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What was the worst Blue Pill thing you did in your lifetime for a girl? (self.asktrp)

submitted by pawoukcz

I sent my ex girlfriend flowers and sushi after she broke up with me very harshly and after one week I cried in front of her door like a child and beging for a second chance.

Never again...

What was I thinking? :D


[–]Not_Me_Here 80 points81 points  (1 child)

How many DTF girls I met that I didn't fuck because I was too shy to escalate.

There was one in particular, an 8, who paid me shooters, like 3 times, not even the cheapest in the place... when she left, she was looking a bit mad and saying something like "I must not be drunk at all" to her friend. Still interesting experience for that one ahah

[–]Leyx1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My 10-degree (or something) cousin was staying at my home for christmas. She had a serious boyfriend and I don't know what I did but on the first night, while watching tv on the sofa, she laid near me and we ended up making out.

She was staying with us for the holidays along with her dad and sister, and so I was to sleep in the living room. Following night, similar thing but with me sucking her boobs. Third night, I was fingering her. Fourth night, on one of those floor beds, we kept escalating: pants off, underwear of.

I got to the point where I rubbed my dick against her pussy and when I was about to go in, she suddenly stop. I wasn't wearing a condom, and I think she said something about that (can't really remember now). She went suddenly quite, I stayed there for a while, and pants went back on... We laid in bed, fooled around a little more until she stood up and went back to her room.

Next day, I had a condom in hand, but nothing happened. We kept fooling around and jerking each other off for a month until she went back to her home and I never saw her again.

To this day, I'm not exactly sure wtf happened, what did I do to generate such level of attraction (I was BB as fuck back then), why did she let me do anything to her but fuck her, and whether I could have actually fucked her had I been more Chad. I honestly had absolutely no idea what was going on so I sort of went along for the ride, so to speak.

She went back home (in Europe) and never saw each other again. She got married and now has two daughters. Anyways, the memory will remain though :)

[–]akatsukirp 67 points68 points  (2 children)

Had a shot to have sex with a girl, was too inexperienced so didn't do it. Ended up giving her a massage and later that night she fucked a guy while I slept 2 doors down with my headphones on.

Oh the hard lessons. We all start somewhere, have to keep on improving.

[–]Squillimy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg nothing is worse than realizing you could've had sex with a girl and later she's hooking up with someone else basically right in front of you.

This happened a few times to me at high school parties lol.

[–]QPRCHOC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch.

[–]silver-gun 58 points59 points  (4 children)

I texted her for months without any response.

[–]baconophilus 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Dude. I did the same thing. I cringe to think I was that beta (omega?) at one point. I was so needy and desperate. I'm so glad that past version of me is gone.

Nowadays if a girl doesn't reply to a question I ask her, I don't say a damn thing and just next her.

[–]Velebit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nah omega are self-isolating, kinda like tesla was

[–]ronsoness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

holy fuck man. they must've been very desperate texts too. i feel bad for the random girls i met, attracted, but then spam texted when i was younger.

[–]Squillimy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CRINGE! been there done that!

[–]WhorehouseVet 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Kneeled in front of her door begging her to take me back. Good times.

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[–]_vend7u 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Why did she have sex with you? I'm so confused, why she she fuck you after such a beta move?

[–]Squillimy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude at least you got pity sex. 99.9% of the time the girl would've just 'consoled' you then laughed about it later with her female friends

[–]Borsao66 104 points105 points  (3 children)

Married her?

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Yup. Derp.

[–]Borsao66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah.... herp derp with a side of wtf was I thinking.

[–]TheGatesOfValhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit this one

[–]module_process 27 points28 points  (2 children)

When I found out my LTR of 8 years had cheated, I let her stay in my life. It ended of course...a few months later.

What followed that was a 9 year alcohol-fueled anger-phase. The LTR got her pound of flesh, and in return...I took ten. Not from her mind you, but every woman I met and was intimate with afterwards. A few of them were decent women that didn't deserve how I treated them.

In terms of years, I let the actions of one woman control the direction of almost half of my life.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

This is what I'm afraid of in myself.. I can feel the hatred and anger within myself, and I know some women are way better than others, even if they are all after mostly the same thing. How'd you deal with your issues??

[–]module_process 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no easy fix. You have to let the anger-phase run its course...but don't be afraid to ask someone for help if you need it. We have to take ownership of our failures.

