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Field ReportNever fall into a long distance relationship. Get out if you're in one. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by flashcash12

I'm going to keep this short and sweet unlike my past posts.

This past Friday night I went out to the college bar with a few of my buddies. Went straight to the bar to order an AMF and survey the crowd. Busy as usual. I spotted some IOIs from girls but I decided I was just going to chill with my group because I hadn't seen them in months. Hung out for about 15 minutes and one of my friends pointed out that a girl had been staring at me. I turned to see if I knew her, but didn't, so I just stared back smiled and went back to talking with my friends. After about a minute I looked back over at her. She was with a group of girls. For the sake of the story lets call her Nicole. Nicole noticed, made eye contact with me, smiled and motioned me over. I looked back at my friends and we joined their group. The moment I walked over Nicole pulled me away from the group. After about 2 minutes of talking, got asked if I want to dance. I told her I hate dancing at bars and just decided lean into to start making out with her. After about a minute I suggested we leave. Nicole says she would but can't leave her friends. Figuring she's down anyways, I start heading towards the door and of course Nicole starts following me. I couldn't go to my place because one of my roommates had his family staying over and I didn't want it to be awkward so I called an uber to her dorm.

Got back to her place. Realized I didn't have a condom but she was on the pill (they are all these days) and let me raw dog her. Pillow talked for 30 minutes. She wanted to cuddle but I decided to split not before of course getting her snapchat.

The next day I browsing though snapchat stories and I ran across Nicole's story. It was a post of her saying how much she missed her bf. I guess she was just trying to justify her decision last night by posting how much she missed him. Being the curious motherfucker I am, I looked her up on Facebook/Instagram and discovered she was in a long distance relationship with him since they were sophomores in high school. Never mentioned him once to me. She posted a lot of the usual lovey dovey crap with him and he had already posted how much he missed her on his Instagram TWO TIMES since he started college 2 weeks ago. I laughed, realizing how fucked everything is.

Yesterday I decided to hit Nicole up asking if she wanted to come over. She said yes and came over. You know the rest. Well looks like I have a new plate.

Conclusion

  1. Don't get into long distance relationships

  2. I miss the thrill using my fake ID at bars

  3. Freshman girls once again prove how horny they are

  4. Don't be billy beta like Nicole's bf, have a high SMV

  5. AWALT

Edit - To all the people badgering me about the pill, I was in her dorm. She showed me her rectangle thing of tablets. STDs among affluent white girls is low. Getting them as a guy is also pretty low. Dumb choice but I’ll take my chances on this. That’s really all I can do at this point.

The point of the post was too show you guys how quickly and irrationally women make decisions. It was also to show you not be Billy Beta so you don’t get cheated on. And having a high smv for opportunities get thrown at you like this.

I already got some flak from my friends. My dad surprisingly thought it was fine and not a big deal. Well I guess the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

If you want to give flak like most of you have, go ahead but at this point it’s not contributing to the discussion in anyway.


[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (9 children)

The next day I browsing though snapchat stories and I ran across Nicole's story. It was a post of her saying how much she missed her bf. I guess she was just trying to justify her decision last night by posting how much she missed him.

This is something I've personally witnessed and seen happen time and time again when other guys banged out some chick who's already in a relationship.

When a gf/wife goes out at night and she starts posting in the wee hours of the morning something to the effect of how great her man is or how much she loves him, odds are she just cheated on him and the social media post is what I call the Rationalization Announcement.

If you see this and she posted it NOT by your side or within earshot, I've got bad news for ya son.

They don't realize what they're doing, but to the trained eye it's plain as day. Like moths to a flame they need to assuage their feelings of guilt by shouting to the world how much they appreciate and looooove thier bf/husband. Even more so if the post includes how much he trusts her, which loosely translates to "holy shit I violated the fucking hell out of his trust!"

[–]1atticusfinch1973 115 points116 points  (4 children)

Wait until Thanksgiving. We used to call it the Turkey Shoot here in Canada because all the girls at college with "boyfriends back home" would go home for the long weekend and break up with them after cheating on them during the first month of school.

If you're in college don't bother with any type of serious relationship (especially distance) and assume that your partner is cheating, it will make your life easier.

[–]firagabird 21 points22 points  (2 children)

Better yet, just don't go into anything more than a casual, open relationship. Stick to ONS and FWB arrangements at best. No one with adequate SMV really wants to be deprived of experiences with multiple partners if they're really being honest.

[–]midnight_metro 14 points15 points  (1 child)

I was on the verge of taking the pill my senior year of HS (didn't yet know what it was, but I noticed patterns in women that would have got me crucified if I vocalized them), but still had BP tendencies. Got into a LTR and was overcome with dread once I realized what I had done in my freshman year of college. My SMV was much higher than hers, but I was too cucked to realize I was handing my youth over to her.

She talked about marriage and at the time I was nodding and agreeing. Glad I'm out of that. Not getting into another relationship for a long time.

[–]superyute 4 points5 points  (0 children)

how did that play out exactly.

and what was the timeline of events

[–]AshyLarry27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, a good ole' fashioned "turkey dump"

[–]tc80291 222 points223 points  (12 children)

Countless military men would agree.

[–]deadstick_it 38 points39 points  (1 child)

We called them WESTPAC widows in Pearl Harbor. (WESTPAC = western pacific deployment)

[–]Replis 10 points11 points  (1 child)

No shit, all my friends's engagements were broken. It was like a joke. ALL of them... I was glad I joined the mandatory military service/conscription when I wasn't married/engaged.

