most men are lucky to get laid at all in a given year, whereas the top 20% of men are having upwards of 3 sexual partners per year. On the flipside women have sexual abundance and are the choosers, most opting to share the top men rather than settle for a bottom 80%er. Let that sink in for a moment. We have statistical evidence of the what has been self-evident in the community from the start, which is...

When given the choice women would rather share an alpha with other women than settle for a beta they can have all to themselves.

If this doesn't explain how how preselection became thing, then nothing will.

[–]banthrow 246 points247 points  (8 children)

>In 2016, 0% of women were sexless in their marriage

Lol, poor cucks. If you are not getting it in you marriage, you know she is.

[–]c_w_o_o_l_l_y 35 points36 points  (5 children)

Crazy. If you were married in 2016, and didn't have sex with your wife, there's a 100% chance she cheated on you.

[–]AmazingMalice 41 points42 points  (4 children)

This is a faulty understanding of statistics. Sure, according to the data, in 2016 if you were married yet didn't have sex with your wife it's more likely than not that she cheated. However, this does not mean a "100% chance".

[–]Lawsomepossom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a faulty understanding of grouping logic

[–]c_w_o_o_l_l_y 0 points1 point  (2 children)

0% of wives went without sex and 2% of married men went without sex. Where is the sex coming from with those wives of the men that didn't have any sex at all?

[–]AmazingMalice 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Because 100% of women were not questioned.... and I can conceive of a situation where a woman was faithful for that year.

[–]antariusz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, I can imagine a scenario too.

Unfortunately it involves her growing a horn out of her forehead, and shitting out rainbows.

[–]1212121014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait wait wait. Well maybe.

[–][deleted] 117 points118 points  (22 children)

I don’t really get what’s going on here. You are using this as evidence of a few men dominating the sexual marketplace (which is certainly true) but the entire article is trying to argue against this.

A deeper reading also shows that the authors are moronic. They try to debunk the 20% of men having 80% of sex thing by saying that this is impossible because men would have to be banging multiple partners a day. Huh??? This isn’t true at all. A top guy could have sex with a few women at a time and not be bedding multiple per day if he is simply having sex more often than the women he is with, or if these women are taking time off between Chads. Duh! What an imbecile.

Then after he “debunks” it, he says it’s actually the top 20% getting only 60% of the sex. Haha what? First of all, like that’s so much better?? And second of all, so wouldn’t that mean according to his logic that Chad is bedding only 3 women per day instead of 4?

Then at the end his conclusion is just marriage is being delayed and that’s causing it? Dude that’s the symptom of the problem not the problem. Marriage is down because the median woman wants nothing to do with the median man, and because higher SMV guys don’t need to marry to have sex.

Fucking awful article.

I do think 20/60 sounds a bit more realistic than 20/80. Top guys don’t have much interest in the 20%-40% range of women. Those are wildabeasts. Most definitely have no problem pump and dumping average women in the 40-60% range though. Also the SMP is skewed... but come on it’s not skewed THAT badly.

[–]1Zanford 80 points81 points  (4 children)

A lot of researchers like this are purple-pill. The sort of see the writing on the wall, but they know that to keep their careers and grants, they need to sugar coat the red pill data with blue pill commentary.

[–]lust4thealpha 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY! I’ve suspected this as the explanation for a long while, purple pill is the perfect name for this. Many reasons those who have swallowed the red pill must preach PURPLE PILL rhetoric. Ok though, those who know the truth can read between these lines.

[–]Endorsed Contributorsadomasochrist 6 points7 points  (2 children)

TBH I've spent a lot of time with this part of the topic, it is my area of specialty here. I spent two years trying to debunk TRP before finally falling to its sword and eventually becoming an EC.

Truth of the matter is its a philosophical thing, TRP requires a small leap of faith.

With time, the evidence becomes overwhelming, but it's easy to lean on what you'd call skepticism. But at some point, you're actually just in denial.

I don't believe any of these guys are doing this on purpose. It's just that the reality is very grim and it requires a radical reevaluation of your life perspective that many men aren't willing to make.

It requires the destruction of the male conception of love, family, honor, loyalty etc.

And what you're left with was best described by another poster as Hobbesian anarchy.

This is one of two fundamental disputes between these camps which I'll write to shortly in an essay I'm still working on which traces the origin of this debate.

[–]CanAm10004 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I think it is perhaps easier as an older man. For me, having observed so much of this in my life (not so much to me, but around me), I find myself rapidly accepting TRP.

It probably helps that I have been skeptical of feminism all my life. I just never imagined the destruction of society and culture it would wreak.