[–]saucedup2 27 points28 points  (4 children)

In high school I had a girl who was an 8 who kept constantly asking her friends to ask about me if I thought she was cute I'd always say she has pretty eyes being a stupid beta. She got so annoyed she came and sat on my desk wearing tight yoga pants and said " hey "my name" can you walk me home after school today I get nervous walking home alone". I said "sorry I need to take the bus home it's my only way home".
I'll never forget that one

[–]ronsoness 4 points5 points  (1 child)

not so much "blue pill" as it is clueless dude who can't take a hint. been there too, and i could write a elegy for all the missed opportunities in my early adulthood and college. girls were so hot and had so few expectations...

[–]Squillimy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea this ones a pretty damn heavy hint though lol. Twerpy me in early high school wouldn't have even missed it.

It hurts when I look back and think of all the subtle hints I used to miss. God...

[–]Zachar1a 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This one is the saddest one.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus christ...

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (2 children)

Let this women ride shotgun with me 1200km drive to Vancouver, we stayed in a nice hotel downtown and she ended up banging some tatted up drug dealer (most likely from what I found on her phone, cringe I know) in our hotel room while I was out visiting my aunty who was fighting cancer at the hospital. I paid for everything on that trip.

I mainly orbited but did get some ass from time to time on and off for 3 years. Total BPD succubus.

[–]IvankasBabyDaddy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mainly orbited but did get some ass from time to time on and off for 3 years.

Literally what brought me here. When she [oneitis] still wouldn't date me after 3 years, the frustration and confusion had me second guessing everything I did and killed my confidence. I got desperate and needy, culminating in me showing up at her house unannounced after she stopped texting me one night (cringe.)

[–]Questionnaire7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ass from the 1200km girl or from others on the side?

[–]Heinzdoofens 20 points21 points  (6 children)

I re learnt all my drawing skills and Drew her Portrait. When she sensed I liked her, she gave a hint of her having a boyfriend. At this I freaked out and wrote a 30 page love letter. At which she cried and asked if we could be friends. I accepted

[–]your-pal-mal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good lord dude.

[–]lanky32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ha ha ha ha

You have won this thread. Your tale brother is the faggest of fags.

But we all live and learn!

[–]EdvardMunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of this is just learned behavior one uses as a vehicle to express feels. Musicians do it all the time, even famous sex gods.

The problem was in trying to win her over with these things, not the things themselves. It shouts massive shortcomings or detachment from reality which scares people, not necessarily that you like her so much.

If you've seen a girl for 8 months and she digs you and is angry about you being gone or fucking up, a portrait or love letter is a great conduit. 30 pages though for that sounds like shit writing.

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    [–]Heinzdoofens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Our life story from the moment I met her to the end. XD They all like romantic novels. But when we try to be romantic in reality, we screw up. Just like Porn vs Reality XD They all want a nice gentleman. When we act so, they freak out. I think creepy vs nice depends on our attractiveness XD

    [–]Squillimy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    GOD THIS!

    I'm an artist and girls would always ask me to draw them stuff in high school. Funny how not a single girl I drew something for ended up having sex with me. Lmao

    No big deal though. I still got laid a lot senior year of high school

    [–]IAmDirtyBands 38 points39 points  (8 children)

    Orbited for years. Hugs were my only intimacy.

    [–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (6 children)

    Offt that physically hurt to think about

    [–]IAmDirtyBands 7 points8 points  (5 children)

    Could be worse.

    I could've had no hugs.

    [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (4 children)

    Idk man. Point is you've joined the red pill movement!

    [–]IAmDirtyBands 2 points3 points  (3 children)

    Oh for sure. I've been here lurking and commenting for about 5 years now. Humble beginnings. My life is infinitely better since finding this place.

    [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

    5 years damn! I just found this sub like 3 weeks ago, haven't begun approaching but I'm waking up and embracing my masculine energy/aggression and harnessing it instead of letting it be oppressed by women in society. I used to rag on this place calling it a place for neckbeards but it's not at all. This subs changed/changing my life.

    [–]IAmDirtyBands 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    I found this place on an off comment that had -3 points at the bottom of some comment thread. Well before Reddit had a conniption about this place. It had like 8.7k people. It was phenomenal then too.

    If there's any advice I would give, it's to Take your time with stuff here. Do one thing at a time. Too many changes too quickly is a sure fire way to fail. I started with lifting, so that's my recommendation.