I have told this before, but there was also a story of a soldier that wanted to surprise his wife in their house, and when he came home he busted his wife with another man...

He was broken as hell man..

[–]juliusstreicher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there is usually a big surprise for the husbands who try to surprise their wives!

[–]O--- 94 points95 points  (8 children)

The top post at the Gaming sub right now is a dude showing off his girlfriend. Who lives across the Pacific ocean. Let it sink in just how normalized it has become to have a long-distance relationship. Half of all people I know have been into one at some point. It's absurd.

Also, advice to those who are in an LTR and are moving away: AWALT still applies, even if you've been together for a while. Either don't move or break it up before you go.

[–]flashcash12[S] 63 points64 points  (2 children)

One of my guys in my fraternity is dating a known slut who did semester at sea. You know where college girls travel all over the world and blast on social media them flashing the ocean topless at equator with flags on their backs. He continues to believe she didn’t cheat. If only he knew.

[–]eccentricrealist 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Fuck I wanted to do that but it was too expensive. And yeah part of it was the reputation

[–]flashcash12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not a huge deal. It’s rest just shit to do during the week. I’m not active anymore it’s too expensive. It does help when girls ask what frat you’re in though if you’re in a top one. That’s really it.

[–]october-ru 16 points17 points  (2 children)

He think's he won Reddit for the day with a pic of a girl next to him Lol.

Also those Karma points stacking must feed onto his Ego that he's the 'alpha' of /r/gaming

[–]markinsinz7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bet all he really cares about is his cum guzzling gf who sucked all the beefed up australian dicks she could before he arrived

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    [–]odaklanan_insan 136 points137 points  (6 children)

    Most men like to ignore their inner voice that tells them they are being cucked.

    They know their girl very well, but just don't want drama, so they feel fine as long as she keeps it secret and don't cause anything to make him "supposedly" suspicious.

    This is a weird sort of comfort zone.

    They just don't realize that their fake ass relationship is a time bomb and she's not ok with it unlikely him.

    [–]markinsinz7 16 points17 points  (1 child)

    Has more to do with abundance. The guy usually knows he would have to struggle and put in work to get similar level booty. So as long as he gets sex and affection from his cheating whore of a gf he'll ignore the signs

    [–]ethernetcord 12 points13 points  (0 children)

    And if all he wants is the pussy, and she doesn't effect his life in a negative way, that's perfectly fine. If he is hoping to "love" the hoe, then he's got an issue.

    [–]NikolaGeorgiev 34 points35 points  (0 children)

    There is this joke about that guy walking fast towards his home and repeating to himself "I do not need to take a shit, I do not need to take a shit..." In couple of minutes he was already running still repeating to himself "I do not need to take a shit, I do not need to take a shit..." In the last few metres to his home he started walking slowly and repeated to himself "I did not shat myself, I did not shat myself..."

    [–]Aweshocked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    Girls do the same thing in reverse situations. They’d rather not know about a husband cheating than address it

    Its a human thing, not single to either sex

    [–][deleted] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

    so they feel fine as long as she keeps it secret and don't cause anything to make him "supposedly" suspicious.

    The fucked thing is that it's supposed to be the other way around. We are supposed to be having affairs and keeping it discrete.

    [–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (3 children)

    Realized I didn't have a condom but she was on the pill (they are all these days) and let me raw dog her.

    Watch out dude. If she's nuts and catches feelz for you, this is just asking for trouble.

    [–]Rommel0502 31 points32 points  (0 children)

    Not only that, if she does that with you, she does it with everyone.

    You are playing Russian Roulette with your health if not your life. No piece of ass is worth that.

    IMO risking your health for pussy is the ultimate pedestal.

    [–]PM_ME_YOUR_RC51 17 points18 points  (1 child)

    Can't be stressed enough. Any woman who says "I don't normally do this" obviously normally does it. Should've bailed the second she agreed to no protection.

    [–]NeedingAdvice86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    But don't you know that the ego takes over....

    The "I must be the most badasses TRP in history, this girl is letting me do blah, blah, blah. " syndrome takes over.

    Likely he even believed her when she said he was the best she ever had...<rolling eyes>

    [–]kabuto_mushi 94 points95 points  (8 children)

    I get the point of the story, but wasn't it kinda dumb to fuck this girl without a condom? In the same place I wouldn't have gone through with it, cause a) she could have been lying about the pill and b) who knows who else she's shoved up there recently. Didn't rollo say never let them control the birth or whatever...

    [–]jonpe87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

    That is why we also say always have a condom, you know our dicks have no brain

    [–]midnight_metro 5 points6 points  (5 children)

    I wouldn't even be worried about potential pregnancy so much as I'd be worried about STD's. I don't see how guys can raw dog a random bitch and not be nervous about catching something.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

    Because it hasn’t happened to me before. That’s the type of thinking that goes through young people’s heads in these situations. You know they say we think we are invincible.....

    [–]midnight_metro 9 points10 points  (3 children)

    Just be careful man. Even though most STD's today can be removed within a single clinic visit, you could come across one that is permanent - like herpes or HIV.

    But you already know this, don't you? You're free to do what you want, but be aware of the consequences. Putting your raw dick in random girls will eventually get you burned (literally).

