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Man is upset to discover his wife is stripping nude on a beach while on vacation without him. Relationships subreddit calls him a shitlord, tells him to man up and accept her open sexuality. Yeah, this is what's become of male dignity. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by needsomehelp3211

Summary: Women really cannot be trusted to remain loyal and decent on their own without a man to guide them. If she's out of your sight, she's (consciously or subconsciously) looking for the next alpha male to swing to. Keep that shit in check from the beginning if you desire a LTR/marriage.

Full thread here.

Ah, the Relationships subreddit. I bet if it were possible they'd sell the sub to Disney because of how utterly vapid, naive and idealistic the commenters on it are. Which makes sense, because it's also a feminist-infested place that constantly tries to paint the woman in a good light while treating the man like shit. Every single thread. Not even kidding.

Today's bluepill example comes from a man who let his wife go on a vacation alone... then found out she was getting nude at the beach and hanging out with her rack out. He gets two pictures from an unknown phone number, the first of his wife's boobs and the second of her ass.

She's been there almost a week now and the trip is almost over. We haven't been able to talk much because of the international phone calling fees are so high. We haven't been having any problems lately or since she left.

I got a text from a number I didn't recognize 3 hours ago. There was a smiley face, no other text and an attached picture. The picture is of my wife and her BF standing next to each other on a beach 100% nude. There are 2 other people out in the water, but nobody else is in the picture.

It doesn't seem sexual. They are standing side by side with an arm going behind each other's back. They are both holding their other arm in the air. Their mouths are open and it seems they are lauging or yelling Wooo.

I've responded to the text a few times, but I keep getting a message failure notification. I don't know WTF is going on. My wife knows I'm not uptight about nudity, but we don't have the kind of relationship where we go off and get naked with friends and family. I don't to newsstand who would be sending this either. I have good relationships with everybody involved.

Anytime that we've ever been nude in a place where other people could be around, we are always very careful to watch out for cameras. She works with kids and could lose her job over pictures like that. None of this makes and sense.

Yep, this married woman is swinging her titties for all the world to see at a beach, without her husband's knowledge or permission. Somebody's clearly taking photos here and getting sexual thrill from them and it's a public beach so there are probably a bunch of horny dudes around. Oh, and the wife hasn't bothered to even talk to her own husband via so much as email the entire week, and won't pick up her phone.

Something stinks, right? Hark! Here come the white knight commenters to the rescue, hamstering a billion reasons why this behavior is okay and why the husband is a shitlord:

Why is this so strange? Maybe she went to a nude beach. Seems like something you would do for fun with a bunch of girlfriends. As for the strange number, there are some texting apps or services you can sign up for where you can get a temporary number. I think you are worried too much. Wait until she gets reception again and let her explain. Do you think there's cheating involved? I don't see a nude pic on the beach as something to worry about unless you think there was another man involved.

Dude. She's running around naked in a public place and there are probably a bunch of guys getting their rocks off to watching her. And someone is clearly taking sexy photoshots of her. But okay, keep believing in your fairytale of innocence.

I'd chill. Seems like a "girlfriends being silly" kind of thing. Since you can't get hold of her via text, send her an email, yo. Those don't auto-fail if her phone is down. Now here's the key... don't freak out. Compliment her on how gorgeous she is in the picture. Don't do anything else remotely. When she gets back, bring it up casually, and tell her that you want to keep that glorious bounty all for yourself. See what she says. Likely she'll tell you "silly girl thing" as above, and you can sleep quiet.

"Just ask her, and if she says everything's okay that means it's okay. Women never lie! Also, be sure to give her lots of compliments and validation!" Yes, this is how feminist actually believe a relationship argument can be solved. With the guy bending over and abandoning his dignity.

Your wife and her bff were probably drunk and just living in the moment. From the contents of the picture, it doesn't sound like anything untoward is up. Just chill! You've admitted it doesn't look sexual! So why are you freaking out?

And it's so odd how much you focus on the strange number sending you the pic (obviously someone else took It...) and the fact that people on a beach don't have great cell service, like she's been kidnapped or something.

It seems to me you're a bit bummed and bored without your wife and just latched onto this as something to obsess about. If you REALLY want your wife to enjoy her vacation, then just chill for now and bring it up next time you talk. Obsessively calling and texting her is only going to make her feel guilty for something that you yourself have admitted looks to be innocent.

"You're the real villain here, shitlord! You need to be accepting of your wife's open sexuality and her desire to show her goods to the entire world! Stop oppressing her!"

The denial is unreal. And folks, this is not abnormal for bluepill society, this is the shit they actually believe. Society puts women on pedestals and default assumes women can do no wrong. It's an anti-male world out there.

At the RedPill we know a little better. If your gut instinct tells you something is wrong, FOLLOW YOUR GUT INSTINCT. Don't listen to some fat neckbeard online preaching about sexual acceptance and open-mindedness. Retain your god-damned dignity and do something when your girlfriend/wife/whatever shames herself in public. Lay down the fucking law.

Because if she gets away with things like this, the branch swinging tendency will only grow deeper and deeper until one day you wake up to find the divorce papers and a cup of coffee on the dining room table.

TL;DR: OP on relationships subreddit finds out his wife is posing nude on the beach. Commenters browbeat him and say it's his fault for not being accepting and that's she's "just having some fun". Don't get advice from bluepillers. Control your woman, otherwise you are the definition of a cuck.


[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorFieldLine 290 points291 points  (44 children)

It boggles my mind that no one has a problem with this behavior in the thread you linked. It's not even a RP vs. BP thing, it's about having some minimum level of self respect.

It's like we live in some kind of bizzaro world.

[–][deleted] 152 points153 points  (29 children)

Exactly. They are saying she is "just having fun" which she is, but there are plenty of ways to have fun outside of getting naked in public away from your husband. Also, the guy can't reach his wife even though he has tried many times.

If the genders were reversed and it was the husband doing this, that subreddit would be telling the wife to dump the husband. They suck.

[–]Amythprison 94 points95 points  (23 children)

Did anyone try this as a social experiment, where they post the same threads but with the genders reversed? I'm thinking about just taking older stories from old threads and just changing the genders just to see how they react.

[–]ElectricFagSwatter 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Now this is something I need to see.

[–]Icy_Flames82 48 points49 points  (2 children)

Dude please do. And give TRP links and updates

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    [–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 24 points25 points  (0 children)

    Right! Get 5 reversal examples in different alts and then post it on TRP with a summary of the 5 examples with highlights and explanations. Guarantee there will be a shit ton of data showing the hypocrisy and make for a great post.

