Red Pill TheoryWomen have a lot of sex. It's there for the taking. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by 3CainPrice

Summary: If you’re in a relationship that sucks or chasing after a girl who isn’t that into you and thinks you’re a loser, just abort. You can never change a girl’s mind once she’s decided you’re not fuckable. Not even with The Red Pill. But take heart in the fact that there is an enormous pile of sex out there for the taking. As a guy, you might think having sex once a week is a huge success and a big improvement from your past, but a girl with a consistent casual partner is having sex 3 times a week, easily. Any one of those times could be with you. Girls like to hook up. Girls like sex. Go get it.

My new year’s resolution this year was to have sex 100 times before the end of the year. I thought that seemed pretty reasonable since I have a girlfriend, and having sex twice a week is pretty average for most relationships where the guy isn’t being played. It’s not September yet, and I’ve already hit 100 times.

A little about myself: I was in a really bad relationship. Very little sex. She was disrespectful, ungrateful, and bitchy. I was a skinny, easygoing, nerdy, nonaggressive guy who went with the flow. I was always game to do what other people wanted and was genuinely grateful just to have friends and company. You’d think that I’d have been well-liked and had lots of friends being like that, but most people thought I was an asshole and never invited me out. It turns out that people hate people-pleasers. My lack of social connections further hindered my relationship. She thought I was a friendless loser. She was right.

I had girlfriends growing up, but very little sex. I never pushed for sex. I was a good boy who knew that you’re supposed to be serious about a girl and date for a long time before having sex. Little did I know that all around me, many of the girls who wouldn’t date me were having casual sex behind the scenes. There was this entire casual sex culture, with people discreetly hooking up with other people who were in the know, while keeping this secret from people who weren’t in on the game. Women were very careful not to date or fuck guys who weren’t part of the casual sex culture because guys who didn’t get it and didn’t know the game would make a big deal out of sex and try to start a relationship. And those guys would judge. Women would steer clear of perfectly decent, perfectly cute guys because the guys “aren’t the kind of guy you want for a hook-up”.

Anyway, I found The Red Pill and decided I was going to fix my relationship, but learned very quickly that you can’t fix relationships, only yourself. Things got better for a little bit, but she didn’t really want the increased sex. She didn’t really want me. She just didn’t want to be left. In her mind, I was the same loser I had always been, who was suddenly acting like an asshole for some reason. I was working out all the time (she complained about this a lot), I was going out more with friends (she complained about this a lot), I was pushing for sex more (she complained about this a lot), and men and women both seemed to like me more and treat me better (she told me everybody still thought I was an asshole and was just being polite). All that said, our sexual frequency increased quite a bit, but it was obvious she didn’t want me inside of her and was just letting me fuck her to keep things together.

Once a woman has already pegged you for a loser, you can’t dig yourself out of that hole. Acting like a winner after she’s already seen your potential for being a loser will rub a woman the wrong way. She’ll see it as though you’re an asshole trying to trick the world and cheat at the game.

After getting out of that situation, I started going out as an unattached man, I started online dating, and it turns out that The Red Pill works amazingly well when a woman doesn’t already think you’re a loser. I had more dates than I had time. Seriously, guys: If you’re one of those men who’s not there yet and you’re still not getting dates and sex, and you’re having doubts, keep doing the work. It’s not easy. You’re going to talk to 1000 girls and fuck up 1000 times and be laughed at and embarrassed and feel ashamed and think it’s hopeless, but that’s the only way you get better. You have an entire lifetime – over 20 years – of not getting it to make up for. You’re not going to learn 20 years’ worth of intersexual dynamics and break into the casual sex culture after a month of reading bullshit on the internet and going out once or twice. Do the work. Put in the time. You won’t regret it.

So I ended up with a younger slutty girlfriend who was all about casual sex in her 20s. Not a deranged girl with 100s of partners, but I’m probably her 20-something-th partner. We were casual for awhile before becoming a thing, and kept that same tone within our relationship. I expect sex. I don’t demand it. I don’t want sex with somebody who doesn’t want to have sex (that kind of sex sucks), but I expect my girlfriend to want me, and if she doesn’t want me, she’s not my girlfriend.

It turns out that my resolution to have sex 100 times this year was aiming low.

Women have a lot of sex. We fixate a lot on a woman’s partner count, but the fact is, if a woman was “seeing this one guy”, whether seriously or casually for … let’s say six months, she had sex 50 to 100 times with that guy. If you’re still living in a world where going out to pick up girls and having sex once or twice a month is a big deal to you and a huge improvement from your past, you won’t begin to understand where women are coming from. A girl who spent the last month hooking up with a guy didn’t just have sex with him once. She had sex with him ten times or more.

We’re in a position where we think hooking up with a different girl each weekend and having sex four times this month is a big success. A woman who has an available partner and enjoys sex will have sex 2 to 3 times a week, every week. Maybe she’s sore or on her period or has a cold and isn’t in the mood some of the time, sure, but women who want to are having sex 10 or more times a month.

Women want sex. Women love sex. Women are having sex. A lot of sex. It’s there for the taking if you do the work. A woman who enjoys sex may be having sex 2 or 3 times a week on the average. Any one of those times could be with you if you’re in the right place at the right time and don’t fuck it up. Keep putting yourself out there and learning from what does and doesn’t work. It’ll happen.

[–]LordOfTheReptiles 112 points113 points  (58 children)

One thing to keep in mind, and this actually works in your favor, is that many women aren’t having sex as often as they would like to and are dissatisfied with the quality of sex they’ve had. I’ve met women who have basically just given up trying to date because they’re disappointed in the selection of men out there. Sure, the absolutely stunning women out there have their pick of high value men. But your normal, every day cute girl often times isn’t pursuing men as much as one might think.

There’s this idea on here that women are constantly fucking and moving up the ladder of men. Not all of them are. You’ll meet women who got out of a long term relationship recently, haven’t fucked anyone in a few months because they hate online dating, don’t want to meet guys in a bar, etc. Whatever the reason, there’s a surprising amount of women who are pretty unhappy with their sex lives because either the sex has been mediocre or they’re exhausted from failed attempts to meet guys they actually want to sleep with.

The point I’m making is if you put in effort in establishing yourself as a sexual guy, and are even half decent in bed, you’ll have quality women texting you just to come over and fuck. They’re not all constantly getting pounded into another dimension by “Chad”. Ask women about their sex lives, and you’ll be surprised how many of them complain about the low quality sex they’ve had, or how long it’s been. This isn’t all women, obviously, but a lot more than I think the guys in here realize.

