Why are girls conservative in high school but go wild in college? (self.asktrp)

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[–]oytrp 263 points264 points  (9 children)

It's not rocket science.

No parental supervision + Good logistics for fucking

[–]DrizzlyShrimp36 42 points43 points  (3 children)

There's your answer

[–]systemshock869 16 points17 points  (2 children)

Answer confirmed

[–]Rollo_Mayhem3 5 points6 points  (1 child)

They were closely monitor by parents and other adults for 18 years, then bang...under only their own supervision mixed with massive alcohol consumption...Do the math.

[–]imtheoneimmortal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do the meth

[–]SpinPlates 40 points41 points  (1 child)

this^ but you're also forgetting easy access to higher value men. Women are always dating up. Freshman girls go wild for senior guys.

[–]Trp2166 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell you how many times I got cockblocked by upperclassmen last year lmao

[–]jasonborne886 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes and reputation means more in high school than college. I don't think op will be curing cancer anytime soon.

[–]Juxtapointer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unrestrained female nature, in other words

[–]jackandjill22 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Partially, some girls are wild in high school you just have no game. No Offense.

[–]Ill_Will7 161 points162 points  (8 children)

They go crazy in highschool too. You just didnt witness it as you were too "nice"

[–]MakoShark93 32 points33 points  (0 children)


[–]omega_dawg93 34 points35 points  (2 children)

this. girls protect their social status big time in high school. once they're in college, there's too much dick, too much competition, and too much partying to worry about protecting their reputation when all the other girls are going crazy.

the herd mentality... applied to slut behavior.

[–]Kriotus 3 points4 points  (1 child)

The large class size of college/university compared to high school creates a lot a anonymity for each individual. You are correct about the amount of people influencing their decision, but it is not because of the amount of dick/competition, it is because a crowd provides the individual with anonymity.

[–]omega_dawg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the college slut doesn't have anonymity. trust me, everyone knows who's giving it up easiest, esp. the athletes.

[–]HoldenCoughfield 9 points10 points  (1 child)

It’s not nearly the same... Maybe your high school

[–]TryhardPantiesON 23 points24 points  (0 children)

In my highschool there were some girls who were pretty slutty, but not as slutty as college girls.

[–]Dargalo04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao! Well said man

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah some go crazy and some are still conservative, but in college about 90% of them go crazy. In high school it’s kind of a 60/40 thing maybe 70/30 with sluts being the majority

[–]blister333 64 points65 points  (10 children)

A lot of people do, not just girls. All that newfound freedom/partying is a wild mix

[–]Synacku 1 point2 points  (9 children)

Uh yeah and it's hella fun! I'm 30 and life is pretty good now but holy shit do I miss the college days.

[–]CalmPassenger 4 points5 points  (8 children)

I'm in college now and I don't understand how anyone could possible have time for that. With 5 classes, and each class assigning at least a chapter of reading on top of other homework, there's about 80 or 100 hours a week of reading and working, from the time I go to class until I have 8 hours until the next class pretty much and I don't even have a job

[–]thesquarerootof1 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I'm in college now and I don't understand how anyone could possible have time for that.

What is your major ? I'm asking because I agree with you. I'm an engineering student and have 3 more semesters left until I graduate.

Here is the thing: if you have a studying a STEM degree, our lives suck in college. We really don't have much time for pussy. However, if you graduate, your life will improve drastically and then you can get all the pussy you want (granted that you follow TRP principles of course).

...or you can major in business or humanities, get a lot of pussy in college, but live with your parents after you graduate. Yes, I'm a little jelly of all those business students getting pussy, but I stand by my decision of picking a hard, but financially rewarding major.

[–]CalmPassenger 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yeah I’m in Comp sci

[–]Synacku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. Maybe it's efficiency of studying but I managed to get fucking shithoused every other day and attend multiple parties and drinking at pools/bars at one of the nation's biggest party schools, and still came away with Deans list and Presidents list achievements in an IT major where I'm now making six figures. It can happen.

