Matriarchy And Motivation (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil

Imagine there was a civilization that obsessively published material on how to clean urine out of carpet, while universalizing and normalizing the act. Gotta wake up and clean piss out of carpet, that's life! Motivational books would be published: Zen and the Art of Accepting the Piss in Your Carpet! There would be Piss Carpet Counseling for people who question their cleaning responsibilities. Doctors would prescribe steam cleanings for people who can't handle the piss carpet. The obvious question here is how did the piss get in the carpet? Does everyone have 12 cats in this alternate universe? Maybe if we stopped piss from getting in the carpet we wouldn't have a society of piss cleaners?

Actually we don't have to imagine anything because the Anglo West has a of habit of obsessively motivating itself without ever questioning how everyone got so unmotivated in the first place. Lady Liberty is a single mother who liberated herself and her children from the structure and traditions of (then) Patriarchal Europe. Now everyone's running around confused, depressed, hating daddy but at the same time desperately needing his guidance. Luckily for you GaylubeOil is here to inject some Old World values into your life. Think of me as an Alpha uncle who briefly intervenes with some subversive masculine advice while mommy is preoccupied pouring wine down her face. Not out of empathy but because it's difficult to keep watching your autistic screeching.

A matriarchal society is one with a feminine logos aka reasoning, just on a much larger scale than a single mother household. Women at a biological level know that they're baby machines and pretty much useless at everything not baby related. That's why women are hardwired to monopolize as much male time, energy and attention as possible. If you've ever had the displeasure of working with women you'll know how your time gets parasitized under the guise of “teamwork”.

Females and by extension Female oriented societies, view men in a binary. Plow Horse Males are those who can be extracted of resources. Burnout Males are those that can't. When a Plow Horse is fully extracted he becomes a burnout and gets treated like shit. It doesn't matter who he was or what he did in the past, this is Briffault's law. Pshh whatever get fucked Grandpa!

When men become Burnouts prematurely, guilt and shame are deployed. Do it for mummy! This is when the traitor males are called upon to talk some sense into the boy. A traitor male never asks why the horse(you) doesn't wanna plow, he's there to make you plow. This takes place at the individual, group and societal level. The more feminized a culture the more “motivational” material it needs and therefore produces. When a parasite attaches it lets out an anesthetic so that the host can't feel it.

Parasites also have a habit of making the host physically weak and mentally retarded. If the host is at too strong and too aware, it might rid itself of the parasite. Real masculinity is toxic to the parasite which is why it is rightfully diagnosed as Toxic Masculinity by the parasite. Matriarchal society is infantilizing because it needs it's men to remain controllable silly boys forever. Western Men are the dumbest and weakest they've ever been. Now you know why.

At this point most men are too far gone to be saved. They're late stage syphilitics babbling and drooling in delirium. They can't be saved and are not our problem. They're lives are a cycle of coffee pep talk motivation, followed by marijuana alcohol television video game disassociation. Conscious enough to work but not conscious enough to ask questions. Men who live fulfilling lives don't need to be motivated. On the other hand, men being sucked dry by a society that openly despises them can never get enough motivation.

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[–]TheStoicCrane 22 points23 points  (6 children)

Everything in the West is centered around money, the God of Capitalism. Objective reality, the God of old no longer has any basis in this backwards society. This is why women are valued over men here.

They outspend men buying Gucci pocketbooks and yearn to buy $750,000 houses to fill with those pocketbooks they use only once a year during rare occassions to showoff to other women they discretely hate.

They are the ideal, thoughtless, herdlike consumer the West needs and desires to sustain the system. Men are just inconveniences that are meant to be seen (working) but not heard.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 5 points6 points  (2 children)

All of that sounds pretty, but is that real life?

The more I read comments on here, the more I recognize how I thought the same things you - and others here did, which lead to me seeing that the results in real life were not adding up to what people were saying.

I must be avoiding bottom feeders.

Yeah, women like money here, but they're gonna like money everywhere.

To say that you could walk into any third world country, Pakistan, Paraguay, you name it, show a woman 1,000,000$ USD, and have her look at you slyly, and deny it with an innocent grin - claiming "she just can't do that - it's not how she was raised." Is a fucking disney fairytale. OK? OMG man

[–]TheStoicCrane 10 points11 points  (1 child)

To say that you could walk into any third world country, Pakistan, Paraguay, you name it, show a woman 1,000,000$ USD, and have her look at you slyly, and deny it with an innocent grin - claiming "she just can't do that - it's not how she was raised." Is a fucking disney fairytale. OK? OMG man

Hypergamy is the driving force of feminine sexuality.That isn't the topic of focus.

