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Red Pill ExampleA Feminist Turned Normal, A Red-Pill Story (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by red_philosopher

I was poking around as usual, when I came across this little gem: https://www.sortalexout.com/writing/feminism-life-hack

At first, I was expecting to read something pretty blase; however, as I read through it, it was chock full of red-pill information.

Not even kicking both alcohol and smoking can come close to the catharsis of moulting a crippling ideology.

But the thing that feminism doesn't account for is that it's better to be strong than safe. It's better to learn to navigate the world as it is than to throw your toys out of the pram until the entire system bends to your whim.

Babyproofing the world from nuisances like catcallers and manspreaders won't help you overcome life's unavoidable misery. Also, being preoccupied with the most trivial of grievances just makes women look infantile and kind of plays into the dreaded stereotypes about us, just sayin'. Taking responsibility is a hard thing to do. It's hard to face up to the fact that some of your problems are your own fault. I'm finding more and more that life is all about how you take in this information. Some choose to take ownership of their life, and responsibility for their faults and destiny. Some run for cover under the smothering blanket of "oppression" ideologies. And the most important fact of all is that even if it's true that you're under the boot of a constricting patriarchy, it's still the best strategy to take ownership of your life. It's the only mindset that allows you to change the things that you can influence - your own behaviour. Every self-help book worth its salt will tell you that the place to start is yourself. Want to get anywhere in life (outside a women's studies department)?

Take responsibility. Have initiative. Claw back your power from ideologues that want you pissed off and disempowered. Once you choose to put the power back into your own hands, the world is your oyster, because now, you'll find a way, not an excuse.

And this isn't simply about sex, it's about your time & your standards. You're something special, and you're the first one that has to believe it.

People who struggle with the lies that have been stuffed into them from day one could really learn from the self-mastery being touted by this smart young lady.

TRP is about self-mastery, making your own way through life and getting laid while you are at it. People value people who value themselves first and foremost. Taking responsibility for ourselves and not for others is one of the biggest and most difficult steps a person will ever take. Doing it every single day is harder still, and doing it without self-hatred, with discipline, and with magnanimity, is still more difficult.

People stumble into TRP hurt, bewildered, and alone. And the worst part is, they have no one to blame but themselves. It is the harshest lesson that life tries to teach us over and over and over again. That we are the masters of our own destinies. Work reaps rewards, and nothing stands in your way except for yourself and your own self-imposed limitations. Men and women may be different in many ways, but we are alike in that when we choose to take responsibility for ourselves, our actions, and our way of life, things get better.

Every blue-pilled man I have ever spoken to, loves to hear the story of self-empowerment, but they are unwilling to put in the time to do so. They bury their heads in the sand, wish for a handout and expect everything in the world to simply "work".

Bad news for them, they're going to have it rough. Challenge your indoctrination, it's the only way you'll truly be free.


[–]Mr_Queef 89 points90 points  (10 children)

good post man. it seems to be the most common story these days. people trying to control things outside of themselves. they ask questions about this and that but the answer is already inside them. you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink.

[–]DeGENZerate 23 points24 points  (7 children)

Unless you whip that whorse with a muth'fuckin cossack

[–]red_philosopher[S] 10 points11 points  (3 children)

Some of the comments in the video say that PR staged the "violence" against them by hiring paid actors to beat them LOL

[–]gulag_disco 1 point2 points  (2 children)

And you believe it? Conspiracy first, right.

[–]red_philosopher[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Honestly, PR is pretty bad, and it matches with similar things women do elsewhere. I'd say it was a reasonable likelihood.

[–]gulag_disco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that women gaslight violence and have said so on here, but there are plenty of organically grown brutes in the world. The world is plenty violent and without a need to supplant what your eyes see with an alternative theory. Maybe some people you don’t agree with aren’t liked by the authorities.

[–]Loban8990 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You sure it wasn't a man posing as a woman who wrote this?

[–]whitetrasharmageddon 17 points18 points  (3 children)

Author definitely follows Jordan Peterson.