[–]RP_Br3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on fields and ambition. I'm in business and economics and we have one course at a time at a pretty high pace. Due to only being 2-3 hours of lectures a day, you can easily get a B minimum by studying for 6 hours a day, with maybe 2-3 hours of work on weekends. You could probably pass the courses by just studying the week before finals or 4-5 hours a day if you don't go to the lectures. Some fields have it worse, but about half of the Swedish university fields do their course setup like this.
We also get student loans at a really good interest rate (0% aside from inflation), and those who don't work on the side get access to a welfare check to help with housing rent. So students don't work, outside of heavier engeneering or medicine fields have a ton of free time.

[–]Synacku -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dunno, I got Dean's list and President's list too a couple of times.

[–]Trp2166 -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

Lmao bruh how do you not have time

[–]CalmPassenger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would I, retard?

[–]Whoisaryan 47 points48 points  (0 children)

There are Thot particles in the air on college campuses

[–]jizzonmypants 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The same reason guys fuck more often in college, it’s not a really hard concept to grasp

[–]omega_dawg93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

all i know is that next lifetime, I'm going to Arizona State University.

I've heard too many crazy stories about that school... and the turbo hyper sexual atmosphere.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 33 points34 points  (4 children)

Most people's identity is determined externally not internally especially if their high in psycholigical trait agreeableness.

[–]Shaney96 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Calm down Jordan, calm down.

Nah but I get you.

[–]meowsero 14 points15 points  (2 children)

Ok there Jordan Peterson.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 26 points27 points  (1 child)

Jordan Peterson doesn't have a monopoly on personality archetypes. The idea exists in all ancient traditions, psycholigy just plagarized it.

[–]MeetCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What i would do for those jewish curls...

[–]genethedog 16 points17 points  (2 children)

They're only conservative until they lose their virginity. Once that's gone, most of them go "fuck it, who's gonna know". Lol self deceit. You will know sweetheart and it's written all over your face!

Women are always trying to find something some way to hold some sort of leverage. They perceive virginity until it's gone, most regret it but can't take it back. So then theres a rebellion. They go hog wild to spite it instead of going "ok, I made a mistake but I'm not gonna make it worst, I have to be more careful" because the ones that really put a high value on it feel used and empty and valueless after. That's because, to those girls, that was their only value. And they feel it was stolen in some way. Like they were raped or something. All so they don't have to be accountable for their choices.

It's a mess.

[–]thesquarerootof1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're only conservative until they lose their virginity.

This is so damn true. My first girlfriend when I was 17-18 was a virgin (and so was I). Once I took her virginity and we started having sex a lot, she started talking to other guys and eventually left me for another dude.

So yeah, I can't agree more than enough.

[–]anakun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The distance between the girl and her parents is equal and opposite to amount butt stuff she is willing to do.

[–]moreinhoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A big reason is the trp emphasised principle of logistics. When sneaking around in and out of home and curfews are no longer an issue, staying over is easier.

[–]joner888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys do it to . Unless youre trying to be really sucessfull with your studies

[–]throwitdownman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a door - once opened never closed. When you do something new, your brain becomes accustomed to it and you see it as a norm.

I remember making out to be ‘naughty’ but after I did it once, I see it as normal as washing my hands. Same for sex, same for one-night-stands, same for hooking up with girls with boyfriends.

It’s why I wholeheartedly believe in preselection, and screening for red flags. ‘Can’t turn a hoe into a housewife’. ‘Once you cheat, you repeat’.

[–]2johnnight 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Women have a prime fertility window of 18-25. In natural settings they would get horny, have sex, get pregnant and make the guy settle down and care for them.

We have fucked this up as society, because we put them on birth control, told them pregnancies destroy careers, but sex is OK and send them to college to get some debt (and no useful education).

Nature designed this to be a fertile accident without our consent. Nature did not design women to 'plan' to be mothers. It made them want to have sex and later have to live with the consequences. We used medicine to remove the consequences, but the primal drive is still there and it keeps on (unsuccessfully) trying to create the accident.

