my 'main' plate & i got caught fucking by her bf (self.asktrp)

submitted by omega_dawg93

dude didn't catch us in the act, but he beat on her apt door until she opened it. she was wrapped in a towel and i was there in shorts, no shirt; so he knew the deal.

he didn't approach me so obviously, somebody taught him, "it's not your pussy... it's just your turn." all i said was, "look man, i didn't force my way into here... or into her... y'all have a lot to talk about." i walked out.

here's the good part: he asked her to marry him last night and she said, "yes." they're doing it in florida in 2 weeks... the post card wedding on a beach, barefoot, etc.


[–][deleted] 167 points168 points  (15 children)

There you have it, a Beta in his element at his finest.

[–]Toussant 13 points14 points  (14 children)

since AWALT, then TRP doesn't find any worth marrying? spin for life?

[–]Str8_Pillin 28 points29 points  (10 children)

bang at least 25 girls, then make your decision

-- u/-anteros-

[–]Toussant 5 points6 points  (9 children)

basically seeing if any don't fit AWALT?

[–]Str8_Pillin 27 points28 points  (8 children)

If you have 25 jobs, you're going to have a good idea what career path best suites you. If you test drive 25 different cars, you'll know which one you want. Visit 25 states, you'll know where you want to live. etc.
If you bang 25 girls it means you probably have talked to hundreds or thousands. You've seen every personality that the world has to offer, multiple times over. You've narrowed down your field. Now, keeping all of the principles in mind, you can choose the best one fit to settle down with, if you choose to go that route.

As for AWALT. Every lion tamer knows they're all killers, but they know how to tame them. To them its a fun job, but still a job with responsibilities nonetheless. The second they forget that they get mauled.
You always have the tools to tame AWALT, the problem is forgetting that it's always there.

[–]IIlllIllIIIllIl 3 points4 points  (6 children)

Is 25 really that many?

[–]Your_Coke_Dealer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I've done (barely) less than that, and even I know I've got some catching up to do after making the mistake of being in a LTR for a while.

Edit: it's more than average, but the average man nowadays is either beta or an older "redpill" man (see: entered into marriage 1.0). That's irrelevant; you can do more than that easily if you're top 10%

[–]omega_dawg93[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I'm a former college athlete. I know guys that have fucked 25 different women in 40-50 days.

there are groupies...they're always around. 25 is a very very low number to most guys. 25 is nothing to jocks & chads.

[–]kankouillotte 9 points10 points  (3 children)

25 is a very very low number to most guys

I think you meant "very very high". Using this http://www.slate.com/articles/life/moneybox/2015/05/sex_history_calculator_is_your_number_of_sexual_partners_low_average_or.html I entered 40, male, 25, and it says I've done better than 80% of my peers .... for 25y old, it's better than 85% of my peers. It says numbers stop increasing much past the 20s for men, meaning almost all are settled, and those who aren't are lost causes.

[–]omega_dawg93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just my experiences from talking to guys I know...

my friends are mostly former athletes & those guys used to refuse more pussy monthly than most guys would get in a yr.

think of the Olympic village atmosphere on every college campus. that's what it's like to play college football. women bring it to you & throw it at you.

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    [–]kankouillotte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Oh I escaped nothing. 25 is only the number the guy above pulled out :p I'm not even at half that

    [–]MuhTriggersGuise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I disagree. Using the job analogy, if your credentials, education, and experience can get you a job as an engineer, then 25 jobs will give you a good idea of what an engineering job is like, because those are the jobs you will wind up getting. They aren't going to give you a go as a physician one time if that's not your background.

    It's the same for women, if you only can pull a certain type, you will get a good idea what that type is like. But it won't give you a good feel for all women. You have to actively try to pursue different types, not just reach a magical number.

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I am not anti marriage for the general populous but I have no conviction towards that.

    [–]yallapapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I would like some perspective on this as well from someone who is married

    [–]Wardenclyffe56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Nah, there's a lot of marriages focused on TRP that worked. I guess spin until a woman that is LTR-material is found, which hopefully is wife-material too. Obviously n count is a big part about it.

