It’s clear that Frame is the most important RP concept. It’s what ties together all other tendrils of knowledge that form the RP catalog. It’s what allows you to withstand the shit tests of women and life in general. As such, it is important for any man (or woman) wishing to become self activated to develop a strong Frame.
To develop strong frame, we first must call it into being by defining it. Frame is your certainty of your position. It is the structure that keeps your consciousness anchored to the reality. It is pure focus formed into a crystalline structure that dictates behavior. I understood it best through the analogy of the shit test. Imagine you are in line at the coffee shop behind a beautiful woman. She does not want to talk to you yet, so when you approach she tries to blow you down. Only a solid frame will maintain you, rooted to the ground beside her, after the tempest of her emotions is finished. You could also imagine cold calling a business to sell a product. They will do whatever they can to get off the phone but you must stand your ground and get that close. If that is something that you want, it’s obvious that to achieve you must build strong frame.
Ways to build strong vary frame from person to person, of course. It will only come to those who seek becoming their fullest self, and the only way to do that is to invest in the world around you. Some avenues are more well traveled than others, such as lifting, meditation, hobbies. Others should be more common, such as reading, spending time in in nature, and creating art. All have a frame of their own, with regular tacit principles that may be obtained and absorbed through focus on the act. That kettlebell will always weigh 25 lbs. Wim Hof breathing will always make you lightheaded. The G chord will always sound like a G. Learning how you handle 25 lbs or play the chord requires focus on the activity. Keeping these things in your life helps you create your own set of tacit principles, so you can create your own ontological frame.
True, ontological frame is shown by body language. Command of speech. You will notice when you don’t have it. You will feel how difficult it is to complete the set or to hit that barre chord. However, by focusing on the activity, you will forget that you are doing it. Only then, when focus is engaged and incompetence is forgotten, will you be able to construct your frame. That is when new neural pathways are being formed then strengthened. While you are focused, your frame is building itself. As such, frame and focus are ultimately tied together.
Why would they be so closely tied? The answer has to do with selection. When selectors, such as women, make the decisions of with whom they want to involve themselves, they chose so to stay healthy. Those who stay healthy are those who can achieve solid focus as it allows them to survive and provide in the most possible situations. Thus, evolution has provided the selectors with the ability to spot focus in the form of Frame.
Learn to build thy frame. Do not expect it tomorrow or the next day, but know that what you focus on will be your frame. Choose wisely my friends.