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Definitely agree with you which is why I'm not going straight into approaching. I'm getting the mindset right ect. But I've set the goal that in a month I'll start approaching when I'm on way way to doing shit.

    Have been lifting for 2 years and worked as a personal trainer so I've got that base sorted thankfully!

    [–]JohnnyDildonics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    damn at least I got a strip tease and played with her nipples...

    [–]Luis_McLovin 53 points54 points  (5 children)

    This thread is disgustingly depressing.

    [–]SinisterIntentions24 26 points27 points  (3 children)

    At least it makes us realize that some of us are not alone in some of our previous cringeworthy actions.

    [–]Luis_McLovin 1 point2 points  (2 children)

    No offense, for others we read this and all we think is "At least I was never like that" and/or "Damn, these guys were far worse".

    I don't commiserate on down points.

    [–]SinisterIntentions24 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Whenever someone starts with 'No offense', you can almost guarantee that it will be slightly offensive. If you think you are so high and mighty, why are you even on this sub? I just don't get the point of your response. The only reason you would respond about how you were better than others on this sub would be due to a insecurity. So to me, all I see is someone trying to jerk off or nurse their ego. I just don't get it.

    [–]Luis_McLovin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Offense is taken, not given.

    I did not write with the intention to offend, it is sad that you have chosen take offense here however.

    I hope you're able to work through what you're going through now.

    [–]Sinth42 15 points16 points  (13 children)

    I've never been bad looking, but my beta behaviour would turn off even a nympho. What I did was that I baked a brownies for her, and my mother supported me in it. Funny how women support BP behaviour while they themselves do not like it. So I brought it to school and gave it to her, she said thanks and a few days later I hear about her dating a high school Chad. Now that I found TRP I realize I can't blame her for dating Chad. My SMV simply wasn't high enough.

    [–]randarrow 8 points9 points  (8 children)

    It's still amazing to me how nice behavior turns people off, and even terrifies some. I've seem women terrified and pissed off at me for being nice to them. I get it now, I understand to a degree, but it's still astounding.

    For the same reason, it's funny to me to see people here parroting the book how to win friends and influence people, it's basically How to be a Blue Pill.

    And when I suggest here people try to match mood and behavior, rather than just be nice, people get pissed.

    You know you are getting old, when you are suspicious of nice people.

    [–]Velebit 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    because expressing sexual desire through general altruism seems insincere, think about it this way, if you are running a business and want to trade with someone you don't send that person a coupon for free massage or trip to some place or send him beer or something like that... you present your intention and case for profits, in real life you approach and express smv.

    if you NEED to do weird stuff not asked or expected of you to make a partner that means you are a shit partner that needs to compensate with doing that

    [–]Fryguy48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Plus, as the person receiving the gifts from the company trying to get me to buy, one could lead them on and continue to get more gifts.

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Here's the mental exercise that will explain it. Imagine a fat chick giving you things and being nice trying to get laid. Isn't that cringey? Isn't that worse than her being straightforward? Kind of makes you feel embarrassed?

    [–]randarrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Yall keep thinking of this only in a sexual manner.

    Imagine walking through a mall and salesman keep trying to get your attention by being friendly. They are annoying for many reasons. They distract you from your goal, they interrupt your thought process, they delay you, they often turn out to not be nice, it feels bad to tell them no thanks, they don't watch if you are in a conversation they just interrupt, they often physically get in your way, they are often under stress making them instinctually worrisome....

    I said I get it and I do. It's still amazing though. What kind of world would this have worked in?

    [–]TRP_Minor 0 points1 point  (3 children)

    it's funny to me to see people here parroting the book how to win friends and influence people, it's basically How to be a Blue Pill

    Holy shit, I thought I was the only one! Can someone please explain why this book is recommended when it seems so contradictory?

    [–]Casanova-Quinn 8 points9 points  (2 children)

    It's not exactly contradicting, it's just that it shouldn't be used for dating. The book is more applicable for making friends and interacting in the business world.

    [–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Correct answer. After all it's even in the title ("how to make friends..") and TRP is pretty clear about the fact you don't get a girl by being her friend.

    Friendship is an equal relationship: scratch my back and I'll scratch yours.

    Opposite sex attraction is an inherently imbalanced matter: men are attracted to the submissive and women are attracted to the dominant.

    But then the book is great to help create and sustain social circles, and better, increase your social rank in them.

    [–]TRP_Minor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Interesting, never thought of it that way, thank you.

