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Red Pill TheoryYou will need to have your shit together to get it with women - not the other way around (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by argcisman

So you think by getting a girlfriend your whole life will magically turn around. That you and her will live happily ever after in a land far, far away. That she will fix all your problems, help you with your harmful addictions, your insecurities and you will have nothing to worry about since you and her are finally together. This is all false.

I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard Morty then it slowly fades leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are going to do it. Break the cycle Morty, rise above, focus on yourself.

Successful men get it with women because they are successful. Women don't want to be your mom. Women want a successful man who has his shit together, someone who is confident in himself. Hell you can mow lawns and still get bitches wet just because you are so passionate and confident in what you are doing. Women don't have the same passion as we men do when it comes to doing things and really putting time and effort towards a goal. (This is one of many things what women find so scary but at the same time so unbelievably sexy in us men).

They want someone whose first priority is himself, not her or anyone else. It doesn't matter how much she begs and pleads you to not go out with the boys tonight, she is just testing you to see if you actually are the man she thought you were. Don't give in to the crocodile tears, ever.

And by having your shit together means a different thing depending on previous boyfriends and the age of the woman. The higher N-Count and the higher the age of the woman the more shit you will have to have. Such as a nice car or an apartment. Young women are usually happy with you either being fit, popular or rich since they haven't had much experience and don't know how much they actually can get with just their pussy, or even more with a cute face on top of that.

Keep yourself the number one priority and improve yourself most of your time awake. Women will slip and land on your dick sooner than you think.


[–]atraw 309 points310 points  (34 children)

Women want powerful Men. Men want Power. That's all you need to know about relationships.

[–]Frigzy 91 points92 points  (23 children)

Blue pilled men pretend they transcend the struggle for power.

[–]analyticaltoafault 105 points106 points  (8 children)

Nietzsche is very relevant here.

When they hide behind virtue, they are only hiding their cowardice and fear of failure in one form or another.

[–]Frigzy 60 points61 points  (2 children)

Their male hamster is fit as fuck.

[–]enkae7317 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But not fit in the right ways.

[–]neoagoge 0 points1 point  (2 children)

This is very interesting -- which of his writings pertain to this point? I'd like to read more.

[–]analyticaltoafault 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm remembering right, I believe this specific idea is in Beyond Good and Evil.

You should just read Nietzsche anyway lol. Philosophy is as important as the actions based upon it.

[–]ned_ludd_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on the genealogy of morals and BGAE are good places to start, but it's pretty much the crux of his thought

[–][deleted] 76 points77 points  (9 children)

I have a blue-pilled friend who pridefully says "I am a loser, I am weak. That is what I decided to be. That is why I am more powerful than power-hungry men. They are led by their hunger, but I lead myself."

Cool story bro...

[–]6ix_ 42 points43 points  (6 children)

lol someones been watching too much naruto

[–]memz369 10 points11 points  (4 children)

Don't insult Naruto like that

[–]lIlIIIlll 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Anime is for children. Sorry.

[–]ZombieMushroom420 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You probably think remote control helicopters are lame too. Smh

[–]6ix_ 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Im actually a fan. I just don't act like one of the characters. Lol

[–]memz369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that's fair, not every character can be that great

[–]mill58 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually anime characters are alpha as fuck...

[–]Rhynovirus 19 points20 points  (1 child)

By being friendzoned by the likes of that dreadlocked hairy porno girl who got KOed at the Trump rally? Those guys are great, they listen to all the bullshit we don't have time for after we're done fucking their friends.

[–]jeffwingersballs 20 points21 points  (0 children)

that dreadlocked hairy porno girl who got KOed at the Trump rally

You can just say moldy locks

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love when people try to argue that the path to obtaining power is pure evil.

Wrong, power is neither good nor evil, its amoral. It cares not for the means upon which it is obtained, it merely makes the world go round and round.

Those who obtain power will reap the benefits, and those who don't wield it will sit around bitching about those who do out of fear. Be the former, not the latter.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is weirdly true. Source: Blue pill suppositories

[–]aanarchist 3 points4 points  (2 children)

it's the other way around. men want women, women want power, so men gather power to get the women. i don't think any dude would ever give a shit except in a world that revolves around power.

