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Blue Pill ExampleHigh School Nerd Kisses One-itis - 24 years later! (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by thetotalpackage7

This is a top post today from the Off My Chest Sub. IT IS NOT MY STORY. How screwed is this dude about to get:

She was one of those popular girls in High School. Heck, she was better than those popular girls at school because she never gossiped or said anything bad about anyone to anyone. She was nice to me, always said hello to me, always smiled. She was the one all the boys wanted. I helped her out once on a school project and as a thank you she took me out to dinner when she was driving me home (she had a license and I didn't!). I had such a crush on her.

What shot did a nerdy (My mom still bought my clothes for me at 16!) bookworm like me have with a popular girl like her? Even though I knew she'd say no, I don't think I could have dealt with the rejection so I never tried asking her out. After High School, I would run into her occasionally at the clubs and sometimes when visiting friends at her school (we went to different colleges in town). And that was pretty much it, after I graduated I didn't see her at all and she passed into memory.

Fast forward to this year. I've changed quite a bit obviously, more confident and comfortable in my skin as all adults should be by now (Although ironically, I'm posting this with a throwaway). She popped up on my recommended friends list on facebook so I added her. We started chatting, catching up on what happened to the both of us after high school and made plans to meet up for dinner to catch up in person.

Meeting up at dinner, she still looked every bit as beautiful as the day I met her. Still the same pinball smile and bright eyes that all made my heart skip a beat everytime she looked my way in highschool. She told me that she had always found me nicer than the other boys at school and really cute and smart. I admitted to her that I had a huge crush on her all throughout high school. She acted surprised and asked me why I didn't ask her out if I had a crush. A little part of me died knowing that I actually had a shot with her back then. Dinner was wonderful and we went out to a pub for a quick evening drink and made plans to meet up again on the weekend.

And then as we were walking back to our vehicles, we stopped and said goodnight and we finally kissed. 16 year old me would be so proud.

(Comments indicate that she has kids now too of course and they "love him")


[–]BugDestroyer 157 points158 points  (9 children)

This woman knows what's she doing. Post-wall single mom is aware that he's a nerd who can't get laid. He's going to raise her kid. Until one day, she divorce rapes him and he'll have to pay child support. Basically she's a parasite who found a host.

[–]Truedemocracy4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep she's securing resources. Already has the chad alpha genes in the kid, now getting the dollars for the kids education and needs. Maybe she actually likes him - who knows. But beta bux alpha fucks applies most often with single mothers looking for that safety net and some beta loser finally glad he can get a hot girl

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    [–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    GTFO my TRP.

    [–]HappyScribe 59 points60 points  (10 children)

    She told me that she had always found me nicer than the other boys at school and really cute and smart.

    This shows how women will post rationalize. I guarantee she didn't have a single sexual thought about him in high school. Now, that she's hit the wall, she sees it differently.

    we stopped and said goodnight and we finally kissed

    That didn't escalate the way I expected.

    [–]Pezotecom 36 points37 points  (1 child)

    More like

    We stopped and she kissed me so that I would hamster all night and sell my commitment for free.

    [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 30 points31 points  (2 children)

    That didn't escalate the way I expected.

    What, you didn't expect 24 years of foreplay?

    [–]Endorsed ContributorWe_Are_Legion 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    I guarantee she didn't have a single sexual thought about him in high school.

    And why should she? Women aren't attracted to passive orbiters.

    The Wall is a thing... but what happened to this guy is his own fault. If he never made moves on women (beginning with his oneitis and continuing uptil now), then this is what that leads to.

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      [–]HurricaneHugues 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      She took him out to dinner and drove him home. She was interested and did her part. The guy was just didnt have the fonfidence to believe that the girl liked him. Its obvious that she was interested in highschool. When hoes wanna use a nerd, they donttake him out to dinner and drive him home. They say "I'll text you" and never actually do.

      [–]magx01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      So she was a ho that was raised a bit more decently than most. Doesn't change the underlying biological imperatives.

      [–]Psychological_Radish 41 points42 points  (4 children)

      Makes me feel sad, in a way, that the Blue Pill world derives warm and fuzzy feelings from this story, while the denizens of this forum see ugly truth lurking beneath the surface.