[–]PaulAJK 2 points3 points  (2 children)

She posted it on the JBP reddit.

[–]2chazthundergut 13 points14 points  (1 child)

When is the last time you met a happy feminist?

[–]1StinkyDiaper 37 points38 points  (5 children)

Remember that time a woman performed a “cat-calling” experiment in New York, I believe? She couldn’t go 30 seconds without hearing a comment from men.

It was incredibly hilarious when this experiment was repeated, but in a majority-white foreign country. The woman wasn’t cat-called at all, and no one who pushed the “omg cat-calling needs to stop” narrative wanted to acknowledge this second video.

[–]MarcosDomingues 34 points35 points  (0 children)

What about the man spreading experiment?

A woman tries to spread her legs as much as humanly possible in the train to see if anyone looked her way, but in reality no one really gave a shit lmao

[–]Biggie_Smores 24 points25 points  (3 children)

Yeah she also dressed like a straight up hooker and walked through super ghetto parts of town.

Just guaranteeing her results

[–]1StinkyDiaper 8 points9 points  (2 children)

She had jeans and a t-shirt on. Definitely not a “hooker” look.

[–]Biggie_Smores 25 points26 points  (1 child)

It may be a different video I'm thinking of then.

But this chick in the video I'm referring too literally had fishnets and platforms on and walked around the ghetto broke down part of the broncs.

She tried to emphasize how rude they were by saying "how much"

... Yet she looked Like an actual fucking hooker and the whole thing pissed me off because everyone was like "omg how rude"

[–]NormalAndy 28 points29 points  (2 children)

Where men lead, women will follow.

If men are strating to wake up and take responsibility for their lives again then it won't be long before women want to gatecrash the party (as fucking ususal!)

Don't get too complacent because that just means that the quality of their shit tests is going to skyrocket too.

Where's the new frontier guys? I'm taking the next boat...

[–]simplisticallysimple 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If men are strating to wake up and take responsibility for their lives again then it won't be long before women want to gatecrash the party (as fucking ususal!)

This

Women are attracted to men with a mission like ants are attracted to sugar.

[–]tb87670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where's the new frontier guys? I'm taking the next boat...

There are no more frontiers left on Earth. It will be a while until we go to space and even then there is no guarantee of some sci-fi FTL travel or legit habitable planets.

[–]DeontologicalSanders 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Great post, but in the context of women, it's a fucking pipe dream.

Accountability? Responsibility? Morality above reproach? 99% of women want zero part of that shit. They say they do, when things are going well, in order to keep face.But in the long run, it simply does not behoove them or benefit them in the way that playing a weak, helpless victim does. No matter what, some marginally-fuckable Melvin will always be right around the corner to "save" her from herself

Relying on a woman to own up and bear her share of the burden when the shit really hits the fan and serious negative outcomes are involved? That story is written on men's tombstones all over this earth. Not a trap you want to let yourself fall into.

[–]red_philosopher[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I'll settle for the 1% slightly less AWALT horse. XD

[–]DeontologicalSanders 3 points4 points  (1 child)

That's not the point.

AWALT = Schrodinger's Thot

Every woman is both a hoe and not a hoe until empirical evidence confirms one or the other.

By the time you figure it out, you'll already have dumped thousands of hours and dollars into the one you 'settled' on. Again, not a trap you want to let yourself fall into.

[–]red_philosopher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAO I love this comparison. Priceless. I understand what you are saying, in fact, I adhere strongly to it. It's just not worth it, but surrounding yourself with good people like that will improve you as well. Even if you don't give them your penis.

[–]KewlThanks 52 points53 points  (7 children)

If women can wake up from feminism, maybe I can get get marri-heh, sorry couldn't get through that.

The internet fucked it all up. But at least my seed can be spread.

[–]DocZTheRockstar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want to get married too. Idk in this environment though. I still have a bit of hope knowing what it is I have to do to better myself.

[–]ThePantsThief 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yea, maybe you can get married. See, that wasn't so hard.

[–]volvostupidshit 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Go for it bro. What could possibly go wrong?