The majority of guys think that 5 minutes of vanilla missionary sex is enough to get a girl off. Out of the last 5 women I’ve slept with, 3 of them complained that their sex lives have been mediocre. That doesn’t mean they don’t want to be having a lot of sex, as OP rightly puts. It means they’re not getting it the way they want to or as often as they want to because most guys are so low effort. Getting a woman to open up to you sexually and crave you in that way is one of the best feelings out there.

[–]2chazthundergut 68 points69 points  (34 children)

This guy gets it.

The further I get into this journey the more certain I am that sex game is the only real game.

Everything else is just the lead up, where you communicate to her (nonverbally, of course) that you know how to open her up sexually, take the lead, and dick her down good.

Also getting good at sex will make you better at game. Once you've become comfortable tossing chicks over your shoulder, folding them up like pretzels, and spanking them red in the ass- being around women changes. Your whole game will change.

You are no longer intimidated by women, afraid to take the lead, or self-conscious about what they think of you or your body. You start to internalize the mentality: She is a horny woman. I am a horny man. I have everything I need to fulfill her sexually. ... it's like magic once you get that down.

I am obese, short, and bald. I had to pay hookers to lose my virginity. Now my inbox is FULL of messages, I have dates every week, and I've fucked dozens of women. And the one game changer, more than anything else, was opening up to my own sexuality and getting (relatively) good at sex.

Edit: Also I lift like a madman. It definitely helps.

[–]Iwannachokekatie 14 points15 points  (20 children)

Is your cock the size of your forearm or something?

[–]2chazthundergut 8 points9 points  (16 children)

No. It is average (although it would be significantly longer if I lost 100 lbs).

[–]Iwannachokekatie 4 points5 points  (15 children)

Damn. How do you pull of being so Chaddy then?

[–]2chazthundergut 84 points85 points  (10 children)

Also it's not like I'm just a short bald loser. I followed TRP advice:

I went to the gym and got myself on a lifting program. I have since shifted to kettlebells, and work out every day.

I shaved my head down to zero, grew out a big bushy beard, and dress as nicely as a short (5'8''/ 5'9") 280lb man can dress.

I found my purpose and I prioritize it over chicks.

I killed it in my career and make a good living for myself.

I built lasting friendships with men I respect.

I immersed myself in hobbies that I am passionate about (tubing, hiking, bbq, music).

I love myself more than I love women. I put my own happiness ahead of theirs now, every time.

I took pussy off the pedestal. I talk to women like they are my bratty little cousin (who I am fond of).

I read Sex God method. Learned how to use foreplay to get a woman's juices going. Learned how to eat her pussy and rub her g-spot. Connected with my inner Caveman and released my inhibitions. During sex I try to immerse myself totally in the moment and Stop thinking. Do what feels right in the moment. Spanking, squeezing, grabbing her and moving her around at will. Fucking her face till her mascara is running. Everything I wanted to do, but didnt because I was too pussy.

Basic TRP. It is simple stuff, but not always easy. This didnt happen overnight. I paid a hooker to lose my virginity at age 27, and I had been reading TRP for almost a year before that. I'm 30 now.

Just take it slow. But take it.

One step at a time.

[–]PayingDwyaneWade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing comment. Keep it up. You're inspiring others.

[–]Lost_My_Keys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just checked your comment history and read the story about your "lost virginity". It had me on the edge of my seat the whole time. That sounded like a heavenly experience.

I turn 27 today, and while I'm quite 'fit' and not a virgin by any means, I still lack a solid sexual identity. I can flirt, tease, and joke, but after that - I hit a psychological wall that keeps me from being sexual.

[–]VoidInvincible 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not short at 5'9. I'm 5'9. I don't think I'm short.

[–]nadolny7 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Bbq as a hobby? That is so cool.

[–]2chazthundergut 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Technically I guess my hobby is smoking.

This summer I perfected my recipe for smoked ribs, tri-tip, and chicken thighs. Next up is brisket.

No wonder I am so fat!

And yes it is an awesome hobby.

[–]Supremedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your bone pressed measurements. Those are the true measurements.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV -1 points0 points  (0 children)

(5'8''/ 5'9") 280lb man

Fat dudewhat in the world r u talking about

[–]0x646f6e27 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

why did you lose your virginity until 27 with a hooker? you aren't good looking?

[–]2chazthundergut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been obese since high school and as a result had low confidence and self esteem. I was the king of the friendzone and LJBF rejections.

[–]2chazthundergut 20 points21 points  (2 children)

If I want to choke Katie, I just fucking choke her. That's basically it.

(In a non-rapey way of course you autistic bastards)

[–]3nebder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They love it

Hold one hand tight on the side of her neck. Youre not crushing windpipes or pinching arteries there. You ARE giving her the feel of being choked. Use your thumb to push up under her chin for bonus points

[–]wanderer231988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, how many times have you had sex? Mine is also average and I have made countless women scream and coming back for more.

This sounds like bragging, but seriously, men pay much more attention to dick size then women are.

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously this guy's T is like steroid high.

[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 7 points8 points  (11 children)

You lift like a madman but you’re obese?

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (8 children)

Fat dudes can be jacked as fuck.. look at joe rogan. Dude kicked 150km per hour and he looks like an extra large gummy bear. Check that video out and tell me fat people cant be jacked

[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 13 points14 points  (5 children)

I was more questioning the obese part. I’ve seen plenty of jacked husky/chubby dudes. But obese is another category. Maybe he was just speaking loosely.

Also, Rogan is not fat lol. He’s a bit bloated but hes actually pretty lean, especially for a 50 yr old.

[–]2chazthundergut 12 points13 points  (4 children)

Joe Rogan isn't obese and he isn't even fat. His face is just puffy from all the TRT and Alpha Brain.

I am legitimately obese. I have a giant gut and about 100 pounds of extra fat on me.

That being said, my shoulders and arms and legs are jacked.

[–]zyqkvx 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I lost 50 pounds on keto. r.keto r.ketogains r.ketorecipes. The secret less discussed is you must limit your protein level per day as well as carbs. To my best information you want to eat <your weight in pounds> divided by 8. Take answer and that's the minimum amount of GRAMS of protein you need a day, and not much more. Excess protein is turned in to glucose by the liver so it will kick you out of keto, and is missing the point.

After I lost my first 30 pounds on keto I realized how delicious protein was and ate way too much protein. The next 4 months after that I didn't lose any weight because I was eating tons of steaks, chicken, etc.

Losing 30 lbs and going back to whatever you are doing is not as hard as you think.

Just saying, I don't give much a f what you do for long. Looks like a winning move to me.