      Single mom, way beyond the Wall and likely struggling financially, meets nerdy (and likely high income) man with a deeply embedded belief that he is fated to be with The One™ . Yep, easy to see where this one leads. Hard to believe that this was written by a 40 year-old, given his fawning tone.

      While this would have ended with divorce rape in the case of a younger man, it is less likely here - the divorce rate for post-30 marriages is pretty low. What he is in for, though, is a lifetime of supplication, resource transfer, and transactional starfish sex (and he will be lucky to even get that in 10 years)...and that's the best-case scenario.

      [–]Auxfite 3 points4 points  (1 child)

      He’ll be lucky if she doesn’t fuck other men

      [–]TheTriviaMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      It seems to me that her fucking other men is a given. She might even force him into an "open relationship" so she can ride her post-wall CC for a little while longer while still having the beta bucks. That's the vibe I get.

      [–]Truedemocracy4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Yep. The red pill pulls back the curtain on love for what it really is.

      [–]2comment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      There's something strange about the dichotomy about how Disney-style love stories appeal to both young girls and blue pilled men.

      Of course, even at the draw for the girls is being the center of attention and so on.

      [–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 35 points36 points  (6 children)

      Something like this happened at a thirty year reunion I attended this year. Dude nailed his high school oneitis in a van in the parking lot. I guess it's just a conquest thing for some guys?

      Also

      Meeting up at dinner, she still looked every bit as beautiful as the day I met her.

      Bullshit. Girl that the dude at my reunion banged wasn't bad for her age but she didn't hold a candle to how she looked in high school.

      [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 36 points37 points  (2 children)

      I guess it's just a conquest thing for some guys?

      It's the "nostalgia fuck" element. I nailed a girl I knew in HS years down the road, but the difference was she called me up out of the blue and basically propositioned me. She still passed the "boner test", and so I plated her for about year, until she figured out that I wasn't going to wife her up.

      This guy is still pining away about how she could have made him a man when he was 16. That was never going to happen.

      To wit:

      A little part of me died knowing that I actually had a shot with her back then.

      Spoiler Alert: He didn't.

      [–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

      This guy is still pining away about how she could have made him a man when he was 16. That was never going to happen.

      Perfectly nailed his as well as her thoughts on that subject.

      [–]DancesWithPugs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

      "Why didn't you ask me out?" =/= "I wished you would have fucked me"

      [–]furiouszeno 12 points13 points  (0 children)

      Meeting up at dinner, she still looked every bit as beautiful as the day I met her.

      Bullshit. Girl that the dude at my reunion banged wasn't bad for her age but she didn't hold a candle to how she looked in high school.

      Of course not, but the guy is wearing the bluepill™ rose-tinted glasses

      [–]Celicni 12 points13 points  (0 children)

      I guess it's just a conquest thing for some guys?

      Absolutely. No matter how ugly she looked right now (within limits of course) I'd still smash, if it's a chick that rejected me in the past. Just to feel I finally "won" that specific battle. Of course, dump afterwards and never speak to again, unless she's still hot.

      [–]Truedemocracy4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Eh man when you have love eyes for someone this can be true. Like yes to most/all men she looks a lot worse/older. But if this is your oneitis, and many of us have been there, it takes A LOT for them to look worse, even against age

      [–]Pezotecom 35 points36 points  (0 children)

      16 year old me would be so proud

      Yeah, of course 16 year old you would be proud that you are still masturbating to the girl you never had the guts to approach to. But hey, who doesn't want to wait 24 years to get a girl? Congratulations, "man".

      [–]Lucifers_sausage 44 points45 points  (2 children)

      24 years later would make him 40 years old yet he’s still referring to her appearance in the same effeminate way he did in high school

      [–]Afrofreak1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      Yikes.

      [–]whydib 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      Dude, you don't know that. You don't know what this dude was like in high school. It could be way way worse.

      [–]bemore_ 21 points22 points  (13 children)

      This is so sad. A 40 year old man being happy with a kiss at the end of a dinner date. That is not a man's sexuality yet he speaks of being comfortable in his own skin. He would puke if he even had a vague idea of what she's been up to the last 24 years

      [–]Auxfite 7 points8 points  (1 child)

      This dude needs testosterone

      [–]jihocech 7 points8 points  (0 children)

      He needs a strong father figure.

      [–]JohnIan101 1 point2 points  (10 children)

      You read that?

      I read closure.

