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Plate is getting married.. Wants to continue to our physical relationship behind the husband's back (self.asktrp)

submitted by LonesomeTraveller

It seems very immoral to me but then again I'm fairly convinced that most people are fairly shitty. Why should I be the one to hold up ideals of family values when I've seen plenty of both men and women cheat on their spouses?

Honestly, I'm sure I'll just call it off after she ties the knot. I guess I just wanted to know TRP's views on affairs.

Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.


[–]_the_shape_ 237 points238 points  (15 children)

The main reason I tend to avoid participating in a situation like the one you're facing is the very real possibility that he finds out and I end up unexpectedly stabbed or shot one day because the dude lost it and had to exact revenge on the guy who he thinks is responsible for ruining his innocent, little unicorn.

Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

Absolutely horrendous idea, worse than simply fucking her as a married woman. This girl has an insatiable appetite for drama. Exit stage left immediately.

[–]RunawayGrain 107 points108 points  (5 children)

Not to mention he finds out and she cries rape as a cover up.

[–]Bear-With-Bit 32 points33 points  (3 children)

There is a post on the childfree sub I saw today about a husband finding out his wife was raped, pregnant from rapist, but still wants the baby. Pretty sure it's more like what OP may end up in here.

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Yup.

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[–]beginner_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The main reason I tend to avoid participating in a situation like the one you're facing is the very real possibility that he finds out and I end up unexpectedly stabbed or shot one day because the dude lost it and had to exact revenge on the guy who he thinks is responsible for ruining his innocent, little unicorn.

So much this. While the main questions seems to be about morale and how you want to life your life. Only you, OP, can make that decisions for you. But in many cases like this one there is a logical, amoral argument why not to do it. Simply because you do not need to attract unwanted drama.

And in this specific case, run, forest run. Only way you can be sure she is not getting your seed is if you have a vasectomy. Else she might go through used condoms. Yeah, she sounds that crazy. Ghost her now.

[–]satanicpriest13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was going to disagree with your entire post, but the last but convinced me. Banging her is one thing, and I enjoy the chaos I must admit. But fuck letting her have your child. That's a train wreck waiting to happen and you can get fucked from all sides at once.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Absolutely horrendous idea

I know.

This girl has an insatiable appetite for drama.

That she does. That and my attention. I get away with treating her like shit.

exact revenge on the guy who ruined his innocent, little unicorn.

Yeah totally. I have been in this situation before with this married older woman. Almost got myself expelled. Not taking any chances.

I just wanted to hear different opinions on cheating.

[–]The__Tren__Train 2 points3 points  (0 children)

before I was born, my father was eating in a restaurant with some friends.

a man walked into the restaurant, and shot another man right in the face, and then walked out.

turned out shootee was fucking shooter's wife

[–]darkwingduckdunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worth it.

[–][deleted]  (2 children)

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    [–]pickledpeas 7 points8 points  (1 child)

    Leave a post-it on the underside of the toilet seat

    [–]Vinc314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Lol! Excellent way of passing a message anonymously and only to him

    [–]Metartist 47 points48 points  (3 children)

    Dude she wants your seed, RUN! Excommunicate that bitch!

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 13 points14 points  (2 children)

    Yeah no she's not getting it, no worries there.

    [–]Pm_your_tits 10 points11 points  (1 child)

    You should really tell her husband man. Anonymously if possible. If you won't do it some other guy will. This guy deserves to know before this whore fucks up his life

    [–]empatheticapathetic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    I want to help the dude but if it's going to bite OP in the ass in any shape or form, it's not worth it.

    Husband isn't going to believe some random note without proof and without asking his wife, who, if she cracks (dramatic bitch) she'll point OP out in 5 seconds.

    [–]Ricardo2991 35 points36 points  (1 child)

    Last line tells me you should cut all contact immediately. She isn't worth ruining your life or reputation over....is she?

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    No one is.

    [–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 21 points22 points  (2 children)

    Its the risks to you, that you need to weigh.

    1. Some type of retaliation from the husband, not always physical.

    2. Once you have a kid with her, you are on the hook for child support. Even if she says "Don't worry about it". Even if she waits 10 years to go to court to get the order. Then you find yourself immediately in arrears with the court (in the USA)... Its bad and I've seen it happen to guys I know.