[–]1Zanford 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of RP is simply 'common sense distilled from observations over time', which in times past was passed from father to son (and via classic literature), it's only quite recently that it has become 'uncommon'.

It's one of the primary reasons there is a cultural Marxist all out assault to remove fatherly and adult male influence from young mens' lives.

[–]1Revo_Luzione 34 points35 points  (2 children)

Yeah, the cognitive dissonance in that article is astounding. Blue-pill normies will twist their brain in knots trying to justify their unicorn beliefs, even when the evidence stares them in the face.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know what that guy’s deal is. On the Twitter link he is telling people who are saying toxic masculinity that they are dumb so I don’t know if he’s full blue pill leftie. It’s just a bizarre article.

[–]CreatedItJust2Saythi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny how this get clearest when you read the last, ending paragraph:

"The rise of young male sexlessness isn’t about Chads and Stacies; it isn’t primarily about Tinder or Bumble; it’s not mostly about attitudinal shifts in what women want from relationships; and it’s not mainly about some new war between the sexes. It’s mostly about people spending more years in school and spending more years living at home."

how the hell does spending more years in school and at home get alpha 20% the 60% of pussy?

[–]dmcoolaid 10 points11 points  (5 children)

Another thing is when he said that women civilize men, which seemed so PC to me. I doubt it's as simple as women civilizing men and probably more so the situation and responsibilities of being in a relationship and or having children. I feel like the same or similar effect would be produced if you got a couple of dogs or a high maintenance pet. Or just having a kid without the woman. Is it the woman that "makes the man better" or is it the situation. His inability to properly relay this really showed me that you don't exactly have to be that smart or logical to do statistical work.

[–]Dyskord01 14 points15 points  (3 children)

That's a lie told the last half century.

Men civilize women.

How can I prove this. The Patriarchy being derided by feminist is the society structure created by the men who built society. Women who rebel against Muh Patriarchy tend to be unfit for anything other than a pump and dump, that is if they're even still attractive.

The fact 20% of men, the top 20%, nets 80% or even 60% of women is proof that women are running wild without forethought or foresight. This will either lead to the mainstream application of polygamy as the spinster numbers skyrocket or a doubling down on stupid as post wall insols refuse to settle for beta's, their last chance.

I feel sorry for the beta cucks they missed the best years of her life and get her when shes worn, used and heading down the desirable slope.

[–]michael_wilkins 11 points12 points  (2 children)

It's having children that civilise Men, having to think about the future and your legacy and the knowledge you pass on is a very stabilising factor.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having children with assured paternity civilizes men.

[–]Incel9876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's having children that civilise Men, having to think about the future and your legacy and the knowledge you pass on is a very stabilising factor.

Men are inherently civilized, the male sexual imperative is to regulate women's sexuality so we can know we have genuine children in whom to invest. Whereas, the hypergamous nature of female sexuality erodes and collapses advanced civilizatons that make the mistake that "women civilize men" or are "equal" or whatever.

[–]The_Chiselnator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it were up to women the world would still be in the stone age. The only thing women care about is getting the best genes around and providing for the babies.

That's it.

Nothing else. Maybe that is civilization to you

[–]Ervin_A 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“The median woman wants nothing to do with the median man” Hit the nail right on the head. Something that would take me a full paragraph to explain has just been succinctly delivered in one sentence.

[–]Zachar1a 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he didn’t try to couch it in Blue Pill terms, that would mean that he has already been Red-Pilled. If he were already Red-Pilled, then he would know not to talk about the Red Pill. So there’s that.

[–]inferno1234 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Where do you get the 3 per day from? If I run the numbers on his "Chad must be doing 2-a-days for a substantial period" first of all those numbers can only be encounters, not partners, so not unreasonable at all in my opinion.

Secondly, there is a number of 60-100 encounters per YEAR given. Let's take 80, and sample 100 people:

Gives 8000 total encounters. 60% of those are divided under 20% of men, 4800 encounters among 20 men for an average of 240 a year. Easily feasible..

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 a day is just an example based on their stupid notion that Chad must be having sex with multiple women per day if it’s 20/60. Meaning if his 3 women are having sex everyday it would be 3 times a day for him. I didn’t word it great, but the point stands. You can look at it like him having sex 3 times a week and each of his plates once a week also.

[–]Raikkonen716 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Was going to write my thoughts, but I saw your comment and it already sums it up everything. The article has some point that make no sense, and the final thesis mistakes the effect for the cause.