    [–]clausternn 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    Herpes isn't really a big a deal (and it's way more common than people realize), and AIDS is very rare from heterossexual PIV sex.

    Not trying to promote unprotected sex, but those just seem like bad examples.

    [–]midnight_metro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    The common form of herpes you're referring to isn't the same as the one most people refer to when they mention the STD IIRC. There are different strains. Feel free to correct me, but genital warts are definitely something to look out for.

    And even the minor shit like gonorrhea. Yeah it's treatable, but I don't want to find out I have it when my piss burns. Just an unpleasantness that can be avoided.

    [–]red_philosopher 31 points32 points  (5 children)

    Having been there, all I can say is that it amounts to masturbation. It's great to have a FWB situation long-distance if it's a place you go to once in a while because you have to go for work or something similar. Like masturbation, it's terrible if that's your life...

    [–]flashcash12[S] 16 points17 points  (4 children)

    I hate masturbating but it got me through my summer internship and gets me through stomach pain, flu or food poisoning every time. It’s a trade off.

    [–]Delirious_Solipsista 5 points6 points  (3 children)

    Let me guess the summer internship - IB?

    [–]Turkerthelurker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    food poisoning

    Let me guess the summer internship - IB?

    Yep, sounds like irritable bowels to me.

    [–]2CasaDeFranco 125 points126 points  (22 children)

    6. Always carry protection.

    Women like this are likely to have STD's; get yourself checked.

    Great post otherwise.

    [–]MurkyArtichoke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    Women also seem to really appreciate that you use it, in my experience. I've had countless women tell me "props for using a condom even though i was on the pill". It shows that you are mature and care about your health. One girl i had a drunken, no-condom, sex with, texted me like crazy the day after asking me if i had tested myself recently and begged me to get myself checked and everything.

    [–]afkb39sdfb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    Chlamydia is the most commonly reported STD, with approximately 1.6 million cases reported in 2016. Young women (ages 15-24) account for nearly half (46 percent) of reported cases...

    cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/factsheets/std-trends-508.pdf

    That's 7% of the population (women 15-24) accounting for 46% of cases...

    Yeah, wrap that shit.

    [–]toolate4redpill 56 points57 points  (7 children)

    Dude. Take an empty revolver, put one bullet in then spin that cylinder hard and snap it into place. Put it to your head then.................you know the rest.

    If your "gut" told you she was clean, on the pill.......then your "gut" needs a serious re calibration. I take it your a high SMV guy but this makes this all the more insane. Being a side guy seems fun - until it isn't. And it could go bad 1000 ways from Sunday. For all you know it may already have.

    [–]hearse223[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    They say there's a 2nd brain in our stomach, that causes our 'gut' feelings.

    ​OP just isn't eating right.

    [–]jonpe87 13 points14 points  (2 children)

    My first Tinder date:

    matched at morning, small talk, date evening, a glass of wine, she pay, walk to her home, bang, one day after we have fucked she messaging me saying she has a boyfriend in a "complicated" relationship. heh

    [–]askmrcia 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    They all have boyfriends because they are never truly single.

    This is why I don't get so many guys here obsessed with ltrs. Like do you guys want to get cucked?

    You aren't Going out alpha cheating. Being on a college football team I can't tell you how many dudes got cheated on.

    [–]jonpe87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I m with you, never had a ltr in my life.

    [–]Whoisaryan 28 points29 points  (2 children)

    Not sure why any man would see any appeal in a long distance relationship.

    If it’s long distance its not a relationship.

    [–]boredathome19 10 points11 points  (8 children)

    I'm a little bit curious how you are looking tbh because I have never been motioned over directly by a stranger, I always have to make the first step. Also I think that walking towards the exit when making out with them would just result in them letting me go, but I could be wrong. I've never been able to break ASD on the evening of meeting them. It always took at least another meeting up after making out at a party to fuck them.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children)

    I think it’s pretty variable. Usually girls you aren’t around a bunch of their friends are more likely to leave. I didn’t really know walking out would work. I just guessed because if she motioned me over she’s that into to leaving with me. I’m sure if I tried it on a random girls I’ve made it with it would work 30% of the time. I’ve been straight up approached before but never motioned over. First time for everything.

    [–]boredathome19 5 points6 points  (5 children)

    Would you say that you have a top 5% face and a muscular body?

    I'm not bad with girls myself, but being on a vacation with a natural chad friend of mine was an eye opener. He has a straight up model jaw line and is so muscular I'm not even sure if he got to that point naturally and the girls went nuts around him. It was crazy how much they were throwing themselves onto him. I've had girls be obviously into me, too, but that was just another level.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 2 points3 points  (4 children)

    I have a muscular body. For face I don’t know. I’ve never thought about it. What signifies a top 5% face?

    [–]boredathome19 1 point2 points  (3 children)

    I don't know, looking around and thinking you're more attractive than most of the others? But I guess the muscular body goes a long way already. I'm pretty annoyed by the fact that I only started really lifting half a year ago.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

    Never really thought about that. I can say that lots of people have always called me attractive/handsome as long as I can remember. Even when I was a skinny fuck girls thought I was really attractive. I was just super blue pill and had no confidence. I get a ton of IOIs wherever I go. Much more than 95% of my friends. When I talk to girls who show some interest I can just stand there and they will escalate for me or tell me that I’m so attractive. Girls who show a lot of interest will all but drag me out of the door in 5 minutes if I approach them. I never really get rejected for anything whether it’s getting a number, leaning in or requesting to leave when the time is right.

