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99% of your problems posted here can be solved by reading the main sub and sidebar (self.asktrp)

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Seriously. No joke!

More than half the posts I see on here are dudes begging for help to get over their oneitits. Or questions that don't even need to be asked like, "Wahh, my girlfriend cheated, should I leave her? But wahhh, I love her, even though my cock isn't good enough!"

Or the other easily addressed questions about 'how to be more manly' or advice because whatever excuse you have is stopping you from lifting. Stop giving a fuck what people think, better yourself for you, get over anxiety with girls by, here's a kicker, actually talking to them. Get to the gym, no excuses. If you have a legitimate concern for lifting, ask your goddamn doctor. We probably don't have an answer for you.

Girl giving you shit? Next. Friends putting you down? Next. Girlfriend is a super special unicorn shaped snowflake? No, she isn't, next. Seriously. Come on guys. Read the sidebar. I can't take seeing this pathetic whiny shit being posted 100 times every day.


[–]jaynort 31 points32 points  (23 children)

"Girl giving you shit? Next. Friends putting you down? Next."

Great way to die alone. Learn how to handle the shit you will inevitably receive from girls, because no girl is shit-free. Learning to make light of jokes and put downs will also earn you friends.

A lot of the problems here can be solved by just reading, yes. But these two points are poor advice, because you can't just run away from every problem you ever have with another person in life.

Still upvoted because you're right, a lot of the stuff here gets stupid.

[–]IIlllIllIIIllIl 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Man, I needed to hear this. For all intents, I'm pretty MGTOW, but reading this showed me that I'm gonna have to strengthen that frame like it or not and put myself out there more. I normally have a pretty low "next" threshold.

[–]jaynort 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Happy to help, man. Nobody is perfect, even the important people in your life will give you shit, if I just pushed away everyone that caused problems in my life I would have no one in my life. No friends and no sex and no family. Life isn't a series of people to just push away when they cause some minor friction.

[–]IIlllIllIIIllIl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure. I'm not opposed to it, but I can tell it's the next avenue of growth I need to go through.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (17 children)

You always die alone. Don't be afraid of it. There's 9 billion people on earth. Anyone who isn't family is replaceable with someone better.

[–]jaynort 0 points1 point  (4 children)

In a literal sense, yeah, you're right. I think my phrasing didn't properly convey the message I was trying to relay.

What I meant is that if you "next" anyone that causes any sort of friction in your life in any way at all, then you essentially are running from every problem you ever have in life instead of handling it.

Yes, there's a lot of people in the world, but you will not interact with all of them. You won't even interact with a fraction of them in your lifetime. Nobody is perfect, and to expect that of people in your life is unrealistic.

Controversy is caused by people. If you next everyone who causes it, you're just running away from problems instead of handling or solving them.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Maybe I should rephrase it too. I didn't mean literally every time anyone gives you any small amount of shit. Obviously that's a daily occurrence. But if its shit that is consistently hindering you or making you unhappy, you get out.

[–]rp_phoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the context some people needed to read instead of pouncing on you. Upvote for you.

[–]chasethecake 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Add this to the main post to avoid confusion.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would if I cared that kids can't take what I said in context.

[–]cxlvj -3 points-2 points  (9 children)

You're a fucking moron lol

[–]lanky32 1 point2 points  (7 children)

You may not agree with what he said, but your post shows that you are the moron and not him.

You put him down, feel better about yourself, you badass alpha?

[–]Wilreadit 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Do you go around and call people moron, you pansy beta cuck?

[–][deleted]  (1 child)

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    [–]Wilreadit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Dude you are really this obsessed about cock. If you want to come out of the closet, I understand.

    [–]cxlvj 0 points1 point  (3 children)

    You're right, i am a moron and i should have contributed positively to the discussion instead of putting him down

    [–]AlphaBetaDeltaTheta 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    You are a cluster fuck of emotions.

    [–]cxlvj 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Don't be rude

    [–]AlphaBetaDeltaTheta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Hhahahaha are you for real? You literally just called someone a moron for sharing their opinion. Absolute clusterfuck. But at the same time, you did apologize. So fuck it I don't know.

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Thank you for your helpful contribution.

    [–]TheElite3740 -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

    9 billion? Last I heard it was 7.5 or close to

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Wasn't trying to be politically correct, it doesn't matter the exact number, it's not hard to get my point.

    [–]Sementeries -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    Agreed. OP has a scorched earth method to anybody causing the slightest annoyance in his life.

    [–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    Uh no, not really. In relation to the types of posts getting put on here, yes. "My friend banged my girlfriend, what do I do?"

    Or

    "My friend is a big beta and ruins all my chances of getting laid!"

    You guys are completely taking what I said out of context. I'm not telling you to disown your bestfriend since first grade because he ate your oreos last month.

    [–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 8 points9 points  (1 child)

    People on askTRP don't read the sidebar let alone Red Pill. Their impatient fucks that want answers right now and are incapable of helping themselves.

    [–]top-notch-alpha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Even when most of them read the sidebar, they still want to be spoon fed.