    [–]Gawernator 29 points30 points  (0 children)

    Please do, and link it all here. That would be epic.

    [–]--Visionary-- 24 points25 points  (5 children)

    I've always wondered why TRP, Men's Rights don't basically just do THIS repeatedly as part of their schtick.

    [–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 14 points15 points  (4 children)

    Got better shit to do with our time.

    [–]--Visionary-- 6 points7 points  (3 children)

    Perhaps. Though posting on reddit is posting on reddit.

    [–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 6 points7 points  (2 children)

    Yeah, you can tell when I take a shit. I post here.

    [–]Freebird025 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Fanfuckingtastic idea. Please, do it.

    [–]reddumpling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    If you do, please x-post here for science.

    [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    I've been considering that as well. I feel like I have seen in the past that reactions are noticeable different.

    [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

    I would argue that the double standard in this instance IS a good thing. Don't create a false equivalency just to prove a point, where men are publicly shamed for dreading their bitch, as this will create even more of an aversion for the inadvertently unplugged dude towards swallowing TRP when he eventually finds his way here.

    Women are only capable of being invested in their relationships if they are being actively devalued and made to feel 'less than' via dread. It is only when she feels that her worth is significantly less than his, that she submits and frantically works to please him. Doing anything that might deter unplugged guys (who are used to following herd mentality) from dreading their chicks is a real disservice to men in general.

    [–]buddboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I just had that exact same thought

    [–]polakfury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    They always attack the guy lol. Seems a couple in reversed done like that as you said

    [–]thecajunone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Im pretty sure I've seen some troll threads like that years ago. You should bring it back. Someone please. I'm on mobile right now or I would.

    [–]vagbutters 27 points28 points  (0 children)

    They suck.

    That's an understatement given these cucks' double-standards and whiteknighting.

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Someone needs to do the experiment where they take this story, swap around the names and superficial details and change the gender to male and see what happens

    [–]NikoMyshkin 8 points9 points  (1 child)

    perhaps, this guy can go 'just have some fun' by hooking up on Tinder. it would be harmless fun; him just letting off steam - his wife should accept it right?

    somehow i think not. classic example of double-standards.

    [–]ObieUno 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    It's like we live in some kind of bizzaro world.

    Because we do. We live in a time where people justify their questionable behavior by pointing fingers at everyone else.

    "I'm not an asshole for parading around naked. You just lack the mental capacity or empathy to see that I'm just expressing my individuality/sexuality. There's nothing wrong with me, there's something wrong with you"

    This is the type of bullshit ammunition people load in their defensive shotgun on a daily basis.

    [–]yomo86 33 points34 points  (0 children)

    Game changer: he is ripped running around a nude beach, alone on a vacation, and the gf gets a pic from an unknown number with an emoji. "No honey, it is nothin' just boys being silly."

    [–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (1 child)

    I agree but i always take reddit comments with a grain of salt as i dont think they represent real life. Remember reddit is VERY feminist and mostly filled with nerds/whitenights while being VERY hive minded vs masculinity.

    Seeing replies really make me wonder what kind of guys are behind these whitenight replies lol. Its like the dumbass responses on askrreddit " what is ur favourite physical trait in men" and the top upvited post is a guy with a belly or a big nose . But we all know the woman who wrote that is possibly fat-ugly and is hamstering why shes attracted to her fat- ugly hushand. And ugly-fat guys upvote the shitout of it while downvoted hot woman who write abs ,height etc.

    Talk about this story in real life most people will be against the womans behaviour i guarantee it.

    [–]Magnum007 11 points12 points  (1 child)

    It's like we live in some kind of bizzaro world.

    It's not "like" we live in some bizzaro world. Look around you, it's now become obvious we do.

    It does however make things easier for us. We just have to do the complete opposite of everyone else and we are successful in our endeavours. There's no guesswork involved.

    [–]Terapia_Tapioco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    It's not even a RP vs. BP thing, it's about having some minimum level of self respect.

    To me, that's actually what TRP is all about: gaining self-respect again after you've been taught to be ashamed of being a man and of being yourself.

    The problem with Beta/NiceGuys etc. is IMHO the lack of self respect in the first place.

    But nitpicking aside, I totally agree, that comments are probably worse than the actualy situation that OP is in (assuming it really happened).

    [–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 48 points49 points  (3 children)

    We haven't been able to talk much because of the international phone calling fees are so high.

    Fake alert. Was this shit written in 1990?

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      [–]Tipsy_Gnostalgic 85 points86 points  (6 children)

      Compliment her on how gorgeous she is in the picture.

      Wew lad. That poster has no idea how old, fat, or ugly the OP's wife could be, but he assumed de facto that the wife is gorgeous. Chances are that she isn't ugly, seeing as she is all too eager to get naked in public, but that comment really is revealing of the Women Are Wonderful effect. Apparently women must be complimented before any problems are brought up.

      Now here's the key... don't freak out. [...] Don't do anything else remotely.

      Right, because men are not allowed to be critical to or angry towards women because vagina. Nevermind that she won't answer his calls. Or that she is doing all of this behind the husband's back. Don't get angry! Just bend over and take it like a good little bitch. Absolutely disgusting. What ever happened to having a little bit of self respect, instead of letting your partner treat you like a doormat?

      The icing on this shit sundae is the glaring double standard. They would be flipping their shit if a man went on a vacation, alone, and the wife suddenly received nudes. Shame

      [–]Magnum007 34 points35 points  (1 child)

      Chances are that she isn't ugly, seeing as she is all too eager to get naked in public.

      Never underestimate an ugly girl's will for attention. They'll go that extra mile to get anything when they can't get it by conventional means.

      [–]babybopp 17 points18 points  (0 children)

      Going to Mexico with my college association for foreign exchange made me realize how much dick swinging happens outside the country, even with girls in 'serious' relationships..

      [–]SitDownandPee 5 points6 points  (2 children)

      Regardless of how we analyze the post, they are suggesting that he hold frame when the topic comes up between the two of them. We should be able to recognize and acknowledge that as a tactic for winning an argument.

      [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      They are talking about holding frame by not freaking out, but compromising his views on this betrayal of his trust by complimenting her, instead of telling her that shit is not okay, is letting her enter his frame.

