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Red Pill TheoryWomen are sexual creatures. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by NitroDen

NOTHING PARTICULARLY NEW. JUST OLD-SCHOOL TRP PRINCIPLES.

From birth we are sold the idea that women are more conservative. That they are more reclusive, more "pure". Teen boys jerking all day off to porn is so common of a cliche that it is widely accepted as a truth. And nothing is more prevalent in Hollywood and Youtube as men chasing after women, and failing hilariously. Seriously, it makes for good comedy.

But all of this is hiding the truth of what happened after the sexual revolution in the 70's. The societal constraints upon women and their sex drive were completely unhinged. And the truth behind the female sex drive was discovered.

It is true men have a higher drive to procreate, to have sex, and to spread their seed, even if they don't actively feel that way. But when it comes to the actual act, women enjoy sex far more. Just the small external part of the clitoris has as many nerve endings as a penis. This doesnt exclude the much larger internal part of the clitoris, the vaginal walls, or the other hundred-or-so erogenous spots that women have. They last longer in bed, they scream and twitch and moan and go berzerk, they can orgasm as many times as they want without getting tired. Men do not last as long, feel less pleasure by comparison, and have a small crotch sneeze instead of an almighty divine orgasm.

What does this mean? It means that every single woman you come across, no matter from what background, or from which religion, or from which political position, has a deep craving. A craving to be used. To be exploited, to be wanted so badly that they are "forced" down upon (All consensual. I don't approve of rape,folks. Those people deserve to be castrated). Because the female sexual experience is far more deep,intense,and passionate than that of a man's, it introduces a huge issue with staying with a single man for an extended period of time. Selling good sex to a woman is far, far more likely to cause a woman to cheat than it is to a man. For a man, an Orgasm is an Orgasm, even if it isn't quite the same, the end release and satisfaction is nearly identical. For a woman, an Orgasm is an ecstatic experience that is greatly amplified by a variety of factors, from the appearance,the intensity, the time of day, even small things like the lighting and the weather, they are very,very sensual beings. The experience is so intense for them that quite literally suppresses their greater judgement. Which makes them more selective, because they want to maximise this very thing. So you, as a man, must understand this and understand that for a woman to stay with you, you must be the top of the pack. You must be the best that can be offered. And if you don't like this, you have several choices. The ol' pump n dump. Or you find a nice conservative Virgin and get married and make sure they have no standards to judge you against.

As always, AWALT. The media lies, the only way to win is to not play at all (referring to LTR's). She's not yours, it's just your turn. Yadda Yadda. Good luck brothers.


[–]1atticusfinch1973 216 points217 points  (20 children)

I lived with six women for two years in university, and it probably provided the best education I've ever had when it comes to women.

Women are attracted to feelings and emotion, nothing else. This is why they go for guys they can't have (because they feel rejected) or aren't supposed to have (because they feel guilty or excited).

And yes, they love sex. They want to get laid and they want it just as much as you do. They masturbate just as much as you do. They obsess about guys just like you obsess about women. They love to be dominated and used like objects, especially if they have emotional issues.

They are nothing to be afraid of.

[–]3nebder 103 points104 points  (13 children)

They love to be dominated and used like objects, especially if they have emotional issues.

I’ve been divorced for a while now. I can do a more objective postmortem on the whole thing. Shitty sex certainly played a part in the failure.

I treated my ex like a dainty little princess in bed and always wanted to “make love” to her. I was literally doing a disservice to her sexuality. Females are made to submit and be dominated. She dropped the not so subtle hints about it, but I didn’t change my dick game. “That’s not how women should be treated” bloopy me was convinced.

My gals now I dominate, throw around, call them dirty little girls/sluts/whores, choke, bite and otherwise use for my enjoyment. Rail em out like they’re my piece of meat. For the spergs yes you calibrate and escalate to that point you don’t call a gal a dirty little slut at the wrong time or you’re done for.

Read sex god method and apply it.