    [–]brinkleybuzz 101 points102 points  (4 children)

    You did him a huge favor. Most guys like this don't find out about their snowflake's thottery until it's too late. If he goes ahead with the wedding, his future misery is all on him.

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      [–]Your_Coke_Dealer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Hit the bars last Friday, it was like I won the thottery. Odds are always good if you're on a college campus

      [–]bleuge 8 points9 points  (1 child)

      Absolutly this. Now make friend with him, and bring it here to read some TRP Faqs.

      [–]AshyBoneVR4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

      Don't make friends with him. My two closest friends are Bluepilled Beta's and it drives me insane. Just give him links to TRP and askTRP. Let him figure it out on his own. Or... You know... Do the right thing and keep fucking the chick when she asks you to.

      [–]ThatIzWhack 66 points67 points  (13 children)

      Same thing happened to me. She lived in a shitty apartment with paper thin walls and he could no doubt hear her from the hall way. He banged on the door for a few minutes while we sat there quietly and I eventually said fuck it, and we went back at it because it was clear he wasn't going away. The super recognized him, and let him in because he was apparently on the lease, just didn't live there,didn't pay rent or utilities, and didn't have a key.

      She jumps off me, runs downstairs, he wants to go upstairs and 'talk' and walks into her room to find me naked, just lying on her bed. I had never been in this situation before and all I could muster was " hey man, how's it going?"

      He had a full on meltdown. This girl was manipulative with no redeeming qualities other than her smoking body and the fact that she was a complete nympho, but this scene he walked in on totally broke him. I've never seen anyone so defeated and emotionally fucked.He left, we finished, and I went to work. He asked her to marry him the next day, she said she'd think about it, and then I picked her up from the restaurant they were at to go smash.She still had the ring on her finger.

      Normally I would end things because I just don't like being that other guy, and also because infidelity is just a low value behaviour in my opinion, but she had this guy on a leash and he STILL wanted to salvage this. Jut can't respect that or him, so fuck it, I decided keep seeing her. Left after my break was over and never spoke to her again. Now they've got a kid together.

      Some men are just lost causes.

      [–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (1 child)

      LOOOL what the fuck. But they have a kid together?

      She's more fucked up than him.

      [–]ThatIzWhack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

      Yeah, they stayed together and he or someone else knocked her up.. the baby isn't black,brown, or asian, so there's some likelihood it's his. I only saw her for a short time, but as I look back on her behaviour, it's probably safe to say she's got some mental issues that she never shared with me. BPD or something like that. So you're probably right.

      [–]AshyBoneVR4 8 points9 points  (2 children)

      he wants to go upstairs and 'talk' and walks into her room to find me naked, just lying on her bed. I had never been in this situation before and all I could muster was " hey man, how's it going?"

      Wow... I fuckin lost it right here. I couldn't fuckin breath and I'm happy that nobody at work cares about random fits of uncontrollable laughter.

      That being said, fuck them both.

      [–]imathrowyaaway 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      same, literally LOL'ed at home, that made my day

      [–]AshyBoneVR4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      Funniest shit I've ever read in this sub.

      [–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

      Now she has a kid, they're still together


      What makes you think it's his? She's already demonstrated she ain't a snowflake.

      [–]RunawayGrain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      " hey man, how's it going?"


      [–]Scrubpuppy 2 points3 points  (1 child)

      That's just soul crushing. How could anyone be so invested in trash?

      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      People with that much scarcity and want to live life the way society wants them to, in regards to getting married and having kids.

      [–]hawkeaglejesus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      He left, we finished

      if I had to sum it all up in one sentence

      [–]imathrowyaaway 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      holy shit what the fuck. and here I was questioning my behavior at times, but this is just... wtf!

      [–][deleted]  (1 child)


        [–]imathrowyaaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        yeah, I mean, if you stay with her after that, shame on you. unfortunately, sounds like 2 damaged people. I just don't know how one can be sane and pull this shit, whether it's him or her. just awful. I'm not even sure what to call the dude, because if you're this pussy whipped, "man" kinda doesn't sound right to me.

        [–]Docbear64 34 points35 points  (31 children)

        It doesn't make sense in a logical way but from a position of scarcity it makes perfect sense .

