Went on a date today. Realised that my date for tomorrow might be her sister. (self.asktrp)

submitted by kenpachitz

I met both of them at a speed dating event. I'm not sure if they know they both matched with me.

Been chatting with both. I saw one today. I'm scheduled to see her sister tomorrow.

How do I play this?

[–]X--Man 149 points150 points  (5 children)

Like a legendary boss would. =)

You have a once in a lifetime opportunity here. Don't let us down!

[–]kenpachitz[S] 82 points83 points  (3 children)

Don't let us down!

Oh man. I don't have the track record to promise anything but disappointment. 😂

[–]letsbiohackslaves 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Theres always a first time for everything

[–]SilkTouchm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do your best dude. You either succeed or you fail and learn. Win-win situation.

[–]deville05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is what we are hoping for. "I'm testing the whole family"

[–]2chazthundergut 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Damn right.

It doesn't matter if you get skunked out. So long as you put on your swaggiest DGAF smile and go down in a blaze of glory.

May the Iron gods favor you friend. Good luck.

[–]Popeman79 92 points93 points  (11 children)

I agree with the other comments. You can be a good guy and do the decent thing to do, or you can close your eyes and play your cards well, and you fuck them both.

Obviously it won't last but you'll be a legend.

[–]Hitlers_Hairy_Anus 37 points38 points  (10 children)

So what is the decent thing to do here?

I personally don't see any moral issues with dating the sisters. They are both obviously looking for something. And they were at the same speed dating event so there's a very high probability that they will run into the same dudes.

One could argue that making their decision for them by backing out of the date is immoral; it takes away their right to choose if they are ok with the situation.

[–]BasketCase559 7 points8 points  (7 children)

It's immoral in that these sisters almost certainly don't want to be dating the same guy. It's essentially lying by omission. However, this is an amoral sub so don't take this is a judgement. OP should do what he wants as long as he's willing to face the consequences.

It could be that the sisters are okay with it, but that would be a rare situation so it would be kinda silly to assume that's the case.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 6 points7 points  (6 children)

. It's essentially lying by omission.

Who cares? Girls do it all the time. He should do what's good for his dick. His confidence will thank him later.

[–]BasketCase559 4 points5 points  (5 children)

That's a weak argument. Like i said, I'm not condoning anything, i don't care what he does. But the guy i replied to said he didn't see what was immoral about it, so i explained it.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Morality is for slaves and was invented by those in power to keep those below them out of power. By bring "moral" you just weaken and enslave yourself.

[–]BasketCase559 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Disagree. We're social creatures. A sense of morality makes it so that we all play nice. Usually. That's why you feel guilty for doing things that are "bad." Unless you're a sociopath. There's a time and place for morality just as there's a time and place for immorality. Absolutes (such as "morality is weakness") are almost always bad.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Theres a difference between following concepts of "good" and "bad" (that did not exist until recently) and pragmatism. It is pragmatic to follow social rules unless by breaking them you can reach power. Those who are slaves to morality will not push the boundaries of the "moral". Those who merely follow the rules and bide their time do and are thus far more successful.

[–]BasketCase559 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I I think you may be misrepresenting or misunderstanding my position. I'm speaking of moralistic values that have existed for centuries. Even in ancient tribes people were respected for their integrity.

Surely there are things to be gained by breaking social rules, but doing so is not without risk. I'm not advocating for breaking them or for abiding by them, I'm simply saying that they exist for a reason and they are not arbitrary, and going against them has consequences so you need to be prepared to face those consequences if you decide to break them.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most rules that have existed for centuries ARE arbitrary and people never question them precisely because they have existed for centuries.

There are consequences for breaking rules, thats why you break them only if you can get power - if you win those rules cease to matter, if you lose you will be punished. As Julius Caesar said, If you must break the law, do it to seize power: in all other cases observe it.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They are both obviously looking for something.

A threesome!

Getting sisters to have incest with me is my dream.

[–]anonanonetc 41 points42 points  (2 children)

How did you “realize” this? Unrealize it and profit.

[–]kenpachitz[S] 21 points22 points  (1 child)

Today’s date had the other girl in her profile picture. I thought they were friends.

When we met up for coffee, she mentioned she came to the speed dating event with her sister, who was seated where the other girl was.

[–]blacwidonsfw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Act dumb let them figure it out and deal with it on their end. For your part keep hitting both of them up

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 28 points29 points  (1 child)


Double bonus points if they're twins!

[–]TurdFerguson812 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Twins, Basil!"

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 16 points17 points  (0 children)


You only need a frame of steel. This situation does NOT bother you. at. all.

If the second girl asks "you know I am girlA's sister right?", you calmly answer "I thought you might". If she asks "and how can you be ok seeing me now?", you answer "I see no problem". If she tries to shame you, you just smirk and swat those shit tests.

Pursue both without talking to one about the other. The situation may very well play at your advantage. They could very likely get competitive. Let it happen without forcing it. They might fight to be the first to get you, or to be your best fuck. If you fuck one great, the other might end up knowing about it and wanting to sample too.

Only after you've plated both, try to setup a threesome using Style's "dual induction massage" routine.

