Being asked your Net Worth (self.asktrp)

submitted by kidkidkid123321

I'm in Hong Kong, and the women here are parasites. They operate like a parasite in any system. When there is abundance of anything it attracts parasites that want to feed off the abundance without contributing anything to it. That's how wealth works here. Women are attracted to that, and there develops a special type of woman skilled at wealth extraction. She's the type that will fuck your mind before she let's you touch her body. She usually has a history of being a high class escort. She's a skilled and disciplined whore who understands male psychology.

I had a date with one. Why are the beautiful ones always from broken homes?

Within 10 minutes of the date she asked me for my net worth and salary "to tell my mom".

I asked her if I'm dating her or her mom, and she laughed it off and didn't ask again. You can guess that the date didn't go well after that. These questions throw me off because I come from a country where people aren't this direct. How do I answer this question in the future?

[–]ChadsLeftNut 161 points162 points  (5 children)

That was a good response

[–]18idlwk1920dc 24 points25 points  (4 children)

Yeah, but I think he's talking about how he should deal with it in the future

[–]ChadsLeftNut 89 points90 points  (2 children)

I know, and I'm just letting him know his response is approved by Chad's left nut

[–]gundruk09 10 points11 points  (1 child)

What about the right nut?

[–]AngryNavySeal 40 points41 points  (0 children)

We don't talk about that.

[–]Imadeathtrap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah do the same response again. That woman isnt worth your time. Or illude to having millions in the inheretence line (dont actually lie just plant seeds and let her make assumptions). Then ghost her when you want to. Parasitic people, yuck.

[–]llcjer 51 points52 points  (0 children)

“More than your father”

[–]Despacit0 45 points46 points  (1 child)

I would beat her with her own game. These types of people usually appear tough on the outside and very fragile emotionally. You're already a step ahead for recognizing that some of these women come from a broken home and that's why they act the way they do. Next time try bluffing

[–]resnine 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They look at men as Get Rich Quick schemes.

[–]wifeisbiorgay 60 points61 points  (6 children)

Great topic OP!

My net worth is high and I have spent time in Hong Kong, so I too have thought about this. You are definitely right that HK is full of gold diggers, particularly very hot mainland Chinese girls.

You should probably next right away if she says something that uncouth. She has simultaneously revealed that she sees you as a provider and that she lacks basic etiquette. You should probably thank her for revealing her true nature so quickly, saving you the time and energy.

If you want to actually continue with her, treat it like any other shit test. Tell her you are worth eleventy trillion, or that you are a deeply in-debt gambler. The point is, you don't give a shit and you aren't qualifying yourself to her. Definitely do not get offended or criticize the question (as you did). Also, don't answer honestly. These responses put you in the position of trying too hard or letting yourself get offended by her. That's putting her ass on a pedestal. You should be laughing at her in this situation. You are the prize.

[–]resnine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I never answer any of their questions directly. That's exactly what they want, they want you to be serious so they can extract valuable information. Never take them seriously.

[–]ac714 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Hey. What's your net worth exactly? Asking for a friend's mom.

[–]wifeisbiorgay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More than your dad's.

[–]88VILLI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is he dating you or your friends mom?

[–]123undeuxtrois123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How high you are talking about? Asking for my sister LOL

[–]BurnieSlander 38 points39 points  (1 child)

.. a special type of woman skilled at wealth extraction..

Well you didn’t go on a date with one of them, you went on a date with a hot idiot. The skilled ones don’t blatantly ask you your worth.

Should have told her you make a million per month, fucked her like it was your last night on earth, and then give her the boot and say you meant a million Venezuelan Bolivars.

[–]Zahlix 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The Venezuelan bait and switch, classic trp

[–]TruthSeekaaaaa 23 points24 points  (1 child)

women here are parasites

Remove "here" please

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guffawed

[–]wkndatbernardus 9 points10 points  (6 children)

I liked your response, just don't let it show that you were rattled by her question. The cooler you stay, the more interested she'll be in your mysteriousness. Her question is similar to you asking her if she bangs on the first date. Simply deflect like you did and move forward with going after whatever you want from her. Or if you don't want anything, just excuse yourself to the bathroom and don't come back. I mean, her question was really low class, even for the effed up world that is HK.

