It is scary that TRP is working. (self.asktrp)

submitted by 123undeuxtrois123

I am 16yo and it has been 1 year that I found TRP.

I know it is cliché to tell how beta we were but mine was at another level. 1) My crush literally asked me if I want to ask her out while touching me. I said no and ran away. 2) 1 year later I “confessed” (LOL like it’s a bad thing to want to have sex with some1) my love over text. 3) I got rejected because I was not acting like a male so she could not think of me as a male but a castrated beta. I cried after the rejection.

Even if I didn’t know TRP I swallowed some bitter pill without name.

I started lifting and beta-flirted with 2-3 girls (even it it was “beta flirting” I was at least doing something)

So it’s been a year I found TRP and this shit is working like a fucking clock. It never let me down.

The 48 Rules of Power is pure gold. I see you guys finding TRP at 40+ and I am VERY THANKFUL to God that I found this subreddit at 16. My life was going to suck dick trying to find a princess who will love me (FUCK THIS SHIT! BRO).

Anyway I am man and I don’t have an easy option like girls such as marrying into wealth so: I am studying, lifting, working summer jobs, networking, reading books, learning to code and learning a new language.


[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 191 points192 points  (5 children)

Think abt how lucky you were to discover this place at your age. You are going to SLAY poon like a master.

Just remember to keep an even keel, understand that women are not “the enemy”, nor are they the “main thing”, they are just a happy complement to a well lived life.

Find what your passion is and pursue that. Become exceptional at something or a couple of somethings and the pussy will flow. Work on becoming the best version of you and pursuing your best life.

[–]dulkemaru51 16 points17 points  (1 child)

understand that women are not “the enemy”

Yeah. Although it is a natural, maybe inevitable part of unplugging (anger phase) to go from seeing the world as paradise to seeing it as hell, think about it as you going from living a lie to understanding the world as it really is.

Don't let knowledge be your enemy and know that it's absolutely possible to be happy in the real (RP) world.

Good luck, you've got a lot of years of fucking ahead of you.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"why do my eyes hurt?"

"because you've never used them"

The metaphor for anger phase. Once it's gone, it's like in the 3rd Matrix where Neo and Trinity fly above the black clouds and see the sun and clouds in all their beauty. That's what it's like to have swallowed the pill and pass anger phase; hovering above the black smog and bones of a dying/warring world. Total peace just from knowledge. We ALL are lucky to have found this roadmap called TRP.

[–]Tapcofucked 15 points16 points  (1 child)

48 here myself. I discovered TRP after my divorce about five years ago. I did pretty good before but if I would have discovered it at 16, I would be Supreme Ruler of the World. Lift, eat clean, never stop learning.

[–]drsherbert 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 40 now and I’m smashing the 19&20 yr old chicks I could get back when I was a beta chump. I always had the looks, but that’ll only take you so far. Avoid the Peter Pan phase entirely and just become a man. Grow a beard, wear suites, lift weights, climb the dominance hierarchy and acquire success. Idc if you’re 16 or 60. The formula works.

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[–]julius42 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Excellent man. My story is very similar. One thing, everyone here is going to tell you to lift, and you really should. But do study, hard. It will be rewarding.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (9 children)

16? That’s a blessing.. I didn’t find this out till 1 month ago.. I’m 25. Word of advice avoid borderline personality disorder females.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Just fyi for anyone who doesn't know, it's called "borderline" because they can't see grey. They see purest white on one side and the blackest black on the other. The way this manifests itself in a relationship is that you start off in their good graces, but not just a little bit good - you start off with them treating you (and they truly believe inside their own heads) that you're a saint.

When you do something wrong, some little thing, a normal person who sees shades of grey will think, "meh, he's a generally good guy, but it does suck that he leaves his socks on the floor." Someone with BPD will seemingly ignore these little problems. You'll still be the perfect white saint. What you don't realize (and even they don't realize) is that you're inching closer to the border. Once you cross it, you become, in their eyes, evil incarnate. They will hate you just as much as they loved you before. They won't just break up with you, they'll try to destroy you - and they're not even being vindictive, they're on a righteous quest to kill a demon (you).

Some girls are just clingy though. And some girls, especially as you get older, are desperate. One difference between clingy/desperate and BPD is how they talk about other people. If they keep telling you stories about people they describe as evil, or words to that effect - and these will be people they had long relationships with who "suddenly became evil" that could indicate borderline thinking.

[–]Mostass 2 points3 points  (4 children)

You described my ex perfectly, shit was fucked up.

Thank god I didn't get her pregnant.

It's also fucked up that I still miss her sometimes just because of those golden first few months, no one treated me that way before, also no one tried to destroy me as much as she did in the last months.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Sorry you had to go through that, man. BPD is to men what sociopaths are to women - strangely attractive. It'd be hard to walk away from another girl you meet today even knowing what you now know.

[–]Mostass 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Honestly I'm glad I met her, she taught me everything I need to know about treating women , and in a really short time span.Dating any normal woman will be a breeze after her.

[–]TonytheNetworker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This so much. After dating a BPD chick other women are a walk in the park in comparison.

[–]Hugegains55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However, standard relationships aren't fun after being in the lust phase with some borderline.