      [–]THE_CARDINAL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Agreed, there was a post on TRP just a couple days ago on how to hold frame when your gf or plate shit tests you by saying they are going to meet their ex.

      Flipping out while she's still there won't change ANYTHING. So stay calm and wait till she gets home to lay down the law about how that kind of behavior when not expressly consented to, is totally unacceptable in a relationship, especially a marriage.

      [–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang 51 points52 points  (7 children)

      Hilarious! And free bonus, one you might miss at first. When checking out the relationshits sub, always refer what is said to the poster screen name in a kind of zen way... You will be able to spot the females and categorize them solely by their names, since they're all the same with no imagination.

      You have the three major categories of relationshits woman, each with their own unique cute name (which is always the same):

      1. somethingpizza, somethingcake, somethingbacon, anything with food tucked on the end = always a fat chick

      2. anything with kitty or meow = the proverbial feminist cat lady, present or future.

      3. anything with "brat", "rebel", "wildthing" = the highest rung of woman on that subreddit, but alas it's still just your basic horrendously empowered and super-powered slut and not as exotic as it sounds.

      [–]redartist 18 points19 points  (3 children)

      Also, you can bet the farm that "brat", "rebel", etc. has at least some of the following:

      1)Piercing-you-know-where

      2)Hair color of a drug addict's vomit.

      3)Tattoos all over the place.

      [–]e4tshit 2 points3 points  (1 child)

      It's as if they have no idea what we find attractive. They see Angelina Jolie in "gone in 60 secs" or coyote ugly, then it's a trip to hot topic to try and emulate the "used up whore" look. Jesus, a whole generation of jenny's from forest gump. Anyone else notice how every 3rd profile on OKC or POF talks about their degree and how educated they are, as if that's ever gotten a guy hard.

      I'm starting to realize they have no idea so instead they just display their version of what they think we want. Also, can someone please explain to me why it is that Harley Quinn has become the unofficial slut mascot? What's the fascination? I keep hearing how anger is a phase but I gotta be honest guys, I'm seething with contempt the more I read. Right when I think I can't be anymore disgusted with people I read something even worse.

      [–]cashmoney_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Getting disgusted with nature is a waste of energy. It's just nature, like a wolf eating a sheep.

      [–]1ToSeeAndToHear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      I know girls with the handles "____ monster", "kitten ____ ," and "____ kitty" and you're spot on.

      [–][deleted] 123 points124 points  (38 children)

      Holy shit. That thread was so disappointing. I mean they seriously think it's fine for a wife to be naked in public without her husband around, at least.

      Plus, who is the one taking the fucking photo? That's what I want to know. I just find it interesting how they are acting like it could have been the wife and it was one of those apps that creates fake numbers. It's probably one of the dudes on that trip.

      [–][deleted] 57 points58 points  (10 children)

      its probably a fake story like most of the shit on that subreddit

      although the comments are still hilarious

      Now here's the key... don't freak out. Compliment her on how gorgeous she is in the picture. Don't do anything else remotely.

      "hey babe i got a random text of you with your tits out, you look great! save some of ramon's cum inside you so i can lick it out when you get home ;) "

      but let's be real. it's not like there were no signs she was this type of person before-hand. just because the beta ignored everything else and now that he's feeling jealous he's worried doesn't change anything.

      [–]woahyoungster345654 31 points32 points  (3 children)

      Compliment her on how gorgeous she is in the picture

      This really rustled my jimmies, I feel like this is the type of shit you would get if you google "how 2 get girlfriend" and a WikiHow article shows up.

      [–]Orig_analUse_rname 8 points9 points  (1 child)

      This was me at one point in time.

      [–]Pantek51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I think this was most of us. My ex gf was a suicide girl for fuck sake. Everyday I bless TRP. It stopped my torture

      [–]EarnThis21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

      "hey babe i got a random text of you with your tits out, you look great! save some of ramon's cum inside you so i can lick it out when you get home ;) "

      Fuckin lol'd hard. But yeah essentially that's exactly what this user was telling OP to do... smh man...

      [–]babybopp 2 points3 points  (3 children)

      Yes sounds fake but if it is real, I would fear for the guy. His explanation of getting sick and then better over and over might be his wife poisoning him or juicing him with some shit. Doctors don't even know what is wrong with him. Talking from the twilight zone, she just did not want him going with her. He says he 'forced her' to go without him. He does not realize how hard he was played to the point he thinks he was in control of the situation.

      Source: every episode of Deadly Women.

      [–]InterNetting 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      Could be true, what could she poison him with that doctors would not be able to identify?

      [–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (5 children)

      while it might just be her friend's phone, i still find it unbelievable that posters in relationshits think it's unreasonable for the guy to be a bit confused and paranoid about it. There's a good chance it'll turn out ok but the fact that a random number is texting you nudes of your wife is a bit alarming. At the very least you'd expect the number to say 'hey this is your wife's friend jill, check her out' , or something, ANYTHING. But there may be foul play here, seeing as how most women are always connected to their phones and it makes no sense to have someone else send nudes.

      [–]__ZEAL__ 13 points14 points  (2 children)

      It was probably one of the guys. Likely the one that's been drilling her.

      Edit: Or one of the men trying to open OP's eyes that his wife isn't who he thinks she is. OP is probably chock full of "women are wonderful" and blind to any red flags in his relationship.

      [–]CQC3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      Fucking hilarious. Just once I'd like to tell a mate he's getting cheated on by doing some spy level deepthroat shit. Give him a call with a voice masker on and leave him cryptic hints to decode.

      [–]oxykitten80mg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      OP probably thinks he is on top of his shit cause he has got a degree in gender studies! Hahaha

      [–]Nymdox 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      Or, it's an unknown number because one of the girls bought a SIM card at the airport.

      [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      yeah, I think that's more likely tbh. I'm just saying it's not hard to see why it'd shade someone out initially though. The idea that it's a guy sending them is pretty damn evil, and since we don't have any reason to believe the girl is that malicious, it's not exactly the most likely scneario

      [–]Day_C_Metrollin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

      Most women I know wouldn't send their husbands pics of their best friend along with them. Considering this photo had both women fully nude I doubt the wife would be totally cool sending it with no context.

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        [–]ChemistryKath 14 points15 points  (4 children)

        Seriously, Occam's razor? You're assuming it was a guy, you're assuming they were fucking.

        [–]Sementeries 1 point2 points  (2 children)

        Always assume the worst. And even then, the wife has her tits out in public.