The underlying point is that countries under the heavy hand of Capitalism commidifies feminine sexuality as an economic utility at the expense of the culture.

In Pakistan if a woman does so much as leave her house without a shawl she's getting punished. Possibly with a rock to the tempo.

In the West women can have sex with scores of men, have babies each with a different father and collect child support from each of those unfortunate saps who couldn't resist unzipping their trousers in her presence.

Many non-Westernized countries shun open hypergamy whereas the West rewards the behavior at it's own detriment.

[–]maroonblood94 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Bingo. Jack Donovan discusses this extensively in his books, especially “Become a Barbarian”.

[–]TheStoicCrane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation. Although he has salient points regarding universalism and it's potential threat to eradicate culture through assimilation his Neo-Nazi prejudice flies poorly with me considering I'm Jamaican.

Tried to keep an open mind but Jack Donovan clearly lacks one himself. Had he coherently expressed the point that men are lacking a sense of community required for their personal growth that'd be alright with me but the blind prejudice he interjected randomly is a put off.

[–]TheStoicCrane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fitting. Just after I listened to an audiobook of Lord of the Flies two days ago. Thanks for reffering it!

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime 26 points27 points  (11 children)

I get the feeling feminism is burning out.(where I'm from)

Far less public media on it. Far less social media on it. It's far more socially acceptable to oppose it.

It was such an aimless movement to begin with, without any specific goal but to demonize males.

They used "inequality" to drive the campaign, accusations but no solutions. The response to that was ok so what laws should we change? What legislation? How do we fix this?

They had no response

Fact upon fact upon has disproved every feminist myth.

I think it's at the point where they were in an argument, it went on for a bit. Everyone left. And now they're still standing there arguing alone looking like a bunch of looneys.

[–]theunconquored 19 points20 points  (3 children)

Even better, it's becoming a joke. A friend's teenage daughter gets teased mercilessly on the bus by teenage boys mockingly calling her a "feminist."

Her natural reaction is "I AM NOT".

The pendulum will always swing back the other way.

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I have a cousin who identifies as a feminist.

She can't understand why guys only fuck her and then avoid her like the plague.

The social stigma about them being fish mouthed blue haired brutes is growing. Men are avoiding them. It's the best reaction.

They'll bitch amongst themselves, support each other,

And then breed(or lack thereof) themselves out the gene pool.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are important, so that we never display that genetic trait ever again. Feminists are important because society needs to see what NOT to do ever again, and feminists are showing everyone "ok guys! Here's what not to do! We're going to display anti-evolutionary behaviour and then not reproduce because we know we suck!". They know they suck. The people who get weeded out of the gene pool are just as important as the ones who stay in it: they are course-correcters for the human species. If no one ever fucked up, that'd be kind of weird. If a monkey never got bit by a snake, we wouldn't know that snakes are dangerous, and we might not consider them a threat, because we've never been bit by them. But since we've been bit by them, we know now to avoid them. Same with feminists.

[–]redpill77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really heartwarming to hear

[–]DeontologicalSanders 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Far less public media on it. Far less social media on it. It's far more socially acceptable to oppose it.

That depends entirely on the prevailing political sentiment wherever you happen to live. And that still doesn't matter. Women have two primary hard-coded concerns in life:

  1. To appear as superficially virtuous and desirable as possible to everyone around her.
  2. To shit test men as thoroughly and continuously as possible, in order to not end up getting impregnated by a loser.

Feminism is still the ultimate be-all-end-all, society-wide shit test. Unrivaled by any in human history. Its principles and implements work extremely well in achieving its latent purpose.

Even if the ideology were to fall completely out of favor in the public eye, all that would be required of any woman would be to lie. To lie about not being a feminist, while still adhering to the principles of the movement in practice. And I don't know about you, but if there's one thing I trust most in a woman, it's her ability to say one thing and do another.

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Humanity is pretty good at weeding out whats best for it and what's not best for it. See smoking and it's decline. See our control of preventative diseases.

Woman acting like men certainly doesn't fall into the category of what's best for it. It's not the most desirable females opting for feminism, why? Well, because society works for the most desirable women. Why would they want a society with true equality? And relinquish their advantage?

To appear as superficially virtuous and desirable as possible to everyone around her.

This statement is correct, however, Feminist's are far from the most desirable, in fact it's generally the fact that they are undesirable that drives them to feminism. Demanding to be desirable.

The Alpha's of our species don't fall for this trick. Biologically our dicks wont get hard for a woman because she tells it to. In fact I think most men are driven to avoid feminists, and if they are fucking them it's not because they're the ideal catch(because that would be the HB10 model who isn't a feminist for above reasons).