[–]iiaGrer 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Really? You have no other desires in life then women? I hope this is sarcasm.

[–]aanarchist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasn't speaking about myself, this is the male collective i'm describing.

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    [–]supremelummox 4 points5 points  (4 children)

    She's wired to desire the beta too?Or she is wired to desire for the alpha to want to keep her around too?

    [–]_the_shape_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

    The beta is the fluffy pillow always there for her to lay her head on, the gooey gummy bears she mindlessly chews up, the male version of her female buddy who listens to her whine and cry about anything and everything (sometimes even about maltreatment from Chad)

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      [–]AncientScrolls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

      Right...

      Tell that to the rich kids in prep schools that can ace tests and at the same time be popular or the high school popular quarterbacks, that even if they arent the smartest people around with the best gpas they are still able to go to good colleges by getting an athlete's scholarship.

      [–]1OneRedYear 133 points134 points  (2 children)

      My Dad always said, the rich man got a wife and the janitor got a wife. Don't worry about getting a wife.

      [–]LaMaverice 40 points41 points  (1 child)

      This is exactly right. The broad generalization here is a tad laughable.

      It's not every woman that necessarily wants the power-hungry executive. Some women think men like that are repulsive and arrogant. Some of those women are quite attractive.

      You can make all the money you want and attract the hottest chick you want, it doesn't mean that you'll love or value each other by the time you're 5 years into a marriage, with one child and another on the way and she can take half your worth when she gets sick of you cheating on her, lol.

      I know men that married "the trophy," they are miserable and want out but feel trapped, so they cheat. What a time to be alive boys.

      [–]XZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      That's why you don't marry a trophy.

      Or should I say you don't marry at all

      [–]laere 74 points75 points  (6 children)

      I know way too many guys at my workplace that put way too much emphasis on getting a girlfriend.

      I just laugh and ignore it as I fly away free as a bird, and they're locked in a cage.

      [–]fuckeduphomebody 20 points21 points  (2 children)

      So true. It so liberating and powerfull. You can feel it drives women mad.

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        [–]fuckeduphomebody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        It makes sense that you do not understand. You must be one of those guys locked in a cage.

        He is just saying that many guys try to get a girl and are so focus on that purpose that they forget themselves. They are locked in a cage because everything they do is for a girl. On the contrary he flys as a fucking bird because he is not only focus on getting a girl. Indeed he knows that the game is not worth the candle.

        [–]lIlIIIlll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

        This sounds like something someone would say st a bar they frequented too often, before guzzling the cheapest beer they offered in a vain attempt to lie to themselves.

        [–]dancingkungfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Good man. Herd mentality can sometimes lead to very dark places.

        [–]dancingkungfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Good man. Herd mentality can sometimes lead to very dark places.

        [–]-Alphalete 99 points100 points  (14 children)

        Part of the RedPill journey is the realization of our true worth as men. We have the potential to acquire power which if used correctly can lead to freedom. By making women your top priority, you are admitting to the power pussy has over you. Remember that their looks and possession of a pussy is something that was given to them, not something they worked for.

        As for us men, we aren't owed shit. Men fight wars and die for their country. We aren't babied like women, we fight for all that we have. KNOW YOUR WORTH! Men are lucky in that our SMV and inherent worth can rise far above the worth of women. Keep moving forward and working hard for no one else but yourself. Do it because you value yourself and you will see the most evolved version of yourself.

        Edit: Thank you for the gold kind sir!

        [–]Yankee_Fever 25 points26 points  (2 children)

        Know your self know your worth nigga. My actions been louder than my words

        [–]6ix_ 11 points12 points  (1 child)

        Drake says redpill shit sometimes but most of the time.... not so much..

        [–]OzzyDaGrouch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

        But the chicks be fucking digging it like crazy playa, learn some good hard hitting lyrics they gonna love it when you sing it to them. Even if you're not necessarily trying to pedestal them like Drake obv. Tbh singing mean shit while we're arguing is best lol.

        "WHAT KIND OF GAMES ARE BEING PLAYED HOWS IT GOING DOWN? ITS ON TILL WE GONE THEN I GOTS TO KNOW NOW, IS YOU WITH ME OR WHAT?"