        This woman who represents his everything got caught in the act with a Manipulative sex monster like you . Obviously she did this because the boyfriend wasn't paying attention to her ( because his angel is no whore) and so the boyfriend does what any man whose pride and jewel was threatened would do . He decides he needs to show her just how committed to her he is . So what greater way to demonstrate commitment than to propose , to let that woman know that you want her to be yours forever and ever ?!

        It's beyond sad but for someone who is happy for just scraps of a relationship it is the best move he could make . They're going to play husband and wife, she'll text you in 2 months about how this marriage shit is for the birds and next thing you know he'll find you or someone else beating his wifes pussy up like it owes him money .

        For your safety I wouldn't touch this bitch again . First time he finds you with his angel he proposes ...second time if he finds you with his wife? That sounds like a good setup for something I'd see on a murder show on A&E.

        [–]dayone_27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        Spot on analysis of the cuck bf. They will hamsterize anything if they are desperate enough

        [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

        "If your bitch in my shit, it's your bitch you check nigga" - Dr. Dre

        [–]Auphor_Phaksache 26 points27 points  (17 children)

        At least give him a courtesy "you sure about this?" I'm physically cringing at the outcome.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 24 points25 points  (15 children)

        I wish I had his phone number to ask him wtf is wrong with him, but then again he'd likely get mad at me. lol.

        I'd simply say "dude you saw me with your own 2 eyes...I've been fucking her, and you're gonna fix the relationship thru marriage?"

        [–]basebool 18 points19 points  (2 children)

        I mean at that point, he's too far deep. Hopefully he learns soon.

        [–]IHaveAGreenCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Why does someone throwaway their life like that though, I don't get it

        [–]htbf 5 points6 points  (10 children)

        How did you meet her and how did you end yp fucking ? I'm assuming the was not the first time.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 6 points7 points  (9 children)

        idk why you're worried abt this but she's a known party girl...was on my roster...we had an understanding.

        we ended up fucking bc that's what happens when a pussy is wet & a dick gets hard. duh.

        and no...it wasn't the first time. I've been fucking her for 4 yrs and told her she'd have to answer for her behavior (towards him) one day.

        she got caught & he was so mad, he asked to spend the rest of his life with her...to support her...to provide for her. he's a really mean guy. lmao.

        [–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 6 points7 points  (1 child)

        You winner. You have that pussy on roster for life now. And pre-provided for so it won't cost you a cent.

        [–]Kalidane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

        Did you just invent the burner pussy?

        [–]1Pink1Stink 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        You sound like a douchebag.

        [–]Your_Coke_Dealer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        So? Reminder: TRP is amoral.

        [–]htbf 0 points1 point  (4 children)

        How old is she?

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children)

        over 18...that's the only number that counts.

        [–]htbf 2 points3 points  (2 children)

        You're 48, I'm just asking to know what to hope for when I'm that old.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        nothing changes. women act this way until they're like 50. and if they still look good, the pool boy or appliance delivery guy might still get some GILF action past 50.

        the game never stops.

        [–]htbf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        Mostly asking for attractiveness purposes, not behavior.

        [–]MuhTriggersGuise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        you're gonna fix the relationship thru marriage?

        And if that doesn't work, he should have some kids with her!

        [–]brinkleybuzz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

        Absolutely do not call this dude. OP has already done enough. No need to be Captain Save a Chump.

        [–][deleted]  (1 child)


        [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        So she fucks you, accepts his proposal, then contacts you to tell you details of the postcard wedding? Are you invited? Maybe you and hubby can give her a pig on the spit in the wedding suite 🍆 🐷🍆

        [–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 4 points5 points  (0 children)

        Some dudes just get caught in the undertow.

        [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

        Holy shit, that hurts. Hopefully that'll teach him.

        [–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 8 points9 points  (3 children)

        If he's marrying that ho', clearly it didn't.

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        He must've grown some balls and called it out. You can't catch your snowflake fucking someone else two weeks before your wedding and go ahead anyway.

        [–]Frdl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Men can hamster too. She probably told him he doesn't communicate enough, and he realizes it's all his fault. They'll get married, do some couple's counselling, and everything with be G.