I can also vouch for this guy. I'm not short, but I was overweight about 80-90 pounds and started working out like a mother fucker. With the excess weight I got a lot of juicy looks then I'd ever thought. There's something meaty good about working out from the fat side. Working out from pencil neck thinness makes you look shreaded, but also makes you look like a ruptured pencil. There's something about a chiseled face muscle and fat that is the opposite of 'try hard'.

[–]2chazthundergut 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Thanks dude. I'm very familiar with keto and the way that excess protein elevates blood sugar (process is called gluconeogenesis)

I'm doing intermittent fasting mixed with a less strict paleo. I've lost 40 lbs and put on some real muscle mass. 100 lbs more to go. Still grinding.

[–]zyqkvx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a book called 'The Plant Paradox' on audible by a high caliber cardiologist. He talks about lectins. He says they are what give you leaky gut. They are in the seeds and outer skins of fruits, including zucchini, cucumbers, peppers (which are fruits) and beans, flour, tomatoes, and others. I stopped eating those and my stomach has lacked many of the irritations I've never seemed to get rid of even on 10/10 diets. Time will tell if it is that simple. I think it's a good lead though, and have a good feeling he's right, or I wouldn't have mentioned it.

I only have about 30 pounds left to go, but it's all in my stomach area. I had to spend the last 6-8 months inside and took on a passive lose weight / but not exercise diet. Now I have a new problem. I lost 15 more pounds but and a lot of muscle. My upper body is starting to look pencil neck. I have no problem going back to the gym and being a mad man again though. I'm bending my body back in to shape like it's a bend up wire I'm unraveling. Got to have a sense of humor with the failures that accommodate success. I've been meeting up with friends / accountancies for 8 years once a week or month. I slowly have gotten more and more respect as they see me slowly transform to be fitter and younger looking for every year that goes by. Priceless.

[–]dDiegoDLV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The screen name gets him laid! hahaha Way to go Chaz!

Seriously the way you own your weight problem and write displays a lot of confidence. We all know women love confidence.

[–]dekagramm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joe rogan fat??? GTFO his jacked as hell even has a six pack.

[–]LoseMoneyAllWeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joe Rogan has a six pack Dude

[–]cider_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah fat people have muscles too, you aren't gonna be shredded but it's gonna boost testo, confidence and make you more manly in general. You can easily tell the difference between a fat guy who does nothing but eating pizza and donuts everyday and a fat guy who lift everyday.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 7 points8 points  (5 children)

This is a strong point.

However, I think the shocking revelation for most guys, especially guys who've never really been a part of the casual sex culture, isn't that women aren't satisfied with any old sex that happens to come along. It's that most women - even the ones you'd never suspect - are having lots of casual sex in between relationships.

It's just kind of a behind-the-scenes given in 2018 that when a girl isn't in a relationship, she's still scratching the horny itch when she feels like it. That might be a few times a week for some women, while those who are sick of the scene and don't have as high of a sex drive might go a month between hook-ups. And while hook-up sex with random guys from Tinder or Bumble isn't always great, and many times unsatisfying, it's better than going without sex.

One thing that's struck me about a lot of the women I dated is that even the ones who were slutting around being casual while only halfheartedly looking for a boyfriend on the side were having a really hard time keeping a consistent casual partner. You'd think a girl could find one decent guy among the pile of guys she's slept with who's good in bed that she doesn't want to date who's cute, discreet, respectful, safe, and makes her orgasm. But on the average, a causal thing for most of the women was either one time (because it sucked or was understood to be a single time meeting), or 3-4 times on the average. Women seem to have a hard time staying with the same guy casually for several months. Or maybe most guys suck. I don't know.

[–]LordOfTheReptiles 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I think there's a mix between the women you're describing and the ones I am describing. There are definitely women out there having casual sex, and there are also women who aren't (even if they aren't in a relationship). I don't know that I would say bad sex is better than no sex when it comes to women, because many of them have horrible experiences that make them not want to pursue casual sex. I honestly believe that one of the reasons women put "no hookups" or "looking for a relationship" on their dating profiles is because most guys are so fucking low effort when it comes to sex.

[–]kremlinagent 1 point2 points  (1 child)

To me there are two types of women on dating apps. 1) fuckable women down with casual sex and 2) the rest that I'm not interested in. Funny thing about the "no hookups"...they write this and from their perspective it tells the guy reading it that she doesn't want to hookup with him. OK....but it signals an entirely different message to me. From my perspective it clearly means she has done hookups (ie she's down with casual sex and falls into my preferred Category 1 woman) and she thinks she's done casually fucking. I specifically target these "no hookup" women. They're typically easy, almost as easy as the self labelled 'feminist'

[–]dDiegoDLV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted above then read your comment. I think you said it better.

[–]dDiegoDLV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly believe that one of the reasons women put "no hookups" or "looking for a relationship" on their dating profiles is because...

That or they get tingles and give it up easy. They think writing that will keep the players away hahaha

[–]Dabunghole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk about this. I’ve dated a bunch of cheerleaders and higher quality girls and not all of them put out between relationships. They usually go back to their ex (me) who they feel safe with. And then laugh at orbiters and losers who don’t have the confidence to lead.

[–]SuperCrazy07 3 points4 points  (5 children)

One thing to keep in mind, and this actually works in your favor, is that many women aren’t having sex as often as they would like to

Yeah, there seems to be a disconnect between TRP and my observations. I remember a Black Dragon blog from a while back where he says there is not nearly as much sex going on as people claim.

I know single, professional women who aren't having sex with tons of different guys all the time. I'm not saying they're virgins or anything, but they aren't out meeting a couple of different guys a week for first date sex.

[Note: I know zero girls who go out clubbing all the time. I mostly know professional women who are disappointed in the quality of men left for them.]

[–]LordOfTheReptiles 10 points11 points  (4 children)

I actually know an attractive woman who hasn't had sex in two years. She could fuck almost anyone she wanted, but was just turned off by the way most men handle casual sex and relationships. People here need to get off this idea that every single remotely attractive girl is constantly fucking guys just because they can. Many of them have more or less removed themselves from the sexual market because it has been so disappointing to them. This weekend I'm meeting up with a 25 year old who hasn't had sex in 9 months because she's sick of dealing with guys. Even mentioning something like that here will get responses like "lol dude she's fucking the whole Penn State football team and just not telling you" because they can't wrap their head around the fact that some women would rather not have sex than have bad sex with guys they don't like. Crazy concept, I know.

[–]BewareTheOldMan 4 points5 points  (3 children)

"I actually know an attractive woman who hasn't had sex in two years. She could fuck almost anyone she wanted, but was just turned off by the way most men handle casual sex and relationships."

