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MetaMission First, Women Always (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Endorsed ContributorReddJive

It's not normally the thing to do to make posts to respond to critics. Don't think this is the first. There is some valuable discussion that came out of my last piece Who The Fuck Are You. The idea of mission vs gaming (women). It is a valuable discussion to have.

I look towards balance in my life and in most things. If a man doesn't have balance he can't progress. It's a core of development. I could just as easily post another story about how I fucked that or this girl, and reaffirm Red Pill ideas, but I also find the meta, and mental development of men to be equally important. It's where I excel: the Psychological domination of my environment and I am skilled at it when it comes to women. It's wrong thinking to believe that you need to dedicate your time to one thing or the other. I would argue this is the way women think. They like to criticize men for not being able to multi task, but it's men who can. Betas clearly fail at this, but an Alpha or even an insecure alpha can do this. Creating a list of priorities and working down that list is limiting yourself as a man and removing one of you most natural skills. The ability to handle many priorities, at once, and all together.

To begin to understand what this post is going to talk about you have to remove your notion of the idea of priorities. Men have all priorities. We don't catalog them and have a 20th Priority. If you do have a priority list you need to ask yourself if it was really worth doing. If you can't apply time to it then you are need to refigure what you are doing.

There are things a man can do and things he can't do (I really like that line). It's all priority and it all needs to be done. It becomes a matter of how much time you devote to it at any given day. If you don't have time for it, then why is there to begin with. Yet the undercurrent of you life's passion is your mission and women must be always there.

Let's run this to the absurd: she calls you at work. Yakking about the dishes or the garbage disposal. Your response is "I am at work I don't have time for this" this is how she understands it yet you demonstrate every time that you can in fact manage more than one priority. What you are really telling her is "this isn't really that important", and you aren't dedicating time to it. You can't tell her that though it's not something she gets. You are saying in her language of covert communication, it doesn't even make the list. And this mindset is demonstrated throughout a number of red pill adages about not dealing with drama. Needle drawing thread.

Let's pull it back to extremes, you run a business, it's faltering so it becomes TOP priority, wherein you dedicate 70 hours a week to getting it back on track, but always in the back of your mind are the other things. You are still going to game a bit, it's who you are, but maybe the end game isn't to get her home. You are chatting up the secretary, that client, the barista….any woman you interact with. Even if you know you don't have time to close it to a good fuck. But hell you never know.

Balance Your Brain

Without one you don't have the other. Without the other you don't have the one. Your mission is your purpose in your life. What you get up every day for. It's your passion. Women are there for you to enjoy. They are not your passion, nor your mission. Engaging with women, gaming them increases your masculinity and therefore your social dominance. It's essential and cannot be ignored. Don't misread that. Women themselves are not the cause of your increase it's the interaction, its proving time and time again you are a man to be reckoned with in and out of the bedroom.

It is said that your relationships are a reflection of you. So while you are getting promoted, hired, and congratulated on your technical and intellectual skills at some point you will hit a brick wall because you are ignoring your social development. You will find situations, teams, and projects difficult because you failed at a key development process. I believe this is a dynamic of the Peter Principle. You are failing at your improvement. Gaming women is core to that. I bring back what Mystery said all these years ago.

If you aren't fucking you are effectively sterile

Great insight, hurts my feelings every time. I have seen very wealthy men, Google Execs, Radio and Music Execs, all these very powerful very wealthy mean still flounder when it comes to women. They do the same things. Drink the same drinks, talk the same topics. They spend money searching for what it is we talk about right here. Complete and utter dominance in your life. Meanwhile I am there with the hottest girl there having a great time, and yes we moved on to better places and eventually a hot monkey fuck session. Those guys couldn't hold a conversation.

Don't fall into the trap of it being only women and you can end up as a PUA. Seeking validation and affirmation from the women you are fucking. You cannot forget your mission in place of women. But I get it. At 20 that dick points north and is harder then an iceberg in the Atlantic.

Read this study. First it's bending the research and direct it to a more gooey soft side, but take the data and reinterpret it through a Red Lens.

It backs up the idea that having social and technical skill is an important part of leadership, or as I would see it - the man you want to be. Replace this with the fictional men we read in literature and TV/Movies. The man's man, ladies man, man about town kind of guy. That guy knows how to be attractive. He get's women. Women want to be with him and men want to be him. He's technically competent in his field and he has the social skills to maneuver at will. What is the at the core of a man's social interaction….his attractiveness. It's all directing towards his mission's outcome.

The beta we talk about isn't the guy that's going to get invited to the clam bakes, but neither are you if you are sitting with your nose in a book or locked in your office counting your coins.

So the next time you hear, "women just aren't a priority right now", come out of your mouth call someone to punch you in the jimmy.

You must have balance and it must be mission first, women always.


[–]DropDeadTyrant 28 points29 points  (6 children)

i tell myself all the time, "you've gotten your body right, now you need to get your mind right". I know it's cringy, but this anime intro used to start with, "a sound soul lies within a sound mind and a sound body". My only real purpose is to get my mind, body, and soul sound. Whatever happens along that journey happens.

[–]3itiswr1tten 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Sophrosyne (σωφροσύνη) is an ancient Greek concept of an ideal balance of excellence in both body and mind. For all their buggery the Greeks correctly identified that neither a flimsy academic or a dull athlete were praiseworthy.