        [–]politisch_inkorrekt 22 points23 points  (2 children)

        In my experience of the "friendship" between women, I thought it was one of her friends, just to fuck up their relationship.

        [–]woahyoungster345654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        That was my first thoughts, we really can't tell because we don't know all the details, but it's extremely fishy either way, but the fact that she is ignoring her sick husband all week is not comforting at all.

        [–]wisty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

        AWALT does not mean all women are shit. AWALT means that men (and a lot of women) will put up with a ton of bullshit before actually saying "Wait, this woman is a total trainwreck (or at least, grossly overvalued)".

        Plenty of women have a conscience (just like they often have brains, even if they don't use them).

        One of her friends could have thought that her husband actually deserved to know about what was going on. Yeah, it's possible there was a bit of jealously as well, but I'd say it's actually a friend trying not to raise a red flag on the trainwreck.

        Or it was a massive shittest by the wife.

        [–]Corndog_Enthusiast 47 points48 points  (4 children)

        Not only that, but she totally gave the dude her husband's #. They both know what game they're playing.

        [–]__ZEAL__ 22 points23 points  (3 children)

        Or, the guy took the picture with her phone, looked in her texts and sent it to OP as a "dude. your wife is shit, open your eyes". OP is probably completely blind to any red flags that his wife has, still subscribing to "women are wonderful".

        I bet his wife has no idea that the guy even sent the picture at all, if that's actually the case. Especially if she was drunk and not paying attention.

        [–]life036 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        OP said it came from a number he didn't recognize.

        [–]yomo86 3 points4 points  (1 child)

        The good willed asshole gave his former competitor a chance to not be a cuck. Cuck to be asks the most feminized sub how to handle this warning. Cucked over 9000.

        [–]Hateblade 5 points6 points  (1 child)

        Sounds like Chad is trying to be a bro and let him know his wife ain't loyal.

        [–]Zombocom1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        It totally depends on the husband and how permissive he is, I think that being married, he has every right to object to certain behavior that he doesn't like.

        [–]tb87670 74 points75 points  (21 children)

        Fucker is going to be Darwinism'd because his genes won't pass on. He will raise another man's child while being told by the bitch and the state that it's legally his.

        [–]MakeEmSayAyy 3 points4 points  (8 children)

        This is bad now, but as I said in one of my previous comments, this is self correcting. Nature doesn't fuck around.

        The gene to be susceptible to women's bullshit and society's brainwashing is going to correlate with not getting to reproduce very heavily.

        And soon men will be resistent to women's shit.

        [–]tb87670 27 points28 points  (7 children)

        The problem isn't genetic. It's social conditioning causing the current conditions, hypergamy is rewarded instead of controlled nowadays which is leading to men who have successful genes of the past being considered unattractive by lower-grade women. A 5 thinks she deserves an 8 nowadays, and for her to date a man that is a 5 she considers herself 'settling' and will never be happy. Back in the day a female 5 was happy with a male 5 because the male would protect her and give her resources, nowadays women have access to resources on their own due to the abundance prior generations of men have built up and the women over-inflate what they are worth. And they are worth jack-shit the way they act these days, unable to cook, unable to clean, wanting the father to rear the children as well as work a full-time job, the average woman today barely resembles the feminine ladies of the past.

        [–]NikoMyshkin 1 point2 points  (1 child)

        this guy gets it. they condition men from birth to be slaves to women

        [–]MakeEmSayAyy 1 point2 points  (3 children)

        i guess, but at some level some people ARE more likely to be open to the redpill. it will come down to how your brain can handle brainwashing if the information is available to you?

        men who cannot accept "happy lies" will be the ones passing on their genes. depressed realists will probably become more common as a result.

        [–]tb87670 2 points3 points  (2 children)

        I was one of these guys. Social upbringing told me X, but back of my head knew something was wrong. Mid-20's and was still a virgin (fixed this last fall quicker than expected thx TRP) yet doing what everyone said my whole life to get a girl literally got zero result. I always knew something was wrong just couldn't point it out. This is why the Matrix is used as an analogy so much. Once I stumbled upon TRP my curiosity was peaked, I took The Red Pill, and my eyes have been opened.

        I actually think a fairly large number of the male population would take to TRP if exposed to it. Most guys simply never hear of it or literally hear the letters Tee-Ar-Pee and think nothing of it and continue on their business. Right now it's too dangerous to be public about TRP, so it's not our job to expose a large amount of the male populace to TRP. It's our job to improve ourselves and our own lot in life. Continue adding to the knowledgebase with cumulative experience of all members and keep building to the core theories discussed here.

        [–]TheAntiZealot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        I had to leave a 8.5 year relationship and a 3 year marriage before I finally got laid last fall. So yea... I got feels for ya, man. :P

        Good on you.

        [–]EvrythingISayIsRight 41 points42 points  (3 children)

        IMO after she gets back just ask her "did anything happen on the trip?" Of course shes going to leave that part out, so you gotta look her in the eye and say "I'm giving you one chance to tell me the truth. Did anything happen that I should know about?" And if she denies it, show her the picture and ask her why she lied to you.

        If she'd lie about or omit getting naked on a beach (pretty big fucking detail), she'd lie about anything. If you can't trust your bitch, then your relationship means nothing.

        Oh well though, OP is already married for years and most likely he paid for the entirety of that trip. GG, don't get married. You lose your biggest weapon: walking away.

        [–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

        His wife, wife, goes on vacation to a foreign country without him. That right their is enough to tell me that this marriage was a horrible mistake. Hopefully they don't have kids who will suffer because dude married an adulterous whore

        [–]WhiteKnightFgt 37 points38 points  (0 children)

        What a cuck. That post is just sad.

        [–][deleted]  (25 children)

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        [–]light_fourbetting 19 points20 points  (2 children)

        She didn't want to go without him too. I always read these from a redpill perspective, but this story doesn't seem super bad.

        This seems like something that might be more accepted in Europe and there's a bunch of us Yanks over here seeing it differently. No, I wouldn't be okay with my lady doing this shit, but I wouldn't put my money on her banging someone else just because of these pictures.

        [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

        Nope, European here, have gone to nudey places with my wife. If I got that message in those circumstances we are having issues, also my wife is not sending me nudes of her friends.

        [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (16 children)

        Why on heart a cheating wife would send

        Because they are not from her?

        I got a text from a number I didn't recognize 3 hours ago. There was a smiley face, no other text and an attached picture.