    [–]Not_Me_Here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Damn, that just reminded me that I did something so blue pill huh...

    I was making tye-dye shirts at that time and some friends would buy. I sold one to that girl I had a crush, so I made it and made one for myself that was related to her band with a stupid catchy phrase I made, and wore it while I went to her school to sell it to her. So terrible, but at least I knew it was a stupid move afterward.

    [–]drlothariothuggut 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    Omg, I actually dated a girl once who told me about a guy that made her brownies, she thought it was feminine, and turned her off. You're not from Los Angeles, are you??

    [–]Sinth42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    No dude I'm from Europe.

    [–]smirk_addict 16 points17 points  (7 children)

    I have this little chest filled with tales of blue pill wonder and faggotry. This one comes to mind..

    About 14 years ago, I took this girl to a college ball. We'll call her A. A and I had talked for months on AOL instant messenger and even had a few phone conversations. A was a tall and fit pre med major. I thought the ball was my chance to make a move. I bought her a necklace and wrote her a letter. After the ball my plan was to take a drive somewhere we could talk and I give them to her. Cringey...yes.. I washed my car. I had a really nice suit that even got my mom to tailor. Shoes shined. I get to this ball and everyone is complimenting me. People were just coming up to me and telling me how great I look. I thought I was the shit. Well, A shows up and she's immediately standoffish and complaining about being tired. It didn't take me long to realize that she agreed to the date out of pity and now she was filled with regret and annoyance with existence. What did I do? You guessed it. I spent the entire night trying to win her over. Here are some of the highlights:

    -We were sitting on a couch. She sat down but kept her distance. This annoying guy I knew sat down by us. He kept trying to bother me and I let the anxiety and humiliation of my amazing date get to me. I just yelled at the guy to shut up. A's response? "Aww...are you going to cry now?"

    -We were in our school auditorium and getting ready to watch a performance. 100s of people gathering in and sitting down all around us. A just says to me very loudly "Seeing you alone would make me really uncomfortable." I just go "Oh ok". That shit was probably better than anything we were supposed to see that night.

    -We walked to my car and I gave her the letter and necklace anyway. She did that awkward laugh thing, rolled her eyes, side hug and walked away very quickly.

    TL:DR, Eiffel 65 made a song about me.

    EPILOGUE I called her a few days later and discussed my feelings. I asked her about her horrible treatment of me. She said she had to study and hung up the phone in my face.

    [–]kruxofthemimed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    She did that awkward laugh thing, rolled her eyes, side hug and walked away very quickly.

    fuck

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    EPILOGUE

    I called her a few days later and discussed my feelings. I asked her about her horrible treatment of me. She said she had to study and hung up the phone in my face

    oh wow holy shit. I felt bad reading that

    [–]Squillimy 1 point2 points  (4 children)

    Wow... That isn't even all your fault for being Blue Pilled. She was just a fucking bitch lol. At least most of the women I've been like that to were nice to me!

    [–]smirk_addict 0 points1 point  (3 children)

    She was a type A entitled brat. I had no blue print for dealing with women like that. Even know, it's just not worth trying to have sex with those types unless your value is so high that they are chasing you. But I guess that's the best strategy for women in general.

    [–]JohnnyDildonics 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    yeah... usually the hotter they are, the shittier the attitudes, the higher the entitlement. Feminist cancer might spread to the hotter girls if they're either naturally sociopaths or got played by too many chadly guys (good job, brodies) in their youth...

    [–]smirk_addict 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    I think society grooms attractive women to become naturally sociopathic. They don't have to take responsibility for their actions, but at the same time they are constantly put on a pedestal.

    My friend used to be a cop. He said there was one case about this high school couple. The girl was hot and was just overall a little shit. Apparently she dumped her boyfriend...just cause... He went completely nuclear beta and begged her to get back with him. She started tormenting the dude for attention until one day she came home to him hanging in her back yard. He told me the dude had been there awhile, because his body was stiff. He said the girl told the cops to hurry up and get his body out of her yard. She just seemed more annoyed than anything apparently...

    [–]JohnnyDildonics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    encouraging suicide verbally or otherwise is a crime, but only if you're not hot I guess...

    [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    I picked up a birthday cake for her "friend". Her friend was a dude, and she was fucking him apparently. I was dumb and it makes me cringe. oh well live and learn I guess, here I am

    [–]Pyrocyde 12 points13 points  (1 child)

    Caught her cheating on me via Facebook messages and forgave her.

