I just want to point out a few examples that I saw at work last week that might help newcomers see more possibilities in how people's minds work.
About a week ago I see a coworker rewatching the camera feed from the past 10mins he was watching intensely on the monitors, I step in and see what's up. Apparently some girl (slightly trashy) that comes in alot was arguing with her baby daddy outside.
I watched the screen with no sound and I see the baby daddy getting up in this girl's face and pushing her phone down whenever she raised it, "what an asshole" my coworker said out yelled. Funny part was the girl seemed genuinely scared when the babydaddy got in her face but everytime he walked away she would say some shit back with these ghetto gestures and the babydaddy walked back everytime like an idiot to yell at her.
The last part of the video some random guy comes in and tells the dude to chill and backoff. Luckly he didnt go full whiteknight. But you can tell every person that walked by and even my coworker assumed it was the babydaddy's fault (especially for him losing his cool). My initial thought was their both idiots and maybe she could have had something to do with it.
Best part was she came in 20mins later looked normal (she wasn't scared or worried) with her kids and my coworker was helping her out and then he fucked up. He randomly asked coworker-"is everything ok".
Trashy girl- Huh what do you mean.
Coworker-Are you fine? I saw what happened.
TGirl- Because it's always the girls fault right (in a snark tone)
*She starts leaving.
Coworker- oh I just wanted to make sure you're ok.
*Trash lady stops and loudly in front of other coustumers and her kids turns around and says "how about mind your own fucking business you asshole"
As she was walking out she told her kids to repeat her(4 and 6) and say "mind your dam business " "come on honey say mind your business". She then exits and swings the doors hard as hell.
Ok so here's what I want to point out from this whole 30 mins ordeal.
1-Unless it involves you don't get involved in other affairs.
2- In any situation never act like the baby daddy, you Wil almost always be labeled at fault. Keep you're cool.
3- The trashy girl mostly instigating the baby daddy to hit her so she can play the victim.
4- Her response to my coworker shows that she's used to situations like that and probably starts most of them.
5- Women know they can pull the victim card and almost automatically win.
6- Don't get involved in any way with damaged goods.
Takeaway, See the situation and use logic and not emotion to judge. Many redpill people here know this stuff, but I wanted to add something for newcomers that might have been in my coworkers position or that still don't fully grasp the redpill mentality.
*Apologize for the bad format, I'm on my phone.