        "MAN THESE NIGGAS NEED TO STOP IT THEY BE CROWDING UP THE SCENE, BABY ALL THAT PRIDE AND SELF ESTEEM, GOT YOU ANGRY BOUT THIS GIRL IM WITH IN ALL THE MAGAZINES BABY SHE LOOK LIKE A STAR, BUT ONLY ON CAMERA, ONLY ON CAMERA, ONLY ON CAMERA"

        "ON SOME DMX SHIT, I GROUPIE ALL OF MY EXES I TELL EM THEY BELONG TO ME THAT GOES ON FOR FOREVER. AND I THINK WE JUST GET CLOSER WHEN WE NOT TOGETHER"

        "YOU THROWING DIRT ON MY OLD NAME, ONLY GETS WORSE WHEN YA KNOW THANGS, YOU DONT SEE THE PERKS TO THIS WHOLE THANG. BUT YOU GET REAL UNAPPEALING AND I LIKE IT , YOU JUST LIKE MY SIDEKICK I JUST WANNA RIDE FOR, FULFILL ALL OF YOUR DESIRES"

        "I CAN SEE IT IN YOUR EYES YOU ANGRY, REGRET GOT SHIT ON WHAT YOU FEELING OHH, MAD CUZ HE AINT LIKE ME, OH YOU MAD CUZ NOBODY EVER DID IT LIKE ME. ALL THE CARE I WOULD TAKE, ALL THE LOVE THAT WE'D MAKE, NOW YOU TRYNA FIND SOMEBODY TO REPLACE WHAT I GAVE TO YAAA. ITS A SHAME YOU DIDNT KEEP IT, ALIESHA, KATIYA, I KNOW THAT YOU GUN HEAR THIS IM THE MAN, YEAH I SAID IT. BITCH IM THE MAN, DONT TOU FORGET IT. THE WAY YOU WAAAAALK THATS ME, THE WAY YOU TAAALK THATS ME.THE WAY YOU GOT YOUR HAIR UP DONT YOU FORGET THATS ME, AND THE VOICE IN YOUR SPEAKER RIGHT NOW I THAT'S ME, THATS MEEE, CANT YOU SEE"

        "REALLY GONNA SPEND THE WINTER WITH THIS OTHER NIGGA? ACT LIKE HES REALLY THE ONE TO GET THRU IT WITH YOU"

        "REMEMBER I DELETED ALL MY OTHER GIRLS NUMBERS OUT THE PHONE FOR YOU, REMEMBER WHEN YOU HAD TO TAKE THE BAR EXAM I DRIVE IN THE SNOW FOR YOU. YEAH. PROLLY DONT REMEMBER HALF THE SHIT A NIGGA DID FOR YOU, YEAH. YOU AINT REALLY FUCK WITH ME WAY BACK THEN BUT HOW BOUT NOW? CUZ IM UP RIGHT NOW, AND YOU STUCK RIGHT NOW. AWWW YOU THOUGHT ALL THE LITTLE EFFORT THAT YOU PUT IN WAS ENOUGH GIRL HOW BOUT NOW? CUZ IM UP RIGHT NOW, AND YOU STUCK RIGHT, AWWW YOU THOUGHT YOU HAD IT ALL FIGURED OUT BACK THEN GIRL HOW BOUT NOW?"

        Tbh some of these things just make it clear that you're outcome independent if you sing with confidence but that you're also a sexual being and want to fuck if that makes sense, or maybe I'm just really good at this now and it's easy to pull off for me. Especially emphasizing the important lyrics by looking at her (while safely driving lol) or squeezing that leg 😉 or if your parked using your body works wonders. Lol should I make a post about how you should sing to your women? Definitely be an interesting read lolololololol

        [–]fuckeduphomebody 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        I feel you man. I know what you mean by "power pussy". Nobody seems to understand that.

        [–]laere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        Bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.

        [–]1OneRedYear 52 points53 points  (1 child)

        The higher N-Count and the higher the age of the woman the more shit you will have to have.