Any time a particular group's traits are causing them to avoid being selected, they will become recessive.

It's just how long it takes them to realise this. And I think it takes us alot quicker nowadays.

To shit test men as thoroughly and continuously as possible, in order to not end up getting impregnated by a loser.

Feminists are far from the most ideal, the paradox is they are demanding high value men, who don't want them, because they in themselves are losers. So it's the low values mating with the low values.

And as history has shown us, it's not the low values that dictate the direction of a civilization. It's the high values, the alphas.

And sure some High Value woman identify as feminists, but are they embodying the values of a feminist lifestyle? I don't think so because it's not self serving. Kinda like the modern Christian. Believes in the Bible but hardly lives a life along the lines of the doctrine. This goes for most feminists infact. They will scream and shout about man hating, but drop their pants for the first high value man who gives them a look(because sexual liberation)

And if most of the soldiers in their fight are only embracing the theory and not practically living out the doctrine(because to do that is ridiculous) then the effectiveness of the movement is diminished.

If we look at what this last wave of feminism has truly achieved for women that they didn't already have? I'm not sure theres much

[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn't sound like the Scandinavia, cause those countries are totally fucked.

[–]TheStoicCrane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you live. If in the suburbs or rural regions you probably won't see it much. If you reside in a dense urban area you're not looking hard enough.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

guys need femenism more than women do. Since everyone loves outsourcing their validation onto others, what other masculine markers are left, except 'toxic masculinity'. Especially when you're a frail little boy who doesn't know any better?

at least it's masculine.

Femenism is only around anymore because guys need the validation

[–]JuliusTestvola 8 points9 points  (8 children)

Ok ok. I see your point... but what is your solution? Lets say we take the red pill fully. Not just the womyn redpill but societal redpills. Then what? Nihilism? What do you expect us to do? Move to south america, where we escape the degenerate north? Regardless of the state of degeneracy in this country (USA), I still have to make a living (fight for more slop in my trough). Yeah, I lift, I work hard and am overall masculine. But guess what, im still burned out AND I still have to keep moving forward. Its almost as if my revolt against society is more tiring than succumbing to utter netflix/divorcee/cucked lifestyle.This post resonates hard with me but tell me.. What is your solution? besides becoming more blackpilled!

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil[S] 10 points11 points  (2 children)

So strange that ur username is based on Julia's Evola and ur asking that question. Read Ride The Tiger

[–]hbPUA 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Hey Gaylube on the topic off books. What books do you recommend that are usually not recommended?

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 7 points8 points  (2 children)

A self actualizing man will not have to deal with the issue of nihilism because they will be focused on making their dreams come true by imposing their wills onto the world.

Through accepting the world and existence has no meaning you achieve the ability to create your frame and give the meaning you desire for the world

[–]TheBadGoy 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Each day it gets harder and harder for the modern man to impose its will...and it will only get more difficult. That's why Jordan Peterson's individualism is useless, working together and spreading the truth is the only way one can hope to change things.

[–]Lib3rtarianSocialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Jordan Peterson's focus on the individual the way to spread truth in actuality? Let's say, you work together with a few others and spread truth. Whomever the truth reaches, there will no effect, unless somebody embarks on focusing on themselves and improving.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then what? Nihilism? What do you expect us to do?

Believe in something other than consumerism and nihilism.

Why do the deeds of Warriors of yore captivate our imaginations 2000 years later? Because their actions where motivated by belief in something higher.

Do you think 300 Spartans would stand against countless Persian/asiatic hordes and make the Persian army shudder if they did not believe?

What about the belief of the Mongols in fulfilling the word of the Great Tengri when conducting their conquests? Do you think they would have the will to go through with it?

[–]1Captain_Save_A_Hoe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur going to "get ahead" less if you take the blue pill. TRP dosent teach you to be moral it teaches you to out think your opponents/obstacles.

[–]TonytheNetworker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"That's why women are hardwired to monopolize as much male time, energy and attention as possible. If you've ever had the displeasure of working with women you'll know how your time gets parasitized under the guise of “teamwork”."

This line really rings true for me. I'm a wet behind the ears College Graduate who started working my first job in the Government and I've always been curious why women seem to always ask for favors, love to talk about superficial dumb shit that I could care less about, and be gossiping about how dumb Melissa's hair looks. They also love to put the work on men and when I call them out and tell them that they need to do their share they pout and say "A real man would do it!" I just smirk and laugh and walk away.