They believed this balance leads to other qualities, such as temperance, moderation, prudence, purity, and self-control. I don't believe there's an equivalent in other languages. It's a word every man should know

[–]1gerwig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greek buggery is largely over exaggerated by academics to promote their agenda

[–]93nuggets 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Build it and they will come

[–]Marduhhh_y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soul eater was pretty motivational . Especially when she beats the enemy with a burning will of courage !

[–]riot2100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckin Soul Eater!

To actually perform well, the characters needed to have confidence in their own skill as well as their allies. Some of the themes coincidentally apply here.

[–]Endorsed ContributorTaipanshimshon 16 points17 points  (4 children)

Women get overwhelmed because they try to process everything in parallel.

Men process things sequentially and really really fast. We switch to the next thing.

Women like to say men can’t multitask. That’s true maybe. But we serial task without anxiety and good accurate fast results.

The beautiful thing is you don’t have to think about women when you work. But you can take that 5-10 minute break and do something else - gaming girls in the process.

This is important. You didn’t take a break TO game a girl.

You took a break and wound up gaming girls

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    [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 9 points10 points  (2 children)

    multitasking is pseudoscience... people have limited focus, and can at most, do one task, with one background activity

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      [–]redpill77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I think more nuanced definitions are required. In general, I think we consider multi-tasking to be doing more than one task demanding a certain amount of attention. It sounds like cutting down trees, for you, is more a meditative action that actually helps you think, just like it's a cliche/truism that going for a walk helps us think.

      [–]ThrowFader 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      You're absolutely right.

      Being comfortable in all social situations is a prerequisite to being socially successful.

      You cannot actualize yourself without being socially adept and aware.

      Thus interaction with women is always necessary.

      [–]AssDefect20 5 points6 points  (6 children)

      How the fuck does anyone game working 70 hours a week?

      [–]Chadthundercock531 1 point2 points  (2 children)

      70hours per week? Wtf dude get yourself a new job.

      [–]AssDefect20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      OP mentioned 70 hours. TBH I find even 50 hard.

      [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      It's probably his own business

      [–]randomTATRP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I've got a friend, 23 yo (just as me), works 12 hours a day, goes to the gym 4 times a week and for the weekend he goes gaming. Easy. Sleeps less on Saturdays/Sundays.

      [–]manonthemoon14 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Wtf is your job that has you working 70hrs/week?

      [–]AssDefect20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      OP mentioned 70 hours, and i was ike WTF?

      [–]JensenMse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      I had a weird realization earlier in the morning today. I found out that visualizing your mission priorities actually gets you fired up in order to push through the difficult barriers of the days. And no, this is not equal to fantasizing about what kind of million-dollar car you'd like to drive one day. This is not an easy dopamine fix. This is simply reminding your inner core and your true strength about what you truly enjoy doing in life regardless of what kind of shit life throws at you.

      The only person I've seen this kinda energy from is Connor McGregor. That guy is as RedPill as it gets. He always visualized his future fights in a manner that gets him excited into getting into it, and he is able to somehow see the outcome of the fight. With that in mind, his hunger for success pushed him to actually succeed at his goals. His pre-match and post-match interviews between victory against Jose Aldo prove he can be focused on what he wants. Also, his success easily gains him a lot of access to pussy.

      Here at the RedPill, we are usually driven here because we want to be successful at having as much pussy as we want. But along the way, we realize as men we have a higher cause in life, which is the mission bestowed to each and every individual. A driven man is always a sexy man in the eyes of every woman, and it is our duty as men to be able to fit in the high quality woman that we want as an extra to a good life. Push on, fellas. She is not the end goal, she is simply an indicator to how well your life is. Putting pussy on the pedestal is not the way to visualize a good life. A great mission that you are proud of will definitely attract all the pussy you want.

      [–]donedreadpirate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      All of my successes with women have happened organically while I was doing my own thing. I have never gone out and been successful when getting laid was my purpose. I don't know if it's mental or what. Can they sniff it? Neediness? Maybe I'm just not much of a player. I don't know. When I'm busy doing something with friends or colleagues, I always end up meeting girls who want to spend time with me. When I go out to the bar to game the wild woman of the west I fail every time. It has been the best lesson in OI. Getting laid as my mission never fucking works. It makes me send needy texts, restrain myself socially, and get in my head.

      [–]comicallysimple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      To put it simply. Getting pussy by game means you are doing things right in general. In that sence women help you understand if you are on the right track. Especially if they keep coming back for more.

      [–]Zech4riah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I understood the title right at the end. Great title which summarizes the post well.

      [–]friendlynaboureeno 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Interesting read, and I totally agree with most things you wrote.

      Talking to everyone is so important, it brings your confidence up when talking to strangers and it shows you have value. Humans cant and arent solo creatures, we need to interact with one another.

      But for me, women are not my priority and I dont give a fuck what they want. Im doing me, my goals, my dreams and aspirations. Sure if a girl comes around great, if not Im not out looking for them cuz I dont care. Yes like you said balance, but I get my balance, I stand in the queue for the supermarket and Ill talk to the person in front or behind me or the cashier. Ill talk to people on the street, Ill talk to the guy sitting next to me at the pub if I want a pint.(which isint very often)

      But I dont find I need to constantly game women, cuz of A) I dont fucking care to and B) Im doing me all the time and C) Im constantly talking to people all the time already so theres no need to get all women crazy when I get a number.

      Ive gotten so many numbers especially lately, they just give them to me and I maybe call 1 or 2 out of the 10 Ill get in a week

      just my 2 cents