        As an older man trust me, this is the truth. I know women my age and older who frown on a single man having a roommate. Must be a loser. Don't own a home for them to try to steal? Loser? frugal shitbox car? loser. Meanwhile their tits are sagging, crows are dancing on the faces their hair has gotten shorter and their ass has has collapsed in on itself, but dammit, you better be the shit. I just laugh at them and go younger.

        [–]Rhynovirus 26 points27 points  (0 children)

        They can enjoy their cats, their divorce issues, their entitlement and their fishy twats without us. (Its true, old pussy smells different)

        [–][deleted] 43 points44 points  (8 children)

        Careful with this thinking, though. Don't avoid women or possible opportunities with them because you aren't improved enough or some bs. Once you've got the basics of your shit together there is no excuse

        [–]mpga479m 3 points4 points  (6 children)

        what do you consider getting "basics of your shit together".. job, apartment, car, savings, what?

        [–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

        Depends on the person. Like, say some average physique dude gets into self improvement and lifting, once he starts looking and feeling a bit better, he shouldn't wait until he's super shredded to talk to girls.

        Just saying, once you are at least put together, dress better, workout, and have food, water, and shelter, it's not good to say things like, once I.... (get super shredded) THEN I'll talk to girls!

        [–]Hotdawg179 4 points5 points  (1 child)

        Better question...

        What do YOU consider....?

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        If you have diarrhea you won't be able to sculpt it into anything.

        [–]WeOutCheaLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Literally depends on your personal situation. You know if you're doing enough or not don't lie to yourself. For me it was definitely when I was able to hold two jobs to support myself and my lifestyle and be a student and still have enough time to work out and pick up women, because there is enough time (to all you fucking slackers). I've been doing it for a year and a half now. I was average body and cute face. I got a coupe too and I'm young 20s. That's all I needed man. You don't actually need a lot of money if you know how to set a day or just a little date up and make her laugh and shit. Once you have enough to truly believe that you are making it good out here will it ever TRULY show through to her because you believe your own script and you're not ashamed to be that (seemingly) successful man. Reality is you can be a fucking janitor and still make this happen. If you fucking own it like the bossdawg she should already be believing that you are making smart moves etcetcetc. It's all just image. The image of a man who truly is in control of his life. Update your resume, get relatively fit, put yourself the fuck out there, dress right, be polite but non chalant, laugh it off when she shit tests you and then come back and say a little sexual innuendo to get her blood flowing a little, (AGAIN, POLITELY, idk why so many people have trouble flirting with women, it's all just about respectfully communicating you wanna da booty). Bonus points if you choose a certain image to dress in and embody (I am a lil hip-hop loving nigga with nice shoes, matching outfits, the whole fucking 9. Slick my hair back, got a quality cologne, I live in a large house with several other college students and we have decent party's every month or so, I can drink like a champ and I am an outspoken individual​ in normal social interactions. WHAT'S​ NOT TO LOVE? WHY WOULDNT SHE WANT ME RIGHT??? RIGHT? 😂😂😂 You should have the same attitude and you already would if you were making it happen the way this sub tells you to make it happen.

        Much love

        [–]akatsukirp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Good point​. Thinking once you get the car and the house the pussy will come is not the right attitude. It's living by your own terms and kicking ass that does. Having frame. For example you work seasonally​ to afford going on epic adventures.

        [–]LeJamesBron32 61 points62 points  (7 children)

        I love that Rick and Morty quote; I've used it in more than a few conversations. The first time I heard Rick say that was around the time I had discovered TRP, and everything clicked. Humans are just really intelligent animals. There is no such thing as love between animals. It is just a blanket word for feelings that we have but don't know how to categorize.

        [–]hb8only 7 points8 points  (3 children)

        the problem is, OP is still blue and refuses to take a pill..

        I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed.

        yep - and that is all you need to know! it has nothing to do with "having a life in order first"..

        how many hot men I know who are fucking a young hot girls and are unemployed/working shitty jobs and living at home with their mothers.. c'mon..

        You will need to be attractive to get it with women - not the other way around - is the right formulation (self.TheRedPill)

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          [–]hb8only 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          when she is eyeing you and wanna know you purely on how you look

          [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          I don't think you fully understand what Rick is saying.