    [–]InfiniteAscent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Even if she waits 10 years to go to court to get the order.

    You think she's gonna stay married to Mr beta that long? Hah!

    [–]italianking13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Pussy is worth none of that.

    [–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

    Oh, go ahead. I'm sure it will totes work out. /s

    Verdict: "RUN, FORREST, RUUUUUUUN!!!"

    [–]Metalageddon 13 points14 points  (1 child)

    I don't like drama so I don't participate in cheaters. (If I know ahead of time.)

    Ime they tend to just bring problems, either them or any number of angry third parties they are affiliated with.

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Good point.

    [–]hamstercide 20 points21 points  (4 children)

    Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

    This is my fetish.

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 12 points13 points  (3 children)

    Mine too. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    [–]Redditisfullofcucks -2 points-1 points  (2 children)

    Let's be real. You're gonna blow megaton loads in her and he's gonna raise your baby none the wiser.

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    No I'm not. There's a line I won't cross.

    [–]BrodinsOats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Shh just let it happen

    [–]Westernhagen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    Think of this as case study #23,324,042 in the AWALT: Never Get Married series.

    [–]setsuna0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    RUN!!!!!

    [–]SpanishHeat 5 points6 points  (1 child)

    I'm in a similar situation except she's already married and has a kid. I'm not the only one she's cheated on him with before.

    I'm planning to get out of it, maybe a bit for moral reasons but mostly because it's just annoying to me having to deal with her shit. It's taught me a lot like never get married, and take everything women say with a grain of salt.

    Shit we just fucked in their bedroom with marriage pictures all over the place and I see now that marriage is simply a visage. Women will do whatever they want to when they please.

    For your sake, get out of it for reasons other people have said. Drama, rape accusations, and possibility of him getting back at you.

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Thanks for sharing your experience. Yes I'm ending it soon.

    [–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (19 children)

    Tell her husband. She's a piece of shit. You would want to know.

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 1 point2 points  (18 children)

    I feel somewhat responsible for her being this way. I have even encouraged her to talk about it because it's such a turn on. Should have just said no when she first suggested it. That's why I just want to let go and not meddle further. At least the blood won't be on my hands.

    [–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (15 children)

    Tell him anonymously

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 7 points8 points  (14 children)

    I'll give it a thought.

    [–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v -4 points-3 points  (13 children)

    Why should you tell the husband? Are you suddenly the moral and ethical police?

    Live your life the way you want to live it, and let other live their life.

    [–]peanutpepper 47 points48 points  (11 children)

    To help the clueless fucker in a world of whores. Wouldn't you want want someone to tell you if your LTR was fucking someone else?

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    That's my feeling too. I'm going to cut off contact with her and let them be. Not worth the trouble.

    [–]Deep_freeze202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    You didn't make her that way bro

    [–]dickbuttspleasure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Write a lett to the dude fully explaining her slut behavior, just maybe you can save another man an pull him into the RP way

    [–]Kommanderdude 13 points14 points  (1 child)

    Yo, drop this ho brah. Like right now. Bitch is crazy. Never stick it in the crazy. Would like to get shot by an angry man? Cause this is how you get shot.

    [–]vicious_armbar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Never stick it in the crazy. Would like to get shot by an angry man? Cause this is how you get shot.

    That very rarely happens. Sit in on a session of divorce court one day, and see how many accusations of infidelity are made. Compare that to how many non drug/gang related murders there are. It's not even close.

    In any case what about: girls with boyfriends, orbiters that want to fuck a woman but can't, etc. An attractive women is always going to have other men that want to fuck her, and are angry that you're banging her instead of them. Your only two options are to: 1.) Give the middle finger to the haters and life your life. 2.) Live in fear and only have the table scraps other men allow you to eat. Aka Fat, ugly, disagreeable, hags that no one else wants.

    [–]wild_deer_man 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    If at any point you have actually considered it, you are absolutely retarded.

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I haven't considered the impregnating part. The affair on the other hand, yes.