    6 months is better than nothing. I made 80% of my progress in about 14 months. Takes 2 years to see the crazy results but 1 year to see a big difference.

    [–]boredathome19 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    I feel exactly like you described but only with girls I would rate 6-7 out of 10. They sometimes act like I'm a freaking model and can't believe how good I'm looking, but girls I would rate 8-10 are not interested in me at all.

    I used to be quite skinny too so I'm already seeing good results, but I'm far from where I want to be.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    5 and unders have done stuff to me that would land any guy in jail. I’m in a top frat and the unattractive girls are extremely territorial and aggressive because every guy ignores them.

    6-7s pretty much do most of the stuff I’ve described.

    8-9 don’t really turn me down but don’t send a lot of signals to really anyone. Girls I get approached by are usually in this range because they are confident and know they won’t get rejected. I usually don’t bother with them because they are difficult to crack. The easiest place to get them is in class or on campus because at parties/bars most of the attention is on them or they are popular/well known so if they leave with someone they get judged.

    It’s nice knowing I can leave with a 6-7 in 10-15 minutes where 80% of guys need multiple dates or get nothing at all. It can also land me in deep shit sometimes though.

    [–]bcool87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Don't think I've ever been explicitly motioned over either but I do get approached/proximity IOIed fairly regularly. An early 30s actress/former model (still prob an 8) opened me at a bar over the long wknd and good times in ensued. This stuff does happen. The part that was surprising in the story was her walking away from her friends straight up like that.

    [–]WildcardShaco_ 9 points10 points  (1 child)

    Damn, currently texting with a chick living around 2 hours away from me. She's talking about how she's craving a relationship and love doesn't know distance.

    Thank god I saw this post, it's like a wake up call

    [–]superyute 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Goddamn, she was buttering you up real nice too. "Love doesn't know distance".

    Her poetic ass..

    [–]TigerXtrm 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    Realized I didn't have a condom but she was on the pill (they are all these days) and let me raw dog her.

    Living the dangerous life, are ya? Even ignoring a whole list of potential STDs, I wouldn't trust a girl about pill usage as far as I could throw her. Especially one I met literally less than an hour ago, lol.

    [–]t_h_e_s_u_c_c 33 points34 points  (1 child)

    im getting cringe vibes from this sub

    [–]Comeandseemeforonce 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    Red flags like these are getting more common.....

    [–]excaliboor 15 points16 points  (0 children)

    I didn't have a condom but she was on the pill (they are all these days) and let me raw dog her

    I have a bridge to sell you, you fucking idiot

    [–]stokeDpoke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    She fucked you without batting an eye and let you do it raw. Sounds cool and all but somewhere in the back of your head there's a choir hitting high notes of STD#. Stay safe man.

    [–]yesbuthereswhy 6 points7 points  (2 children)

    As someone who made it through an LDR I have to disagree. I think it all depends on the quality of the woman.

    Also, you’re really going to believe a woman that cheats on her boyfriend wouldn't lie about being on the pill?

    [–]superyute 4 points5 points  (1 child)

    Ignorance is bliss my friend.

    [–]yesbuthereswhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Haha yeah.

    I just find if a little humorous that he can say AWALT for cheating on LDRs but not for lying about birth control. Even if she was on birth control you should never bump uglies with an ugly you don’t know.

    [–]claykiller2010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    I knew where this story was going. I saw this shit my freshman year in college and the next year when I became an RA, I told all my residents to drop that relationship shit with their HS sweethearts and go to the Frat week parties to pick up some girls. That was 8/9 years ago and even now, I've only seen ONE LTR that worked and became a marriage. I have no idea if she fucked around with other guys (which could've happened) BUT to be fair, she was a decent person so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. Still, it was just the one compared to the hundreds I saw that didn't work.

    [–]Dark_Lord_A 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I love you guys. I fucking love all of you. Thank you all so much for teaching me.

    [–]--TeraBaap--2 20 points21 points  (2 children)

    The solution is to not be in a relationship at all. Fuck one and onto the next.

    [–]Chadster113 8 points9 points  (1 child)

    I think its important to understand why you shouldn't do long distance or rather the mindset/rationale behind not doing one. Your mindset should NOT be that you are scared to do one. It should NOT be that you're scared she would cheat on you. It should be that why would I entertain a long distance relationship when there are plenty of other girls around me that I could pick. It should be about abundance mentality, not based on scarcity mentality. It's not a positive mindset to think that she'll cheat on me if I do long distance. Whats positive is abundance.

    Sure its always good to understand female nature, but if your main rationale behind breaking off a long distance relationship is because you're scared you need to develop more abundance.

    every time I hear of a guy doing long distance or moving to where his GF is I cringe inside. I don't cringe because I think he'll be cheated on, but because that is the antithesis of prize/abundance mentality. If he does this he doesn't have enough going on for him in life and needs to reassess his mentality. It's supplicating to be in a long distance relationship.