[–]californicatorz 1 point2 points  (5 children)

HK is the best.

[–]clausternn 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Why do you say that? I'm looking to travel somewhere new.

[–]californicatorz 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Go to Cambodia

[–]clausternn 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Phnom Pehn? Why do you say that? I read some people saying it was a shithole. Is it better than the Philippines?

[–]californicatorz 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Much better if you are outgoing

[–]clausternn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are outgoing

Philippines it is for me then lmao

[–]Original_Dankster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a moderate net worth, but top 10% of income (in Canada). I've dealt with women who are interested in my money by putting it out front that I've had a bad experience with golddiggers in the past. That usually puts women on notice that if they want my pot of gold, they have to be on good behaviour and not leach off me - at the outset at least. They tend to pay for themselves to prove "they're not like that". Don't know if that would apply to Chinese women though

[–]Kensei91 8 points9 points  (3 children)

You could lie then pump and dump

[–]sehns 9 points10 points  (2 children)

This is the correct response.

A savage question like that deserves a cold hearted and savage treatment.

"Well do you want to know a secret?"

lean in and whisper in her ear

"My wealthy father died and left me a massive fortune.. more than I know what to do with! We have business managers and I make a huge income from all the interest we make in the stock market and real estate."

Then when you see her eyes light up take her home and rail the shit out of her.

Then, completely ghost her.

[–]Helpcalculus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I psychopathically enjoy this route.

[–]fashfront 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Honestly that seemed like a good response, but maybe citing a ridiculously huge number that's obviously fake would work a bit better

[–]Zahlix 14 points15 points  (1 child)

maybe tell her that you only invest in bitcoins and that you are a millionaire. Check your phone, inform her that you are broke. Check your phone again, inform her that you are now a billionaire.

[–]Ravingsmads 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so true it hurts

[–]Dominic_Farussi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I lived in HK for almost 3 years and still go back quite often for work purposes.

Many bitches there (especially the ones you meet during night life) do indeed hunt with their brains and making their pussies crave you is no easy task because of the amount of white dick that's already been through them.

This is what you get when you match a conservative Chinese culture of finding a good beta provider to marry and have kids with with a Western lifestyle of jumping on every dick owner that's over 6 feet tall.

On the other hand, the Philippines, Vietnam and Thailand are only a couple of hundred bucks away and the gold diggers in those countries are much less sharp and easy to fool.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 7 points8 points  (4 children)

You should actually write down and print a piece of paper with your net worth and cash flow and bring a copy to dates. And then when they ask, you say you have it here on this paper but before giving it to them, you need to know their N count, their skills in bed, and an expert assessment at how good they are as a cook, a homemaker, and a mother.

In a less overt way, when she asks you, you can smirk and say "It's pretty good. Please tell me why you'd be more worth of dating me than another girl."

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    [–]Ill_Will7 -1 points0 points  (1 child)


    [–]beginner_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    In math / compsi you usually use "n" as a parameter to mean a numeric value indicating count.

    [–]SharpestMarbel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Notch... as in a mark on item that indicates the number of times used. Example - notches on a pistol grip

    [–]Deep_freeze202 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    I would have responded with "check please" and ended the date right there.

    [–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 3 points4 points  (5 children)

    Lol, I've dated in HK but I've never have anyone ask me what my net worth is. My online profiles all say I'm a HS janitor, so in their heads they don't think I'm a high net worth individual. Plus I dress like I just came from the gym whenever I go on dates, just to pull of that muscular looks.

    The kicker is I have a mil net worth but they'll never find out, although one girl did intuit that I'm well off, don't know how as I always take her to cheap places.