People who are upvoting this post (and I guess the OP himself) haven't read the article, if they did they wouldn't upvote it. It's beyond me that this thing has 400+ upvotes.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea this looks like a senior thesis or something. This is not serious research at all.

[–]itsawomensworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you consider the fact that men will often exaggerate how much sex they have and women do the opposite the ratio could indeed be 20/80. Having said that, 20/60, as you said, isn't a huge difference and still shows that a lot of men aren't having sex.

Here is also a thing not considered. How easy it is for a women to have sex vs. a man. It is very daunting for a man without a girl to just find sex within the week month or year. Or even find a steady relationship. It is far easier for a woman. So the men not having sex are, also, likely not going on many dates and also not kissing etc. So measuring purely on sex is a mistake.

Lastly, as you pointed out. Using marriage as a proxy is quite foolish. Women are pushing off marriage not the other way around based on my experiences. The study makes the conclusion its men but there seems to be very little evidence its men not women.

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's wrong. Guys have almost not standards. They take what's there. Even a pretty high value guy will take an average piece if she's available & he's thirsty. A lot of guys have no standards.

[–]rpsheepdog 186 points187 points  (25 children)

>In 2016, 0% of women were sexless in their marriage but 2% of men were sexless in their marriage in the past year.

Last time I checked every married woman had a husband. How the fuck is this statistic possible ? Oh yeah.... those poor bastards. I.e 2% of marriages the husband is denied sex for an entire year while the wife cheats at least once, but probably more than once

Shit... that is hard to read

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 32 points33 points  (6 children)

This tracks to the bare minimum of 3% of kids not being fathered by the husband statistic. The reality is that it's probably much higher.

When I was in college one of my science classes mentioned a fiasco that happened I think in the UK in the late 70s where kids were supposed to find out their parent's blood types as part of the student's science/health class. This is when they were learning about blood types and how genetics work. They realized they had a problem when kids were finding out their dad's were not biologically related, which IIRC was up around 33%!

The "solution" was they pulled that section of the curriculum and stopped having kids ask their parents what their blood types were.

[–]Ivan_The_Reddish 16 points17 points  (1 child)

Maybe it was 3.3%? Even if every kid was illegitimate you wouldn't get a 33% illegitimate rate from blood typing. But even if it was only 3%, considering the low chance of an illegitimate kid being proven by blood typing, that'd be a fairly large number of implied illegitimate kids.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's an unpublished study from the UK regarding the southeast of England and their findings were 30% of men were disqualified from being the father based solely on blood type testing.

The study is unpublished so we don't have any info on the methodology, but blood typing is fairly straightforward. The only reason we know about it is because it's been referenced in articles on the subject of paternity fraud.

[–]Nergaal 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I read somewhere that in the US it was around 10%

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 1 point2 points  (1 child)

That's probably a more prevalent average than the 30% figures. I think we can all agree with the bare-bones low-end minimum being about 3%, a more likely mean somewhere around 10%, and the high-end being in the neighborhood of 30%.

[–]Nergaal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sure there are societies, those in which polygamy is socially tolerated, 30% is perfectly reasonable if not too low. But for Western societies, 30% nationwide is still way too high. Maybe in certain neighborhoods of cities like NYC, but definitely not over large areas.

[–]TheReformist94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is the evidence.in 2018 make sure you are at least cheating on your LTR. 40% of women are prepared to do the female equivalent of rape on a man through cucking. It's zero sun gents

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    [–]neededsomething 39 points40 points  (0 children)

    I'd expect that some women in sexless marriages would not realise that it had been over a year since they last had sex with their husbands, while the husbands would be well aware.

    [–]1Revo_Luzione 21 points22 points  (2 children)

    It's an anonymous survey. No need to lie, and no incentive not to. Sure, some still will, but the data is collected from mass groups. In 2014, it was 60,000 people. The laws of large numbers tells us these are pretty reliable numbers, even if, as OP stated, women tend to lie down (no pun intended, bada bing), and men tend to lie up, when it comes to number of sexual encounters.

    [–]WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    It's an anonymous survey. No need to lie, and no incentive not to.

    I've known plenty of people that lied when there was no reason to. Some people that's just the default state.

    Personally, I think it's because they need to maintain appearances within themselves. As if admitting the truth might make them realize how shitty their behavior is.

    [–]1Revo_Luzione 11 points12 points  (5 children)

    Shit... that is hard to read

    Anger/denial phase. Once you've reached full acceptance, it won't phase you. Having hooked up with 3 (I think) married broads, and plenty more with BF's whilst still in my own anger phase unequivocally shows how the SMP really works. I know two of the three wives were in dead bedroom marriages. Better to be Chad than the cuck. Wouldn't do it again today, my prospects are abundant so need to poach or cut another guy's water, but man were those experiences instructive. YMMV.

