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Field Report“Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But I Am Now” (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by get-tilted

INTRODUCTION

I found this great article that I thought I’d share. I’m not exactly sure what the linking practices area, so I’ll just leave it out and let y’all copy and paste what I have quoted.

It really illustrates the main points to TRP theory very well, but mostly I just wanna talk some shit. So, let’s jump into it.

BODY

I don’t know you yet but I’m so ready to date you. Seriously, I am. For a long time, I dated bad boys.

Hell yeah, I can’t wait to get 42nds on some dried up, post wall slag.

Yes, I was that girl you blame for always coming in last. I guess I dated bad boys because, somehow, I liked their unavailability, sexy sideways glances, and late-night calls.

I’m glad she feels good about getting midnight calls to be the personal fleshlight to some dude. I wouldn’t.

I fed off the chase and mystery they provided me. I saw them as a challenge that I always happily accepted.

Clearly they didn’t see you as a challenge.

Let me tell you, I’ve dated so many jerks throughout the years.

Believe me, we know. It’s probably not accurate to say “dated” either, is it now

A lot of times, I ended up being disappointed with how it ended with them, and wondered why I always had such blind optimism about these guys I clearly knew were jerks to begin with. But to be honest, I don’t regret any of it now.

Of course you don’t, you got dicked down by tons of guys and even had time to feel something about them!

I learned a lot from each and every one of those bad boys. I learned something from every un-answered text, from every “I’m just not looking for a relationship” talk, and from every lame excuse as to why he just couldn’t make to my house party until after 1 am.

Don’t try to make us feel bad, just because you couldn’t get dick till after 1am and went into each FWB expecting a husband. Sounds like a you problem.

I guess I never let the jerks get to me. I realized it was never me; it was always them.

Yup, it was their fault you gave away your goods and services like some failing socialist country.

I was born with an abundance of self-confidence.

I didn’t know they called big titties self-confidence nowadays.

Maybe that’s why I was never too bothered by each guy who was a jerk to me.

Or maybe it was because you got the dick you wanted from them.

Maybe it was because I was smart enough to realize I never actually wanted to end up with a jerk.

Definitely not this one.

It was always you I wanted, Nice Guy.

Actions speak louder than words, and the actions clearly tell me you just can’t get any more alpha males and are now stuck with beta males.

With all that being said, I’m ready to date a Nice Guy. I’ve learned all the lessons I need to learn from bad boys.

I didn’t realize they called getting facials learning lessons nowadays. Man, the times really change, don’t they.

I now have the ability to distinguish between when to give up on a relationship and when to fight harder.

When the checks bounce and the money ain’t green, give up. It’s obvious.

I know all the excuses and lies and can see when it’s right to say a big ‘f*ck you’ or an ‘okay, I’ll let you make it up to me.’ I know what it’s like get all dressed up for a night out only to sit in your room watching Netflix, crying and staring at your phone because the person you had plans with never showed.

I REALLY feel bad that you couldn’t add another cock to your collection because something better popped up.

And that a “got too drunk sorry” text is not a sufficient excuse or apology.

That’s totally a sufficient excuse and apology. Nobody owes you shit, so there’s no reason to act like your dog was just shot in front of you because you couldn’t fit in a dick appointment for the night.

know all these things. My mom always said that the problem with people who end up unhappy is that they don’t know how to walk away from something that has already served it purpose.

VERY wise words from your mom. Once the condom is spent, learn a nice lesson and take a nice hike.

ell, I can see now that bad boys have served all the purpose they possibly could in my life and that it’s time for me to learn a new lesson. I want to learn from you, Nice Guy.

RIGHT, it’s YOU saying no to the “bad boys” and not the “bad boys” laughing at you for thinking you’re worth a drunk fuck.

t’s time for me to learn what its like to have someone to fall back on when I feel weak. It’s time for me to understand what its like to open up to someone without the fear that I’ll be emotionally shamed or that it will scare them away. It’s time for me to understand why people write love songs or tear up at the end of the notebook.

Wow, you really think you’re worth that, don’t you. Reminds me of incels who think they’re worth more than fat women. Too much hope, not enough time.

want to know what it’s like to be desired for more than my body, for someone to look at me with passionate eyes, slowly but surely falling in love with my mind, body and soul.

You know what you wrote is off fuckin base if I were to tell a guy “go tell your boyfriend about it when you’re jerking him off” if he said it.

Believe me, you’ll never be more than a body to most men worth their weight in salt. It’s on you to fulfill that requirement or go find a guy so beta that you’ll lose interest on day two.

want to know what it’s like to have someone who will always show up, who will always make time for me and who will always respect me.

Whose money will always work, who values their time so little that mine is worth more, and will always treat me like a queen*

want to know what it’s like to be able to count on someone, and know that even though love is never safe, I will be safely hurt by them. Mostly, I know I can learn all these things from you, Nice Guy.

Read: I want them to apologize to me for everything.

don’t want anyone thinking I hate bad boys. I don’t hate them; I’m just done with them.