[–]TonytheNetworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post really spoke to me. I too was with a girl with borderline personality disorder right as I was discovering the red pill. She was a single mom but had the fucking nicest ass and sex was like heaven on Earth and she sucked the soul out my dick. I WAS HOOKED.

I saw the red flags like gaslighting, not wanting to take accountability, baby daddy drama, among other things and would break contact with the chick multiple times but she would always find my new #, come to my apartment uninvited and when I told her to get the fuck out BAM!! Back to acting submissive, puckering her lips, and crazy sex all over again. Had to go on hardcore monk mode after FINALLY ditching this bitch once and for all. After being with a BPD girl you will come out so fucking strong mentally, it's liberating.

[–]comcain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amen. BPD is a world of hurt.

[–]CaptainBW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

BPD women are Sirens and if you are weak, they will get into your soul (via your penis) and try to destroy you. They are AWALT in its purest form

[–]1RPLawyer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like many people here, I was raised by my mother. While I saw my dad 2 weekends a month (they had a friendly relationship too) and spend some times with my grand-fathers, always being around my mother made me a fucking bitch. She would wrap me up in cotton wool, discouraging me from doing sports in case in hurt myself and when I came home with shit grades, she wouldn't punish me; she would just say some bullshit like "ok but do better next time". She never pushed me to do better because as long as I was at home playing videogames and getting fat, I wouldn't risk hurting myself, doing drugs or catching an STD! I even got my first job at 18 years old! Obviously, she didn't do any of that out of malice but this is why a boy needs a father: because a half-decent father will let you take risks and call you out on your bullshit. A dad doesn't care about your feelz.

Reading TRP feels like going through puberty again, but finally doing it the right way. You are incredibly lucky to have sumbled across this place at 15 year old.

[–]redxpills 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well done bruh. You still have many years to slay woman, just beware of the crazy ones. Master the fundamentals.

You need to also post this at TRP subreddit. Cheers.

[–]Wheysteve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep making money and improving yourself. The women will come. You're lucky af, God bless

[–]thatmanadrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think pursuing the best version of you is a great life goal, not just a TRP one lol

[–]Kabuki431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be glad you found the place. Took me a long time and I wish would have found this place long time ago.

[–]F10F6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming what you've just said is all real...

Then fucking way to go. I love it when I see people escape inceldom no matter who they are.

Keep on slaying, young man. Do it for the rest of us incels.

[–]BusterVadge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

44 here. Discovered TRP a few years ago after sitting through a feminist rant during a professional retreat. I googled "is toxic masculinity bullshit" and ended up here.

Started lifting seriously a couple of years ago. I wouldn't say I'm jacked but people notice and I'm in the best shape of my life. I've got a great side business and am set to retire very comfortably.

I wish I would have known this shit at 16! I wouldn't be paying alimony right now that's for sure. Bottom line is that TRP works.

[–]You_Know_This_MAN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hopefully with this knowledge you'll be part of the solution...not the problem. Women are running wild these days and we're witnessing the fall of Rome (in this case the western world). Single moms fucking everywhere living off the goverments dime. Degeneracy etc. This way of life doesn't lead to a good place, I just hope we figure it out.

[–]abudun79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am truly happy for you, that you did discover TRP in this early stage of your life, as this discovery the potential to safe your from a lot of bad decisions. Enjoy your journey and stick with the knowledge you gained from TRP.


Doesn't mean you won't... Don't get bucked and cucked for the next 20+ years, become a useful person, have success with women and in life,then come back and say thank you. At the moment you are a boy of 16, overwhelmed by the positive effects of TRP, but with just a tiny bit of life experience. The harder part of your life is waiting for you to be conquered, don't spit the red pill out on the way ahead of you.

[–]lnternetLiftingCoach 0 points1 point  (2 children)

What did you like about 48 Laws of Power? Is it worth reading the whole book instead of a summary of the laws?

[–]123undeuxtrois123[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I read the summary and it’s good. It taught me how to behave around people above and below me.

[–]drsherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t necessarily have to adhere to every law on a daily basis. It’s any overload of information. You can’t completely script your life according to it. It will come off as disingenuous and tyrannical. Develop your own personal charisma. Use the book as a reference point to whatever law applies the most in your current life situation. Also, use it to protect yourself from people applying its laws against you.

[–]Ricklogical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy for you.

[–]TonytheNetworker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy you found this place! I personally got here around 22 which I still consider pretty young. I wasn't as bad as the behaviors you described but I definitely had the "All women are princesses that deserve to have a good man by their side to provide blah blah blah." Would love to hear an update about your future endeavors.

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[–]123undeuxtrois123[S] 8 points9 points  (6 children)

I prefer to be a douchebag who gets laid than a gentleman who fucks his hand.

[–]Helpcalculus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This kid is going places.

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    [–]bostonburrito 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    You’re absolutely right, good thing he’s aware life isn’t about getting laid :)

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      [–]bostonburrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      You know that saying, “if everyone you meet smells like shit, maybe it’s time to check your own shoes”

      Have a nice evening.

      [–]123undeuxtrois123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

      Bitch fuck off.

      [–]Helpcalculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I just looked at your post history. You for real?