    [–]MurkyArtichoke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    True, LDR's just never work. I've witnessed too many women giving in to their desires and deciding to cheat, i'm not even surprised anymore. I actually had an interesting convo with a coworker today that i'd thought i'd share. We talk shit all day and have gotten pretty close, so we usually share stories and stuff with very little filter. This girl has a bf that she lives with. I know this guy, he isn't handsome or muscular, but he is insanely smart and treats her well. After my workout i had a chat with the girl and we happened to reach the topic of past relationships. She told me she had basically been in relationships all her life since she was 18. (She's 28 now), having been in 3 LTR's. She told me she had a bf from her hometown years ago, whom she'd been with for over a year or so, and then she went to Mexico for studies for a few months. She then told me she went out at a bar she was basically swarmed with guys, because she's a blonde and it wasn't that common in the bar. She said she madeout with several guys, and this one guy particularly. She had a friend with her that she consulted with, and she then decided to end the relationship with the guy at home. He got absolutely heartbroken and her family was shocked. She told me she did it because she felt bad about making out with guys at the bar. My theory is she probably already fucked the guy from the bar. She then started a relationship with this mexican guy and moved to Mexico for over a year. Hilarious stuff. She told me she regretted ending stuff with her original boyfriend a lot because he was a really good guy. Hah. After around a year, she went back home, and ended stuff with him. She then found the guy she is currently with. She's basically just been swinging branches all her life.

    Funny thing is, i'm often out with her and other colleagues, and i can tell she wants to branch out again so bad. A few weeks ago, we went to this festival in town with people from work. There were a group of british guys visiting, and they tried so damn hard to fuck her and other girls from my work i was with. All of these girls from work have bf's, some of them LDR, but they didn't mention it at all. Later that night, i went to another bar to hangout with other friends, and surprise, there they are, the girls from work, dancing with these british guys. I saw them making out with them and one of them left the bar with one too. At work the next day they denied everything when i joked about it.

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    [–]call_in_the_cavalry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    If anyone thinks your commitment will prevent your girl from fulfilling her needs while you’re apart you are still living in a very BP world.

    THIS

    [–]stonedghoul 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    Well i must say that you are really stupid for only caring about possible pregnacy. Of course, maybe getting terrible diseases doesnt seem scarier to you than getting her pregnant. I Just cant stand such stupidity

    [–]flashcash12[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    You’re right. Small mistakes can cost people big time. A small mistake of texting while driving through an intersection killed one of my bothers friends. This small mistake can bury me. I posted this expecting flack and got it. Thanks again.

    [–]BurnDownTheMission68 2 points3 points  (6 children)

    Was all the dog pile of concern trolling about whether the OP used protection really necessary?

    It doesn’t add anything to the discussion

    [–]3whatsthisgarg 2 points3 points  (3 children)

    Was all the dog pile of concern trolling about whether the OP used protection really necessary? It doesn’t add anything to the discussion

    It makes all the 14-year-olds spouting off feel grown-up and mature to imagine that they themselves would be so responsible.

    The point of OP adding that detail was presumably to emphasize how reckless WOMEN can be. And that point was lost on all the childish commenters who have very little actual experience with women. /u/flashcash12 carry on

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    99% of 21 year olds like me are immature idiots. I’m an immature idiot. 14 year old me would’ve felt embarrassed and insecure at the mere idea of a girl staring at me.

    Yeah I agree most people on here are looking to jump to conclusions or bash me or others. The point of the post was too show you guys how quick women make decisions. I already got enough flak from people I know.

    [–]3whatsthisgarg 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    99% of 21 year olds like me are immature idiots.

    LOL man, I've done much dumber stuff. I was in college at the height of the AIDS epidemic, back when there was no treatment. Nobody used condoms. NOBODY. I never even handled a condom until I was 23.

    No discussion about B-con was ever had until long after my dick was way up in her body, and then the discussion in its entirety was "Can I cum inside you?" Yes/No, if no then pull out, and even then we would fuck again without cleaning up.

    The point of the post was too show you guys how quick women make decisions.

    Or how poorly they make decisions. A graphic example: I went on a riotous spring break trip to a notorious beach town. Went to a nightclub, a chick who was just hot enough came over said "let's dance!" then "let's get out of here!" My buddies and I were staying in the shittiest hotel I have ever seen, so I thought we'd go back to hers. Nope, that was 10 miles up the coast. So we go back my shithole to fuck before my buddies can get back.

    I am fucking the hell out of this chick, thinking any woman who would pick up a dude on spring break AND go back to his shithole hotel AND get fucked raw dog HAS TO BE on the pill. As I am obviously starting to ejaculate she yells "Don't cum inside me!" Too late! That first big spurt is up in there, the rest goes all over her. Didn't matter because we fucked again. And again, after my buddies got back and were pretending to sleep just three feet away in the next bed.

    That's how crazy women are.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Yeah I’m perfectly aware how crazy they are. How crazy we are as guys to stick out dick in crazies. Sex makes us all bonkers man.

    [–]NeedingAdvice86 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Unless you start to think about taking the advice of someone who made some pretty stupid decisions in just the short 1 hour interaction described in this field report as your basis for living your own life.

    I mean I don't take the advice of a coked out drunk that just drove their car into the local police station front window at 90mph on the braking quality of said car.

    That is why he is getting flak...

    [–]flashcash12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I don’t really take personal advice from anyone on this sub anymore because I don’t know any of you. Some people like advice from this sub, used to but I don’t anymore. I use this sub more to educate myself and others.

    [–]JarHeadJoseph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    This world is so fucked it makes me sick. Shits fucked

    [–]stuub7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    stop giving bullshit advice, every situation is different...

