Field Report - My First One TRP Style (self.asktrp)

submitted by jagdecat

Context: Male, 30+, Bluest Blue Beta prior to discovering TRP in Feb. Since then went to the gym lost 45 KG (still high BF) but really toned now so don't look too fat. Girls give me an okay on looks (i'm not handsome at all maybe 5ish), 5'8. Get some IoIs now but not many. Used to being friendzoned or just generally un-interesting women. Have Improved dress style and hair. Working as a consultant.

The Story:

Was sitting at the coffee shop waiting for my client to show up. We were going to meet a content writer and discuss the way forward on our project. She arrived early (HB2 or 3 sth like https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTzYQYVkRLXqQ2Yj4uZwo9Djbgfn1-4EaFqS9cgQI-n6c8fmkQR), over the wall 30sth woman but damn! that Body was wow!. The previous me would have been going gaga over her arrival (yes i know i'm pathetic) but this time, not even a smile even though she smiled on meeting me and tried to chat me up lots. I primarily ignored her and small talked about nothing. She asked her where i would be going next, i said to a mall nearby and she asked if i could drop her home on the way. I said "Wouldn't cost me extra. Sure".

Client came in and everytime she tried to dominate the discussions, i would be the asshole and cut her off and told her exactly what i wanted. This was new to me as well since i've always been 'Respectful' of women and their need to speak. Unavoidably she started sulking because i was not giving way on anything. Bit of a baby (or maybe just started noticing that women are children due to TRP's principles). The meeting ended up with the client thanking us both. She was so incensed she said 'I"m not going with you. I'm calling an Uber". I just shrugged and said "see you later" (Previous me would be been dejected and butthurt and showed it).

She steps out with me. I nod politely and stepping towards my car when she runs behind me and says "You're dropping me". I didn't even say anything. Just walked towards the car. "Coming?".

In the car she started again telling me exactly how 'Disrespectful and Rude" i was (Shit Test). Listening to her go on and on, in the midst I jerked my arm in her direction. Which was scary for her Shut her up. I said 'BITE ME'. She was shocked. 'WHAT", 'I said Bite my hand. It'll make you feel better. She's now laughing. Hand was too close to her, so out of reflex she grabs it and comments 'That's what you want me to do, you like it. and then feeling my hands You have really muscular hands." and continued to massage my hands. Me not even an acknowledgement. I said "I know". Pulled my hand back but instead of resting it on my side of the car, I landed it on her knee.

I have no idea what i talked about after that, but slowly slid my hand to her thighs and started massaging them (Basic Kino). Didn't even look at her whilst i was doing that. She let me for the whole journey. She was responding over and over by grabbing my arm as if to remove it but did not remove it.

Shit Test One: I'd like to go to the mall with You. I replied, i have a meeting there with someone else maybe some other time. (Abundance)

Shit Test two: I'd like to see you tomorrow for longer. Me "I'm busy. I'll let you know when i'm free, maybe Friday". (Scarcity)

I dropped her off to her home and she leaned over and kissed me and walked out. Her pants were wet. This was our first meeting.

Now for most of you, this might be nothing but do understand for the first time in my life something like this has happened to me. Especially being dry for the last few weeks, i had the hardon of my life whilst this was happening and yet didn't let any emotion cross my face.

This being how pathetic i had been in my life, is possibly the greatest win ever. I used to bribe girls even like these with coffee and gifts to get dates. This one without anything but me. Thanks Guys. You are the best. More wins to follow soon.


  1. How could I have done better?
  2. Was I being too cocky or did I manage the meeting properly?
  3. Should I have amped up immediately with her or make her wait until she would give all?

[–]furcryingoutloud 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Kudos OP. You should feel good about this. Good stuff.

[–]bostonburrito 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That 'bite me' line is pure gold. Awesome way of breaking the physical contact barrier.

Advice for now? Don't overthink this interaction too much. This might be hard to do since it's your first 'win', I can relate to that heavily. The memory of the first girl to grab my crotch turned into wank material for months for 16 year old me. Don't make that mistake.

With that said, I have some good news about this interaction: it's the first of many! Just don't make the mistake of thinking it's a jackpot and over-analysing it. The only fine-points are these:

  • You held frame
  • It made her wet
  • If you continue to hold frame she will make fucking her an easy opportunity.

[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good Job. I sense some Cory Wayne lessons here: "Women are more attracted to a guys whose feelings are unclear...".