[–]bluejedi24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. But do you have any thoughts on what to do about it? Our society has evolved to create these things: education, careers, etc. We're not just savage wild animals. Our intelligence has allowed us to create these advances. But it doesn't align perfectly with nature and biology as you said. Should we devolve back into savagery, or not? Just interested to hear what you think.

[–]red_matrix 3 points4 points  (9 children)

College girls do the blowjob challenge lol

[–]imtheoneimmortal -1 points0 points  (8 children)

what is that?
there was a challenge at university in my country
girls let cum on face and then post on instagram LMFAO

[–]red_matrix 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Like 10 bjs in 10 days, 30 dicks in 30 days, etc

[–]imtheoneimmortal 0 points1 point  (3 children)

damn that's pretty hard
to get everyday a bj

[–]red_matrix 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Yeah I think the failure rate is like 1%

[–]imtheoneimmortal 0 points1 point  (1 child)

i mean, is hard for me to get everyday a bj, maybe for them is easy

[–]red_matrix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a girl to find a new guy who wants one? Yeah, I'd say that's easy on a college campus lol

[–]thesquarerootof1 1 point2 points  (2 children)

girls let cum on face and then post on instagram LMFAO

What country and/or university ? This is like one of the trashiest things I have read. Jesus....

[–]imtheoneimmortal 0 points1 point  (1 child)

in italy happened this

[–]dobbekz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

send me a link? Sounds interesting to look into

[–]Pluglord 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because the water at colleges are known to induce thot-like symptoms.

[–]RebornGhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you really talking about frat culture? That is very much American thing.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No parental control

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of it’s about community, true to tradcon beliefs. Hypergamy flourishes where there’s no judgement from a known, close knit community, which is likely what she left behind in high school.

[–]Yoshiiiiiiiiii10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College for most women and men is when you you’re going to find the highest concentration of quality partners. According to studies this is been confirmed. It’s slightly dependent on your college of choice but it’s still true for most. Consider most areas have a 40% or less population of college graduates. When you’re in college that’s a much higher number of soon to be graduates.

[–]mrpoopistan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the same reason women go wild when they go on solo vacations. A great deal of the pressure on women to not be sexual arises from a fear that their conduct will be tallied against them by people who closely know them. The fewer people there are who are likely to report back to someone they care about, the more likely they'll let rip.

[–]dutch602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read Rational Male, Volume 2.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children)

Because they’re still children in high school

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Incorrect, known hoes who were suckin dick in the stairs in 6th/7th grade. That was during the dial up era so imagine how it is now.

[–]menial_optimist 11 points12 points  (5 children)

My grade 6 "girlfriend" and I kissed almost every day. Then on the last day of school she summoned me to the bike racks to tell me something. When I got there she asked me if my dick was small. I said no. She said unless I did "more" with her we were broken up. I was anxious to get home and play n64 with my bros so I just left. She later turned into a hardcore party girl.

[–]1UnluckyPenguin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

play n64 with my bros

You could be playing kick the rock with your bros in the 1500's. You've got your priorities straight.

I finally understand why my friend chickened out on a hot blonde (6th grade). The only reason little boys hook up with little girls is so they can brag about it to their friends, otherwise they're complete fine hanging out with their guy friends and waiting til late highschool/early college for hookups.

[–]supersonic-turtle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of my 5th grade gf, she said "I love you" before we ended a phone call and I just said "thanks" she was a little hurt. I just wanted to play ultima online and she was in the way of my dial up. Anyway she had a kid in 7th grade so dodged a bullet?

[–]bluejedi24 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Good choice man. She's likely a failure now lol

[–]menial_optimist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah probably all used up.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm yes you were also in 6th. That changes everything because you were a child too. The fact you and your 6th grade girlfriend had sex plays no bearing on the fact that 6th graders are intellectually underdeveloped. An adult attempting to ’game' highschoolers shows paedophilic tendencies.

[–]nicyhasreddit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heard of parents and age of majority? That's how they work.