HAHAHAHA YOU’RE done with THEM. Please, you’re a walking STD who’s no longer worth the risk of a rubber. Don’t act like you’ve decided to turn over a new leaf, at least be honest with yourself.

have to thank bad boys for a lot actually. Bad boys have taught me how to depend on myself. How to pick up my broken pieces. They’ve allowed me to secure the perfect break-up remedy. Booze, friends, rebounds, cry, workout, acceptance, find new bad boy, repeat.

Hey, at least you’ll know that for... uhhhhh... right. Fucking and losing alpha men. Useful life skill, huh?

understand myself so much better because of these bad boys. I know what I’m like at my worst. But I’m ready to know what I’m like at my best.

Your best is an unenthusiastic blowjob, let’s be real here. Your worst is that 4some you had with those 3 football players, which is also the peak of your life.

promise you this, Nice Guy: I don’t know you yet, but I will be a nice girl to you in return. I will show you what you’re like at you’re best. I will treat you with the respect you deserve and will always answer your call when you need me. I will show you what all those bitchy girls couldn’t.

For like a year after marriage. But I’m sure there are dozens of guys lining up to the throne of the queen!!

CONCLUSION

Honestly, I’m glad I’m TRP aware. This shit is straight up emasculating to whatever poor sap decides herpes isn’t that big a deal.

In the end, we all know this chick is stuck with her options of former alpha gone bad or beta bitch. It seems like she’s made her choice, and has decided to live with it.

Don’t become so low that THIS is what you get at the end of your life.


[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

As another poster has already stated:

Posts like this one may be fun, but they are ultimately useless and foster the wrong mindset.

[–]BlackTemplar1989 386 points387 points  (25 children)

"Hell yeah, I can’t wait to get 42nds on some dried up, post wall slag."

Your lack of faith in a 3-digit-number is disturbing.

[–]RedPlanetMan 123 points124 points  (4 children)

Your lack of faith in the number 42 is disturbing.

[–]MoDuReddit 48 points49 points  (2 children)

No wonder, he didn't knew the question.

[–]RedPlanetMan 21 points22 points  (1 child)

In the beginning [it] was created. This made a lot of people angry and has widely been considered as a bad move.

[–]myfault93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I now some girls with an N count of over 200. Most women will never admit this they always lie.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 11 points12 points  (3 children)

And there's a fuck-ton of her "I wants", and not much what she brings to the table: I want to know what it’s like to have someone who will always show up, who will always make time for me and who will always respect me. I want to know what it’s like to be able to count on someone, and know that even though love is never safe, I will be safely hurt by them. Mostly, I know I can learn all these things from you, Nice Guy.

Too little, too late in my book.

[–]inhiarashi 1 point2 points  (2 children)

She thinks she wants a nice guy, but she'd be in hell if she stuck it out and was actually with one, regardless of her age.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Any time a woman says "I want" or "I feel" or "I think" you can add a "right now" at the end. She thinks she want's a "nice guy" right now because she's sick of being used as a cum dumpster. If she lures a feckless beta into her trap, she will get bored soon, and be hooking up with bad boys on the side.

[–]inhiarashi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or other feckless betas. Really doesn't matter at her age, if she's adickted, she's adicked and she will do whatever she can to keep it going.

[–]zdenipeni 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Fucking her at this point is like sticking a hot dog wiener in a tunnel.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 216 points217 points  (11 children)

Feminists say "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."

I say: "If I don't deserve you at your best, I'm not dealing with you at your worst."

[–]chances_are_ur_a_fag 121 points122 points  (5 children)

if you're not willing to be with me for the best ten years of your life, don't expect me to be with you for your 30 worst

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt[M] 16 points17 points  (1 child)

I dropped a modified version of that in the article's comments:

https://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/04/dear-nice-guy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/#thought_catalog_comments

Dear Millennial and Generation Z women:

If you're not willing to be with me for the best ten years (18-28) of your life, don't expect me to be with you for your 30+ worst. That's how the social contract works.

Furthermore, it's the memories of youth (while you were at your hottest and most fertile, which is what female beauty is based upon) that serves as the sexual glue once your looks have faded. If you don't want your husband porking the baby sitter or a hiring a pro behind your back, then you'd best be giving him the best sex your 18-28 year old self is capable of.

In this day and age of women squandering their best years and expecting to pencil in a husband and kids with a nice guy they have to settle for (who 10 years ago they'd have never looked twice at), is it any wonder divorce rates are as high as they are?

I wish I could remember where I read or heard that part about the hottest years informing lust over the long-term, but now that I'm getting older I can absolutely vouch for it. Granted this assumes guys aren't trading in older women for younger ones, but in reality most guys simply can't enjoy that kind of lifestyle. Hell, in this day and age most guys would be LUCKY to even get laid in a given year, let alone have an abundance of women to choose from and trade up.

[–]TheYekke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, those 40-something divorces women are a dime a dozen. Once they stray past the 9 month mark post finalization without a new mark they panic. And start approaching men

[–]dDiegoDLV 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Save your worst for your girlfriends. There are women ready to take your place before the weekend gets here and my tolerance for BS is close to zero.