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          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          If she can upload a photo to a message, she is sober enough to use a phone and compose a message.

          It's equivalent to sending just a dick pic on the beach with strangers by unknown number. What is my partner/girlfriend etc...going to assume?

          [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (13 children)

          Who are they from if they're not from her? How would the person who sent them have OP's number and why would that person send those pictures in the first place? If it is someone else, it's been given with OP's wife's permission in all likelihood. Maybe it's bad judgement from the guy's wife to have done it, probably, but grounds for divorce? Are you guys retarded?

          [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (12 children)

          Who are they from if they're not from her?

          The person taking the photo...

          it's been given with OP's wife's permission in all likelihood

          So she requested it to be taken? Why? If you read the full context, the guy couldn't go because he was unwell. Is this supposed to make him feel any better by missing out on an awesome beach vacation with his wife, funny way to go about it, don't you think?

          OP even added that a second picture of wife's butt being photographed and sent with another blank message and all attempts at communication are not being answered or deliberately diverted due to keeping the cell on airplane mode.

          My wife is keeping her cell on airplane mode and just using it for pictures and keeping time. I tried calling the room, but there is no answer.

          OP goes on to explain their reluctance and hesitation at getting topless/intimate in public because of job insecurity -

          could lose her job over pictures like that

          So, again, why is she posing and agreeing to be photographed topless if it jeopardizes her employment?

          Maybe it's bad judgement from the guy's wife to have done it, probably, but grounds for divorce?

          Bad judgement? What possible reason has she got to photograph topless for a complete stranger?

          Of course, she could fish out any number of excuses when she returns and answers his concerns, but the trust in that marriage is GONE. And it ain't coming back.

          [–]polu85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          Especially with HIS best friend there, guys are acting like fuckin teenage girls in this sub

          [–]__ZEAL__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          Because it was probably sent by one of the men that went with her and her friend.

          [–]Ntghgthdgdcrtdtrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Yeah it looks like an American response to nude beaches. They are much more prevalent in europe and peoples in the nude community aren't very keen on peoples doing it for sexual gratification.

          [–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 55 points56 points  (41 children)

          For a German it sounds pretty ridiculous to connect being nude at the beach with sexuality and frankly said your American puritanism amuses me.

          It reads to me as it would read to you, when it would be about a Taliban getting pumped about his wife not getting permission to take off her burka in her holidays.

          Control your woman, otherwise you are the definition of a cuck.

          That really tops it off and gives me cringes. Not only does it show insecuirity, but it also shows illusion.

          You cannot control another person. You can only control yourself. Control per sé is an illusion. There is none. There are chances and odds, nothing more.

          [–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (8 children)

          Fuck it I'm an American puritan then.

          If my wife is naked on a beach without me - we're getting divorced - at minimum there are HUGE FUCKING TROUBLES happening.

          Period end of story.

          Either she respects me or she doesn't.

          I'm not seeking to control her, but I'm not going to live with and be married to someone who thinks this is OK. That's just my value.

          I was a bartender on a resort island for a number of years - do you know how many German and German-Swiss women I saw come to the United States and get their brains fucked out on the beach? So so many bro. I should know I fucked my share of European tourist ladies and they weren't always single.

          "Nude Culture" is totally sexual. Every nude beach I ever saw ALWAYS had a group of regulars who were into group sex and polyamory. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. They might not be getting down right then and there in the daylight hours - but you can bet your life on the fact that social meeting place was a conduit to the orgy parties happening that you don't see out in the open.

          Whenever I see the enlightened pretense put on permissive behavior - it's always bullshit. You can't call it out directly because you'll tsk-tsk'd by people such as yourself claiming it to be something completely cool and innocent - but it's never totally cool and innocent.

          A woman frolicking naked on a beach in a foreign country is looking to get fucked.

          HELLO? BUELLER? BUELLER? IS THIS THING ON?

          [–]Endorsed Contributorsqerl 13 points14 points  (3 children)

          For a German it sounds pretty ridiculous to connect being nude at the beach with sexuality and frankly said your American puritanism amuses me.

          While I agree, context is important. Having been on a European vacation where nudity and toplessness was the norm, it was sexless. Meaning, i saw naked women (and men), without it having any sexual connotation.

          However, it becomes sexual when some dude hits on a woman (your wife/gf/SO). This is where the context changes and where behaviour changes. Now the situation goes from "being naked on the beach" to "naked in a sexual situation" and where the slippery slope begins.

          Case in point, my ex went in vacation by herself. Bought the tiniest bikinis imaginable. I too received pictures of her on the beach, having fun. Was told some guy came up to her and said, "I just HAD to introduce myself..." why? Because she was nearly naked, that's why. He took the pics, she spent nearly the entire day with him, and when pressed for specifics, I was told "if you wanted to know exactly what happened, you should have been there." That's the moment she was "nexted".

          Look, I get it. We should be able to trust our SO and not have jealousy and let our wonderful women do whatever they want. Sure sounds like a perfect world - to women. Men need to establish boundries and standards then uphold those standards. If they're disrespected, walk away. But don't disrespect other men that want some level of comfort knowing their woman isn't a cheating whore. Men should assume AWALT so as not to have their expectations shattered.

          You cannot control another person. You can only control yourself. Control per sé is an illusion. There is none. There are chances and odds, nothing more.

          Agreed. The expression of human sexuality and it's acceptance is a complex dynamic. It's difficult to bridge the gap between social conditioning and our lizard brains. Wanting emotional security is the tripping point behind many of the control issues we see. Control your own emotions to see the expressions in others. Then learn to influence your environment to get the results you want.

          [–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 10 points11 points  (2 children)

          The problem started much much earlier. The moment your woman wants to go on vacation without you is the moment to overthink your relationship.

          [–]Endorsed Contributorsqerl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

          The problem started much much earlier. The moment your woman wants to go on vacation without you is the moment to overthink your relationship.

          Absolutely. That was a tough lesson to learn. I only wish I had found TRP years ago. It's the only place I've found that discusses this shit.

          [–]PaulAJK 6 points7 points  (0 children)

          For a German it sounds pretty ridiculous to connect being nude at the beach with sexuality and frankly said your American puritanism amuses me.

          Yeah, that's fair enough, but the guy in the thread obviously is American, and public nudity isn't common amongst Americans like it is among central Europeans. A naked German woman on a beach doesn't mean it's it likely she's cheating, whereas in the States it's different.

          [–]ben0wn4g3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

          Yeah the naked thing...who cares. But the messages is the problem here.