        [–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        I thought he proposed after. It's a desperation, beta move. The dude is headed over the falls.

        [–]Eternasphere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

        It's amazing what these sluts can do make their s/o perceive them as something special. Like the forgiveness is going to pay off. Lmao.

        [–]1walawalawa 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        She'll have rationalized it to him: "Well...you weren't around...." probably apologized etc etc.

        Best thing for you is to disappear and cut yourself off from this mess.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        definitely. I moved her down the totem pole but I think you're right. that plate needs to be broken and thrown away.

        [–]dayone_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        That cuck bf is a complete and utter idiot. It's one thing being blue pill but even blue pills know that cheating is grounds for break up. To propose after discovering cheating is just a freakish lack of self respect. Perhaps this is an actual pathological cuck, and his girlfriend has now proven herself the perfect slut for him to watch from afar on the stool

        [–]legacyReasons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        What's the question?

        [–]vicious_armbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        deleted What is this?

        [–]RPShitlord 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        Fuck her after they return.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        lmao...as soon as he leaves town on business or whatever, she'll call.

        if not, good for him...good for them.

        I don't gaf either way as other plates have moved up the totem pole.

        [–]TheRedStoic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        Yeah, not your problem. It's shocking the first few times you see it go down, less often shocking the more you experience, but yeah, not your problem.

        Someone who sees that then wife's the sloor isn't about to change.

        [–]SpinPlates 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Hahaha. Lets hope you got her pregnant and he raises your genes and not his.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

        if she's pregnant, the baby should be named, "Hercules Lube Trojan."

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        If he liked it then he shoulda put a ring on it.

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        That's actually so sad and pathetic. Something tells me this has happened to old mate before, poor guy

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        yeah.. it has. and if you deal with women, it will likely happen to you too. we all see the light about women's true behavior eventually.

        as I stated, "been there done that...lessons learned." it happens...you move on.

        he hasn't learned those lessons yet, and I don't think you have either.

        just keep living...

        they never tell their true dick count for 2 reasons:

        1. they don't want you to know.
        2. they don't want to own the (higher than anyone thinks) number.

        [–]the-bum-hammer 0 points1 point  (5 children)

        Marriage fixes relationships; babies fix marriages.

        These people are forever stupid.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

        lol. we all know the girl who didn't get pregnant bc she was on birth control, but when mr. dread stopped by to end the relationship, "boom," she was knocked up.

        many women think that a ring will help them control their vaginas...it usually does not. and many think that having a kid will make the guy, "act right & responsible," and it doesn't.

        [–]the-bum-hammer 0 points1 point  (3 children)

        And we can warn them over and over but, their girl "is different. She's not like that."

        Might as well sit back and enjoy the shit show!

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        lmao. my buddy and I have a bet that she'll be back in business sucking my dick by Easter.

        I won't let that happen...I'm done with her, but I'm betting she will be sucking a new dick by then for sure.

        [–]the-bum-hammer 1 point2 points  (1 child)

        Yeah. They don't stop. A couple decades back (damn, I'm old), I had a girl that sucked my dick regularly. She had a boyfriend but, um, whatever. She was great that way. We hung out . Watched TV. And she'd keep sucking.

        Fast forward to today. She's married. To that guy. They have a kid together. Now, I don't know if she'd do stuff with me still, as I'm in a relationship (and wouldn't fuck that up), but if I were a betting man...

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        all you'd need is 5 min alone to remind her of her past with you.

        the hamster will go to sleep & she will drop to her knees.

        then on her way home, the hamster will wake up & get to work. bc hubby needs answers.

        [–]RichieFinn 0 points1 point  (3 children)

        obviously, somebody taught him, "it's not your pussy... it's just your turn."

        Theyre getting married so clearly not.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        that lesson should have taught him that I was enjoying what was given to me...and that he can't stop her from giving it up.

        it's never yours...you don't own the pussy or her.

        if you or he thinks marriage will help her control that slut-it-up urge, it will...until she gets bored or the hamster gets a craving for strange cock.