[–]KewlThanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ha shut the fuck up I'm not getting married I'm the type to...not paying you to fuck other guys in my house with a stepdad around my kids, and I'm not the type to calmly take it sitting down either and do the "noble thing" and go to prison for not paying.

I'm more of a "final solution" kind of Jew.

[–]sebastianconcept 32 points33 points  (1 child)

Happy for the girl. My favorite communist is the ex-communist. My favorite victimist is the ex-victimist.

So, yeah, responsibility, self owning the destiny and output of your life is a vaccine to all the victimist ideologies that the left can’t live without.

Coincidentally, an anti-feminist girl I know, yesterday posted the key part:

Feminism says it combats patriarchy but what they are covertly doing is to use pretended-victimist-hysteria to impose The Patriarchy of the State.

That’s why the left loves their shit so much. The School of Frankfurt, Marcuse in particular, openly promoted this since the 60’s. It worked big time.

[–]Orbiter45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And then there is the question of sex. Sex and aggression are inevitably welded together in nature. Modern feminism glorifies the one and demonises the other, which results in a universal licence for the kind of sex nobody wants to have.

What an amazing statement! Followed by another!

‘Can I kiss you?’ is a phrase that sends countless tumbleweeds rolling through vast expanses of vaginal deserts, every time it is uttered.

Thank You, op for posting this, and thank you to the author of this article.

[–]gale99 1 point2 points  (5 children)

feminism is cancer to begin with isn't it?

[–]red_philosopher[S] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

Its current rendition is quite pernicious.

[–]magx01 2 points3 points  (2 children)

If you're going to talk like that you better wear glasses.

[–]red_philosopher[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

🧐 I prefer the monocle personally

[–]throwawayhgsdoifu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop joking around, we serious here always.

[–]Arrrf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's so similar when feminists complain about the patriarchy and "red-pillers" complain about feminists. Both are whiny victim stances: blaming systems outside themselves and classes of people for causing your problems. There are plenty of practical things you can do, as an individual, and for society, to make things more fair and functional.

I say it's the people who focus on action, instead of complaints, that have truly taken "the red pill" and see reality, regardless of their gender or politics.

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (7 children)

Also, being preoccupied with the most trivial of grievances just makes women look infantile and kind of plays into the dreaded stereotypes about us, just sayin'

It isn't a stereotype. Women are infantile. They always have been and always will be. This was something that men accepted as self evident from before the dawn of recorded history until about 50-100 years ago. The question is whether your society will take their infantile demands seriously or laugh and tell them to get back in the kitchen and finish making the sandwiches.

Taking responsibility is a hard thing to do. It's hard to face up to the fact that some of your problems are your own fault.

Women are not evolved to "take responsibility." Taking responsibility does not improve their evolutionary fitness. They are evolved to extract resources. These are diametrically opposed.

Have initiative.

Women are not evolved to take initiative. Taking initiative involves risk. Men have a high risk high reward sexual strategy. Women are evolved for risk aversion. Carrying a baby to term and raising it to adulthood is an incredibly resource intense activity. They can't afford to fuck things up. Risk aversion is an absolute must.

You're something special, and you're the first one that has to believe it.

Telling women that they are special has led to many of our present problems. If you tell someone from birth until adulthood that they are special and strong and wonderful and do not hold them accountable for their actions, do not be surprised when they turn out to be raging narcissists.

On a deeper level though, women are not special. In fact AWALT. All women are like that. Yes some are fat and some are skinny. Some are hot and some have busted faces. Some are more outgoing and some are more shy. Some are sluttier and some are more sexually conservative. But in all the ways that matter, they are nearly identical. They all seek alpha fucks and beta bucks - ideally in the same man, but in multiple men if necessary. They all exhibit herd thinking - even the very intelligent ones. They have no innate sense of justice or virtue. They abhor competition and prefer leveling forces.

Not really sure what the point of this post is.