      [–]bemore_ 1 point2 points  (9 children)

      I'm looking at the 40 year old not the 16 year old

      [–]JohnIan101 1 point2 points  (8 children)

      Again. I'm read that a closure, that 40 year old moving on.

      Not knowing can haunt a person.

      He can cross that off his list; that's a good thing.

      [–]bemore_ 1 point2 points  (7 children)

      You're quite idealistic then. The reality here is a little darker

      [–]JohnIan101 0 points1 point  (6 children)

      Not idealistic, just human.

      I have my own regrets, things I squandered or flat out fucked-up.

      Knowing if it would've turned out different... that would snuff out those ponders.

      [–]bemore_ 0 points1 point  (5 children)

      There's a million what ifs in life. As I like to think, when one door closes another opens, such is the abundance of life

      But really look at what's going on in the story above. 24 years on they are different people in different circumstances. She's a single mother in her 40's now. He gets "closure". Let's look at it from her perspective. What does she get out of talking with this guy ?

      [–]JohnIan101 0 points1 point  (4 children)

      No.

      Are are moments in your life which had serious weight at the time, not filler.

      The path not taken.

      He gets "closure". Let's look at it from her perspective. What does she get out of talking with this guy ?

      Nothing. This wasn't about her.

      [–]bemore_ 0 points1 point  (3 children)

      Hahaha she gets nothing. Well there we go

      [–]JohnIan101 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      This was about his closure.

      [–]Luckyluke23 8 points9 points  (3 children)

      as someone who has FUCKED his oneitis girl (multiple times). it's a fool's errand.

      [–]CJ_900 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      How is it a fools errand if you succeeded?

      [–]Luckyluke23 13 points14 points  (1 child)

      because the women will never love you like you want to be loved.

      [–]CJ_900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      in that case fair enough, however if your goal was just sex then it's a win in that case.

      [–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 4 points5 points  (1 child)

      IDK, mate. I attended a few "retro computing" events in past years, eventually I grew out of it.

      [–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Did a post about it, but I had one brought to my house. I ended up 1UP'ing that but only because the situation at the time, not because of the gal I know 30 years before. Old games may be fun but you aren't playing it like you played it then. There is no regaining glory long past. Just worry about the new games, even if they look like old games.

      [–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 3 points4 points  (1 child)

      Good old beta in waiting

      [–]DocZTheRockstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Everyone get a turn in line. All the chads in the front of line and the betas in the back.

      [–]assholeofthesky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      why is banging your oneitus frowned upon? you clearly liked that girl when you were younger, showing her a good time when you're actually worth a shit is probably one of the things that can actually give you satisfaction to say YEAH! I've come far....not if she's an ugly looking troll tho.

      [–]StrongAttitude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      What do you expect from a beta? They are disgusting as always.

      [–]lonelystar82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      This is a classic example. If you have a crush, be a man and ask the lady out. If she rejects, move the fuck on. Thank you TRP for teaching me the abundance principle.

      [–]U-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Someone needs to record a "Beauty and the Beast" parody song "Spergie and the Bitch" since this seems to be a tale as old as time.

      [–]yomo86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Ok. 16 + 24 = 40. 40 in male years is 87. Sarcasm aside.

      Don't get me wrong more power to you but dating a 40 yo woman as a man with a stable income is like trying to get a yes from grandpa as a 21 yo stripper with double Ds - not very difficult.

      [–]jihocech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Just don´t be too mean to this guy. One year ago would I call him good and honest man and that true love is worth waiting. Nevermore.

      [–]Truedemocracy4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Hard to tell is she always liked him (possible) or is just using him as a wallet for the kids (cynical red pill take).

      I will say that any single mother in her 20s is a result of very poor decision making and likely pretty low value. Also you will never see a woman more eager to scoop up a beta bux than after they have a kid and are single. Good for the guy if he's happy but this just shows the power of pussy in society. A woman can fuck her entire life up and still secure a paycheck from some sap

      [–]nothing03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I think you should ignore all the harsh comments here. You did a good job. You can probably get further than a kiss on a first date with a woman who is attracted to you, but I believe that you did well for where you're at right now. Ask her out again.

      [–]ramot1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRULqLhxKBU

      Ray Charles-You don't know me. One great song, but I sort of think of it as the blue pill anthem. Anyone agree?

      [–]420KUSHBUSH -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

      this sub got so much more toxic as of recently