[–]No-Steppe-on-Pepe 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I had that white-knight philosophy when I was younger too. Didn't feel comfortable being aggressive or talking dirty. Some of the more aggressive women I've been with literally told me they like being slammed into the wall and fucked hard. One girl wanted me to strangle her.

It took me years to realize that this whole notion that women are dainty little princesses that need to be treated 'respectfully' is garbage. It's not even respect. It's ignoring them. They tell you what you want, and, out of 'respect', you say no honey, I know better.

[–]tempolaca 33 points34 points  (2 children)

Don't hate yourself. I treated my wife like a decent human person in bed (she hated it). I treated my last girlfriend like a cum dumpster and fucked her in all holes with total disregard of her (she loved it)

Both left me when my SMV declined, or they met another guy, etc.

[–]reluctantly_red 17 points18 points  (1 child)

Both left me when my SMV declined, or they met another guy, etc.

My experience too -- which is why I now have sex the way I want -- if the end result is always going to be the same might was well enjoy the ride as much as possible.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s a tragic shame how men are brainwashed into believing women are frail creatures who want to have gentle lovemaking, then the reality is they want to get spit on, slapped, tied up, and fucked hard until they are screaming and convulsing.

[–]ArchetypicalDegen 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Yes, dominating them in bed plays into subconscious evolutionary desires. Being dominant in bed basically means acting like the cave man alpha that impregnated the most women in prehistoric times. It's important to let the girl know beforehand it's all in good fun.

That being said, it's important to make sure she gets enjoyment as well. A lot of guys apparently don't stimulate the clitoris enough during sex. You have to kind of angle it in there a bit.

[–]erthian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you find more attractive, a girl who's trying to get her technique right, or a girl who looks like she's enjoying her self and isn't worried about you?

[–]reluctantly_red 2 points3 points  (1 child)

For the spergs yes you calibrate and escalate to that point you don’t call a gal a dirty little slut at the wrong time or you’re done for.

Modification for the socially awkward -- if you aren't sure what to say keep your fool mouth shut and just have have rigorous sex (her mind will imagine you said what she wanted to hear).

[–]3nebder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is advice for staying in your comfort zone.

Read & apply sex god method. Women love dirty talk in the act. Its not simply the words it’s the emotion behind them.

[–]wtf793 0 points1 point  (2 children)

What about making them cum? I’ve read a lot of people have different opinions on this sub. What’s your take on this?

[–]3nebder 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Read & apply sex god method. The 4 pillars are DEVI: dominance, emotion, variety and immersion. You incorporate those elements in your dick game and she will cum. My paraphrasing is a poor substitute for the book.

Make her cum and she comes back again & again. Plus there’s the heady power that comes from making a gal cum basically on command that I can’t put in words better than that. My preference is that sex should be fun for everyone. That’s the whole fucking point of it.

[–]underscoredotdot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's the whole fucking point of fucking!

[–]antariusz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, do it both in and out of the bedroom. But do it with a wink and a smile, and be attractive.

[–]TheBigHorse420 2 points3 points  (1 child)

You should do a FR and tell us about the moments you shared with these 6 women

Sounds interesting

[–]Anthroider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should, but I wouldnt call that a field report

[–]Truedemocracy4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women love sex but no, on average they do not masturbate anywhere close to as much as men do

[–]magx01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why they go for guys they can't have (because they feel rejected)

NO. They go for those guys because a high value man provides good genetics and the best chance for not only survival but flourishing (in terms of finances, security and social achievement).

[–]Walkerstain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, they love sex. They want to get laid and they want it just as much as you do. They masturbate just as much as you do. They obsess about guys just like you obsess about women.

Then why they don't watch porn as much as men do? It's only 1 out of 4 of women visitors according to PornHub statistics. Not sure if that's high? Since a lot of women don't hang online.

[–]punchyson 50 points51 points  (1 child)

This is pretty common knowledge stuff I assume.

Women are far dirtier than men in general. Not every woman has the same fantasies of course, but if you look at what they are into a lot of the time it is a whole lot more than just vanilla fucking. There are women that will pay a very good looking man to "mock rape" them in their home. Gang bangs, risky public sex, wife swapping etc. Not every woman is into really kinky stuff, but there are a whole lot that are.

