Went to the beach earlier this week, and my weightlifting is becoming really obvious.
I'm hanging out in the water (it was pretty calm) and I'm starting to notice women are showing up in my vicinity... sometimes making eye contact. I would say something simple to a girl like "the water's nice today isn't it?" and she would proceed to tell me all about herself. This happened multiple times.
I haven't been to a night club in years, but I've heard about this phenomenon. Guys actually have to go over and TALK ("hit on") a girl ... but it seems that women never do this ... they simply "put themselves in the vicinity of a guy" that they want to talk to them?