[–]DeGENZerate 15 points16 points  (6 children)

If you want to see the least ammount of direction on the largest scale possible then go to any university and enroll as a freshman. For those in the their late teens early twenties right now: the retard morality is endemic. It has gotten so bad that college is the only next step these beaten children go to. Ever wonder why trade schools jobs make 6 figures but kids still go to college for 4-5 years? Invest in a hankie to wipe drool from the area between your classmates man tits.

[–]rmandan 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Being in my late teens now, I agree with you. There is a stigma of shame around going to a trade school or community college. A lot of kids I’ve noticed are just dumping (their parents) 150k into a four year education for a business major due to the lack of a better idea.

[–]1by1is3 6 points7 points  (1 child)

A lot of people who are in a post secondary institution have no business being there, they are simply there in the hopes of getting a good job later on, rather than actually learning. They are better off some where else.

However if you have a high IQ, why the fuck would you want to go in trades? Do something worthwhile that satisfies and promotes your intellectual curiosity, and 'trades' is not going to do that.

[–]WestRoxbury 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering stuff "not worth thinking about" is intellectually lazy. Trades, which involve manipulating the physical world, can give anyone as insight into the physical world if they are willing to pay attention. Things like farming can be ridiculously complex if it involves understanding ecosystems. Working on engines might lead someone to invent a new type of engine or a new engine related innovation. Etc.

Of course if you just check out and act like a dumb technician, then yeah. But this happens in "intellectual" disciplines too-- All the lawyers, doctors, software engineers, teachers, consultants who just tick boxes and count down to retirement.

The point is that everything can be intellectually rigorous or soul crushingly boring. The difference is mindfulness.

[–]halfback910 18 points19 points  (2 children)


If you want to see the least ammount of direction on the largest scale possible then go to any university

This is just anti-intellectual "all education is bad" nonsense. It heavily depends on the university. It heavily depends on the school. I went to a large, industrial-esque university's business school. Everything they did was geared towards getting you a good job. They had no fewer than ten full-time salaried employees dedicated to getting us jobs on staff. They build relationships with employers via their alumni network and those relationships are very valuable for internships, which in turn are very valuable for getting a good job. They want you to get a good job so that you can then give them money as a an alumnus.

It has gotten so bad that college is the only next step these beaten children go to.

Well that's just not true, is it? About 60% of high school completers immediately enroll in college. If you take out two year programs, that percentage plummets to 20%. If you take out community college, it presumably falls even further.


Ever wonder why trade schools jobs make 6 figures

Lots of problems with this. As someone who has a lot of respect for the trades, they are super, super hyped up on Reddit.

1: Not just anyone can join the trades. In my local IBEW you have to know someone who's in it/was in it to call ahead before your interview to join the trade or get very lucky. I apprenticed as an electrician briefly before being told it was not for me. I was related to a bunch of big players in the electrical contracting field in the area. The number of people in my admittance class who were not related to an electrician or electrical contracting company was, I believe, about 2. It is a very small world and it is guarded very jealously.

2: Apprenticeships actually take about as long as college, if not slightly longer. You are getting paid, but not a whole lot more than you could get for an average job anywhere else.

3: Only Master tradesmen are pulling 6 figures. The median for someone in the trades, again we'll stick with electricians, is much lower. Googling shows it to be about $52k in 2018.

4: There's a reason trades can make money. It takes a toll on your body. They work pretty hard, frequently out in the elements. If anyone could do it, I would have become an electrician and worked for the family business. Thankfully the Master who was training me had the kind of tough love to tell me "You have ten thumbs, kid. You should go to school cuz this ain't your gig."

5: Being in the trades is feast or famine. When you've got work, it's great. But sometimes it dries up and there just isn't work. And oftentimes it dries up at the worst moment (a recession).

[–]broger23 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I agree with the fact that being a master tradesman takes a long time, because it does. However, where I’m from, I regularly hear guys who own trade businesses (electrical, plumbing, carpentry, masonry, etc) saying how they cannot find enough people to work. My brother and a couple of my cousins (no college educations) all work in trade, and make as much as I do (I’m a CPA at a Fortune 500 company).

Also, working in trade is tough on the body, but so is sitting all day. It takes constant effort for an office worker to maintain the body and prevent stiffness and muscle atrophy. Sitting all day is HORRIBLE for you and causes muscle imbalance which lead to injury and near permanent changes in the body. Having seen what I have in the corporate environment, and comparing it to my family’s experience in trade, I would go to trade school if I could do it again.

[–]halfback910 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Part of that is because of how the trades are set up. They intentionally only train so many electricians each year to ensure that current members can continue to command high rates.

There are other programs and companies that train their own electricians. But they generally do not do as good a job as the IBEW.