    [–]rpsheepdog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    I was more in reference to being in a sexless marriage, I literally cannot imagine what it would be like to go a year without having sex, even if it was starfish sex. I mean I understand its a cycle the husband is perpetuating, but damn...

    [–]HarryButtfarb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Beta cucks get married too.

    [–]Dyskord01 4 points5 points  (1 child)

    What shocked me is the statistic, not in this study, that at least a third of married men are not the biological parent of their children. The number might be higher but DNA labs refuse to release the proper numbers.

    Out there are a lot of unknowing cucks

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Dude I don’t know where you got 1/3 but I’m sorry that is false. It’s much lower than that for general population, and the rate of false paternity for married middle class people from... let’s call them “non-dysfunctional neighborhoods” is close to nil. Even if these women are cheating, they are on birth control the vast majority of the time and only coming off of it when the couple is trying to get pregnant.

    [–]R41nmaker 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Yep, this made me die a little inside.

    [–]BoogieorBust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Me too, there has to be something we can improve to boost us up. I’m lifting like a beast and it truly does help.

    [–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

    Studying Nursing had three of the girls in class bitch about how hard it is being single mother and how they still expect a 6'3" dude with a 6 figure salary and a six pack to settle on them. Western women are spoiled entitled little shits it absolutely boggles the mind just how quickly feminism has destroyed them.

    [–]Snowiceolated 73 points74 points  (12 children)

    Interesting. I had 2 so far, so all I need is to get 0.76 of a woman to sleep with me and I'll be a Chad for 2018.

    [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 39 points40 points  (5 children)

    Average female height is 5'4". At 0.76 of a woman you'll be needing a girl just a hair over four foot.

    [–]Zelthia 16 points17 points  (2 children)

    That’s how I like to do my math.

    If you hook up with a fatty, just count it as two hookups.

    Hat off to you for bending the rules of the universe to serve your goals, sir.

    [–]says_harsh_things 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    Just hire one for something and pay her 76% of what a man would make.

    [–]reluctantly_red 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    all I need is to get 0.76 of a woman to sleep with me and I'll be a Chad for 2018.

    Does a 300 pounder count as 2.5 women?

    [–]officerkondo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Yeah by these numbers, for 2018 I’m already a chaddy Chad. Nice!

    [–]SeyiDALegend 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    I'm on 3, so essentially I'm Chad now? Lol I knew I've been getting better but to be playing in the big leagues already?

    [–]Pilliam66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Turns out the big leagues aren't as big as I thought

    [–]vicious_armbar 62 points63 points  (16 children)

    What really struck me is that if you only bed 3 women in a year that puts you in the top 20%!!!That means the average guy is having much less sex than I thought.

    [–]Omnibrad 57 points58 points  (3 children)

    14 men have no sex and no women, 66 men grab 0.56 women each on average

    The average dude fucks a woman every other year.

    [–]Zelthia 31 points32 points  (0 children)

    Thinking of it, this is actually consistent with what I know of most of my social groups

    [–]reluctantly_red 12 points13 points  (0 children)

    The average dude fucks a woman every other year.

    Shit -- guess my sex life the last few years wasn't quite as bad as I thought.

    [–]X-Trem0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Hold on a second. Every other year or every other day?

    A new woman or repeating counts?

    :)

    [–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (2 children)

    It’s really hard to believe, but I guess we all know some guys who are just hopeless. At the same time though, the stat is a bit misleading because there are gonna be a lot of top 20% dudes that have only been with one girl in a year because they are married or in a relationship- not sure if breaks that our or just looks at all guys. Also surveys are notoriously awful and yet all of the social sciences besides economics rely heavily on them.

    [–]1crunk_cat[S] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

    there are gonna be a lot of top 20% dudes that have only been with one girl in a year because they are married or in a relationship- not sure if breaks that our or just looks at all guys.

    The data is from currently unmarried 22-35 year olds during the period of one year. So its not all guys, its not including married men.

    [–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    Ah. Well guys with girlfriends still I guess might be in there.

    [–]Johnytheanarchist 18 points19 points  (2 children)

    I wonder how much confidence and pursuing plays into this tho. Like I would not consider myself to be in the top 20% of guys top 40% maybe but I’m not Chad by any means. That being said I’ve gotten 4 new kills this year and I’m expecting to get a few more. I’ve been pushing for it tho, sometimes I wouldn’t have had the confidence or self esteem to do before. In our blue pill society i feel like the reason most men get so little action might be because they don’t know how to get it

    [–]washington_breadstix 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    Most men I know these days are too passive to even try to sleep around. Many of them settle for relationship sex and many others settle for their right hands.