Mostly this perception of women not liking sex as much is a fabrication by women who are hiding their very slutty side from potential beta providers. Those same ladies are masturbating to some really nasty thoughts, novels or porn.

[–]tempolaca 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There are women that will pay a very good looking man to "mock rape" them in their home.

This is actually the most common sexual desire of women. It's equivalent of men liking big tits.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 54 points55 points  (6 children)

And nothing is more prevalent in Hollywood and Youtube as men chasing after women, and failing hilariously. Seriously, it makes for good comedy.

Men try and get laid, women try to fuck and lock down the best men.

But Hollywood can't represent the female strife because it shows her sexual strategy (AF/BB) and any comedy would make her look bad. Women would not find this funny and would boycott cinemas. Protests in the street and twitter storms.

Bridget Jones was probably the closest you'd get. The story of a chubby girl trying to land the best and richest guy she can. So at least the premise is realistic, but you'll notice that everyone else is the butt of the jokes rather than her.

Women are not to be criticised, laughed at, humiliated, seen as funny or even understood in any realistic way in our gynocentric society.

So yes - always the men chasing the women, always the women held up as the chooser and the person to be valued, paid for. The prize.

The experience is so intense for them that quite literally suppresses their greater judgement. Which makes them more selective

Well, that's not the cause of being selective. She's not selective when it comes to vibrators.... size, colour and it's social status is irrelevant especially compared to "how fucking well does this thing get me off".

The selective thing is because her attractiveness scale is just different to ours. We measure women on an absolute scale: if she ticks all our boxes we're good to go. Women are on a relative scale: she wants to fuck top 5% men, and there must be a selection process that establishes this for her without a shadow of a doubt. (Other women chasing him is a solid indicator, but whatever the man says can safely be ignored).

The above relates to attraction. We don't want to fuck even the most delicious pussy if the rest of the package is unattractive. Women are the same, but their attraction criteria are different and more relative than ours. And more physical than women would have us believe (on their relentless PR drive to make themselves appear worthy of investment).

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Women would not find this funny and would boycott cinemas. Protests in the street and twitter storms.

Ohh big deal. The lost sales would be replaced by cucked guys sneaking out to watch it with their buds and shitlords such as myself would openly go watch it because of the shitstorm its causing.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're misunderstanding the power women have over the media.

[–]1dongpal 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Women are on a relative scale: she wants to fuck top 5% men, and there must be a selection process that establishes this for her without a shadow of a doubt. (Other women chasing him is a solid indicator, but whatever the man says can safely be ignored).

What are the other aspects which are easy to fake? I never show off and I feel like I sell myself worse than if I did.

[–]endertheend 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Not many honestly, You just gotta put in the work, often years of work, mainly on your body and diet (lifting and getting lean) as a priority, then working on "your mission" in concurrence.

Now, you`ll probably ask "What is a mission? What should mine be?" That's really up to you to decide, but, your mission CAN NOT be women, take something you like to do in your free time. Now see if you can find a way to get filthy rich doing that.

THAT could be an example of a mission. Tony Hawk did it, He liked skateboarding, and set out to make a living skateboarding and became filthy rich because of it. Elon Musk wants to do futuristic shit, so he made pure electric cars and began shooting rockets into space and landing them back on Earth on platforms. That was/is his mission. (is because his mission could be something grander than that, like, make the world more futuristically utopian like or something, but hopefully you get my point)

Does this mean now that you should forget women forever now? No.

You still do need to go out and try, go to events, meetups, do a little cold approaching here and there, even if you get nothing, once your body gets to where it needs to be, it becomes easier and easier. "How do I know when my body gets to where it needs to be?" When you can put your body shots on tinder and get OmLaLa type results. THEN, you'll need to work even harder to maintain that. "Who's OmLaLa?" Heh, There used to be a link to all of his posts on the sidebar but I don't see it there now, just search this sub for him and you'll see.