[–]DropDeadTyrant 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've thought of TRP as a big brother since I've gotten here. The way the people here treat each other with a sort of "tough love" is very endearing in a sense. In the real world, tough love is almost completely absent. You're never told you can't do something even when, for whatever reason, you can't. It's all about, "you can do anything". When I'm at school, no one ever checks people on the stupid shit they say and do. It breeds stupidity. It makes people normalize their inadequacies. Here at trp, your inadequacies are pointed out and you're told to improve. It's not acceptable to be inadequate. I think that's a part of what you're saying here.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Women need men very very badly. Men just need sex.

Make women earn your time and energy. It's more rewarding for them to win a great man than have a compliant loser

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men need women for sex.

Women need men for sex and leadership.

A woman can never reach self-actualization without a man to lead her there

[–]zyqkvx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told all Roman goddesses were single mothers. Not just Libertas, Roman goddess, Embodiment of Liberty, inspiration of the Statue of Liberty, Frozen Corndog Eater, Charity Organizer.

“Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free." [and the slave men will furnish will furnish you with welfare] said a goddess from the highest pedestal.

[–]Lionlocker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Their motivational speech is merely hot air, a band-aid.

This is the stuff that permanently increases your capacity to rage productively, if you accept it as truth. If not, it will just be an outrage, and an impotent one at that.

[–]gaspaonrocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much that resonates to what happened to me.

I wish you were my uncle, I would have enjoyed Christmas a bit more.

[–]momslittleboy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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[–]momslittleboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thx for sharing with autists

[–]Zech4riah -2 points-1 points  (5 children)

Mostly I agree with your post but this quotes part makes me wonder if you have ever been with a woman who takes care of you. When you have a woman who cleans up your apartment, cooks for you, visits the store to get food, drives you around when you need a lift and generally does all kind of favors which saves your time, that really isn't parasite. It's more like symbiosis because mans life becomes easier and let's him focus on more important things.

When I had this going on with my ex, I was as productive as ever in all areas of my life. Of course you need right kind of woman for this but there is plenty of them.

A matriarchal society is one with a feminine logos aka reasoning, just on a much larger scale than a single mother household. Women at a biological level know that they're baby machines and pretty much useless at everything not baby related. That's why women are hardwired to monopolize as much male time, energy and attention as possible. If you've ever had the displeasure of working with women you'll know how your time gets parasitized under the guise of “teamwork”.

If you have had a woman who takes care of you, I wonder how are you hamstering that she was only baby making machine useless in every other way or a parasite in your relationship?

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil[S] 7 points8 points  (4 children)

Kind of strange that your using the most common female shaming tactic found in our glossary of shaming tactics. What's funny is this post is about The Logos of Cybele a concept that has been discussed since ancient Greece.

So either you have an inability to abstract or me Aristotle and Alexander Dugin professor of sociology at Moscow University were never truly loved or whatever.

[–]Zech4riah 0 points1 point  (3 children)

It may have been my bad that I brought the conversation to individual level.

Secondly I didn't attempt to shame you. I was trying to dig out (on the individual level) that how can you have missed the womans contributions in relationship or why are you denying it. And the reason why my comment could have looked like a shaming because according your writing and language you seem to be cold "pump and dump"-type of Chad so I wouldn't be surprised if you never had a girl around long enough (by your own choice) to make significant contributions in the relationship which saves your time and energy.

Now, if the point never was to discuss the matter and your claims on more individual level, then we might en the conversation here because it would be off-topic.

And like I said I mostly agree with your post (especially in broader scale).

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been in an LTR for 4 years. On an individual level I'm trying to unfuck you new worlders and pull you up to a continental level of discourse.

[–]ChristianTroyston 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Talking all the time, and doing mundane tasks is not a “significant” contribution. Also you probably didn’t calculate her complaining... her texts? The mathematical value of not having her and having access to other women... right?

Do the math. Or don’t talk. I’ve lost all patience with men who don’t evaluate their females mathematically. Nice man.. she got groceries... news flash.. she raised the price of pussy without you knowing.

All you guys

1 always track how often she does what you want 2 she doesn’t do exactly it - don’t be angry just stop doing anything that doesn’t benefit you* 3 her talking and time stealing and distractions hurt you - remember she can get dick easy, us? Not so easy

****nuance: be calm and slow, do not be retarded and ghost your own wife or gf.. be subtle go slow. It must be finessed to slowly reduce your attention and increase your own output for YOURSELF.

[–]Zech4riah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care if it's significant or not. The fact that it saves my time many hours per week is enough for me. And i would be still spending time with the girls even tho I would be doing all the things myself.

And btw, I don't do monogamy and obviously you do because the problems you bring up are mostly problems of the monogamous men who are under betaization.