        [–]RichieFinn 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        doesnt hide the fact you contradicted your own FR my man.

        Poor guys way to plugged in, to even suggest you think he understands the idea you threw in here

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)


        [–]franmonkey 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        My guess is she used u to get him to settle

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        yep. and it worked. but now he has to deal with what she did, how she did it, & the costs = giving up her body, for yrs.

        [–]ZeroMasters 0 points1 point  (3 children)

        I have been a long time lurker, and I cannot understand how a guy can still stay with a chick. I am not the most learned in the red pill way by any means but infidelity to me means your life and value as a human being reaches zero. There is no redemption.

        It would take a lot not to seek revenge on both. With the main thing keeping from doing so is the fact that I owe it to myself to not waste my energy, time, or risk my freedom/life for low lifes(no offense OP).

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        no offense taken, zero...I understand your view.

        but know this: whether you play the game or not, you're in the game unless you plan on being a priest.

        women are fickle...their thoughts, passions, desires etc are fleeting. they change their minds like they change panties.

        if you're gonna deal with them, you'll run into these situations.

        I don't have a revenge angle for either person, but if she thinks his "moment of clarity" abt this ordeal won't arrive one day, she's delusional. the revenge he puts on her will be epic...fueled by the actual sight of her with me.

        [–]ZeroMasters 1 point2 points  (1 child)

        Well if you must be Karma's vessel you might as well enjoy the sailing eh?

        It is on him.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        lol. I don't believe in the karma thing. I think living life in general comes with the FACT that sometimes you're the hammer & sometimes you're the nail.

        here's the selling point: when he thinks she's cheating, he will always have the real visual of having seen another man's face in reality to help confirm it.

        he will reflect on the thought but seeing the other guy makes it really real...for real.

        [–]myrpwi_account 0 points1 point  (7 children)

        Yeah this didn't happen, no one can plan a wedding in 2 weeks.

        Next time you want to make this sound realistic just say that you saw on facebook they are engaged.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children)

        lol. las Vegas style drive thru marriages do NOT exist I guess.

        that's what she said, so why do you care if it's true? I know I don't.

        a justice of the peace can handle that today if they have a license. who gives a fuck but you?

        [–]myrpwi_account 0 points1 point  (5 children)

        here's the good part: he asked her to marry him last night and she said, "yes." they're doing it in florida in 2 weeks... the post card wedding on a beach, barefoot, etc.

        Doesn't sound like a justice of the peace or Las Vegas wedding.

        that's what she said, so why do you care if it's true? I know I don't.

        So you don't care if the story is true, as long as AWALT. Makes prefect sense with superior male logic.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

        again, what does it matter? he asked her to get married after seeing her true nature.

        2 weeks 2 months, or 2 yrs...it won't change her.

        [–]myrpwi_account 0 points1 point  (3 children)

        The point is the OP made this post up. The reason you can tell this post is made up is because he said he received a wedding invitation.

        If you have any experience planning weddings you would know there is no way someone can get engaged, create the guest list, book the venue, order the invitations for the wedding (which usually themselves take at least 2 + weeks to come in), and mail them out in under 2 weeks.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        wedding invite? lol. i think you need reading glasses?

        why would she invite her side dick to her wedding... so the groom can see his face again?

        don't read into the op again... just read the op again.

        [–]myrpwi_account -1 points0 points  (1 child)

        they're doing it in florida in 2 weeks... the post card wedding on a beach, barefoot, etc.

        So what exactly does post card wedding on the beach mean if you didn't receive a post card to the wedding? Is that just an expression?

        I still stand by my statement. It is highly unlikely that someone can get engaged, make their guest list, pick a date, and find a venue in 2 weeks. I find it far more likely that this is a made up story to "prove" AWALT. We are just going to have to agree to disagree.

        [–]omega_dawg93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        "hallmark card wedding." is that better?

        you mofos are literal a-f worrying abt words instead of the issue. you thought I received a real post card? ! lol.

        how abt fairy tale princess wedding? you think she's gonna tell me a fairy tale? lol.

        there is NOTHING to agree or disagree on. have you ever heard of a las vegas wedding? you can get married tonight!

        and yes awalt.