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Been there twice. Enjoyed the short term run of them, but they both crumbled instantly at the first bit of adversity. Only time I've seen it work is when the two people dated previously to it becoming long distance then moved back together after a couple of years. I do think distance has it's advantages though. Personal freedom is great for young people to do as they please while still having the satisfaction of a relationship.

    [–]courtesy_flush_plz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I never truly understood nor felt pity for those in the long distance relationship predicament

    [–]bigboxguy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    Haha what a post as always. Why am I not surprised? For those of you who don’t know, I’ve known Flashcash12 since elementary school. We aren’t that close anymore but he’s the biggest son of a bitches I’ve ever met. The best one though. Anything he writes about on here is probably true. I know growing up he an A1 perspective of everything he’s writing or commenting about. So anything he says in his comments or posts is probably true.

    Now his decision making is much to be desired. Pulls some of the dumbest shit I’ve seen. This is straight out his textbook. Too many concussions from football and having a shit influence of a father I guess. So, feel free to give him hell. Too many guys jerk him off anyways and girls jump on him, so he can’t take criticism well, has an overinflated ego and always justifies his decisions. I don’t blame him he gets almost everything that falls into his lap to go his way. He'll probably come out of this completely unscathed and in his favor as usual. He’s still a really nice guy when he wants to be.

    And I’m going to downvote this post because you could’ve written it better and less like a douche. Oh, and get your head out of your ass and return the guys texts. Its been a while. I haven't seen you since stripper Shannon thing. And I want to hear about your summer, I heard from your sis you got raped in the butt.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Yeah it’s been a while. I’m surprised who figured out my username but then I realized I texted it to you to read some post I wrote.

    I’m not surprised you’re blasting me on here. You always were the self righteous one. I’m not even going to argue with you anyways.

    I can’t believe it’s been that long. Crazy night. Still one of my favorite all time memories. I can’t believe you got everyone to play that game.

    I’ll call you later. I heard you’re going to Cs 21st this weekend.

    [–]ge0_iscoming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    This happened to me not to long ago. I'm good friends with a girl who's bf went to the military. She posts Facebook pictures of them together saying how much she loves him and "I miss you" posts. What drives me crazy is how blatantly she covers things up and other things she shows publicly to advertise herself.

    I took her out to eat ice cream and on Snapchat she puts "alone eating ice-cream" with just her because she refused to have me. Her explanation: "oh he might see you with me and think stuff."

    On Facebook you see her sharing pictures of big houses, bride dresses, and cute relationship memes. Yesterday, her Snapchat was "mood" while she was dancing dirty at the club. (I was there). I guess depending on her cycle, she would fluctuate between AF/BB moods.

    What's messed up is that I know her bf. He's a good dude. He reminds me of myself when I was in high school. Shy, reserved, and sacrifices himself for her. His social media has her everywhere. I mean everywhere. I wish I could tell him what is really going on and about TRP. But I can't now because she cheated on him with me. I guess that's what happens when a girl lets you become her bff.

    [–]U-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Avoid any relationship until you're in your 30s. Unless you want a fleet of children, in which case move to a creepy small town in the center of the country centered around growing corn.

    [–]Esaulph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    After swallowing the pill, the sad and twisted reality flashed before my eyes.

    [–]largepaycheckaddict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I swear the girls who post all the “I love my BF SO MUCH!” shit on social media do it to cover their thotty tracks. So many of these bitches have dropped in my DMs it’s hilarious.

    [–]grandmasbroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Let me guess. She also said that she NEVER has sex like that with other guys? First, how do you know she is even on the pill or uses birth control of sorts? Did she diligently alert you when she was taking it for the last month?

    Second, even if you look past the pregnancy issue completely. You still have std's to worry about. If she's willing to do that with you, she will do the same with others as well. You aren't special, and I promise she's sleeping with other guys too.

    I never understand guys who come here and just outright say that they didn't use protection on some sloot they just met. I think I remember seeing a post with a guy saying he would go down on a chick the first time he met her. That way, he could "get her in the mood faster." Gross. Fucking gross... I don't know if you are young or what. But, mark my words. If you keep doing that, it will catch up to you. I was a medic in the military and let me tell you. Herpes, warts, the clap, even HIV, and nasty stuff like syphilis, are more prevalent than you think they are, clearly. I'm not saying there wasn't anything valuable in the post. Simply that, you really should use protection for a myriad of reasons. What if she just decided she's wanted to have kids one day, but hasn't had luck in relationships. So, she just has some random knock her up because she and her friends decided that was the best option after a night of drinking? I've seen crazier, much crazier. I'm just saying, be careful.

    [–]Poloyatoki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I remember reading Rollos part about an LTR at this point I swollowed TRP called my ex bitch up and dumped her. TBP blinds you so much to your value, you think seeing a whore every 4 to 6 months is a relationship. The signs were there that she cheated on me multiple times, however the jokes on her as I kept improving my smv.

    There really are women all around us don't ever fall prey to LDR'S, single mothers and crazy bitches. Once you put yourself first you'll see that your time is too valuable for crap. Pick from the tree with the best fruit and eat well brothers.

    [–]RylanBlackwood 3 points4 points  (6 children)

    My gf lives about 50 miles away but I have a car and we get to see each other a couple times a week. I honestly prefer this set up because it gives me space to work on my side hustles, but should I be worried? And how can you find out if something like this shit is happening?