The road to AF (Alpha Fucks) is long and difficult, You're not going to get there in 3-6 months, you'll only scratch the surface about a year/year and a half from now. 2 and a half to 3 years is a realistic time frame for this. That's including unforseen life events, lifting injuries etc. it's also not guaranteed that you'll make it. Unfortunately, you really have no choice given the alternatives out there now. So, you might as well just put your head down, and keep working.

[–]1dongpal 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Im already working on it for years. I still dont know how to convince women that im the prize.

[–]randomTATRP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because probably you're not thinking it yourself. You don't need to convince them, if you know it and believe it, they'll feel it.

[–]NeedingAdvice86 15 points16 points  (3 children)

Yes...very much but they aren't desperate or thirsty about it. At least the attractive ones aren't.

So while it is true that girls love sex, it doesn't mean that they are going to rush into fucking you even if they find you attractive since many of them become "lazy"......so you still have to game a chick to pique her interest into fucking you. Most dudes get the impression that girls don't "like" sex because attractive girls are rarely desperate and panting for any dick because the attractive girl thinks or has the impression that another offer will be offered at the next stop or café or bar and when they are actually quite horny, a dick can easily be found.

Most guys that get the impression that chicks don't like sex are misreading their lack of thirst for it and lack of rush at any one moment for not liking it.

[–]NitroDen[S] 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Why would you be desperate and panting over something you can get by walking on the street and finding a decent looking dude? 5 minutes? 10? Even a 5 nowadays has a couple of Instagram Orbiters. An 8 or above might even have hundreds. Of course they arent desperate for it. But they love it just as much regardless. The media lies about this. That is all I was pointing out.

[–]NeedingAdvice86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was just pointing out that guys mistake girls lack of urgency for uninterested in overall sex. The idea of game is learning how to push that urgency....

Are a lot of media claiming that women don't like sex? A quick trim down a Tesco checkout aisle with all its tips to women about orgasms from Cosmo, etc makes it pretty obvious that women want sex....

Just not with the random AFC.....

[–]soupandpoitin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like porn and men. Men are not helplessly fapping to the first BBW video they hit on the computer. They take their time to find one they really like. Same with women and sex.

[–]jnthnrch 13 points14 points  (2 children)

Thank you for not being a long winded bloviating piece of shit like 90% of the posters in this subreddit. Your dedication to partial brevity and determination to not jerk yourself off with the English language is appreciated.

[–]casual_redditor_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfaoooooo thank you for this.

[–]aafusc2988 13 points14 points  (10 children)

Holy shit. I mean I know that women are sexual creatures, moreso than men and I believe it - but DAMN. This resonates so much with me right now, and I am also experiencing oneitis badly. I'm a 30 y/o male and just had sex for the first time with this girl, which I think I am dating at this point (I have taken her out a lot). I always end up naked on her bed when we hang out, or naked on my bed at my place. She usually just takes her shirt off if we're not going to have sex but will give me handjobs and I got a blowjob the other night (she didn't swallow but alluded that she does when the relationship has been going awhile). This girl says things to me like you're cute and I really like you over and over and over again. But I can only see possible future outcomes... outcome dependence. I LIKE this girl, a lot... I think she is just using me for her urges because she even made a comment to me awhile back that she only has sex with guys she knows. She just got out of a relationship in which she at least lived with the guy for the last year of it... we have so many hobbies in common and she's great. I just see a future where she only sees sex (I imagine this to be the case anyway). Also the sex was bad since it was my first time and I couldn't even cum... and wasn't nearly as hard as I thought I'd be. I think that's the deathgrip porn syndrome, and I have stopped all porn. I don't know when/if I will get better at sex, but it will be interesting to see how it affects the relationship. She loves how I touch her and kiss her to get her to the moment she's ready for sex.. but I have only done it once and it was bad. She wanted to badly the other night when I got the blowjob but no condoms.