[–]DeontologicalSanders 7 points8 points  (1 child)

One of the best posts I ever read on here, paraphrased:

If at any point you expect someone you care about to accept your worst, you're a garbage person.

[–]inhiarashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to keep to myself when I'm at my worst. Good to handle it before I go on being social.

[–]TempleDank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome quote right here! Really good way to look at it

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad 163 points164 points  (14 children)

She will probably find a nice guy and have kids and a house and will inwardly seethe how her beta husband doesn't stand up for himself and will often feign headaches to avoid sex. He will commiserate with other chubby hubbies over beers and nachos about what bitches they married and how trapped they are and happylifehappywife nonsense

Or maybe she lives with 11 cats.

Either way, doesn't matter. It's up to you to do the things you want with your life, so after you internalize female behavior and motivations, I'd let this snarky type of thinking go.

[–]1Jaereth 33 points34 points  (2 children)

He will commiserate with other chubby hubbies over beers and nachos about what bitches they married and how trapped they are and happylifehappywife nonsense

It's a small point of personal joy to call these people out on their miserable bullshit.

Whenever people start talking about this and that about married life, I just respond with "I don't know, I still do whatever I want whenever I want." Sex too. I don't talk about it with those types of guys, but believe me, it's worse than you think. (I work with a lot of them). One guy was all giddy at Christmas time because he gets "Christmas ass".

When I say I still do whatever I want they just chuckle like "Oh sure you do!!!". They just can't believe someone didn't succumb to the ultimate rule of the female they were so "lucky" to get.

Choose your mates wisely. Commitment is the man's resource. Don't throw it around thoughtlessly.

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    [–]1Jaereth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I am that man. Did you actually read my post or the first line?

    I was talking about telling whipped husbands that there is a possible alternative way to live life. Not expressing any anger at the original article (which I agree is a waste of time to dissect, but whatever. 10 years ago it probably would have offended me too)

    [–]zdenipeni 34 points35 points  (0 children)

    And fuck the pool guy or the gardener or the mailman or the chad the gym who just wants a quick fuck, but probably all 4 of them and more while hubby is slaving away at work thinking about what a great trophy wife he has

    [–]SKRedPill 50 points51 points  (4 children)

    OP's post is a good example of the shit that appears in every form of media imaginable - you name it. Gone are the days when news used to be about information, content and presentation.

    Take a good luck at who owns and funds media outlets and you'll understand everything. In my country virtually all the newspapers and TV outlets are owned and funded by the left liberal opposition. They lost their shit after the conservatives got elected.

    There should be a post about that.

    [–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 13 points14 points  (1 child)

    I concur, but it's more a political topic than one about sexual strategy.

    [–]Awxen -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

    In TRP it's one and the same.

    [–]omega_dawg93 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    wtf are you talking about?

    take a break from the politics. life isn't all about that shit.

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      [–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      A woman is driven by primal instincts to submit to powerful men.

      While it may look like winning to be comfortable and taken care of by a hard working beta male, it isnt satisfying to women at all

      See DivorceRapeInc. Then HungryCougarHousewives on Bravo

      [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Don't worry about the scoreboard...just hit the ball.

      [–]confusedguy911911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      All about supply and demand , always some poor fuck thats gonna take home a worn out cock carousel queen

      [–]get-tilted[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Yeah you’re right. This isn’t regular me, it’s been a rough week. Usually I’ll look at these and laugh to myself

      [–]zdenipeni 81 points82 points  (6 children)

      The I was a bad girl phase is gone ( until she gets bored and reverts to her slut self) , and now I want a nice beta male because of financial security and maybe a child because I need a purpose in life shit gets me every time. The realisation that there is always a influx of younger, hotter and better girls is what gets this type of women in a "mid life slut " crisis and they realise that without a man, a child or a meaningful career they will be looked down upon as a used up slut rag they actually really are. Good

      [–]SKRedPill 40 points41 points  (5 children)

      If you google it up, some of the authors of these shit articles are pinnacles of wrecked human beings - so much so they ought to belong in a museum of modern art.

      [–]zdenipeni 30 points31 points  (4 children)

      Yea everything from daddy issues, identity crisis , lack of self worth, they think their gender changes every 2 and a half days . Crazy deranged people

      [–]SKRedPill 17 points18 points  (2 children)

      At this point I'm really grateful we're grounded in our physical bodies. If it weren't for those, the universe wouldn't be able to contain this insanity.

      Speaking of daddy issues, a LOT of girls that grow up to become feminists have issues with their fathers, wounds that never healed.

      [–]zdenipeni 13 points14 points  (1 child)

      Yea they have rich daddies that bought them gifts could never give them love, so they hop from dick to dick for the excitement and quick dopamine rush "searching for love" only to wind up old used up lonely and smelling of corrosion and death

      [–]SKRedPill 12 points13 points  (0 children)

      Or they didn't have strong dads (or even dads at all) in the first place.