    [–]pm_me_chuck_hagel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    In general, as people climb the economic ladder, they dress nicer and nicer until they get fuck you money (relative) and DGAF. Maybe there is a disconnect between the way you act and speak (class) and your style that she picked up on. Or she was just fishing trying to check your reaction to see if you are a pretend hobo.

    [–]dixm855 -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

    A million net worth isn't really a lot, especially if you're over 50. I'd say it's average at best.

    [–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I'm late 30's, but you're correct it isn't much, just enough for a 500 square foot apartment in HK.

    [–]kidkidkid123321[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    I went with a tank top, ripped jeans, Dr. Martin's, and a hat. In the West that's a hip hop look. Here it's a hobo look.

    [–]TheTrenTrannyTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Must be the mainland Chinese girls? I've never had a Honger girl asked me about my net worth, although if they ask me what I do I'm pretty honest about it.

    I'm usually in polo, shorts, sneakers and gym bag. The heat and humidity in HK is too suffocating for pants.

    [–]helaughsinhidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Everyone is from broken homes and everyone has emotional trauma. If it wasn't true, none of us would need the RED PILL. Shit would just be balanced and no one would need to write us books, post wisdom, or seek out good mentors. I am MRP myself, and you just have to accept they are all broken toys and there never was any unbroken toys to begin with.

    [–]Fun2badult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Tell her you have million dollars, fuck her and then move on. Two can play this bullshit game.

    [–]FuriousMouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    Well, the date is practically over whenever this question gets asked. She's there for a long time investment.

    "I live a good life and expect it to keep improving for all the foreseeable future. How about you, how long do you think you will keep your looks?"

    [–]JosephBosa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Asian women arent even that physically attractive IMO.. theyre the easiest to pull thats the only reason losers go to Asia for women.

    Since they easy to pull, this implies a lower SMV dynamic for them. On top of being low SMV, they are high on the gold digger spectrum. Its one thing to have a hot chick being a gold digger but to have a low SMV chick be a gold digger is a lose-lose situation to me.

    I just dont understand the fetishization of asian women... anyone that can see trends will notice loser Westerners cuffing them up.

    There are exceptions, Ive seen and met some beautiful asians but as a whole they are gold diggers with flat asses and ugly faces. Not very striking

    [–]Ninokun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    My experience with Asia hardly differs allthough i heard about Hong Kong princess Syndrome. But in Asia in general there is a giant group of educated rich single woman who are unmarried because they didnt find a man who is socially above them. They will be on dating apps basically begging for that White dick. Where as in eutope i banged mainly waitresses or hairdresser in Thailand i met company owners Dentists Teachers etc and it was common for them to pay for my companionship as i was younger.

    [–]wobbleelbbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Ask her N count? Equal

    [–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Dude you already pointed out what they are. A tick is never going to not suck blood. There is a reason the chinese are referred to as bug people by some. Not me of course... I've just heard.

    [–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    These questions throw me off because I come from a country where people aren't this direct. How do I answer this question in the future?

    You did good - bullet dodged.

    You shake off the provider hunters by NOT PROVIDING.

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    "Tell your daddy you found a new one tonight".

    [–]thegreattot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    What is your deal with prostitutes ...you need to find new places to hang out.

    [–]ValorElite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    God, I wished women were that upfront. Then I would know right away that she is a gold-diggin hoe and not worth a dime.

    [–]resnine 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    and there develops a special type of woman skilled at wealth extraction. She's the type that will fuck your mind before she let's you touch her body. She usually has a history of being a high class escort. She's a skilled and disciplined whore who understands male psychology.

    This isn't just Hong Kong, all western women are like this. They have an acute awareness of the social realm that us men will never understand. They understand our emotions better than we ever will. Therefore, this gives them an incredible edge at reading us. Our body language, our tone of voice. They aren't mind-readers but they are pretty fucking close.

    [–]MuchFIERCE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Oh damn the chinese golddiggers are next level. Its like asians doing math. As a chinese i can testify.

    [–]seiretnemeS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    That's because OP hasn't read the sidebar.