          Clearly, he has loved once before. Something tragic happened. Now, he is a combination of chaos, nihilism and depression (based off his alcoholism and suicide attempt)

          We aren't meant to take what he says about love at face value. You have to understand why he is saying it.

          [–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 33 points34 points  (15 children)

          While I don't disagree with the sentiment... Be the best you can be.

          But I've smashed good looking women while living on a couch and having $5 in my bank account.

          In fact, now that I think about it the more successful you are the more they will shit test you and try to fit you in a beta bucks role.

          Just don't give a fuck and you will get far.

          [–]argcisman[S] 24 points25 points  (4 children)

          In my experience, the so called 'beta' guys get the most shit from women, from the so called beta-shaming.

          It's okay if an alpha is sexually agressive but when a beta does the exact same thing he gets shamed and women try to put him back in his little beta box.

          [–]CQC3 9 points10 points  (3 children)

          Honestly, that goes for anybody. If you present yourself a certain way to people and then suddenly 180 then it doesn't go over well in many cases.

          I used to put on a really clownish exterior but in reality I was actually pretty negative and introverted and analytical. Whenever I got tired and those qualities came out it put people off. It scares the shit out of people to show so clearly how they misperceived you.

          [–]EmperorAurelius 2 points3 points  (2 children)

          What are you supposed to do then? I too once out out the clownish exterior and welcome mat personality. Now tho I'm definitely more negative and give less shits. However people remember the old me. So when I'm not taken seriously I want to smash fucking skulls. So much rage.

          [–]WeOutCheaLA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          Dude you can reestablish your image trust me. It is hard if you have a group of friends and a social circle but that's what monk mode is for. So that when you come out of it you are a redesigned man. Someone who has convictions and fucking knows it. When people shit test you there's no reason to be mad. If they truly continue to a point that they're trying to see you crack you can respectfully seperate yourself from them and trust me when I say they will definitely internalize it. Nothing has gotten me success more than ignoring to respond with words but instead respond with immediate action. When you eventually link back up again they should at least be sort of testing the waters to see if you were ghosting because of their rude fucking behavior. And if you immediately withdraw yourself once the bullshit comes up again it will REALLY be clear to them that you're a fucking grown ass man here to have grown ass conversation. You're not going to put up with any sort of bullshit because you understand that you don't need anyone or any of their insecurities to be projected on you

          [–]CQC3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Well, it's tough. I don't know you so I can't say how you're coming across. All I know is that I do carry a more serious air with me even though I'm pretty joking when people get to know me.

          All I can tell you is make sure you're not angry, it's easy to overcompensate and be too damn serious--even more than you actually are. It's tiring. Make sure you're coming across as more neutral, and let people say shit like "is anything wrong? you seem upset" (hate that one). When they do, just shrug it off and tease them a bit. Once they know that you're just like that and it has nothing to do with them they'll back off, even like you more at times.

          You can't make people take you seriously, so if you feel like your "friends" are just belittling you or stressing you out, just disappear if you can handle it. If a friendship comes down to just counting invisible digs at each other (real or perceived) then it's probably beyond salvage.

          Truth is it's very hard to change around people who bring out the "old" you, because those people put you back in that mode. Your entire synergy and relationship is based off that old you. Sort of like when childhood friends regroup and everyone kind of just slides right back into their old roles, it's hard to avoid it unless you consciously break the pattern, but how many friends are worth that trouble?

          Whether your friends will accept the new you is all dependent on how you act and the basis of your friendship. If they're decent people they'll let it go.

          Generally though if a guy goes from no spine to having some self respect, friendships are lost. Those are no loss anyways.

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            [–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 6 points7 points  (4 children)

            That's an interesting matrix, never thought of cuck as a desirable trait, but it definitely makes sense.

            Well I won't dox myself, but I'd say I'm decent looking and fairly intelligent. So those things undoubtedly offset my "loser" status at the time.

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                [–]WeOutCheaLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                Lol you fucking joking? It doesn't matter mane cuz ur a boss anyway. I don't give a shit if she personally thinks I have a big dick or not. She gonna be calling me Daddy anyway you get me?