How can I make sure I don't fall into the trap of oneitis and put this girl on a pedestal? She is the one who really approached me and initiated everything as I was told by mutual friends she had a crush on me. Part of me thinks this is just because she was ending everything with her then boyfriend and chose to latch on to me as the next guy up so to speak.... this is not going to end well for me.

I also truly believe men are the true romantics in the world, and not women. I want to do everything for this girl, but I am trying to make sure I don't come off as desperate. So I haven't initiated many text conversations and try to withhold responding IMMEDIATELY to her.

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    [–]aafusc2988 0 points1 point  (5 children)

    She told me she didn't want to play games one of the first nights we talked after I said I liked her too. Why do I feel like I'm in a fucking game? She's about to be 26 in December and I'll be 31 in February. Maybe she's too young, but she's great... she actually talks about sex with me and wanting to do it, and I think she legitimately wants to teach me. Maybe it's a challenge in her eyes.. but I do fear I like her on a deeper level than she likes me and if the sex does not get better she will just end it. I kind of just want to die... I derive almost no passion from life and my daily grind and this has shaken it up so nicely for the better. My outcome dependence is fucking STRONG. My mental health will deteoriate from this I am sure..

    Does it change anything that she's foreign? She has been in the US for 7 years now. That is one of the things I like most about her... she's not an American woman so it feels different.

    [–]daymi 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    I just see a future where she only sees sex (I imagine this to be the case anyway).

    I fail to see the downside, really. I know right now you think that women can give you so much more (like intellectual stimulation, support with chores and rent in your life, ideas for things to do, strategic planning etc), but really, they can't. And more importantly, they don't want to. Just take them as a fun diversion and don't rely on them.

    [first time sex with her]

    Just a heads-up, first-time sex with a new person is awkward at times. You have to get to know each other sexually.

    I think that's the deathgrip porn syndrome, and I have stopped all porn.

    Good. There's no upside to porn.

    [feel like in a game]

    We are always in a game. In any sphere of life.

    I do fear I like her on a deeper level than she likes me and if the sex does not get better she will just end it. I kind of just want to die...

    Don't pressure yourself with the sex. If it works it works, if it doesn't, it doesn't. Also, is she hot enough?

    Does she orgasm by you?

    It's an unfortunate thing that we are so susceptible to oneitis. The last time when I had oneitis it was a kind of unfair demand by me on her for her to fulfill my dreams instead of me. I'm not saying this is how it is for you, but make sure you don't try to offload responsibility for your happiness on anyone but yourself.

    I derive almost no passion from life and my daily grind and this has shaken it up so nicely for the better.

    Danger.

    My outcome dependence is fucking STRONG. My mental health will deteoriate from this I am sure..

    I suggest to meet other people in addition. It doesn't have to be something serious, just go out alone for a bit and meet people at events.

    [–]erthian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I don't even have to read all this to know she's jerking you around. Ice her ass asap.

    [–]bcool87 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Dude calm down #1, you're not the only one dealing with this. I didn't lose my v-card til I was 26 and prolonged matters after that by not just diving in and being willing to make a fool out of myself a few times. I dealt with ED (anxiety induced no doubt I'm physically healthy), not being able to finish, and telling myself I just preferred BJs over actual penetrative sex (sometimes BJs still do the trick). You just need more experience and to let go of your ego. You will lose a few girls. So what?! Maybe get a girl in your rotation that's slightly below your SMV. Not so much that you can't get it up, but enough that you feel more confident. That's what I did. Now I'm 30, have a rotation of 4 girls and have sex regularly. But yes, your instincts are right. Obviously you know how to attract girls, as did I. But this is something inner and you need to tackle it head on. You're not getting any younger.

    [–]BTR2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Tfw you're 28 and can't meet any women irl and can't even get matches on Tinder 😣

    [–]menial_optimist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    You need abundance in your life. Talk to women you want to fuck every day.

    [–]joeswo214 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    Dude you're fucked unless you can force yourself to put her on Ice. You have to put that hoe on ice and go game other women. When she finds out you're doing this itll drive her nuts and make her want you more. If you do not do this, you are fucked. If you do do this, but only to make her want you more, you are fucked. Do it because she is just another succubus. Keep your pipeline full dude

    [–]magx01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    How can I make sure I don't fall into the trap of oneitis and put this girl on a pedestal?