This statement generates questions...the fact is - an attractive woman can easily generate and attract interest from men. This is not a problem. This same "seemingly attractive" woman is in position to dictate terms, conditions, standards, and requirements for her desired relationship.

She simply states "no casual sex" and saves herself for serious commitment and marriage. It's that simple.

If this woman is having problems securing the type of relationship she desires it's related to other issues versus casual sex and relationships. It's likely she wants the type of men who have zero interest in commitment and/or marriage.

In short - she's doing it wrong.

[–]3trplurker 3 points4 points  (1 child)

In today's hyper emasculated culture the number of masculine guys is pathetically low. The average "cute dude" will still be a weak ass pussy according to her vagina. Even the big dude who lifts is still likely a pussy cause their only identity is as a gym bro. This is a result of today's cultural norms where it's taboo for a man to be a man and boys are taught to be girls instead. Women have this innate desire for a MAN, but due to societal norms they can't really vocalize that desire without being negatively judged. Women's mating strategy largely revolves around them putting themselves in places to accidentally on purpose bump into guys, using various clues to judge the sexual worthiness of those guys, and then giving them a shot at her vagina.

The only power an attractive women has is to say no to a prospective partner, not meet that partner or get them interested in her, that's our job.

[–]BewareTheOldMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"In today's hyper emasculated culture the number of masculine guys is pathetically low."

Hence...if you're truly a masculine man in virtually all aspects and major areas of life you stand out from the Soy Boys and fake-posers.

[–]LordOfTheReptiles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You bring up an interesting point. I should specify that she is not necessarily against the idea of casual sex, she is turned off by it because of the experiences she has had with men in regards to it. Specifically, the casual sex she was having was so disappointing to her that she no longer desires it. It is not necessarily that she just wants a relationship. That being said, I don't doubt that she has some internal problems as well. Truth is, I don't really know her that well but she has always seemed like a relatively normal, kind, funny person. In my interactions with her, I was surprised to hear that fact about her given the impression I've gotten from her as a person. My point was more just along the lines that women aren't always having a lot of sex just because they can.

[–]NeedingAdvice86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes...and most dudes here don't consider for the average cute Stacy...exactly how often are they running up on one of the 20% of dudes that everyone is claiming is fucking all the women.

I was actually depressed a little the other day sitting at a café and seeing the condition the vast majority of guys that were strolling by....90% of them are not even trying....badly dressed, unkempt in an unattractive way and completely fucking out of shape. Which lead to maybe 10% who were likely fuckable for the even the regular cute girl....out of those likely 5% are in relationships, gay, religious, visitor to town or something else that puts them out of the sex market. So that means that the cute girls have to be in a position to meet one of the 5% to get sex as well. And they don't even get to approach but only throw signs out and hope the dude understands.

[–]banned_by_cucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> They’re not all constantly getting pounded into another dimension by “Chad”. Ask women about their sex lives, and you’ll be surprised how many of them complain about the low quality sex they’ve had, or how long it’s been.

They're still having sex actively and most of their dissatisfaction comes from the fact they're "only" getting to fuck men who are a 'half-step' below Chad.

> Ask women about their sex lives, and you’ll be surprised how many of them complain about the low quality sex they’ve had, or how long it’s been.

Do you really think they'll give you an honest answer that will be truthful to reality? No, they're going to give you the answer that they think will generate the most desired results.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest here, I'm basically the prototypical Chad save one point. I'm an MD, made 330k last year, 6'2" @175lbs (18% bf but I'm working on it), and own my own condo and car outright. 7" dick to boot

My dick has never worked. Full stop -injecting prostaglandins- never worked because some k*** fucked up my circumcision and nearly amputated the top 3" of my shlong.

I have only had one successful relationship with a girl. One who had never had been with a functional male before which lasted 4 years and fell apart the moment she "got raped" letting a male stripper from a friend's bachelorette "drive me home to you".

You can check every box. Have a Ph.D in eating pussy. And, be left because some fucking k*** who convinced your parents it was a good idea because my grandmother was a half k*** and broke your manhood for life on day 8



[–]welfrkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eddie murphy preached it way back when still relevant today.


[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (6 children)

What exactly is the effort? Because that shit never works as far as I can tell. Do you mean more money? Constantly annoying pursuing them? Inviting them to random shit they wouldn't do on their own there's a million guys out there trying to get laid even if she Fucks 3 guys a week 3 different dudes it's probably because they stood out from the pack of guys she wasn't intersted in that were chasing her/offering.

[–]dDiegoDLV 0 points1 point  (5 children)

badly dressed, unkempt in an unattractive way and completely fucking out of shape.

Forget what women say. They dont even understand themselves. They all talk about wanting "good guys" then go fuck Chad. Lifting fixes 1 or 2 of those problems. Put the effort into yourself. More money is good if you use it for you. Do not spend big $ on first dates unless you want her to put you into the boring provider category.

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Yea, I guess. Some of us have already covered those basics and still aren't doing spectacularly though. Datings really messy being attractive is honesty just a small part of it.

[–]dDiegoDLV 0 points1 point  (3 children)

define "doing spectaculary" What is the hard part about dating?

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Standing out in the social circles most girls have established. Not having dry spells lasting 6 months at a time. Idk it just feels like nothing sticks or their personalities aren't compatible or they ask for too much. There's a million things honestly. The good ones are taken. The low quality ones are everywhere and have baggage.

[–]dDiegoDLV 1 point2 points  (1 child)

The good ones are taken. The low quality ones are everywhere and have baggage.

You need to improve yourself. How do I know? Things are similar for me lately. Im not on a level right now where I can consistently pull the kinds of women I want so I am putting effort into me instead of dating. Lets call it not quite monk mode.

Also I get the impression you’re young. The deck is stacked against you at that point. Im not saying to give up. Just remember men improve with age if you take care of yourself and focus on your personal goals.

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already writing contracts as an entrepreneur for large companies & have associations with pretty big names in my field & in my area I'm actually decently well known. There's not F-you money yet but my situations taken care of. Might just be my location but whatever it is it feels like women at the younger end of the spectrum have overwhelming demands & offer absolutely nothing. Yet there are guys twice my age willing to put up with this behavior.

There are girls exactly my age that have a new house and a new car just like me but haven't even finished university yet and have student loans & work a job at Fucking California Pizza kitchen as a waitress. I've handled this all on my own & still remain competitive professionally in my field. They have no skills & Fuck off on social media all day. But apparently some 30-something guys willing to bankroll these bitches as she strings him along and lays on her ass.

  • Regardless of what happens I'm not going for that deal. Even if I die alone. If she doesn't see the potential on the way up then she's SOL later down the line.