                [–]WeOutCheaLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                Lol wow dude you summed it up so perfectly it's a masterpiece. I 100% agree 👌

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                  [–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 3 points4 points  (1 child)

                  Pretty sure he means beta bucks. Of course having money doesn't make you beta. How you use it can.

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Fucking grateful for the content people like you put in here. Keep grinding fellas. Embrace the suck.

                  [–]EtemAll 21 points22 points  (0 children)

                  Simple post but always good to restate for newbies and a good reminder for everyone. Have a goal, a realistic goal, have many goals. Goals that don't include women and you will be happy with yourself and happy that women around you are happy with you.

                  [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                  Gonna save this one because I needed to hear it and I will continue to need to hear it. This man speaks truth.

                  [–]NabunagasRevenge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                  B>A>S Bitches aint shit focus on you . Fuck them and toss them The Red Pill is turning into blue pill dr phil advice always shit on a bitch

                  [–]handklap 8 points9 points  (1 child)

                  Article:

                  Millennial Women Are ‘Worried,’ ‘Ashamed’ for Out-Earning Boyfriends and Husbands

                  http://www.nbcnews.com/business/personal-finance/millennial-women-are-worried-ashamed-out-earning-boyfriends-husbands-n748326

                  So much hypocrisy and double standards.

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  I thought the sjws were bitching about the wage gap between men and women. If women would work the jobs that pay more they wouldn't have an issue, but of course someone sitting on their ass answering phone calls should be paid the same as a man doing some real work.

                  [–]Mckallidon 15 points16 points  (3 children)

                  Depends on the woman. Disgusting bitches with personality disorders love weak sad dudes.

                  [–]charm3 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  Any specific personality disorder?

                  [–]Mckallidon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Borderlines, Narcissists, Sociopaths, anyone that needs to control someone else

                  [–]Rhynovirus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                  Its not even about crafting yourself to be what women want.

                  WOMEN ARE LIFESTYLE ACCESSORIES!

                  Like sports cars, beautiful women who fawn over you are the product of self development and success to be had only after you've earned those things for yourself. They are to be accessed, enjoyed, put away or traded in when it suits your needs and life. Chasing women because you need women is automatic loss of frame.

                  If you're chasing the women first you're doing it wrong and you're missing a huge part of RP philosophy.

                  [–]newName543456 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                  The higher N-Count and the higher the age of the woman the more shit you will have to have.

                  And probably inferior reward, as pair bonding capability decreases but entitlement does not.

                  [–]prueba2306 8 points9 points  (7 children)

                  That's not true, you can be a completely destroyed person (drug addict, alcoholic, unemployed, homeless) but if you have the frame necessary you can get almost any women you want.

                  I have slept with women married or dating judges, doctors, owners of big business and they didn't give a fuck who i was and what i did.

                  If you only want to sleep with multiple women you need frame, if you want to have a LTR you need frame and some financial shit.

                  If you don't get women its because you don't have frame. Get frame first and then get all your shit together (it is better if you do it at the same time)

                  [–]laere 2 points3 points  (1 child)

                  I remember seeing a video clip of a homeless dude literally scoring a chick every night so he'd not only get sex, but also have a place to crash for a few days. On top of it he was an alcoholic.

                  [–]iamanenemy -1 points0 points  (4 children)

                  I don't recall seeing frame in the sidebar. Could you explain what frame is or link to some texts that explain?

                  [–]Subtletorious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  I haven't read the side bar lately (perhaps I should) but a quick google search of "red pill frame" shows lots of material.

                  Frame is the narrative of the situation ie who is controlling the story

                  [–]CQC3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  It wasn't on the sidebar because he stole them all and bolded them in his post.

                  [–]TangoZulu 2 points3 points  (1 child)

                  "Frame" is shorthand for frame of mind. When people say you need frame, what they mean is that you need SOLID frame. You don't get shaken, emotional, drawn into her emotions. Frame is your self-confidence, drive, state of being. A women's frame is her emotional state in the moment. Don't get pulled into her frame, be unshakable.