I don't think there could be a better example.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Textbook. Next hang out bring her home and fuck her.

[–]Korque_3 13 points14 points  (2 children)

wait wheres the asking part

[–]jagdecat[S] 25 points26 points  (1 child)

It's a field report.

Asking is how can I improve my game.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He's saying FR's belong on the main sub

[–]izzyinjurious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good report but fuck! Escalate! Always assume attraction. Plus you were taking her home! Just park and be like I have to use the restroom or anything.. baby steps all the way in and would've been an f-close. You're good enough, always. On the other hand, she didn't deserve you, so making her work for it a little bit more would help. That's my .02, but I'm also a student of TRP.

[–]clausternn 2 points3 points  (1 child)

(HB2 or 3 sth like https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTzYQYVkRLXqQ2Yj4uZwo9Djbgfn1-4EaFqS9cgQI-n6c8fmkQR), over the wall 30sth woman but damn! that Body was wow!

I don't get your ratings. You say she's a 2 or 3 and right after you imply she's hot. Hot is like a 7. A 2 would be like someone obese or with some other physical deformity.

[–]jagdecat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wasn't pretty but she did have a nice body. Not modelesque but curvy enough

[–]z2a1-9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome FR, keep it up happy slaying brother!

[–]FixYourselfFirst 3 points4 points  (3 children)

[–]jagdecat[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Acknowledge. Sorry. Should I delete this?

[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why not just edit your post and ask a question, like how can I improve, what should I have done to save the client, should I have gone for more with the girl in the cab since she was already wet...

Surely you have some questions...

[–]FixYourselfFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely the mods will delete it eventually. Maybe you should either:

  • Delete and post to TRP
  • Delete and repost in the form of a question

PS - good job

[–]Garathon 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Sounds pretty stupid to me to antagonise your client as a consultant, but maybe I'm too focused on the sexual interactions of trp.

[–]jagdecat[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

He increased scope and commended me on an excellent meeting and points. So that was in the bag.

[–]Garathon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I thought the client was female as well.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Those weren't shit tests lmao, she wanted to see you

[–]jagdecat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the difference? I have come across these that if you agree to either quickly you'll be seen as needy.

[–]DVidojkovic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Client came in and everytime she tried to dominate the discussions, i would be the asshole and cut her off and told her exactly what i wanted. This was new to me as well since i've always been 'Respectful' of women and their need to speak. Unavoidably she started sulking because i was not giving way on anything.

Could you provide me with an example? I'd love to see an example of how you cut her off. I do have something in mind about the cutting off part, but I might come out as a bit too rude when doing it.

[–]3nebder 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Good stuff man. You will get better & It gets easier. Eventually you stop even getting surprised at the shit that comes out of your mouth on auto pilot. I like the bite me move I’m stealing it.

She was holding your arm cuz she liked you and/or what you were doing. Was not pushing you away a hard no is rather clear man. Wasn’t clear in the FR that you went for her pussy. She was encouraging you by holding your arm. It was ripe for the taking if you did not.

You’re at her home. You can ask the tried & true question hey mind if I use your restroom to get your foot in the door. Its in the bag if you keep escalating at that point. Drawing it out may work in your favor. I don’t get repeat business from quickbang gals very often you’re just scratching at itch that day.

I don’t get your rating system. A 2-3 should be a completely repulsive individual like they stink and have methhead teeth. I’m late 30s. At our age, dating or plating 30+ postwall gals is fine from the AF side of the bargain. Women have different qualities at different ages and also start to get graded on a curve as they age. Universally the older ones just wanna feel like little girls again so make them feel that & they eat out of your hands. I digress it’s ok to start out in the minors and go for the comparable & lower smv women. Take some Ls and Ws there BUT I’m not giving you license to stay there forever. Keep improving yourself and going for more attractive women. Just cuz they’re cute doesn’t mean they don’t like you. Never forget that.

[–]jagdecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Means a lot She wasn't pretty. Kinda average in looks but had a great body. Not like a model but really curvy and yummy. Not fat but not exactly thin. How would you rate a plain girl with a nice body?

[–]4thAndLong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep at it man. Practice TRP principles daily. You can always slip back to BP tendencies if you're not on your game.

[–]andAutomator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done OP.

[–]Aarxnw 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How is this a question

[–]jagdecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sir requesting how I can improve my game

[–]neatbranch -4 points-3 points  (1 child)

Haha this sounds fake as fuck.

[–]arrau98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it was fake it would've been an 18yo HB8