          [–]1WeedDaddy 12 points13 points  (1 child)

          Germany is merely a feminized society. Men have nothing to gain from women parading around nude. But women can use it as an "innocent" way of disrespecting their father or husband.

          [–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

          While the first words of your sentence are true, the rest is pathetic. The so called "Freikörperkultur" (roughly translates to naked body culture) is not something new and has never been about sex or showing anything off. If you'd ever been to one of those beaches or camping areas and had seen the saggy meat, you'd also know.

          It's connected to the sauna culture. If you'd go into the sauna wearing anything else than a towel, you'd be friendly told to leave. Yet sauna visits do not frequently end in gang bangs.

          I for example will also frequently ride my bike to a semi-legal beach at the Rhine and I solely go there to let my schlong get some sun are bath it in the river.

          You should try that too. It will help you with your American puritanism.

          [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          I have a European wife and she wouldn't think of being nude in public. I've been to European beaches, the only women going nude were single mothers, I wonder why.

          Except I don't wonder. AWALT, regardless of country. Your libertine cover is about as transparent as r relationships'.

          [–]marianasentmenudes 1 point2 points  (5 children)

          Lol. Have an LTR and let her be nude at nude beach then. Come back with your findings.

          [–]el_beso_negro 1 point2 points  (2 children)

          Thank you for providing the most slutty DTF bitches on the planet. Yep your women folk sure do help me better my notch count.

          Good news is these gals will go back home and marry your cousin, best friend, neighbor.

          I get to pump & dump. Cheers.

          [–]MakeEmSayAyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          ok but a ton of the people responding think he's an American and read it like us, absolutely connecting nude beach and sexuality.

          Sub is super cucked.

          [–]__ZEAL__ 3 points4 points  (4 children)

          The only control there is, is being a great enough man that they wouldn't do stuff like this and risk losing you. That's about it.

          [–]deathbear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          This and the comment above, gives me hope, yes that lady is dumb AF, but u can control yourself to move on and make sure shit like that doesn't happen again.

          [–]Grimsterr 1 point2 points  (2 children)

          To a German, though, this is simply "a picture of my wife at the beach having fun with her friends" and nothing more.

          [–]TheAntiZealot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Is she German? Is her man German? Are they living in Germany?

          [–]lost6146 6 points7 points  (0 children)

          Stories like this amaze me. Before TRP, I would have agreed with the cucks because of the social programming. She's just having fun. Women are moral and blameless. Right. Ever since taking the red pill, the curtain has been pulled back and I can clearly see the truth. Everywhere. Feminism and BP programming, while illogical, destructive, and toxic, are brilliant psychological tactics. Socially program men to suppress masculinity, worship women, and accuse all men of of being immoral sexual deviants. Meanwhile back in reality, the little wife is sucking off Chad while topless on a beach with her girlfrands'.

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          [–]MakeEmSayAyy 5 points6 points  (2 children)

          The women KNOW to give him bullshit and that he's a beta just by reading this.

          An RP man would KNOW what to do. He'd KNOW that when she gets back her bags are packed and divorce is already underway with the pictures saved as evidence.

          Honestly if you're posting on that sub they know you're a beta loser.

          [–]Complexifier 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          Nothing says alpha like flipping your shit over a little nudity. Are you a teenager or just stupid?

          [–]Dystaxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Right? The only way to secure your LTR is to divorce over a picture she sent you of her and her best friend nude. What the fuck...

          [–]johnyann 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          [–]mnemos_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Thought of this almost immediately while reading.

          [–]Overzealous_BlackGuy 10 points11 points  (5 children)

          Maybe it's just me and fuck me for having a different opinion, but I don't think this was that serious, assuming one of her female friends took the photo.

          The random number part doesn't make anysense unless , like another redditor pointed out, it was a web-text service, which in that case would make sense.

          If you go to a nude beach whever everyone is nude and your with family and friends, then be nude. I woud have enough confidence in myself that it wouldn't bother me, but I also know if I'm sick and down, my wife wouldn't be on vacation that I paid for. while I'm at home couging up a lung.

          I learned in TRP a long time ago, that if soemone is going to cheat, there isn't anything you can do about it. Don't be ignorant to it, but if theres some solid proof then handle it. otherwise worrying about a cheating partner only makes it worse. I'd send a thumbs up emoji to that same number and keep it pushing, or at the very fucking least say "who's this?"

          It's very possible I have a loose view on faithfulness, but to me worrying about this shit never works. I just keep faith in my value and always keep plates spinning even in a relationship. If she gets caught I shift plates until I find another main piece.

          [–]__ZEAL__ 4 points5 points  (2 children)

          One possibility is that it was one of the men that went on the trip with them. He grabbed her phone, took the picture, then decided to send it to the husband showing what little respect his wife has for him. Could be looking out for OP.

          I've never been in a relationship with a woman who would okay with me seeing her best friend naked. And I've dated some pretty far out there women(not seriously dated, of course). Even when threesomes happened, anyone that they knew were off the table and it was always a woman that we picked up from a bar.

          The whole post just seems sketchy to me. I tried thinking of harmless reasons for it to happen, and nothing really makes sense on the positive side of things(from what context of their relationship was shown). I'm willing to bet one of the guys was trying to warn OP. Like how some guys leave a note under the second part of the toilet seat letting the BF know that his GF is cheating on him.

          [–]ChrisBenRoy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

          I think the seeing her best friend naked part is key. I remember a time in my last LTR where my g/f and her friend were getting ready to go out, and were in the bedroom trying to find clothes to wear. They were in there for a DICK YEAR and I needed something out of the room so I walked in, to which my g/f got pissed because they "might have been changing" and I replied "well, it's my house and my room, so get over it."

          [–]__ZEAL__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Yep, exactly. They can be pretty fierce about removing any kind of competition. If she was sending her husband pics like that, he's so whipped that she has absolutely no fear of losing him from it.

          [–]drakpanther 7 points8 points  (1 child)

          this is the one of the only RP answer in this whole thread. Tired of puritanical pussies painting their insecurities as red pill.

          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Is it so puritanical to not want your wife wandering around naked in a foreign country without you?

          [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

          I actually wouldnt have a problem with my LTR getting naked with her BFF, if I was around and ended up fucking her silly later that night, knowing that her "bff" is probably jacking off to the thought of her.