      [–]TheYekke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I see the daddy issues start young. Train wrecks

      [–]Riftactics 127 points128 points  (13 children)

      Anger phase strong in you is, my friend.

      [–]dDiegoDLV 23 points24 points  (1 child)

      I was thinking this too. Why be mad at a woman for acting like a woman? Their core programming is fuck the top guy(s).

      OP if you want to waste time being angry direct it at all the "just be yourself" BS. You can be whoever you want as long as you're swole and DGAF.

      This woman is just the flip side of the coin. You bought into the lie that you can have a rewarding life and get plenty of sex being a skinny fat gamer. She still buys into the lie to ride the carousel. Then prince charming will show up when she is ready to SETTLE down and get knocked up.

      After leasing Audis, BMWs, and Porsches for a decade she can never be truly happy owning a Toyota. The Toyota is dependable and requires little $ or maintainance to run. The fancy cars broke down often, cost big $$$ to drive, were broken into, stolen, or repossessed. She still misses the excitement of stepping on that accelerator though. She will secretly hate the Toyota and always be ready to trade it in should the opportunity aries to lease something more exciting.

      [–]TheYekke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      The only way to reset the biatch is to make sure they get to hit rock bottom.

      [–]SelfTaughtPiano 38 points39 points  (4 children)

      The woman who wrote this article is a selfish cunt.

      Its all me, me, me.

      Honestly, that Rollo Tomassi post that is stickied right now. "The Golden Ticket". This reminds me of that.

      Women are born with privilege. They're born being desired simply for who they are. Life is easy mode. Social safety net. So many advantages.

      Why shouldn't I be angry?

      [–]TheYekke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      That dog would get smacked and sent to obedience school. Just because I own a lighter doesn’t mean it’s acceptable to set fire to your house.

      [–]Wow_Much_Profit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

      You are being angry at a fact of life. Hating these braindead women won’t improve your life in any way. Just embrace it, live your life and never stop improving as a man.

      [–]OhAndOneMoreThing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

      Keep on working man, when you pop out the end of the Red Pill tunnel it's all blue skies and sunshine. You'll get there.

      One day you won't be mad, you'll just accept women for what they are...We do what's best for us, I can't even be mad at women trying to get theirs...if they conflict I still plan on winning tho

      [–]DeontologicalSanders 8 points9 points  (2 children)

      Agreed. Posts like this, while fun, are ultimately useless and foster the wrong mindset.

      Remember: The #1 thing women are on the lookout for is men who have a negative attitude toward women in general.

      Read enough satirical responses to (admittedly) self-absorbed , solipsistic female bullshit like this, and you realize that when women say or write crap like this, it's just another shit test. It's bait. A carrot to induce men to call her out on her unwitting narcissism and rationalization. To allow her to get "offended" at the man's response, and plausibly write him off as "mean-spirited" and "bitter", so she and her friends can hen-peck him to death as undesirable. Because to women, no matter what, any man who is "bitter" or "angry" at a woman, is that way because he is unattractive and unsuccessful with women. Responding to this kind of shit is just another form of arguing with women, and when you argue with women, you never win.

      Women don't want men who are supportive of their bullshit. They don't want men who agree with it. They don't want men who argue with it. They don't want men who think they can or should correct it. They don't want men who wax philosophical about it.

      The only kind of man a woman wants is the kind of man who is clever enough to recognize her bullshit, and too important to pay it any mind.

      Be that man.

      [–]1scissor_me_timbers00 4 points5 points  (1 child)

      Yeah this is a great point. Although I’ll slightly disagree in that I think it’s quite healthy for a guy to get pissed and be indignant at how full of shit modern women are. It truly fills me with disgust to read shit like this.

      However, you make the crucial point that you should NEVER reveal these particular emotions to a woman because she will spin it against you and label you a bitter loser. DO NOT GIVE THESE STUPID WOMEN ANYTHING TO SPIN AGAINST YOU. THEY HAVE NO SCRUPLES WITH THAT SHIT.

      [–]DeontologicalSanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Yeah, just want to clarify: I am definitely not suggesting it's unhealthy or wrong for men to have these thoughts; just that it's pointless and self-defeating to act upon them.

      [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

      As it should be

      [–]Pezotecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      TRP even validates itself by posters xd

      [–]Lyxeka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

      A girl can rack up a body count of 100 by sleeping with 1 new guy every weekend for 2 years. That is super easy for them.

      [–]1Ramesses_ 75 points76 points  (13 children)

      Why are you wasting your time on this shit? How is this helping you achieve your goals? Just let the world's morons be morons and focus on what YOU want to achieve. Leave everyone else out of it.

      [–]SKRedPill 19 points20 points  (0 children)

      He has one point though. This is the kind of shit I get in my google search, the online newspapers, the editorials and especially social media all day. And when it's not that it's twitter and tabloids with HUGE, STUNNING, SHOCK revelations.

      Absolute BS is what sells now.