    [–]Mr-Ed209 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    Spent 2 nights at a girls place (separate bedrooms) after having texted each other for over a month. Went out for dinner then back to hers, she showed me my bedroom and lingered awkwardly at the door - didn't make a move. Went on a hike the next day and had a picnic together - didn't make a move. Final night watched netflix on the couch together, she went out to her room and came back smelling all nice - didn't make a move.

    Thought I was doing the decent thing by 'taking it slow' blah blah.

    She drove me back to catch the bus back home. Tried to chat with her 'i had a great time we should do this again' Got absolutely shut down - 'oh yeah, i don't have any time off for 3 months'

    Texted her a few days later, saying yeah i like you if you didn't know etc. She said she felt the same but had no time off blah blah. Drunk text her that I was coming to visit about a week later - got hit with the seeing someone else.

    Oh thank fuck for TRP for making me see the absolute incompetence of my ways with women.

    [–]Andrew54321 9 points10 points  (1 child)

    I got cucked

    [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    What takes the cake.

    I took a girl I went out with 3 times home and didn't escalate I even sat far from her. she was gorgeous, very compatible, very career driven and very smart. I was thinking that she's marriage material then she's worth respecting.

    But the truth is, its a gentleman's job to try and fuck a woman

    [–]SinisterIntentions24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Jesus, before I found you all I was a beta blue pilled cuck. Ex started increasingly scaling up shit tests as i continually failed them by folding and trying harder and harder to appease her. I remember one night I was having a full blown panic attack because she wanted a 'night out with her girls and a couple of her guy friends' which one she had been flirting with openly around me. Damn if I could go back and punch myself in the face then. I had my own rationalization hamster saying 'it's ok, she needs to have some freedom' and 'it's totally normal to openly flirt with guys in from of me'. On the inside I knew it was wrong but I kept going until she found out that she wanted to be able to experiment around. When she left I had a complete existential crisis, what had I done wrong? I bent over backwards for her? I ran up my credit cards for her. I drove her wherever she wanted. She was my world and holy cow that is the worst thing a guy can do. You guys got me out of that and that ex actually tried to get back in touch and rebuild things. No ma'am, she is now a blocked number and I'll be damned if I ever get in a LTR.

    [–]GreenPiller 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    I spent 1000 dollars on in a girl who friendzoned me. And I still didn't get pussy lol.

    [–]smoovel 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    Got back together after she broke up with me to break up again after few weeks. The worst part I had to listen to a lame speech why we should not be together. I don't even know why I still have her in my facebook friendslist..

    [–]Mr_Talent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    I don't even know why I still have her in my facebook friendslist..

    Dude... you know what you have to do. Wtf?

    [–]Velebit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    met a girl 10/10 in a bus that was 5 hours trip, she looked into me for 3 secs... that seemed odd, I got very bored during the trip and since I was sitting near her in a mostly empty bus in night so most were sleeping or listening to headphoens, I commented on something she was doing and got into a conversation with her, sat next to her and we talked for hours, she said that I looked familiar as an excuse for looking into me, I bought into that enough to not figure out that her IOI and adding me on facebook ._.

    never went out with her

    two decent girls I knew groped me in the unisex bathroom in my school, I froze and it became awkward for them so they stopped, I ran away

    a girl touched my abs while passing by on a party and I just stared at her without reacting

    a girl used a pickup line on me and I was in a conversation with a male friend I told her to "fuck off" and later turned back and realized she looked good, she told me to f my mother. I was meaner to her than any woman was ever to me xD nobody rejected me as grossly and publicly like I rejected her, she was basically with her whole crew.

    a random girl saw me on street and told me she loved me and I just completely ignored her because I was not ready for that interaction

    an unknown number sent me a request to meet with her in one of my classes in school afterwards and I got scared and did not accept xD

    shit like this... generally if a woman takes the initiative it totally takes me by surprise... I am used to being the aggressive one and if a woman is aggressive and overdoes it I act like a 13 y old creeped out little girl that is getting molested by an old biker.

    I also made a graffiti on a wall in front of a girls high school because I wanted to say sorry about something and wanted her to communicate with me, she wrote "I don't like it" xD however it was still usefull because it was actually nice and other girls were like aww who did this hahaha looking back at this it seems that we have a natural inclination towards the chivalrous stereotype, however the point about white knights that we are missing is that, that only works for guys with obvious high smv because if he is a white knight that it's "romantic" if a regular joe is a white knight or an unprepared for female attention kinda guy he is not "too cool to notice" he is "clueless". the point is to NEVER make these lonely used up whores pregnant when they hit 30 and afterwards, those cancerous cock carousel riding genes have to die out. If that means 99% of these shitty human beings die childless, niiiice.