          What I actually think is the real problem, is that she left him sick and weak to go have fun. Then she doesnt contact him (wifi+whatsapp) and then gets busted by a 3rd party getting naked at the beach.

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            [–]HomeHeatingTips 2 points3 points  (1 child)

            What do ya do though? really? Do you divorce her because she went to a nude beach without you? you do "punish" her, cry about it and show how insecure you are about your relationship? Like, other than just moving on with your life with her what do you do?

            [–]hhamama66 11 points12 points  (1 child)

            Triple penetration guaranteed.

            [–]Godtiermasturbator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

            That's the first thing I thought of. Both chicks were probably airtight on that trip.

            [–]grussvegas 3 points4 points  (1 child)

            I'm used to feminists making excuses for everything women do, but honestly, I did not fucking expect THIS. This is fucking pathological. A guy gets pics of his naked wife from random, unknown to him numbers, and jesus fuck HIS WIFE DOESN'T RESPOND AT ALL TO HIS CALLS, NEITHER DO HER FRIENDS.

            I've learned that most cucks like this are just hopeless, so his wife's behaviour doesn't even get me angry, I only cringe every single time I see something like that. But fucking hell, the comments on this post are reeeeeeaally disgusting.

            [–]jbuttons2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

            This is why you don't get married, so you can drop a bitch the moment she starts acting out of line and you don't need to go through the bureaucracy of divorce.

            [–]Askada 5 points6 points  (3 children)

            100% chance the dude who was making the photos sent it to him.

            Reasons? Bragging, bantering, eye opening or just a mix of those.

            If for some reason he hadn't fucked OP's wife before the photo, he definitely would have that evening.

            Also, phone in perma airplane mode when her husband is sick/in hospital. Fucking laughable.

            [–]drakpanther 1 point2 points  (2 children)

            People just don't casually send evidence of affairs. That shits costs money and it can be fucking messy. What you are saying makes zero sense. Is it more likely that his wife sent it to him for a little thrill because she feels bad hes not there? or that another dude somehow got the other guys phone number, and went out of his way to send this nude? it doesn't make any fucking sense. this paranoid, insecure bullshit is BLUE PILL. its EUROPE for fucks sake. there are nude beachs everywhere. its not a sexualized thing there. there only thing suspect here is that she is not contacting him. you better believe if my bitch is on vacation without me she is checking in everynight and morning.

            [–]audscias 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            It's funny how you think Europe is a constant fuck-fest or that nudity is never sexual and we walk the streets bare assed. I'm from Spain, you can go nude on any beach you feel without any problems. Have done it multiple times (alone or not). Yet OP's story would have made me next the bitch. That's it.

            [–]Momo_dollar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

            He should save the number and randomly call it in a few weeks from his wife's phone or any number other than his own .

            [–]1DetectiveDing-Daaahh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            It blows my mind how far cucked this poor shmuck is, but something tells me there were many times before where she "met an ex for drinks, NOTHING happened, baaabe!" or that she hangs out with her guy friends (former fuckbuddies) without him and he's none the wiser because "Ugh, that was in the past! He's like my brotherr nowww!!"

            [–]Vajesticles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

            I'm so happy I eventually realized how cancerous the relationshits subreddit was when I was going through my own drama.

            For months I browsed and read that subreddit religiously thinking it would make me feel better when it was only making me feel worse.

            [–]polu85 3 points4 points  (1 child)

            How is this a big deal?? So she's naked at a beach...and? I highly highly doubt she is cheating on him while HIS best friend is there, her sister, etc.

            If she's cheating, dump her. If not, then don't get upset at a woman for acting like a silly woman. They will always do dumb shit.

            Do you think a guy like Brad Pitt cares that people see his wife's tits? Of course not, he knows his place and if she crosses a line it's over. If she doesn't cross a line it's not worth getting angry over.

            [–]___Jamie___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            Unrelated: please post a reddit link as well. Some are on mobile here...

            [–]prodigy2throw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            The relationships sub is outrage porn. Don't waste too much time on analyzing that shit show

            [–]uxeazy 1 point2 points  (2 children)

            How would one control their woman?

            [–]TRPtruth 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            It would be really helpful if when these types of posts come up that we have a "natural blood alpha" give the proper response or advice on how to handle that particular example, maybe even a flair "correct alpha response" if the response is deemed the best by the community.

            I'm still on my journey and when these posts come up I oftentimes scratch my head and wonder what the proper response to this stupid behavior is . . . Unless you are a natural its good to get concrete examples of situations and proper response. And I don't see much of a purpose to these posts other than to make my blood boil and constantly remind us that monkey's gonna branch swing.

            [–]DrMrPepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            I have lived abroad for years.

            If you are in ANY kind of civilized country, they have wifi.

            Bum fuck Southeast Asia had wifi.

            If they have wifi, there is no excuse not to call. Skype is free when calling another Skype number and cheap as hell if you aren't.

            The guy is rationalizing his worries away. Or at least trying to.

            [–]broken26 5 points6 points  (5 children)

            Thought I would expect more logic here.

            I'm from a European country where nudity literally means nothing. Saunas aren't considered sexual where both parties female and male friends and family all go in naked.

            In the U.S. this is taboo, but in Europe its the human body. Everyone's who is a guy has a dick, everyone who is a woman has tits. Europe everyone is desensitized to it. So if this woman is at a nude beach its fucking normal. The only problem here is the husband is BP in getting angry over it when he should just go DREAD and not care; and the stalker sending nudes about the wife when the husband doesn't know the dude.

            [–]yendorion 4 points5 points  (4 children)

            You cannot state that for whole Europe, the subject of nudity is actually a very delicate to taboo issue in most of southern/eastern Europe even more than the US. It's even starting to come in question in otherwise more 'liberated' parts of Europe.

            Source: I'm southern European.

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              [–]melb22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

              Chances are that even if she is not cheating she is psychologically withdrawing from the marriage. Absolutely correct that he should trust his gut instinct.

              [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

              Aside from her being a grotesque post wall slut, she's apparently a shit for brains too. She's a fucking school teacher doing this shit?! She deserves for that shit to spread like wildfire so she loses her job. She has no business working around children being that negligent. Even for cucked SJW's this would have to be a bridge too far. The fact that she would put their overall income and standard of living in jeopardy by publicly flaunting her nasty, post wall gash, shows what a narcissistic loser this is. He should have the divorce papers drawn and waiting for her on the kitchen counter when she gets home with all her shit packed and situated by the door.