[–]MurkyArtichoke 15 points16 points  (5 children)

Once a woman has already pegged you for a loser, you can’t dig yourself out of that hole. Acting like a winner after she’s already seen your potential for being a loser will rub a woman the wrong way. She’ll see it as though you’re an asshole trying to trick the world and cheat at the game.

Very conflicted about this. I feel like i've read so many times about how guys start lifting, improving themselves and increasing their SMV, and then the girls who used to ignore them start paying attention to them. I think you can still dig yourself out of that hole, but it's rare.

[–]Razkolol 6 points7 points  (3 children)

It's done bro, you can use the anger generated by this during workouts but your oneitis won't jump back on your dick. Girls who ignored you didn't know you existed so yea you're on the radar now, girls who saw you acting like a bitch, that ship has sailed. Think of it this way, you have 80k to spend on a car, would you buy an old broken down Supra and try to fix it with that money or get yourself a newer Nissan GTR or Audi R8?

[–]Leandro_F95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would choose the supra anyday lol 😂

[–]call_in_the_cavalry 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I understand your point, but that's a terrible comparison if you're talking to a car guy. Supras are the bomb

[–]Razkolol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you would spend 80k on a broken down supra instead of getting a newer R8 or GTR? What kind of car guy are you? Newer is better, any of those destroys the supra in all aspects xD we're going offtopic here. Also the looks, R8 looks like a boss's weekend drive, supra looks like a ricer's wet dream.

[–]3trplurker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A major event needs to happen in order for a women to reassess her emotional measurement of a guy. First you gotta break it off completely with the girl, just not in an angry way but more of a "I just don't think we're gonna work out but I value you as a friend" line. Then you gotta live your life to the fullest, meet lots of young attractive women, have lots of sex and just really shine. The ex's opinion will most certainly change, but at this point you'll no longer want her.

[–]3whatsthisgarg 71 points72 points  (43 children)

A woman who has an available partner and enjoys sex will have sex 2 to 3 times a week, every week.

Whoa. Your estimate is still way too low. I'll put it much more starkly for you--this is the way it goes:

A woman who is interested in you will fuck you EVERY SINGLE TIME you see her. If she's your "girlfriend" or whatever, and that means you see her every day, then you get laid every day, multiple times per day. Period, sore, busy, has a cold, none of that shit matters (broken bones or influenza, give her a break).

You will make a mental note and have a chuckle when the day comes that you fall asleep together and you DID NOT have sex that day.

And if that day comes in the first month of the relationship, it's over. If that day comes around the six month mark and there's some reason for it, maybe it will last.


This is kind of the the other side of the "three dates" rule. If you're not fucking by the third "date" you move on. If you're not fucking every day past the first month, move on.

In line with the message of the post, don't spend time and energy trying to convince her to have sex with you, spend that time and energy on 1). making yourself better and more fuckable and 2). finding other women to fuck.

[–]Lordadidas 33 points34 points  (9 children)

Yeah, sometimes when I just want to cuddle with my LTR (sue me bitch, I love cuddling) and she gets pouty when I don’t fuck her. In a cute way. If you’re with a girl that is genuinely attracted to you she’ll want you inside of her whenever your dick is hard, however many times a day that may be.

[–]throwargie 30 points31 points  (7 children)

If you’re with a girl that is genuinely attracted to you she’ll want you inside of her whenever your dick is hard, however many times a day that may be.

A girl confirmed this, she was so in love with her boyfriend, the only think she though about was getting fucked by him. BTW she told me this naked in bed after I fucked her. I though it was weird and honestly it was a boner-killer but, damn.

[–]RdBull 18 points19 points  (3 children)

Daaamn boi, that's an horror story for guys in LTR, jajaja It got me thinking.

[–]throwargie 18 points19 points  (2 children)

I wish it wasn't true. In fact she sounded so in love, she would say "When I'm with him I only want to fuck him, we will move together and fuck all the time" I lost my erection and couldn't fuck her anymore.

[–]p3n1x 13 points14 points  (1 child)

that, or you got kink tested.

[–]AlQWEffos239 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a cold world out here.

[–]Lordadidas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t live under any pretense that this might not happen to me. It might. But I figure as long as my dick is getting wet whenever I want and there are no signs of cheating, worrying about it is kinda fruitless

[–]magx01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A girl confirmed this, she was so in love with her boyfriend, the only think she though about was getting fucked by him.

In this is a nugget of truth about what "love" really means.

[–]never_as_big_as_pump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fucking true. You reminded me how awesome my fwb is. Trully upgradable material.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everything this man said is 100% correct.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 10 points11 points  (31 children)

In general a woman who is dating a guy will probably see him 2-3 times a week, and they'll have sex each time they're together.

If a relationship gets to a point where they're seeing each other every single day (such as cohabitation or annoying people who are joined at the hip despite not living together), sex every day is a little crazy. That's just objectively a lot of sex. Women get sore. Hell, for any guy over 21 or so, having sex every single day can be a chore.

[–]p3n1x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for any guy over 21 or so, having sex every single day can be a chore.

This a lil' male solipsism. Speak for yourself.

Design your life to have a good diet and proper sleep. Don't masturbate, unless its doing onto her in some way.

Some of your labido also relies on her. Cold and vanilla women are boner killers.

[–]3whatsthisgarg 7 points8 points  (25 children)

sex every day is a little crazy.

Wut really? That's a new perspective for me.

That's just objectively a lot of sex. Women get sore. Hell, for any guy over 21 or so, having sex every single day can be a chore.

Is there something in the water or the plastics over where you are? When I was "over 21 or so" the paradigm of fucking, even long after the honeymoon phase, was fuck in the morning, head in the afternoon, and fuck again at night, usually two or three times. Yes, I mean 5 full on ejaculations. Hell, she might even come once in there somewhere.

Sex has never been the MOST important thing to me, but of the Top 10 Reasons She Is There, all 10 of them are for fucking.


Okay, I get it, you are speaking statistically, and you are correct. My point is, you should be having as much sex as you want, and if you're not, don't settle for less. (I guess that also means don't settle for "more" if she wants more than you, but I just can't imagine that.)

[–]2chazthundergut 19 points20 points  (22 children)

When's the last time you lived with a chick and fucked her every day for three months in a row?

Shit gets boring

Sex with the same chick every single day only seems great when you aren't getting it. Once you are, you're gonna get bored a lot faster than you think.

That's been my experience, anyways.

[–]p3n1x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shit gets boring

That is what the third in a minage is for, or just a blatent side chick.

[–]3whatsthisgarg -2 points-1 points  (20 children)

When's the last time you lived with a chick and fucked her every day for three months in a row?

