Somewhat new to RedPill and all of its ideas. So far, everything I’ve read is completely fucking true, which is kind of a harsh reality to accept. I stumbled onto this after my girlfriend of 4 years left me for an older fat dude with money.
Get this. I’m 25, very good body (but working on making it even better now), my career is still in the early stages (I come from a shit family so had no help with connections and had to work my way into everything on my own), so not making bank yet, and even if I was I’d like to split costs with whomever I’m dating (she did not like that at all and would comment on me being “cheap”).
Gf was a very solid 9 in my eyes. Great body, feminine, beautiful long blonde hair and blue eyes, very pretty face, great sense of style and presentation, and fun and friendly personality that anyone could get along with. Not a surly bish with a constant scowl on her face (how do you dudes date these miserable women?) She didn’t have much of a career going on, she was mostly being supported by her parents, and “figuring out” what she wanted to do. I wouldn’t say she was lazy, but I would say she didn’t have a defined direction or goal, just kind of going with the flow (or waiting for her sugar daddy to show up).
Anyway, my dumbass was thinking about proposing in the next year or so. Even though the relationship was deteriorating, I was completely oblivious. The sex was dwindling down, she was often annoyed by me, she’d do more things with her girlfriends, etc. But I wasn’t really worried, I figured she was just being moody. All of a sudden she dumps me out of the blue. “It’s not working. We’re not compatible. We’ve grown apart.” I was confused AF. I said ok, but figured she’d come back after she cooled off.
In the next few weeks I found out the REAL reason. This portly motherfucker, with a lot of $$$, and a fancy family name. I have no idea where they could have met. The dude is 45, and looks like he could be her father, he wears glasses, and seems like a damn nerd. I thought it was a joke at first. No way could my hot solid 9 girl touch this creature. Like, I didn’t think money could win over sexual revulsion. I was WRONG!!
6 months later, they’re engaged. I embarrassingly lost my shit at that point and reached out to her via text berating her and her scam of a relationship. Basically calling her a gold-digging hoe. She wrote a condescending reply about how she’d like to end things between us on a good note, and then asked me not to message her again. Why? Bkz she probably doesn’t want him to see, so I kept texting (dumb and desperate AF, I know now). She ignored and ignored, then I get a CALL from fat boy! I HATED the sound of his Ivy League School beta voice, I legit got so worked up. He sounded like a damn stick in the mud ambassador or some shit, I don’t know how he doesn’t bore her to tears, but basically he requested that I stop texting his fiancé, and move on from the situation with grace. Was condescending AF. Anyway, being told off by fat boy was a very low point for me. They went on to get married at Martha's Vineyard… Instagram pictures looked like she was marrying her dad.
I was beaten down and broken AF. Then I found this forum, and realized EVERYTHING I’ve been doing wrong. Working on myself now. Just wanted to give a solid thanks to everyone on here doing the work they’re doing, and helping dudes like me. Without resources like this, many of us would be suicidal and completely confused as to how we're screwing up with women.
Anyways, my question is, what's a good time to wait before getting into another LTR? I don't think I'm anywhere near ready and still have much work to do. But just curious on what you guys think.