      [–]get-tilted[S] 33 points34 points  (6 children)

      Honestly, it’s not.

      As I see it, writing and developing my personal voice in my free time is a lot better than jerking off and playing video games.

      [–]Edgysan 5 points6 points  (4 children)

      I hope making such post made you feel better inside, but it was a bigger waste of time than gaming

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        [–]Edgysan 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        the whole post sounds like butthurt, being red pilled means you realized how shit works and adjust accordingly... if some newb saw this, he could simply claim OP is some poor beta who's mad about women whoring out. which I assume is not true

        [–]Thinkingard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        That's just your own mindset. When I read the post I laughed and enjoyed OP's breakdown. It's amusing. If you are still in a bitter phase I guess I can see how it would make you react the way you did, or if you think others will react this way. You're basically just concern trolling and shaming OP like a woman would.

        [–]platoonpluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        Not necessarily - it shows he has an awareness to see through the horseshit she posted. I agree with a lot of the comments that sometimes it’s better to channel the anger in a more constructive way, but OP is embedding the ideas in his mind and subconscious. Plus, it’s fine to have a laugh every now and again. If this was a regular thing, then sure, but I don’t think it is.

        [–]thirdincomestream 8 points9 points  (0 children)

        Just let the world's morons be morons

        If everyone who posted and maintained this sub thought the same, I'd still be plugged in and headed off the edge of a cliff.

        That's why it's not a waste of time to post things like this. What is obvious to you and I is sometimes life-changing to those who are just passing by or seeing this info for the first time. Consider the first time you came to this sub, if you can remember what that was even like. I can. I was frustrated and just pissed the fuck off, felt like I had so many questions, and everything was just all fucked up in my life.

        It was probably some simple post like this that was my jumping off point, and it sucked me in. Realizing that other people were frustrated like I was, or that people (like you, and now myself) were so far past that anger and confusion that it seemed like nothing, well... That was a huge hook for me. I just wanted to be out of my misery. A post like this was the catalyst that started my change. That's why I'll defend it, even if it's basic and offers me nothing at the point I'm at.

        Simple doesn't mean useless.

        [–]DexterM1776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        Why are you here? TRP helps men understand women and how to hold frame and achieve our goals. It's post like these that help other men take the pill and start their journey.

        If men didn't "waste their time" we wouldn't have a sub with all this information.

        [–]1Jaereth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Just let the world's morons be morons and focus on what YOU want to achieve.

        Yeah. After reading the first few lines of this I pretty much knew how it would end and stopped.

        [–]inhiarashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        This should be the top comment.

        Take my god damned upvote.

        [–]TRP VanguardtrpSenator 11 points12 points  (0 children)

        I always find this situation so telling of the genders. When explaining it to a guy, guys always instinctively get what makes them uncomfortable about it, but explaining it to a woman, most the time they are so self defensive or lacking self awareness it’s almost impossible to explain how it’s frustrating.

        Guys always see what actually is happening here: girl has been chasing a certain type of guy. It’s very obvious she was chasing players and these guys didn’t really place her very high considering how they’d just use her as a flesh light and bounce.

        As she got older, things changed. These men divided into two categories. The first are the. Finally settling down, the guys she’s been chasing are now getting married and focusing on their careers. They are leaving the dating market for the top tier hotty they decided to get with. Now she’s learning she’s not actually going to get drafted to the major leagues. She got passed up on every round and one of the teams want her.

        The second are the other bunch of guys are just losers. While they are seeing their friends take trips to Spain and Costa Rica the only bad boys on the market willing to settle down with her deliver pizzas or if they aren’t a loser, are just going to continue using her as a flashlight until HB10 comes around and she’s left out to dry.

        This lady is coming to terms with the fact that she spent her whole life trying to get into the major leagues only to learn they were just dragging her along because they needed people to fill up the practice squad. Meanwhile, she burned all her bridges with really good offers in the lower leagues where she belongs. So this article of hers is her trying to beg for forgiveness to the lower ranks she burned. Her options now suck. Everyone is passing her up and the remaining options of men are losing value. She wants security. She wants the trips and house and nice things. But the nice guys are the only ones available at this point and she already burned them by using them as a practice squad, just as she got used.

        Unfortunately explaining this to most women falls on deaf ears. Men get it, intuitively. Whereas women will just hamster endlessly justifying their hypocrisy.

        [–]SKRedPill 30 points31 points  (1 child)

        Pure Fucking Media horseshit. If you google the authors of these shit posts, you'll find some phenomenal pieces of wreckage - they'd be classified as modern art! (yeah, that dig is intentional - today's art scene ought to tell you how ridiculous sollipsism can get - I mean where else can you show a blank white canvas with a black square in it and claim it represents a deep and profound illustration of racism?)

        Once upon a time, the media stuck to publishing news and reporting -- i.e. the content. They even had puzzles and crosswords to get your brain to work. The language was good. Some news and radio anchors had excellent pronunciation - their voices were known all over the country.