    Too late. You capitalized the word like. It's over.

    [–]toolate4redpill 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    Third wife was your typical "type A - I'm the boss" woman you could ever imagine. She never initiated sex in her life. She always wanted to be dominated, you couldn't be too rough with her. She loved anal and the more it hurt the more she liked it. Strange thing was-this was pretty typical.

    The only women I ever really "connected" with were other women who were also sexually abused and "not the kind of women you'd bring home to mom". Funny these women are really the only honest ones you will find. Most of the "nice" girls act the same way-it just in secret.

    When your my age you've seen some shit. Just GYOW

    [–]vetiarvind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Yeah pretty much. I have a few AF buddies who for some reason see me as one of their own. These guys are Chads that screw girls who are in LTR's all the time. They give them multiple orgasms, fuck their brains out and are generally highly sexual and physical beings. However, not all women go for guys like these. Some women like these guys, other women (the "good" ones) actually don't fuck with these guys. The good girls are probably a minority, but they do exist. So if you're not God-tier uberman with 8-pack abs, chiselled handsome face, etc. don't fret. You won't get laid anywhere close to these guys while putting in the same effort, but you can get a good girl in the right country.

    [–]Yatanokagami 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    OBJECTION!

    We knew loooong before the 70's that women enjoy sex more than men. Look at Greek mythology.

    So goes the story:

    Zeus and hera had a dispute once about which sex enjoys copulating more, and to settle this dispute they go to ask Ganymedes (probably butchered the name, i listened to Mythos as an audiobook). The thing with Ganymedes was that he was both a Guy, and also for a time a Gal. So he/she knew best of such matters. When they asked him he answered that women enjoy sex a whole lot more. And then hera out of anger that she lost the argument does some magic to ganymedes and turns him into a flower or something.

    I advise everyone to listen/read the book Mythos by Stephen fry. Other than pure mythological fun, it also gives a whole lot of insight of the inner workings of male-female relations.

    [–]Scandinavianredpill 8 points9 points  (1 child)

    No they are not. Most of them have way lower sex drives than men, sorry to break it to you.

    [–]3whatsthisgarg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    No they are not. Most of them have way lower sex drives than men, sorry to break it to you.

    The poster did not claim that women think about sex just as much as men do! but you can see it all over reddit. It is so stupid, and I don't understand why people continue to misunderstand the distinction.

    A normal woman can easily go three weeks without thinking about sex once, that is, IF there isn't a man around putting in ALL the work to remind them of it. They need something to respond to.

    BUT, get a woman turned on and she loses all control, very much unlike men, who are expected to maintain control of themselves even while horny as hell. Women will completely lose their shit if you turn them down.

    I read some dudes comment on here a while back: he's with his first girlfriend, and she's saying she's not ready yet, but soon, his balls are exploding but he is understanding and patient. A couple of weeks later she fucking decides she's ready, but unfortunately he had a bad day, tired, a bit sick maybe, messed up gym injury, so he tries to let her know the conditions are less than ideal, she just blows up. No understanding at all of what she made him go through and no caring of what he's going through at the moment, her "needs" are all she can think about right now LOL

    [–]The-Hoss62 16 points17 points  (4 children)

    Great insight... but remember the female orgasm is completely unnecessary for reproduction, so in the end it’s all about us. If a guy fails to make a girl cum it’s not that big of a deal due it always being harder with normal sex. If a girl fails to make a guy cum it either shows he’s not attracted or she’s trash at making a guy cum.

    [–]ArchetypicalDegen 15 points16 points  (0 children)

    Nice cope... Giving the girl an orgasm as well gives her a reason to keep coming back. If she doesn't cum, then it's just not as advantageous for her. I'm not saying to sacrifice your own orgasm, I'm just saying, find a way that you can both get off. When she orgasms, she'll associate you with positive hormone releases.