    [–]Pelikahn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    She had hickeys in her inner thighs from some other dude and I still fucked her.

    [–]redarkane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    Forgave her for making out with the guy that was "just a friend." Cried in front of her when she wanted to breakup. Called her 20 times a day when she was ignoring my calls...Just treating her like a unicorn...like she was God's gift to mankind.

    Never again.

    [–]mdcrubengonza 2 points3 points  (4 children)

    Married one after she begged.

    [–]menial_optimist 1 point2 points  (3 children)

    How did she beg? I feel like this happened to my friend. He married an ex-super whore who found jesus at 24, re-saved herself for marriage and 1.5-2 years into dating my friend suddenly announced he was going to marry her. When I asked him why he had to get married his exact words were "cuz she wants it, and I don't care that much". No doubt she started dropping the hints getting her hooks in.

    [–]mdcrubengonza 1 point2 points  (2 children)

    Firstly, for some background, this was my first real girl friend. I had a one night stand prior to her and a short 2 month fling with a girl from high school.

    So, 5.5 months into dating I wanted to move in together with this girl. The costs of moving in suddenly became unbearable to her (they really were not), so the next option was me moving in with girl and her mom. I was okay with that. That then switched to a requirement for marriage. I felt uneasy about it, but having been brought up with a strict, over-bearing mother I didn't present much of a fight, since I wanted to get out of my mothers house. One day, however, after much thinking, I called her out of the blue to cancel the marriage. She started to cry, threatening that our relationship would end. I panicked and said "alright."

    I don't regret it, but in hindsight was the most blue-pulled thing I have done.

    [–]menial_optimist 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    u saved yourself

    [–]mdcrubengonza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Yeah, I guess so. 10 years later I'm back with mom and developed the confidence to get her off my back. Life repeats the lessons you fail to learn.

    [–]StraightGlueWater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Wow boys. There's some impressive feats of blue pill up in here.

    I'll share my own, cause fuck it- these are the lessons we learn becoming men.

    1. I once drove a girl 90 minutes to the school she went to, and when I tried to kiss her on her doorstep, she shut me down. My reaction was to freak out, yell "FUCK", give her an awkward hug and then leave. Then call her on the way home, cause I was too cowardly to confront her right there.

    2. Most of the times I got drunk when I was 19, 20, I would call all of the girls I had interest in and leave them drunk voicemails. I would tell many of them how much I liked them and wanted to spend time with them, etc. Not a single one panned out.

    3. Took a smoking hot girl to my senior prom, had a super fun night, had some alpha behavior sneak out of me (thanks alcohol), have her pull me aside privately after another dude made a pass at her and she told me she was mine that night, then when I dropped her off, made out for a minute. The next couple days I texted and called and got all creepy; took her to a movie, paid, couldn't muster the courage to put my arm around her, let alone put on the moves. Texted her after she left like "I like you, please be with me " and she told me I was a good friend.

    4. Reconnecting with said smoker from above, and took her to a company formal event involving an open bar and me in uniform. We got drunk, danced, had a ton of fun, and I was still too nervous and lacking in confidence to make a move. I have photos from that night, and dudes still ask me about her from that night. She wore a short dress with a low cut chest showing off her ridiculous tits. Really wish I could go back in time and make that boat sail cause god damn was she sexy.

    [–]theycallmedumdum 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Texted her a 790 word essay asking what I did wrong why she was ghosting me begging to just be friends etc. And then hounding her for a reply.

    [–]Freiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I've been that dude. It's pathetic, but what kind of piece of shit won't respond to someone who seems that hurt? I've been on the receiving end as well, but at least I gave them some closure.

    [–]Toussant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Not bad, op, I have sent flowers before even getting any, and of course it didn't help.

    [–]NeoGenesisRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Damn. My last LTR made me so bluepillish. I had her over when she wanted to break up and I kept crying about how I wanted us to have a future together and told her how I was looking for a home for the two of us. She probably felt bad cause she said we could try it as I said she can actually have another guy while I see other Girls.... Good times.

    [–]absolucion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Wrote a long email begging for her to get back with me.

    She (rightly) said no.