    [–]vicious_armbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Game info is available to them. They're just too scared or lazy to learn and apply it.

    [–]1crunk_cat[S] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

    Oh yeah. At 3 women a year on average, a chad can put 36 notches on his belt from 18-30. At 36 partners over lifetime, you are most definitely top 20%. And at 0.56 partners a year, the middle of the pack man is putting 6.72 or ~7 partners on his belt over his lifetime. A lot of other studies corroborate 7 partners as being the average for a North American male as well.

    [–]3nebder 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    I’m at least ten times the average then. Another study showed male mean count at 6 and median count at 10 For lifetime partner count.

    [–]zephyrprime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I think you mean mean 10 and median 6.

    [–]blacklightsleaze 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Wow that makes me top20%, but I don't feel top 20% at all, because I am fucking only 5s and 6s.

    [–]vicious_armbar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Yeah the data doesn't control for quality. But I feel like it's safe to say that men with much higher notch counts have had sex with higher quality women than the guy who has only slept with a couple of women.

    [–]zephyrprime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Average guys only has sex with ~11 women his entire lifetime. What did you expect? Get the basic facts straight so you have a realistic view of the world.

    [–]Ga5zilla 28 points29 points  (1 child)

    5% of men gets the top 20% of women also

    [–]1212121014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I wonder how closely this correlates with income.

    [–]QuiverBoner 20 points21 points  (11 children)

    So does this mean only 92%ofWALT?

    [–]1Revo_Luzione 33 points34 points  (10 children)

    Nah, those other 8% would if they could. They're the omega females.

    [–]rigbed 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    “I was celibate for one year”

    [–][deleted]  (8 children)

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      [–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 6 points7 points  (7 children)

      what is omega females?

      You asked for it...

      https://i.imgur.com/HPwCRKL.jpg?1

      [–]Atheist_Utopia 4 points5 points  (2 children)

      Wtf 'on a journey to become fat'? How is this a thing?

      [–]blacklightsleaze 6 points7 points  (1 child)

      its just durty bulking bro, wait till she cut

      [–]Pilliam66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      That bitch gonna be shredded as fuck

      [–]modTheRedPike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      Someone would still fuck her.

      [–]kurdishpower01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I was having breakfast. Atleast put up a warning that I am going to see a fat woman

      [–]X-Trem0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I'm not gonna make the first move

      Probably, you're not gonna move at all. Dear God, what a thing to see...

      [–]Atheist_Utopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Wtf 'on a journey to become fat'? How is this even a thing?

      [–]ApexmanRP 15 points16 points  (6 children)

      The graph showing 22-35 year olds not having sex in last year suddenly spikes for men in about 2010. Why? The authors says delayed marriage. Bullshit, marriage has been delayed for years.

      What else happened in around that time? Instagram launched 2010, Tinder 2012..

      [–]1crunk_cat[S] 5 points6 points  (3 children)

      PornHub launched around mid 2007, getting traction in 2008. Coincidence ? Idk. The graph starts ascending in 2008. The acceleration is from 2010. We also had the lowest national employment in 2010 (due to 2008 crisis), Obama and his liberal policies came into office, and Instagram launched. Take your pick.

      [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

      I pick recession. Hard to get laid when unemployed. And possibly depressed.

      [–]ApexmanRP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      So, now the economy is better, has this situation changed? No if anything its gotten worse or better depending if you are in the top 20% or not.. incels on the rampage etc..

      [–]ApexmanRP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      Yes, there was a lot of stuff going on around that time. I personally, think its the internet validation circus (Instagram/Tinder) that's driving this and as you say, the get out for men is free porn, thus taking away any incentive to improve.

      [–]Neomantic 2 points3 points  (1 child)

      That's a real good point. At this juncture, the first thing an employer looks at is your facebook page. If you give your name and number to a woman the first thing she's does is look for you on social media. As if that were a clear read on who a person is. But that's the sickness of our "cult of personality". Instagram and Twitter have probably made an impact on our culture in this way.

      My advise to men today, is to set about their lives, purposefully excluding intimacy, lest they fall victim to some form of feminine conartistry. The modern western woman is raised to be dishonest and unapologetically materialistic. To expect them to behave any different is folly. Once a man has made himself into what he wants to be, (the house, the career, etc.) only then should he seek the type of woman that he wants to include in HIS life, and he should be uncompromising in this.