[–]red_philosopher[S] 47 points48 points  (4 children)

Not to rain on your parade here. . . But everything there applies to MEN, especially so. Which was the point. If a woman can get it, so can you. That is, of course, if you can look past who wrote it and see how it applies to you.

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      [–]modTheRedPike[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      No need to be a dick.

      [–]final_one 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      You mentioned that it is up to the society you are living in to accept or reject the infantile demands of women. Is there any society left who actually has the balls to reject the demands of women in this day and age.

      [–]vega-mgtow 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      This is your typical born again feminist false flag unicorn gambit.

      Ex CC rider has a sudden epiphany about the evils of feminism and turns traditional/anti feminist/Christian/whatever the fuck is expedient.

      It's boringly predictable.

      [–]red_philosopher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I don't care if it's genuine or not. I care about the communicated principles.

      [–]bemore_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      "Lifehack" - "Why you should think for yourself"

      [–]Sexquestionhelp22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      This reminds of an awesome Prager U video that dispels the myth that 1 in 5 women are raped in college https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0mzqL50I-w Sexual violence in modern day society is a problem for both men AND women, and has more to do with culture than just asshole men

      [–]TryDoingSomethingNew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      " Every blue-pilled man I have ever spoken to, loves to hear the story of self-empowerment, but they are unwilling to put in the time to do so. They bury their heads in the sand, wish for a handout and expect everything in the world to simply "work". "

      Very true!

      [–]Guardian_of_Justice -5 points-4 points  (4 children)

      Tbh i started hating the term Red pill. Dont treat this sub as something magical and eye opening. All of these hard to swallow truths are NOT HIDDEN on purpose or at all. Its just a part of self improvement to see oneselve's shortcomings.

      [–]red_philosopher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      It's a metaphor. You can call it a self-help program for men if you like. It's still the same thing.

      [–]Lib3rtarianSocialist 2 points3 points  (2 children)

      Can you explain it again? Because it wasn't unambiguous.

      All of these hard to swallow truths are NOT HIDDEN on purpose or at all.

      Yes, it can be said that they're not hidden on purpose, but at least falsehoods are openly promoted by society.

      Dont treat this sub as something magical

      Actually, don't treat the individual posts as gospet At All. Only the sidebar (and even then, scrutinise it).

      [–]Guardian_of_Justice 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      What part was ambiguous to you? All i lately see are posts from 4-7month members posting all types of shit saying do this dont do that. Feels like a rookie coming to teach 10 year veteran pilots. As some guy really said it well here that everyone takes what he needs here, what i learned is WHY women want an "alpha" male, why unsolicited attention is never appreciated, what is the biological modus operandi for women and what can i do to improve my sexual life, or interaction with women.

      Yes, it can be said that they're not hidden on purpose, but at least falsehoods are openly promoted by society.

      Yeah this is the result of feminism in the west. In my country its better than that but you can still see the reflections of that movement here. It just makes me mad that some men come here praising the TRP like it was a salvation book, and even that book was full of shit because im not religious. What would these men do if not for reddit? Didnt any man in their life say that a man needs to be a man despite what women say.

      To me, most of the sidebar stuff is common sense that can be observed via watching people interact, one just needs to be able to properly interpret the male-female social dynamics. Pieces of the puzzle that i didnt see i obtained here and they are tremendously helpful to see where i stand, but one could collect the pieces somewhere else as well. I have tons of people i know who will never ever hear of this sub bit still act and to most of the things described here, so learn to doubt anything and learn to analyze trp truths on your own.

      [–]Lib3rtarianSocialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      We don't disagree.

      interpret the male-female social dynamics. Pieces of the puzzle that i didnt see i obtained here and they are tremendously helpful to see where i stand, but one could collect the pieces somewhere else as well. I have tons of people i know who will never ever hear of this sub bit still act and to most of the things described here

      Great. They already understand it so good for them.

      All i lately see are posts from 4-7month members posting all types of shit saying do this dont do that.

      Other people here who understand the Red Pill better share this concern. This is why TRP is not a democracy.

      so learn to doubt anything and learn to analyze trp truths on your own.

      Yup.