        When it got feminized, it became more of opinion, picking sides, unashamed propaganda and politicking than actual news reports -- totally personal and sollipsistic. Lots of screaming, drama, TV ratings, 24x7 ad nauseum noise. I swear to God, I can actually feel my brain cells dying by watching TV today. Now a days you can tell the difference between a news article and a "Dear so and so (and this even includes the president or prime minister), this is what I think"... - Now there's no difference between media and social media.

        Take a good luck at who owns and funds media outlets and you'll understand everything.

        There's a big list of tabloids blocked in my google search results and life has been far better. Speaking of google, they're notorious for publishing opinion only articles.

        [–]-uftw- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

        Stop using Google. DuckDuckGo is your friend.

        [–]Thinkingard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

        Sounds almost like a bot wrote this it's so devoid of personality and full of cliches.

        "I will be a nice girl to you" "I will treat you with respect"

        Translation: I'm done being a dirty girl in the bedroom, I'm ready for missionary and starfish for the rest of my life because I respect you.

        Like OP I'm glad to be RP aware too. I've fully accepted just about everything and nothing surprises me anymore. It's just better to live this way because, honestly, it sucks being ignorant of human nature. This girl's shitty essay on riding the cock carousel and looking for beta bucks as she hits the wall is so spot on I'd swear someone from RP was trolling. And the sad part is, she will never stop riding the carousel. She will stay on it fully, or, if she goes to beta bucks she will eventually cheat on him or divorce. If she doesn't, she will never be happy with the BB and morph into a nasty, fat, old bitter bitch by her 40s.

        [–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime 17 points18 points  (3 children)

        One thing to take away from this is that behavior only occurs because it's allowed.

        The "bad boys" used her as a cumdumpster because she allowed it.

        The nice guy is going to settle for this cumpdumpster because he's allowing it.

        A dog will keep shitting on your carpet if you allow it.

        It's up to each individual to find what they're willing to allow and enforce boundaries accordingly.

        [–]bigimaaaaaagination 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        You treat sex like a negative. Hoes are fin to bang if you dont have confidence issues.

        [–]thirdincomestream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        What you've written here is essentially the universal principle of relationships. Whether its business, romantic, platonic, this still applies

        Everyone has sovereignty. It's up to you to enforce it. Want to be respected by your wife, customer, stranger on the bus? Accept nothing less and enforce your expectations.

        If a woman in my life disrespects me, she's out.

        If a customer is a dickhead or doesn't pay on time, they're out.

        Stranger on the bus invades my space, they'll be moved out of the way.

        Life is really as simple as having a goal (positive enforcement) or expectation (negative enforcement), and then applying force in order to achieve it.

        [–]SKRedPill -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

        The "bad boys" used her as a cumdumpster because she allowed it.

        You are asking the modern 'empowered' independent woman to take responsibility (gasp!) for her mistakes instead of only blaming men! <Sarcasm>

        [–]markinsinz7 10 points11 points  (4 children)

        They'll always find someone in the end. Trust me there's no point in making these posts unless u made it for the newbies here.

        I've seen tons of Chad's wifing up these girls as well but they are pre-wall almost always. As for the ones post wall yea it's the nice guys. Nevertheless our society is fucked and it's just enjoy the decline.

        [–]CapnPoot 18 points19 points  (3 children)

        LOL it really doesnt matter if they “find” someone. A person who has gone through years of causing themselves irreparable emotional damage and desensitization will never truly be happy, and will always fck things up.

        Source: The million older divorced women who shit on their husbands, and the million ex-carousel riders who are married but still cheating/are miserable and “bored”.

        [–]markinsinz7 7 points8 points  (1 child)

        True but it's not about their happiness that pisses me off its the very fabric of society. Our family structure is destroyed . Yes the whore nature of women has always been in them but that's why we had order. Now it's just chaos everywhere.

        [–]dDiegoDLV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        Our family structure is destroyed

        Of course it is. Divorce is big business, two rents/mortgages instead of one, more clothes for the kids, double toys, etc.

        All that matters to the people who actually run things is funneling the money to the very top.

        [–]zdenipeni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

        Or the women who divorced her husband for millions then got fat and ugly and said that her ex husband is to blame for her getting fat. Even though they did not even speak after the divorce she still blamed him

        [–]RealMcGonzo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

        In the entire, awful screed she never once says anything about what she will do, except for this bit at the end:

        I will be a nice girl to you in return. I will show you what you’re like at you’re best. I will treat you with the respect you deserve and will always answer your call when you need me. I will show you what all those bitchy girls couldn’t.

        I can absolutely without reservation guaran-damn-tee that will not happen.

        [–]CptFizz 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        [–]YingYangYolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        By anonymous

        So people think this is real why?

        [–]tall_bacon 4 points5 points  (2 children)

        “I’m done with the cock carousel because nobody wants my 38-year old used up body, I swear I always wanted you but just didnt know it...please try to have a baby with me despite my now-high miscarriage chance so I can salvage some semblance of fulfilling my biological prerogative”

        [–]Ivan_The_Reddish 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        Not just miscarriages. Chromosomal defect chances skyrocket as women age.