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              [–]Endorsed ContributorObio1 15 points16 points  (2 children)

              I love the part about not being able to talk much because "international fees are so high".

              Uh... What year is this? Skype, Messenger, FaceTime, LINE and a zillion other apps let you video chat for free. (Which is better than a phone call anyway).

              This chick made a ridiculous excuse for not wanting to talk and this cuck bought it without questioning it.

              [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Bitches will find a way. She will lie to every and anyone - friends, family, and coworkers - for a man that she wants bad enough. Believe me. Women operate based off emotion. We at TRP know this..

              If she doesn't, it's because she doesn't want to, not because of whatever number of inane bullshit excuses she throws at you.

              Bonus points if she comes up with extra excuses whenever you brush aside one of her other excuses.

              Him: "I'll go with you guys."

              Her: "Nah, the promotional price is only for two and Julie already asked and I told her yes."

              Him: "It's fine, I don't mind paying extra."

              Her: "Well, there are only two beds in the room."

              Him: "No worries. You know I sleep on floors like a baby from my military days."

              Her: "Yeah... but Julie isn't going to want you there in the room with us."

              Him: "Well I suppose I can get the room next door to y'all"

              Her: "It's totally booked up.. I think."

              Him: "AirBNB has a great deals. I'll look into them"

              Her: "Fine! But I already made plans to hang out with Julie!"

              The truth finally trickles out. It's definitely not the whole truth..

              Bottom line: She doesn't want your ass there. If she did, she would move heaven and earth for it.

              Bonus: If she is moving heaven and earth to make this trip happen and exclude you from it, it's probably for a guy.

              [–]APotter12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              He's probably a cuck who thought Brexit came into effect immediately.

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              [–]juliusstreicher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

              Compliment her on how gorgeous she is in the picture.

              Darlin', you're the prettiest whore on the beach!

              I don't give a fuck how many texting apps there are, I am curious how the mystery benefactor got husband's number.

              So, what should hubby do? He should print the pic out, and frame it and put it in the living/bedroom. Ask wife if she sent it to see if he would like a threesome. Divorce whore, and fuck wife's bf.

              [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

              I doubt she did stuff like this when they were just girlfriend and boyfriend. Hey, Imma get ass naked in front of everybody because reasons. Let your guy friends see my pussy and my tits because female empowerment. And Imma need you to be okay with that, cool? Its not like I don't completely have you by the balls or anything anyway.

              [–]-888- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              I'm not a red-piller, but in my experience, if something seems amiss then it probably is. I just can't tell from here if something seems amiss.

              [–]IronMeltsinmyHands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Holy shit! The amount of bullshit bitches throw out is fucking nonsensical.

              See the shit for what it is. Anything and everything you hear about bitches or anything that tells you to calm down, don't listen to it.

              I mean, women on one hand want to not be called bossy, emotional, or overreacting.

              On the other hand, they want to control your emotions like bossy, emotionally manipulative cunts.

              Fuck. And don't get fucked.

              [–]RPthrowaway123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              I can't believe that anyone would think its okay for chicks to just walk around tits out and not even contact the man who they swore to love for the rest of their life. What a fucking sham of a society we live in.

              [–]stolen_loom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              That fucking relationship is over. Only a moron would trust her after that.

              [–]why_not_alt 2 points3 points  (4 children)

              There are three women on the trip and two in the picture.

              The women had some drinks and went to a nude beach while the three guys went golfing or drank by the pool. OPs sister-in-law took the picture and texted it to him. She's using one of those cheap international SIMs, so the number is different.

              WTF is wrong with you paranoid losers.

              [–]Complexifier 2 points3 points  (1 child)

              WTF is wrong with you paranoid losers.

              So, so much. This sub is full of sad, paranoid, man-children.

              [–]drakpanther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

              Agreed. WTF happened here. Did all the real RP men move on and now we are left with a bunch of stupid insecure teenagers who recently found this sub? I thought TRP was about confidence, personal growth and outcome independence. Not be controlling and paranoid.

              [–]MakeEmSayAyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Holy fucking shit, I used to think that sub was bad before.

              It's getting more cuck'd as time goes on and they ban anyone who ever posted a rational response to female whoreness.

              [–]BigRedRobyn -3 points-2 points  (15 children)

              How fucking pathetic and insecure are you dudes?

              [–]MakeEmSayAyy 4 points5 points  (2 children)

              Come on guys it's insecure not to let your wife fuck random guys you should love it. who cares if you're raising someone else's kid guys it's not a big deal just accept her for who she is come on really so pathetic LOL

              [–]__ZEAL__ 5 points6 points  (6 children)

              Yeah, not wanting a low quality woman with terrible behaviour isn't insecurity. It's having standards. Sorry that you are below those standards I guess.

              [–]Ou-tis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              A woman (almost) care about something only for the consequences.The same situation it's happened to my female neighbor,she went in vacation with family and went topless on the beach.Unfortunatly for her,a friend of her boyfriend was in the same place. She lied to him,women often lie without a secon thought.They just care the consequences.

              [–]CriminalMacabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              First error is to share it in reddit. It's a goddamn private affair.

              [–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              Being sexual is vastly different for women. Guys have to be active to be sexual. That's why we promote lifting and increasing testosterone. It's why you will find that men cheat less often despite their libido. This is also traced back to the sexual fantasy's each sex has.

              Women fantasize about being taken in ludicrous ways and exciting spots. This is female sexual psychology showing you the truth. If you're horny and want to fuck being a guy- you don't just whip out your cock at a nude beach and wait. But that is exactly what a woman does.

              That's why you should watch her actions and not her words. Girls will always tell you their innocent and well behaved loyal bitches. But look again, does she post sexually enticing pictures on social media? How visible are her ass and tits on a casual work day? Does she wear lipstick often? Does she appear to flaunt herself when your not around?

              This girl went to Tahiti beach, got all hot and bothered due to the sun and can't think off nothing else but foreign cock(s) slamming into her. So she took out her tits, exposed her poon and found the attention of some Amigos.

              Women take no agency when cheating. Which is why you should spread the seed having zero guilt.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              I like that he complained about high cost international phone calls in an age of free VoIP soultions.

              [–]BluntMFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              /u/Imflippinoutwtf you so stupid

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

              This is obviously home culture specific. If a woman from the US does this, then it means something different than a woman from a culture where public nudity is more common. I guess it goes to show my acculturation to the US that I don't see the point of going to a beach and getting naked around a bunch of strangers.

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