    [–]UrbanEngineer 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    Just accept it as a possibilty and don't go looking. You'll enjoy it a lot more if you don't think about it.

    [–]dDiegoDLV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Im not quite sure an hour away is LDR.

    On the other hand how much pussy are you driving past to get to her? Going that far doesnt sound like abundance.

    [–]Modredpillschool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    So did you already know her or was pillow-talk exchanging social media handles?

    I will never understand the snapchat culture.

    [–]thesmithofwords 2 points3 points  (2 children)

    While I agree with you for the most part, there are situations where ldrs can work. (less than 3-4 month apart with a predetermined end date, meeting in person for a few days twice a month, already dating non ltr for a long time ect.)

    Still not worth it for your average guy, but IMO a high smv guy can make it work if the girl values and respects you enough.

    [–]askmrcia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I only seen it work once. And yea that's because they had an end date. I highly doubt that the girl fooled around because I knew her pretty well before she started dating my friend and she really didn't do much of anything.

    With that said, I would not trust a ldr. And to be honest, I see the guys being far more loyal then girls everytime.

    [–]dDiegoDLV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    “No LDR” is a corner stone of the TRP. Do you even sidebar?

    Why would a high SMV guy want to get laid 2x a month? If you truly believe there is no “one” and you have abundance youre not going to stay exclusive to a woman living far away.

    Next youre going to tell me if I want to be a millionaire that I should buy lottery tickets. A few people who bought lottery tickets became millionaires! (But 99% of them did not.)

    [–]TheFlyingPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Good one. Long distance relationships also bring people to overthink everything and even making imaginary plans for when they will meet the “princess” again.

    Avoid these relationships as the Black Plague.

    [–]omrhmslf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    1. AWALT but... you trusted your gut feeling and carried on without protection? Work on that.

    [–]Thunder__Fuck 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Even if they somehow don't cheat physically, the relationship will still go downhill. I was in a long distance relationship with this girl for 2 years in college; it quickly fell apart. By the end, talking to her on the phone was a chore.

    I had my suspicions she may have cheated in some way, emotionally or otherwise, because she started sending red flags that I chose to ignore, such as "What if I said I didn't love you anymore, but still liked you, and wanted to be with you?" I had no proof, but stuff like that made me obviously suspicious.

    Long-distance relationships do not work. Someone will cheat in some form at some point.

    [–]Sciptr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    This is such a red flag, I wanted to bring it up further. "I didn't love you anymore" is something I have ran into after finding out an ex had been running around with others. It's a shit test of sorts, for sure get out.

    [–]4juice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    The points you trying to make from this post were great but the whole context smell alot like horse shit.

    [–]anonylaw2 0 points1 point  (3 children)

    Why would you even take the chance of raw dogging her? That sounds kind of wreck less for a woman who isn't faithful.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    Because I looked at the situation and thought it was worth it because she was on the pill. Most guys in that scenario would and have done the same thing. Hindsight is 20/20 my friend. No woman is faithful.

    [–]anonylaw2 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Sure I can agree, but someone from MGTOW would be wary of such a claim right?

    [–]flashcash12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    90% of the guys on MGTOW are lucky to get laid once a year. The rest I’m sure disagree.

    [–]mattyiceheretoentice 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    What city is this? This shit just doesn’t happen where I’m from. Girls care a lot about looking easy

    [–]freew33zy 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    Do you happen to go to a Big Ten University? If so, I think I heard this story already in real life--funny enough. If not, it's funny as fuck that I heard almost the exact same story with a chick with the same name the other day.

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I used a fake name and I go to a PAC-12 school. I’m sure this happens quite often.

    [–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You can have “long distance” or you can have a “relationship”

    From, The Sayings of Chairman Zaitzev

    Meanwhile, the OP is an Old Skool Hound

    [–]dmitrim4182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    So let me get this straight.. you raw dogged some chica ~1h after meeting her? This is not AWALT lol, she was just some young freshman slut who would've probably been down with a bunch of guys running train on her that night. Sluts gonna slut. To be fair, I've witnessed countless examples of similar scenarios play out.. but then again during my university time I also witnessed girls in long-term relationships consistently turn dick and social events down in order to focus exclusively on their studies.

    [–]AllahHatesFags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Long-distance relationships are a fucking joke. If you can't fuck her on a moments notice, you aren't really in a relationship with her.

    [–]the99percent1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    When I see a young male kid in a relationship, all im thinking is why the hell did he want to settle now?

    Dude.. fuck cucking yourself early, go and work on yourself. lift, study hard, start a business, & fail lots. Whilst you still have youth on your side.

    [–]MisterRoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I bet the pathetic BF has to wear condoms during sex with her, while Chads such as yourself get to bang her raw.

    [–]BuddhistSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Always amuses me that "short and sweet" on this subreddit is 500 words minimum. I am convinced that people who post here literally don't know what "brevity" means.

    [–]GuruDev1000 0 points1 point  (3 children)

    OP is confident that she doesn't sleep around and he was really high status enough for her to break her rules, but why was she prepared by being on pills?

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I’m 100% confident she will start sleeping around as of now. Most slutty girls who have bfs, especially where I grew up don’t start sleeping around until college. Too many watchful eyes in high school. And college just started which means the number is likely small and will grow exponentially this semester. And every girl is on the pill in SoCal even girls (my sister always was from hs despite never even kissing a guy) who don’t sleep around. And did red pill not teach you a thing? Attractive college girls don’t go around sleeping with low status chumps or unattractive betas. 80/20 is applied here.

