Upgraded a plate a few months ago, known her for a little more than a year. Always great behavior, submissive, sexy and nice.
About three weeks ago some shit went down at my work, and I ended up basically losing the job but keeping the salary for a little while. No biggie, I'm back on track and on my mission and have accepted a new job. But that's when she started acting weird, started being unavailable, started starting fights and becoming suddenly moody. That's when the sex dried up - all the signs were there. My gut was screaming at me to ghost her, to cut her off, that she was shady and sketchy and I shouldn't trust her. But hey I guess oneitis and good head can sway a man. But the head was drying up, and the gut was getting louder.
We had our first ever "fuck you" fight a week ago, and I went no-contact. I still wanted to see the bitch until I leave for my new job out of state, and invited her to talk last night. I told her what was up, that my time was limited and I was moving in a few months, but that I wanted us to hang out and be cool again in the mean time. She cried a little when I told her I was leaving, but agreed that we should keep it going and be nice to each other in the mean time. That's when she told me she had to leave, she couldn't stay. She's ALWAYS stayed in the last few months. I personally didn't mind but the way she put it, it came completely unnaturally out of her mouth. It pricked my ears up. She went to use the bathroom before she left and I noticed her phone on the table. I knew her combination because she's opened it in front of me to show me shit on numerous occasions. Instinctively, I picked the phone up and opened up the FB messenger.
The very first thread was her exchanging dirty filthy things with some guy just like she used to do more often with me. I didn't bother looking at the other threads, there were a lot more. In the 30 seconds it took her to get back from the bathroom I had bagged up the few things she left at my apartment and tossed it at her feet. I told her I never want to see her again. She was shocked, couldn't look me in the eye, probably put 2 and 2 together. I opened the door and shoved her out.
I gave her the opportunity to just leave. I told her I'm leaving the state, I'll be gone soon, and we can just stop seeing each other now. And she looked me in the eye with those big beautiful blue eyes and said "of course I want to see you, I care about you, I want to hang out with you" etc. She could've just walked away and fucked whoever however whenever, but she didn't.
I've blocked her in every way I know how, and am currently trying to waste as little of my Saturday as possible posting on Reddit about some dumb slut.
Has anyone else done something similar? I wanted the truth, and I got it, but it definitely tastes like shit.