    [–]brooklynisburnin 4 points5 points  (2 children)

    BUT YOU DON'T GET IT OK, I'M A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE THE SIDEBAR DOESN'T APPLY TO ME BECAUSE I'M A 4'4, HALF INDIAN HALF ASIAN, HARDGAINER ECTOMORPH I EAT THE MICHAEL PHELPS DIET AND TAKE MY X-PLODE SUPER PRE WORKOUT BUT WOMEN STILL WON'T SUCK MY DICK PLS HALP.

    [–]lanky32 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    You know what brother, it takes time to internalize concepts. A lot of people can internalize concepts just by reading them, a lot of people do not. They need to discuss these concepts with others to internalize them completely.

    Think of a typical class. There are the bright students and there are the not so bright students. The not so bright ones need lots of repetition to understand a concept. A good teacher's job is to make sure that all his students understand the concept. He cannot lose patience with those who take more time to understand.

    Its pretty much the same here. There are more than 20000 subscribers here (correct me if I am wrong). You think all of them can just study the sidebar and understand? No, right?

    For the intermediate and advanced red-pillers there is always TheRedPill. You can hang out there instead.

    AskTRP is pretty much for everyone, including the newbies, who ask silly questions. Just let it be.

    [–]brooklynisburnin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    You think all of them can just study the sidebar and understand?

    No, I don't think I'm that much of an entitled asshole yet, I actually read the sidebar multiple times and lurked Asktrp for three months at least, and understood a quarter of things at most.

    But you can't deny two simple facts about Asktrp, one is that the grand majority of questions are in fact easily answered by the sidebar, problem is that the people asking those questions do not want to do what the sidebar says, be it because of oneitis or merely because they don't have the balls to take a decision and having 15+ replies saying "do it" changes the perspective from a making a decision to following orders, simple rationalization. And two, the #1 reason why these guys keep asking the same retarded questions is because they are keyboard jockeys, back when I swallowed the pill I went out every single weekend, thursdays included, for three months, and every single day of those weekends I would have like three epiphanies in a row.

    I mean, feel free to read my history of comments, when I see someone actually doing, putting themselves out there, I give them my best advice including my point of view and/or reasoning behind.

    The cancer of this sub is the same problem I once had, the mentality of "I have to be perfect in X before going out there", women talk, men do, and when you do you fail, when you fail you learn, and when you learn you improve.

    I have to tell you, merely a year ago this sub was something completely different, filled with people that had the same mentality as me, everything I read that made sense I did, cold showers, going out alone, being rejected on purpose, logistics only, fucking online dating guides, posture, meditation, you name it I've done it, that's how you learn to calibrate, not only in pick up, but everything.

    [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    You are right and you are wrong. This child-sub would not exist if the mods over at TRP thought it doesn't add anything of value. People misuse it, sure, but others create and exchange real value here.

    Fact is, just reading something doesn't always communicate the message. People on the side of ignorance often fail to understand and internalize concepts, sometimes because they are lazy, sometimes just because you have to see it for yourself.

    Taking field experience and bringing it here, asking questions, and being willing to act on feedback has helped me immensely in my journey. Most of the benefit I have received is in accepting my self during the climb, learning patience, discipline, and letting go of self-loathing thoughts and self-limiting beliefs. I don't know if I could have "forgiven" myself quite the same way, or as quickly, without the men here sharing their perspectives and helping me to understand that I am, finally, headed in the right direction.

    [–]lanky32 1 point2 points  (11 children)

    You are both right and wrong. Yes, lots of dudes who are asking for help can solve their problems by reading and implementing the sidebar. However, reaffirmation from others encourages them in making the difficult choice. Understand, it is a new path for them. These men are not used to dropping females who act shitty with them. Its a completely new idea for them - pretty much a paradigm shift.

    Giving them a little push in enabling them to make the right but difficult decision should not be a problem for us. For these people, its pretty much like being a part of Alcoholics Anonymous. The drunkard knows that he should quit drinking,he is very well aware of it. He still joins the community because it can push him in quitting drinking.

    And, anyway, if you do not want to see betas whining there is TheRedPill for you. AskTRP has been kept separate to encourage people to ask their questions, irrespective of how beta or repetitive those are.

    [–]Wilreadit 0 points1 point  (10 children)

    Ha ha a beta lecturing men about how to be alfa. I am fucked

    [–][deleted]  (9 children)

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      [–]Wilreadit 0 points1 point  (8 children)

      Ha ha, right. I love your skirt btw

      [–][deleted]  (7 children)

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        [–]Wilreadit 0 points1 point  (6 children)

        M'lady, you are clearly high. Now put your panties back on

        [–][deleted]  (5 children)

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          [–]Wilreadit 0 points1 point  (4 children)

          Babe you are so predictable and so pansy

          [–][deleted]  (3 children)

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            [–]Wilreadit 0 points1 point  (2 children)

            I hope you are not hurt baby. I didn't mean to.

            [–]SonsOfRome 1 point2 points  (2 children)

            A lot of what's posted here is literally the same question rephrased a thousand times over

            [–]marianasentmenudes 0 points1 point  (1 child)

            Yep. Mostly a bunch of oneitis based questions

            [–]SonsOfRome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            That, and "is this a shit test" scenarios

            [–]faggotbrains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            Any update to the sidebar should be announced!

            [–][deleted]  (1 child)

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            [–]corsega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            That's the thing that pisses me off the most. I swear it's an age thing. Back in my day, we searched for shit before posting

            /angry dad rant