    [–]NeedingAdvice86 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    He made way, way too many fucking bad decisions in just an hour, that I don't really think it would be a good idea to follow his advice very much.

    He is way, way too convinced in his own righteousness for such things to filter thru or to make adequate judgments....it gets even worst, the girl badgered him to get testing on Sunday morning and he takes it as a good sign that he is 'safe"...bhahhahahahhahahh, fucking clueless.

    College is definitely one thing, but really is embarrassing that some dude runs up on some skank in a bar late at night, likely drunk as shit...who aggressively propositions some rando guy, leaves with him in 30mins, is on the pill but lets him fuck her raw and starts pestering him about getting testing...and the dolt transfer that behavior to every woman on the planet....lack of rational thought is evident in his decisions in just the short interaction with this girl.

    [–]Mescalean -1 points0 points  (10 children)

    I wouldn’t say never kid. In college? Fucking retarded. Has never worked for friends if mine or I. Has never worked for the billy betas we cucked either.

    Go out into the world and sling dick kid. Sling away.

    [–]flashcash12[S] -2 points-1 points  (9 children)

    When it comes to girls or even friends I go out and sling dick. I’ve made careless mistakes with people. They haven’t buried me but I’ve burned more bridges then I’ve liked.

    When it comes to career, networking or school I get my shit done better then anyone I know my age.

    [–]Mescalean 2 points3 points  (8 children)

    Remember my old man telling me youll most likely be able to count your friends on only 1 hand. True friends. Guys I know I could rely on if shtf in any way. Probably 2 out of the hundreds of people ive come into contact with.

    Cold as it may sound most people arent worth getting to know past any business relationship man. You want to give me your money for my product? Cool. You want me to meet hour wife and kids and do the whole family play date thing?? Ha..haha

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children)

    Yeah I’m well aware of that. I have maybe 4 close friends. Rest are just random guys I know from class and clubs or fraternity. Most are acquaintances or fake fair weather friends who’d stab me in the back in a heartbeat.

    I interned in ib at a top bulge bracket this summer so I’m well aware how cold and ruthless people can be. It’s a cold reality. I learned it very early though and that’s probably why I go through relationships and girls with an IDGAF attitude.

    [–]inm808 1 point2 points  (6 children)

    How did the internship teach you that?

    Is it one of those where only x% get the return offer? Or just the culture there?

    [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

    In IB you are constantly around people who backstab and will try to get past you. It’s mostly among the seniors though. Almost all analysis know they are expendable and only worth two years so they don’t care. I was in a top group at a top BB so the culture was more extreme. From what I know 100% of my group got a return offer whereas is most groups/banks it can range from 30-80% getting offers.

    [–]inm808 0 points1 point  (4 children)

    ah, that sux.

    ya thats weird tho. not sure what the hottness is these days, but i have a buncha friends who did goldman TMT a decade ago, and ya they all got poached immediately after 2 years (usually had signed offers after just 10 months lol). all at top private equity / hedge funds, got the free 2 years off to party at HBS/GSB, and now are coasting on that 500/yr VP spot. they're all super friendly too

    but most who stayed past 2yr, and everybody i know in IB at the lower tier banks as well, are like not good ppl. overworked. suuuper cutthroat, for what im guessing is minimal promotion opportunities. and most suprisingly, underpaid (!). software engineers at the top unicorns/FAANGs are making way more for 40h week

    its almost as if the top 20% (or in this case, like 1%) of the IB analyst pool reap all the rewards, have abundance of exit options and promotion opportunities, and everybody else is angry and desperate... sounds familiar haha

    but really tho.

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          [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon -2 points-1 points  (5 children)

          Realized I didn't have a condom but she was on the pill (they are all these days)

          THEY SAY THEY ARE. If you don't use a condom, you are sperm jacking yourself. No court in the land is interested in "she said she is on the pill". They don't care. You're on the hook for child support, zero defence.

          "I'm on the pill" is the oldest trick in the book. Other tricks include "I don't want kids" and my personal favourite "I can't have kids" (always said by a woman with zero medical proof, usually the believes this because she had sex once and didn't get pregnant).

          You are responsible for your children, you are responsible for contraception.

          [–]flashcash12[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

          Read the update. She showed me her birth control when I was in her dorm. If she didn’t, I wouldn’t have bothered.

          [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 0 points1 point  (2 children)

          Sure, that's proof right there. No way she could own birth control and not take it.

          Don't be naive.

          I'm not saying this girl was tricking you...... but sooner or later one will if you keep believing them about contraception.

          [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          If you're a girl and don't consistently take you birth control, it can fuck you up. So chances are if you have it and its open you're taking it. I'll take that chance.

          [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          So chances are if you have it and its open you're taking it

          Sure, but know you are opening yourself up to sperm jacking. This girl is behaving exactly the same as girls who do this, and sooner or later one will get you.

          [–]PM_Me_OK -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

          Dude are you that horney that you're going to believe an unknown girl when she says shes on the pill even though she could just be lying or not taking it like she's supposed to and you are going to raw dog her too and possibly catch an std or worse...lol so many guys are such horny little fuckers on here that they will sabotage their own health and values just to get some used pussy.

          [–]flashcash12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          She showed me her birth control. Most guys in that situation would bang a girl raw. We all have. Hindsight is 20/20.