                  [–]iamanenemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  Ah. So basically, Jedi that shit and don't get sucked into justification or explaining yourself, don't take her emotional stuff/hamstering seriously and most of all, don't get goaded by her shit tests. I'll admit, I still give them too much fuel when it comes to shit tests. Not "get off our reddit" level, but too little is still too much. I've been lurking and reading. Now I need to execute.

                  [–]slothsenpai 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                  I'm in a situation where women still want to LTR me despite knowing I've got nothing (shit job, no place, no car). I'm glad in a way that I'm not in the beta-bux category though this shit still worries me since they may not want to stick around long if I ain't got the money nor funds to properly provide and contribute.

                  My point is that you can still get into LTRs whilst being a working progress though it's a matter of whether or not they're gonna wanna stick around for long so you gotta need to get your shit together sooner or later!

                  [–]Nobrainz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  You have to have your shit together for your own self and not for pussy. You are the most important person of your life.

                  [–]brettfromtibet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                  I needed to read this article. I worked extremely hard at a career and didn't do well with women because I was extremely busy / stressed and also extremely beta. I associate hard work with no getting laid. Time to get back to work, do it differently, red pill style and be more successful!

                  [–]circlhat 6 points7 points  (1 child)

                  Successful men get it with women because they are successful.

                  You don't need to be successful to get women, you must learn and understand them, you can do this naturally but most often you get brain washed by society.

                  Good advice, but no sense of direction

                  [–]argcisman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                  If you are unsuccessful you will end up with unsuccsessful women.

                  I agree with you that you don't have to be successful to get women but the quality of the women you will be able to get won't be as high as if you were a successful man. A guy with an SMV of 5 might have the same understanding or even better understanding of women than a guy with the SMV of 8. But a girl who is SMV 7 and plus will almost never if ever sleep with the SMV 5 guy because of social norms and risking ruining her reputation.

                  [–]cuntrolbot 1 point2 points  (2 children)

                  The higher N-Count and the higher the age of the woman the more shit you will have to have.

                  No, this would imply they are higher value than their younger and lower n-count competition, which aint so. Their SMV is lower. Men don't value a high n-count, we aren't women, we don't care about preselection. A high n-count post wall hag is about as low quality a female as there is. They can't demand shit, unless you are a filthy spineless beta who doesn't know better.

                  [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorBlacklabellogics 0 points1 point  (1 child)

                  In a woman's perception she is higher value than her younger and lower n-count equivalent. Reality and female perception are two very different things.

                  [–]cuntrolbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  | Reality and female perception are two very different things.

                  Well that is the definition of the wall. There becomes a disconnect between their perceived and actual value. Eventually they figure it out, this is the Epiphany phase.

                  [–]badchad_isglad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Gotta love Rick and Morty. Fuck it!

                  [–]SargentHaztagaspacho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  You forgot to add some burps in there. Awesome wisdom nonetheless, thanks Rick!

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Realest shit ever. Good job.

                  [–]xxblueswiftxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  This should be on the sidebar.

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                  [–]thisornothing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                  And it's important to remember that women don't want to make you a better man, just a beta man.

                  [–]kebaball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Every feeling and realization and piece of information is a chemical phenomenon. Dosen't mean we should stop living the way that would bring the most desirable chemical phenomena. If someone really enjoys to be in love and loved (i.e. majority), then that's the way they should live.

                  [–]Hjalmbere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  Just like religion and superstition, romantic love is a dangerous delusion which can ruin your life. Get over it.

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  If you are good looking and have an real IDGAF attitude, you can get laid pretty easily no matter how much you don't have your shit together. I have gotten laid with $1.54 in my bank account. I've gotten laid living in my gramma's basement. I've gotten laid without a car. Women respond to biological cues of psychological and physical survival fitness.

                  Yes, get your shit together (fucking duh). Yes, do it for yourself (fucking duh).

                  But you're going to be able to get laid you apply basic, time-tested principles of game and sexual strategy regardless of how laughably shitty your life is. I fail to understand this "focus on yourself" mantra. What the hell else was I going to focus on? Maybe someone can help me here.

                  [–]ShakaLeonidas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                  They dont want to do the the winning. They want a winner. That's why they become cheerleaders. Putting on those pads and taking those hits themselves day in and day out doesn't generate tingles inside them.