        [–]OldStinkFinger[🍰] 13 points14 points  (9 children)

        Be my bosses daughter. Get banged by a few of her colleges football players. All are black guys. Get in few bad relationships. Also with black guys. Now she is married to a corney white guy. Which is sure not to last. Already complaining about him 6 months in.

        [–]anferny08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        So black guys are more alpha than white guys. Got it.

        [–]TheLanternFlame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        I think I already saw this post (or similar to this post) last year. Same content and same rp talk.

        [–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

        I was never too bothered by each guy who was a jerk to me.

        Guaranteed she was, the first few times. After that, it wasn't a big deal. Why? That annoying "pair-bonding" concept finally died off. She's ready for her starter marriage, now!

        [–]Prison4SideofBeef 1 point2 points  (3 children)

        Do post-wall women write these articles with hope that it will encourage one of the rich betas in their office or social circle to ask them out?

        [–]get-tilted[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        They don’t have to do much encouraging lol

        [–]Prison4SideofBeef 1 point2 points  (1 child)

        I just don't understand why this article is rewritten every two weeks by a different journalist.

        [–]get-tilted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        It’s just a way to feed the hamster a bit.

        She’d probably feel like a bad person if she realized she really just wanted nice guys for the money. Or, she’d feel REALLY bad if she had to realize that she isn’t choosing the beta males, she’s being forced into it by way of being rejected by alpha males.

        It’s just a way to protect the ego.

        [–]Kyson5 6 points7 points  (2 children)

        Anger phase is in full swing here-- So women spend time on the cock carousel and then realize their time is nearly up as they near the end of the journey straight into the wall. ---Newsflash--- Bears shit in the woods

        You wasted your time ranting at a woman about her article, on a sub full of guys that couldn't give two shits about the post-wall cumdumpster

        Ask yourself, couldn't you have spent those 30mins doing something productive instead of telling us what we already know?

        Recommendation:

        Do anything but this, if you didn't know then at least you do now, but be warned: Mods here have zero tolerance for pointless drivel that doesn't serve anyone any purpose

        [–]dDiegoDLV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        Mods here have zero tolerance for pointless drivel that doesn't serve anyone any purpose

        This post is a decent introduction for the noobs or a reminder for people who have been here awhile.

        The woman actually believes she will be happy in a LTR with a Nice GuyTM It is a reminder that most women don't even know themselves.

        [–]Buddhist_Panda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

        I hate to say it because this sub has been very helpful for me, but I see a lot of posts like this one nowadays, written by angry guys who just want to point out the hidden agendas of women whom they wish would’ve slept with them in their primes. It’s not very helpful for anything really.

        [–]1Jaereth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        from every “I’m just not looking for a relationship”

        Here's a little nugget of truth. Always ok for a woman, never for a man.

        Don't ever let a woman compel you into a commitment you don't want boys. Stay free if that's what you're into.

        [–]MushroomTaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        This article is older than sliced bread.

        [–]RealMcGonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        A lot of times, I ended up being disappointed with how it ended with them, and wondered why I always had such blind optimism about these guys I clearly knew were jerks to begin with. But to be honest, I don’t regret any of it now.

        She does not regret any of it now. There's a statement worth searing into your brain with fire. Guys treated her like shit, used her for sex, dumped her and after a while it just didn't matter. It was still worth it to her. Doing something nice for some broad because you think it'll help you get laid is 100% pointless at best. And that's according to what women say, after they put the best possible, society-accepted spin on it.

        [–]WesternDoughnut 1 point2 points  (8 children)

        Can someone explain me this phenomenon?

        I was nice guy, got burned by my oneitis, but after that found redpill, learned my lesson and I'm slowly becoming a man -> great, keep lifting bro, you will be fine!

        But when girl learns her lesson with bad boys, she is slut and nothing will change it.

        I mean, if I can become high value man, why can't she become high value woman?

        [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 5 points6 points  (2 children)

        I mean, if I can become high value man, why can't she become high value woman?

        Men and women value different things in the SMP. So you can take a guy, get him into shape, teach him game, etc., and improve his position in the SMP. Not likely that you're going to turn and Omega into a Chad, but still, he can improve his SMV.

        With women? Men value youth, fertility and relative chastity (fuck your bf 1000 times? Ok. Fuck 1000 guys 1 time? Not ok. Why? Because the first shows stability and self-control and the second does not.) And once she has that 1000 cock stare? Well, you can't un-ring a bell.

        Imagine you win a car in a contest. Are you going to be happier if it's a new car or maybe a Certfied Pre-Owned car with one former owner, or if it's got 300K miles on it and is falling apart?

        [–]WesternDoughnut 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Yeah, I'd rather win brand new car, but as you said, you wont turn Omega into Chad, yet he still can improve SMV, and while I wouldn't find former slut marriage material, I'd still encourage her to stop fucking around and become as good as she can instead of telling her it's too late to find quality man (what is probably true)

        [–]wobbleelbbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        she won't. In order for her to even attempt at becoming good she must become humble and admit that she was a slut yada yada. None of which was done by the article's author.