When was the last time I didn't: probably before you were born.

Shit gets boring

Not for me, man. I am an absolute raging horndog. I'm over 50 and I'm still doing it. Every single time we are alone, we have to fuck. It is stellar every time. I can't remember the last time it was not.


However. Interesting that you stated "three months" because that has always been the time when I get sick of a woman. So so many times I have been with a woman (and yes fucking every day) and right around 3 or 4 months, EVERYTHING she does bugs me. I just want her to vanish. But if that doesn't happen, we're good indefinitely.

[–]Iwannachokekatie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wish to be like you when I am 50yo. Hell, I want to be like you right now at 20yo.

[–]p3n1x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are getting downvoted by "monogamy"-pills. The 30 somethigs with stress related ED and a bitchy girlfreind aren't going to understand that your type of life is possible.

Hey boys, she makes you hard or she does not. You choose what to live with. TRP by definition is fucking "abnormal" to the common mind. Why is high volume quality sex all of a sudden "abnormal".

[–]2chazthundergut 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Damn. Well, that's awesome dude. I am 30 and I can only pray to have your balls when I'm 50!

[–]3whatsthisgarg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am 30 and I can only pray to have your balls when I'm 50!

When I die you can do a testicular transplant! And keep yours in there too LOL

[–]3CainPrice[S] 1 point2 points  (14 children)

Ejaculating 5 times a day at age 50 is many standard deviations away from ordinary. I don't think your experiences are something that's practical to normal guys having normal interactions with women.

For most normal guys, having sex once every single day is possible but actually a little tedious. And having multiple ejaculations a day, for an extended period of time, such as 3 months, is remarkable. It is not normal to be in a relationship and have sex every single day. Every time you meet when you're dating and seeing each other 2-3 times a week? Sure. But every day? That's an abnormal amount of sex.

[–]p3n1x 1 point2 points  (7 children)

Maybe listen and stop trying to be "normal"?

But every day? That's an abnormal amount of sex.

No, it is not. Lifestyle is everything, genetics help too. You are being a bit stubborn about it.

It is not normal to be in a relationship and have sex every single day.

Did you mentally default to monogamy?

I can understand if you are trying to be a family man, have kids and pay the mortgage as a stressed-out young man. But, life goes on, and on, and on.

[–]Twentyfivedeep 0 points1 point  (6 children)

"Lifestyle is everything, genetics help too"

You need to learn what "standard deviation" and "abnormal" mean. genetics and lifestyle change predisposition, but they do not change the definition of normal within the context of a normal distribution curve. Abnormal is not an insult, it is a word to describe statistical deviation from the norm, and whether or not someone is genetically prediposed to have intense sex drive, or high IQ, or be 7ft tall does not change where everybody else sits in relation to them.

[–]p3n1x 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Abnormal is not an insult

It IS a bad thing pertaining to the subject. Lack of sexual drive or performance should never be seen as "normal" unless one is turning in a statistics paper.

The original comment was not made to suffice science or a class paper, it was used in the context that I replied to it with.

Always be fucking!

[–]Twentyfivedeep 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Not wanting to fuck every day, multiple times a day is not a lack of sexual drive. A very small percentage of men can sustain that consistently. I would personally find that boring as fuck, and I have well above average T levels.

[–]3whatsthisgarg -2 points-1 points  (5 children)

But every day? That's an abnormal amount of sex.

Well, I guess I'm an abnormal guy.

I thought it was normal when I was 18 to 30. I thought that's what everybody did, because that's what I did with every woman I was with. Nobody said it was too much. Now I look back and realize maybe that's why those women were so crazy about me, because they had never been fucked so good.

I am certainly not ejaculating 5 times a day at this age. Once or twice is usually enough, and there are a few days where we go 3 times, not uncommon. Frankly, though, my preference is quality over quantity, so I like to stay hard and fuck for an hour or so.

Sidenote: as far as "getting sore" you CAN learn how to fuck every day AND fuck for an hour and not get sore. It's not anything I could tell in words, you have to fine-tune and adjust (e.g. your rhythm) to each other's bodies.

I don't think your experiences are something that's practical to normal guys having normal interactions with women.

I did say above you should be having as much sex as you want. That doesn't mean do what I do; OTOH, frequent marathon sex worked for me, so I might recommend it.

The point of your post was women are having a lot of sex (with all the implications of that fact), and I thought you low-balled it. I was just commenting to say that there are women who have been fucked a hell of a lot more than a lot of guys might think. Awareness of that, you should be conscious of the possibility that they might have some expectations of what sex should be like.

Keep posting, please. You have a balance and positivity that is rare around here.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

You make some good points. I think a lot of us, myself included, have a very narrow view of the world, based on our own experiences.

It wasn't that long ago for many of us that discovering The Red Pill and paying a little more attention to the world revealed something shocking about women and their sexuality, and we were like "Holy shit! That can't possibly be accurate."

When some dude says something about his experiences that seems crazy, it's still his experiences. I think my record is three days in a row. After that, she's sore as hell (I take a long time to finish, so three days of that is kind of rough on her), plus it's harder for me to stay in the act after three successive days. Each day takes me longer than the last to finish. Maybe I need to eat more zinc or something. Spacing things out to about 2-3 times a week seems to ensure really, really good sex each time, instead of sex just for sex's sake sometimes.

[–]freew33zy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking in to agree with the guy you are debating as well. I have had an LTR for 2 years, and we lived together for 2 months over Summer. In that two months we probably fucked 90 times. Normally we don't live together though, and in an average week that we don't live together, we still probably fuck 10+ times, albeit 5 days of the week instead of 7.

[–]3whatsthisgarg -1 points0 points  (2 children)

the world revealed something shocking about women and their sexuality, and we were like "Holy shit! That can't possibly be accurate."

For me it was when I realized the shit women would do for me, or let me do TO them. Sex in public places? Yes. Sex on the floor while people are pretending to sleep right next to us? Yes. My older brother's GF wants to fuck me? Yes. An older woman says "Your girlfriend just told me you broke up. Let's go fuck." Yes. Raw dog ONS? Yes (not smart, but that was a long time ago). Huge ego boosts.

When some dude says something about his experiences that seems crazy, it's still his experiences. I think my record is three days in a row.

My record is three WOMEN in one day (working on a post about it right now). I once ejaculated ELEVEN times in five hours. Neither of those were what anyone would call quality sex, but I count them as sexual adventures. (As far as days in a row, no idea, but it's got to be more than 60.)

Spacing things out to about 2-3 times a week seems to ensure really, really good sex each time, instead of sex just for sex's sake sometimes.