[–]Zanford 8 points9 points  (3 children)

Threesome is the only correct answer. We'll be expecting a legendary field report.

If confronted, act like it's the most natural thing in the world. Do not ever break character or let this frame slip.

If given a '...how would you like if I did this?' from a girl, reframe with a curious '...oh, huh, I didn't peg you for the type to want to date several guys at once. Why, are you?' In a casual, non butthurt voice while you absentmindedly glance at the nearest door/exit. She'll backtrack hard .

[–]Pluglord -4 points-3 points  (2 children)

Nah. That would be incest. Pretty fucked up to put yourself in the middle of that.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That would be awesome. Getting girls to have incest at your behest...that's true fucking power.

[–]powderhound100 3 points4 points  (3 children)

What was your experience with this speed dating? Can you tell me about it?

[–]kenpachitz[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Basically, the women have a seat. You have 5 minutes of conversation before a bell rings and you have to move to the next seat.

This goes on for about 90 minutes or so, until everybody’s made their way around once.

Everybody fills in a sheet with someone’s attendance number, name, whether you’re interested, and any comments you’d like to note down.

It’s a fun way to spend an evening. But I wouldn’t make it a bread and butter option as it can be a very mixed bag.


[–]powderhound100 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Very interesting, would definitely be a unique experience. Didn't know they still did those. I'm guessing it costs money, so probably a professional type of crowd?

[–]kenpachitz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, YMMV.

It’s a relatively new thing where I’m from and like the price of a decent lunch. Most of the women attending are under 30, middle class or higher, ranging from university students to employed professionals, and there for some cheap way to burn a couple hours or hopes of a BB.

[–]Peter_B_Long 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 ways I would play this.

  1. Depending on how well the date went today, I would either cancel or follow through with the date for tomorrow. If you think the date went well and there's a good chance you can plate this chick, then I would cancel tomorrow's date and just take it as a comfort test. If the date was so & so and you're not sure if the girl is DTF, then I would follow through and approach with the next choice.
  2. Go on the date with the 2nd sister and you pretend that you had no idea they were sisters. Yes you noticed they looked alike but you never saw that picture of them together or you thought they were friends.

By the way, I'm 99% sure the sisters both know that they're going out with you so don't assume that they don't.

[–]izual19 2 points3 points  (1 child)

God, imagine whispering into her ear, "you feel just like your sister" mid fuck session. Just epic.

[–]kenpachitz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see, giving me ideas like these is like showing a poor kid the rides at Disneyland.

Let's first hope I don't fuck up and lay at least one of them. Let's get that down. 😂

[–]zboo1h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, get down on some tricycle action.

[–]idle135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pics or it didn’t happen!

[–]yumyumgivemesome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Promise us right now that you will follow-up with a comprehensive FR.

[–]InscrutablePUA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please they probably know if they were at the same speed dating event.

[–]Zachar1a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Threesome, of course!

[–]er99099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

treat the situation as if they weren’t related at all, that way you don’t end up being timorous in your demeanour. and if either of them sees you with the other just act like it’s NO BIG DEAL, make light of it, A FUNNY COINCIDENCE.

[–]SuperCrazy07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I definitely want the follow up field report, it seems like they probably know.

It's not like you met one at a bar and the other at the dog park. They both met the same guys at the same speed dating event. Girls talk.

Keep us updated.

[–]johnnygun- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring it up, laugh it off then make it clear. No fucking around

[–]bosshawg502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play dumb and act like you didn't know one was the others sister. Chances are they've already talked about it and know what's up. I'm sure they'll be on their toes about you maybe trying to lay pipe on both of them and have some kind of contingency plan to bail if that's the case. Go out with girl #2 assuming she's gonna shit test you about her sister. Let them bounce off you. I doubt you'll score them both but they will talk and make a decision on who gets to continue. They'll say something along the lines of "it's not your fault you matched with us both and didn't know. But I think you'll be more interested in other sister" and your decision has been made for you at that point.

Or you could get that bucket list opportunity and they'll be down to get nasty all at once. Best of luck

[–]deville05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want this to be a hilarious disaster. Hide some gopros somewhere I want to see how it all goes down. Do it for the stories man

[–]Morphs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicks talk. It's very unlikely they haven't realised the situation themselves. But who cares. It's a speed date and you're supposed to walk away with as many numbers as you can.

Maybe they think it's fun, if they have a problem is their problem but you are someone who keeps things discrete, it's a good trait to have that women appreciate.

Keep us posted

[–]Nergaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, if you know how to play your cards, you can use this to build dread.

[–]1atticusfinch1973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One strategy I'd employ would be that you know they are going to talk about you after the date and compare notes. So be somewhat different on each date. Whatever you did with the first sister do something completely different with the other. It will create a bit of "wtf he wasn't like that with me" with both of them and likely both will either want to see you again or your personality will resonate more with one of them.

Regardless it's still an awesome funny story potential.

[–]Datanami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they go together to a speed dating event, wtf to they expect to happen ?

[–]clausternn 0 points1 point  (2 children)

How did this go? Any updates?

[–]kenpachitz[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Like I predicted, nothing came of it.

[–]clausternn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lame. Oh well, keep on truckin'