    [–]Huskimbo9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I was competing against my brother for some bum bitch back in highschool. I was selling candy at the time and went out of my way to give her one for free.

    Jesus Christ.

    Brother got the girl........

    She'd constantly call the house cuz she was clingy so there's that.

    [–]Trilldungsroman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Bought a bouquet for a girl in a relationship I was crushing on. I disgust myself thinking about it

    [–]lilbro1984 1 point2 points  (3 children)

    Recorded albums for her, not one, but three. First two were me recording myself over other people's instrumentals. Third was my own original compositions.

    [–]lanky32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    wow!

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      [–]lilbro1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I used to write poetry when I was in high school.

      [–]crrouse3 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      I moved across the country twice to be with a woman

      [–]lanky32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      nice! Hope you learned you lesson

      [–]night-addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      High school. Spam called gfs phone begging her to talk. Also took that girl back after she slapped me in the gob.

      [–]hamstercide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      With my first gf I bought cigarettes for her and drove her ass around all the time with my family's car, also I paid off her $10 debt with some guy after she moved to a different country. It's okay though, I learned from the experience and I fucked every girl I could after we went "long distance".

      [–]vorverk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Took her to a hotel, payed for everything, gave her a massage, but didn't want to ruin our friendship, so I just talked to her for 3 more hours, then went to sleep and home next day.

      Fuck... I could fuck a ton of chicks with todays mindset... what the fuck was I thinking...

      [–]Polishrifle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Cried in front of this girl I wanted to be in a relationship with because she wouldn't "make it east for me."

      No way in hell could that ever happen to me today. It's laughable to even think about.

      [–]its_meKnightSwolaire[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      "Can I kiss you?"

      Me at 21.

      Now it's...

      "I'm going to fuck you now."

      [–]SovereignSoul76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      1) 24 years old - Asked a girl if I could kiss her. Could hear her pussy dry up from 4 feet away. Learned that lesson pretty fucking quickly.

      2) 17 years old - Was told by an ex-gf that she was staying in a certain night (while dating). Went to the club with my buddy, and saw her in a car with her friends, parking right near us. I ducked and HID in his car, because I didn't know what to do. My buddy was like "Dude, YOU aren't the one who lied to HER!!" Just ducking confrontation because I loved her and was a big puss-puss.

      3) 18-19 years old - Had 2 hot girls from HS come visit me, and sleep in my bed in college, and missed a prime opportunity for a 3some. They were reaching for my dick saying "let us see it!!!" and I didn't want to take my underwear off because I was drunk and my dick wasn't hard yet...I didn't want them to see my penis whilst flaccid <<shame>>.

      [–]Dronitto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I changed my life, changed the city, my job, my uni... It was good for a year or two, actually great. Then it went to shit, i started having troubles with my studies, in my job, it was hard to find time for everything, i was great at cooking so i cooked almost everything Sex was always great, it didnt help Of course when i was having troubles, i was feeling shit, she was getting distant, it made me more stressed and so on It was a painful end, i was getting angry, a lot. Now i see everything was my fault(lets skip the part when i change my job and city for her.. lol), everything was fixable other than this blue pill shit Fixable, but worth it? Probably not

      [–]50339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Holy... when I was in high school I asked a girl to prom and got rejected because she was getting into a relationship and it was really embarrassing because I did it right in the hall in front of everyone. Honestly high school all around my game was a 4/10 at best so I got oneitis a few times and lost the chance to bang any girls from my school...

      [–]TheRedStoic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      I have an ex fiance.

      Didn't go through with it, but that's by far the worst. Thank God.

      [–]Naebany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      There's probably something worse I did but this one I remember clearly. I got up early on free day even though I hate waking up in the morning (like 7 am) to take this girl's cat to the park for an hour. She was hiding it from the landlord that didnt allow pets in apartment. I was fucking clueless, virgin etc. I was wondering why didn't she like me. I didnt even make a move on her. I slept over at her place after movies etc. But nothing ever happened. It's funny to know how clueless I was compared to now when last 2 weeks i had 3 girls lol.

      [–]mrobvioustr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Didn't fuck a girl in first date because it would be an insult for her. Like, you know, I wanted to Show her that I wasn't dating her just because of sex. I was naive back then.

      [–]beefstew32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Threw a temper tantrum in front of ex because of break up. Begged for her back multiple times. she turned me beta. I don't know what happened honestly. I dealt with things so much more mature when we first started dating.