The SMP has changed drastically over the last few decades. Feminism and many other factors have morphed it into the wonder we see today. How you view it and more importantly how you approach it, will determine the outcomes of your ventures into it's murky waters.
First step is to establish whats on offer
Now If you're looking to eat a really good pizza, logically the best place to find a really good pizza would be at a pizza restaurant. The menu will be filled with many pizza options, crafted and made by skilled chefs specialized in making pizza.
Now what if I promised you a really good pizza, but, instead of sending you to a pizza place I sent you to a burger joint. When you get to the burger joint, things start looking a bit odd. There's no pizza ovens, no Italians, things are a bit off. You look at the menu and there's no Pizza. You try order a Pizza, but the waiter says they don't really serve Pizza. You insist that you were promised a really good pizza from this place. So they say they'll try their best. They cook up their best pizza and serve it. You eat it and it tastes like shit.
What went wrong?
Well the expectations were not built to fit the reality of the situation, which lead to inevitable disappointment.
This is why so many are still stranded in the Anger Phase.
Our SMP is not all that different. The Blue Pill Fantasy is promising us love, romance, marriage and unconditional love. But, when we get to the restaurant things start looking a bit odd. The menu is actually filled with a whole lot of casual sex, conditional love, divorce and hypergamy. We can still try to order our Blue Pill fantasy, but the reality is that it's most likely going to taste like shit. The SMP restaurant does not specialize in this and is not equipped to sell us what we desire.
So how do we derive more satisfaction out of the SMP?
Well we're going to have to re-shape our expectations to match the reality. Casual sex, conditional love, divorce and hypergamy may not be our first choice for dinner but if we want the best out of the SMP, we're far better off ordering whats available than expecting it to serve up some fantasy that was never readily on offer.
Some may boycott the SMP restaurant and starve(MGTOW), but those who want to go out and eat are going to have to change their dinner plans. Only once they have done this can they begin to try and order the best of what's on the menu. They can start to engage with the restaurant and find out what's it's juiciest , tastiest burger and how much it's gonna cost. The whole dining experience becomes easier to digest once you stop longing for that pizza.
This way our expectations are congruent with the reality. The SMP restaurant will be equipped to produce the object of our desire.
Making it work for you
If you want it to work for you, understand it. Understand that you need to vet women thoroughly before handing over your commitment. Understand that you will have to work hard at lifting, game and frame to succeed with women. Understand that her love is not unconditional, it's conditional on what she sees from you. Understand that you can make casual sex work for you, by plating and enjoying the fruits of many women. Understand that you can get into an LTR but will have to employ certain behaviors to make it worthwhile for you. Hell you can even get married, but understand that there are risks associated and you will have to manage them accordingly.
Ultimately understand the market for what it is, and adjust your expectations accordingly. Only then you can adjust your behavior to extract what you want out of it.
Go to the burger joint and order a damn burger.