On mobile so formatting is bad.
Ive had some success with women in the past, but only 3 lays since I discovered TRP 2 years ago. I’ll leave the details out except for what’s truly important:
-I spent most of my time theorizing instead of actually doing
-i avoided interacting with women because of inadequacies in the sexual field that I’ve beat myself up over for a very long time.
Enough backstory. On to the meat of the report.
This past weekend I had some friends come down and visit me in my newish apartment a couple of states away from where I’m from. I love my friends dearly and was super happy they showed up. One of my best friends has a female house mate, but he’s gay so it works out well for him and they both work together.
Now I had never met this girl before this last weekend. She moved in after I had left earlier in the year but I had talked to her over group video chat with all my other friends since they knew her. Not many hints over a video chat so I didn’t think too much of it. But I had told myself I was going to go for it.
She is short. 5’1, 27, still has good looks for her age (thanks to her Cuban/European ancestry) and is witty and charming to engage with because she truly is just like a child at heart. She laughs a lot, loves to make jokes and genuinely was a pleasure to speak with. She’s also a triage nurse. So “Women are like children” really made sense to me finally when I realized: women don’t want heavy, info-laden topics when they’re not working or acting like adults. They just want to have fun.
So I did my best to channel that this weekend. I never mentioned anything about politics or dumb guy things. I managed to avoid seeking entertainment from her and just enjoyed what she offered and built off that. When she made a joke or pointed out something funny I would build off it and paint a vivid picture in her head of something ridiculous.
I don’t have any younger sisters or cousins or anything so I had try to pretty hard consistently to remember to treat her like a bratty kid sister when she did dumb/silly things.
I did my best to make myself my own mental point of origin and be outcome independent. I truly was more concerned about enjoying my time with my friends who I never get to see. She was also genuinely kind and enjoyable to be around so that helped.
Cue 2nd night of my friends being here. We get wasted-ish. Long story short, I managed to seal the deal. She gave off IOIs, and reciprocated harder when I gave some back. So I went for it.
Now let me be up front. I wouldn’t rate her a 10. Or 9. Or 8. Or even a 7 I gues. Maybe a 6 or 6.5. She was cute, had big tits and a fat ass, but she had some stomach and the fact that she was so short didn’t help. Her face wasn’t Victoria’s Secret either. But she was fuckable if only for that ass. I won’t embellish false details. She wa just ok. Nothing crazy.
But she knew how to handle herself. Obviously. Nothing surprising there. But I wasn’t expecting a virgin. She is a career focused woman who enjoys NSA relationships. So that was fine with me cuz I didn’t know if I’d ever see her again.
We messed around over the next few days and had a good time.
-women want to be treated like children.
-Be vague and use their imagination against them.
-DARE not DEER
-Keep the info heavy topics for guy talks. Keep it light hearted with women.
-Women want to leave all their adult life baggage at home when they go out. They don’t want to talk about their jobs and stuff. (Some love their jobs enough to be willing to talk but don’t count on it).
-Be dominant, authoritative. Make decisions and don’t second guess yourself.
-Go out and practice what you’re learning. Action is better than theorizing. Even if you “fail”.