      [–]ApexmanRP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      "Instagram and Twitter have probably made an impact on our culture in this way."

      I think its a given at this point.

      "Once a man has made himself into what he wants to be"

      I agree, and this is what i have done. I can confirm, it is really the only way to go, for long term happiness, with or without women.

      [–]LotBuilder 42 points43 points  (32 children)

      Moral of the story, do what it takes to get into the top 20% (really 10%)

      [–]aesu 2 points3 points  (1 child)

      If everyone does that, the standard just rises, and it comes down to innate difference out of people control. Also, what constitutes the top 20% changes over time.

      [–]micaarzur 23 points24 points  (0 children)

      But everyone isn't going to do that.

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        [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (23 children)

        There are spergs who are fit and on juice who can't get laid. However since hoping on cycle I will say - great results and I basically have to swat women away. And I don't look super amazing just a bigger dude

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          [–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (18 children)

          I don't think you understood what I was trying to say. It's been good to me, however if you're autistic or weird, being jacked won't make up for the fact that you cannot talk to people.

          [–]anabolic92 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          That's me.

          Like I have a juiced physique and an over the top body, but in my mind I can't even approach woman lol.

          Even I fuck up when I have been approached by them.

          [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Honestly it takes time. Just talk to them like they were dudes until you can get your mental game right

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            [–]YoungLilAccident 11 points12 points  (3 children)

            I know a guy that is jacked as fuck, no kidding a lot of girls get instantly wet when he enters the room because his body is 10/10 and he knows how to dress.

            However he has no game what so ever and an IQ less than 80. He had a hb8 literally grinding her ass on his crotch for 1 hour and did not realize she was interested. When I asked him why he didn't smash even though he had logistics and a wet pussy right in his face. He had no idea and was mad at me for not telling him she was interested.

            Conclusion: If you're retarded you can't pull. Even when you are the most handsome man in a 50 mile radius.

            [–]blacklightsleaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            God... I was at some party and there was this guy fucking good looking muscle guy who was with group of friends. He was sitting on a table between two hb8 who acted all weird just to get his attention and he was just a nervous wrek. H Honestly hope this guy never understands how much his looks turn on women, because nothing will left for other guys.

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              [–]YoungLilAccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              We literally go out every weekend. He has pulled before but needs way too much guidance to know when he can pull.

              [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (9 children)

              There are some pretty darn good looking at least body-wise dudes who can't get a girl to save their life, all sorts of social anxiety etc. If you are very good looking yes you can do that but it requires you to be able to at least have the mental game part of it. But for your average guy if you throw on 40 lb of muscle - it increases chances of success dramatically.

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                [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                I don't know to look through some of these guys post history some of them are way fucked in the head, no matter how swole they are it ain't going to help

                [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children)

                How about someone with social anxiety, chronic depression, ADHD, 4 sleep disorders, male pattern baldness, erectile dysfunction, lifelong experiences of being rejected by both women and peers, bullied as a child, no friends, emotionally abused by their now dead mother, and a beta father who insists that girls like gentlemen and not macho assholes?

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                  [–]Ihatemoi 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  I am 25 I am planning on getting on getting on gear when I am 35. Any long term side effects besides awesome gainz and women touching your ass?

                  [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  A ton if you don't do it right hair loss your dick not working b**** tits high cholesterol high blood pressure.... You got a lot of Google research to do my friend

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                  If you have male pattern baldness, steroids are a no-go.

                  Curse my genetics.

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                    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Well at this point I could still save it and get a hair transplant. I’d look really ugly as a totally bald guy...

                    [–]dingleburry_joe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Yeah, not everyone will be able to get there, the point is to rise as much as possible, and never fucking stop

                    [–]ObliviouslyThrowaway 13 points14 points  (1 child)

                    This should drive it through for you. The article literally says:

                    Many incels quote a rule of thumb that 20% of men have 80% of the sex. Is this true?

                    It turns out, the answer is no. And of course, it isn’t! Imagine how much sex those 20% of men would have to be having! A substantial share would need to be doing two-a-days on a regular basis to maintain that kind of share. In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex.

                    In other words: "Of course top 20% of men don't have 80% of the sex, that would be ridiculous!. They have 60% of all the sex!"

                    I can't understand how they actually think they've proven the argument wrong.