Only you know what you like. The compatibility is very important; if she's good with what you're doing you keep doing it. Fortunately, it seems most women adjust to the man's preference, frequency, etc.

Each day takes me longer than the last to finish. Maybe I need to eat more zinc or something.

idk Maybe less! Zinc is good, best in a combo with magnesium and calcium. Also E is important, and that's good with CoQ10. Arginine (citrulline is more potent) too. But all that stuff is known for making you hard, not making it easier to finish.

[–]MisterRoid 2 points3 points  (1 child)

How old were you when you ejaculated 11 times in 5h? How did you feel after that? I once jacked off and ejaculated 8 times within 1-2h as a teenager. Felt like shit with a blasting headache all day after that.

[–]randomTATRP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an absolute raging horndog. I'm over 50 and I'm still doing it. Every single time we are alone, we have to fuck. It is stellar every time. I can't remember the last time it was not.

No wonder you talked for like 2 months in every single comment you'd do your woman piledriver over the back seats in a stranger's van or in a open staircase (IIRC).

[–]ki6840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having sex 5 times a day for 2 minutes is not as much sex as you think it is😁

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah dude if I’m living with a woman, we better be fucking every day

[–]Rollo_Mayhem3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't forget when you have a LTR or steady girlfriend and 3-4 other plates, there comes a day where you want a break, so I will be like babe, I had a massive workout at the gym, I'm tired, night...

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 79 points80 points  (4 children)

Having sex every day is easy.

I've literally had sex every day for the last 1.5 years.

To do this, secure a semi-hot Main bitch, which gives you the freedom, and fallback to chase after head Turner hot side bitches.

Find one girl who wants to LTR you, give it to her with some restrictions, then fuck hotter bitches using her as pre-selection.

Rap music was Red Pilled long before the red pill was.

[–]j_arbuckle2012 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Nice. Same thing I do.

6s and 7s are bottom bitches. 8s and 9s are for indulging yourself. Relative SMV difference is the biggest indicator of whether a relationship will work.

[–]freew33zy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same situation checking in. HB8 Main LTR, she comes out with me to my Frat parties sometimes so the regulars see me with her and know I fuck, other times I go out solo and profit. I also have pics of her eye fucking me on my Tinder and other dating apps. It's a nice life.

[–]p3n1x 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Having sex every day is easy.

Multiple times a day.

OP, if it is twice a weak because your shedule is so busy accomplishing your mission, ok. Otherwise, crank it up.

[–]1atticusfinch1973 29 points30 points  (9 children)

You can never change a girl’s mind once she’s decided you’re not fuckable. Not even with The Red Pill.

The entire married red pill sub would probably disagree with this one. It is possible to recreate desire in a woman, you just have to have the right approach.

[–]3itiswr1tten 19 points20 points  (2 children)

The entire MRP sub worth listening to would also (i) not get married again given the chance and (ii) tell you it's never worth it to go dumpster diving when you can just replace the girl

[–]1atticusfinch1973 5 points6 points  (1 child)

When there are things like kids and a family in the equation the game changes significantly. Just "replacing" the girl can sometimes mean divorce rape and a whole lot of problems with raising children.

Never mind that some men would rather actually try to improve their current situation rather than burn it down and start from nothing.

[–]3itiswr1tten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree, but we're assuming no marriage here

Zero reason to move mountains and rebuild attraction when you can just start fresh

[–]3CainPrice[S] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I'm on the fence on that one.

Married women have this thing where after about 5 years of marriage, maybe a little more, they're in their 30s, the kid(s) are in school now and old enough that they don't need constant attention, and a woman's subconscious brain suddenly begins to panic. Her subconscious realizes that she's in her 30s, and that this will be the rest of her life if she doesn't make a change. It's her last chance to find a better guy. That subconscious realization conveniently coincides with her husband having spent the last 5 years putting in extra hours at the office to pay for the kids and the house and the SUV, neglecting the gym, and becoming fat and distant and less of a strong presence in the home.

I think with a married woman who no longer wants her husband, things can be brought back to a tolerable point, where she's willing to settle due to the conveniences her husband brings because her husband is comfortable and medium-attractive, but she's still settling a little and not gushing vaginal fluids at the thought of her loving husband coming home from work.

Women aren't stupid. Keeping the family together and fucking a medium-attractive husband is often a better choice than divorce, new men, financial uncertainty, and single parenting the kids. If the husband can become at least medium-attractive again, and his wife isn't stupid, he can at least bring things back to a tolerable but not great level.

[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right that not all cougarettes go all slut mode, but plenty do. And this very dilemma is precisely why in the past, women were made subservient to their husbands.

[–]2chazthundergut 7 points8 points  (1 child)

"Can never change a girl's mind"


You absolutely can change a girl's mind. I've done it myself, and fucked a chick who knew me at my most beta and pathetic.

Yes, they will test you harder.

But the real problem doesn't come from the chick.

The real problem comes from you. Have you changed your own mind? This is much harder to do if you've already trained yourself to be her bitch.

Never forget: men lead, women follow. You set the frame.

[–]Marino4K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can never change a girl's mind" False. You absolutely can change a girl's mind.

Can confirm. I’ve banged at least two women who knew me years ago when I didn’t lift, etc. they both even rejected attempts to hook up in the past.

Fast forward after three years of lifting, bettering myself, and learning to not give a fuck. One of these women desperately wanted to date me long term, turned her down since she got clingy as fuck after we did hookup, and the other continues to this day to try and call me for hookups which I turn down, (she’s let herself go).

All in all, im pretty sure at least some women have a short term memory lapse and I don’t even know if they remember rejecting me those years ago.

[–]SuperCrazy07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. You can often, with a lot of effort and time, change her mind back somewhat.

But, I think it is a lot easier (less effort, less time) to get a new girl to fuck you. As you mentioned below, its the whole marriage/kids/divorce thing that makes a man even try or the woman even give it a chance. If a guy in a shitty marriage was offered an easy out with no financial damage, no kids, etc. no way would he stick around trying to improve for wifey.

I think the OP's target audience was single men - and for them it is almost always better to just move on.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously, at some point those women thought those guys were fuckable--they got married. The question is if the light has dimmed or she toggled it all the way to off.

[–]3trplurker 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I can comment on this, took the pill years ago when the community was super small and radically changed me lifestyle. What I noticed was that lots of attractive women want sex but don't want to be judged for having it casually. Once I left the anger phase I stopped judging women and for me, fucking was just a fun thing to do in my spare time. With this kind of casual nonchalant attitude I was able to amass a pretty sizable collection of chicks who I was randomly fucking. This went on for damn near five or six years until I got kinda tired of it, yes you do get tired of it eventually.