        [–]get-tilted[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children)

        Sure.

        The thing is, there’s no TRP for women to tell them not to be sluts. It’s just basic biology at that point making them slow down

        But the mannerisms are still there. There are small things she’ll do to show her disloyalty to you, and the second something better pops up you know she’ll hop on that dick and off yours.

        There’s this old saying, you know. “You can’t teach a hoe to be a house wife.” It has some truth to it. Once a hoe, always a hoe.

        [–]WesternDoughnut 3 points4 points  (2 children)

        Actually there is TRP for women where they tell them not to be sluts.

        [–]get-tilted[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Yeah. The real life equivalent is finding a church girl, but even then it’s really 50/50

        [–]inhiarashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        It's 10/90. I have a bunch of pals from religions of all types and they all tell me great stories about church girls.

        There are good people, they are rare in all areas, there is no great cluster of them to dine upon. All groups have tons of average or shit human beings clogging up your journey for another great partner to compliment your kind of crazy.

        [–]wobbleelbbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Men and women are DIFFERENT. Let me say it again. DI-FFE-RENT! What applies to men doesn't necessarily apply to women. It is one of the most important things of the Red Pill.

        [–]friendlynaboureeno 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        I cant understand this post, is it in a girls perspective who loves Alpha dick, or a girls perspective who is sick of Alpha dick or a girl who wants Beta dick, because Alphas are jerks? Or osmething else

        Im not understanding this

        [–]hepahepahepa 1 point2 points  (1 child)

        Its an article written by a trolling dude.. Women dont write or rationalize in this way.

        [–]EnragedParrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        The article was definitely written by a woman a year or two ago.

        [–]bohemian_fappsody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        "If the kitten didn't want me, I don't want the cat."

        [–]Ananonguy88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        This article is internet and RP classic, anyone who do not know this one most probably is underage.

        [–]EdmondDaunts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        On the subject of the Notebook: It was all sweet happy ending with the only tragedy being her dementia. No twist. No L’Apartment-style entanglement.

        I was expecting her to have married the other bloke and the artist to have missed out only to be there at the end. Like a sad condolence for him.

        I’ve watched women heave with tears at the movie. I quite liked the scenes when they were younger knowing it was romantic crap. But when the story didn’t have real depth. Worse than Bobby Ewing in the shower.

        [–]freshoutofgravitas -1 points0 points  (0 children)

        Excellent post. This is brutal, and the proper way to see through a womans bullshit. HampsterSlayer 3000 material

        [–]CanonScooter1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Does anyone else have a picture of a girl they know when reading through this? Lol

        [–]arxdit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        I started running for the hills just by reading the title FFS

        [–]thirdincomestream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        I want to know what it’s like to be able to count on someone

        Dunno about yall, but to me that's a privilege. Very few people in life will afford you the privilege of being able to count on them.

        And what's with this "learning lessons" mentality? Sometimes there's no fucking lesson to learn. Sometimes you're just hitting your head against a wall and there's no greater purpose or point. Sometimes you're just stupid. It takes a real prideful person to believe that there's some divine lesson in every little thing. Reality says you're not that special.

        Stop doing stupid things like hitting your head against a brick wall repeatedly. Then maybe you'll be able to find something worthwhile to take a lesson from. Or not. Who cares. Not my problem.

        [–]willowhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Why do you guys find these articles?

        [–]StillHigh09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Wheres the part she mentions having a baby?

        [–]chocolatex 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Rollo has like 3 perfect posts on this topic.

        [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Yep. Hats Off To The Bull and Saving the Best are two of them.

        [–]Kyson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        The post itself is an interpretation of the plight of a post wall female, lots of sidebar material covers this

        While it's good to see members learning the nature of women, it serves no purpose repeating what is readily available

        [–]quansau1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Reminds me of that movie rules of attraction "one night she got drun and fucked the whole football team, she's now married to a senator with three kids, how time distorts things."

        [–]inhiarashi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Well I did the same thing and I'm a dude, so she's technically a perfect match for me.

        Plus she fucks better than any whore I could buy.

        Stick to your high standards and young women boys. These hags are only good for the one thing I'm interested in.

        EDIT: Since this is TRP and I don't want to confuse anyone, I'm joking, mostly posturing for the turds who will fall in and take the plunge with these women.

        They will breed and create terrible children, not because they mean to, but because they will grow up thinking these parents should be together and should treat each other the way they do, that men should pick up women who act like this when it's better that genetic code just leaves our pool.

        Just my twisted opinion :)

        [–]tweeknpinch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

        Thank you for being this to light! This should be handed to every high school freshman male as a guide to the bullshit that lies ahead.

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        [–]EnragedParrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        So why are you here then, fellow degenerate?

        [–]littlelady0220 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

        I get where you are coming from but your replies are very bitter, not really redpill. Life is about learning, a journey and putting other down because you think you’re actually worth more than anyone else is sad.