                    [–]Rollo_Mayhem3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                    looked at more microscopically among a set of 100 men and 100 women. 20 men are banging 50 to 60 of those girls (2.5 to 3 partners). Leaving the remaining 80 suckers only 40 to 50 women to choose from. Does this not mean that 30 to 40 men are shit out of luck? I think it does for 1) the bottom 50 to 40% are less attractive and 2) there has to be some of them not getting any at all, particularly when those women at the bottom will hold out for the chance with the top 20%. The article was written in BLOG FGS.

                    [–]PlasticPlan777 25 points26 points  (1 child)

                    That article funny. Essentially, it implies that ugly people just need to get married if they want sex. However, finding a marriage partner is a problem when you're ugly. It's a good thing that the article completely avoids the issue of physical attractiveness, as if it's actually irrelevant to finding a partner.

                    [–]2Overkillengine 20 points21 points  (0 children)

                    Of course they avoid it, otherwise socially acceptable narratives/platitudes like "Just Be Yourself" will start getting questioned.

                    [–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                    Men will exaggerate their number, I bet at least 30% of the virgins will pretend to not be a virgin, I wouldn’t be surprised if the number is closer to 18-22%. The opposite is true for women, they want to pretend to be innocent. Although this effect is much less widespread, so I assume that 8% is only off by maybe 0.5%-1%.

                    [–]modTheRedPike[M] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

                    +1

                    [–]1Zanford 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                    Remember that this data doesn't tell us the attractiveness of the partners....so the skew could be even greater than the numbers suggest: the guys banging the most chicks might ALSO be banging the hottest ones.

                    [–]Redpillswole 28 points29 points  (8 children)

                    This 20% dominating 60% makes me feel kind of guilty.

                    [–]1Revo_Luzione 40 points41 points  (2 children)

                    Don't ever feel guilty for having success. Don't be less than who you are, or are capable of, to make someone else feel good about themselves.

                    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Don’t extend a nicety to someone who wouldn’t do the same if your positions were flipped.

                    You might feel sorry for having a girl show interest in you over her beta boyfriend... but people are assholes, and you can bet he would make the selfish choice if your positions were swapped.

                    [–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 22 points23 points  (0 children)

                    Feels good to be part of the 20%

                    [–]Redpillswole 10 points11 points  (1 child)

                    It really doesn't take that much to beat the 80% either

                    [–]Iwannachokekatie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Just be born at least average and work at yourself. RIP the rest of us.

                    [–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                    Better to be the guy that she cheats with than cheats on.

                    [–]Rdt767 16 points17 points  (5 children)

                    Aw yeah I'm at 3 this year, guess I'm a Chad.

                    Oh wait they won't text me back. Fuck.

                    [–]Droogas 20 points21 points  (3 children)

                    When I fuck fat girls I count them as 2 people.

                    [–]Rdt767 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                    I like the theory, that would boost my lifetime total up into the 20s

                    [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                    Chubby chasers don’t tally up their n counts when they brag to each other. They compare total mass of females bedded. Bonus points for cracked bed frames.

                    [–]Pezotecom 6 points7 points  (2 children)

                    Do I get to be chad if I'm always banging my LTR?

                    [–]Iwannachokekatie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                    Yes, but so do the other guys who bang your ltr all the time.

                    [–]hakubamatata 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                    I think the perception that Stacie’s are having more promiscuous sex is a result of the truth simply getting out... the secret simply used to be well kept

                    [–]WalterEArmstrong 17 points18 points  (2 children)

                    I once read an article about a HS biology teacher who taught his students how to test their blood type. I think he must've been the biggest rascal on the planet because he told the kids to go home an ask their parents what THEIR blood type was and, LO & BEHOLD, about 30% of the students reported their fathers had a blood type that was incompatible with their own!! So, at least 30% of the women in that town had been fukk'n somebody besides Dad! Then there were those women who'd been fukk'n some guy whose blood type was compatible with her husbands. Add in the number of women who'd fukk'ed the heater repairman but then didn't get pregnant and what do you have?!

                    [–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                    Holy shit, I posted nearly the same thing up above, which was relayed to me via a college class I had several years ago.

                    [–]blacklightsleaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                    There was this study which resulted that in Europe/Asia/Africa for every 1,5/1,4/1,6 women only 1 man reproduced. I can't find it right now, but the number are close to that.
                    Which doesn't have nothing do to with how much people have sex for fun only

                    [–]michael_wilkins 3 points4 points  (1 child)

                    The two funniest parts were the Snopes level of "fact checking" "It's not that the top 20% get 80% they only get 60%, ergo it's false"

                    And the "0% of married Women are incel while 2% of married Men are"

                    Just a reminder if you ever want evidence of what it's like, make a tinder with Male model pics and see what you get.