    [–]NitroDen[S] 9 points10 points  (2 children)

    If it is unnecessary why is it there at all? That is sort of the same reasoning religious nutcases have about the foreskin. Everyone deserves a good partner, regardless of gender. Afraid it's just as much us as them lol.

    [–]CalvinRichland 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    I saw a study once saying it facilitates children by bringing the sperm further in.

    [–]SnugglySadist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    The reason is that making sex fun via evolutionary pressure is the only reason people would do it. You are flexing most (~95%) of the muscles in your body during an orgasm, getting dirty, and possibly catching communicable disease.

    [–]DaNatural_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Women will get tattoos with your name, propose to you, and fuck you for 5-7 years after the relationship is over (behind every one of her boyfriends back) if you can make her deep spot orgasm over and over. They will be on instagram talking about how perfect their relationships are even showing couple goals pics ( but dm you saying "1 more time please, me: dont you have a man? her: yes BUT, he doesnt feel like you!"

    Im currently married to a HB8 for 2 years now and I was the 1st guy to make her cum. Yes women lie but the reason I know she was being truthful is because she was so scared she was gonna pee on me and asked me to stop before I told her its ok and to just let it go. She honestly had no idea what was going on. Then splash. Years later we still fuck the same and she still cums hard almost every time. Shes gotten used to it over the years so its not as crazy and I have to work more now but guys those first 2 or 3 sessions are important.

    So yes in my opinion women love sex sometimes more than us. If your good at it for them they will give you more.

    [–]NeutronStaRP 5 points6 points  (1 child)

    Women enjoy good sex. You can hold a woman entirely in your thrall if you can provide her with that. Men, on the other hand, tend to enjoy (any) sex. If you can learn to become more of a selfless lover, and provide for women the varieties of sex that can take them to the heights of pleasure, they will enjoy sex with you. Most men cannot, or will not, do this. Women don't enjoy sex with those men, or they don't for very long, at least.

    [–]fingermybrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Can you please expound on “the varieties of sex...and learn to become a selfless lover.” Please explain Im 35 very little to no experience, socially awkward but ripped from swimming hard 2-4mi/day for 9 months now and naturally well above avg looks long brown curly hair i.e. a unicorn.

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    [–]wss5112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Not that I disagree just another perspective. Because women are way more sensitive than us and so they will find sex much more enjoyable than us. As such, we can also think about how to take advantage from it such as gaining control through sex.

    An analogy would be drug. A drug addict can be easily controlled by controlling their drug supply. Same thing for women. Not that a regular woman is a drug addict but you get the idea. The degree of addiction varies depending on personality and physiology.

    So my view is, fuck hard and give as much as you can offer to your partner in terms of sex experience. To make her more adhered to sex, perhaps by edging and denial to push it even further. Treat them as a sexual object (when both wanted sex) as a respect. Because that’s what women truly enjoy and want.

    [–]The-Hoss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Not disagreeing with you at all

    [–]t_jones730 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    The clit actually has like twice as many nerve endings as the tip of the penis, if not more.

    [–]Demiurge_Decline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I am with you here. Never thought about it this way. Sex may be more pleasurable for woman. Just look at their genitals. They even have breasts that feel. Thus her body is more designed for a better sexual experience. Not even counting the fact that women bodies are by far more attractive than mens. How so? You have to work out to be attractive. A woman just cant be tooo fat. Why? Sex appeal is already prevalent in their frame.

    [–]kanteroalberda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Does it mean you should act sexually with them by physical contact more? Or its excessive validation giving?

    [–]tolerantman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    What I can say about female nature? 50 Shades of Grey is the best selling fiction book of all time.

    That's what I have to say about it.

    [–]omega_dawg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    step 1. you're young and learn about your sexuality and have little control.

    step 2. you learn about the female body and use a few tricks to get her off... it's about her, then you.

    step 3. you grow older and learn to (respectfully) use women for your pleasure... realizing that they will get their pleasure along the way. you're the porn director and you move her and position her around as you please.