    [–]beta_no_mo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Married women are simply not worth the hassle. I did one and never will again. The dude flipped out (even though they'd already filed) and almost cost me my job. Even betas have teeth when they're cornered.

    [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    i would find out a way to anonymously contact this guy with the truth that she is cheating not entirely because of my moral outrage so much as an opportunity to potentially reduce a lot of suffering to another person

    at the very least cut it off yourself with her full no contact and forget about them, no pussy is potential double homicide good

    [–]LordThunderbolt 2 points3 points  (2 children)

    Grab her phone, delete your number and text threads, then get a burner phone. Continue as normal

    [–]ThickDickWarrior89 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Do you have a burner bro

    [–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    No

    [–]vicious_armbar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    "The main reason I tend to avoid participating in a situation like the one you're facing is the very real possibility that he finds out and I end up unexpectedly stabbed or shot one day because the dude lost it and had to exact revenge on the guy who he thinks is responsible for ruining his innocent, little unicorn."

    Perfect example of the male hamster. Do you think that if the boyfriend found OP and his Plate in bed today he'd shake ops hand then get him a beer because his woman isn't married?! No he'd lose his shit. Just like he would after they tied the knot.

    Every time you're fucking a woman who's cheating with you there's a small chance that her S/O may try to get revenge. For me it's worth it because I'll only cheat with women who are hotter then I can otherwise get.

    I'm into Jiu-Jitsu and an admitted gun nut in a self defense friendly state. Also I only fuck attached women at my place instead of theirs. I've never had any problems, and doubt I will. But everyone has to assess their own risk tolerance and make an informed decision.

    [–]beermagnate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    She is a bit on a crazy side

    [–]BusterVadge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

    RUN! There are plenty of other women out there.

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Fuck morality, I wouldn't do it because it leaves you vulnerable to other bullshit. If they get a divorce and your name comes up in the proceedings, your name is now public knowledge as that dude who fucked the husband's wife.

    [–]oscarkool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    a boyfriend doesnt mean shit, but a husband/married woman? It's a turf I personally don't get involved with. Just not worth it as so many others have commented here.

    [–]BestSC86 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Don't stick your dick in crazy.....

    Alternative title could have been:
    "I am so thirsty for a pussy to stick my dick in that I let crazy, shitty people into my life without a thought to the consequences....because you know, I want any piece of pussy that will let me put my wee-wee in it.....damn I am so thirsty for pussy......What do? "

    [–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I don't know the difference between AWALT and crazy

    FTFY

    [–]GuitarHero07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Best case scenario: you continue getting action from the plate without incident.

    Worst case scenarios: husband finds out about affair, loses his shit and goes into a murderous rage...especially if he finds out he's been cuckolded. It's also possible the plate gets purposefully impregnated by you and if the husband finds out soon enough, he can file for divorce, get a paternity test and put you on the hook for child support. If the woman is as duplicitous as she seems, she could also easily falsely accuse you of rape if she is discovered by her husband.

    [–]1kick6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You get to decide your own morality. If you think it’s shitty, don’t do it.

    [–]1UnluckyPenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I've personally read a handful of articles about husbands killing their wife's lover (and sometimes their wife too). If you need to read them to convince yourself to get out of that relationship, then just do a quick google search.

    [–]RPpieceofgarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I say get out of there

    [–]F_Dingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    It seems very immoral to me

    There's your answer. It's up to you now.

    [–]dickbuttspleasure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You should write a 3 paragraph letter to the fiancé and tell every little dirty thing you did you her, you should also point him to the redpill and maybe just maybe, you stopped another man from committing suicide by marriage.

    What happens if you cuckold the husband and make him raise your child? Would you be ok with that?

    You sir have the power the stop another greedy bitch from destroying another mans life.

    [–]drqxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Do it!

    [–]Tzeentch_Gnosis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Do it, you owe it to the kid to give him/her superior genes.

    [–]satanicpriest13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Do it. I know we don't discuss morals here, but it's not your responsibility. The woman is a whore and the man is a beta. It's not up to us to protect the sanctity of someone else's shitty marriage. I'd bang her and kick her to the curb every night so she can cuddle with her husband. Enjoy the decline.

    [–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    How is this even a question. Grow a fucking back bone.