                    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Also make one as a hot girl and see how they have infinitely more options than guys do.

                    [–]sunbro29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                    Sometimes I feel down on myself then I realize I've been having sex on an almost daily basis since I was 14. I don't know where that puts me on this study but I can't say I'm unsatisfied!

                    [–]francisco_DANKonia 7 points8 points  (4 children)

                    I find it difficult to believe only 14% of men had no sex in a given year. Or maybe I'm less promiscuous than highly religious people

                    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                    Seems a bit low to me actually. Think about how pathetic the bottom 14% of men are. The thing that shocks me is how few women you need to fuck to be a top guy. I seriously doubt that it’s only three a year.

                    [–]francisco_DANKonia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                    3 a year makes sense to me. I don't know many people who have that much. Average decent guy will have a few months relationship and then maybe another short relationship

                    [–]blownnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    It's probably way higher, like 30 - 40%. Everyone lies about their sex life, even if this is anonymous. Truth is in the meta data. If they had the condom purchase data of each single male, that would tell the truth.

                    [–]Alpha_Jedi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                    " In 2016, 0% of women were sexless in their marriage but 2% of men were sexless in their marriage in the past year.

                    Last time I checked every married woman had a husband. How the fuck is this statistic possible ? Oh yeah.... those poor bastards."

                    That's an atomic-level truth bomb right there. Cheers.

                    [–]MotiMorphosys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                    I would also guess that 1% of men dominate more than 40% (like, more than 30 partners a year when not in persuit of a LTR)

                    [–]Nergaal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                    So as a rule of thumb, if you haven't had sex with your wife in the past year, she IS cheating on you.

                    [–]TheBigHorse420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                    Where do I find a 0.56% woman?

                    [–]trppr 3 points4 points  (4 children)

                    66 men grab 0.56 women each on average, and the last 20 men monopolize 55 of the 92 sexually active women for 2.76 partners each on average.

                    Wonder how this would look like if it was real numbers vs statistical decimal points. Anyone had sex with 2.76 women?

                    [–]1Revo_Luzione 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                    Real world example: You bed 11 women in 4 years. Averages 2.75 per year. Close enough. These are averages of a large number of people, everybody's individual average will be different.

                    [–]trppr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    I get that.

                    My point is that how many men are actually getting sex. Because you can't have sex with 0.56 of a woman. Is this author concluding that those 66 men are not having any sex at all?

                    [–]Ihatemoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                    In my country Id be fucking chad already if I had the logistic to bang them all. Fuck. I will be moving in my own appartment soon. Pussy festival is comming soon.

                    [–]talexanderc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                    I thought it was more like 80%

                    [–]le_wolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Only 14% men were sexless?

                    Only if you consider duty sex that is rationed to Betas in LTRs/Marriages equivalent to validational sex Top 20% Men get from women.

                    [–]The1WhoCsAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    One new woman every two years... no wonder most guys cant stand up for themselves after the girlfriend threatens to take the box away. Its like water in a desert to most. What a pathetic reality.

                    [–]jazztaprazzta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Yar parents fought to get rid of the patriarchy, they wanted sexual liberation ... and decades later we have inceldom.

                    Also, I think that much more men are sexless... at least judging by my observations.

                    [–]FrugalKrugman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    This statistic also does not give any indication of quality of a lay. I'd rather quality over quantity, I see no point of mindlessly trying to fuck every girl out there and wasting heaps of time on that. There's more to life gentlemen. Go build a business or something. Women are just a form of entertainment which should be consumed in moderation.

                    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    moral of the story: don't be an incel, work to be in that top 20% it's more attainable than you think

                    [–]antariusz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    That last quote you threw in, by the way is wrong and feminist bullshit.

                    Men actually underreport. Women just underreport more. The “braggart male is bad for science” meme is feminist social conditioning.

                    Source: several long term studies where they ask about recent and past behavior.

                    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    Also noteworthy is that only 8% of women were sexless in 2016 while 14% of men were. LOL.

                    Keep in mind that this is self-reported data, and men usually over-report, while women under-report, even in anonymous studies. I suspect it to be higher.

                    [–]GainzdalfTheWhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    The 0% 2% thing is just statistical reference, considering sample size its not impossible for it to happen

                    [–]metallicdrama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    70% of men dominate the buffet

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                    [–]2kez88 0 points1 point  (2 children)

                    Out of curiosity, does anyone have the numbers for what top% of women sleep with the most amount of dudes?

                    I agree on the general 20% of men get 80% of women rule, but i wonder what the ratio is for women

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