All you gotta do to get a women to sleep with you is be semi-attractive and not have her feel judged. Gotta have the most relaxed damn near hippie like attitude to sex. Lots of chicks who had rich boyfriends, or even husbands, would be fucking me on the side. Those fuckers have no idea whats going on, idiots think their money and status gets them loyalty.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And escalate. You have to unapologetically go for sex, in a smooth, non-creepy manner. Like you're the kind of guy who's just used to most women wanting to have casual sex with him, and like it's totally not a big deal to you if she fucks you, or if she doesn't. You just thought it would be fun.

[–]ToryTosh1922 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Great post.

I discovered TRP in 2018 and I'm on monk mode until 2019 as I rebuild myself, my frame and my purpose.

I'm also abstaining from porn and sex as much as possible as my brain reboots from a terrible porn addiction.

After that, I'm going to sleep with a different woman each week to find out what I like. I'll see how I feel after 52, and if I'm still confused about what I like I'll do another 52 and so forth until I find out. Sample size is very important

[–]atanasov99 0 points1 point  (1 child)

how do u abstain from porn ? i feel unmotivated and depressed if i dont masturbate daily,im 18 so maybe its my age

[–]randomTATRP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you abstain for a few days, it gets easier. Atleast in my case. I'm in early twenties though.

[–]NeedingAdvice86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no....women are having sex, no surprised but the TRPnewbie belief that every girl down the street is fucking 15times a week isn't even close to true.

Want a better idea...consider that women like to have sex, yes, but then look at the shlubsmorlocks guys that you pass on the street compared to truly fuckable guys and think about how often a girl is going to come into contact with one of the 20% guys that she will consider fucking...women do have abundance but she isn't to let pajama wearing fatso fuck her just because. Women like sex but actually most have much more sex with one or two guys when in some sort of relationship than the TRP desire to fuck the 1000 girls they see on the subway every evening.

[–]1ozaku7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes like a year or two to reset a woman. Basically she hamsters away that she probably doesn't remember you well, or that you have grown so much you are now worth it. Also, in those 2 years you don't fake it anymore, you actually made it.

[–]PepinoSF 8 points9 points  (5 children)

Do not decide too early that you are not fuckable. If you knock long enought on womans door it might get open. Does it worth the effort is another story. But you must knock, not just stay afront like a stray dog.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 6 points7 points  (4 children)

Disagree. If a woman wants to have sex with you, you won't get mixed signals and a lukewarm response from her.

If you're an attractive guy who knows what he's doing with women, you will have far more success charming the skirt off of a new woman who's actually attracted to you than you will trying to persuade a lukewarm woman to become more interested.

[–]PepinoSF 10 points11 points  (3 children)

Knocking on ones door doesnt meen you dont knock on the others

[–]ChristianTroyston 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha yes buddy.

Don’t ever be faithful to a women man... lol this entire threads comments is about how she can’t wait to find someone better.

Just lie. Who fucking cares. She has her hamster we have our unfiltered disgust. Use it.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I can get behind that, as long as we clarify that "knocking on ones door" means "sending 1 text message a week on the average and not putting in any other significant effort on account of being too busy having sex with other women".

[–]PepinoSF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It means "remind her every once in a while, that you have something ready for her kitty, but don't develop severe oneitis".

See, good thoughts come in rhymes :)

[–]loophole4urpoophole 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I didn't finish reading your post because it's rediculous and pathetic from the start, but FYI when the girls were having casual sex with guys it was because A they are attracted to them, or B they like them. That simple. Your personality most likely sucks and you are probably unattractive. Thats why you and all of you other red pill losers don't get laid and blame it on women. To all of you men: women aren't obligated to like or have sex with ANYONE. STFU, stop whining, and work on yourself. Oh and OBVIOUSLY women have sex, and it's there for the taking if you have something to offer, like a good sense of humor, good looks, or just being a cool person. If you have none of those then clearly nobody would want you. Coming to this subreddit and surrounding yourself with other losers to complain about women will do nothing for you but keep you in that repulsive state where no woman would want to fuck you. K by

[–]3CainPrice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you accidentally typed a response to the 10-word title of the post and what you thought it said. The post titles in Reddit actually function as links. If you click on them, it opens up the rest of the content.

[–]oytrp 4 points5 points  (1 child)

You're comparing apples and oranges.

Having sex with 4 new women in a month is pretty good.

Having sex 4 times total in a month when you have a girl friend is pretty bad.


Not every girl is going to become a plate and sometimes plates break. But eventually when you have 4 plates spinning at once, then you have a situation where you can have sex 20 times in a month with several different women.

[–]CrimsonShiv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's very accurate. 4x new bangs in a month also have plate potential if your "retention-games" is good.

[–]JustinDell990 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It's there for the taking if you're a male in the top 0.1 percent.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's really not that terrible. A lot of guys feel the way that you do, and it's seriously holding them back.

To be a part of the casual sex culture, you really don't have to be this mythical "Chad" guy who's 6'6" tall with the sculpted body of a Greek god and the face of a magazine model. You just have to look decent, be fun and interesting, have good social skills, and know the game.

Lots of women go home with perfectly ordinary, average-looking, average-seeming guys, and lots of cuter guys wonder why the hell these girls keep ending up with average-seeming assholes. You just have to look decent, be fun and interesting, have good social skills, and know the game.

Don't shoot yourself in the foot like that just because you're frustrated. You have to do the work. Go to the gym. Eat right. Talk to 1000 girls and get laughed at and feel ashamed and embarrassed. Talk to 10,000 if that's what it takes. Do the work. You're not going to crack into the casual sex culture with any shortcuts or cheat codes. You have to get your looks decent and learn how to talk to girls the hard way, by getting laughed at and shamed 10,000 times.

[–]fur10us_falcon 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Would about when you're 28 and stuck on 0? What do I do?

[–]2awalt_cupcake 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Wait yall are not fucking your girlfriends? Just one of my gfs back in my LTR days we counted and had sex 340 times in a year.

[–]3CainPrice[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Yeah, after chatting with a few guys in this thread, apparently I have low T or a bad diet or something. I've never been a top-me-off, sex-every-day kind of guy. It takes me a long time to finish, and any woman I see consistently ends up sore after an hour long session, which makes the next day even harder on her (plus the next day takes me even longer to finish).

Every other or maybe every third day works well for me. But after reading about some of the other guys around here, I seem to have a lower libido than most, and sex every day (and in some cases, multiple times a day) is routine for a lot of people.

[–]2awalt_cupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it. Or you haven't gotten into it. Let go and let your inner animal do whatever you want to do.